HUGE LIFE UPDATE: QUESTION TIME WITH ALL MY KIDS!

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
  • So today I wanted to do a special question time with all my kids. So you all asked questions on my instagram account, then I asked them to my kids. One at a time. This was one of the sweetest things I have ever filmed. I hope you enjoy and make it to the end!
    Comment below if you made it to the end!
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Комментарии • 492

  • @Bea33333
    @Bea33333 3 месяца назад +104

    It's wrong to call people autistic and assume they have autism. But for future reference, the way that you phrased it with the "there's nothing wrong with Isla" is a bit tactless. There is nothing wrong with autistic people full stop. We're just a little different :) Not hating though
    EDIT: Also, the problem here isn't really Isla being called autistic, as there would be nothing wrong with that and I'm sure you'd love her just the same if she was. But, there is a problem with the fact that people are calling her autistic as an insult, as a teenage girl at school, I often hear the word "autism" get thrown around as an insult and online and it is so incredibly hurtful. Perhaps with your large platform, you can discourage people from staying stuff like this, not just for Isla (although she's such a sweet girl and you have every right to defend her), but also for the autistic people who do not want to be thought of as these strange aliens. :)

    • @dianelinda1000
      @dianelinda1000 3 месяца назад +8

      Excatly this, we love the inghams and have watched for years me and my daughter watched this vlog and my daughter is 13 and recently diagnosed asd I had to reassure her that autism isn’t a bad thing just see the world differently than others , the word is thrown about so badly by people just let people be who they wanna be x

    • @Animallovercb333
      @Animallovercb333 3 месяца назад +5

      I agree there nothing wrong with having autism I suffer with learning disabilities and just because I have it doesn't mean I am going to be like everyone it just means I am slower at things and need help

    • @ourcherishedcherubs
      @ourcherishedcherubs 3 месяца назад +9

      💯 agree I did not like the way the mum was so offended by the idea that her daughter may be on the autism spectrum and saying no there is definitely nothing wrong with Isla😮 Well Sarah there is nothing wrong with having autism either it’s just a different way of seeing the world in-fact autistic people are the sweetest kindest most honest and trustworthy people you will ever meet so definitely not something to be ashamed of .

    • @Animallovercb333
      @Animallovercb333 3 месяца назад +6

      @@ourcherishedcherubs your so right so what if she did have autism there nothing wrong it just means you see the world differently so what if she had special needs I suffer with a learning disabilities and may need help always be proud of who you as jesus made us in his own way

  • @1967margit
    @1967margit 2 месяца назад

    Hi Sarah, I watch your video's for a long time, love it. I do want to say something about this one. I love hearing more about/from your kids but I hope for you that you dont feel the need to be defencive. Thats what is sounding thru a lot but I think not neccesary. Dont let bad comments rule your response but pride. You get to people with bad comments much more with showing that you are proud. Good luck🇳🇱

  • @wennaclark9164
    @wennaclark9164 3 месяца назад +67

    Isla if you read these comments,It was you that made a lot of people watch this channel when it first started, you were mega cute then and still a lovely young girl now.

  • @Kekw79028
    @Kekw79028 3 месяца назад +42

    I just want to comment, I dont think theres anything wrong with what Isla said about being autistic, she actually worded it very well and I appreciate her sensitivity around the subject however, Sarah, please dont say things like 'there's nothing wrong with Isla' because having autism doesnt mean theres something 'wrong' with you, you are just different and percieve the world differently. I just want to give you the opportunity to understand that it can be damaging to use connotations such as 'wrong' or 'bad' with autism, autism can be a really cool superpower like Jace's eye superpower, it doesn't mean there is something 'wrong' with him and I noticed you reworded that question I suppose because the question was 'is there something still wrong with Jace's eye' and if thats the case, I hope you can see that by you wanting to reword that question for Jace's sake, then it would be nice for you to not use such connotations with autism or learning difficulties. There would be absolutely nothing 'wrong' with Isla behaviour if she did or didn't have autism and you being so defensive over those 'assumptions' can also be taken negatively as if its offensive to be asked if you are autistic. Another way of looking at it is if someone asked Isla if she was homosexual and then you said 'there's nothing wrong with the way Isla behaves, shes not gay! It really irks me when people ask that' If someone asked me if I'm gay when I'm not, I just say no and leave it at that, because its not offensive and its not a bad thing or wrong thing in any way. I hope you understand how this can come across. Btw the specific part I'm referring to is said at 52:57. Just a heads up for when future referring to developmental disabilities.

    • @ourcherishedcherubs
      @ourcherishedcherubs 3 месяца назад +11

      Fantastic comment really well said 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 from a very proud mum of a beautiful brilliant kind hearted sweet and gentle autistic daughter I was quite upset and shocked with Sarah’s response she came across very ignorant and rude I do hope she realises her mistake and apologies but I doubt she will because she thinks she’s perfect.

    • @CharlotteIvy
      @CharlotteIvy 3 месяца назад +2

      I’m so glad you commented on this! As someone with autism and adhd I found it quite alarming the word ‘nothing wrong’ being used in relation to autism! Being autistic doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you! I feel like societies understanding on autism and neurological disabilities is so slim, we’re never going to beat the stigma

    • @laylaheneaghan1331
      @laylaheneaghan1331 3 месяца назад +4

      I agree and I think the fact Isla herself addressed the questions so sensitively with the understanding there isn’t anything wrong with autism and that she didn’t offend those who do have it but she was simply addressing she isn’t shows how kind and emotionally intelligent she is and thoughtful with her words I would say that says a lot in comparison to many other 12 year olds just because she likes Lego and dresses etc doesn’t make her immature she really is lovely

    • @Kekw79028
      @Kekw79028 3 месяца назад +3

      @@laylaheneaghan1331 I really do agree! I think it probably helps that being a female and autistic is more commonly seen on tiktok and so maybe she's had some exposure to autism that doesn't look stereotypical, and therefore can see that being autistic doesn't make you an alien, also the fact that their friend they go to theme parks with is autistic is very worrying that Sarah can make such statements online regarding that something is 'wrong' with autistic people and therefore, maybe Isla also is sensitive and more educated on the matter having a friend who is on the spectrum makes her less judgemental and hold stereotypes against autistic people. I think Isla is fantastic at conveying her emotions and really appreciate her sensitivity around the topic. She's a very wise young girl.

