Black women, stop focusing on men who don't want you. Focus on the ones who do. There's a whole world of men who date and MARRY black women. If Maxwell doesn't want black women, then STOP supporting him. Stop buying his records, stop going to his concerts. Let the non-black women support him. It's that simple.
I wish its that simple when most b.women feel judged and sidelined: whiners, arguers, loud, ugly. and they have to do anything to prove their point and worth. look at the titles given. when u call ur kid bad, and naughty, u know the outcome.
I don't think we should stop supporting him just because he may have a preference. We didn't do for Quincy Jones or MJ so why him. Just wish him well and do you. Bet Eve wasn't worried about it.
maxwell is a cool dude. . . he use to come to my party and h always came with a sister, if he likes white chics thats his business....he loves the ladies... nobody owes us their preference what people like is what they like!!
I’ve met Maxwell in NYC when his first album came out. I saw him come out of Paul Smith. I called his name and he turn and look at me and smile.I told him how much I loved his album and I asked him for a hug he smiled and gave me a hug. The second time I saw him at a popular restaurant in Soho NYC. He was with a group of his friends. When he and a friend was at the bar to order , I said something sassy to his friend. He looked at his friend and me . Then she smiled and said “I like this girl”. He has been a cool dude to me each time I’ve met him.
if a Spanish actor always post and is seen with another race of women most or all the time, his community will speak out against him or her for that! this is natural to all races of people but some how black women are picked out of the crowd and scorned for questioning her own people.
... This is a ridiculously touchy subject. What's messed up is that a lot of black women get very hostile when a black man calls them out on the double standards and their malicious ways. If black men challenge a black women on their twisted logic with facts, they immediate resort to character assassination tactics, saying, "He must hate his mother," or, "He must be gay," even, "He's a traitor," and my personal favorite, "He's weak and can't handle a 'strong black woman'".
why don't you get it? we don't have a problem with people dating out of the race. but the problem becomes when you say I don't date white woman because they are all one thing or another. that's when we have a problem. and this ideal that black woman don't date broke black dudes, is so much bs.
Cassandra badie I strongly disagree with some of the things. That you have stated on This particular topic. But you have the right to say, what you want to say.
All these Black women are mad at Maxwell posting pics of white women. But they have every album R.KELLY and CHRIS BROWN put out. Please save that crap...
Pirate7X for real R Kelly tell these motherfuckers step to the left step to the right and they do it... Chris Brown beat the shit out of somebody and they love him
Thanks for the upload. I totally agree. Maxwell does seem like a calm person. He doesn't even curse or degrade women in his songs or on his Facebook, so these women must have really ticked him off. Everyone has the right to love who they love. Black women need to start looking in the mirror and find out what they're doing wrong. Not all black women are loud and mad all the time, but some of them are.
haha..yea. it is true. I still insist. are we really talking about the root causes of the problem. when did it all begin. yes she is mad and loud, well not ugly , though these characteristics can make any beautiful black woman ugly. was the black woman loud and whiny since she stepped in America (ship her back here in Africa!)
Yes, I wonder too because I've met so many African women and they behave different from African American women. And none of them have issues getting a black man. Also a lot of European white men are attracted to these women, so yeah you're right, it's not looks. Black women are attractive, it's just attitude.
Well, I do not have any children. And if I did, I would love and raise them. Women are blind to men like me. It seems like the more sensible you are, the more weird you seem to appear. And I haven't abandoned sisters at all, and for all of the BS I have gone through, it is a miracle I havent left. I speak two languages and I travel. I have plenty of options. But I am caught up in the psycosis aspect of BW. And I know if I do pick wisely, black is the dominant gene. I'm on a whole different plane. When you choose to procreate it is important to connect with the person metaphysically because what is going on in your mind and emotions are transferred to offspring. People need to get their mind right. But the problem is too many of us are still slaves.
Black7od u ever thought women are blind to u because ur fat! The same way men like physically fit attractive women we want our men to be attractive as well!!
Christine Njagi I am a black African girl that believes the black race has to face the conditions that have led to the bad outcomes, rather than engage in 'lazy debates' of blame game and lame excuses.
Your video response message is on point... thank you for being real and forth coming about it... there are bigger fish to fry then all this damn child's play.
MillionShadesofDarkness Your only posting because your looking for some attention like all the rest.... Go find a subject matter that is more uplifting instead of looking for drama and attention.... Your post name speaks for itself.... Evil it is.... Demon!
i don't care if a Blackman dates outside his race, i am not a ghetto black woman i have a descent all black man in my life who works for a living! all black woman are not bad!
