This brotha seems like a nice, mature, stand up, responsible person. She is insensitive and does not respect him and his desire to have a child and family of his own.
"I'm from Panama, Spanish is my first language" I rolled my eyes there. I'm an immigrant myself but she had to put emphasis on that twice right out the gate. I understood what she was saying, but at the same time, she's a spoiled daddy's girl 😂😂😂. That's the real issue! You're 31, time to grow up!!!
Priscilla Oneluv I was rolling my eyes too... when she repeated it I rolled my eyes again.... don't know what she was trying to accomplish saying that.
@@shyshy4937 I will not be the least bit surprised if she is doing someone else from Panama while she has him validating her role as a woman, her family image, and paying her bills.
@twistedblktrekie actually you are still wrong. If you had a clue you would know that most black people married or not don't participate in the census. I don't have to go any farther than that.
@twistedblktrekie still spreading false information. Though the numbers aren't what they used to be, most black children are being raised in two parent homes. I've actually done research on marriage and children in the black family. Stop believing what the white man wants you to. Also, the majority of black men are educated. They may not have doctorates but they have education. You see that black women are going to university more and that's all they want you to see. Adjust your vision to the truth
This a SOLID brotha. Solid brothas like just make sure you give that solid attention to the right women. She’s not bad but she’s set in her ways. Maybe because of the age difference.
I don't know but she got under my skin a bit. She comes of a bit snobbish or condescending. I'm better then you, you, you and you, because I speak Spanish, I'm not from this country, my parents are both active in my life and my daddy spoils me...blah blah blah I can tell the judge was over her snuddy attitude as well. But I admire the young man. Handsome, good head on his shoulders and handling his role well as the man of the house hold. 🙌🙌
beautyfyewitAlaina B She speaks Spanish because her African enslaved forefathers were own by the Spaniards. It is a slave colonial, imperialist language. It is not the language of her Africans ancestors. I speak English for the same reason.
Yeah, I've picked up on that too. She has a lot of nerve and audacity, because the first 2 baby daddies apparently wasn't that moved by her to stay with her. They saw with the hell she was on and took flight. Which is exactly why her desperate ass got with a 19 year old who was wet behind the ears, get him all sprung, so that she could control him. She knew that guys her age would see what she was on and would just value her ass accordingly.
beautyfyewitAlaina B yessss, she has a snobby attitude like hes beneath her. Girl sit down. It took a teenager to help you raise your kids. Be happy and appreciate him.
He impressed me straight away. He is a sensitive, deep guy who clearly understood because of his stepfather how to be a man and step into a role when his own didn't and he clearly articulates that he needs just one thing right now and he'd do anything for her. She needs to hear him on that score because she keeps complaining about communication but isn't listening that he is asking for only one "need" and she is all about "wants". I think they can make it but she is the one who needs to grow up.
She SO PROUD to be bilingual that she's doing way too much. We didn't miss it the first 3 times you told us that you speak spanish Ma'am. We get it that you're not an American Black. *Now fix your Marriage.*
Courtney Alexander... I was looking to see if someone made a comment about this. Shes doing that because she knows she looks black. She doesn't look like she has a lick of Spanish in her. She's trying to prove herself. It's annoying. WE GET IT!!!!
She's fake as hell...Acting like ppl in America don't look after their kids like how her father looks after her...He needs to step and build his own family ✊🏾
Courtney Alexander i swear i thought i wa ls the only one😒 like damn we get it! Not to mention she takes too long to get to the point with everything 🙄
She kept saying that to validate herself bc she's BLACK & wants to appear " exotic." Even though exotic just means foreign really! Like girl you're BLACK. You just speak Spanish! It's black people from America that can do that!
dude is taking care of business, working, loving kids that aren't his AND he's not an aspiring rapper...she better lock that down quick before another woman does
Copy and pasted. Shoot my big hangup is I been in some rough relationships and tbh I’m a little nervous at finding a girl if she will be faithful or waste my time.. it’s bad in my area.
He married a grown child not a woman. And she's trying to cover that up with throwing "culture" up as an excuse. She better grow up! There are plenty of women in Atlanta looking for men like him. I love the shade Judge through in at the end.
I live in this town. I've given up too much of a hassle to find good men out here. Not saying they aren't out here, just the older you get the more that number dwindles. Plus the competition is fierce and I don't have time to be going out on 50-11 dates to weed out the trash. I promise you if she mess up, he's not going to be of want of a warm bed around these parts.
L Vincent I agree. There is a large Black gay male population here. I can assure you there are many better women available and he is a very decent young man. I think I am in love.
Dontavis is a great guy, I can see already that he loves her and has a great relationship with her family. I am hoping by the end of this episode she be a better wife to him and give a chance to be their for her, I know she loves her dad but let your husband be there for you, that's all he ask for. She got a good man I want her to keep him not lose him
I agree. I just wanna add that I don't think she's as bad as this episode makes her out to be. Her main problem is that she looks at him as the "young one" and tends to mother him. As for the sex part, nothing wrong with scheduling, plenty of married couples do it especially due to work and the kids, it works. I don't agree with the "giving it to him whenever he wants" part, that's still her body and people do get exhausted (I'd say the same if the guy was tired, which I've seen on DC, a truck driver). They should communicate about sex and find a compromise.