    • @Kekw79028
      @Kekw79028 3 месяца назад +1

      @@CharlotteIvyI completely agree with you! However considering Isla is the next generation for our young people and that she handled the topic so maturely and sensitively makes me think our future generations will beat the stigma. Unfortunately, Sarah still seems to have the mindset of the 70's and therefore still sees autism as an insult and offensive. Those generations won't be mainstream for much longer though! Just look at the acceptance for LGBTQ+ communities. Young women like Isla are going to propel the acceptance of everyone and it's amazing to see such a young person be so wise around sensitive topics.

  • @paulineharrison655
    @paulineharrison655 3 месяца назад +59

    Why did I cry at the interview with Isla? She’s such a beautiful girl. Never change Isla sweetheart 💕💕

    • @sandrac2
      @sandrac2 3 месяца назад +2

      I agree she’s so lovely

    • @lisavanstone583
      @lisavanstone583 3 месяца назад

      Isla is just the cutest such a beautiful young lady x

  • @sharonselby8763
    @sharonselby8763 3 месяца назад +57

    Good on isla for not being a sheep, shes bloody cracking, that girl def knows what she wants.

  • @shirleyrobertson1221
    @shirleyrobertson1221 3 месяца назад +32

    Sarah let Isabelle speak for herself your always interupting her.

  • @katec8580
    @katec8580 3 месяца назад +16

    Just FYI you need to be resident in the UK in order to take a UK driving test. You can't take one when you're on holiday there. Izzy would need to take hers in Dubai now, seeing as that's where you're resident.

  • @bexclark4769
    @bexclark4769 3 месяца назад +19

    Hi Sarah, that thing that esme is describing sounds like OCD (as someone who used to have it) and felt a bit weird when guys said “before anyone says it there’s nothing wrong with her” so there’s something wrong with someone having OCD?

    • @Kekw79028
      @Kekw79028 3 месяца назад +10

      She did the exact same thing when discussing that Isla didn't have autism. I don't think people realise how damaging these negative connotations are. She wouldn't of said there's something 'wrong' with being gay, its no different...

    • @bexclark4769
      @bexclark4769 3 месяца назад +1

      @@Kekw79028 u what?

    • @cal59281
      @cal59281 3 месяца назад +6

      Wasn’t there a thing ages ago where they said she did have OCD but was getting help for it??

    • @bexclark4769
      @bexclark4769 3 месяца назад +6

      @@cal59281 that’s exactly what I thought during Covid right?

    • @cal59281
      @cal59281 3 месяца назад +6

      @@bexclark4769 yep, 3 years ago! They did a whole video about it. If I remember right I think they did some special activities with her brought her some surprises and she was cured and they never mentioned it again. Clearly is something that still affects her and something she has struggled to cope with previously

  • @AmWil-bo5qe
    @AmWil-bo5qe 3 месяца назад +38

    Just when I didn’t think you could sink any lower with your exploitation of those poor institutionalised children, any decent mother wouldn’t dream of inviting strangers to comment on their children, let alone then telling them the negative things people have said about them. Disgusting

  • @aimeepennington3932
    @aimeepennington3932 3 месяца назад +21

    I do understand the defence for Isla and the comments around autism. But I'm going to come at the comments from another angle. So I've got a 13yr old, who in my eyes I've never thought she had any sort of alternative needs, never saw any clues of being on the spectrum etc, but let me tell you now, its such a massive variety of things that can all add to being neurodivergent or on the spectrum. My girl has small things throughout her life that I would of absolutely said we're just normal quirks. Turns out after hormones hit she saw a few struggles (minor things that all added up to become overwhelming things to her) and she's been with a therapist for anxiety, who's put her forward for autism spectrum diagnosis and adhd. So it's very often no way near as big of differences as we once perceived... she's absolutely a normal 13 year old x

    • @CarlieMaria28
      @CarlieMaria28 3 месяца назад

      I knew someone who asked his parents if he could get tested for autism at similar age. He got diagnosed and so did his dad around the same time.

    • @aimeepennington3932
      @aimeepennington3932 3 месяца назад

      @CarlieMaria28 I mean she's not asked for the check, as she had no clue about it either. It was more she was struggling with anxieties a little and after in depth talks we found she has many little traits of both. It's honestly no way near as obvious as people once thought, nor as obvious as TV and movies make out

    • @Lina-m5v
      @Lina-m5v 3 месяца назад

      Sounds a lot like me growing up, I was just seen as a bit different or “quirky” and I ended up struggling a lot once I hit my teens, I left school early and never successfully returned to education. In my late teens autism was mentioned to me but I never pursued a diagnosis until my daughter was going through the process and I decided to after realising how much she was like me as a child. The understanding of autism in women and girls we have now is only very recently discovered about 10/15 years ago it was believed autism was very rare in girls. Now we know it’s just as common for boys and girls it just presents differently. Not to say that Isla is autistic, only a professional could make that decision but there’s definitely still a lack of understanding of what autism looks like in girls

  • @lindad1195
    @lindad1195 3 месяца назад +30

    I love how Mila says “hmmmm”. And rolls her eyes whenever you ask her a question!