Leave Maxwell alone....He is old enough to date whoever the hell he wants to date.....whether he happens to date black woman or white woman...so what...don't worry about him....he is a grown man and must know what he likes by now...Love is color blind....remember that!
ChocolateWorld726 ChocolateWorld726 No black or white woman, has exclusive rights, or dibs on men of the same race.....that's plain out childish....a grown man should be able to date whatever race he wants to be without being called an Uncle Tom or traitor.
When black woman date white men they don't have a problem with that.....but when black men date white woman.....the black woman has a problem with that??? Sorry black ladies....it don't work that way.....you can't date white men and still think that you own, all the black men too... your so funny.
ChocolateWorld726 ChocolateWorld726 I hear you....there are pretty woman in every race and it's up to the individual to date whatever color they want....everyone is different, not everyone likes the same flavor of ice cream neither. Most, white woman don't care if white men date black woman, why should black woman care who black men date? I never could understand that....I've never dated outside of my race but I sure don't care who dates who, that's their business.
usually a man of his status end up at functions that black women are few. so who else will he be dating if the majority of the women are white at these functions. Is the same thing with football players and other entertainers the majority of them anyway. we all bleed blood but, understand black womens light with being always left out. Of course I don't have that problem. I'm very international and know how to date other nationalities or wherever I feel that I'm going to be treated kindly and with respect.
didn't know maxwell felt that way about black women. I'm not a big fan and I don't follow him on twitter or whatever but I do like his music. I don't care what he does or who he dates in his personal life. I'll just stick to liking his music
To each his own - I am not mad at Maxwell or anyone else who finds love wrapped inside a skin color different from their own - Bottom line is you like who you like and hope and pray for the best.
That's right black women.... because White women, asian women, and all other women WOULD BE checking for pizza hut man.... Only you black women have stary eyes for financially stable men and powerful men. * Eyes rolling*
“Maxwell's family is from the West Indies: His mother is from Haiti and his father is Puerto Rican. Puerto Rican come in all colors, so he can like any color !
you spoke the truth on here.. i'm a black male and one of my personal problems with black women is how they always want to say "do you like white women?" or "you like white girls don't you" ..but i wonder why they even ask if they aren't interested in me.. like if you (a black woman) doesn't like me, and also none of your friends (other black females) like me either.. then what am i supposed to do? lol.. like they never even realize to an extent its their own fault.. if you don't accept a black man then don't get mad when he goes where he is accepted women are not always seeing the full picture, a lot of black women don't like me.. they always assume its me rejecting black women but the truth is many black women don't like me and don't accept me.. even though i went to college, have a job, a place, a car, and i go to church and have a gym membership and some of u may be thinking .. why is that? i'm glad you asked.. see.. one of the major problems is this- many black women have one of the following: A. a live-in boyfriend B. a friend with benefits so when a good man is interested guess what? she is occupied.. and so when her situation with the live-in or the fwb ends, then she tries to find the God-fearing black man and he has moved on i have seen it happen.. for example i was trying to date this gorgeous black girl at my job.. i was flirting with her and inviting her to spend time with me and i felt we had chemistry but guess what? one day she came to work talking about she was pregnant.. and she tried to hide it from me but i knew what was going on.. now, ask me if she is married to her child's father I THINK YOU ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER TO THAT
He can choose his mate. But, the irony is that a white woman can not raise a Maxwell. He was raised with a black woman's love and perspective. Like it or not they can not produce a strong and viral black man. Look at Obama, he is a shell of a black man. Do you believe that if Collin Powell was not raised by a black Mama he could have taken a position of supporting Obama and not give a flip about his pundits. Damn right. So at the end of the day I would rather her work out his black female anxiety on a white woman.
Erica Kenny black male's always expect black women to accept the struggle love narrative ( pizza but worker) but soon as that same man gets his shit together they go straight for other races knowing damb well Becky ling-ling & Maria wouldn't have given him the time of day while he was making minimum wage! They expect black women to be work horses but then he treats other races like unicorns!
Personally, I have the highest respect for everyone. It saddens me to see black men speak so ill of their women, when surprise, surprise that "mannish, gold digging, attitude having nag" that you just described is your own mother, sister, aunt, or whomever. It truly is a disgrace when I was never raised to look to a man of any race let alone black, for what he can provide materialistically, or financially, but if he was rich in ambition, honesty, and heart. If he can speak to the queen in me. Black women are beautiful. And the same holds true for every single race there is.