The reason why she should give her when he needs rather than scheduling is that this guy is 25 the level of testosterone in guys at this age is so high and the fact that he is faithful and not going out to seek satisfaction from another woman should be appreciated more by giving the boy more sex scheduling is for people with a lower sex drive and older people that just it
Is it just me....or is she coming off as a little condescending?? This is a man that clearly has stepped up from the beginning at a very young age. Yet, while she appears to care for him....she comes off like she feels her culture and upbringing are better than his. I mean she almost acts like she is doing him a favor.
James Craig -- Technically you're right, but not considering the sexual urges of your spouse (man or woman) can cause them to take "THEIR" body elsewhere to meet their needs. (Not saying it's right, but it's the truth).
It becomes selfish when u share your body only "when I want to". Marriage is a compromise, in and out of the bedroom. And sometimes that's the kind of mentality that leads to a divorce. When u arent giving it just because of this excuse or that then the other spouse starts becoming unhappy and that may create issues in other departments of the marriage which may spiral into a divorce. Selfish acts are damaging in a marriage.
Shouldn't he respect her enough not to force her to have sex when she doesn't want to? I have a very high sex drive while my husband only wants in 1-2 times a week but I respect him enough to wait until he's ready.
Give my dawg some goodies! He deserved it! He taking of u, those kids, and putting up with ur attitude. Give this brother goodies to the point he can’t take no more damn it!
I admire this man so much. Not to mention he's handsome but it takes a lot of courage to come in to a family which isn't yours and aid in raising another man's children. What an amazing man. Well done sir.
Very Nice, Down to Earth young man. A gem💘 May she value him and may he continue to honor what being a real man is. So refreshing to see fine, practical and uncomplicated manhood at work😍😍😍
I don't think I have ever been so emotionally attached to an episode and it didn't involve any types of abuse or obvious need for sympathy. This guy is the closest thing to PERFECT in a world so screwed. Even though she and her cultural attachments are KILLING me, I get it, but she robbed the cradle and now wants to avert the responsibility and expectations of that relationship. I repeat and expound... this guy is GREAT/PERFECT/AWESOME. AND YOUNG. You can barely get a 27 year old man to pay child support and with THIS guy, you have a ready-made daddy prototype!!!
I️ salute this young man for doing everything right,a lot guys his age are out roaming in the streets and don’t have a care in the world for the people around them.A lot of guys his age need to take heed at this young mans upstanding behavior maybe our youth have a chance at life .
Other than the "you know what I'm sayin" every 7 seconds, this dude sounds like a stand up brother....Girl, you better give that man ALL OF THE NOOKIE he can stand....No ratchetness either!!!! Thank God....
After reading that they were only together three weeks before getting married, I assumed this episode was going to be a mess but I was wrong - that man is golden...you know what I'm saying?
He seems like a good guy. She's worried about having a perfect life for their family and that's understandable but. girl, don't lose your good man over wait for a fairy tale!
He's a girl dream guy. Dude got a lot going on for himself he's only 25 and he's a great dude. I feel him on the part when he says he feels like he's not enough since he doesn't have a kid. I use to feel the same way being a virgin at 29 years old isn't easy at all. But one thing about it is that I believe in God's timing. God is not going to put anything on you that you cannot bare. God will send you a daughter or son in his time and it'll be so well worth the wait, don't feel less of yourself young man you'll be alright. And this girl right here Lol girl appreciate what you have because what you won't do another one will and that's for certain.
Seems like she was kind of downing him. Her saying he was raised by his Mom only for us to find out that his stepfather raised him. Also he is telling her what he wants but she isn’t listening. He seems like a good man and she’s very blessed to have found him. I mean, where is her two kids father at? I know we don’t know the whole story but watching this makes her look like she takes him for granted.
She brings up being from panama not because she wants to gloat but because she wants to be unique. She wants to be viewed as special, she most likely has low self esteem 🤷🏾♀️.
I agree she definitely has low self-esteem because it was irrelevant. It's sad to see a dark skin woman with weave try so hard to dismiss her blackness.
@@misslc7864 yes, well, being raised in a country where everybody is black, compared to living in a country where being black makes you a minority changes people.
1. She was extremely condescending on several accords. For example, highlighting his background of coming from a single parent home...YES, when two people are on the same accord having a two parent home is ideal for childbearing BUT from my experience, women from two parent homes are just as insecure, troublesome, etc., if not more than women from single parent homes. The lessons that the parent(s) teaches in that home factors a great deal into the child’s development. 2. When she spoke about being busy/tired from work and that her mind was on “somebody” she misspoke instead of saying “something,” I’ll admit I initially was thinking there was “somebody” else (on her end of course), too. 3. She thought she’d be able to train up a man in the way SHE thinks he should go...also, I wonder if her tubes are tied. Some women have done that - gotten married to a great guy and the guy found out four, five years later she couldn’t have anymore children - very deceitful and painful to hear if you’re a man who truly wants to have children. 4. She’s pretty but immature. He’s handsome and I truly commend the brother for taking a leadership role in his home, caring for her children like his own, and stocking with their marriage during the highs and lows.