    • @leannescott8822
      @leannescott8822 3 месяца назад +1

      What your favourite food cheese lol

  • @jansheehan302
    @jansheehan302 3 месяца назад +24

    Comment for isla ; don't ever rush to grow up , it's OK, but not that amazing . You have a lovely personality , you glow with health and well being .. I say to my girls , I have 3 , " don't race to the end , cause the end is all there is " my last word ... be yourself , its wonderful x😊

  • @neryshughes6778
    @neryshughes6778 3 месяца назад +6

    Sarah please let your children speak u always talk over them

  • @EmilyTurner-sz5vk
    @EmilyTurner-sz5vk 3 месяца назад +4

    The children are all adorable in this video I’m sure you’re so proud 🥰 but I’m going to have to unsub, I used to watch when I was a teen then life happened & I had my own little boy but started watching again a few months ago but some of your “fans” are awful & I don’t feel like I can even comment anymore without being attacked, but I wish you all well Em xx

  • @Mais_ee
    @Mais_ee 3 месяца назад +3

    One whats wrong with being autistic and what is wrong with acting like your age, but isla acts like half her age. Let the child speak for herself sarah you dont have to speak over isla and no one has ever said you’ve made you isla autistic cause that not how it works. You dont get autism from neglect. You can still be presured when your homeschooled, you put your kids all over the internet wheres there billions of trolls and preverts and people who will pressure your children more than school ever would. Maybe school is good as it teaches childen how to grow up and how your meant to act in society which these kids will not understand
    What esme says about having to say good night to isla is literally like the definition of ocd
    Also isla doesnt have social media then how is she seeing the comments

  • @bubbleyies979
    @bubbleyies979 3 месяца назад +24

    I love Isla, always have done, but one thing I LOVE about her is she’s not in a rush to grow up. Isla, I’m almost 16 years old and have the same thought. I still dress like I’m an “8 year old” as what other people like to say. I’m also homeschooled and when I was in school I felt the pressure of being like all of the other girls in my class to “fit it” , but since leaving school I’ve seen my true colours. I act how I want, I dress how I want, why? Because I CAN and YOU CAN. It’s so crazy seeing how much peer pressure school has on children, even as young as Isla. Isla, you’re perfect just the way you are. And don’t let ANYONE change that. And I also had an eye patch when I was Jace’s age too. I had a lazy left eye, but never wanted to wear my glasses. But for some reason I just grew out of it and don’t need glasses anymore 12-11 years later.
    Love you guys so much, been a fan since 2017 ❤

  • @SassySuze
    @SassySuze 3 месяца назад +17

    Let Isabelle answer! You talk over her so much.

  • @annapatterson4288
    @annapatterson4288 3 месяца назад +42

    I think Isla is the most intelligent out of all of them. It's a real shame she won't reach her full potential because of the lack of a full and varied education

    • @lisaemilyfox6848
      @lisaemilyfox6848 3 месяца назад +8

      So true

    • @oliviagriffiths4850
      @oliviagriffiths4850 3 месяца назад +3

      How do you know what her education is like daily. Are you seeing her school work???

    • @annapatterson4288
      @annapatterson4288 3 месяца назад +6

      @@oliviagriffiths4850 no, but I can fully imagine that it's not full and comprehensive. And that's going by the minimal amount of time they spend on education

    • @liisamaarit4607
      @liisamaarit4607 3 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂 that's the dumbest comment I've ever read 😂😂😂

    • @annapatterson4288
      @annapatterson4288 3 месяца назад

      @liisamaarit4607 oh, don't you think Isla is intelligent then?

  • @Summer_Haf90
    @Summer_Haf90 3 месяца назад +123

    Felt so bad for Isla you could see how upset she felt 😢 why would people even comment about autism or anything like that, let the girl be 12

    • @EmmaLop-sn4kc
      @EmmaLop-sn4kc 3 месяца назад +68

      They shouldn't used kid for money

    • @georgia4391
      @georgia4391 3 месяца назад +13

      Ikr I love Isla I haven’t met her but she seems so sweet ❤

    • @leannescott8822
      @leannescott8822 3 месяца назад +2

      @@EmmaLop-sn4kcthere don’t grow up

    • @nicolajervis6695
      @nicolajervis6695 3 месяца назад +6

      ​@@EmmaLop-sn4kchere u are watching them anyway.

    • @Summer_Haf90
      @Summer_Haf90 3 месяца назад +10

      @@EmmaLop-sn4kc doesn’t mean people should still comment things like that .. she’s a child

  • @emmabailo
    @emmabailo 3 месяца назад +50

    i feel like a mum saying this i know you shouldnt have favourites but i just love isla so much! she is such a precious girl, she reminds me of myself when i was younger and i felt like i grew up too quickly, i look back down and wish i was still playing with toys at islas age and dolls etc, there is nothing wrong with isla, what she enjoys or her behaviour! she is a happy healthy girl clearly🩷✨

    • @leannescott8822
      @leannescott8822 3 месяца назад

      I don’t have favourite I love my kids the same there are twins there got Autism i still love them

    • @tamracasey276
      @tamracasey276 3 месяца назад +2

      Isla is such a sweetheart

  • @lindad1195
    @lindad1195 3 месяца назад +41

    I don’t know why anyone would think Isla is autistic! There’s nothing wrong with being autistic at all but Isla does not exhibit any autistic traits.

    • @tonihoward5353
      @tonihoward5353 3 месяца назад +5

      Was going to say this myself. Ive seen no autistic traits in isla. My girl is autistic, just not diagnosed yet, as still waiting, but pediatric team, play therapy team, school send and a friend( retired pediatric doctor) say 100% she is. When you are with autistic people daily you can usually pick neurospicy people out.

