It’s actually pretty easy to be self-disciplined (if you stop getting distracted)

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  • Опубликовано: 27 май 2024
  • Self-discipline comes from clarity, not force. It's not difficult for a writer to get up early to write. It's not difficult for a bodybuilder to eat healthy. It's become a part of their identity. They just do it.
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    5:24 Discipline Comes From Clarity, Not Force
    8:57 Removing Distractions
    9:47 Life As A Game
    12:46 Reinventing Yourself
    14:34 An Unconventional Path To Becoming Self-Confident
    16:54 Deconstruct Your Goals
    17:32 Start A Business
    20:47 Write In Public
    22:31 Make New Friends
    24:37 Publish Your Work
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Комментарии • 264

  • @XandersHub
    @XandersHub 10 дней назад +52

    1. visualise what you want to become.
    2. Learn skills to become that version of yourself.
    3. Put into action what you have learnt.

  • @AlishaAFoster
    @AlishaAFoster 16 дней назад +72

    self discipline is the byproduct of knowing what you want and accepting nothing less from yourself.

  • @questinpodcast
    @questinpodcast 16 дней назад +102

    “They don’t know what you know”
    Good wisdom to understand why some people won’t support your efforts

    • @diabeatit5189
      @diabeatit5189 5 дней назад

      And going a step further, if they did, they'd still find a way to strike it down. That's why its so important to not need anyone to understand us. When I reached that level, I can't even tell you the mental freedom.

  • @FromTh1sDayForward
    @FromTh1sDayForward 15 дней назад +23

    You are on an entirely different level with your guidance.

  • @WildCornovii
    @WildCornovii 16 дней назад +92

    You describe me. A million goals to focus on. Never achieving any. Spread too thinly.

    • @sejwalvishu
      @sejwalvishu 16 дней назад +10

      Same bro same! So many ideas so less execution. Plus ADHD

    • @debayandasgupta488
      @debayandasgupta488 15 дней назад +10

      @@sejwalvishu don't stigmatise yourself this way, you can dismantle this identity. All the best.

    • @delusionalpath
      @delusionalpath 15 дней назад +5

      Start habit tracking and prioritize the most important habits

    • @Bsurfing
      @Bsurfing 13 дней назад +1

      Find someone who can help you automate some of the tasks, work on this first.

    • @KatJaguar1122
      @KatJaguar1122 7 дней назад +1

      In part that is due to being highly creative. So don’t view it negatively.
      Just empower yourself to get things done in whatever way works.

  • @meherzadirani3889
    @meherzadirani3889 15 дней назад +23

    My Understanding from this Video:
    - Many people struggle to focus on their big goals due to distractions and external influences.
    - Parents and society often dictate what people should care about and pursue, which may not align with personal goals.
    - Overcoming distractions and achieving goals requires self-discipline, which comes from clarity and knowing what you want.
    - Self-discipline involves saying no to distractions and maintaining a clear vision for the future.
    - To achieve self-discipline, one must remove distractions, view life as a game with challenges and goals, and reinvent oneself by changing behavior and identity.
    - Confidence comes from pushing beyond limits, failing, and learning from those failures.
    - Starting a business, writing in public, and making new friends are key steps to building self-confidence and achieving goals.
    - Publishing work and exposing oneself to criticism and feedback is crucial for improvement and building confidence.
    - Confidence is a journey of continuous improvement and self-discovery, requiring dedication and a willingness to face challenges.

    • @user-kn1vp8vo3k
      @user-kn1vp8vo3k 8 дней назад

      Dam my brotha this is hit right here man appreciate the wisdom my man✊ you got the right mindset fasho

    • @bramlilipory4116
      @bramlilipory4116 6 дней назад

      Excellent work. Thank you

  • @Fillup82
    @Fillup82 16 дней назад +119

    Discipline is freedom.

    • @chronos5457
      @chronos5457 16 дней назад

      Is your name Fillup?