When judge said i was a legal not para o was dying😂😂😂. Low key shade to bust here lil bubble 😂😂😂. And If it was all about her culture makes me wonder was she married to the father of her child she had as a teen and do the children have the same father. Not to mention he saying you have a bad attitude and it reminds him of his mother and he don’t like it. But she will learn that the hard way when he finds a women with a better attitude that isn’t a consistent reminder of what he grew up with.
had me rolling. Judge Lynn is so clever! :-) the Wife said she had her son out of wedlock (so I wonder if the daughter was out of wedlock too and with a different man). she found a young man with an old soul and whipped him
I was rolling when JLT hit her with that. She probably wanted to marry her bd but they didn't want her ass so she married him quickly before he could see the real her. She is a hot ass mess that thinks she is more than what she is.
The Great thing about being married, is that you've done a whole ceremony stating that you've got each other's backs, so there's no need to score points or play ego games.
“I’m not here to be your mother, I’m not here to raise you.” But then you go to your daddy for everything instead of your husband? What sense do that make?
I’m just saying this guy deserves a lot of respect! It’s dudes out here that aren’t taking card of their own children and they are a lot older or they’re treating the step kids differently because they aren’t theirs biologically. I’m so happy to see his level of maturity! It’s refreshing and gives me hope.
Beautiful couple! It happens too often where a good man is taken for granted and most of our women of today do not understand their needs. This man stepped in so young and showed up a man and is holding everything down with two jobs, invested in the kids' education and showing up a real father figure to her son, and seems very respectful. I just hope she doesn't mess up because this is exactly how many of our good guys become bad!
im liking this guy a lot. by looks u nvr would guess how mature he thinks. she better know she has a good man. I hope they find a way over this hump together.
This woman got a teenager because she wanted to groom him into what SHE wanted out of a partner without considering or respecting his needs. This is why I'm against relationships with such large age gaps because the older person always wants to dominate and disrespect the younger partner because of their age. She fails at compromising and doesn't respect that partner that SHE chose. This young man is great, he's sensible, emotionally intelligent, responsible, and just an over all great person. I hope that he's in college and/or working towards greater economic stability. I hope that she respects the partner that she chose and learns to compromise.
No, you are not the only one who thinks Lynn Toler is the perfect woman! I simply adore her! She’s the most wise and kindhearted person I’ve encountered who does not stand behind a pulpit. Her wisdom is real and she uses it in a very practical way …as it was intended. She is Lady Wisdom personified (Proverbs 8). I’ve never experienced anyone like her. She’s younger than I am …(I’m 71 years old), but she sets the example of the woman I’d like to grow to. I know her heart is broken because her husband died recently, and I pray for her every single day. I’m believing that God can bring her through this experience whole and not broken. I know she adored her husband and I feel the loss. She is a truly a one of a kind sister, and during this trying time my heart breaks for her. She is a stone cold blessing to the black community and I’m thankful for her.
Wow when those grades were listed down to his determination to make her child succeed academically- I thought why are you here. Step dad at 19 and his a committed and a good guy. Yet it's still not enough for this woman. If she doesn't recognise and appreciate him; he will become ruined and spoil it for another woman; who can't now understand the deadbeat mentality.
1ST mistake:Dating an older woman WITH KIDS! 2ND:Dating an older woman WITH KIDS 3RD: Marrying a loudmouth The guy is 25, if she can't get right sexually, she need to let him go
I am telling you. She has the audacity to be acting like she is upgrading him when she is a Trap Queen and her image is shot in her own culture. He is so happy she is exotic he will take the baggage, the disrespect, and the discount off of his life huh?
I think she just doesn't want to have another child so she nitpicks at him hoping to turn him off to say "see we not ready for a kid because of this or that". Her oldest is 14, she doesn't want to start over. She needs to be honest about that so he can make his own decision to stay or leave; if that's a deal breaker for him.
I can't believe she swept up this 19 old boy and married him only to not appreciate him for being a better man than some 30/40 year olds.
Myshalala yes omg yes
It's close to being evil!
facts older women have a habit of looking down at younger men and not respecting.. atleast in my experience I’m not speaking for everyone
Ok thank you!!!
They like teenagers so they can control them easily.
It's refreshing to see a GOOD dude on here for once
Me0w for once !!!!
He probably got shot as soon as he left the court room.
😀
I wish him well though.
@twistedblktrekie
So only drug dealers and gang bangers get shot? You are stupid!
I know right!! He's a nice guy.
Lol where u been this show is mainly women complaining about their good men
Very nice episode, without ratchetness, the young man is mature, an old soul.
Yup! we all could use a break for the ratchetness from time to time! =),
+Dino Man Best comment Bro!
VW B4A yes maam....this was a breath of fresh air #blacklove
This brotha seems like a nice, mature, stand up, responsible person. She is insensitive and does not respect him and his desire to have a child and family of his own.
"I'm from Panama, Spanish is my first language"
I rolled my eyes there. I'm an immigrant myself but she had to put emphasis on that twice right out the gate. I understood what she was saying, but at the same time, she's a spoiled daddy's girl 😂😂😂. That's the real issue! You're 31, time to grow up!!!
Priscilla Oneluv I was rolling my eyes too... when she repeated it I rolled my eyes again.... don't know what she was trying to accomplish saying that.
Bingo
THANK YOU
@@shyshy4937 I will not be the least bit surprised if she is doing someone else from Panama while she has him validating her role as a woman, her family image, and paying her bills.
Priscilla P. Me too and she annoyed the hell out of me
Mature young black man ( something media at times is afraid to display ) she better not lose him
The media would rather display the ratched and disfunctional...
Yes she better not....
