POV: Does Wanting Kids Make or Break a Relationship?

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  • Опубликовано: 15 дек 2024

Комментарии • 130

  • @ckungson
    @ckungson 16 дней назад +65

    What I like about this podcast is that even though they have different beliefs and principles, they can still talk respectfully and listen to each other's opinions, even if they don't agree - with respect. Their topics are challenging and not mainstream, but they discuss them with an open mind. Kudos, POV!

  • @m_i_l_e_s_
    @m_i_l_e_s_ 15 дней назад +54

    this podcast deserve to be on spotify

    • @shellaaaafajardo1793
      @shellaaaafajardo1793 14 дней назад

      Agree on this 💯

    • @muentertainmentph
      @muentertainmentph  11 дней назад +3

      🥹

    • @lankylizard
      @lankylizard 10 дней назад

      pleeeeease

    • @cedricdy6869
      @cedricdy6869 2 дня назад

      Di ko lang sure pero parang mas malaki kikitain nila kapag dto sa RUclips let's support them by subscribing their channel so they can earn. This podcast will tackle all the different things in reality but you will learn na may ganon talagang tao. Not to judge pero parang di to para sa Gen Z kasi may ibang Gen Z na they'll take it as e kasi gamto e kasi sabi ni ganyan. Anw wala lang opinion lang 😂. Kudos to this podcast!

    • @cedricdy6869
      @cedricdy6869 2 дня назад

      Kung andto ako andami kong masshare e hahaha kimmy nakakahiya padin 😂😂

  • @mcjoecylbril6261
    @mcjoecylbril6261 16 дней назад +18

    soo what we need na talaga is to update our law. i believe in their body their choice po. if its their choice not to have it they should have the rights to not have it.

  • @mamaegray7609
    @mamaegray7609 16 дней назад +58

    Hi could you tackle topic about valuing privacy. Lately, na exp ko how people esp *older ones are entitled of asking personal stuffs. And how to deal to these kind of peeps

    • @GuerreroKathleenMaeC
      @GuerreroKathleenMaeC 16 дней назад

      Uppp

    • @Solgaleosogaling
      @Solgaleosogaling 16 дней назад +1

      Also people taking screenshots of private conversations and sending them to others without consent...

    • @eclarexegulane
      @eclarexegulane 16 дней назад

      @@Solgaleosogaling that's resibo and yeah its kind of bad

    • @zangchua
      @zangchua 15 дней назад

      that would be nice .. I also have this problem

    • @cpacutiee
      @cpacutiee 12 дней назад

      up

  • @dianaseva1902
    @dianaseva1902 14 дней назад +7

    POV Topic suggestions:
    - Do you believe in Taxi Cab Theory?
    - Being in a relationship with someone who has been in a long term relationship (10years above), how to overcome trauma and how to deal with it

  • @_mayumi_
    @_mayumi_ 9 дней назад +5

    I wish that there will be commercially available contraceptive pills or injections for men soon. Hormonal contraceptives really put a burden on women's bodies (headaches, feeling sick, mood swings, weight gain, depression, decreased libido, higher risk of heart attack and stroke, heavier or irregular bleeding, etc. etc. etc.). If hormonal contraceptives for men are made available, then at least the burden would be cut in half and the couple could take turns if this is their choice of contraception).

  • @mheng914
    @mheng914 16 дней назад +8

    I love this podcast sobra! More more episodes to come! Hopefully I can put up a topic that you can discuss on your next episode. Ang dami ko naiisip hindi ako makapili! 😅

  • @lt.col.
    @lt.col. 14 дней назад +5

    I'd like to hear Dr. Rica Cruz's thoughts on this. I hope you'll have her on one of your podcasts-she's truly one of a kind. ✨

  • @Strega4646
    @Strega4646 16 дней назад +5

    Eldest sister and breadwinner. Took care of my siblings, cousins and even neighbors' babies since I was a kid. So, I aint missin' out on anything. #Childfree

    • @sullagod
      @sullagod 2 дня назад +1

      same! this is the same reason why I won't be having any kids in the future.

