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  • Опубликовано: 7 окт 2021
  • INFPs are a bit different than most people. In the video I bring up few situations where INFP personality type differs from normal people.
    Enjoy!
    It's just meant to be a funny INFP video
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    Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) is an introspective self-report questionnaire indicating differing psychological preferences in how people perceive the world and make decisions. The test attempts to assign four categories: introversion or extraversion, sensing or intuition, thinking or feeling, judging or perceiving. One letter from each category is taken to produce a four-letter test result, like INTP or INFP

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  • @xBlueEyedGoldilocks
    @xBlueEyedGoldilocks 2 года назад +6690

    "It's tough being a lazy perfectionsist who doesn't care about anything but also cares way too much about everything"
    You really didn't have to come for me like that

  • @diamundetailor1277
    @diamundetailor1277 2 года назад +5136

    “The only thing they don’t really care about are themselves.” Ouch. I felt that lol

    • @sleverlight
      @sleverlight 2 года назад +103

      I think you need to work on that. I am trying to work on that too

    • @Maliniasredmask
      @Maliniasredmask 2 года назад +56

      it hurts... it burns worse than my soul when someone leaves me...

    • @janaangelicacatudan1931
      @janaangelicacatudan1931 2 года назад +57

      not all the time 😜 we can be un caring too putting ourselves first. Stop people pleasing

    • @camillachristinenorveganus161
      @camillachristinenorveganus161 2 года назад +3

      And You🥰

    • @Jess-kj6bo
      @Jess-kj6bo 2 года назад +22

      Oh- im a really selfish infp and i dont care that much about other people except some few friends help

  • @cmchhysi
    @cmchhysi 2 года назад +896

    “INFPs want someone who they can share their entire life with but also someone who will leave them alone most of the time”
    I FELT THIS ON A WHOLE NEW LEVEL

  • @tyrian522
    @tyrian522 2 года назад +196

    INFPs will also feel extremely guilty about fantasizing instead of doing, however not bad enough to change anything, apparently.

    • @bres.4806
      @bres.4806 Год назад +5

      LMFAO…🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣..I laughed wayyy too hard at this.

    • @rehanfarooqui7126
      @rehanfarooqui7126 5 месяцев назад

      This

    • @famousutopias
      @famousutopias 2 месяца назад

      I resemble that remark

    • @caden4858
      @caden4858 Месяц назад

      LMFAO LITERALLY ME

  • @returnoftheromans6726
    @returnoftheromans6726 2 года назад +2082

    "The only difference is that INFP's do that inside their heads."
    Ouch. Didn't have to come at me like that, bro. 😂😭

    • @deenice8549
      @deenice8549 2 года назад +54

      Me realizing why I procrastinate a LOT 🤣

    • @bertbrezel8605
      @bertbrezel8605 2 года назад +38

      And we feel stressed after that like we did that in real and need to relax

    • @decinatalinda2466
      @decinatalinda2466 2 года назад +3

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @renatomotta2252
      @renatomotta2252 2 года назад +12

      It's ridiculous.
      Is like dreaming about getting ready to work/class/whatever and then waking up having accomplished nothing yet, still in need to do all the things you already felt the stress of doing.

    • @acharich
      @acharich Год назад +2

      💀🤣💀🤣💀

  • @bunnysoo47
    @bunnysoo47 2 года назад +1915

    "where they are celebrities on a talk show dramatically explaining what they're going through" I do that almost on a daily basis 😭

  • @sopj
    @sopj 2 года назад +1062

    "You can't hurt an overthinker." words of wisdom

  • @m1lkbar
    @m1lkbar 2 года назад +289

    As an infp i can confirm that i’ve definitely imagined myself as a celebrity in a talk show talking about my issues when i’m going through stuff 🤣

    • @Lynxtetsuya12
      @Lynxtetsuya12 Год назад +5

      😭😂😭😂
      You're not alone.

    • @madhusmitasoren8897
      @madhusmitasoren8897 Год назад +3

      Me too 😂🤧

    • @mariacovarrubias9103
      @mariacovarrubias9103 Год назад

      Pero esta divertido 👍💖

    • @kittmarie8285
      @kittmarie8285 Год назад

      I wasn't completely sure that i do that until i read your comment. Go figure! haha

    • @BekatheCuteCat
      @BekatheCuteCat Год назад +2

      dam i feel called out. every time i go through some sheet, i imagine myself at an interview with some famous people, 10 years later, and going into small details about why that happened and what it did with my life xD

  • @namukolosiyumbwa3323
    @namukolosiyumbwa3323 2 года назад +3233

    I've never told anyone about the talk show in my head so hearing this right now felt like a VERY personal invasion.

    • @theotherside5818
      @theotherside5818 2 года назад +54

      Like opera and I are email pals already

    • @denial1004
      @denial1004 2 года назад +70

      more like a podcast for me tho

    • @sandhyagk7126
      @sandhyagk7126 2 года назад +71

      same here i have a talk show in my head almost every day

    • @trinitybrooke4356
      @trinitybrooke4356 2 года назад +123

      Meee too. That was crazy, I always make up scenarios when I’m in the shower. I’ll be like a successful writer or something telling my celeb interviewer how I never imagined I’d get so far😂 meanwhile me: jobless, sitting on my bed watching tv and wondering why nothing exciting ever happens to me.

    • @samish9330
      @samish9330 2 года назад +21

      I felt attacked

  • @kevin780313
    @kevin780313 2 года назад +2303

    this whole video knows me better than other people i have ever met in my whole life.

    • @Velkh
      @Velkh 2 года назад +59

      it's like I'm on top of a stage being presented to a big audience but I feel too confused to react.

