I've been listening to this song and blue October since about 2008. Justin has came a long ways. I still love the dark stuff but his new stuff is awesome. It's like a journey. I just gotta get to the good. I'm trying but been on opiates for 20 yrs. Shooting heroin for six. I'm so alone. But not giving up
I wish I would have found Blue October so much soon. Maybe I would not be hurting this much at 50.. odd years old. I am still here so he has helped me. I do happy that he is finally finding the peace that is so well deserved for him. GOD BLESS.
This one of the first songs, and video I experienced by Blue October, I felt a kindred spirit with Justin from the very beginning. since then it almost seems as each album was released it spoke to where I was at that particular time. Thanks Justin and the rest of the band.
no matter how hard i try i keep returning to this song its both my favoirt and one that makes me cry over my memorys and i always come back and listen to it every time im sad
still rewatching it idc what others say I love this video and song i listen to it every time as i said and still do because it really is how i feel often
there can be people all around who are willing to help...... but the only one who can make the pain go away doesnt talk to you... it doesnt matter how many people you try to reach out to... the one that makes things better is not there and you find yourself feeling alone all the time...
the one that makes the pain go away is yourself... because you are strong and you dont need someone else to make you feel better because you are the strongest person there is and if you believe enough even at the bottom at the pit, you will be raised and shine like a star! just be patient and fight your demons with the sword your hopes and dreams forge using the core of your heart!
+Vallexohfood: This is true, sometimes. Yes, each of us has the power to soothe our hurts, to right a wrong, to forgive an injustice. But even the strongest person in the world needs a friend at times. Life can be a scary thing to endure alone. All of us, each and every one can maneuver the road of life, but we can also become lost without a map to guide us through the rough spots. The human heart is a strong, resilient part of us, but it can also be hurt. There are times when we all need the touch of another human being, another heart to help heal the hurt and put the pieces back together. It has often been said that Love is the most powerful of all the emotions. That power can generate soaring ecstasy and unconditional love for another. But it can also cause a heart to break and shatter from loss or betrayal. Our hearts are strong as they are the seat of our emotions. But for all of their strength, they can be hurt. 💔
I love all of Blue October's songs, Justin is a lyrical genius and his passion and pain that he shows in all of his songs take my breath away.. How I'm feeling right now, and everything that I won't say, is this song.
if feelings could speak, they'd sound like justin. his voice creeps into my heart even if im playing his music as background while studying. much much love from Kuwait!
I can't say how much I love them & and I'm so excited to hear them live next tuesday!! ♥ ..The songs are giving me a shiver, every time I listen to them...
the best advice i ever got was, "no matter how bad you have it, there is someone out there who has it a little bit worse than you". Words to live and grow by! It sure helps during tough times!!
The first time I saw this video was in November or December of 2007 when I was 15 and going through a lot of stuff. I still come back here periodically to listen to this.
I'm not a video kinda person but with these pictures and this enchanting sad song you kept me glued to the screen just waiting to see what comes next. Nobody should feel so incredibly sad but then again it shows that one is truly capable of love - a gift not everybody is lucky to have. Thank you to show me that we all feel this way sometime and that we are not alone in this....
For every thought I have ever had of suicide, I have a million more of six wonderful reasons to keep on living. To everyone that is struggling, hoping or just coping...don't give in.