  • @jennyannpacardo368
    @jennyannpacardo368 16 дней назад +4

    Thanks for another awesome talk! Always love the POV of Inka about things. Hopefully this helps other people absorb, acknowledge and respect others perspective and decisions in life. Until next episode!

  • @bbmbpjx
    @bbmbpjx 13 дней назад +3

    8:30 I remember too the quote "If a woman is with you in your lowest point then you know she loves you. And if a man is already successful and doesn't leave you, then you know he loves you."
    But I guess it's only possible for guy if he is truly loyal and grateful to his partner.

  • @vjayjay88
    @vjayjay88 10 дней назад +1

    i really love your dynamics.. now lang ako nakahanap ng podcast na tlagang natatapos at pinapakinggan ko. i love you guys!!!

  • @frankinjames
    @frankinjames 16 дней назад +3

    more powers to this podcast team! sana matackle naman paano maging financial literate ahahahahha soon. i love you all!

  • @michellegacer132
    @michellegacer132 16 дней назад +3

    The more you do for a man, the more he loves himself.
    The more you do for yourself, the more he man to love you.

  • @juls8231
    @juls8231 14 дней назад +16

    I think Atty, should stop stating his mindset and POV as a generalization of how men's minds work. I respect his takes but that's his take and opinion only. He doesn't know every man on earth in the first place (just like everyone). Just to be clear, I'm not exactly disagreeing with his take. I don't think it is right to voice out one's POV as a generalization of a particular gender or group of people's mindset. I would also think that you would all agree that we have different experiences in life and upbringing. Nonetheless, another great ep. Cheers!

    • @ElphieGalinda
      @ElphieGalinda 11 дней назад +2

      I noticed this about him as well. It seems like he might be trying to protect himself by generalizing, but it’s something worth reflecting on.

  • @ICEDcoffeeLATTE
    @ICEDcoffeeLATTE 15 дней назад +6

    Bakit nga ba nasa babae ang burden ng contraceptives? Kasi porke't mga lalaki ang mga nasa posisyon, mapa medical at political kaya sila ang nagdesisyon para hindi mahirapan ang mga lalake? Just what Inka said, women can get pregnant once w year, but the men can impregnate many at given time.
    Babae na nga ang maghihirap sa pagbubuntis at panganganak, ano man lang ang minor procedure ng vasectomy sa mga kalalakihan for contraceptive.

  • @angelikaye0162
    @angelikaye0162 23 часа назад

    Unrelated but ate Aryn and ate Inka are SO BEAUTIFUL like I just want to say that so they see and hear it one more time. I'll be 27 in January (fellow Capricorn) and I want to be as confident and powerful as you both. As a Capricorn myself, I look up to you both so thank you so much!

  • @johannalaplap2338
    @johannalaplap2338 11 дней назад +1

    This is so educational. Super love the different point of views, it's something to reflect on as well, in a way it helps to get to know yourself.

  • @emmegm9494
    @emmegm9494 6 дней назад

    16:50 Pareho kami ni Ms. Aryn about children. May asawa na ako but hindi ko pa rin alam kung gusto ko. Nung nagstart kami magdate sabi niya rin na di siya sure or ayaw niya ng anak. Pero sa ngayon parang nagpapahiwatig siya. Siguro dahil marami pa akong gusto iachieve sa buhay kaya ayoko pa ng anak or hindi ko maimagine ang sarili ko na may anak

  • @ion7269
    @ion7269 15 дней назад +1

    love how they tackled some of the sensitive topics. thoughts on divorce naman sana next episode.

  • @samanthaloraine632
    @samanthaloraine632 16 дней назад +6

    Hits me hard 😢Yung pag mahal ka ng lalaki magmamature yan ng kusa 😭

  • @JerichoEliseo
    @JerichoEliseo 2 дня назад

    I really love this podcast, this is coming from a person that don't really listen to podcast that much, let alone an hour episode of it. More power to y'all and please do more hot and sensitive topics.