    • @NoopyP
      @NoopyP 2 года назад +12

      Same

    • @daniella4800
      @daniella4800 2 года назад +8

      I tell you 😂😂

    • @ariesangel4196
      @ariesangel4196 2 года назад +4

      Same.... 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

    • @rachelclare8795
      @rachelclare8795 2 года назад +8

      a few months later…oh my goodness! This is me! (I have reasons for taking a long time doing everything and one of them is having to explain all my reasons to other people).

  • @kiss2278
    @kiss2278 2 года назад +114

    Great thing about being an infp is, I'm able to entertain myself without anyone's help. That's how I survived quarantine 😂

    • @Crazy_Chriz
      @Crazy_Chriz 7 месяцев назад +1

      I literally can so well. Making up stories of fictional characters if they did this instead, or was this instead. Makes me entertained pretty easily until I get bored of it. Most of this stuff is like “I thought everybody else felt this way”

    • @relaxolotl834
      @relaxolotl834 7 месяцев назад +4

      As an INFP I didnt survive quarantine. I lived quarantine❤️

    • @CrunchyGreenWater
      @CrunchyGreenWater 6 месяцев назад +1

      I've only been bored like one time in my whole life. I ended up taking a nice nap. 😇

    • @EnochianChronicles
      @EnochianChronicles 3 месяца назад +4

      @@CrunchyGreenWater Yeah I never understood how anyone can be bored unless their mind is broken and they need a repairman to fix it. But if you just hit it gently on the side a few times the pictures come back and you can enjoy the show again.

  • @Laylia_
    @Laylia_ Год назад +48

    The not wanting to hurt NPC’s feelings in video games is what hit me the most. 😅

    • @trishayamada807
      @trishayamada807 7 месяцев назад +3

      I cried when I killed my Minecraft horse by getting it drowned. It killed me inside. Devastated. I haven’t played since. It’s too stressful.

    • @supernaturegirl
      @supernaturegirl 6 месяцев назад

      The video game comment hit me hard too, this whole video was spot on. I only collect skins in Albion by scavenging animals already killed. If I ever accidently hit an animal, I try to leave before it dies and feel horrible either way. I look away with the new way of cutting meat in the long dark. Funny how anthropomorphism can be a shared and general personality trait.

    • @springgg4055
      @springgg4055 Месяц назад +1

      @@trishayamada807I play Minecraft
      I fish and do nothing else. Just keep fishing

  • @sk61181
    @sk61181 2 года назад +1004

    Normal people: Put up a facade to hide their mean side in certain scenarios.
    INFPs: Go overboard to appear mean because they think they're being taken for a ride, but then realise that they've been too mean unnecessarily, overcome by guilt, they approach every person they thought they had been mean to and apologise, take a few hours to convince themselves that they've mended the damage, then swear in front of the mirror not to ever be mean again, while still being overcome by guilt altogether, again, for no reason.

    • @katielarsen2630
      @katielarsen2630 2 года назад +46

      Finally someone put it in words

    • @SplashBeor
      @SplashBeor 2 года назад +24

      YESSSsssssss!!!!! Make me stop!

    • @sujah855
      @sujah855 2 года назад +37

      So true, it's still haunted me when I'm having flashback…

    • @TheInnerSpark
      @TheInnerSpark 2 года назад +10

      YES you have just described my life.

    • @janaangelicacatudan1931
      @janaangelicacatudan1931 2 года назад +13

      I don't apologize though, I'd go defense mode and tell them you don't even know me, stop assuming

  • @kookiesandcreamsweeterthan1810
    @kookiesandcreamsweeterthan1810 2 года назад +680

    "---INFPs on the other hand needs someone who they can share their life with and also someone who will leave them alone most of the time" the attack

    • @candiceclipner7792
      @candiceclipner7792 2 года назад +29

      What a coincidence. Today I was updating my online dating profile saying how I'm at my best when in love in a relationship and that I'm loving, caring, want to take care of the other person, affectionate, but I also need my alone time and I expect you do too.

    • @hollylanevintagetreasures
      @hollylanevintagetreasures 2 года назад +2

      Ah yeah, can totally relate!!

    • @jazmin6031
      @jazmin6031 2 года назад +4

      I found an enfp for that :D we do great together

    • @hemakshi_4046
      @hemakshi_4046 Год назад +2

      Why this is so accurate ???

    • @alextarot
      @alextarot Год назад

      This me though

  • @waveswavesocean
    @waveswavesocean 2 года назад +29

    Actually most people can't take criticism while INFP naturally criticizes themselves

    • @thebestgachatuber6146
      @thebestgachatuber6146 2 года назад +7

      I can't take criticism but then seconds later I literally insult myself in some way lmao

  • @reynaflores4093
    @reynaflores4093 Год назад +49

    "You can't hurt an over thinker, because they already see it coming and you are just proving them right." Damn True😂

  • @yana112o92
    @yana112o92 2 года назад +340

    'It's tough being a lazy perfectionist. . . . '
    - ouch.

  • @jessieperson
    @jessieperson 2 года назад +469

    2:14 "All I ask is for you to get to know me on a deep and intimate level while I resist and obstruct your every attempt to do so." STAHP that's too close to home

    • @loang3991
      @loang3991 2 года назад +27

      Same! This is why I had trouble making friends at school 😂😫

    • @eleanorrigby5618
      @eleanorrigby5618 2 года назад +8

      It's the reason I'm suffering over recently

    • @ariesangel4196
      @ariesangel4196 2 года назад +8

      So True

    • @sailorgillan
      @sailorgillan 2 года назад +8

      I LOLed

    • @vkmuffins
      @vkmuffins 2 года назад +5

      I literally felt attacked deep inside! 😭

  • @tryn5938
    @tryn5938 2 года назад +27

    That drive to bake tiny cupcakes at 2am and finish it up with a lesson in calligraphy is uncontrollable at this point

  • @kapikyuen2693
    @kapikyuen2693 Год назад +32

    The music taste part got me laughing so hard because that's 100% accurate!