    • @lindad1195
      @lindad1195 3 месяца назад +2

      @@tonihoward5353 Absolutely! I have two autistic grandchildren myself so you and I know!

    • @princessses2892
      @princessses2892 3 месяца назад +10

      @@lindad1195I think unless you’ve been psychiatrically evaluated you wouldn’t know. Anybody could be autistic and
      not display external symptoms. My friend was diagnosed in her 30s and not even her family suspected. A lot is traits that go on internally. Theres so many people in 40s/50s in media who have diagnosed later in life. In my experience unless you’re at the severe end
      of the spectrum you wouldnt know.
      Girls are great at masking.
      People shouldn’t imply others are or aren’t in my opinion 😊

    • @minan3372
      @minan3372 3 месяца назад +3

      I agree i‘m autistic myself and i think it’s sad that when a child nowadays behaves like a child people suspect there must be something going on 😢 i love seeing children behaving like children being playful and stuff

    • @TWR1988
      @TWR1988 3 месяца назад +4

      @@tonihoward5353what’s an autistic person look like? I’m AuDHD (a 36 year old female)

  • @susanlefebour8818
    @susanlefebour8818 3 месяца назад +11

    Isla has a beautiful kind soul. She is delightful and growing into a very pretty young woman. All your children are marvelous and loved listening to them answering their questions ❤

  • @rachelholt2358
    @rachelholt2358 3 месяца назад +12

    Isabelle was constantly interrupted.

  • @joannewall5499
    @joannewall5499 3 месяца назад +8

    Good grief, I feel for Isla, how can people be so cruel, Isla you are amazing, be yourself and never change xxxx

  • @splendita2021
    @splendita2021 3 месяца назад +17

    Isla, enjoy your childhood. Dont rush growing up. You are a beautiful, smart girl.

    • @splendita2021
      @splendita2021 3 месяца назад +2

      Isla is 💯 , Sarah's twin

  • @lindad1195
    @lindad1195 3 месяца назад +6

    I live in America and I wouldn’t send my own child to high school here! Now my two kids went to high school here but this was in the 90s but I wouldn’t send them now not with what goes on there!

  • @tomaarashkat
    @tomaarashkat 3 месяца назад +12

    Can I just say Isla is the sweetest most sincere young lady,she came across so well in this video,showed her true self,so sweet genuine and kind , never change ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @CharlotteIvy
    @CharlotteIvy 3 месяца назад +5

    As someone with autism and adhd the wording of ‘there is nothing wrong’ is quite insulting. Having autism is not like having an illness, and there is nothing ‘wrong’ with being autistic. We have a long way to go to beat the stigma clearly.

  • @kiahdixon6861
    @kiahdixon6861 3 месяца назад +11

    As someone born/raised in the US, high school here is nothing like the movies. That’s an extremely romanticized version of reality😭

    • @aliciamariee93
      @aliciamariee93 2 месяца назад

      Right, I hated it. Wish I had been home schooled

  • @Livvgrace_23
    @Livvgrace_23 2 месяца назад +2

    Sarah you seem to have something against autism and ocd and other disabilities/mental health issues , you have never experienced being us having to deal with autism ect in a world full of trolls , making out like it’s such a bad thing to have autism or ocd I’ve noticed you’ve said stuff a few times that makes it sound like you have something against it , so what if Isla did have autism or ocd what is the problem?? I think you need to be careful with the way you word things like that

  • @AwesomePebblez
    @AwesomePebblez 3 месяца назад +8

    Milas section cracked me up. I’ve had literally the worst day and her hmmms and cheese answers really made me laugh. Shes such a cheeky little soul in the best way 💜

  • @traceykillam1658
    @traceykillam1658 3 месяца назад +9

    I absolutely loved the vlog. It is great hearing from the 4 oldest. Mila is cute but just wants her cheese right now. LOL. I hated school bigtime and would have loved to be homeschooled. It wasnt an option back then. I love how the kids have all got their own individual likes and dislikes for their age groups. Dont change just because other people think you should you should be doing something differently.❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @betsytrog813
    @betsytrog813 3 месяца назад +8

    Oh sweet Isla. You are so so precious. You are perfect. I don’t see how anyone sees that there could be anything wrong with you. Stay young as long as you want. There is nothing wrong with it. I’m 45 and I still buy toys for myself sometimes. I’m sorry people are so judgey. 💜💜💜

    • @ourcherishedcherubs
      @ourcherishedcherubs 3 месяца назад +4

      There is nothing wrong with having autism either maybe some people were just curious as my daughter has autism and she is very young at heart and sweet and gentle just like Isla so maybe people were just curious not judging as I said there is nothing bad about being autistic most autistic people are the sweetest kindest honest people ever I find it strange that Sarah was so offended by the idea of her daughter having special needs but that says more about her really doesn’t it?

  • @brookerichard6827
    @brookerichard6827 3 месяца назад +8

    I applaud Isla for being her own person & doing her own thing. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with still wanting to play with dolls or toys at the age of 12! There is no reason to rush growing up because speaking from experience, it isn't that great. I honestly wish I wouldn't have been in a rush to grow up. I remember getting together with my younger cousin to play with her dolls when I was 12 & I loved it. A plus to homeschooling is not having the pressures to fit in & grow up at a faster pace like I experienced in regular school. Isla, you are perfect the way you are! You are a sweet, kind, all around lovely girl. Don't pay attention to the haters.

