IVF Round 3 + Bad News + Adoption
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‘I keep having this vivid dreams about adopting a baby, it was a girl’ …. Wow Isn’t this so amazing ❤️ This was exactly around the time that Story Belle was conceived and God already knew & spoke to you about her in your dreams Bella! What an amazing story!
And they kept saying this is the month, they felt it so strongly. And it was!! It was the month story was conceived ❤️ how wonderful to see this all come together.
My husband had a dream that we had a little girl and she was playing in the street in Korea… then a few weeks later, he found out he was going to Korea for his military service. NOW IM WAITING ON THE BABY 😁❤️ PRAISE GOD
I’m a new viewer here, and watching this after you introduced Story as your daughter- hearing you talking about a girl in your dreams that You’re supposed to find, I’m sobbing my eyes out😭 Meant to be, I’m so happy for you❤️
Yes, and nine months ago when their baby had just started growing! This WAS a big month for them, they just didn’t know it!! Their daughter’s life began ❤️
@@breannaw6148my exact thoughts!
Whoever gets you two as parents is going to be the luckiest child. Wishing you both the best.
You were so right 😊
It may not have been “the month” for a successful round of IVF, but it was “the month” to help figure out your next step. You guys got this ❤
I’m sorry but this comment is beautiful
Pretty much sure that their daughter Story was also conceived that month plus minus 😊
@@veronikpavlova I love that. Congratulations ❤️
As a nurse, I am so proud of you guys for doing this alone. Not only is it impressive but also you have so much strength and faith in each other! Best wishes ❤️
But they aren’t doing this alone… when I went through this 30+ years ago, there was no SM to talk, share and connect with others. We moved to a new city where we knew no one to talk to. I had friends across the country who, while wanting to support us, would say lame things like, maybe it’s god’s will and on and on. We did not have the money to fly across the world to do IVF by the best.
@@lisacampbell7359 what I meant by ‘alone’ was injections and preparing the medicine for injections… it’s impressive! I applaud you for doing it as well.
I’ve done this by myself, as my husband wasn’t in the country at the time. It wasn’t painful or anything. it was actually quite fun, I felt like a doctor 😅 and now Im pregnant with our second baby, ready to deliver in a week!
@@lisacampbell7359 That’s fair. I’m sorry you had to do that truly alone.
Not saying they aren’t great, because they truly are ! But a lot of couples have to do their injections on their own. I had to inject myself for my egg retrieval and will have to do the same for transfer prep.
THIS WAS THE MONTH. Little Story started growing and was on her way to you ❤️
Dallin and Bella. DON'T GIVE UP. I've been there! I tried without success to get pregnant for 8 years, and then in Jan 2021 got pregnant completely naturally! Had our miracle baby girl in Sep 2021 and she is the light of our lives. Unfortunately lost our baby boy at 24 weeks in June but now pregnant with our beautiful rainbow baby due in May. I cried more tears than I ever thought a human could cry and wanted to give up more times than I can count but we stuck in there and we have been so blessed. KEEP GOING, trust in God and know that it's all in his plan and one day you WILL have your sweet miracle. Sending you so much love and prayers xxx
God bless you and you are so strong for sharing. I have lost two babies and it’s so heartbreaking. Currently taking a break and giving everything to God. 🤲🏼
Omg what a beautiful story thank you for sharing
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@@BrookesLife1992 Sending you love, hugs and prayers! ❤️🤗🙏🏻
Hi guys! I cannot even think how hard this must be for you, but just to encourage you a little, I was an IVF baby, and my parent tried for almost 9 years to have me. And I even have a younger brother! Just stay positive!!❤
Seeing your ivf videos makes me feel like we are in this together. I know the heartbreak y’all are going through and it’s an indescribable feeling. My husband and I are stationed in Japan and just went through our first round of ivf. We implanted two embryos for a higher chance of pregnancy. We got pregnant and two-three weeks after that amazing news, I miscarried. Being so close to what we want is the worst and losing a child is unbearable. I am right there with you guys through your journey. I will continue to pray for peace during this situation for the both of you. Much love from the Gutierrez Family. It will happen for us!