    • @jongininikim5219
      @jongininikim5219 Месяц назад

      yeah, at every picture/music genre shown i was like "yep i listen to that". someone recently mentioned that they have 10 playlists on spotify and everyone else was like "wow that's quite a lot" and literally felt like i was thrown into a diffirent reality cause i have 10 FOLDERS with probably at least 50 playlists lmao.

  • @faceshopper
    @faceshopper 2 года назад +901

    the music taste one 😭 i will listen to anything and everything if i think the tunes are great and makes me feel good (+ triggers my daydreaming session) its a masterpiece to me and ill listen to it over and over again 🤣

    • @daniella4800
      @daniella4800 2 года назад +41

      Ikr like I literally like every music which suits my taste 😂😂😭

    • @Kaokie-49
      @Kaokie-49 2 года назад +23

      yeah that's really relatable
      if I'm not heavily enjoying the music, I'm daydreaming

    • @swiar_d7057
      @swiar_d7057 2 года назад +6

      Lol i thiugj i just love music but it actualy has to do with being an infp

    • @RenaissanceGirl
      @RenaissanceGirl 2 года назад +5

      Yes! Same! I thought I was crazy for doing something like that! And I haven't even asked the people I'm closest to if it's weird or not! 🤣

    • @angleslikeyou537
      @angleslikeyou537 2 года назад +1

      yes!!!

  • @ivorydelights
    @ivorydelights 2 года назад +1213

    🤣 we have to read the same sentence at least 3 times so we can get the deeper meaning and how it’s connected to everything 😅

    • @janaangelicacatudan1931
      @janaangelicacatudan1931 2 года назад +115

      sometimes our minds are in the clouds and we can't concentrate 😅

    • @livyy4489
      @livyy4489 2 года назад +7

      same =)))))

    • @Aviralkapasia
      @Aviralkapasia 2 года назад +8

      Always 🌚

    • @emaanserghini1919
      @emaanserghini1919 2 года назад +47

      Or just to relive the scenes and fully enjoy the sensations.

    • @ivorydelights
      @ivorydelights 2 года назад +5

      @@janaangelicacatudan1931 right 😆 squirrel brain

  • @staycool4349
    @staycool4349 2 года назад +17

    @7:12 You forgot to add, if we commented, we will come back to check likes and feel bad if nobody likes it. And feel happy if someone likes and comment. And good chance to change mind and delete it altogether.

  • @sudayyn8370
    @sudayyn8370 Год назад +40

    I don't know why i'm laughing the whole time. This is so damn accurate

  • @radheymishra5130
    @radheymishra5130 2 года назад +516

    "They already thought they are bad, & you are just telling them what they know" this almost had me cry

    • @radheymishra5130
      @radheymishra5130 2 года назад +1

      @@Introvertedpoet yeah

    • @akira_ariga
      @akira_ariga 2 года назад +15

      Honestly
      This is literally the only reason any kids’ attempt to bully me failed cause they couldn’t get me upset enough by making fun of me haha

  • @angelicatrino2498
    @angelicatrino2498 2 года назад +1605

    You made me laugh at myself. A mature INFP can take criticism without crying. But it will launch an internal audit. We will be thinking, i mean overthinking about it the whole month. But yes, we want somebody we could trust fully who will not mind if we only spend time with them in small amounts. We like staying in our minds for the most part. We are guilty of the self indulgence of amusing ourselves.

    • @BlackOcean25
      @BlackOcean25 2 года назад +47

      “Launch an internal audit” frighteningly accurate tho

    • @angelicatrino2498
      @angelicatrino2498 2 года назад +10

      @@amytiffanyhemingway a different mindset will help I guess. Most people even the one giving the criticism will not lose sleep over it. Why should you? Just think if the criticism is valid then make some adjustment and change for the better. If not, ignore it.

    • @janaangelicacatudan1931
      @janaangelicacatudan1931 2 года назад +20

      @@angelicatrino2498 it's how INFP learn and grow, it's how we internalize and how we become self aware of our flaws. Don't judge us just because you don't get why we do things you don't.

    • @angelicatrino2498
      @angelicatrino2498 2 года назад +5

      @@janaangelicacatudan1931 actually I have an INFP personality. That's why I am self deprecating. I am kind to everyone except myself.

    • @janaangelicacatudan1931
      @janaangelicacatudan1931 2 года назад +1

      @@angelicatrino2498 INFPs are not the only kind people.

  • @AyudyaKasya
    @AyudyaKasya 9 месяцев назад +9

    The "broke down car" part is so good it made me wheezed.
    Also, on the topic of music, there's a popular Tumblr post that could describe it well:
    "So what type of music do you listen to?"
    "Whatever music that triggers a daydream."

  • @sleepysloth634
    @sleepysloth634 2 года назад +45

    I can't even explain how this video accurately describes my entire life in 10:47 minutes. It's always a pain to try to explain to other people about my music tastes. Especially the scene about the surgery. Was in the hospital visiting family and every time they ask me to go get the nurse I always say 'Sorry to bother you'. I swear it's my most used phrase whenever I talk with strangers

    • @kittmarie8285
      @kittmarie8285 Год назад

      Other people don't say that do they?

  • @babsninja1755
    @babsninja1755 2 года назад +666

    ‘Extrovert looking monster’ is certainly one way to put it one time I was in a phone call with my friend and we spoke for literally 10 hours. Every other person that I’m not close with always comments about how I’m really reserved, withdrawn, quiet and shy. It’s either hard for you to get me to talk or it’s hard to get me to shut up.