  • @hayleygrimwood5119
    @hayleygrimwood5119 3 месяца назад +7

    Isla has empathy she’s an old soul you do you darling

  • @johull4000
    @johull4000 3 месяца назад +9

    Defo need a part two. Loved this vlog. All the children are amazing in their own way. 😊

  • @SallyFern-eg6sk
    @SallyFern-eg6sk 3 месяца назад +19

    Just when you think this mum couldn't go any lower than a snakes belly here she is telling a 12 year old people comment about her . Omg I literally have no words 😢

    • @Vikki-zo1js
      @Vikki-zo1js 3 месяца назад +1

      Of you watched the video properly you would have heard Sarah state it was a comment island had seen and not what she'd told her re watch then come bk 🙄

    • @Bridget-br5vr
      @Bridget-br5vr 3 месяца назад +7

      Nothing this woman does surprises me

    • @Bridget-br5vr
      @Bridget-br5vr 3 месяца назад +6

      @@Vikki-zo1js How do you think I s l a came across the comment in the first place.

    • @Vikki-zo1js
      @Vikki-zo1js 3 месяца назад +2

      Yes but you very clearly stated that Sarah had sat there and told ISLA the comment that was made my point was that was an untrue comment you made because what was said was isla had seen the msg and wanted to reply so fact check yourself before making pointless comments

    • @Bridget-br5vr
      @Bridget-br5vr 3 месяца назад

      @@Vikki-zo1js I've a headache after reading that comment Vikki it makes no sense at all

  • @Lucy-yi6pr
    @Lucy-yi6pr 3 месяца назад +10

    Isla is just the sweetest soul 😍 I’m 29 and on the waiting list for an autism referral. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being autistic, it’s not a problem, but I don’t think Isla shows any signs of it tbh. People just need to mind their own business. I’m sure if Sarah thought there was something there, she’d get her tested. Kids grow up too fast these days, let her enjoy her childhood as it doesn’t last long 😂 sending love to Isla xx

    • @CarlieMaria28
      @CarlieMaria28 3 месяца назад +3

      i knew of a teenager who asked his parents if he could get tested for autism. Got diagnosed during covid and dad ended up being diagnosed too.

  • @nicolajervis6695
    @nicolajervis6695 3 месяца назад +6

    Aurora can't wait to see you grow
    Mila your a wild cheesy girl who keeps you busy.
    Jace your a cool dude it doesn't matter if your hairs long or short your still the same.
    Isla don't grow up to quick just be u. Trust me growing older isn't as much fun. Just continue playing with lego or water till u want to stop.
    Esme you seem to have grown up so quick but it's great ur a great role model for isla and she can talk to you.
    Izzy the oldest the more sensible one but every day is different. Follow your dreams.
    I loved this long sit down vlog. Haters will always hate but Continue to watch you anyway. Strange bunch
    ❤❤

  • @splendita2021
    @splendita2021 3 месяца назад +8

    We love sparkly, frilly, girly outfits! We love Isla's style. When i was 12, i did the same things as isla. I wasnt ready to grow up fast.

  • @angelajenner4301
    @angelajenner4301 3 месяца назад +9

    Oh sarah, i cant get Isla out of my head, she is beautiful inside and out and those trolls are vile x

    • @PeterDugmore
      @PeterDugmore 3 месяца назад +14

      Vile is a parent putting their child through this, it’s terribly sad.

    • @angelajenner4301
      @angelajenner4301 3 месяца назад +3

      Peter its not the parents its wicked trolls

    • @PeterDugmore
      @PeterDugmore 3 месяца назад +14

      @@angelajenner4301 why would any parent ask strangers to ask questions about their kids and then when they get unpleasant ones tell the kid? It’s insane.

  • @hannahwallis1290
    @hannahwallis1290 3 месяца назад +17

    Take a shot every time mila says hhmmmmm 🤣😍 so cute!🤣

  • @kathy9771
    @kathy9771 3 месяца назад +6

    Isla you are awesome! I have triplet 2 year old granddaughters. If they are half as awesome as you, I would be very proud! Please never change, be YOU, because you are enough and real! Your friend Kathy from Montgomery NY

  • @natalielaw7334
    @natalielaw7334 3 месяца назад +5

    My 21 and 18 year old still live at home x

  • @deb2520
    @deb2520 3 месяца назад +19

    Isla, you are perfect! Don’t listen to anyone that says you are autistic or anything else. I can’t believe someone would say that! Are they insane!!???

    • @_the.lionesses.fanpage_
      @_the.lionesses.fanpage_ 3 месяца назад +6

      Even as an autistic person it's rude to assume something that isn't true, if she wanted to open up about it she could. Isla should never have gotten that question in the 1st place

    • @jennapaterson5942
      @jennapaterson5942 3 месяца назад +16

      what's so offensive about autism

    • @_the.lionesses.fanpage_
      @_the.lionesses.fanpage_ 3 месяца назад +3

      @@jennapaterson5942 people were misjudging her and calling her autistic that's why

    • @oliviagriffiths4850
      @oliviagriffiths4850 3 месяца назад +5

      My son is autistic and perfect and defo has a higher iq than most adults in this chat. Stop talking like autism is a bad thing.

    • @_the.lionesses.fanpage_
      @_the.lionesses.fanpage_ 3 месяца назад +4

      @oliviagriffiths4850 exactly, autism is a superpower and not a bad thing, I'm 13 and I was doing work for 16/17year olds

  • @grainnebellenie4449
    @grainnebellenie4449 3 месяца назад +1

    I have always enjoyed watching your videos and actually felt bad that you have felt so judged for your life choices, which I genuinely thought were inspirational . However today my opinion changed, when I watched this video.
    You don’t like being judged yet you thought it was ok to air a video using the word ‘normal’ to describe neurotypical! My 13 year old was diagnosed with autism at the end of last year, there is nothing ‘wrong’ with her, she sees the world differently to a neurotypical person but that doesn’t make it ‘wrong’. She is a very intelligent child who will go along way. What is wrong is that people use language to make her feel excluded or not accepted in the neurotypical world. You didn’t like when you thought someone was being critical of your child, I don’t like the language you used to make my child feel like she’s ’not normal’! You have a platform to promote a positive change in the world yet you’ve used it to make autistic children feel like they are abnormal. Think about the language you use, you wouldn’t like it if it was directed to one of your children!