Every problem has a solution, a way to fix what is broken, a way out of the dark mist we call heartache. But whatever the problem, no matter how badly you hurt or how severely you have been used or betrayed, please DON'T take the suicide option. Most all of us have been hurt, rejected, betrayed, used or abused at some point in our lives, many of us more than once. There is always that initial blackness of loss; that cold, dank, clammy, thick fog of remorse; and the utter hopeless sense of dejection which follows any tragic, painful loss, regardless of the cause. From the highest cloudtops you suddenly find yourself in the deepest, darkest dungeon of your heart, and all seems lost and hopeless. Eventually, however, you begin to see that dim, faraway, barely-perceptable light way above you. From that dim spark grows a new hope, a slight warming feeling just enough to clear the fog a little, allowing to see a way to escape the prison inside yourself and emerge once again. Like the butterfly emerging from its chrysalis we emerge to live life anew. Our hurts leave scars and reminders of what was. But don't fear those scars. They help define who we are, where we've been, and remind us that we CAN move away from our pain. They are also a reminder that our past pains will always be with us, but they will also help us to become stronger than the pain. Our scars help us to find our starting point once again, showing us that more life lies ahead if we only release the fear and have the courage to move forward. Don't look back; tear off that rear-view mirror and look ahead! That's where your life awaits. There is always a way out, a way to climb up, a way to escape your personal prison, if you muster up the courage to do so. Suicide really isn't an option; it is the easy way out. Fighting for your very soul isn't easy, but in the end, it is worth every erg of energy you have expended to save it! We have been given our lives to LIVE, not to throw them away! No one ever said life is easy, and it isn't; but it is worth living. It is worth living just to wake up every morning to the beautiful sound of songbirds; watching the sun rise in all its majestic glory; gazing upward to watch clouds, like cotton, drift lazily across the sky; hear the rustling of leaves as the breeze gently wafts through them. (Sorry, I tend to wax poetic about such things sometimes!) Because in the end, suicide solves nothing; it fixes nothing; it prevents nothing. Instead of solving problems, it makes them worse by spreading the heartache to those who love you and who care about you. There is always someone out there -- a friend, a family member, a minister, a co-worker, a neighbor -- someone who is willing to help if we only ask. We are never, none of us, ever truly alone. Please, choose life -- because suicide is nothing more than a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
Great video. Great band. Everything you showed us is how we all have felt. I'm happy to say I'm still here though. And I'm happy to see all of you are as well!
@ mikkii sanderson job well done with the video. also gives a look in2 the taste u have in music which is quite amazing. i recognized everything.. its sad that ne1 has ever felt this way. glad that ur still here 2 tell of it. uve unknowingly touched some1 else's life in a beautiful way!!
This is my life song it's helped me to stay alive when I have seen no reasons for my life no reasons to go on living with all the shit I have had to deal with and still have too I want to thank the person who did video and the band
+AndreasSheiLT: NO! This video was made by someone whose heart was utterly broken and who thinks there is nowhere left to turn. This person cries out for help, but no one is there to hear or listen.
Sometimes you can feel lonely with people near you too. The wounds from the past are so deep they can not heal, so even having someone you can talk to may not help. I know it myself. It's hard to go on each day, but there are people who need me and I need to be here for them. I love my mom and my best friend G. Thank you for keeping me alive.
This Song Calms Me Down So Much... When I'm Sad It Makes Me Feel Like The World Isn't Going To End, And When I'm Angry It Stops Me Hurting Someone, Or Myself. It's So Amazing And It Has It's Own Simple Message That Chages With Each Time You Listen To It... Wow. I Love This Song. Lol x
i've watched this a million times and i always favorite it *sniffles* its such an aswome song it describes me perfectly. I love this song i can never get tired of hearing this song I Love It
i can relate to so many of yur songs thank yu ur music is amazin actully saved me frum most of my sucide moments and i just wanted to say thank you for yur music mane... Tony
The picture that says "You think I'm tough, but... I just never let you see me cry" I think that applys to me, because I hide behind my happiness. I don't let people see the real pain from the past.
That song always brings tears to my eyes, and the video, too. Some of those quotes really get to me. "u ever get that feeling? When u want to lay down and DIE?" That has happened to me more than once, and the shame you feel later on for thinking like that really doesn't help.
I can relate this song to many things. Like a loss of innocence and I can relate it personally through school. Some of my teachers don't care at all especially what happens through class. Also, gives another reason why everyone should be equal. I mean think of what another person is going through before they are judged.
the last part of the song made me cry. its just so beautiful. i love blue october so much! blue october will always be a part of me and i will NEVER forget them. theyve been my favorite band since i was 10. there songs always make my day cuz ive always been kind of depressed. every single word in this song is so meaningful!! best band in the world!
These guys really know how to make people cry... and if this is their music without drugs, then I say bravo. Almost all of their songs are enough to break down the strongest person. And this video... Why is it that I enjoy things that bring me to tears?