    • @janaangelicacatudan1931
      @janaangelicacatudan1931 2 года назад +34

      yes, they assumed I was an extrovert just because I chat a lot, and I talk a lot when people come to me, wish they'd consider the fact that most of the time I'm alone in my room, and how I like being left alone in solitude.

    • @SuouEdits7533
      @SuouEdits7533 2 года назад +12

      Lol same. I was around some people I don't really know at school and my friend/crush came along.
      (Extrovert looking monster) They were like u can talk.

    • @RenaissanceGirl
      @RenaissanceGirl 2 года назад +15

      Finally! Now I know that I really am a true INFP and that it's normal for me to get really chatty if it's a topic I'm genuinely interested in!

    • @Nella_nova
      @Nella_nova 2 года назад

      @@janaangelicacatudan1931 Same but it was me thinking I am an extrovert.

    • @michellekahlez2105
      @michellekahlez2105 2 года назад

      @@janaangelicacatudan1931 THAT'S ME N I FEEL HURTED

  • @Miochh
    @Miochh 2 года назад +471

    The tying shoe scenario is so accurate, whenever someone ties their shoe I wait bc I feel bad when the others keep walking, but usually I'm the one tying my shoe laces- 😭

    • @sarahs.9678
      @sarahs.9678 2 года назад +32

      Omg yes. And no one notices half the time. 😅

    • @lilgorgo
      @lilgorgo 2 года назад +52

      And then the person trying to tie their shoe is also an INFP so your presence near them instantly makes the them panic and forget how to do it so they fumble for 5 minutes and feel bad for making you wait and then you feel bad for making them nervous and then they feel bad for making you feel bad and you are stuck in an INFP holding pattern for eternity

    • @neverendinchaos4800
      @neverendinchaos4800 2 года назад +5

      @@lilgorgo Noooo....not like thissss...😅 I feel like after a little while, I'd work up the courage to ask them if they'd like me to help them, but I'd be really subtle about it, because I'd be trying not to embarrass them...🥺

    • @candiceclipner7792
      @candiceclipner7792 2 года назад +8

      How can someone not wait?

    • @crow1628
      @crow1628 2 года назад +2

      Bruh not even just tying shoelaces- every other scenario that involves waiting- Istg feels like no one waits for me or anyone else. But maybe I’m just slow bc in most situations I’m the one ppl have to wait for 😭 feels bad man

  • @koujin4406
    @koujin4406 Год назад +4

    Looking at the ceiling with a small amount of daydreaming can lift up my mood. 😊

  • @mbaratucci13
    @mbaratucci13 10 месяцев назад +5

    It's hard for us infps to let people in. We love so hard and hurt hard too. It's better not to get close to people than to get hurt. 😢

  • @OakyAfterBrth
    @OakyAfterBrth 2 года назад +393

    This was painfully accurate. Absolutely loved "they want someone they can share their lives with but also someone who will leave them alone most of the time" LMAO 🤣

  • @Gjakdjruknownhpjs
    @Gjakdjruknownhpjs 2 года назад +261

    By writing this I'm doing 5 seconds of human interaction lol.

    • @karimwebo8546
      @karimwebo8546 2 года назад +22

      my daily 5 second dose of human interaction

    • @hasargel
      @hasargel 2 года назад +10

      Out of human interaction for the week already?!

    • @MxC06
      @MxC06 2 года назад +3

      Thanks for those 5 seconds ! It cost you a lot.

    • @FishCakeIsland4928
      @FishCakeIsland4928 2 года назад +1

      Damn that's a lot of seconds, it's over double of 2

    • @consciousconnectiontarot176
      @consciousconnectiontarot176 Год назад +2

      Liking it was mine. Thank you for opening that door friend! 😆

  • @danacasuayan5033
    @danacasuayan5033 2 года назад +19

    The relaxing part in 8:20 is so accurate. I often times think about wanting to have an "off" switch for my brain because it runs 1000 miles/min, even when I try to rest or sleep.

  • @lisaraa23
    @lisaraa23 2 года назад +6

    4:58 soo true litterly if I'm eating in public and someone looks at me I just can't eat anymore...same for test if the teacher stands next to me and looks at my paper I just stop writing until she goes away :D

  • @hiennt07
    @hiennt07 2 года назад +193

    "It's tough being a lazy perfectionist who doesn't care about anything, but also cares way too much about everything"
    Damn! This hits me hard.

    • @acharich
      @acharich Год назад +4

      A beautiful paradox.. 😅

  • @_Killkor
    @_Killkor 2 года назад +239

    INFP:
    Task: Read a sentence in a book. "John rode a bicycle home."
    INFP: John rode a bicy... but why? Hmm, who is John anyway? Hmm, could I relate to John in any way. I too did rode a bicy- wait, I'm supposed to read! John.... (sigh) again.... John rode a bicycle home. There, got it. Hmm, I wonder how his house looks. Wait, home can have different meanings. It could be a flat. Or a different planet. Wait wtf no this is a realistic story. *Wait, what was I reading again?!*

    • @HEJtoss
      @HEJtoss 2 года назад +19

      Hahaha this is SO accurate!

    • @jaeminslogy
      @jaeminslogy 2 года назад +12

      This is me all the time

    • @user-er9er2fr6o
      @user-er9er2fr6o 2 года назад +27

      you forget about imaging yourself as John and how he feels about it, and how he is not aware of his reality and everything he is not awara nad tjings that they can think in that moment or even before

    • @user-er9er2fr6o
      @user-er9er2fr6o 2 года назад +1

      you forget about imaging yourself as John and how he feels about it, and how he is not aware of his reality and everything he is not awara nad tjings that they can think in that moment or even before

    • @aatreyeesaha9330
      @aatreyeesaha9330 2 года назад +1

      That's soo meee!!!!!!!