  • @SusanMiller-m8x
    @SusanMiller-m8x 3 месяца назад +2

    Love Isla she is the sweetest kindest girl and oh so clever her memory is awesome she never forgets anything and she is beautiful love all the girls and Jace but I have a soft spot for Isla xx

  • @rebekahcayzer9164
    @rebekahcayzer9164 3 месяца назад +4

    Mila is hilarious 😆 Isla is amazing such a kind and caring young girl ❤

  • @annapatterson4288
    @annapatterson4288 3 месяца назад +7

    Jace didn't answer a few questions the way Sarah wanted.

  • @jayneforster5677
    @jayneforster5677 3 месяца назад +4

    Auruoa is so cute ! Mila is just a mini Esme, an amazing little girl ,love her!I love whenever Jace answers a question , he goes hmmmmmm! So cute!🤔 Isla, you are a beautiful girl inside and out! You have always been so sweet ! You grow at your own pace ! There are 12 yr old girls getting pregnant etc here in Australia! It’s appalling to see ! Don’t change sweetheart! ❤ Esme is so lovely ! Love her hair too!

  • @elaineadamson8561
    @elaineadamson8561 3 месяца назад +5

    Isla is such a lovely girl. Don’t ever change. Xxx💞💞💞

  • @amyandabbiesworld2463
    @amyandabbiesworld2463 2 месяца назад +1

    Isla ignore the people who say you have autism I don't wear makeup, wear short skirts I like to wear shorts under dresses if there to shorts, I don't have a boyfriend, and going out to clubs no and I'm 12 nearly 13 on October 13 do what you want to wear what you want don't take other peoples bad words your gorgeous, amazing, the prettiest girl I have have ever seen I would really love to meet you guys one day and remember one life live it!! I love you guys so much your such a beautiful family!! I was actually so lucky and got surprised with Eras tour tickets in Vip omg the view you guys are going to love it it's way better then I excepted it to be bejeweled is so pretty with all of the bracelets lighting up and it's just so magical!! ❤❤

  • @zachareniaskordouli7717
    @zachareniaskordouli7717 3 месяца назад +3

    Hi Sarah Aurora is such a happy sweetest baby ever also she is so adorable and cute.😊😊😊😊🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @PuckiMucki
    @PuckiMucki 3 месяца назад +8

    There is nothing wrong living at home after you turn 18. There is no rules that you have to leave home after you turn 18. I was in my late 20s when I left home to move in a flat closer to work, but I was still visiting home every weekend.

  • @jayneforster5677
    @jayneforster5677 3 месяца назад +5

    I love all your children ! They’re amazing in their own way !

  • @natasharice6796
    @natasharice6796 3 месяца назад +1

    Just reading these comments before I have even started watching I can tell am going to get abit an emotional here my sister is autistic there nothing wrong with autistic people but Isla has no traits that we see in a few clips of her life so please let’s be respectful here ❤

  • @_the.lionesses.fanpage_
    @_the.lionesses.fanpage_ 3 месяца назад +11

    I agree with you Sarah, I have autism and still play with dolls even tho I'm a teenager there's nothing wrong playing with dolls or isla matching with her sisters. All your kids are perfect they way they are, as I can tell non of them are neglected. I love how you let them be themselves and don't have to hide their personalities. Love you guys so much ❤

    • @leannescott8822
      @leannescott8822 3 месяца назад +1

      My kids are 15 there still play with dolls and toys there favourite is there iPad there Autism

    • @_the.lionesses.fanpage_
      @_the.lionesses.fanpage_ 3 месяца назад +1

      @leannescott8822 same, I don't have an I pad but I still play with dolls and I'm 13, I don't get peoples problems with them tbf

  • @burbie1342
    @burbie1342 3 месяца назад +4

    Isla, you are such a special little girl don’t be in a hurry to grow up. You’re beautiful in every way.
    No Sarah, if you talking about, you said this, so don’t come for me about a child’s ass cheek hanging out the bottom of her skirt you better put Miss Esme in check. now remember Sarah those were your words.😮

  • @shawnipaigeadair5399
    @shawnipaigeadair5399 3 месяца назад +3

    Isla, you are an amazing and beautiful young girl 🩷. You may enjoy dolls etc (normal for a 12 year old) but you are still far more gracious and mature than any of the ignorant people criticising a child behind a screen in their spare time.
    Keep being yourself sweetie 🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @emilyevans4603
    @emilyevans4603 3 месяца назад +4

    I just wanted to leave a comment to say you have beautiful children…and that eye superpower of Jace’s is so cool and I bet no other superhero has that power! 🦸🏻‍♂️

  • @BethanyTaylor-ne9ir
    @BethanyTaylor-ne9ir 3 месяца назад +6

    I can’t stop laughing about mila she’s so funny 😂😂

  • @JamesFleeman
    @JamesFleeman 3 месяца назад +4

    Sarah let Mila know I’m having Cheese🧀🧀🧀🧀 with my dinner later lol that was so funny

  • @hannahl3277
    @hannahl3277 3 месяца назад +3

    Oh i just adore Isla. What a beautiful little soul she is. She is so intelligent, you can see it the way she talks. I hope she never changes

  • @simplybrandiasmr9964
    @simplybrandiasmr9964 3 месяца назад +4

    I freaking love Isla!!!
    People say that my 6 year old is immature despite being extremely intelligent because he doesn't talk like an adult. I'm like DUH cuz I let him be a child. Like we have our whole lives to be adults. Let her enjoy her effing childhood. Wth. That got me HEATED. People are such assholes.
    Came back to say - Sarah anyone with a brain can see that you are such a good mom and that you genuinely love being a mom. A cult made me laugh. People are NUTS. 😂

    • @Vikki-zo1js
      @Vikki-zo1js 3 месяца назад +1

      Deffo agree with this great mom great kids great family just all round GREAT 😊❤

  • @str9047
    @str9047 3 месяца назад +1

    Don't understand why the hurtful comments were shown to Isla...she's a child ...