    • @badawg3383
      @badawg3383 16 дней назад +9

      Undisciplined one is slave to his moods🗿

    • @stepbro1992
      @stepbro1992 15 дней назад

      Discipline is the illusion of freedom

    • @rogue_luko
      @rogue_luko 14 дней назад +2

      Hi Jocko😂

    • @sarilsrivastava181
      @sarilsrivastava181 14 дней назад

      Self discipline is freedom

  • @rajbala6010
    @rajbala6010 16 дней назад +12

    Contrary to the notion that the mind craves order, it is, in fact, inherently chaotic. The mind operates by diverging into multiple directions, enticing distractions, and perpetually scanning the environment for threats and pleasures. Attempting to sit still without thought proves difficult, regardless of the meditation technique employed. Nevertheless, achieving success in any domain necessitates understanding one’s mind and imposing a degree of order upon it. This task becomes particularly challenging in our modern age, where myriad distractions constantly vie for our attention.

    • @Vilify3d
      @Vilify3d 15 дней назад

      The only comment that matters.

    • @homelessmillionaire1
      @homelessmillionaire1 6 дней назад

      Excellent comment

    • @billpavlou9467
      @billpavlou9467 5 дней назад

      You have knowledge you can use my friend 👌 You have a problem to solve, solve it then teach it .

    • @rajbala6010
      @rajbala6010 5 дней назад

      @@billpavlou9467 I probably should. Lol. Thanks for your reply.

  • @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU
    @APOLLINAIREBARTHOLOMIEU 11 дней назад +159

    Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

    • @IkamiLog
      @IkamiLog 11 дней назад +2

      Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!

    • @Jennifer-bw7ku
      @Jennifer-bw7ku 11 дней назад +1

      Yes, dr.sporessss I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @morseemily
      @morseemily 11 дней назад +1

      I wish they were readily available in my place.
      Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
      He's constantly talking about killing someone.
      He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.

    • @IkamiLog
      @IkamiLog 11 дней назад

      Is he on instagram?

    • @Jennifer-bw7ku
      @Jennifer-bw7ku 11 дней назад

      Yes he is. dr.sporessss

  • @ImStephhhh
    @ImStephhhh 4 дня назад +1

    Needed this! I’ve been relentlessly pursing something not because of me but because of pressures. Thank you for the reminder

  • @vidwanvalley8870
    @vidwanvalley8870 15 дней назад +9

    Hi
    I'm from India. I can relate to every word you spoke. You are doing a great job and the world needs great value creators like you

  • @TimRidleyArt
    @TimRidleyArt 11 дней назад +3

    As an artist, I've always had the negative reaction to the word "business" just as you described. It's an unfortunate and limiting belief that has kept me working for studios and not for myself for several years. I'm excited to start Mental Monetization and finally start working for myself. Thanks Dan.

  • @Angel-lx6xe
    @Angel-lx6xe 16 дней назад +6

    Out here changin lives, Dan.
    For real.
    Good for you.🌸
    I'm glad you exist.

  • @dzllz
    @dzllz 16 дней назад +2

    This is gold. Thanks!

  • @hockinghillsalive3624
    @hockinghillsalive3624 14 дней назад +3

    I subbed yesterday after realizing I'd been loosely watching your channel for several months without being subscribed.
    🙏🏽
    I appreciate you, Dan.

  • @carlapires7732
    @carlapires7732 12 дней назад +1

    Listening to you feels like digging deep into your emotional & psychological self to uncover hidden flaws, preventing you from being who you are & advancing in life. More effective than any session at the psychoanalyst. Thank you for raising people up through your impactful words!

  • @CatalinaDiaz-xu6gc
    @CatalinaDiaz-xu6gc 12 дней назад

    You are amazing. Thank you Dan.

  • @stevekostakis2983
    @stevekostakis2983 15 дней назад

    This video is your finest hour…you laid out my life in full. Thank you.

  • @___JUANMAN
    @___JUANMAN 10 дней назад

    Thanks Dan. We appreciate your content.

  • @ishitaswarupp
    @ishitaswarupp 16 дней назад +3

    Your videos are such gem that i dont want the world to know about them 😭 but the content you share is reaching masses undoubtedly

  • @bobbiebobbob8761
    @bobbiebobbob8761 15 дней назад

    The succinct explanation and questions used to gain clarity in this video is so much more practical than 99% of the BS on RUclips, great job.