This Band Has Honestly Helped Me Through So Much...I Mean Relationships, Depression, Self Loathing...God They've Help Me Find Myself...Im A Much Better Person Because Of Them
I know people are always posting comments about how certain songs fit them but i have to say, this one truly does fit me. I loved him so much, still do and it will never be enough for him. Why cant I give up? This is for you CEF
this song speaks so much about me and to me, it reminds me of the pain of a heartbreak, it reminds me of how my ex that caused this pain truly treated me when she left me, and in all, I know that so many may feel the same, and yet so many hide the pain when they could use the love of another heartbroken person, and it still makes me tear-up and hurt that people hurt like this every day
nicely done..i see so many troubled teens and lost loves and souls.. in this vid.. you did this perfectly...we all have our "demons" and if willing-- will survive!!! just remember.. hope, faith, and this too shall pass.. Great song!!!
This is the best video ever!!! I always loved the way it was just like my real emotional life... The saddest.. but still so monotonous... that it just feels nice to listen to :]
Havent we all felt this way? If even only for a moment......or sadly much longer............... Beautiful Art of True Hopelessness..............if you have never felt it, I wish you never do.
Rest in Peace my love, Mark. 7/1/2010. I shared this song with my baby in March of this year, made his day. Listened to it almost everyday feeling on top of the world with him until the very day he passed. I then went through the last months in a deep depression. The pain was unbearable so I whistled for a cab and when it came near the Licensplate said fresh and had a dice in the mirror. If anything I could say that this cab was rare But I thought now forget it, yo home to bel-air!
When I saw Blue last night Justin played this song solo. So moving and emotional he shed a couple tears. But they put on an amazing show. Best band to see live hands down.
thank you so much for posting this great and awesome vid! i can identify myself with it because just yesterday and even the days befor i cryed so many tears for my boyfriend. and it´s true, if tears made pretty, i would be the prettiest girl. i saved it to my favourites and i´ll show it my sister, i´m sure she will like it as much as i do! *big hug*
I'm very surprised that this video does not have any comments scrutinizing the band or the people listening to it. Usually this is what I see; and instead, I see people who hardly know each other being kind. Maybe I'm over-analyzing it, but this is very touching to me. Seeing everyone just help each other out, even if it is from across the world, it's nice. I just want to thank you guys for being like everyone should be.
lucky for her she moved in with her aunt and uncle and they take great care of her. i cried with relief cuz its all getting better for her. It hurts for her to be so far away but shes happy
I connect with so many of the songs by blue october. I'm bipolar, and the music. the emotion that justin puts into everything. just has such a good meaning
Don't think anyone can watch this and not think back to a time when they felt like this. for me it reminds me that I got to close to the edge, never again I hope. thank you mother
Completely agreed. Love yourself before you love others kind of thing. "Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end." Let love come to you. (:
I saw them just this last Tuesday night and he did the same thing...it is so relevant to my life...the performance was so moving I almost cried!!! I am SO glad I went...it was one of the best live shows I have ever seen...and the fact that they are using Suicide Prevention as their "Theme" for this Road Trip is just so very cool!!!! Justin is awesome!!!!!
If it hurts so much.. is that how we know that it's real? Loving a person and caring for her too much is a curse and a flaw that I cannot change.. It just hurts so much, this song speaks to me on so many levels..
One thing I always tell myself is yes,there is hope at the end of the tunnel keep going,even if it is a small flickering light,it's still worth the fight. KEEP GOING, there are those out there who can't understand what it's like to always feel the weight of de
thank u alot for ur words and the thought of signin just for me... that is very cute from u.. ur rite u know todsay i woke up wit ur words on my mind.. u made my entire 2009 ;p thank u soo much again.. hope u have a great life!!!
Alwas appreciate that you have people to love you, even if the one you thought loved you the most turned on you and broke your heart, just remember that you have people to help you thorough the pain and hurt
people hide their feelings knowing that those people who said " im there for you" are really not going to be there and they will never actully understand..
Ember, thanks the quote is my own... and people feel pain it is life, without pain we would never know love, or happiness. You have to take the good with the bad
"But maybe life's not for everyone" I love that line. It's such a good statement and idea.
