Its so weird that Akhil’s parents don’t even care to take care of their grandchild i mean you can’t just be present at good times and expect to be a grand parent. Like parents like son literally, she shouldn’t even let akhil meet abby after all this
So an influencer making 5 lakhs for a 30 second reel is okay...but a doctor who studied for minimum 10-15 years ...cant charge money worth his knowledge...he took 5 minutes because of that 15 years of sleepless nights..please understand this
It's a big brand paying that 5lakhs not a common man, I'm not saying it's right or wrong. Yes you are paying for the expertise, but not many can afford it, even in india. The feeling of knowing you or your your loved one is suffering, you have a treatment for it but you can't afford it is feels very painful, right or wrong that's how current society is, just because of there hard work doesn't mean you can complain.
@@srujanak1252they are doctors not social workers.. it's a profession...there are many doctors who charge less...and also some of the best doctors practice in government hospitals which is free...she could have gone to the best doctor in India and still be charged less than 17,000...atmost 5,000....plus you really expect a doctor that renowned to charge less?? Even if he charges less the demand would overflow and still he wouldn't be able to treat everyone..people don't question buying a gucci bag or even makeup...but would come and crib about how one should price their services and their hardwork just because they can't afford..which surprisingly in her case she can afford...I m not talking about the general people here....it was a reference to her
You are not at all selfish. You are a gem and a responsible parent. I am a mother too and can 200% understand how you feel. Just pray to God to give you more power and strength to kick through. Love. ❤
mals please keep sharing these raw moments because we genuinely do connect with you and we do understand!! may god provide each one of us the strength to fight our own battles 🫂🫂🫂
So true. I was in Canada for 2 years and even though it’s a developed nation , healthcare there sucks due to lack of doctors. It’s hard to get appointment with specialists. It will take months to get an appointment. And takes months for your reports. I moved back to India because of healthcare 🙏🙏
Akhil was only for the gf bf phase like he said he wanted that only..real responsibility lene ki baat ai to only she is doing it..biological father hone se father nhi bante..u need to b thr whn u r needed then only u can call him a father..useless guy he was..shakl pe hi likha tha dhoka dega
As if i care for his part..never liked his vibe his family..and u know wat camera captures souls..u cn tell who is what..but u need anothr kind if intelligence to understand it...obvio u dnt hv it so shut up
As if i care for his part..never liked his vibe..and also never liked his family..u know what camera captures souls..u know who is what..but u need another type of intelligence to undrstand this which obviosly u dnt hv..so shut up
As if i care for his part..never liked his vibe..and also never liked his family..u know what..."camera captures souls"..u know who is what..but u need another type of intelligence to undrstand this which obviosly u dnt hv..
This was a very raw and heartfelt collection of moments - please do share as we totally relate- you are doing your absolute best and that is enough- from a toddler mom here :)
As a pediatrician i would recommend that you start prophylactic antibiotic after discussing with her pediatrician because it reduces the incidence if recurrent UTI
Yes, my daughter has the VUR too. Grade 3. She is 15 months and is on a daily antibiotic since she was 11 months. The infection hasn’t recurred since then. Please take this advice.
You will be fine mamma. Gods with you. You are so strong. I understand, i m a mumma. Mums are different, only a mum can understand. I have a 9-5 and a business. And my business get hit on many days because i dont have energy. I have a nanny too but my child just wants me
I don’t understand why don’t RUclips takes any strong step to control such harmful trolls, trolling is no less than bullying and ragging and in our country we do have proper laws . This is alarming how genuine and effective RUclipsrs are all the time getting bullied and ragged. RUclips must take cognizance of this hatefulness and protect them. These kind of hatred is severely harmful for physical and mental health.
Take it slow Malvika … sometimes we need to pause.. life is hard earning money is hard , being a mom and single parent is hard but I believe god gives toughest battles to the most strongest people you are on of them. Don’t be harsh on yourself Go slow take one day at a time. If you have a Will there is a way. This will pass … Abby is so lucky to have a mother like you.. who is working for her.. who is looking after her. God bless you. This was probably one of your lowest days I am sure you are up and running again ❤
You are soooo strong Mals and to be a single mother, doing so many things is literally so courageous and amazing. You are doing your best. I pray that Abby gets better soon and you both create so many good memories together and have the best trips coming soon. Sending you nothing but tons of love, good vibes, lots of wishes and just keep shining. ❤❤❤❤❤
When I see her like that I get pissed off with her ex. Just Co parent dude Co parent. Co parent is complete participation. Co parent is taking over when the other parent has some work commitments!!! So frustrating!!!
How can akhil became a motivational speaker??? And why people are getting motivated by him even after knowing the truth...my god he have guts to leave his daughter behind and motivate others for no good reason.. honestly she should not allow him to meet abby..!
Mals listen carefully to what I am going to tell you My best friend has a daughter the only child who is 22 years old now and just finished her engg and starting her job She was having same situation like Abby, when she was 1.2 yrs old they had to operate her to remove a slight blockage in her urinary track which used to take some part of urine in her kidney and not allow the kidney fully drain out After doing that dr said no test needed and she is 100% fine so the parents never did her test Recently about 10 days back her company where she is joining did her full body checkup to allow her employment and they realised her kidney has grown in size due to accumulation of urine and situation has come back again Dr said they need to first flush all the urine completely out (this is getting accumulated god knows for how long) but later they will need to put stent in her kidney track to allow the full draining of urine I don’t want to scare you but pls take Abby for a full check and take at least two Urologist advice Let me know if you need any help
What the fuck is people saying we don’t know his part of story .. its like we know his part of strategy.. where the fuck is he whn abby is sick n mals is exhausted.. he shouldn’t get the right to be called father. Wht the fuck matters his story whn he is not with is child…where was he whn malls is carrying his child although the 9 months, where the hell was he in sleepless night with a new born baby… he waa doing his koffe with karan
Hii Malvika, thanks for this vlog, it was like a life saver for me, i am 45 years old and my son is Abby's age, i am full time working also, my husband's job is in another city, at times i am so stressed out and feel so helpless, my body aching like hell, work pressure, ahhhhhhh kabhi kabhi lagta hai sab chhod ke Himalaya par chali jau 😅
Exact same age is my son and I know how challenging it is to be a working mom. More power to you girl. You will shine more and more. I have my melts down and watching your vlogs give me more strength. Please take care and will be praying for you and everyone in Jesus name Amen.