  • @STOIUM
    @STOIUM 15 дней назад +1

    Thanks man. This is my favourite video of yours that I've watched so far

  • @kellenkenlyn
    @kellenkenlyn 15 дней назад +1

    Thank you Dan. Your advice has bettered me as a writer and encouraged my faith in the practice.

  • @vidwanvalley8870
    @vidwanvalley8870 10 дней назад

    This is the path I have chosen for the rest of my life. I like this path so much. Thank you Dan for this value addition

  • @gallarzo720
    @gallarzo720 5 дней назад

    Thank you for this ❤

  • @mayammmm276
    @mayammmm276 5 дней назад

    Hi, this is the first video of yours I’ve watched, and I had to pause near the end just to say this is one of the best videos I’ve ever watched! You gave so much valuable insights, such clarity and really helpful information. I appreciate you!!!

  • @nickiboy33
    @nickiboy33 3 дня назад

    Im glad I transformed and doing everything Dan mentions in this clip. I also have reached enlightenment so I just “float” around, not worrying much, working every single day towards fine tuning my goals and MY future and being selfish. You all should do the same. We come with nothing into this world and will leave it same way. Make your life count

  • @Unikadanceeventsparties
    @Unikadanceeventsparties 16 дней назад +2

    Thank you Mr. Koe ❤

  • @MaxKomes
    @MaxKomes 14 дней назад

    May be the best video yet, Dan.
    I like how you explain identity formation and socialization. These messages of autonomy is what this age of distraction needs~

  • @AlishaAFoster
    @AlishaAFoster 16 дней назад +1

    all change is identity change! love that.

  • @Jessiethegirl23
    @Jessiethegirl23 21 час назад

    I am grateful for this video, your mind and desire to create this video, and the internet for providing wonderful mentors like yourself.

  • @victormolina100
    @victormolina100 16 дней назад

    Thanks man, that really inspired me broo love from Brazil

  • @Sweety_24
    @Sweety_24 16 дней назад +23

    The best thing I ever did was subscribe to your RUclips channel!!!

  • @Thesionshow
    @Thesionshow 14 дней назад

    You drop gem after gem in your videos. Thank you.

  • @novotnak_6099
    @novotnak_6099 15 дней назад +2

    "Caring only make you weak. They think you care, they walk all over you."

    • @coleculture1636
      @coleculture1636 10 дней назад

      It’s all about prioritizing your fucks that’s all

  • @kikiposada
    @kikiposada 15 дней назад

    More clear and powerful with every video. Great stuff

  • @ihsankamil6279
    @ihsankamil6279 16 дней назад

    This is such an amazing video thank you dude changing lives for sure

  • @RafaelLopez-dv5vz
    @RafaelLopez-dv5vz 14 дней назад

    Thank you Dan.

  • @huseinfatehi2596
    @huseinfatehi2596 15 дней назад

    Thank you for this truly

  • @SimracingArnout
    @SimracingArnout 15 дней назад +3

    Best video you have made this far.
    I used to game eu4 like always.
    I stopped and build yt videos instead.
    I cant go back to eu4. The yt is my new game.

  • @keniavalenzuela1218
    @keniavalenzuela1218 6 дней назад

    Thanks for delivering to us such as informative and motivating video❤

  • @claudinelogrado
    @claudinelogrado 15 дней назад +2

    Learning more every day and starting to apply your teachings to my new online business this week. Thanks.🙏

  • @mashscrims
    @mashscrims 16 дней назад

    Your writing, your language is really impressive

  • @amonifinau4048
    @amonifinau4048 14 дней назад

    Thank you!

  • @jslepx
    @jslepx 16 дней назад

    Great Insights

  • @Alirooble99
    @Alirooble99 16 дней назад +1

    Thanks ❤

  • @yahnaza
    @yahnaza 6 дней назад

    Thank you 🙏

  • @learnwithlerato
    @learnwithlerato 13 дней назад

    Thank you for this video

  • @RYCTalks
    @RYCTalks 11 дней назад +1

    Very insightful Video. Caring about others only makes you weak by draining your energy. It’s better to utilise that energy to care and love yourself ❤️.
    My prayer and wishes to all of you who are chasing your dream🏃‍♂️.