TheEffinity I know what u mean. I've had anorexia for 18 years and blue October has helped me💝
I've been listening to this song and blue October since about 2008. Justin has came a long ways. I still love the dark stuff but his new stuff is awesome. It's like a journey. I just gotta get to the good. I'm trying but been on opiates for 20 yrs. Shooting heroin for six. I'm so alone. But not giving up
@@LOreveals2U hope you’re doing better ❤
I wish I would have found Blue October so much soon. Maybe I would not be hurting this much at 50.. odd years old. I am still here so he has helped me. I do happy that he is finally finding the peace that is so well deserved for him. GOD BLESS.
I understand your sentiment about not hearing a band earlier in your life. I have a couple bands like that. All you can do is love them now.
This one of the first songs, and video I experienced by Blue October, I felt a kindred spirit with Justin from the very beginning. since then it almost seems as each album was released it spoke to where I was at that particular time. Thanks Justin and the rest of the band.
no matter how hard i try i keep returning to this song its both my favoirt and one that makes me cry over my memorys and i always come back and listen to it every time im sad
+bloom winx you're hurting yourself..its like picking at a healing scab.
been listening to this for years, for the same reason
+Waldo Chavez
Wrong. Music is therapy. :)
still rewatching it idc what others say I love this video and song i listen to it every time as i said and still do because it really is how i feel often
there can be people all around who are willing to help...... but the only one who can make the pain go away doesnt talk to you... it doesnt matter how many people you try to reach out to... the one that makes things better is not there and you find yourself feeling alone all the time...
Truth, man, truth.
the one that makes the pain go away is yourself... because you are strong and you dont need someone else to make you feel better because you are the strongest person there is and if you believe enough even at the bottom at the pit, you will be raised and shine like a star! just be patient and fight your demons with the sword your hopes and dreams forge using the core of your heart!
+Vallexohfood: This is true, sometimes. Yes, each of us has the power to soothe our hurts, to right a wrong, to forgive an injustice. But even the strongest person in the world needs a friend at times. Life can be a scary thing to endure alone. All of us, each and every one can maneuver the road of life, but we can also become lost without a map to guide us through the rough spots.
The human heart is a strong, resilient part of us, but it can also be hurt. There are times when we all need the touch of another human being, another heart to help heal the hurt and put the pieces back together.
It has often been said that Love is the most powerful of all the emotions. That power can generate soaring ecstasy and unconditional love for another. But it can also cause a heart to break and shatter from loss or betrayal.
Our hearts are strong as they are the seat of our emotions. But for all of their strength, they can be hurt. 💔
I love all of Blue October's songs, Justin is a lyrical genius and his passion and pain that he shows in all of his songs take my breath away.. How I'm feeling right now, and everything that I won't say, is this song.
if feelings could speak, they'd sound like justin. his voice creeps into my heart even if im playing his music as background while studying. much much love from Kuwait!
+Fajer Dashti
glad to see people around the world embracing this band! The emotion in his songs are amazing. Very reaching
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I have never heard this song before today. It's amazingly beautiful and it seems that the icons really do go well with the lyrics. Good Job!!!!
blue October is my personal therapist
i love them with all my heart! they make me cry whenever i hear their songs
Fuck these pictures are annoying
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I can't say how much I love them & and I'm so excited to hear them live next tuesday!! ♥ ..The songs are giving me a shiver, every time I listen to them...
Because my name is Orchid. I have gone through some shit. And this song describes alot
the best advice i ever got was, "no matter how bad you have it, there is someone out there who has it a little bit worse than you". Words to live and grow by! It sure helps during tough times!!
all the sad people out there.... they need love.... that others can't provide... :'(
The first time I saw this video was in November or December of 2007 when I was 15 and going through a lot of stuff. I still come back here periodically to listen to this.
to the one that was suppose to love me the most
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I'm not a video kinda person but with these pictures and this enchanting sad song you kept me glued to the screen just waiting to see what comes next. Nobody should feel so incredibly sad but then again it shows that one is truly capable of love - a gift not everybody is lucky to have. Thank you to show me that we all feel this way sometime and that we are not alone in this....
For every thought I have ever had of suicide, I have a million more of six wonderful reasons to keep on living. To everyone that is struggling, hoping or just coping...don't give in.