I want him too
.lol
Watch your words not afraid but refuses because it might propagate a different out look and inspire change
@twistedblktrekie actually you are still wrong. If you had a clue you would know that most black people married or not don't participate in the census. I don't have to go any farther than that.
@twistedblktrekie still spreading false information. Though the numbers aren't what they used to be, most black children are being raised in two parent homes. I've actually done research on marriage and children in the black family. Stop believing what the white man wants you to. Also, the majority of black men are educated. They may not have doctorates but they have education. You see that black women are going to university more and that's all they want you to see. Adjust your vision to the truth
This a SOLID brotha. Solid brothas like just make sure you give that solid attention to the right women. She’s not bad but she’s set in her ways. Maybe because of the age difference.
The Healer University Yup I agree.
She bad bro...Let's just keep it real. She just Spanish so I guess that makes it ok.
And Daddy takes care of her and she needs to grow up
Naw it’s who and how she is regardless of age.
He is a "stand up" kinda dude! I like him.😊
I don't know but she got under my skin a bit. She comes of a bit snobbish or condescending. I'm better then you, you, you and you, because I speak Spanish, I'm not from this country, my parents are both active in my life and my daddy spoils me...blah blah blah
I can tell the judge was over her snuddy attitude as well.
But I admire the young man. Handsome, good head on his shoulders and handling his role well as the man of the house hold. 🙌🙌
beautyfyewitAlaina B She speaks Spanish because her African enslaved forefathers were own by the Spaniards. It is a slave colonial, imperialist language. It is not the language of her Africans ancestors. I speak English for the same reason.
Yeah, I've picked up on that too. She has a lot of nerve and audacity, because the first 2 baby daddies apparently wasn't that moved by her to stay with her. They saw with the hell she was on and took flight. Which is exactly why her desperate ass got with a 19 year old who was wet behind the ears, get him all sprung, so that she could control him. She knew that guys her age would see what she was on and would just value her ass accordingly.
Mz Feisty yea I agree with you.
beautyfyewitAlaina B yessss, she has a snobby attitude like hes beneath her. Girl sit down. It took a teenager to help you raise your kids. Be happy and appreciate him.
She slipped up and said her mind focused on somebody else
He impressed me straight away. He is a sensitive, deep guy who clearly understood because of his stepfather how to be a man and step into a role when his own didn't and he clearly articulates that he needs just one thing right now and he'd do anything for her. She needs to hear him on that score because she keeps complaining about communication but isn't listening that he is asking for only one "need" and she is all about "wants". I think they can make it but she is the one who needs to grow up.
She SO PROUD to be bilingual that she's doing way too much. We didn't miss it the first 3 times you told us that you speak spanish Ma'am. We get it that you're not an American Black.
*Now fix your Marriage.*
Exaxtly. Good grief woman, stop it.
Thank you!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
You better preach, lol.
Most Hispanics dislike the black in them and deny it. Doesn’t matter if you know your roots but you have African in yall.
I was thinking the same thing
Girl give him those goodies, he doing everything a man suppose to do for a woman.
Indeed!!!! That's almost become a rarity with Divorce Court these days...
Taylor McGhee This bish is stupid!Give him what he asking for!Let him BITE THAT COOKIE WHEN HE WANT OR ELSE!
Lol
James Gibson umm no no matter what, a woman should having sex only if she wants, if she doesn’t want she doesn’t have to
cheycheyny ok but a women never owes anyone her body, she could take out on a date or something, but he’s not entitled to her body.
Girl ok we get it you ain't from this country you speak Spanish ....gahhhh!!!
Courtney Alexander 👏🏽👏🏽
Courtney Alexander... I was looking to see if someone made a comment about this. Shes doing that because she knows she looks black. She doesn't look like she has a lick of Spanish in her. She's trying to prove herself. It's annoying. WE GET IT!!!!
She's fake as hell...Acting like ppl in America don't look after their kids like how her father looks after her...He needs to step and build his own family ✊🏾
Courtney Alexander i swear i thought i wa ls the only one😒 like damn we get it! Not to mention she takes too long to get to the point with everything 🙄
She kept saying that to validate herself bc she's BLACK & wants to appear " exotic." Even though exotic just means foreign really! Like girl you're BLACK. You just speak Spanish! It's black people from America that can do that!
She really wants ppl to know that she speaks language, and she's from Panama😴
I was listening to this episode while working and when she said that; I said so.... is there a reason this was mentioned.
Exactly!! I felt like No One Cares where you from or you speak Spanish! Why is she complaining about a good dude?!? Smh
On god she was too proud
She needs to shut up with that
Lmfao😂😂😂😂
Salute to that Young man. The majority people that get married at a young age, usually have a problem adjusting at such a young age.
"older" doesnt mean more experience or maturity
God please send me a him. Lord he's so sweet and wonderful.
RIGHT? I want him like hell!
+Jo Bunny follow my instagram@44fendi
Leave the woman's husband alone!!
@@lynettephillip2412 😂😂😂😂🤣
@@lynettephillip2412 she said her mind was on somebody else and then tried to clean it up. So technically that ain't her husband. Ha!
dude is taking care of business, working, loving kids that aren't his AND he's not an aspiring rapper...she better lock that down quick before another woman does
What a refreshing case. He's NOT a rapper...she had better drink her a tall glass of "act right" and fast.