It’s called Hydronephrosis is swelling of one or both kidneys. Kidney swelling happens when urine can't drain from a kidney and builds up in the kidney as a result. This can occur from a blockage in the tubes that drain urine from the kidneys (ureters) or from an anatomical defect that doesn't allow urine to drain properly.
Hydronephrosis is a much later complication of repeated kidney infection. What Abby has is not hydronephrosis, it's VUR - vescico-ureteric reflux a small anatomical defect in children, which mostly heals by 5 years of age. I feel you shouldn't make up a diagnosis without knowing exactly what the condition is about someone's kid because hydronephrosis is a much more serious condition. These vague comments can scare the parent or be it any one.
@@shrutiagarwal3691yes that reference I was giving also had VUR later after medical intervention in adulthood has converted I pray to god Abby doesn’t have anything of this but what I was mentioning more importantly is to keep such till adulthood for those babies who have this history Just so imp
There are so many influencers who would never admit the struggles like you did. As a mom of a 1yr old who has been sick very often in and out of hospitals … I totally understand how difficult it must be for you. Stay strong 💪 This will get over soon.
Love you from pakistan 🇵🇰😭 i cannot tell you how brave are you specially when akhil left you in the most important part of the life- then delivery postpartum depression- etc etc we love you
I don’t want to generalise but our moms are far more active than us. They gave birth to multiple kids and were on their toes all of their life. Our generation can’t handle any more… it’s def the result of a sedentary lifestyle. Just one hour in gym is not enough we have to be active in our lifestyle in general. Plus now we have relationships we can’t bank on. It all adds up .,
Our moms were also not managing a career, finding opportunities, having kids, running a household all alone. Our moms also didn’t have a say in many things. Our moms also didn’t live in a world of constant information overload. You are generalising. Everyone has different thresholds. Every generation has their own struggles. Being active is not a solution. Should you be active? Yes. Is it going to solve everything? No.
Breaks my heart seeing you this way Mals💔 So proud of you for being so sooo strong. You're literally motivating me to deal with my problems. Not gonna say anything about the single parent thing because I can only imagine, I'm just 24. But it does break my heart seeing you this way. I hope God helps you with everything ❤
I can understand what you are going through..my daughter for the first 3 to 4 years would not let me go anywhere,always wanted to be carried, it was difficult for me to do anything cooking, bathing those daily chores became almost impossible..but its a phase...she is 7 now , I am busy with her projects and exams and sitting a lot these days...what really helped me is hath yoga and believe me start taking magnisium, vitamin d3 and omega 3 ..its life changing
My dear Malvika , your strength during this time is unmatched . Your struggles are real just like anyone else . All I can say is keep going , God will always be by your side
Hey Malvika, Hat’s off to you how you take care of your girl Abby plus don’t take your body for granted take care of yourself as well it is most the important thing because i don’t know if its our lifestyle or something but our body do get exhaust than our parents in 30’ only . My age is 34 mother of 2 toddlers I am facing health issues which i not even heard before and trust me I am not exaggerating labour pain was bearable but the pain i am having now is at different level so please please please girl take good care of yourself .
See here ... The role of father is very important!! Coz you are dealing with pain .. your mother is aged too... But abby needs attention all the time. And husband support is game changer!!
I’m 29 , a mother of 2 kids , and I haven’t ever did any workout, my kid is just 2 years old and I can’t even go out for a single minute … I can’t leave him at all … nobody gives a shit to a woman’s health and fitness all they want is their work done
Everything that's going on..is all God's plan...ur on a journey..n ur doing SO great..n u know God always pulls u out from every pain, troubles n helplessness in the end.. just have faith in God as always.. PRAISE THE LORD ❤❤❤
I agree with you it already start to hit me at age 28 even when I have been super active in gym and outdoors . Started getting back pain & it start getting worst and I couldn’t walk in next 6 months . and I’m in physio since 18 months due to back muscles . I also got mishandled by a doctor bcz of which I got spine injury. Going to physio and a good physio and a doctor is so important. Glad ur spreading awareness about this especially for women.
This is why mums are superheroes without the cape. I wish you all the strength in the world to continue making amazing opportunities happen as well as raising your beautiful girl. Disappointing how the father is IN Dubai but no show? ......
@@SuhaniShrestha-n9d it’s her channel. She can choose the content to put out. It’s her struggle. Maybe he was there! It’s amazing you have so many assumptions knowing so less about her life. You know what she shows. And from that you have figured out the whole dynamic of their relationship.
@@SuhaniShrestha-n9d You're right, its not right for me to judge but her tearing up on camera.... just shows the pain and struggle she's dealing with...just sad to watch :(
As a toddler mum I can relate to everything you say… it must be tough doing it without a partner. But kudos to you for being so strong! Abi will look up to you one day with immense pride. All my love ❤️
😂 I don't know him but I honestly don't appreciate him because he doesn't look instrumental in raising Abby. I guess he has a gf also. Like such an asshole. Idhar bachi paida hui hain, chhoti hain, usko sambhalne ke jagah ye harami laundibaazi kar raha hain.