  • @PreciousPask82
    @PreciousPask82 7 месяцев назад +4

    Ok. Dude. This is important. From all the dozens of videos about INFPs i watched, yours was THE BEST of them all. It is so accurate, i just can't 😲

  • @fatimaezzahrataki7727
    @fatimaezzahrataki7727 2 года назад +10

    "It's tough being a lazy perfectionsist who doesn't care about anything but also cares way too much about everything" and “The only thing they don’t really care about are themselves.” and "where they are celebrities on a talk show dramatically explaining what they're going through", are 100 % accurate in a scary way ,

  • @arya.07
    @arya.07 2 года назад +94

    Yk someone is an INFP if they're roasting our own personality type 😂

  • @kiponmowyn3628
    @kiponmowyn3628 2 года назад +126

    1. Imaginary talkshows for emotional venting
    2. Reading one sentence countless times
    3. Loving the whole spectrum of music styles (except the most cringy ones)
    4. Racing mind during "chill time"
    This is basically me in 4 points.

  • @ImpastaBisnis
    @ImpastaBisnis Год назад +16

    I don’t think I have ever related more to a video in my entire life 😂 Literally every single point is something I’ve experienced. I can’t believe this video knows me more than any friend I’ve ever had, it’s actually insane how accurate this is

  • @sasukeuchiha0904
    @sasukeuchiha0904 Год назад +11

    I can't express how good I feel about seeing people who are like me and a video that 100 percent resonates with me. Thank you.

  • @snail5742
    @snail5742 2 года назад +107

    it might sound depressing to be an infp from the outside point of view but my days are actually very colorful and beautiful because of my wild maladaptive daydreaming, i don't think i can live without it.

    • @snail5742
      @snail5742 2 года назад +12

      i'm still depressed tho but not for that reason

    • @aethericphoenix3423
      @aethericphoenix3423 2 года назад +28

      Or the fact that you can stay in one place for hours and not get bored because of your inner world, i think we been so depressed for so long, that does not bother us anymore,because our imagination keep us going.

    • @acharich
      @acharich Год назад

      🤗🤗🤗

    • @kazbah1217
      @kazbah1217 Год назад +6

      Its a reliable coping technique

    • @bykyah3981
      @bykyah3981 Год назад

      Lmao this, my imagination is amazing thank you

  • @dougchristian45
    @dougchristian45 2 года назад +253

    Very extreme. I admit, in younger years I had many of these issues. Advice from an older INFP to a younger one. Keep moving forward, you have great strengths, use them! You'll recognize your weaknesses and can easily overcome them!

    • @heidihaeni7783
      @heidihaeni7783 2 года назад +38

      INFPs seem to age gracefully. We go from being perceived as naive to being perceived as wise. Other people who seem to have their acts together, because they spent their youths keeping up with the Joneses, age into people who seem unevolved.

    • @bemangmansha9426
      @bemangmansha9426 2 года назад +6

      Thank you both😇

    • @deutschlernen8697
      @deutschlernen8697 2 года назад +7

      I'm very depressed I hate my situation in the world of "one size fits all" 😔

    • @renatomotta2252
      @renatomotta2252 2 года назад +6

      Yeah, be so self critical can be rough in early life. But it also make us overcome things in a more healthy way than most people. I guess... Really hope so... Hehehe😄

    • @olafweyer859
      @olafweyer859 2 года назад +4

      Issues? How are these issues? As I've grown older I accepted that's just how I am.

  • @sigmatoprak
    @sigmatoprak Год назад +4

    "because they dont want to hurt npc's feelings"
    i felt that..

  • @bmsturgis3
    @bmsturgis3 2 года назад +13

    6:45 This one is a true struggle for me. I'll spend most of the time trying to think of how I should what I want to say, write out a giant mess, try to reorganize it, slim it down to something reasonable, then be like "nah". My mind will also wander and I will constantly have to try to refocus. Sometimes I'll even get up and pace around a few times in the process.

  • @alisaa3999
    @alisaa3999 2 года назад +185

    The struggle is real… We are complicated souls 😔 This video is spot on!

    • @eduarda5488
      @eduarda5488 Год назад

      São almas q querem se adequar ao mundo ao invés de vivê-las como são

  • @ialwayspracticeatnight2647
    @ialwayspracticeatnight2647 2 года назад +60

    "because they already see it coming, and you are just proving them right" hahahahah lol this is so accurate!!

  • @cupcakePOWER561
    @cupcakePOWER561 Год назад +4

    “They’re doing it but from the couch” ALMOST MADE ME SPIT OUT MY FOOD

  • @fern_barreto
    @fern_barreto 2 года назад +7

    To be honest, I always thought everybody was like this and we're just pretending to be "normal". Lol

  • @YourMessenger
    @YourMessenger 2 года назад +74

    I'm never lost. I'm simply not done wandering yet (or perhaps I had not seen enough of that beautiful night sky).