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Sorry for your loss ❤
Around 11:35 you literally say you were having vivid dreams about adopting a baby girl one day and it came true… that’s amazing!
I’m here after watching the adoption video. Wow and this was exactly nine months and now your dream of having a little girl came true! Such a beautiful STORY! 💗💗💗
I wonder if the baby from her dream looks like Story 🥲
Its the moment when I gave up and told my husband we had to accept that we would never become parents, thats when I finally got pregnant. I hear the same story from so many people. I still really believe it will happen for you both 💗
A response like this doesn't help someone with infertility. yes you mean well, but infertility doesn't just go away when you stop stressing about it.
@@jolenescott8836 Do you realize the person you’re responding to had infertility? They can empathize with her and are sharing their successful experience to give them hope.
why dont u guys post anymore?!
@@autumn5579 cause we’d rather focus our time on raising our baby boy then spend hours creating and editing videos for no one to watch or support.
@@DianaRik okay, channels dont grow if you stop posting but okay.
Hey Della plz remember at the end of every storm there is a rainbow, God got you ❤️
Amen
9 months before Story! God is amazing!
I got chills when Bella mention her dreams she been having.
God is in the details of your Story. Rewatching this knowing you have your daughter in your arms 9 months later hits differently. ❤
Infertility sucks. I’m so sorry you are going through this. My husband and I just started at a fertility clinic and y’all have been such an encouragement! Praying that the Lord blesses you with the sweetest babe soon 💛
Praying!!! Broke my heart to watch the first clip again! You’ve got this♥️ God has a plan!! You guys are so strong!!
I think the worst part of watching this series is seeing you how hopeful you were in the beginning and then this month trying to be hopeful like that again only to be let down. It’s honestly crushing. I hope that no matter what path your future holds, you guys get to have a family. You guys deserve it so much😭😭❤️❤️
That feeling of not wanting to get up your hopes but also trying to stay positive is such a difficult dichotomy . We start our third round of IVF at the end of this month, and I’m paralyzed with fear 🥺. You and I have been on almost an identical schedule. Rooting so hard for you two ❤
praying for yall❤
how's you IVF going?
How serendipitous that you had this dream about adopting a baby girl.. and now you have her.
Im adopted and I struggled with infertility for 5 years and ivf just wasn’t in the cards for me. I literally abandoned all hope. I miraculously got pregnant and had my baby 7 months ago.
I cannot wait for you two to experience all the joy that comes in these first months. It’s such a special time and you are going to be the best parents.
Thank you for sharing this journey. It makes the parts of me that are still wounded from infertility feel a little more whole.
Take some time for yourselves, it's okay to grieve. My husband was not as supportive of my ivf dream. After it failed, I hated hearing,"oh, it's all in God's timing." We bought ourselves a house, a year later became foster parents. 6 months later, we get a call about a 6 month old baby boy, he's now 11 and a heck of a ⚾️ player! It was hard to wait, but it all happened as was God's plan all along. Praying for y'all! ❤️
It's ironic that you started thinking about adoption 9 months ago and now you have a baby after 9 months ❤️❤️
With all the women that don't want their baby, there is a baby out there that needs you. God always speaks during your hardest times. Listen to him
There are 20+ couples in the U.S. for each available baby. Things are different now.
There are so many babies that need you. You will be wonderful parents no matter how that happens.
Bella, i want you to know that i completely understand the feeling you get when you hear that your friends/family are getting pregnant, its soo hard. I am completely infertile and it was heart shattering, I went to a lot if therapy for it. You are not alone! sending lots of love to you both
The length from your 1st wondering adoption and now you're having Story is 9 months! God has the best plan!