I tried and successfully failed. What r your 7?
Every problem has a solution, a way to fix what is broken, a way out of the dark mist we call heartache. But whatever the problem, no matter how badly you hurt or how severely you have been used or betrayed, please DON'T take the suicide option.
Most all of us have been hurt, rejected, betrayed, used or abused at some point in our lives, many of us more than once. There is always that initial blackness of loss; that cold, dank, clammy, thick fog of remorse; and the utter hopeless sense of dejection which follows any tragic, painful loss, regardless of the cause. From the highest cloudtops you suddenly find yourself in the deepest, darkest dungeon of your heart, and all seems lost and hopeless. Eventually, however, you begin to see that dim, faraway, barely-perceptable light way above you. From that dim spark grows a new hope, a slight warming feeling just enough to clear the fog a little, allowing to see a way to escape the prison inside yourself and emerge once again. Like the butterfly emerging from its chrysalis we emerge to live life anew.
Our hurts leave scars and reminders of what was. But don't fear those scars. They help define who we are, where we've been, and remind us that we CAN move away from our pain. They are also a reminder that our past pains will always be with us, but they will also help us to become stronger than the pain. Our scars help us to find our starting point once again, showing us that more life lies ahead if we only release the fear and have the courage to move forward. Don't look back; tear off that rear-view mirror and look ahead! That's where your life awaits.
There is always a way out, a way to climb up, a way to escape your personal prison, if you muster up the courage to do so. Suicide really isn't an option; it is the easy way out. Fighting for your very soul isn't easy, but in the end, it is worth every erg of energy you have expended to save it!
We have been given our lives to LIVE, not to throw them away! No one ever said life is easy, and it isn't; but it is worth living. It is worth living just to wake up every morning to the beautiful sound of songbirds; watching the sun rise in all its majestic glory; gazing upward to watch clouds, like cotton, drift lazily across the sky; hear the rustling of leaves as the breeze gently wafts through them. (Sorry, I tend to wax poetic about such things sometimes!)
Because in the end, suicide solves nothing; it fixes nothing; it prevents nothing. Instead of solving problems, it makes them worse by spreading the heartache to those who love you and who care about you. There is always someone out there -- a friend, a family member, a minister, a co-worker, a neighbor -- someone who is willing to help if we only ask. We are never, none of us, ever truly alone.
Please, choose life -- because suicide is nothing more than a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
Captain Skywarn that was beautiful.. life has colours💙
Great video. Great band. Everything you showed us is how we all have felt. I'm happy to say I'm still here though. And I'm happy to see all of you are as well!
Welcome to a war vets mind. I don't know how he did it.
These types of videos with GREAT QUALITY is a great find and keep
Life's not for everyone.....
Nope
@ mikkii sanderson job well done with the video. also gives a look in2 the taste u have in music which is quite amazing. i recognized everything.. its sad that ne1 has ever felt this way. glad that ur still here 2 tell of it. uve unknowingly touched some1 else's life in a beautiful way!!
Love is The Slowest form of Suicide .. Hha !
This is my life song it's helped me to stay alive when I have seen no reasons for my life no reasons to go on living with all the shit I have had to deal with and still have too I want to thank the person who did video and the band
2005 internet once again
i love icon vids like this! blue october is the best! thnx a lot for making this. rly summed up how i'm feeling
Did a 12 yr old make this video?
+AndreasSheiLT probably
these are all the rage 10 years ago. (icon videos)
AndreasSheiLT no! Someone who has a heart biotch!
+AndreasSheiLT: NO! This video was made by someone whose heart was utterly broken and who thinks there is nowhere left to turn. This person cries out for help, but no one is there to hear or listen.
This is an amazing collection of icons that fit perfectly with the song. It speaks to what most of us have felt at one time or another.
great song, not so great video.
YouR NoT So gREAt VIdeO
fiberrabit i am not a video but human. .......... are you ????????????
i sexually identify as a video
@@fiberrabit8229 you need therapy 💝
Once again this ong is great, He knows how to sing with meaning behing the voice. The song is so very true!
Thanks for the great music.