  • @colosheepclassysongs3484
    @colosheepclassysongs3484 2 года назад +134

    This is the most accurate video I have EVER watched

    • @karimwebo8546
      @karimwebo8546 2 года назад +3

      IKR! I was saying "oh, yeah" "ohh, it's me" "same, I can relate to" ALL THE FUCKIN VIDEO AJDKWBDKBAJDJDKABDBDBD

    • @daniella4800
      @daniella4800 2 года назад +1

      Ikr

  • @humanbean2
    @humanbean2 2 года назад +4

    “Cries in INFP”
    most relatable thing ever lol

  • @user-ko6gw7it6c
    @user-ko6gw7it6c 7 месяцев назад +2

    “all i ask is for you to get to know me on a deep intimate level while i resist and obstruct your every attempt to do so” scarily accurate

  • @Jenna_Vogagis
    @Jenna_Vogagis 2 года назад +84

    Anyone else find they prefer music with no one singing? I feel more alone if it's just instrumental which is what I want 😆

    • @lupus4687
      @lupus4687 2 года назад +9

      Ikr! Instrumentals are more soothing. Even in a normal song a lot of times I just directly skip to the guitar solos and then I'm kinda done with it.

    • @angelicatrino2498
      @angelicatrino2498 2 года назад +18

      I don't think that has to do with being an INFP. I am into lyrics. Although there are songs that are not meaningful at all but the instruments and music get me. I love a good lyric and the story behind the lyric.

    • @warriorcatkitty
      @warriorcatkitty 2 года назад +4

      I've noticed that I do prefer music without lyrics as well, but then again I do like lyrics sometimes. I think it's just that I like it better when the lyrics feel like they have some sort of meaning, and most songs don't feel that way to me. And a lot of songs have meanings that I'm not able to relate to very well so I end up not really liking the song, but I'll like the instrumental. There are so many songs that I like the sound of, but I'm not really a fan of the lyrics. I think that's why I tend to like fandom songs more often than regular music, because they will almost always have a story to tell that you can understand
      idk if I'm making any sense though lol

    • @superbanner145sundercovera7
      @superbanner145sundercovera7 2 года назад

      Lyrics or no lyrics, either one is fine to me

    • @violetdusk1968
      @violetdusk1968 Год назад

      I like lyrics that I relate to. Music that makes me want to dance and instrumental that I can feel the emotion in it.

  • @mythsna
    @mythsna 2 года назад +89

    Oh my goodness, I thought I was the only one who made up an entire talkshow scenario in my head where I'm talking about my feelings and the seven "made up" divorces I've gone through 😳

    • @angelicatrino2498
      @angelicatrino2498 2 года назад +15

      Its common for INFPs to talk to themselves.

    • @mythsna
      @mythsna 2 года назад +2

      @@angelicatrino2498 true

    • @sleverlight
      @sleverlight 2 года назад +6

      For me I imagine a scenario where there are 2 of me and then one of me feels so bad that she messed up and has turned into this evil character that is just destroying everything, and the other one is like trying to stop this evil character and telling her its ok to mess up. So yea

    • @mythsna
      @mythsna 2 года назад +3

      @@sleverlight Thank you for sharing your story. I too have times like that, but in my case I've divided myself into tons of personalities,I have currently 12 alternate egos and still some more are developing. I think I'm slowly driving myself crazy but at the same I don't care.

    • @sleverlight
      @sleverlight 2 года назад +1

      @@mythsna I think there is nothing wrong with you. We may be a small percentage of society but we are needed for creative ideas for the future. This lady is really amazing she gives advice for INFPs
      ruclips.net/video/1GsyVdcafCM/видео.html

  • @maymithant85
    @maymithant85 9 месяцев назад +3

    “Too scared to click rude dialogue because they don’t want to hurt NPC’s feeling” 😂

  • @noewantstosleep
    @noewantstosleep Год назад +3

    Nah because going on a walk and looking at the sky really is my elite form of therapy 💀

  • @gurleenkang6337
    @gurleenkang6337 2 года назад +59

    I feel like showing this to each and every person I know... then finally they will be able to understand "ME" 😂😂

    • @arad1422
      @arad1422 2 года назад +2

      Same

    • @CuriousWanderer_
      @CuriousWanderer_ 2 года назад +3

      I feel like I should. But I have supplied vids like this so many times that I think they already know me, yet I still wanted them to know "more." 😂😂😂

    • @gurleenkang6337
      @gurleenkang6337 2 года назад +2

      @@CuriousWanderer_ same here 😂

    • @joanaborrellsanchez9225
      @joanaborrellsanchez9225 2 года назад +3

      I will be really ashamed if I share this video, I feel that people will know all of me...
      PD: I'm from Catalonia, sorry if my english isn't perfect

    • @LovelyAngel776
      @LovelyAngel776 Год назад +1

      The urge is SO STRONG 🤣

  • @HelloVanniHere
    @HelloVanniHere 2 года назад +15

    1:58 YES, "either nothing matter or everything has its purpose", I FINALLY HEARD IT FROM SOMEONE ELSE, THANK YOUUUU

    • @sunlight8299
      @sunlight8299 Год назад

      My version is 'everything is sacred or everything is profane ' . I came to this conclusion after a lot of deep thinking

    • @HelloVanniHere
      @HelloVanniHere Год назад

      @@sunlight8299 not gonna lie you have a really good point with that, i can deffo see how that works
      It's really neat giving things like this some thought ain't it?

  • @jenb6412
    @jenb6412 8 месяцев назад +2

    That surgery one baffles me because it's too specific!!
    I actually woke up briefly during surgery for removing a bone growth, long enough to see the doctor put the thumb sized chunk of bone on the medical tray.