It’s crazy how u can be with someone a decade and they turn out to be a whole new person Crazyyy when u see this shit It’s madness And he’s a failed human forget a father that’s too far for fetched I feel He will regret all of it in time
Hi Maals ❤I am a doctoral student and my study is all about UTIs . I cannot imagine the plight of Abby having vesicouretral reflux. That small baby must be experiencing so much pain. It actually depends on which grade the VUR is . Mostly cases it must go away after abby turns 5 years of age. Sending all the love and prayers to Abby❤❤❤ I also am wondering if Akhil is being a supportive father despite the separation etc but it is important for him to be there during these tough times as well. Not everything can be done by aunty and you, you are a working woman too. Feeling really sad seeing these kind of situations but sending only MORE POWER to you❤❤❤❤❤❤
U know my baby girl is just one month younger than Abigail , I started watching your vlogs from your birth story bcz one of my friend suggested you ,since then I started following you I literally feel everything u have gone through since birthday bcz am also in the same phase mals even if I have partner but we have we gone through alot of financial issues as I stopped working as I have baby bcz I don't have any help from anyone even from in-laws too , they r just there for name sake , a mom without financial stability and raising baby is quite difficult and depending on hubby for single penny is much more difficult 😢😢
Fnlly she thinks that something is good about India....jab paise kharche hue tab Indian ki keemat pata chali.....17k?? Hmnnnn Now think how much same thing would hv costed in my country??? Tc of Abby 😊
The fact that you went through all these during rome event and got bashed in the name of “constructive criticism “ is too much. I for a moment put myself on your shoes when you were about to break, i felt claustrophobic. Things will change mals im telling you, it will change. Try to disable comments in any post so you can save your mental sanity from stupid people.
And fashion/art is so subjective man. I don’t know the basis of criticism? You didn’t like it, move on. I don’t know why people were after her. The whole camera angle thing. Kisi ka kya ja rha hai, saath mein the nhi the. If they’re trolling, they don’t have anything better to do.
I am a mum of a wonderful 6 year old girl and also working fulltime.. totally understand what you are going through as I have been through the same! Stay strong Mals! Everything is going to be okay! ❤ love your content and have been following you since a long time but I never comment! Today I could not stop myself from commenting and showing you support! ❤
I appreciate you sooooooo much for your honesty & courage to talk about your struggles in public. I can relate so much to it. Others on social media only show us the happy parts and I get so misled thinking their lives are perfect and mine is not. And this can have tons of negative repercussions. You are a real human!!! Thank you for doing this ❤
Usually i dpn comment on videos... But after watching this video i jst could not control.. I m a new mum n can totally relate to ua situatn.. Ua doin a grt jobs mals..🎉 So proud of u.....😊
Don’t feel guilty for your feelings, they are your own. As women we have been way too much burdened in several ways and some days it is okay to drop down your strong woman armour and feel it all. Partner or no partner, this journey is only yours-call it motherhood, call it career, call it as you like.
Mals 🫂 I feel you, I hear you. And like you said and I speak my mind alongside yours, we don't have to do everything. I literally am battling the same situation as you and I keep telling myself the very same thing. I wish I could hug you as you speak your mind, I got you babe and I am so proud of us keep going you got this !! you are a great mom and a great human being !! lots of love to you!
Hi, my cousin has a similar condition with frequent UTIs. Ofc your doctor will be able to help you better, but we keep giving my cousin lemon water and coconut water to keep her hydrated while the other meds take effect. thought of leaving this here, hope Abby gets better
You are truely an inspiration. I understand you completely. How it feels being a mom seeing your baby sick. More power to you! I hope abigail never get such hard infection again 🙏🤞
Hope Abby is fine now, her health problem will surely vanish , just pray to god, he will never do wrong with his childrens ❤ Everything will be fine soon malzzz, yeah it's seem so hard today but you and Abby will shine tomorrow and in a happy place. Tight hugs and more strength to you and our little doll ❤😗
You’re such a strong and inspiring mom Mals ❤️we love you so much !! Take care of Abby and yourself , we all are with you lots of love and you look fab on Emily in Paris trip 🥹💯
I just hope someone comes to your life to create a better version than whst it is right now ...sometimes we take wrong decision on partner ...sometimes uts impulsive but thevworld is there which is genuinely nice...hope from there you manifestation of best people with you
Can understand you totally Malvika , being responsible for your child is the toughest task. Sometimes I feel you are stronger so much. I am still not as much as strong like you in my motherhood. Sometimes when I am ill I feel guilt to ask my in laws to take care of my daughter as they will take care of her no doubt but it is more of a like a favour rather than helping , you know what I mean. So that freeness what you had before you had a child will not be there at all
Mals we love you so much… you are such a strong person… lord will always protect you and your family. You are such a pure soul… i have immense respect for you… you are the best mom. ❤❤❤❤
Mals, you're a superwoman! You're doing your best. Be strong, navigate through. It's gonna be worth it. I know it's difficult but you are doing whatever you can, and you are strong! You are doing it for Abby! ❤
Mals you're doing amazing as a single mom!! The hard times shall pass too. God will make everything work for you in the end because you're so pure and hardworking. Lots of love and take care♥♥
Lots of love and power to you, Mals. I can understand what you are going through, as a new Mom of 10 months old. I can't leave my kid behind for work. Even I am doing work from home, my mother is there to help. Still I feel so exhausted and my day is good, if my baby is doing fine, otherwise it's ruined. 😢 I can really really corelate your emotions. But this too shall pass Mals. ❤
Girl don't think what people will say ...I m a mother n i understand your situation ....I wish I could hug u n make you feel better in the situation....❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺🥺Love n hugs... You are the best sweetheart just be okay... You are a wonderful mom ...