I haven’t experienced this level of heartbreak that you both have been going through the last few months, but I, like everyone, have had many struggles the past few months with Health challenges and surgeries and feeling hopeless. Well, your videos and your positive outlook on life and the hope that you have has given me the strength to not give up! I can’t thank you enough and I am constantly praying for you guys❤️
There's a baby out there crying, wishing and praying for their Mummy & Daddy to be you two. You guys have so much love to share with your beautiful future baby. It WILL happen, either way. We are all sending positive, loving vibes and praying that it all happens very soon for you guys 🙏❤
i am so sorry. sending so much love and prayers. i know how you feel. my mom tried for 10 years and just got pregnant a couple months ago. i pray that you can have the same outcome. you guys are the strongest people ever and we are all here to love and support you. much love, abby ❤
Thank you for sharing!! Your mum is a strong woman! Congrats on becoming a big sister xx
@@chronicallyella1191 aww thank you so much! i’m going to be 14 years older haha
BELLA!!! 9 months later you got your baby girl!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m so sorry you guys… It’s so crushing and so unfair. Infertility is comes with disappointment and grief that people who haven’t been through it won’t understand. You guys are in my prayers and I know there is a baby in your future. You two will make the best parents! My husband and I had infertility for 10 years so please know I understand your pain and your heart. Love you guys!! ❤
Praying for you guys. God has the perfect plan for you both even when it’s impossible to see. “When you go through deep waters,
I will be with you.
When you go through rivers of difficulty,
you will not drown.
When you walk through the fire of oppression,
you will not be burned up;
the flames will not consume you.” Love you guys so much ❤
Just cried with you guys 😭 Thank you for sharing this most vulnerable moment with us. Just know you are not alone and sometimes God’s plan is different than our plan, but His rainbows (promises) are truly more miraculous than we could imagine. Praying for you guys! ❤️
Seeing that beautiful girl they've adopted and here's Bella having thoughts of adopting a girl from the beginning made me so emotional ❤❤❤ You guys will be the best parents for the amazing creature you've got ❣️❣️❣️
My heart is absolutely broken for you two that you’ve had to go through this.
You will be the most incredible parents no matter what route you take to get there. Blessings to you guys.
You literally met your daughter. She was always supposed to be with you 😭😭💞💞
You guys are so positive even during the worst of times. And Dallin is always there for Bella!! You guys are such awesome people we need more like you guys! I love you guys so much
Also you guys I will not be able to get the award you can give to someone else
Wow Dream Belle was the girl you dreamed of 🥰❤️ she’s finally in your arms praise God
I hate that you guys are going through this but I am extremely grateful you are sharing your experience. I’ve learned so much about being positive during trials from you guys. Love y’all! The prayers will keep coming.
We are battling infertility as well and when I first watched this Vlog I had to wait before I responded because it brought back so many feelings. Whew! It’s so hard and I’m sorry you’re going through this, I’m so proud of you both for coming this far. One day Bella you will hold your miracle in your arms and this journey, as painful as it is, will be worth it!
I just randomly stumbled upon your videos and found your story. So crazy you were having those dreams about adopting a baby girl and that's exactly what happened! That's truly magical how it was really meant to be ✨
The love y’all have for each other and the want to raise a child together is going to make any child the happiest kid in the world. biological or not. there’s always a reason. 💗
However the baby comes into your lives, the instant the baby in your arms so much love will come to both of your hearts and you’ll realize it was meant to be❤️💖 Stay strong.
There could be a little baby out there that needs you as much as you need them ❤ God works in amazing ways trust in him ❤️❤️
I’m crying watching this. I feel so much hurt for you guys when you’ve worked so hard to have a baby. I’ve loved you’re attitude throughout the situation. You guys are incredible.