  • @rivas7078
    @rivas7078 День назад +1

    pleasee be on spotifyy!!

  • @jay-meepallasigui6226
    @jay-meepallasigui6226 16 дней назад +2

    Love this episode. Great hearing different opinion & perspectives from you guys.

  • @twenty3rd218
    @twenty3rd218 7 дней назад

    Ganda ng episode na to. I hope magkaroon ng episode about being a breadwinner.

  • @migsgarcia
    @migsgarcia 14 дней назад +2

    On the topic of abortion, there are also discussions of allowing it within a number of weeks before heartbeat or brain activity forms. idk, just putting it out there.
    on the topic of vasectomy, agree that guys should do it once the couple agrees they dont want to have more kids. Women go through labor which is 100x more invasive and painful than vasectomies. If you want your wife to go through the pain of pregnancy and labor (and post partum) just to give you kids, the least you could do is overcome your fear of needles and smol post op pain once u guys decide to stop having more. 👍

  • @francesbirco64
    @francesbirco64 12 дней назад +1

    Hi Im really hooked and left in Awe for how you guys show your POV and share your knowledge on each topics. Very detailed! Kudos to you Trio! Also just wanna suggest a topic about loyalty/cheating/trust issue since lately or this yr grabe ang mga ganitong topic!!! Wanna know your say on these!!! Stray strong on this production! ❤

  • @dearlyaa2911
    @dearlyaa2911 13 дней назад +1

    Atty, genuine question: sabi mo it's a make or break para sayo ang magkaanak, paano kung magkaroon ng situation na di kayo mabiyayaan ng anak? what will you do?

  • @MillenniumEarl014
    @MillenniumEarl014 12 дней назад

    Yes. 30s is where the call to motherhood and fatherhood really starts. It's very hard to resist and you'll always feel like there's something missing.

  • @mariella692
    @mariella692 15 дней назад +1

    I agree with what Inka said-abortion is going to happen whether it’s legal or not, so the focus should be on ensuring women have access to safe healthcare. It’s about protecting them from the dangers of unsafe procedures.
    At the end of the day, it’s your body, your choice. Forcing personal beliefs on others doesn’t help-it only puts women at risk, especially those who might genuinely need this option for their health or circumstances. Denying access to abortion doesn’t just violate a basic right; it also takes away essential healthcare that could save lives.

  • @nala7461
    @nala7461 14 дней назад +2

    Hi, can you please share the clinics and website? Thanks

  • @alenjanealtizo3946
    @alenjanealtizo3946 14 дней назад +1

    Topic suggestions:
    - Are women more emotional than men?
    - As a content creator, what can you say about overconsumption of social media.

  • @francisleeigloria7074
    @francisleeigloria7074 15 дней назад

    This episode holds a place in my heart... esp. now a days where parents or grandparents ask their apos or children when are they gonna have kids.... I'm so glad that my lola isn't like this❤ The other day she told me that "please wag ka na mag anak at mag buntis, because I can't bear to even think that you'll be in so much pain that I've been through, It pains my heart I cannot handle seeing you in su much pain" 🥹🥺 It melts my heart because one day I know that no matter what my decision will be, I will have the strongest and loving support system who will back me up....
    Looking forward to more episode guys ❤🎉

  • @VanessaTominez-k8d
    @VanessaTominez-k8d 12 дней назад

    The best ang topic guys❤.

  • @WATING-WATING
    @WATING-WATING 16 дней назад

    Hello my happy pill POV! Don’t you dare to change to pantalon your pa shorts Atty. Anselmo may pagbabanta hahah. Inaabang ko lagi ang podcast nio,nakaka smart at kakapulutan ng Aral. Well
    Done you all! Congratulations sa inyong tatlo iba kayo! Watching from London 🩷🩷🩷

  • @dborj
    @dborj 16 дней назад +1

    my new favorite yt podcast 😊

    • @muentertainmentph
      @muentertainmentph  16 дней назад +1

      We're so glad to hear that! 💜

    • @dborj
      @dborj 16 дней назад

      can’t wait for the next ep!