Sometimes you can feel lonely with people near you too. The wounds from the past are so deep they can not heal, so even having someone you can talk to may not help. I know it myself. It's hard to go on each day, but there are people who need me and I need to be here for them. I love my mom and my best friend G. Thank you for keeping me alive.
I love this song n Blue October there songs make me feel like there are ppl tht understand me in this world
Every single part of this song is just awesome!...
This Song Calms Me Down So Much... When I'm Sad It Makes Me Feel Like The World Isn't Going To End, And When I'm Angry It Stops Me Hurting Someone, Or Myself. It's So Amazing And It Has It's Own Simple Message That Chages With Each Time You Listen To It... Wow. I Love This Song. Lol x
Of all the emotions, love is the most powerful... and the most painful.
This song actually helps me through the day sometimes.. T.T
i've watched this a million times and i always favorite it
*sniffles*
its such an aswome song
it describes me perfectly. I love this song
i can never get tired of hearing this song
I Love It
i can relate to so many of yur songs thank yu ur music is amazin actully saved me frum most of my sucide moments and i just wanted to say thank you for yur music mane...
Tony
The picture that says "You think I'm tough, but... I just never let you see me cry" I think that applys to me, because I hide behind my happiness. I don't let people see the real pain from the past.
In this moment I'm crying... it feels like the story of my life...
love the song. Love Blue October. The lyrics are so real and deep...
That song always brings tears to my eyes, and the video, too. Some of those quotes really get to me. "u ever get that feeling? When u want to lay down and DIE?" That has happened to me more than once, and the shame you feel later on for thinking like that really doesn't help.
I can relate this song to many things. Like a loss of innocence and I can relate it personally through school. Some of my teachers don't care at all especially what happens through class. Also, gives another reason why everyone should be equal. I mean think of what another person is going through before they are judged.
the last part of the song made me cry. its just so beautiful. i love blue october so much! blue october will always be a part of me and i will NEVER forget them. theyve been my favorite band since i was 10. there songs always make my day cuz ive always been kind of depressed. every single word in this song is so meaningful!! best band in the world!
A touching song and video. Thank you for this.
These guys really know how to make people cry... and if this is their music without drugs, then I say bravo. Almost all of their songs are enough to break down the strongest person. And this video... Why is it that I enjoy things that bring me to tears?
love this song...used to listen to it alott when I feelt verry depressed last year.
This Band Has Honestly Helped Me Through So Much...I Mean Relationships, Depression, Self Loathing...God They've Help Me Find Myself...Im A Much Better Person Because Of Them
SAD!! I can relate!! Love the pics...& ofcourse the song!! Great Vid...Thanx for sharing!!
This is song is beautiful. And I loved the slideshow/vid you made for it.
10/5
I know people are always posting comments about how certain songs fit them but i have to say, this one truly does fit me. I loved him so much, still do and it will never be enough for him. Why cant I give up? This is for you CEF
This song... It's just soo powerful... It's been with me through a lot...
i love the pics they descirbe how i feel all the time !
I love this band and it relates to people who have been threw many hardships personly i find lots of their songs really hit the heart
anyone else?
this song speaks so much about me and to me, it reminds me of the pain of a heartbreak, it reminds me of how my ex that caused this pain truly treated me when she left me, and in all, I know that so many may feel the same, and yet so many hide the pain when they could use the love of another heartbroken person, and it still makes me tear-up and hurt that people hurt like this every day
this song means alot to me. if you really dislike it, stop listening. thank you for making the video.
beautiful... simply beautiful!! good job!
what a beautiful melody at the end of it!
nicely done..i see so many troubled teens and lost loves and souls.. in this vid.. you did this perfectly...we all have our "demons" and if willing-- will survive!!! just remember.. hope,
faith, and this too shall pass..
Great song!!!
Hell yes! This tortured soul is the most underrated artist alive!!! He is a lyrical genius with over 700 songs written! ALL from his heart and soul!
Great!!!This video is really moving...
Well Done!!!You touched my heart...
This is the best video ever!!! I always loved the way it was just like my real emotional life... The saddest.. but still so monotonous... that it just feels nice to listen to :]
One more post...my daughter and I are def going to Chicago to see them live in April!!! We are both soooo damn excited!!!
absolutely beautiful
Havent we all felt this way? If even only for a moment......or sadly much longer............... Beautiful Art of True Hopelessness..............if you have never felt it, I wish you never do.