I never really comment on anything, but I feel compelled to tell you that you two are absolutely amazing. The love you have for one another, the support you two give each other is an inspiration. Everything the two of you have fought through and fought for is the perfect story for your little one. I can only imagine how painful certain moments of your journey have been, but it is all leading you to the perfect time, and to the perfect one. When you hold your sweet precious child in your arms for the first time, your warrior spirits will know that it was all worthwhile. It may not have been the story you would have chosen to write, but it will be the perfect story. I have had my own story with my own journey, and I find so much peace knowing that there is always purpose in the pain. The hardest part about that is also knowing that sometimes that purpose is not for you, but for someone watching you. Just looking at some of these comments, you two are impacting so many lives through your journey and will continue to do that as a family.
This ministers to me so very much. Thank you for sharing your perspective ~ ❤
My heart goes out to you guys. The infertility journey is so dang hard and it brings out the best and worst in a marriage. No matter what happens you two are staying strong while leaning on each other. When God blesses you however you end up starting your family you will be amazing parents.
Isn’t it amazing that Story Belle came to you in a dream to let you know she was waiting for you? It’s like you already knew who she was and as soon as you let go of all the other things you thought you were supposed to do, she showed up in real life. ❤
I started watching your videos recently and one of them was when you held your baby girl in your arms, I have been going back and watching your older videos and came across this one. It made me smile even though it wasn’t a happy video but to hear you talk about a little girl out there needing you to adopt her made me so happy and filled me with joy to know that you found her and she is finally home with her mommy and daddy where she belongs. Thank you so much for sharing your story ( no pun intended lol ) with us.
Look where you are now, wow!!! Congratulations on your baby girl, keep spreading hope!!!!
Around 9 months before Story’s adoption day there’s no coincidence you have this dream of a baby girl and then decide to adopt, no doubt God is in the details 🫶🏻🥰
Prayers Bella and Dallin. Prayers for your IVF journeys. Everything will work out. Your miracle baby will be here one day. I promise. Prayers.💙💖✝️🙏
Don’t give up! Hang in there guys. This is not the end, and the finish line will feel so much sweeter when it happens. I’m praying for you guys.
You guys are amazingly brave. You did a BEAUTIFUL job with these three rounds of IVF, and surgeries, and shots (Bella I felt so proud of you every time). You kept it together as much as you could the whole process, and even if this is happening right now, it doesn't change the fact that we NEVER know what will happen next. For the good, and the bad of it. Hope is the most beautiful thing in the world, and you need to keep it inside, even if sometimes it hurts, it's also worth it. Accept the difficulty, accept the results, and move forward, always. If your hope isn't for the next IVF, then it has to be for simply and purely: having a baby, no matter which way it is. Being pregnant isn't a necessity, and we, women, are amazing on any scale and in any situation, not only because some of us can carry children! You will be amazing parents. Because you want this so bad. And in a few years from now, you will smile at this, and be so proud of you guys for doing these three rounds and choosing to try again every time, even if for now, it doesn't work. Everything that happens, HAPPENS FOR A REASON. Believe in life, believe in it, and keep being so grateful and amazing as you are. It will happen for you. In any way, when you'll hold your baby for the first time, when you'll see her/him walk for the first time, or when you'll be at his/her graduation, you'll be the happiest, and the way you had this baby won't matter at all. Sending love.
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Your comment is so beautiful and hopeful. Inspiring dor ladies like us going thru hard times
Omg this broke my heart, I’m so sorry that you guys have to go through this. I will keep you guys in my prayers and pray for your miracle, stay strong, don’t give up or lose the hope, god has a plan for you guys, it will happen, stay strong. Love you guys very much ❤
My heart breaks for you guys! I understand 100% what you feel when you see someone else announce a pregnancy, it eats you up slowly every time you see a new announcement. Sending you every ounce of love! 💖💖💖
I weirdly feel so comforted by this video today as it helps remind me that I’m not alone in my journey through infertility as well. Today was a complete “when it rains it pours” day after getting yet another negative test for 2.5 years now. We just financially have absolutely no way to do IVF, so we feel completely defeated💔 Thank you for sharing your journey and honest, real thoughts and feelings! I am praying for you both and sending a giant hug from one hurting soul to another.
