hi lisa im in the same situation right now, i hope your doing good now and your safe. i really want to leave but im sooo scared about everything. what the refuge is like, how i will cope so far away from the area i know im scared of the unknown. and i dont know what to do, ive got no money no friends or family im on my own 😭 i just need some advice please
Hi Kai, I am so sorry I did see your reply until now. I am hoping that you are in a bit of a better place now ? It all seems so scary doesn't it, but think of your future if you stay - that is even scarier. Living in a refuge is not easy but it can be a great support, when you need it most. You cope in the same way you have coped / are coping with staying in an abusive relationship - with strength, resilience and courage. You already have what it takes to be able to turn something so uncertain into a situation where you are free to rebuild yourself. I am so sorry you are on your own. If you are in the UK do reach out to WomensAid or Refuge or a local domestic abuse charity for advice. Feel free to join my private Facebook group facebook.com/groups/plnogoingback which is a more private place to chat. Stay safe and stay strong, you were never meant to feel so rubbish and you do not have to stay that way forever x
Thank you. Yes I did think about it but both my son and I want to be as public as we can about it. I am lucky enough to feel totally safe and protected in the place I am now x
Your an amazing woman Lisa. So inspirational and you’ve done you and your son proud xx
Thank you ! I have so much more I want to do to help others get out, stay out and live the life they deserve !
Much
Love x God loves u xxx by the way are u allowed to keep friends from where u escaped.?
Hi, yes I'm still friends with a few people although some move away obviously. We'll always share a bond x
hi lisa im in the same situation right now, i hope your doing good now and your safe. i really want to leave but im sooo scared about everything. what the refuge is like, how i will cope so far away from the area i know im scared of the unknown. and i dont know what to do, ive got no money no friends or family im on my own 😭 i just need some advice please
Hi Kai, I am so sorry I did see your reply until now. I am hoping that you are in a bit of a better place now ? It all seems so scary doesn't it, but think of your future if you stay - that is even scarier. Living in a refuge is not easy but it can be a great support, when you need it most. You cope in the same way you have coped / are coping with staying in an abusive relationship - with strength, resilience and courage. You already have what it takes to be able to turn something so uncertain into a situation where you are free to rebuild yourself. I am so sorry you are on your own. If you are in the UK do reach out to WomensAid or Refuge or a local domestic abuse charity for advice. Feel free to join my private Facebook group facebook.com/groups/plnogoingback which is a more private place to chat. Stay safe and stay strong, you were never meant to feel so rubbish and you do not have to stay that way forever x
Prob best if u change your name on your channel just in case hun 4 safety
Thank you. Yes I did think about it but both my son and I want to be as public as we can about it. I am lucky enough to feel totally safe and protected in the place I am now x