  • @arkbjorn
    @arkbjorn 16 дней назад

    Very interesting and useful video. Thank you.

  • @vivienneobineche3194
    @vivienneobineche3194 15 дней назад

    Just the validation I needed :)

  • @thirdrockjul2224
    @thirdrockjul2224 16 дней назад

    Inspiring words! 👍

  • @storytellingforthesoulsarahc
    @storytellingforthesoulsarahc 13 дней назад

    Such a good video!

  • @user-lv1uw8ke9k
    @user-lv1uw8ke9k 15 дней назад

    Ahhhh , you are so lovely to listen to while I sleep❤

  •  13 дней назад +1

    Thank you Dan, I'm so depress today but you words give me courage. 🌞

    • @dan-koe_talk
      @dan-koe_talk 10 дней назад +1

      Thanks I appreciate my work

    • @dan-koe_talk
      @dan-koe_talk 10 дней назад

      So happen that made you depressed

  • @theblackhippiechannel
    @theblackhippiechannel 9 дней назад

    GREAT VIDEO 👍🏾👍🏾!! ❤

  • @diamondprincess9715
    @diamondprincess9715 4 дня назад

    This is too good!!!! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @007d.a.b5
    @007d.a.b5 15 дней назад

    Holy Shit. Your videos are my absolute favorite. They always shake me with uncertainty and excitement, and help me realize the vast limitless of today if only I start taking more steps. Keep up the phenomenal work Dan!

  • @aneshalove226
    @aneshalove226 9 дней назад

    There’s no way I couldn’t NOT comment on this. The gems you dropped made me have to note them down. Thank you. ❤

  • @kyrinmcl
    @kyrinmcl 6 часов назад

    Thanks Dan 🙏🏼🤍

  • @justathought7221
    @justathought7221 16 дней назад +2

    Thank you for this. I want to quit my job so much and just go head first into the deep end of my goal. I’m the only one bringing in a pay check and to make matters worse where I am in getting me nowhere. I need to be in another state to make what I want to work. But I have to start where I am. I can write. I can brain storm and I have an idea. This video is something I will watch again. I wish you could go even in-depth. Thank you Dan

    • @RYCTalks
      @RYCTalks 11 дней назад

      Good luck my friend 👍❤️

  • @EcomCarl
    @EcomCarl 15 дней назад

    Excellent point on the power of self-discipline in achieving goals! Remember, regular reflection on your progress and readjusting your strategies can also significantly enhance your focus and drive toward your personal ambitions. 🚀

  • @carmitcohen858
    @carmitcohen858 15 дней назад

    Brilliant, helpful, accurate 🤘👏🙌🙏

  • @greenrebellion84
    @greenrebellion84 15 дней назад

    Pure value.👍👍

  • @hrishetarajkumari977
    @hrishetarajkumari977 7 дней назад

    Nah, we turning our life around with this one. THANK YOU DAN!

  • @stessassss2695
    @stessassss2695 14 дней назад +1

    Love & Peace Dan - Thank you always :)

  • @stessassss2695
    @stessassss2695 4 дня назад

    love it love it ... 😅 cheers Danny

  • @carolzaher2655
    @carolzaher2655 14 дней назад +1

    Dan, you are the modern day guru. Thank you

  • @alanikeiser
    @alanikeiser 7 дней назад +1

    6:26 yeah… trolls and gamers are not the same 😂 can’t have them in the same sentence.
    My sister is a gamer and it has improved her life 100% after being ill and introverted. She has also used it to relate to her kids.
    She doesn’t troll.

  • @LennyTim
    @LennyTim 16 дней назад +1

    A lot of people think they don't care but they actually do a lot.

  • @user-hs5vp9if9i
    @user-hs5vp9if9i 15 дней назад

    I like to his video! Thanks again!