Hi Bella and Dallin ❤️ I'm sending you so much love and hugs! I personally know how much of an emotional rollercoaster this infertility journey is. I had my egg retrieval in February which gave us 3 embryos (untested). We did a fresh embryo transfer and IT WORKED!!! I was finally pregnant after over 2 years of trying. My fertility clinic is very thorough, so they were sending me for ultrasounds every other week starting at 7 weeks. At our 15 week scan (May 24, 2022) the mood was different… our precious IVF baby no longer had a heartbeat. We are still soooo absolutely devastated 💔 A loss at 15 weeks is SO rare, we were told around 1.2% chance. We have over $16,000 in IVF debt and can't afford to do any further treatments. I am heartbroken. I thought I was finally getting my happy ending 😭 Right now, everything is on pause until we can get out of debt. It sucks so badly! We both work full time and are barely making ends meet. I have no idea how we will be able to pay off the debt and afford to do a frozen embryo transfer. It sucks. It sucks so freaking badly.
I know first hand how brutal this journey is. I’m always thinking of you two ❤
Whoever gets you two as parents is going to be the luckiest child wishing you both the best
11:46 - who's here after they found the girl of their (vivid) dreams?!
I truly feel your pain with watching the world around you change as all your friends start families. You WILL BE wonderful parents someday (You already are with Banks!!) Thank you for sharing your journey, I'm so sorry about this month's results. Don't give up! You are light, and you are loved!
I believe in you guys!!! It took my mom and dad 8 1/2 full years and IVF to get me and I promise the right kids will come at the right time no matter how it is!! We love you guys! 💛💛💛
I wish you the best ♥️ it took my 5 years to get my first little one. The main leading factors were stress and "wanting" a child so BAD. Things changed in my social and work life and 1 month later I was pregnant. I really hope that one day soon I will be watching your pregnancy journey ♥️
I’m so sorry. We’ve been going through ivf at the same time as you. It’s so crazy how emotions, hopes and dreams change within moments. I’m continuing to pray for your family right along side of ours. Our babies are coming to us exactly the way God intended. In the mean time. Love on yourself and be gentle to yourself.
I’m praying for y’all! I was so hopeful that this would be that perfect month, you’d get pregnant, share it with everyone and we’d all be so excited for y’all!! I’m praying for y’all!🙏🏻♥️🙏🏻♥️
My heart dropped when you started crying!! Sending so much prayers your way & god has a plan for you two ❤
This brought me to tears. You’re both so loved and we will continue our prayers for you both and whatever your future may bring.
No matter how YOUR baby comes you both are going to be amazing parents. God bless. 🙏❤️👶
Your faith is so inspiring. Thanks for being transparent and sharing this part of your life with us. Saying a prayer for you two. May God’s will be done 💗
I am so sorry guys. I totally understand how you feel because my husband & I are going thru infertility for 4 years & married for 12. Its soooooo hard getting negative results when you feel like your doing all the right things. Ugh! All we can do is keep trusting Gods plans for us 💙🙏 Thx for sharing your journey..helps me feel less alone 🥰
11:50 I hope you guys have the time to come back to this video, where you predicted you were supposed to adopt a baby girl. And now, she's here!
As an adoptee, it truly is a gift! I never have felt anything but chosen. By God”s grace I have had the gift of knowing i was loved and wanted not only by my parents but my extended adoptive family, you will be amazing parents! Trust in His plan! Have faith!
You two are incredibly brave to take us along in the emotional journey.🤗 You have done everything humanly possible. There’s a saying “when a window closes, a door opens.” Dreams do comes true.