So much love and power to you Mals!! ❤ you’re such an inspiration. Stay strong ❤You have no idea how well you’re doing everything. You Go Girlllll ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Mals..big hugs to you. I have a partner and a toddler and I still relate to what you are saying. Can’t believe how you are doing it all alone. Big hugs to your mom for being the angel in your life. I know negativities take a toll but shut them down because they don’t know your reality. You do you because you know best for yourself. Lots of love to Abby..take care Mals ❤🧿
I got so emotional after hearing this as I know how it feels when your child is not feeling well....and inspite of all the challenges you did great which I guess many of us couldn't have!! it is so shocking to see other women passing those negative comments on insta...you were going thru so much behind the scenes!! People need to be kind.
One day when Abby will grow up, she will see these videos and will be so proud of you. I know it's extremely hard. But girl, you have a God who is greater than all odds. Just keep trusting Him. He will give you strength. God bless you ❤
Malvika, my love, you are doing an amazing job. You are the best mom abigail could ever have. Give it some time. Its difficult for mothers when the kids are below 3 years of age. It will get better with time❤ sending lots of love and energy to you and abby
It will get better, someday you will be proud of yourself thinking back that you gone through this ❤ abby is sooooo blessed to have such kickass mother like you mals, who is not giving up no matter what ❤❤❤
No matter what … mother is mother… kitni bhi help kyu na ho for you or your baby … but when baby is sick they need mothers no matter what all you have … hats off to you from bottom of my heart… Without partner its very very very difficult… overall mothers life is very tough… i can feel your pain..
To all the people who were spreading sooo much hate on her Instagram reel, while she was going through all this, idk wat to say to you all, but please do consider that other ppl have things going on in life too, not everything is like how it seems❤
hi, mals! i just want to say you are doing a great job as mom as a creator over all... but i think with all that pressure u should hire people to do the work for you in that way u will have time for yourself and ur kid. i know u like editing and all that jazz but u should considered it thoroughly u will be relived by work which doesn't need ur attention. apply the 80/20 rule for ur work
This is a LOOOT! No one sees this on the other side. Just can feel the energy draining. Partner is a necessity here you guys ! And for some reason Akhil just gave up when it was time. He just gave in time for his sector of work. Power love and strength
You are amazing. Thank you for showing us both the sides of your life because sometimes we also get drained out and think why is this happening to me only. But I have realised it’s not just me but problems are in everybody’s life and it’s how you’re coping with it. You are really inspiring not just mums but the other women whoever is watching you. Watching you youtube feels like home.🏠 Lots of love to abby, auntie, jake and everyone around you. Love you mals❤️
Sometimes I feel what your going through in life is similar to my story, though I have a partner, so I know ur is much worse than mine, am a pediatrician with a naughty toddler n recently diagnosed with lumbar n cervical disc prolapse with agonising back pain, and I was like y am I going through all this as I wanted to go for further studies n travel the world and further in my career and now everything seems so difficult.i know you need your partner to lean on and cry for sometime so you can face the world again, even though nothing changes you need that emotional support. Hope your child gets well, most refluxes decrease by 5 yrs of age so hopefully she'll be fine. U can try antibiotic prophylaxis if she is getting recurrent infection, ask your consulting doc .
Mals, i dont usually comment but i can understand. I am a mum to an 8 month old and even with so much help i feel like i am drowning! We got this is what i can say!!! You are doing a fab job!!!
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Its so weird that Akhil’s parents don’t even care to take care of their grandchild i mean you can’t just be present at good times and expect to be a grand parent. Like parents like son literally, she shouldn’t even let akhil meet abby after all this
So an influencer making 5 lakhs for a 30 second reel is okay...but a doctor who studied for minimum 10-15 years ...cant charge money worth his knowledge...he took 5 minutes because of that 15 years of sleepless nights..please understand this
100% true
90% influencer dont give minimum respect to doctors
100% agreed 💯
It's a big brand paying that 5lakhs not a common man, I'm not saying it's right or wrong. Yes you are paying for the expertise, but not many can afford it, even in india. The feeling of knowing you or your your loved one is suffering, you have a treatment for it but you can't afford it is feels very painful, right or wrong that's how current society is, just because of there hard work doesn't mean you can complain.
@@srujanak1252they are doctors not social workers.. it's a profession...there are many doctors who charge less...and also some of the best doctors practice in government hospitals which is free...she could have gone to the best doctor in India and still be charged less than 17,000...atmost 5,000....plus you really expect a doctor that renowned to charge less?? Even if he charges less the demand would overflow and still he wouldn't be able to treat everyone..people don't question buying a gucci bag or even makeup...but would come and crib about how one should price their services and their hardwork just because they can't afford..which surprisingly in her case she can afford...I m not talking about the general people here....it was a reference to her
Being a toddler mom, I know how much you are going through. I just hope you get more strength and you are doing so amazing. Lots of love and hugs.
You are not at all selfish. You are a gem and a responsible parent. I am a mother too and can 200% understand how you feel. Just pray to God to give you more power and strength to kick through. Love. ❤
WTF is his father. I mean this is so heartbreaking. How can men be like this
mals please keep sharing these raw moments because we genuinely do connect with you and we do understand!! may god provide each one of us the strength to fight our own battles 🫂🫂🫂
Just wanted to point out the fact that health care is so accessible and cheap in India. We should be grateful for that . People still complain though😢
Right. SO true. Aur yahaan phir bhi doctor ko gaali dete hai log for "charging too much."