  • @Kabulstories4
    @Kabulstories4 16 дней назад

    No Word to explain you bro next level ❤🎉❤

  • @user-kn1vp8vo3k
    @user-kn1vp8vo3k 8 дней назад

    Respect big time my g✊

  • @shianlichiam9654
    @shianlichiam9654 12 дней назад +1

    This is amazing

  • @Jessiethegirl23
    @Jessiethegirl23 21 час назад

    When you start a business… by yourself…. YOU ARE THE PRODUCT. Figure out your strengths, personality, and skills. Market YOU. Connect with customers that MATCH YOU. Target people YOU WANT to help.

  • @user-yn6tf6wv6c
    @user-yn6tf6wv6c 9 дней назад

    "You want to be a generalist in perspective to be able to navigate more situations in life without stress."
    absolute banger

  • @Wellbeinglosangeleswithmarley
    @Wellbeinglosangeleswithmarley 18 часов назад

    This video is gold

  • @AIMusicArtandWriting
    @AIMusicArtandWriting 15 дней назад

    THIS. God I love this. So resonates man 👌👊👌🎯🔥

  • @AkramNotes
    @AkramNotes 15 дней назад +1

    6:17 bro is litterally messing with most toxic community and I fucking love it 😂😂

  • @nikyabodigital
    @nikyabodigital 15 дней назад

    This anti vision really does work.
    One of my anti vision to discipline food consumption is the not wanting to be obese and have low mental clarity and energy. Then it becomes easy

  • @priyaldamani
    @priyaldamani 4 дня назад

    Gonna watch this on repeat

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    @AmbientTonez-fr4pw 15 дней назад

    Wow this is deep and accurate

  • @CrownedbyShirley
    @CrownedbyShirley 6 дней назад

    Too many truths to quote from this video. Wow! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

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  • @HauPT369
    @HauPT369 16 дней назад

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  • @jakewebb5371
    @jakewebb5371 10 дней назад

    Appreciate you! You helped me get through late night imposter syndrome. This video felt like a course in itself. I apologize but I found your courses on the dark web, I will buy your next one though :)

  • @rawbinmo
    @rawbinmo 3 дня назад

    This guy is a good writer.

  • @RavinderSingh-ft5dw
    @RavinderSingh-ft5dw 7 дней назад

    Superb

  • @Cycle2life
    @Cycle2life 16 дней назад +1

    Amazing…wisdom beyond your years

  • @Animevibes.
    @Animevibes. 5 дней назад

    Start writing, start creating,
    Start recording,start pursuing.
    You have enough energy. it's just too disintegrated or spread in too many directions.
    You just have to build it in one direction and just like that, it becomes a laser beam of energy which can penetrate any problems you face.

  • @aiyohwashereduh
    @aiyohwashereduh 16 дней назад +1

    I've started reading your blog instead of scrolling through reddit and I've been getting some ideas and further inspiration for starting an instagram brand. Appreciate you, man

  • @daisybluegroff
    @daisybluegroff 15 дней назад

    1:23 Truth. I usually go opposite of what they tell me. Very challenging.

  • @zhenren9703
    @zhenren9703 16 дней назад +1

    I do not know how to explain this feeling. You sound just like me when I'm talking with my kids. It eerie. Same words, same logic... must be on the same vibe somewhere lol.

  • @Tangi_ENT
    @Tangi_ENT 3 дня назад

    I find it strange that his most important videos gain the least traction.
    Like it’s a hidden technique for the inner-disciples.
    🖤🙏🏾

  • @karims9379
    @karims9379 5 дней назад

    Yes we must focus on our selves first

  • @endofsamba
    @endofsamba 16 дней назад

    Good vid

  • @Neuro.Nation6
    @Neuro.Nation6 15 дней назад

    Gold

  • @TheAubreyLynch
    @TheAubreyLynch 16 дней назад +1

    Thank you for these amazing videos. I’m building my channel slowly but surely with weekly posts. I take in everything you say and apply it when appropriate. I’m on week 20 and I’m committed to the long haul. I find your videos moving and inspiring. Keep em coming! ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽

  • @atlFalcons1184
    @atlFalcons1184 15 дней назад

    Love your content, Dan. Very much appreciated. 🤌🏼

  • @sarilsrivastava181
    @sarilsrivastava181 14 дней назад

    While seeing your video i need RUclips transcript of yours to absorb it 80% and why only 80% because 20%will come from life experience.
    Thankyou