RiddyOnline 😂😂😂😂 @aspiring rapper
He’s so calm n mature
Well I hope she learns
This comment had me hollering 🤣🤣😂😂
RiddyOnline lmfao
OMG you are so correct! This girl better wake up!
DANG, that's a great dude right there. I love it. Someone COPY & PASTE this dude!
GoshTasha please lord make a carbon copy 🙏😂
i want a copy too
Copy and pasted. Shoot my big hangup is I been in some rough relationships and tbh I’m a little nervous at finding a girl if she will be faithful or waste my time.. it’s bad in my area.
Yes cute and paste him in every age group too.
haahahhahhahha just watched this , i want a copy too. i'd love him to dust... bless him
He married a grown child not a woman. And she's trying to cover that up with throwing "culture" up as an excuse. She better grow up! There are plenty of women in Atlanta looking for men like him. I love the shade Judge through in at the end.
L Vincent
Exactly. My sister has been celibate for over a yr waiting for her husband.
I live in this town. I've given up too much of a hassle to find good men out here. Not saying they aren't out here, just the older you get the more that number dwindles. Plus the competition is fierce and I don't have time to be going out on 50-11 dates to weed out the trash. I promise you if she mess up, he's not going to be of want of a warm bed around these parts.
L Vincent I agree. There is a large Black gay male population here. I can assure you there are many better women available and he is a very decent young man. I think I am in love.
Pat P I looooove his accent it reminds me of nelly when he appeared on the real show
L Vincent yaaaaaaas!♏♏♏😂😂😂that scorpion shade is a beast!!💯♏♏
Dontavis is a great guy, I can see already that he loves her and has a great relationship with her family. I am hoping by the end of this episode she be a better wife to him and give a chance to be their for her, I know she loves her dad but let your husband be there for you, that's all he ask for. She got a good man I want her to keep him not lose him
I agree. I just wanna add that I don't think she's as bad as this episode makes her out to be. Her main problem is that she looks at him as the "young one" and tends to mother him. As for the sex part, nothing wrong with scheduling, plenty of married couples do it especially due to work and the kids, it works. I don't agree with the "giving it to him whenever he wants" part, that's still her body and people do get exhausted (I'd say the same if the guy was tired, which I've seen on DC, a truck driver). They should communicate about sex and find a compromise.
The reason why she should give her when he needs rather than scheduling is that this guy is 25 the level of testosterone in guys at this age is so high and the fact that he is faithful and not going out to seek satisfaction from another woman should be appreciated more by giving the boy more sex scheduling is for people with a lower sex drive and older people that just it
Why great dudes always getting fucked.
He's such a good guy that I'm willing to give him a pass on the 200 or so "knowwhatimsayins"
LOL
Hang Tyme lol
😂😂😂
Hang Tyme
😂😂😂😂
Lmao yeah me too lol
This young man is a real treasure
National Treasure
Is it just me....or is she coming off as a little condescending?? This is a man that clearly has stepped up from the beginning at a very young age. Yet, while she appears to care for him....she comes off like she feels her culture and upbringing are better than his. I mean she almost acts like she is doing him
a favor.
Teresa J.
I️ agree
shes doing him a favor wif 2 kids from other ppl fucking hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 these chicks is to fucking funny ps Panamanian pussy is good tho
Teresa J. Well said.
I see that too.
Teresa J. I was thinking the same thing.. she needs to relax it a bit. Quit blaming culture on ur arrogance ☝
She is gonna turn him into a bad dude if she doesn't take care of him.
Hopefully not. He seems to have his head on straight; she just needs to beware of his head turning elsewhere
exactly and another woman gonna have to deal with 3rd party pain smh
All good dudes can’t be turned bad. He will leave before he disappoints her kids. #StepFatherLivesMatter
Or just appreciate him and his thoughtfulness little more!!😖
Aki Scott thats what ruin all men. ..trying there best then get shitted on
When he said her body wasn't ready for another baby... that was the absolute sweetest and gentle way to her the message across. 💕 ❤. He's a great dude
Look, this is one of the best 25 year old I have ever seen. She is underminding him. He is not that much younger than her.
She doesn't want any more babies, she's stringing him along with that smh. She's sleeping on a good dude.
She is not going to have another baby. She is STRINGING HIM ALONG☹
Yeah, she’s done with the babies. I don’t even think she really wants her husband anymore
@@spitfirestake54
Some women are wicked witches. Pray he makes it to the good side with himself intact.
She really gonna speak Spanish 😒girl goodbye trying to “brag”
I was thinking that to
Her timing for speaking sayings in Spanish was so generic, off & forced sounded like a white af person trying to speak Spanish 🙄
@@MissHMSilk she sounds like a Panamanian who lived their entire life here in the states and speak both languages. there was nothing forced.
@@ryfilms1 nah, as someone who speaks Spanish, It sounded forced. Not in her pronunciation, but her timing, she sound like she trying to brag
I'm weeeaaakk🤣🤣🤣🤣 He looking like girl quit embarrassing us🙄
She's pushing a good dude away
Okaaaaay, girl! We get it, you're from Panama & you speak Spanish 😂 move along now. Lol.
Squiggly Puff Ikr what’s the point??
Until that southern accent slipped out. They in Atlanta
I like this guy. Something about her tho...she seems a lil self-centered & selfish. Nice episode!
You noticed it too huh?? It's her culture.
