Wow! Sorry for your loss. I don’t think you could have convinced your mother to leave him. She didn’t when you were young and that’s when you needed her the most. Your mother lost her life because she loved her husband more than her own life. Thank you for sharing your story.
Oh my heart hurts for you. I had remarried and took my then daughter 6 years old with me, she is 10 years old turning 11 and my now ex husband of 3 months also did the very same thing to my daughter. She told me and I left him. I am not going to put my daughter through any of this. I'm sorry for your lost Hon. 😢 Thank you for being brave enough to come and share your story. Sending you love and hugs from afar.
I am so sorry for what happened to you and your dog... I feel your pain and totally understand the love you had for your dog. I loved mine so much too... I just put my dog down because she was very old and in so much pain... I am still crying for her and miss her every day. I can't imagine how scared your dog was at the moment your step dad did and you could not be there to help. I wish you the very best! Many loves and happiness on your way. Thank you for sharing your story.
How sad for you. If only your late mother had put your safety first and gotten out of that marriage, she'd still be alive. It's unfortunate that many women out there put their marriage ahead of the safety of their children.
Nej cov poj niam Hmoob ruam ruam awb awb uas pheej qhuas qhuas tias Txiv Mekas mas thiaj txawj hlub nej tshaj !!!! Nej paub tsawg !!! Luag ntshe tob tshaj nej, luag tsuas lam siv ntxhias aim nej uasi xwb, qhov tseeb, luag ntxub nej ti txha, yuav muab nej tua lub sijhawm twg lo tau tag !!!
I’m sorry for wat happened to u sister, but u r right. Most step fathers are evil. My stepfather was Hmong. He did the same thing to me. The family hid it and till this day I have not been on same terms with my mother even though my evil stepfather is dead. You are not alone but I think the more we talk about it, educate our daughters n family to report these behaviors the better chance we have to change the future for people like us.
Im sorry this happened to u. As a fur mom, we are responsible for our dog’s life. U should always be aware of him doing harm to u and ur dog. Sadly, u werent aware at all, and ur dog had to face tragedy. If he already wanted nothing to do with u after u told ur mon about the incident, that means u should not have him watch ur dog, period. Anyways, glad u found closure. Lesson learned to be a better fur mom. Sorry for ur loss. Im sure ur mom was probably being abused by him and that was why she didn’t want to see u to worry about her. He probably threatened her too, so she felt stuck with him.
Don't be too harsh on yourself. You didn't do anything wrong. It's unfortunate that this happened to you and your mom. May she rip. You need to try to close the nightmare chapter of your life and live the best you can for the sake of your mom. She would have wanted you to live and be happy.
Such a sad story, that should have never happened. But, oh, it happens so often. Humanity on the wrong and confused side. It's not easy understanding right or wrong in how to handle internal self contractions of wants and desires. The Self Independence concept comes with a heavy price if not well understood. The price is a lack of social moral support. Without good support, any personality can fall heavily deranged and cause extreme harm. It's not easy to see or understand these personalities. The only way to protect yourself is to be stay alert and work on strong respect so you can keep abuse at bay. Don't stay in a toxic environment, some are devoid of hope.
Qhov es niag txiv tshiab Meskas npau npau taws ces twb yog nws deev tsis tau Koj es nws thiaj li npau npau thiaj li muab cawv los haus thiab muab Koj niam tua xwb los mas. Cov niag txiv tshiab no mas txawm yog haiv neeg twg los yeej ntseeg tsis tau 100% li ov. Cov txiv tshiab es ncaj ncees hlub cov ntxhais es niam coj mus mas 10 tug no mas nyuav qhuav muaj ib tug thiaj li ncaj xwb os. Tus es ncaj ncees ntawd mas nws paub ntshai lub ntuj thiab paub txaj muag rau ntiajteb nws thiaj li tsis ua xwb..!
Me ntxhais uaca yuav nrog koj tu siab ualuaj os me ntxhais kavliam mog ncontsoov hai tia xyaum ua koj lub neej kom zoo mog VAJTSWV txoj lus yeej hai tia tsi txhob ntseeg tibneeg tas tas txawm yog yus tus txiv yus tus pojniam los tsi txhob ntseeg tas tas vim. Hai tia yuav muaj ib lub sijhawm lawv yuav ntxeev siab rau yus nawb mog yog li yus yuavtsum ceev faj txhuas lub sijhawm nawb
Txoj kev ntshaw txiv tshiab vim li cas twb paub tias ib niag neeg haus tshuaj ces yeej tsis meej pem vim li cas ho yuav tsis khiav tawm tsis muaj txiv lawm Los yus yeej tuag tsis taus nav !