Rest in Peace my love, Mark. 7/1/2010. I shared this song with my baby in March of this year, made his day. Listened to it almost everyday feeling on top of the world with him until the very day he passed. I then went through the last months in a deep depression. The pain was unbearable so I whistled for a cab and when it came near the Licensplate said fresh and had a dice in the mirror. If anything I could say that this cab was rare
But I thought now forget it, yo home to bel-air!
beautiful song
i can relate to it so much that it send chills to me
I miss her so much. A year ago she saved my life, and now I'm completely lost without her..
can't stop loving this song.
Love this song and love your edits. To it looks great made me think alot
When I saw Blue last night Justin played this song solo. So moving and emotional he shed a couple tears. But they put on an amazing show. Best band to see live hands down.
Blue October are touring England again in October Yippeeee !! Can't Wait..
i love this song...it helped me through many times!!
Final 10 secs of this video gives me the chills.
Love this song and great video
@blazinxfire That is a very nice saying that people should really live by. I thank you for sharing that with me and many others.
Sad song buts is nice easy listening....like 18th Floor Balcony. Thanks for posting.
Great concept - very sad and indicative of the song, and the feelings of the writer of the song. Excellent work MikkiiLea!
thank you so much for posting this great and awesome vid! i can identify myself with it because just yesterday and even the days befor i cryed so many tears for my boyfriend. and it´s true, if tears made pretty, i would be the prettiest girl.
i saved it to my favourites and i´ll show it my sister, i´m sure she will like it as much as i do!
*big hug*
OMG!! can't stop listening to it
I'm very surprised that this video does not have any comments scrutinizing the band or the people listening to it. Usually this is what I see; and instead, I see people who hardly know each other being kind. Maybe I'm over-analyzing it, but this is very touching to me.
Seeing everyone just help each other out, even if it is from across the world, it's nice.
I just want to thank you guys for being like everyone should be.
lucky for her she moved in with her aunt and uncle and they take great care of her. i cried with relief cuz its all getting better for her. It hurts for her to be so far away but shes happy
I connect with so many of the songs by blue october. I'm bipolar, and the music. the emotion that justin puts into everything. just has such a good meaning
Don't think anyone can watch this and not think back to a time when they felt like this. for me it reminds me that I got to close to the edge, never again I hope. thank you mother
;;;;love love Justin's voice & this aong!
Completely agreed.
Love yourself before you love others kind of thing.
"Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end."
Let love come to you. (:
I saw them just this last Tuesday night and he did the same thing...it is so relevant to my life...the performance was so moving I almost cried!!!
I am SO glad I went...it was one of the best live shows I have ever seen...and the fact that they are using Suicide Prevention as their "Theme" for this Road Trip is just so very cool!!!! Justin is awesome!!!!!
If it hurts so much.. is that how we know that it's real? Loving a person and caring for her too much is a curse and a flaw that I cannot change.. It just hurts so much, this song speaks to me on so many levels..
i love the video and the song
its just so awsome
I really like the way you have expressed this song. You are a very talented artist. :)
One thing I always tell myself is yes,there is hope at the end of the tunnel keep going,even if it is a small flickering light,it's still worth the fight. KEEP GOING, there are those out there who can't understand what it's like to always feel the weight of de
thank u alot for ur words and the thought of signin just for me... that is very cute from u.. ur rite u know todsay i woke up wit ur words on my mind.. u made my entire 2009 ;p thank u soo much again.. hope u have a great life!!!
glad that at least someone documented what i felt everyday here
Alwas appreciate that you have people to love you, even if the one you thought loved you the most turned on you and broke your heart, just remember that you have people to help you thorough the pain and hurt
people hide their feelings knowing that those people who said " im there for you" are really not going to be there and they will never actully understand..
this song reminds me of my siste because she introduced me to blue october and this song. i love this song so much its so amazing
nice it is the second video what you do and it has been my favorite. i like your picture and it's title. thx!
I really love the pictures
Ember, thanks the quote is my own... and people feel pain it is life, without pain we would never know love, or happiness. You have to take the good with the bad