  • @KarlVinceCasitas
    @KarlVinceCasitas 16 дней назад +1

    Ganda ng podcast na to!

  • @christiandelotindo6383
    @christiandelotindo6383 16 дней назад +1

    Another hour of entertainment. 🙌

  • @marlonfernandez2561
    @marlonfernandez2561 11 дней назад

    Aryn is mukhang 28 yrs old lang. I love the topic

  • @chrissuazo2567
    @chrissuazo2567 9 дней назад +1

    Injectables: Depo-Provera, Implantable din under the skin

  • @missymissm8359
    @missymissm8359 4 дня назад +1

    i love your show! im currently binging 😊.. could you please tackle about breakups. passive vs vindictive exes. which is more healthy mentally?

  • @sleepyme1325
    @sleepyme1325 16 дней назад

    new episode na agad please! loved it!

  • @almamanilenya4200
    @almamanilenya4200 16 дней назад

    37 pass 1 in the morning still listening! love this topic! cant wait for the next episode!😍

  • @ynaesmey7873
    @ynaesmey7873 15 дней назад

    Inka is so blooming

  • @Maplebacon0001
    @Maplebacon0001 13 дней назад +1

    Aryn for the win! 😂

  • @moykieguzman
    @moykieguzman 17 дней назад

    yeah maturity starts from within.

  • @mariaaubreysalvador4988
    @mariaaubreysalvador4988 12 дней назад

    You know what I like about this podcast? After I counted all the friends that Inka mentioned, I discovered that I only have a few friends.

  • @ksofetch
    @ksofetch 16 дней назад +1

    sana mapagusapan din yung mga breadwinners and yung nagiging retirement plan ng magulang. after kong mapanood yung segment sa its showtime naging interested ako and gusto kong malaman what's your view about it

    • @muentertainmentph
      @muentertainmentph  16 дней назад

      Hii, napag-usapan po yung breadwinners sa episode last week 💜

  • @Vincentgabrielcs
    @Vincentgabrielcs 17 дней назад +1

    I enjoy pov podcast, before im going to bed i listen to this❤

  • @markayson5348
    @markayson5348 16 дней назад

    Thank you for this episode! I learned so much!

  • @janlouisemakiling3474
    @janlouisemakiling3474 14 дней назад +1

    I want to have a child but I think I have PCOS / endometriosis which is mas harder to conceive.. (magpapacheck up na soon) also I’m still searching and waiting pra sa aking right one / man ❤

  • @shandy.resma1
    @shandy.resma1 11 дней назад

    Hahaha I love Aryn, so much! 😂

  • @mcjoecylbril6261
    @mcjoecylbril6261 16 дней назад +3

    im not the that has to carry that baby for x amount of months NO!. and then go through such excruciating pain and push it out of my body. HEEEELL NAH
    their body their choice. and that should be given and protected by the law

    • @artemislilith_96
      @artemislilith_96 15 дней назад +1

      This is true. Abortion should be a human right. Pro choice also here!

  • @jurelyntacasa116
    @jurelyntacasa116 14 дней назад

    More of this and men's perspective Po.. especially why men left women nowadays without even thinking of supporting.

  • @WATING-WATING
    @WATING-WATING 14 дней назад

    Here in Uk we have 1 year Maternity leave and paternity leave is 1-2 weeks . We have a government support here even after birth .we have schedule midwife to coming over once a week in our house to help with the baby for 2 months.