Nrog koj tu siab os! Koj niam raug meskas tua muab hlais ua 2-3 daig ntim hnab pov tseg tod havzoov txaus ntshai ualuaj li e koj ho tseem mus yuav meskas ntxiv thiab lo.. ceevfaj koj tus kheej nawb khiav tawm ua ntej luag yuav ua phem rau yus os
Yog nws tsis.muab koj ces zoo kawg nws yuav luaj muab koj Tua yog koj yawg lawv tej dab qhuas pov hwm es nws thiaj tua tsis Tau koj pab koj kawg os tus me ntshai aw
Thanks for sharing your story and bringing awareness. Best of life to you.
Sorry for your loss dear.
My heart goes out to you and your mom. I completely understand your love for your dog. I love mine so much too
Thanks for the warning. I won't listen to animal cruelty.
Wow! Sorry for your loss. I don’t think you could have convinced your mother to leave him. She didn’t when you were young and that’s when you needed her the most. Your mother lost her life because she loved her husband more than her own life. Thank you for sharing your story.
Yog koj foob thaum koj txiv los xuas koj ces koj niam twb dim tsi tuag
Ok kkoomm kojj nawb❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hlub koj kawg os me ntxhais
God blessing you and your family ok love you!❤
Omg..mi can't listen anymore...very graphic description of torture
Jesus to the rescue a little bit too late
Oh my heart hurts for you. I had remarried and took my then daughter 6 years old with me, she is 10 years old turning 11 and my now ex husband of 3 months also did the very same thing to my daughter. She told me and I left him. I am not going to put my daughter through any of this. I'm sorry for your lost Hon. 😢 Thank you for being brave enough to come and share your story. Sending you love and hugs from afar.
I am so sorry for what happened to you and your dog... I feel your pain and totally understand the love you had for your dog. I loved mine so much too... I just put my dog down because she was very old and in so much pain... I am still crying for her and miss her every day. I can't imagine how scared your dog was at the moment your step dad did and you could not be there to help. I wish you the very best! Many loves and happiness on your way. Thank you for sharing your story.
How sad for you. If only your late mother had put your safety first and gotten out of that marriage, she'd still be alive. It's unfortunate that many women out there put their marriage ahead of the safety of their children.
Yuav mekas, yuav lwm haiv neeg, yuav hmoob kiag los twb tsis zoo. Yus yuav tau ceev faj yus tus kheej xwb. Trust nobody.
Peb cov poj niam Hmoob yeej heev tau rau txiv neej Hmoob xwb, yog lwm haiv neeg ce ho nyoo2 to tuag
Thanks you
What the case new ?
Nej cov poj niam Hmoob ruam ruam awb awb uas pheej qhuas qhuas tias Txiv Mekas mas thiaj txawj hlub nej tshaj !!!! Nej paub tsawg !!! Luag ntshe tob tshaj nej, luag tsuas lam siv ntxhias aim nej uasi xwb, qhov tseeb, luag ntxub nej ti txha, yuav muab nej tua lub sijhawm twg lo tau tag !!!
koj niam txaug siab tuag as.tug neeg nyob ze yug zoo li cas yug yeej paub
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cov txiv lo yeej siab phem cov niam tshiab lo yeej siab phem tshaj plaw li thiab tu hlub yu ce tsua yog yu niam thiab yu txiv yug yu thiaj hlub yu xwb os 🥲🥲🥲🥲
I’m sorry for wat happened to u sister, but u r right. Most step fathers are evil. My stepfather was Hmong. He did the same thing to me. The family hid it and till this day I have not been on same terms with my mother even though my evil stepfather is dead. You are not alone but I think the more we talk about it, educate our daughters n family to report these behaviors the better chance we have to change the future for people like us.
omg!! it is already disturbing but i am sticking around to finish the story.
Pab koj hlub r koj tus me dog heev li os viv ncaus aw!…
Im sorry this happened to u. As a fur mom, we are responsible for our dog’s life. U should always be aware of him doing harm to u and ur dog. Sadly, u werent aware at all, and ur dog had to face tragedy. If he already wanted nothing to do with u after u told ur mon about the incident, that means u should not have him watch ur dog, period. Anyways, glad u found closure. Lesson learned to be a better fur mom. Sorry for ur loss. Im sure ur mom was probably being abused by him and that was why she didn’t want to see u to worry about her. He probably threatened her too, so she felt stuck with him.