  • @Vikki-zo1js
    @Vikki-zo1js 3 месяца назад +4

    Would deffo love a part 2! Loved watching this your children are incredible each and everyone of them isla your perfect the way u r
    Isabelle stay at home as long as possible wish i had my time bk again id do things sooo much different
    Esme well 😂 continue to glow and be you
    Mila and jace well no words to explain how adorable they both are and aurora such a sweetie love you all ❤😊❤

  • @amyprice-rx2ex
    @amyprice-rx2ex 3 месяца назад +3

    There is nothing wrong with American schools.

  • @marcuslamb789
    @marcuslamb789 3 месяца назад +4

    Isla did so amazing in this you should be proud of her Sarah ❤❤

  • @JewelleryByMars
    @JewelleryByMars 3 месяца назад +2

    53:29 Why would people say that. Isla, im 14, and i still have baby dolls (people dont know), but please ignore them ❤❤❤

  • @leoraann1140
    @leoraann1140 3 месяца назад +4

    I love when 12 year old girls still play with dolls and act like 12 year old like I was when I was 12 and now 50. I tell my 11 year old granddaughter to please don't let your friends make you act older than u are, enjoy being kid ❤ love your family been watching from the start 😊❤

  • @laurachapple905
    @laurachapple905 3 месяца назад +4

    I honestly love you all so much. Isla's little question time made me smile so much. She's such a special gorgeous little girl and Sarah you are an amazing mum! Loved watching this❤️

  • @Autumn41119
    @Autumn41119 3 месяца назад +5

    Anyone else craving cheese now?😂

  • @hfamilytravels
    @hfamilytravels 3 месяца назад +3

    Wow would never had thought for a minute Isla is autistic (have family members on the spectrum so very familiar with the traits). You do you Isla! My 18 year old daughter has been to one party in her life (wasn't a fan), and also sits home at weekends with her boyfriend (he's almost 19) and plays board games, also build lego, and have even sewn matching pj pants and made teddy bears. Nothing wrong with being who you want to be. I'd rather my kids be themselves than a sheep.

  • @ssaldfb
    @ssaldfb 3 месяца назад +3

    What did sarah mean when she said Isla has never had Autism ?

    • @Tish-rm4zm
      @Tish-rm4zm 3 месяца назад +3

      She's uneducated

    • @natasharice6796
      @natasharice6796 3 месяца назад

      Yeah the wording was the best as being autistic is not a illness u can get over as it’s just a different way of seeing life being autistic is nothing to be ashamed of in fact autistic people are very intelligent and have iq bigger then most people do something to be proud of ❤

    • @ssaldfb
      @ssaldfb 3 месяца назад

      @@natasharice6796 do you know the family well ? I'm wondering if English isn't their first language. Sarah especially says odd things. Just the other day she said "we got sea from the ocean ".
      Maybe that's why she said what she did regarding the Autism comments.

    • @natasharice6796
      @natasharice6796 3 месяца назад

      @@ssaldfb I have followed the family when they only had 500 followers pretty much found them at the beginning remember we only see 10 minutes of there day and the way things are edited sometimes is not the best but each to their own x

  • @bevearles6062
    @bevearles6062 3 месяца назад +2

    I do not believe when a child turns 18 should be made to move out. Its so hard for adult children getting on the property ladder now days. Also they can't even get a social housing home.

  • @Laura-bl2wi
    @Laura-bl2wi 3 месяца назад +4

    Loved all the chats with all the kids. Would love for part 2. Loved that it was an hour and half Sarah love longer videos xx

  • @becky8267
    @becky8267 3 месяца назад +1

    My 12 year old has adhd & will not go any were with out me & her dad . She will not mix with friends . She only goes into school for 3half hrs every day with her dad . Will not let him leave her . She suffers with separation anxiety . Its getting ridiculous & its doing my nut in 😊😢😢😮😮

  • @crocheting-around-the-planet
    @crocheting-around-the-planet 3 месяца назад +3

    Loved every minute Sarah 🤎
    .
    Young Isla is a sweetie, caring soul & deserves nothing less than 💛. Stay just as u are sweet girl, thats the way I love you 💛
    .
    Jace, what a special Rolo big Ted to the two littler Teds 💛. He melts my heart with everything about him…💛

  • @courtneysisters660
    @courtneysisters660 3 месяца назад +14

    I just want to say that we were homeschooled as well, and it makes me feel happy hereing you and Isla talking about growing up at your own pace. I Kayla also like playing with toys until I was 14 and I used to think that I was weird cause a lot of girls my age was dating and dressing slutty so thank you Sarah seriously you just brought me to tears but in a good way. sending you all love you guys are amazing.

    • @karanmayo2441
      @karanmayo2441 3 месяца назад +1

      I love this comment 🩷🩷

  • @Animallovercb333
    @Animallovercb333 3 месяца назад +1

    Not saying isla is autistic but beig autistic is nothing to be ashamed about

  • @Miseryscharm
    @Miseryscharm 3 месяца назад +19

    There is NOTHING wrong with Isla. I was homeschooled and played with barbies till I was 15. Everyone is different and Isla is growing at her own pace. Don't be in a hurry to grow up, Isla❤️

    • @stripcheese8581
      @stripcheese8581 3 месяца назад +19

      There is nothing wrong with being autistic either.