  • @sleepyme1325
    @sleepyme1325 15 дней назад +1

    love love loved it

  • @Chocothemaltipoo
    @Chocothemaltipoo 7 дней назад

    The lifestyle known as "DINKs" (Dual Income, No Kids) seems to be gaining attention, especially in the U.S., where some couples proudly proclaim statements like, "We're DINKs, so we can buy all the snacks we want at Costco," or "We're DINKs, and we have so many hobbies." While I respect different perspectives, the way this lifestyle is sometimes romanticized as the ideal - centered on self-indulgence and material pursuits - feels a bit off to me. Highlighting a child-free marriage primarily to showcase an ability to splurge on snacks or memberships can come across as superficial.
    I am new to your channel and so far I enjoy it especially during my drive time! :)

  • @deejay3284
    @deejay3284 16 дней назад

    Longer episode sana, make them 1.5-2 hrs na sana 😅🥹

    • @muentertainmentph
      @muentertainmentph  14 дней назад

      HAHAHAHAHAAHAHA soaper grateful na nag-enjoy po kayo!

  • @mochimazing8636
    @mochimazing8636 16 дней назад

    yes! new episode again ❤

  • @Solgaleosogaling
    @Solgaleosogaling 16 дней назад

    Love the new look, Inka!😍
    From a person who didn't want to have kids to being a mother, I understand both sides. I also don't judge which side you're on (Kaya nga POV 🙄 hindi naman pinipilit na mag iba paniniwala n'yo- triggered?!😂🤪)
    Anyway....
    I can go all day talking about how fulfilling motherhood is to me etc., but I also talk about the plans I had and where/what I could have been if I didn't have a kid. But I will NEVER regret having my child 🥰
    Can't wait for your next episode!❤

  • @immanuelakant
    @immanuelakant 22 часа назад

    my problem with needing to have "exceptions" (if a person is raped, or choosing between a fetus and the mother) to have access to safe and legal abortions is that it implies that women need to be either violated or be in a life and death situations first before they can decide for /their own bodies and selves/.
    like what Aryn and Inka said, hindi naman ginagawa ang abortion for fun. and really, do we really want to bring kids in this world knowing na they were only here because they couldn't be aborted, and/or natakot ang nagdala sa kanya na baka makulong siya dahil ilegal ang ginawa niya? god, i cannot imagine.

  • @LaiCooooo
    @LaiCooooo 13 дней назад

    This is educating

  • @chrissuazo2567
    @chrissuazo2567 9 дней назад

    the beads are for calendar methods, not compatible for irregular menses

  • @StrawHat-Chronicles
    @StrawHat-Chronicles 16 дней назад

    Aryn talking about kids is very me 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Strega4646
    @Strega4646 16 дней назад

    In Europe, you can be a career woman as well as a pregnant woman because they provide 1 year paid mat/pat leave. Also, the government provides for your kids until 12 years old. Education is also free!

  • @YraNarita
    @YraNarita 16 дней назад

    Ang ganda moooo arrryyynnnn 🥹❤️ bagong girl crush huhu bat ngayon lang kita nakita

  • @nauigom
    @nauigom 9 дней назад

    Will ypu be able to talk about the issue of maris, anthony, and jam? Like in all aspects moral, law and the like?

  • @ashleyresare8741
    @ashleyresare8741 16 дней назад

    yey new ep!! ❤️

  • @Fatsuwe
    @Fatsuwe 17 дней назад

    I love this!

  • @GraceEiBi
    @GraceEiBi 16 дней назад

    Aryn! May fave! Ang galing hahahaha

  • @audreyk214
    @audreyk214 16 дней назад

    Menstrual abacus😂😂😂 I remember during college , we had a project in our Dev Comm subject where we went to urban areas to educate them about using those beads to count the days that you're safe and you're not safe . Most of our respondents said in the end that they dont want to use it because its complicated. I think it doesnt appeal to them because they dont like the idea of planning .

  • @mailaotero5832
    @mailaotero5832 12 дней назад

    Compatibility is not that really important in the beginning as long as you know that you can build a compatibility together as you go through.

  • @marizara386
    @marizara386 16 дней назад

    Yes

  • @WATING-WATING
    @WATING-WATING 14 дней назад +1

    Atty. Anselmo kasali naba sa batas Jan ang pag terminate sa fetus even na confirmed na ng doctor at harmony test na may defect or imperfection ang fetus inside a women? Just like gorgeous Inka said, motherhood is a lifelong commitment. How they can handle that?