Don’t give up! My mom said was doing the same treatments IVF. FOR 3 YEARS!! THEN HAD ME AND MY TWIN SIBLINGS❤️ I will pray for you everyday!! One day it’s going to be an amazing miracle your bringing a baby into this world❤️
I needed to see this today. We went through our IVF journey back in 2018 and have since been blessed with 3 natural pregnancies (Crazy). But I’ve been holding onto the extra embryos, and it’s time to let them go, so someone in your situation can experience pregnancy and motherhood like I was able to do. I can’t wait to see you two become parents ❤
I think this month felt like the right month because maybe this is Gods way of telling you there is a baby out there for you! Bella I know you will be a mommy and you will be the best mommy!! It might not be the way you had hoped for, but God will not lead you astray. ❤❤❤❤❤❤ I am sending you so much love..
Banks is such a good boy!! so adorable how he was just letting you squeezing him 🥺🥺🥺
I've got no words! I am really proud of you for the way you have done! Seeing you fight together to have a child is the most beautiful thing in the world. Your desire to have a child is very understandable, but always remember that there is a God in heaven who helps you and blesses you. Remember that there is no evil without good! Maybe this is what God wants you to have. You are just an amazing couple that has come a long way. Well done!
You are going to be a great mom it doesn’t matter how you get there.
It is soooo intensely hard to live life on the internet. Even if people are well meaning, they just don't know the half of what you're going through and working through together to try to figure things out. Seriously, I applaud you on the deepest level for sharing this journey. You often hear people talk about just how hard it is when things don't just work out the first or the second time, but to see it, is to just want to give you guys a virtual hug and wish the best for you in your journey wherever that will take you.
This was heartbreaking to see. Sending you both so much love and praying for you both!
Being a foster kid and growing up in a bad house with parents who didn't care about me it was rough so when you get a baby they will be the luckiest in the world to have parents like you
Hey, don't give up. My parents had me when they were 32 years old. Y'all still have time left. Love you and we'll keep praying♥️♥️
stay strong guys!💗 God has a plan for both of you! Prayers being sent your way 💗💗
Hey guys! ❤️ I’m a biologist and I understand that taking certain vitamins can affect your blood test, maybe speaking to your doctor about all the natural remedies that you have taken in the last weeks, maybe will help you out with the next round. Sending lots of love and don’t loose hope! Everyday you’re one day closer! 💚
This! Also a few of the things being tested are 3 months ago... Iron stores aren't the current level but what you were doing 2-3 months back!
Waiting and taking time out and stopping the supplements will probably help. Back to basics just folic acid, iron and iodine.
Praying for y’all!
I know God has an amazing plan for you! Just wait.
Omg I'm so sorry for yall! Please like this up, sending prayers!
My heart absolutely breaks for you two. Stay strong! Your baby will come to you, I truly believe that. You’re going to be the best parents 💜
hey bella and dallin!! y’all are amazing!! god has great things in store for y’all!!! love y’all!!!
Crying watching this after their latest video 😭😭😭
I am so honored to be apart of your journey . I am so proud of you Bella, I know it’s so hard! It’s time for the A word ;)
I think it is normal and even healthy to have all the feelings instead of the pressure of toxic/constant positivity. Infertility and IVF treatment is a rollercoaster. ❤️
Love you guys and the community you've created 💛 Prayers Prayers Prayers for your sweet hearts
Don't give up. 4 years ago I did ivf. After 1 year and 1 miscarriage, I had my babygirl. 3 years later I was ready to start again. It also took another year and currently I'm 16 weeks pregnant. If you want to take a month to relax and rest, do it. I did it to... but keep the faith! Sending love from Belgium!❤️
Omg! I just got chills when you talked about your dream of adopting a baby girl at 11:50 😲
Hey guys, we love you! My parents did 7 rounds of IVF and they got twins and I’m one so never give up!! ❤❤ we love u
I’m still praying and believing for a miracle for you guys 😢🙏
When Bella said I give up, it actually broke me because I know exactly how it feels to want something so bad but it just doesn't happen.
But, I'm so convinced in my heart that God will give you your baby, I don't know how but it will happen and it will happen soon.
You guys are in my prayers every single day and I just know that everything is going to workout exactly the way it's supposed to. I love you guys, sending so much love and support ❤️❤️
Prayers that it works this time. You both deserve to be parents.