Sorry for your losses sister
Txoj kev mus yuav lwm haiv neeg mag lawv muab tua ntsaws thoob kib nyiab mas haib kawg nkaus.
There’s also so many stories that Hmong man also killed their wife or girlfriend too
@@penelopecabana8834Yep. There’s bad and crazy people are in every races even in the Hmong community too.
@@PajTswb I know right,I hate it when somebody said this is what happen when Hmong married different raciest and got beat up or killed.
Don't be too harsh on yourself. You didn't do anything wrong. It's unfortunate that this happened to you and your mom. May she rip. You need to try to close the nightmare chapter of your life and live the best you can for the sake of your mom. She would have wanted you to live and be happy.
You are such a strong and smart girl
Zoo qhov koj tsis tau mag mi ka ua tau phem ce zoo lawm os sister aw
How tragic. Stay strong! Rip to your mom.
Muaj li no es hmoob thiaj tsis yuav2 miskas . Yus mus yuav haib neeg uas luag yog luag ib hauv neeg ces qhov yus tsis paub luag siab ces yeej yog percent ntau tshaj.
Hmoob haj yam phem
nyuam qhuav phim koj niam xwb vim koj niam hlub nws ces koj niam thiaj li tuag rau nws tes mas
Koj thiab tus mekas no phem ib yam
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Such a sad story, that should have never happened. But, oh, it happens so often. Humanity on the wrong and confused side. It's not easy understanding right or wrong in how to handle internal self contractions of wants and desires. The Self Independence concept comes with a heavy price if not well understood. The price is a lack of social moral support. Without good support, any personality can fall heavily deranged and cause extreme harm. It's not easy to see or understand these personalities. The only way to protect yourself is to be stay alert and work on strong respect so you can keep abuse at bay. Don't stay in a toxic environment, some are devoid of hope.
Qhov es niag txiv tshiab Meskas npau npau taws ces twb yog nws deev tsis tau Koj es nws thiaj li npau npau thiaj li muab cawv los haus thiab muab Koj niam tua xwb los mas. Cov niag txiv tshiab no mas txawm yog haiv neeg twg los yeej ntseeg tsis tau 100% li ov. Cov txiv tshiab es ncaj ncees hlub cov ntxhais es niam coj mus mas 10 tug no mas nyuav qhuav muaj ib tug thiaj li ncaj xwb os. Tus es ncaj ncees ntawd mas nws paub ntshai lub ntuj thiab paub txaj muag rau ntiajteb nws thiaj li tsis ua xwb..!
Me ntxhais uaca yuav nrog koj tu siab ualuaj os me ntxhais kavliam mog ncontsoov hai tia xyaum ua koj lub neej kom zoo mog VAJTSWV txoj lus yeej hai tia tsi txhob ntseeg tibneeg tas tas txawm yog yus tus txiv yus tus pojniam los tsi txhob ntseeg tas tas vim. Hai tia yuav muaj ib lub sijhawm lawv yuav ntxeev siab rau yus nawb mog yog li yus yuavtsum ceev faj txhuas lub sijhawm nawb
Pab hlub koj niam kawg tabsis kuj zoo siab tias koj yog ib tug me ntxhais ntse koj khiav tawm ntawm niag txiv tshiab lim hiam lawm es nws tsis tau tsim koj.
Koj niam twb mag mekas tua tuag hlais ib diag rau ib qho tseem rov mus yuav mekas thiab ua zoo tsam mag tib lub maib.
Txoj kev ntshaw txiv tshiab vim li cas twb paub tias ib niag neeg haus tshuaj ces yeej tsis meej pem vim li cas ho yuav tsis khiav tawm tsis muaj txiv lawm Los yus yeej tuag tsis taus nav !
Nrog koj tu siab os! Koj niam raug meskas tua muab hlais ua 2-3 daig ntim hnab pov tseg tod havzoov txaus ntshai ualuaj li e koj ho tseem mus yuav meskas ntxiv thiab lo.. ceevfaj koj tus kheej nawb khiav tawm ua ntej luag yuav ua phem rau yus os
Good thing you were strong and moved out; otherwise...
Your mother should have left with you when you reported to her that he mess around with you.
Yog nws tsis.muab koj ces zoo kawg nws yuav luaj muab koj Tua yog koj yawg lawv tej dab qhuas pov hwm es nws thiaj tua tsis Tau koj pab koj kawg os tus me ntshai aw
Wow! I’m so sorry to hear what you been through. Best of luck to you!
Your mom should separate from him when you left. I would scar to stay with him.