  • @louki5953
    @louki5953 16 дней назад

    EUREKA! yes I saw aryn at spit!

  • @geraldinevelasco921
    @geraldinevelasco921 13 дней назад

    Bigla tuloy akong nag overthink 😆

  • @Yesha01100
    @Yesha01100 11 дней назад

    Yes marami pa rin sa pinas ang di aware about sa mga libreng contraceptives sa bawat barangay. Example is yung pinsan ng asawa ko, naka 9 na syang anak. Recently lang nya nalaman na may libre pa lang pa inject good for 3 yrs para di mabuntis. Ayun, yung bunso nya 5yrs old. Di agad nasundan. Sabe nya, kung mas nalaman nya lang noon about sa contraceptive injection e di sana hindi umabot ng siyam ang anak nya

  • @marviccabangis5177
    @marviccabangis5177 16 дней назад +1

    This topic is very sensitive nowadays.

  • @gabrielletupas7280
    @gabrielletupas7280 14 дней назад

    HAHAHHA every episode atty! the legs! haha

  • @_mayumi_
    @_mayumi_ 9 дней назад

    The morning after pill is banned here. My boyfriend (now husband) and I went from pharmacy to pharmacy looking for one in 2007, not realizing that it's banned as it's considered an abortifacient.

  • @deyow
    @deyow 16 дней назад +1

    team unplanned

  • @kazg0091
    @kazg0091 11 дней назад

    Read the book "the push by Ashley Audrain" it's about the dark side of motherhood (post partum depression) trust me, you will never want to have a kid. Ever.

  • @gerimaeeee
    @gerimaeeee 16 дней назад

    Hindi talaga mawawala sa usapan yung legs ni attorney 😭 HAHAHAHAA

  • @admindanaasia2858
    @admindanaasia2858 16 дней назад

    Taurus ba si Aryn? Same kami ng criteria haha

    • @arynkingking
      @arynkingking 15 дней назад

      Capricorn! Pero pareho tayong earth sign 🎉

    • @dianaseva1902
      @dianaseva1902 14 дней назад

      @@arynkingking Agreed!

  • @jelliepalencia
    @jelliepalencia 17 дней назад

    Hello 👋

  • @fatweetams
    @fatweetams 17 дней назад

    Hi

  • @ashleyresare8741
    @ashleyresare8741 16 дней назад

    legs talaga ni atty yung trippings lagi 😅

  • @jonathandelapunta9149
    @jonathandelapunta9149 14 дней назад

    Yung anak ko din gusto ko gawin 3rd.

  • @callieburn
    @callieburn 17 дней назад

    sprinkle sprinkle

  • @WATING-WATING
    @WATING-WATING 14 дней назад

    Rhythm method

  • @purokunocustoms
    @purokunocustoms 3 дня назад

    🙌🏻

  • @jasperkimrico1741
    @jasperkimrico1741 14 дней назад

    Di ko to mahanap sa Spotify

    • @muentertainmentph
      @muentertainmentph  13 дней назад

      Dito lang po siya available sa MU Entertaintment RUclips Channel!

  • @darlenedianaalmeria5658
    @darlenedianaalmeria5658 14 дней назад

    Atty, ireto mo sakin si Ansel HAHAHA

  • @johnjohn-tm4ll
    @johnjohn-tm4ll 16 дней назад

    Special mention na naman sa legs ni Atty. Anselmo

  • @ralph333
    @ralph333 14 дней назад

    i have a question atty what about miscarriage?

  • @crisesoen224
    @crisesoen224 16 дней назад +2

    A gay co host in addition to the three of you would bring the marites point of view in ur discussions.. maybe?

    • @johnjohn-tm4ll
      @johnjohn-tm4ll 16 дней назад +4

      Maybe, a guess only. The three of them are perfect already

  • @romeojerrickc.9382
    @romeojerrickc.9382 10 дней назад

    I love listening to your podcast and I learned a lot to you guys🫶 and I have request to talk about handling criticism and toxic co-workers within a workplace in your podcast, thankyouu!