So true. I was in Canada for 2 years and even though it’s a developed nation , healthcare there sucks due to lack of doctors. It’s hard to get appointment with specialists. It will take months to get an appointment. And takes months for your reports. I moved back to India because of healthcare 🙏🙏
Omg really 😮@@Prerana5100
@Prerana5100 this is the only reason why we didn't move to Canada.. we live in dubai and happy with the best health care.
Akhil was only for the gf bf phase like he said he wanted that only..real responsibility lene ki baat ai to only she is doing it..biological father hone se father nhi bante..u need to b thr whn u r needed then only u can call him a father..useless guy he was..shakl pe hi likha tha dhoka dega
First find out the truth instead blaming akhil. U dont know his part. Stop judging people
As if i care for his part..never liked his vibe his family..and u know wat camera captures souls..u cn tell who is what..but u need anothr kind if intelligence to understand it...obvio u dnt hv it so shut up
As if i care for his part..never liked his vibe..and also never liked his family..u know what camera captures souls..u know who is what..but u need another type of intelligence to undrstand this which obviosly u dnt hv..so shut up
As if i care for his part..never liked his vibe..and also never liked his family..u know what..."camera captures souls"..u know who is what..but u need another type of intelligence to undrstand this which obviosly u dnt hv..
Sooo trueeeee
This was a very raw and heartfelt collection of moments - please do share as we totally relate- you are doing your absolute best and that is enough- from a toddler mom here :)
As a pediatrician i would recommend that you start prophylactic antibiotic after discussing with her pediatrician because it reduces the incidence if recurrent UTI
Yes, my daughter has the VUR too. Grade 3. She is 15 months and is on a daily antibiotic since she was 11 months. The infection hasn’t recurred since then. Please take this advice.
You will be fine mamma. Gods with you. You are so strong. I understand, i m a mumma. Mums are different, only a mum can understand. I have a 9-5 and a business. And my business get hit on many days because i dont have energy. I have a nanny too but my child just wants me
I don’t understand why don’t RUclips takes any strong step to control such harmful trolls, trolling is no less than bullying and ragging and in our country we do have proper laws . This is alarming how genuine and effective RUclipsrs are all the time getting bullied and ragged. RUclips must take cognizance of this hatefulness and protect them. These kind of hatred is severely harmful for physical and mental health.
Being a new mom myself, my heart broke watching this. May god give you the strength through this journey.
You are an amazing parent....we appreciate you
We understand you we connect with you hats off to you
Take it slow Malvika … sometimes we need to pause.. life is hard earning money is hard , being a mom and single parent is hard but I believe god gives toughest battles to the most strongest people you are on of them. Don’t be harsh on yourself Go slow take one day at a time. If you have a Will there is a way. This will pass … Abby is so lucky to have a mother like you.. who is working for her.. who is looking after her. God bless you. This was probably one of your lowest days I am sure you are up and running again ❤
You are soooo strong Mals and to be a single mother, doing so many things is literally so courageous and amazing. You are doing your best. I pray that Abby gets better soon and you both create so many good memories together and have the best trips coming soon. Sending you nothing but tons of love, good vibes, lots of wishes and just keep shining. ❤❤❤❤❤
Sometimes its hard even when you have a partner, who doesn’t understand or acknowledge a mother’s struggle! Your struggle! 😞
💯💯💯💯💯
thats worse
True
When I see her like that I get pissed off with her ex. Just Co parent dude Co parent. Co parent is complete participation. Co parent is taking over when the other parent has some work commitments!!! So frustrating!!!
How can akhil became a motivational speaker??? And why people are getting motivated by him even after knowing the truth...my god he have guts to leave his daughter behind and motivate others for no good reason.. honestly she should not allow him to meet abby..!
Its not easy to be a single mother!! Hats off to you!
Mals listen carefully to what I am going to tell you
My best friend has a daughter the only child who is 22 years old now and just finished her engg and starting her job
She was having same situation like Abby, when she was 1.2 yrs old they had to operate her to remove a slight blockage in her urinary track which used to take some part of urine in her kidney and not allow the kidney fully drain out
After doing that dr said no test needed and she is 100% fine so the parents never did her test
Recently about 10 days back her company where she is joining did her full body checkup to allow her employment and they realised her kidney has grown in size due to accumulation of urine and situation has come back again
Dr said they need to first flush all the urine completely out (this is getting accumulated god knows for how long) but later they will need to put stent in her kidney track to allow the full draining of urine
I don’t want to scare you but pls take Abby for a full check and take at least two Urologist advice
Let me know if you need any help
Just came across your comment, my son also has similar issue, wanted to ask if it affected both kidneys? And how is she doing now?
What the fuck is people saying we don’t know his part of story .. its like we know his part of strategy.. where the fuck is he whn abby is sick n mals is exhausted.. he shouldn’t get the right to be called father. Wht the fuck matters his story whn he is not with is child…where was he whn malls is carrying his child although the 9 months, where the hell was he in sleepless night with a new born baby… he waa doing his koffe with karan
Hii Malvika, thanks for this vlog, it was like a life saver for me, i am 45 years old and my son is Abby's age, i am full time working also, my husband's job is in another city, at times i am so stressed out and feel so helpless, my body aching like hell, work pressure, ahhhhhhh kabhi kabhi lagta hai sab chhod ke Himalaya par chali jau 😅
Exact same age is my son and I know how challenging it is to be a working mom. More power to you girl. You will shine more and more. I have my melts down and watching your vlogs give me more strength. Please take care and will be praying for you and everyone in Jesus name Amen.