+James Gibson 😂😂😂
Mizz Dee being a step father @19
She gotta chill you can see he’s different in a positive way
she's spoiled
She’s annoying as fuck!
That man said, “let me get that when I want that”! He rightfully deserve it.
Nope husband or not, a man is not entitled to his wife's body. It's hers and she gives it as she seems fit same for man.
James Craig -- Technically you're right, but not considering the sexual urges of your spouse (man or woman) can cause them to take "THEIR" body elsewhere to meet their needs. (Not saying it's right, but it's the truth).
It becomes selfish when u share your body only "when I want to". Marriage is a compromise, in and out of the bedroom. And sometimes that's the kind of mentality that leads to a divorce. When u arent giving it just because of this excuse or that then the other spouse starts becoming unhappy and that may create issues in other departments of the marriage which may spiral into a divorce. Selfish acts are damaging in a marriage.
Shouldn't he respect her enough not to force her to have sex when she doesn't want to? I have a very high sex drive while my husband only wants in 1-2 times a week but I respect him enough to wait until he's ready.
She got a FAT ASS! godamn!!!!!!
Ok..4 min in and she has worked my nerves!
cause she's not from here, her first language is Spanish LOL #GirlWeGetIt
mona williams 😂😂😂😂😩😩😩 I’m hollering
mona williams 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
penni dud I‘m at 3:50 🙄
Worked!!!!! All of them!
"Let me get that when I want that!" My new go to phrase. Lol
She asked.... "Who has the time?" Ummm...those little fast tail girls in Atlanta. Lol
Facts! They thirsty down here
@@misslc7864 Gurl, who you tellin. They got nothin but TIME! lmao
Give my dawg some goodies! He deserved it! He taking of u, those kids, and putting up with ur attitude. Give this brother goodies to the point he can’t take no more damn it!
This 25-year-old man is so mature and so on point he’s amazing. I think that she will not appreciate him until she has lost him.
I have so much respect for this guy.
thanks
Forgiato 4 you're welcome. Thanks for responding :)
+Jessie Norvell follow my ig..@44fendi
Forgiato Dream Chasing I would but I don't have ig, fb, snap chat, none of that lol
Forgiato 4 hey bro. Kudos to you for being a stand up dude... Respect from Dallas Texas...
This couple is good. I think that she needs to allow him a little more room to be her husband. She has to learn to consult her husband more.
SuperPhdiva I agree
drinking game drink 1 time every time he says "you know what I'm saying"?
Aj is awesome lol
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SuperPhdiva I agree
I admire this man so much. Not to mention he's handsome but it takes a lot of courage to come in to a family which isn't yours and aid in raising another man's children. What an amazing man. Well done sir.
He gotta get the fuck outta der she garbage and gonna destroy him
Very Nice, Down to Earth young man. A gem💘 May she value him and may he continue to honor what being a real man is. So refreshing to see fine, practical and uncomplicated manhood at work😍😍😍
The way judge articulated her words it’s quite inspiring.
I don't think I have ever been so emotionally attached to an episode and it didn't involve any types of abuse or obvious need for sympathy. This guy is the closest thing to PERFECT in a world so screwed. Even though she and her cultural attachments are KILLING me, I get it, but she robbed the cradle and now wants to avert the responsibility and expectations of that relationship. I repeat and expound... this guy is GREAT/PERFECT/AWESOME. AND YOUNG. You can barely get a 27 year old man to pay child support and with THIS guy, you have a ready-made daddy prototype!!!
Or 47 or 57 or…
I️ salute this young man for doing everything right,a lot guys his age are out roaming in the streets and don’t have a care in the world for the people around them.A lot of guys his age need to take heed at this young mans upstanding behavior maybe our youth have a chance at life .
She was looking for a babysitter or a green card. You ain't gotta treat him right, somebody gon snatch him up.
Just Ty exactly
Not everyone wants a green card and to be here like get over it ppl the US ain’t nothing special
Exactly. They killing themselves trying to get over here
@@raqui174
Its not, but then why are people literally dying trying to get here? 😒
Racist much?
Give that man some more loving, he a good man.
Other than the "you know what I'm sayin" every 7 seconds, this dude sounds like a stand up brother....Girl, you better give that man ALL OF THE NOOKIE he can stand....No ratchetness either!!!! Thank God....
James Gibson 😂😂😂😂@you know what I’m saying
Guys just talk like it to get a point across. I do it all the time.
After reading that they were only together three weeks before getting married, I assumed this episode was going to be a mess but I was wrong - that man is golden...you know what I'm saying?
He seems like a good guy. She's worried about having a perfect life for their family and that's understandable but. girl, don't lose your good man over wait for a fairy tale!
She Be exactly . She got exactly what she need in her face
He married a little princess daddy's girl... that's going to be hard for him to overcome.
He's a girl dream guy. Dude got a lot going on for himself he's only 25 and he's a great dude. I feel him on the part when he says he feels like he's not enough since he doesn't have a kid. I use to feel the same way being a virgin at 29 years old isn't easy at all. But one thing about it is that I believe in God's timing. God is not going to put anything on you that you cannot bare. God will send you a daughter or son in his time and it'll be so well worth the wait, don't feel less of yourself young man you'll be alright. And this girl right here Lol girl appreciate what you have because what you won't do another one will and that's for certain.
His soul is pure .
Wow!! This man is an amazing man. Where did she meet him at ?!! Lovely couple. Wish them the best !!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Estelleee Right! In Atlanta, too.