  • @Amy_moon_
    @Amy_moon_ 2 года назад +3

    Just Existing as an INFP is tiring 😭

  • @kiyaleelevyrunaya9495
    @kiyaleelevyrunaya9495 2 года назад +11

    I love getting lost though, it's so peaceful

    • @sarahs.9678
      @sarahs.9678 2 года назад +3

      I have a vivid childhood memory where this one time I got lost on a trip with my mom and her stepmom and her dad and my brother. We were at some state park with lush pine forests, hills and a lake. I was maybe 7 or something. I remember being alone in the woods when it started to rain peacefully and I was just admiring the beauty. I had that feeling that I should probably head to the cars though, cause it might be time to leave soon or eat or something. So I walked toward the cars and shelter area and heard my name being called over a loud speaker. When I got to the shelter my family was there and my mom was hysterical, frantic, grabbed me and was crying and saying “please never do that again”. I was so confused because it had been one of my favorite days and to know it was her worst day still stuns me to this day. She’s and EN/SFJ and big time group person. I’m sure it was hard for her as I was growing up to keep an eye on me and not worry when I felt like wandering off, which was all the time. 😅 One of the things that still sticks out to me today is how she always used to tell me’ “stay with the group” when we went places and I still cringe when I hear those words because I hate staying with a group or doing what everyone else is doing.

  • @Kiwi-wt7wr
    @Kiwi-wt7wr 2 года назад +14

    6:29
    "i fall in love easily"
    "Those blue eyes of yours"
    *Said it inside our head*

  • @travisharnedmusic
    @travisharnedmusic Год назад +9

    You nailed my music taste 😂 I listen to every genre pretty much, including slipknot which you showed 😂 I just love music so much and love how every genre brings something different to the table. I never listen to “happy” or dance type songs tho, I like real authentic emotion in music that I can relate to.

  • @harumimiyazakiii
    @harumimiyazakiii 2 года назад +4

    you know me too well, but I'm glad I get to know myself better now after spending my time with my mind for the whole week just to think "honestly, what kind of person I am? why do I feel like I'm so different with the people around me? aren't we humans are all the same? what is even wrong with me, lol. " then breakdown myself

  • @adriannacostello3873
    @adriannacostello3873 2 года назад +292

    Benjamin, Benjamin, Benjamin - you've done it again! I can relate to everything you say in your videos, and I love how you make me laugh at myself. Yes, I'm an INFP, and I laugh! Is that wrong?

    • @janaangelicacatudan1931
      @janaangelicacatudan1931 2 года назад

      nope, I do too.

    • @mimi1girl2dempsey3
      @mimi1girl2dempsey3 2 года назад

      You laughed?!?!? You should be ashamed!!!!
      Was that helpful?

    • @adriannacostello3873
      @adriannacostello3873 2 года назад +4

      @@mimi1girl2dempsey3 Yes, I laughed. Not only am I feeling a great deal of remorse and regret over this, but I am also abashed, mortified, and humiliated. I've been wringing my hands since I posted that I laughed, and have not been able to sleep since. Never again will I even crack a smile. Actually, if I didn't laugh at things, I'd be in tears a lot more often. However, I will try to limit my laughter as it goes against the dark nature of being an INFP. 😂

    • @mimi1girl2dempsey3
      @mimi1girl2dempsey3 2 года назад +3

      @@adriannacostello3873 Weird observation here since coming to terms with my type. I don't feel so depressed now and always point to the way things are when feeling shame. It's a relief for the moment.Hope it lasts.

    • @nananaa19
      @nananaa19 2 года назад

      I do too 😂

  • @yasminni485
    @yasminni485 2 года назад +19

    I've been confused for a while now whether I'm INFP or INFJ. Now I know for sure.
    This is so me.
    INFPs home alone = literally HEAVEN.
    Also, I really do everything in my head... parties, having friends over, etc. This video was perfect. Thanks for this!

  • @virginielafrench3921
    @virginielafrench3921 Год назад +4

    I'm INFP and had a real big laughing time ! 😂😂😂
    Merci beaucoup

  • @SuraiSumon13579
    @SuraiSumon13579 2 года назад +6

    I've never been so offended by how accurate all of the parts in this video 😭😭😭😭

    • @SuraiSumon13579
      @SuraiSumon13579 2 года назад

      nvm some of these parts isn't accurate for me but oh well its still feels like i got called out

  • @Ropewatch
    @Ropewatch 2 года назад +29

    I don’t like normies and mainstream thinking 🤢 - INFP

    • @tokimisu
      @tokimisu 2 года назад

      REEEEEEEEEEE

  • @geetha9311
    @geetha9311 2 года назад +30

    1:36 how tf did you know
    That's literally how I vent

  • @PistonAvatarGuy
    @PistonAvatarGuy 10 месяцев назад +2

    “The only thing they don’t really care about are themselves.”
    Realizing that you're never going to have anything that you want in life makes this a necessity.

  • @user-ir2ez1vz7v
    @user-ir2ez1vz7v 2 года назад +3

    How is this so accurate, I feel like I'm being watched.😭

  • @suyeonkim7371
    @suyeonkim7371 2 года назад +64

    The summary of the 6 pages essay: Very very thoroughly analyzed! Slightly exaggerated though :) (from anINFP)

    • @QuarkDose
      @QuarkDose 2 года назад +8

      I wanted to answer you, but deleted the comment, but now I won't remove it so you can know. The truth is harsh

    • @hemakshi_4046
      @hemakshi_4046 Год назад +1

      I wrote a para long comment and later deleted it cause dealing with the replies is way to tiring .

  • @Random_ness
    @Random_ness 2 года назад +155

    Benjamin, Benjamin, Benjamin....once again you have exposed us to the world for not being normal. But honestly, you're not wrong about any of it.
    To anyone watching this hoping to better understand the infp in their life, you should notice how many times normal people are "very efficient" and how infps are not. Be patient with us. Things operate in an entirely different way in our worlds.
    Thanks for the fun infp video! (And yes...I always question my comments 🤣)

    • @BenjaminSpicy
      @BenjaminSpicy  2 года назад +23

      Thanks for the comment 😄 I was trying to be a bit sarcastic about "Efficiency" and imply that it's not necessarily the best quality to have 😄 INFPs have plenty more fun qualities 😄

    • @Random_ness
      @Random_ness 2 года назад +21

      @@BenjaminSpicy haha I guess you are right. I hadn't thought about it like that. Efficient means getting from point A to point B as quickly as possible so if life's about the journey and not the destination, then we're basically taking the scenic route. I guess that's not a bad thing (until I get distracted from the dishes to learn Morse code. True story.)