    • @haz1222
      @haz1222 3 месяца назад +15

      being autistic doesnt mean theres something wrong. :)

    • @hey5032
      @hey5032 3 месяца назад

      @@haz1222it does though, if it didn’t mean anything was wrong then there would be no need for ppl to be diagnosed with it nor would it be considered a disorder

    • @Hdydundnsjdjnr
      @Hdydundnsjdjnr 3 месяца назад

      @@hey5032people seek a diagnosis to understand why they feel or act the way they do or to be able to access extra help in school/work/life and many more reasons. It doesn’t mean anything is ‘wrong’ with them. Don’t be cruel in the comments just for the sake of it!

    • @ourcherishedcherubs
      @ourcherishedcherubs 2 месяца назад

      @@hey5032 it’s just different not wrong and it’s definitely NOT a disorder please educate yourself before making silly comments the correct terminology is neurodivergent not ASD .

  • @Roz17
    @Roz17 3 месяца назад +3

    Fantastic vlog 💖 Really enjoyed your Question and answers 😀
    Never change yourselves how you are as you are all so lovely and genuine and real 🥰

  • @Voxpopper51300
    @Voxpopper51300 3 месяца назад +11

    Hi! Just wanted to say if Isla wants to do acting, she defo should do some acting lessons, it’s sort of a hard thing to just jump into when you’re older, since at auditions there’s lots of people who’ve been doing it for ages. If she starts lessons or private lessons she could learn monologues and have a good chance at getting auditions in her future if it’s something she’s interested in! Also it’s fun and good learning experience and confidence building anyway! Best of luck to her though, you can tell she’s a really sweet person!

  • @finleyandfriends8332
    @finleyandfriends8332 3 месяца назад +1

    Omg Esme! Sing longer ❤ that was good. I love seeing the kids grow and change thier minds. I also love how u handled the Autism question ❤ ty for this amazing video ❤

  • @sarahturner1116
    @sarahturner1116 3 месяца назад +3

    Omg isla reminds me so much of my daughter who is now 28 bloody fantastic parents you both are

  • @dawnireland7903
    @dawnireland7903 3 месяца назад +2

    It is nothing to do with how Yr child is reared
    My daughter go to school
    Fir a 15 Yr old
    She is not what people expect children of a certain age to do or be
    Every child is their own person

  • @lily_the_tzuadventures5359
    @lily_the_tzuadventures5359 3 месяца назад +2

    Esme sweetie, the movie doesn't show what American high school really is here, Imean when I was in high school a hundred years ago was so different than now, I graduated in 1982 I loved my senior yearwas absolutely amazing but sweet darling things have changed here, I wish fir you the best experiences life can bring, you are simply beautiful and deserve the very best. You keep moving forward and just live life!

  • @abbiewilliams9439
    @abbiewilliams9439 3 месяца назад +4

    Jase is Isla's double

  • @TiffJones-i1i
    @TiffJones-i1i 3 месяца назад +4

    Mila facial expressions are great love her ❤️

  • @glenysblowers7892
    @glenysblowers7892 3 месяца назад +4

    Mila omg she is a little star xx

  • @blundegm1968
    @blundegm1968 3 месяца назад +3

    I was born/raised in sunny California and then moved to Florida to get married. I’d give anything to have cold winters at Christmas!!

  • @יוכבדמנדלסון
    @יוכבדמנדלסון 3 месяца назад +3

    Hi to Sarah Says ❤❤❤❤❤Yocheved Mendelson. So nice and good to be able to watch you video.

  • @KerryMoody-qs5jy
    @KerryMoody-qs5jy 3 месяца назад +3

    I think it’s wonderful to hear from the children directly. A great blog Sarah ❤😊 xx

  • @lucys5231
    @lucys5231 3 месяца назад +3

    Isla is so mature for her age

    • @Tish-rm4zm
      @Tish-rm4zm 3 месяца назад

      More than boreabela

  • @rebeccadexter-smith7884
    @rebeccadexter-smith7884 3 месяца назад +2

    Isla is sweet and has such a big heart how dare people say anything mean to her. She is smart and happy

  • @Lukejc08
    @Lukejc08 3 месяца назад +3

    I had that surgey when I was 7 and it was successful

  • @lucycrook5768
    @lucycrook5768 3 месяца назад +2

    i love all of you but i can say that isla is amazing and she is a great young girl and i love her personallity and i have watched you since you were young and loved watching you grow up to who you are now and i love how you are not growing up to quickly like all the pre teens including me but i like being a bit more grown up but i love how you are now keep being your confident loving cute adorable self i love you.🥰

  • @wendymessenger915
    @wendymessenger915 3 месяца назад +2

    That’s right you do only live once . I wish I could have been taught at home I would have been a lot happier 😊why any one can say anything about any of the children there all beautiful and unique. There is a here a high school in Australia that my son attended which is American style the teachers don’t teach it’s all from books the students have to use flags to ask if they can go and mark their own work they have to put another flag out to ask a question another flag to ask if they can go to the toilet my son kept getting into so much trouble for putting out the wrong flag he spent two miserable weeks there then left I couldn’t do that to him the only reason he went there was because we couldn’t get him into a school that he wanted to go to .I’m not saying all schools in America are run like that I wouldn’t have a clue I point is that not all children can settle into that school if there not use to that system 😊thank you for sharing it was lovely

  • @urban.tarot.
    @urban.tarot. 3 месяца назад +2

    I saw Paramore last November they were amazing! i love Hayley Williams!!