Seems like she was kind of downing him. Her saying he was raised by his Mom only for us to find out that his stepfather raised him. Also he is telling her what he wants but she isn’t listening. He seems like a good man and she’s very blessed to have found him. I mean, where is her two kids father at? I know we don’t know the whole story but watching this makes her look like she takes him for granted.
Cha Cur He is better raised than her. He has a strong, sensible character. He is more mature than her.
Pat P I agree. He appears to be A very mature young man.
i salute you bro . old doesn't mean mature...you're worthy to be in relationship
She brings up being from panama not because she wants to gloat but because she wants to be unique. She wants to be viewed as special, she most likely has low self esteem 🤷🏾♀️.
I agree she definitely has low self-esteem because it was irrelevant. It's sad to see a dark skin woman with weave try so hard to dismiss her blackness.
@@misslc7864 yes, well, being raised in a country where everybody is black, compared to living in a country where being black makes you a minority changes people.
Did she just say her mind is on somebody when he wants it!😂😂😂 for some reasons I don't trust this girl.
She was 26 and married a 20 year old boy..... after only 3 weeks.... hmmmm.... Honey, I think you were trying to be his mother.
She married him when he was 19. Yet he seems the older one.
She was trying to find a baby daddy for her children. She dont want to be anything to him 🤦
Being a step parent (man or woman) can be a thankless job.
I love this guy.very handsome an has a good head on his shoulders. an if she mentions that she's spanish an not from this country one more time😑😑
I absolutely love his accent!
thanks
Forgiato 4 are y'all still married 🤔
inbox me tayfocus04@gmail.com
@@forgiato4400 You're a stand up guy. Best of luck too you.
1. She was extremely condescending on several accords. For example, highlighting his background of coming from a single parent home...YES, when two people are on the same accord having a two parent home is ideal for childbearing BUT from my experience, women from two parent homes are just as insecure, troublesome, etc., if not more than women from single parent homes. The lessons that the parent(s) teaches in that home factors a great deal into the child’s development.
2. When she spoke about being busy/tired from work and that her mind was on “somebody” she misspoke instead of saying “something,” I’ll admit I initially was thinking there was “somebody” else (on her end of course), too.
3. She thought she’d be able to train up a man in the way SHE thinks he should go...also, I wonder if her tubes are tied. Some women have done that - gotten married to a great guy and the guy found out four, five years later she couldn’t have anymore children - very deceitful and painful to hear if you’re a man who truly wants to have children.
4. She’s pretty but immature. He’s handsome and I truly commend the brother for taking a leadership role in his home, caring for her children like his own, and stocking with their marriage during the highs and lows.
Mykesha The tubes tied......
I was thinking the same thing about #1. It's actually quite hypocritical of her seeing as she's was a single parent.
Pat P I think so, too!!
I wonder if that's what he meant by her body wasn't ready and she is planning to have them untied
This is such a good young man. I’m rarely impressed.. but I’m VERY impressed.
Am I the only one who believe that slip of the tongue was not a slip but true feelings of hers
Agreed 💯 I think she really meant Somebody
When judge said i was a legal not para o was dying😂😂😂. Low key shade to bust here lil bubble 😂😂😂. And If it was all about her culture makes me wonder was she married to the father of her child she had as a teen and do the children have the same father. Not to mention he saying you have a bad attitude and it reminds him of his mother and he don’t like it. But she will learn that the hard way when he finds a women with a better attitude that isn’t a consistent reminder of what he grew up with.
had me rolling. Judge Lynn is so clever! :-)
the Wife said she had her son out of wedlock (so I wonder if the daughter was out of wedlock too and with a different man). she found a young man with an old soul and whipped him
No she wasn’t married. She mentioned that her parents were married 39 years and they were disappointed for her having her children out of wedlock
I was rolling when JLT hit her with that. She probably wanted to marry her bd but they didn't want her ass so she married him quickly before he could see the real her. She is a hot ass mess that thinks she is more than what she is.
Wawww I really like this dude ... super nice. Any woman would be lucky to hve him.
My Sentiments Exactly!!👍🎉
Many women out there will gladly except this man and would treat him like a KING lol hate when that happens!
The Great thing about being married, is that you've done a whole ceremony stating that you've got each other's backs, so there's no need to score points or play ego games.
“I’m not here to be your mother, I’m not here to raise you.” But then you go to your daddy for everything instead of your husband? What sense do that make?
Terrence The Dowser Barnes She is a silly chick. She goes after a horny 19 old and then she gonna complain.
Terrence The Dowser Barnes exactly!! she's backwards clearly your comments give me life!!!😂😂😂
Pat P exactly! She loves how good of a man and father he is but he gets no rewards? You’re gonna run him into a chick that’s gonna fill those needs.☕️
tamara Willis she 💀🍑(deadass) backwards🤣. I’m glad to be giving you life! 🙌🏽🤗🤣
He does has a step father so why mention his family situation.. cuz she can say what she is saying about him about her kids
Exactly....Trick!
Exactly. She got on last nerve. Wzup with her trying to act like she not black wearing that long ass weave with no edge control. Girl bye
Run Mr. Patterson!!!!!
this wont last unfortunatly because she doesnt know her place and is too controlling...REAL MEN dont like that ans its just not how things go
This man is so rare! I absolutely adore this mind. His mom, kudos! His wife is ungrateful.