It’s called
Hydronephrosis is swelling of one or both kidneys. Kidney swelling happens when urine can't drain from a kidney and builds up in the kidney as a result. This can occur from a blockage in the tubes that drain urine from the kidneys (ureters) or from an anatomical defect that doesn't allow urine to drain properly.
Hydronephrosis is a much later complication of repeated kidney infection. What Abby has is not hydronephrosis, it's VUR - vescico-ureteric reflux a small anatomical defect in children, which mostly heals by 5 years of age. I feel you shouldn't make up a diagnosis without knowing exactly what the condition is about someone's kid because hydronephrosis is a much more serious condition. These vague comments can scare the parent or be it any one.
I have some fever nw. Can u doctors plz recommend medcene
@@shrutiagarwal3691yes that reference I was giving also had VUR later after medical intervention in adulthood has converted
I pray to god Abby doesn’t have anything of this but what I was mentioning more importantly is to keep such till adulthood for those babies who have this history
Just so imp
There are so many influencers who would never admit the struggles like you did. As a mom of a 1yr old who has been sick very often in and out of hospitals … I totally understand how difficult it must be for you. Stay strong 💪 This will get over soon.
Love you from pakistan 🇵🇰😭 i cannot tell you how brave are you specially when akhil left you in the most important part of the life- then delivery postpartum depression- etc etc we love you
PLSS TAKE HER TO PAKISTAN...
I don’t want to generalise but our moms are far more active than us. They gave birth to multiple kids and were on their toes all of their life. Our generation can’t handle any more… it’s def the result of a sedentary lifestyle. Just one hour in gym is not enough we have to be active in our lifestyle in general. Plus now we have relationships we can’t bank on. It all adds up .,
Our moms were also not managing a career, finding opportunities, having kids, running a household all alone. Our moms also didn’t have a say in many things. Our moms also didn’t live in a world of constant information overload. You are generalising. Everyone has different thresholds. Every generation has their own struggles. Being active is not a solution. Should you be active? Yes. Is it going to solve everything? No.
Breaks my heart seeing you this way Mals💔
So proud of you for being so sooo strong. You're literally motivating me to deal with my problems. Not gonna say anything about the single parent thing because I can only imagine, I'm just 24. But it does break my heart seeing you this way. I hope God helps you with everything ❤
Last year I got back ache and vomitting. I was admitted to multiple places but they just didn't do anything. Finally homeopathy helped me.
I can understand what you are going through..my daughter for the first 3 to 4 years would not let me go anywhere,always wanted to be carried, it was difficult for me to do anything cooking, bathing those daily chores became almost impossible..but its a phase...she is 7 now , I am busy with her projects and exams and sitting a lot these days...what really helped me is hath yoga and believe me start taking magnisium, vitamin d3 and omega 3 ..its life changing
My dear Malvika , your strength during this time is unmatched . Your struggles are real just like anyone else . All I can say is keep going , God will always be by your side
Hey Malvika,
Hat’s off to you how you take care of your girl Abby plus don’t take your body for granted take care of yourself as well it is most the important thing because i don’t know if its our lifestyle or something but our body do get exhaust than our parents in 30’ only . My age is 34 mother of 2 toddlers I am facing health issues which i not even heard before and trust me I am not exaggerating labour pain was bearable but the pain i am having now is at different level so please please please girl take good care of yourself .
See here ... The role of father is very important!! Coz you are dealing with pain .. your mother is aged too... But abby needs attention all the time. And husband support is game changer!!
Isn't it obvious that if he was supportive , they wouldn't be separated?
I’m 29 , a mother of 2 kids , and I haven’t ever did any workout, my kid is just 2 years old and I can’t even go out for a single minute … I can’t leave him at all … nobody gives a shit to a woman’s health and fitness all they want is their work done
Everything that's going on..is all God's plan...ur on a journey..n ur doing SO great..n u know God always pulls u out from every pain, troubles n helplessness in the end.. just have faith in God as always.. PRAISE THE LORD ❤❤❤
The knots are emotional pain n trauma that your breakup gave ..body remembers everything
I agree with you it already start to hit me at age 28 even when I have been super active in gym and outdoors . Started getting back pain & it start getting worst and I couldn’t walk in next 6 months . and I’m in physio since 18 months due to back muscles . I also got mishandled by a doctor bcz of which I got spine injury. Going to physio and a good physio and a doctor is so important. Glad ur spreading awareness about this especially for women.
Hi mals, my niece had this same issue when she was 2-5 years. Shes cured now but there's always a risk but it gets better mals ❤ It truly gets better
You got so much strength Mals!! Thanks for transferring it to us through thia video❤
This is why mums are superheroes without the cape. I wish you all the strength in the world to continue making amazing opportunities happen as well as raising your beautiful girl. Disappointing how the father is IN Dubai but no show? ......
@@SuhaniShrestha-n9dperfectly said !!
@@SuhaniShrestha-n9d it’s her channel. She can choose the content to put out. It’s her struggle. Maybe he was there! It’s amazing you have so many assumptions knowing so less about her life. You know what she shows. And from that you have figured out the whole dynamic of their relationship.
@@SuhaniShrestha-n9d You're right, its not right for me to judge but her tearing up on camera.... just shows the pain and struggle she's dealing with...just sad to watch :(
As a toddler mum I can relate to everything you say… it must be tough doing it without a partner. But kudos to you for being so strong! Abi will look up to you one day with immense pride. All my love ❤️
Can’t believe Akhil has the guts to conduct retreats to calm down strangers while he isn’t there to calm his own daughter
He seems like a narcissist
😂
I don't know him but I honestly don't appreciate him because he doesn't look instrumental in raising Abby.
I guess he has a gf also.