    • @antoinettenovella1630
      @antoinettenovella1630 2 года назад +1

      Your content does not resonate with me for the most part despite being definitively INFP. Possibly because I practice getting out of my comfort zone every single day.

    • @Random_ness
      @Random_ness 2 года назад +4

      @@antoinettenovella1630 I'm quite content in my hermit lifestyle so I relate 😂 Just curious...is there an extrovert in your life (like a parent, sibling or partner) who helps you get out of your comfort zone?

    • @antoinettenovella1630
      @antoinettenovella1630 2 года назад +3

      @@Random_ness The females in my life are extroverts, the males introverts so yes :) How about you?

  • @Darkstar2425
    @Darkstar2425 2 года назад +8

    The bit about reading a book made me LOL so hard. Literally me anytime I try to read. In my head "Did you read that right? Go back and read it again just to make sure" Does this 3 times then proceeds to question if I understood it right and then reads the sentence repeatedly some more before giving up entirely.

  • @kambengbiru9866
    @kambengbiru9866 Год назад +2

    it's just too overwhelmed for me... knowing that someone can understand me not as much as how peoples around me does...

  • @puripurimimi2803
    @puripurimimi2803 2 года назад +9

    0:50 I feel attacked because is true

  • @ayecandy_
    @ayecandy_ 2 года назад +11

    im an infp and im obsessed with the sky 👁👄👁

  • @MyAznMuzik
    @MyAznMuzik 9 месяцев назад +3

    I have never felt called out soo much in my life LMAO. This was wayyy too accurate

  • @theladymorgana8657
    @theladymorgana8657 2 года назад +4

    That's the most relatable thing I've watched in my entire life 😂😂

  • @plutomerrice7439
    @plutomerrice7439 2 года назад +33

    I feel so attacked right now😂

  • @jerichoj1540
    @jerichoj1540 2 года назад +32

    It’s really crazy how accurate this video is. Absolutely MINDBLOWN!

  • @tannieshop
    @tannieshop 10 месяцев назад +4

    I've never felt so attacked and so seen at the same time

  • @kittybunnyfluffle
    @kittybunnyfluffle 10 месяцев назад +3

    I've only recently gotten into this whole 16 personalities type because my sister told me about it and guessed what mine is and I got curious and wanted to know how people perceive me (as compared to how I see myself).. so turns out I'm an INFP, and I'm not alone in the way that I am... I always just thought I'm the only one like this because I've never met someone like me... but then again, I don't really go out and socialize. lol
    so I've been watching a lot of these videos about INFPs and some of them weren't really even close to the way I am.. but this one, this one is 99. 9% me!! the missing 0.1% is about the reading a book part.. I don't keep reading the sentences over and over because I don't understand it, I read it over and over because I need to feel every word and every emotion before I move to the next one. I need to be able to picture the scene in my head as if it's really happening irl. lol
    and the comment thing, yes. I very very rarely comment but when I do, as you can see.. it becomes a story. 😅 I'm sorry.. just wanted to say out of all the videos I've watched, this is the most accurate for me so far. And I'm kind of relieved there are other people out there like me...but at the same time, feel bad because it's hard to be this way... hang in there, fellow INFP! ❤

  • @raygunbobcat
    @raygunbobcat 2 года назад +6

    “They are too gentle, they are too scared, even to click rude dialogue option because they don’t want to hurt NPC’s feelings” I can’t stop laughing at this whole videooooo 😭 it’s easier to fight then hurt their feelings sometimes omggg

  • @NoopyP
    @NoopyP 2 года назад +15

    The re-reading things a lot is SO DAMN relatable

  • @ahmadmanga
    @ahmadmanga 2 года назад +2

    "What Car?"
    This had me laughing... True on so many levels. It's him that broke down, there was never a Car!

  • @Persivefire
    @Persivefire 2 года назад +2

    I need videos like these to keep me from losing myself (still working on a fix for that), thank you for making this

  • @seamate7758
    @seamate7758 2 года назад +10

    The talkshow part really got me. Last night I spoke to my mirror as if I was giving an interview about my life.

  • @Kaokie-49
    @Kaokie-49 2 года назад +6

    I can agree on 4:51
    I did 3 mistakes when people are behind me *simply walking*

  • @Kelly-vu8ns
    @Kelly-vu8ns 2 года назад +4

    Nooo it's too accurate 7:28 at this moment someone's really calling me and yeah i just stare at the caller id cuz I'm in the middle of watching this video nope no one disturb me rn 😭😭

  • @aera4786
    @aera4786 2 года назад +3

    Watching this video feels very personal in a very high level. I got goosebumps at how accurate these are.

  • @pr_dnce
    @pr_dnce 2 года назад +8

    5:40
    I’ve never been so seen😭 then- “luckily, they still can breath…”

  • @hannah-fu9tb
    @hannah-fu9tb 2 года назад +5

    8:36 this is too accurate it's scary

  • @miraepnd4196
    @miraepnd4196 2 года назад +14

    i’m having doubts as an intp (and an overthinker), because i can relate to some of these things especially the
    “infps would rather write an entire universe scenario where they are celebrities on a talk show dramatically explaining what they’re going through” 🤣

  • @davidb4516
    @davidb4516 Год назад +2

    We’re walking contractions, we’re in a healthy, toxic relationship with ourselves