I love this episode 😍😍😍😍😍😚😙😗 proud of this young man
Zanifa Moli he is very mature for his age
I just started to watch and I don’t like her already 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
I’m just saying this guy deserves a lot of respect! It’s dudes out here that aren’t taking card of their own children and they are a lot older or they’re treating the step kids differently because they aren’t theirs biologically. I’m so happy to see his level of maturity! It’s refreshing and gives me hope.
She stalks in circles and tend to repeat herself a lot. He seems more mature even though he’s younger. I like the guy tho. I hope they work it out!
Aissata Bizimana its probably because English is her 2nd language.
Age dont mean shit. You women love to say oh he's younger. Are u so blind to not see older people acting like kids?
She said " I'm a paralegal, I work with different doctors" 🤔. No sweetie, nurses work with doctors. Paralegals work with attorneys
She could be a paralegal in the medical feild
One of the best episode I have even seen
Hands down, my favorite DC episode.
Beautiful couple! It happens too often where a good man is taken for granted and most of our women of today do not understand their needs. This man stepped in so young and showed up a man and is holding everything down with two jobs, invested in the kids' education and showing up a real father figure to her son, and seems very respectful. I just hope she doesn't mess up because this is exactly how many of our good guys become bad!
I love the reaction of the audience when she was speaking to Spanish
im liking this guy a lot. by looks u nvr would guess how mature he thinks. she better know she has a good man. I hope they find a way over this hump together.
This woman got a teenager because she wanted to groom him into what SHE wanted out of a partner without considering or respecting his needs. This is why I'm against relationships with such large age gaps because the older person always wants to dominate and disrespect the younger partner because of their age. She fails at compromising and doesn't respect that partner that SHE chose. This young man is great, he's sensible, emotionally intelligent, responsible, and just an over all great person. I hope that he's in college and/or working towards greater economic stability. I hope that she respects the partner that she chose and learns to compromise.
This man is an amazing man!! Wow! So young but so mentally mature! I hope he gets all the best things in life.
Leave now while you can. Wait too late you won't have kids of your own. She's already told you she doesn't want kids. Don't be a fool...
Robert Nance If she loved him, she would let him go.
This woman is very selfish...
Chances are very high that she has an affair......
I said it
It already slipped out of her mouth that she had somebody else on her mind then she tried to clean it up smh
@@aprila6628 i was saying the same thing
Did she slip and say she was thinking about someone else when it comes to sex? SUSPECT!!!
Easy C Yep she sure did.. Then realized what she said & tried to backpedal.. Unappreciative little daddy's girl
Must be the bilingual thing 😂😂😂
Am I the only that thinks the Judge is the perfect woman? I love it when she tears up someone's marriage certificate. I could hear her speak all day.
No, you are not the only one who thinks Lynn Toler is the perfect woman! I simply adore her! She’s the most wise and kindhearted person I’ve encountered who does not stand behind a pulpit. Her wisdom is real and she uses it in a very practical way …as it was intended. She is Lady Wisdom personified (Proverbs 8). I’ve never experienced anyone like her. She’s younger than I am …(I’m 71 years old), but she sets the example of the woman I’d like to grow to. I know her heart is broken because her husband died recently, and I pray for her every single day. I’m believing that God can bring her through this experience whole and not broken. I know she adored her husband and I feel the loss. She is a truly a one of a kind sister, and during this trying time my heart breaks for her. She is a stone cold blessing to the black community and I’m thankful for her.
I love this guy! Kudos❤
He's a jewel!!!!
Wow when those grades were listed down to his determination to make her child succeed academically- I thought why are you here. Step dad at 19 and his a committed and a good guy. Yet it's still not enough for this woman. If she doesn't recognise and appreciate him; he will become ruined and spoil it for another woman; who can't now understand the deadbeat mentality.
1ST mistake:Dating an older woman WITH KIDS!
2ND:Dating an older woman WITH KIDS
3RD: Marrying a loudmouth
The guy is 25, if she can't get right sexually, she need to let him go
Man this is one of the best couples I've seen. Thumbs up to this dude as well. I like 'im
Now how come I can't find a man and he want this 31 yr old chick with 2 kids and I don't have any
dance4life1208 giiiirl! I can’t attract anything but a man with a bus load of
Kids.
Honey life ain't fair.
No better here in the UK I’m afraid.
dance4life1208 😂😂😂the irony of life
Maybe it's you
My mom was born and raised in Panama, I’ve been there a million times, all Panamanian women don’t act like her. She’s stereotyping
Great episode really refreshing to see a young black man with a old soul. Raspek
she seems like she doesn't love him
Can one of you ladies on RUclips take this woman to a bar/pub and buy her a tall glass of "ACT RIGHT"? She's tripping....
James Gibson A glass of “ACT RIGHT”! I’m done😂😂😂😂!!!!
I am telling you. She has the audacity to be acting like she is upgrading him when she is a Trap Queen and her image is shot in her own culture. He is so happy she is exotic he will take the baggage, the disrespect, and the discount off of his life huh?
I think she just doesn't want to have another child so she nitpicks at him hoping to turn him off to say "see we not ready for a kid because of this or that". Her oldest is 14, she doesn't want to start over. She needs to be honest about that so he can make his own decision to stay or leave; if that's a deal breaker for him.
He's a good husband! I respect his position.