Like such an asshole. Idhar bachi paida hui hain, chhoti hain, usko sambhalne ke jagah ye harami laundibaazi kar raha hain.
But we don't know his side of the story
It’s crazy how u can be with someone a decade and they turn out to be a whole new person
Crazyyy when u see this shit
It’s madness
And he’s a failed human forget a father that’s too far for fetched I feel
He will regret all of it in time
True
Hi Maals ❤I am a doctoral student and my study is all about UTIs . I cannot imagine the plight of Abby having vesicouretral reflux. That small baby must be experiencing so much pain. It actually depends on which grade the VUR is . Mostly cases it must go away after abby turns 5 years of age. Sending all the love and prayers to Abby❤❤❤ I also am wondering if Akhil is being a supportive father despite the separation etc but it is important for him to be there during these tough times as well. Not everything can be done by aunty and you, you are a working woman too. Feeling really sad seeing these kind of situations but sending only MORE POWER to you❤❤❤❤❤❤
I pray for your healing and recovery Mals ❤ it will pass
I cant imagine what you go through. Sending prayers & prayers.
You are a strong woman! I love u malz! I believe in you! ❤ Abby is such a cutiepie❤ Thank god she was feeling lil bit better❤❤❤
This makes me cry. More power to u Mals.
Sending lots of good vibes to you and Abby. May Abby heal from this condition - may a miracle take place for this little child
U know my baby girl is just one month younger than Abigail , I started watching your vlogs from your birth story bcz one of my friend suggested you ,since then I started following you I literally feel everything u have gone through since birthday bcz am also in the same phase mals even if I have partner but we have we gone through alot of financial issues as I stopped working as I have baby bcz I don't have any help from anyone even from in-laws too , they r just there for name sake , a mom without financial stability and raising baby is quite difficult and depending on hubby for single penny is much more difficult 😢😢
Fnlly she thinks that something is good about India....jab paise kharche hue tab Indian ki keemat pata chali.....17k?? Hmnnnn Now think how much same thing would hv costed in my country???
Tc of Abby 😊
The fact that you went through all these during rome event and got bashed in the name of “constructive criticism “ is too much. I for a moment put myself on your shoes when you were about to break, i felt claustrophobic.
Things will change mals im telling you, it will change.
Try to disable comments in any post so you can save your mental sanity from stupid people.
And fashion/art is so subjective man. I don’t know the basis of criticism? You didn’t like it, move on. I don’t know why people were after her. The whole camera angle thing. Kisi ka kya ja rha hai, saath mein the nhi the. If they’re trolling, they don’t have anything better to do.
I am a mum of a wonderful 6 year old girl and also working fulltime.. totally understand what you are going through as I have been through the same! Stay strong Mals! Everything is going to be okay! ❤ love your content and have been following you since a long time but I never comment! Today I could not stop myself from commenting and showing you support! ❤
I appreciate you sooooooo much for your honesty & courage to talk about your struggles in public. I can relate so much to it. Others on social media only show us the happy parts and I get so misled thinking their lives are perfect and mine is not. And this can have tons of negative repercussions. You are a real human!!! Thank you for doing this ❤
Usually i dpn comment on videos...
But after watching this video i jst could not control..
I m a new mum n can totally relate to ua situatn..
Ua doin a grt jobs mals..🎉
So proud of u.....😊
Don’t feel guilty for your feelings, they are your own. As women we have been way too much burdened in several ways and some days it is okay to drop down your strong woman armour and feel it all. Partner or no partner, this journey is only yours-call it motherhood, call it career, call it as you like.
Mals 🫂 I feel you, I hear you. And like you said and I speak my mind alongside yours, we don't have to do everything. I literally am battling the same situation as you and I keep telling myself the very same thing. I wish I could hug you as you speak your mind, I got you babe and I am so proud of us keep going you got this !! you are a great mom and a great human being !! lots of love to you!
Watching your vlogs is a therapy itself 😊
More power to you Mals! You will be fine. God is with you.
Hi, my cousin has a similar condition with frequent UTIs. Ofc your doctor will be able to help you better, but we keep giving my cousin lemon water and coconut water to keep her hydrated while the other meds take effect. thought of leaving this here, hope Abby gets better
You are truely an inspiration. I understand you completely. How it feels being a mom seeing your baby sick. More power to you! I hope abigail never get such hard infection again 🙏🤞
Hope Abby is fine now, her health problem will surely vanish , just pray to god, he will never do wrong with his childrens ❤
Everything will be fine soon malzzz, yeah it's seem so hard today but you and Abby will shine tomorrow and in a happy place.
Tight hugs and more strength to you and our little doll ❤😗
You’re such a strong and inspiring mom Mals ❤️we love you so much !! Take care of Abby and yourself , we all are with you lots of love and you look fab on Emily in Paris trip 🥹💯
You are a super woman Mals. So much respect for you 🙏🏻
I just hope someone comes to your life to create a better version than whst it is right now
...sometimes we take wrong decision on partner ...sometimes uts impulsive but thevworld is there which is genuinely nice...hope from there you manifestation of best people with you
Most most authentic content on the internet created by mals ❤❤
Can understand you totally Malvika , being responsible for your child is the toughest task. Sometimes I feel you are stronger so much. I am still not as much as strong like you in my motherhood. Sometimes when I am ill I feel guilt to ask my in laws to take care of my daughter as they will take care of her no doubt but it is more of a like a favour rather than helping , you know what I mean. So that freeness what you had before you had a child will not be there at all
Mals we love you so much… you are such a strong person… lord will always protect you and your family. You are such a pure soul… i have immense respect for you… you are the best mom. ❤❤❤❤
😢 got teary I can understand new mom life is super complex
Mals, you're a superwoman! You're doing your best. Be strong, navigate through. It's gonna be worth it. I know it's difficult but you are doing whatever you can, and you are strong! You are doing it for Abby!
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Mals you're doing amazing as a single mom!! The hard times shall pass too. God will make everything work for you in the end because you're so pure and hardworking. Lots of love and take care♥♥
Lots of love and power to you, Mals. I can understand what you are going through, as a new Mom of 10 months old. I can't leave my kid behind for work. Even I am doing work from home, my mother is there to help. Still I feel so exhausted and my day is good, if my baby is doing fine, otherwise it's ruined. 😢 I can really really corelate your emotions. But this too shall pass Mals. ❤
Girl don't think what people will say ...I m a mother n i understand your situation ....I wish I could hug u n make you feel better in the situation....❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺🥺Love n hugs... You are the best sweetheart just be okay... You are a wonderful mom ...
So much love and power to you Mals!! ❤ you’re such an inspiration. Stay strong ❤You have no idea how well you’re doing everything. You Go Girlllll ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Mals..big hugs to you. I have a partner and a toddler and I still relate to what you are saying. Can’t believe how you are doing it all alone. Big hugs to your mom for being the angel in your life. I know negativities take a toll but shut them down because they don’t know your reality. You do you because you know best for yourself. Lots of love to Abby..take care Mals ❤🧿
I got so emotional after hearing this as I know how it feels when your child is not feeling well....and inspite of all the challenges you did great which I guess many of us couldn't have!! it is so shocking to see other women passing those negative comments on insta...you were going thru so much behind the scenes!! People need to be kind.
It’s all going to fine Mals. You and Abby and your mother will have such a great life together. This time will pass ❤
One day when Abby will grow up, she will see these videos and will be so proud of you. I know it's extremely hard. But girl, you have a God who is greater than all odds. Just keep trusting Him. He will give you strength. God bless you ❤
Malvika, my love, you are doing an amazing job. You are the best mom abigail could ever have. Give it some time. Its difficult for mothers when the kids are below 3 years of age. It will get better with time❤ sending lots of love and energy to you and abby
Wait until peri menopause symptoms kickstart in late 30’s and that’s a whole new experience. Yoga helps girl! It truly helps
Mom is the only thing kid wants when they are sick 😭 so many hugs to you.
Finally a long vlog was waiting for this!!
Mals, can you give the name of the Physio you went to ? I have a chronic neck pain and I’m looking for a good Physio in Mumbai . Thank you!
You are one hell of a mama mals you did so great in this entire pregnancy,birth and now raising your girl.... You are the best ❤❤
This made me 😢😢😢😢😢...Love you Mals.....You are an inspiration sweetheart ❤
It will get better, someday you will be proud of yourself thinking back that you gone through this ❤ abby is sooooo blessed to have such kickass mother like you mals, who is not giving up no matter what ❤❤❤
No matter what … mother is mother… kitni bhi help kyu na ho for you or your baby … but when baby is sick they need mothers no matter what all you have … hats off to you from bottom of my heart…
Without partner its very very very difficult… overall mothers life is very tough… i can feel your pain..
Mals being a mom decisions are hard..and I understand your delemma... You did the best in lifw that's what I know... Just take care
To all the people who were spreading sooo much hate on her Instagram reel, while she was going through all this, idk wat to say to you all, but please do consider that other ppl have things going on in life too, not everything is like how it seems❤
Why not hire a nanny who can do the tough part such as entertaining, feeding and bathing and ur mom can just guide and supervise???
hi, mals! i just want to say you are doing a great job as mom as a creator over all... but i think with all that pressure u should hire people to do the work for you in that way u will have time for yourself and ur kid. i know u like editing and all that jazz but u should considered it thoroughly u will be relived by work which doesn't need ur attention. apply the 80/20 rule for ur work
This is a LOOOT! No one sees this on the other side. Just can feel the energy draining. Partner is a necessity here you guys ! And for some reason Akhil just gave up when it was time. He just gave in time for his sector of work. Power love and strength
God bless you Mals! You’re a super woman ❤
Why blame Akhil without knowing his side of story.
There is no need to hear his side of story.. that’s it…
As someone going through a kind of similar situation, I can truly understand Malz
You are amazing. Thank you for showing us both the sides of your life because sometimes we also get drained out and think why is this happening to me only. But I have realised it’s not just me but problems are in everybody’s life and it’s how you’re coping with it.
You are really inspiring not just mums but the other women whoever is watching you. Watching you youtube feels like home.🏠 Lots of love to abby, auntie, jake and everyone around you. Love you mals❤️
Sometimes I feel what your going through in life is similar to my story, though I have a partner, so I know ur is much worse than mine, am a pediatrician with a naughty toddler n recently diagnosed with lumbar n cervical disc prolapse with agonising back pain, and I was like y am I going through all this as I wanted to go for further studies n travel the world and further in my career and now everything seems so difficult.i know you need your partner to lean on and cry for sometime so you can face the world again, even though nothing changes you need that emotional support. Hope your child gets well, most refluxes decrease by 5 yrs of age so hopefully she'll be fine. U can try antibiotic prophylaxis if she is getting recurrent infection, ask your consulting doc .
Watching this video at 12 in the night really makes me sad. I am sorry malz but as you said prayer heals ❤ 😊
Maalz... I'm not a mother but I can definitely relate to the body change after 30..😮😢😅
Mals, i dont usually comment but i can understand. I am a mum to an 8 month old and even with so much help i feel like i am drowning! We got this is what i can say!!! You are doing a fab job!!!
More power to you mals. ❤❤ You are doing great!!