You're 100% correct sir! Fortunately its not all black American women, but there are way too many of them who have this shitty attitude, and feel justified in attacking someone's character of whom they don't even know on a personal level whenever they SEE him with a woman who isn't black. You don't really find this level of insecurity among black women of other cultures as much tho. This is mostly an American dilemma. And there's nothing anyone else can do about it either. It's something they each have to overcome on a personal level. Even when other African women who understand the problem try to talk sense to them they get defensive and dismiss it... Smh
I have listened to several of these attacks on black women over the last couple of days. I really think it is time that black women get themselves together. We really need to stop trying to support black men. They have made it clear that they hate us. Why keep trying to convince someone who has said repeatedly that you are not beautiful, unwanted, undesirable, and unloved. I am not a young woman and I have had many experiences, traveled and seen a lot of the world. This is something I can assure you of. Every man in the world envies the back man because he has the black woman. It is time for us to stop!!! You are beautiful, desirable, loved, and especially wanted, find somebody that see this in you and be happy. If this happens to be a black man great, but stop feeling guilty if you desire somebody who is not black because black men have repeatedly said they don't want you anyway. The more you try to support the black man the more he hates you for it so sistas please just stop!! You deserve to be happy, supported, and taken care of respected and cherished. Stop looking to the black man to do this for you, he has made it clear that he will not.
"The more you try to support the black man the more he hates you for it so sistas please just stop!!" How many deadbeats and losers did you choose to deal with, to feel so bitter? I'm asking becuz honestly every blkwmn who echos your sentiments insisted on getting with and even having babies by men who weren't interested in them like that. I've seen blkwmn who back in the day when we were young, repeatedly pass of good brothas for deadbeats. I've never heard any blkwmn who was in a happy marriage or committed relationship, speak so ill about blkmn. Maybe it's not the blkmn, maybe it's you young ladies who keep picking the wrong men, instead of giving the good guys with no swag, no cool. While passing over blkmen lack swag and cool, who would rather actually buy a home in a decent neighborhood and take public transportation to work and take a brown bag lunch, than waste money on new ride while and eating out every day, while living in the projects. Plus no woman should be looking to a man to make her happy. Happiness starts within. Happy blkwmn usually attract happy, decent blkmn.
***** I did not reference goldiggers so I don't know how to respond to your question. My comment above was clear and concise. I will repeat one portion, and that is again...Black women who had the ability to think reason analyze and assess individual men BEFORE jumping into bed with them....Black women who have and do secure men who are good men and good candidates as husbands FIRST...THEN the father of their children....are not complaining. 27 yrs of marriage to the same man who was and still is a good husband to me and a good father to our two grown sons, I have no complaints and have no desire to ride the Black men ain't shit express. I have no issues with Black men because I did not ALLOW Black men to use me sexually, and pump me up with babies I had to struggle to struggle to raise alone. I have no dog in your fight. If Black women want quality men, the process is two fold....first be a quality woman...then choose a quality man, based on good character integrity and substance. Another thing....most men who are trying to build a good life for themselves and have no children, and want to meet good women for marriage with NO CHILDREN so they can create their OWN legacy and familial foundation, are not checking for single women with a bunch of kids. Single motherhood reduces a woman's marital worth. Most men with no children do not want the burden of another man's (or men's) responsibility. Lets recap: To attract a quality man, a woman must be a quality woman and have more to bring to the table besides a *tight sex game, a cute face, and a "phat ass"*. I've said this time and time again, if one polled 100 happily married black men and asked this question....what were the five things that made you know your wife was "that special lady", NONE of what I highlighted above would be among the five reasons why they decided to make these women their wives. And most of the men in TJ's forum who are married, have a special lady they want to marry, or hope to be married someday, would agree with me. Also remember that in MOST cases, water seeks its own level. If some women are consistently attracting bums and deadbeats, perhaps they are not quite the good, quality women they think they are.
***** Also let me answer your question as to why a percentage of women are disproportionately stuck in poverty. 1-Trying to keep up with the Jonses -They may make a decent salary, but blow their money on material items, instead of learning the value of a dollar, consistently save a portion of their salary, and take advantage of learning the art of financial, and investing in 401k's and low risk, long term investing. These are the women who bring home a paycheck on Friday, and by Wednesday, they are broke and borrowing money to pay a utility bill that they could have paid, but the shoe, handbag or other nonsense they could have lived without, was more important at the time than keeping the lights or gas on. 2-Generational poverty - There used to be a time when a generation of poor people were determined that they would work their fingers to the bone to ensure their children would have a better, more financially stable life, thus putting an end to the familys cycle of generational poverty. Perfect example of this, is the mother of Dr. Ben Carson, renowned pediatric neurosurgeon, who has saves and changed the lives of children worldwide. When then young Ben started to stray onto the wrong path she worked hard saved money and moved herself Ben and his brother out of the slums, and bought a home in a decent community with good schools, one of which Ben and his brother attended. Ben's grades became great and he was able to get scholarships to college, medical schoo, he became a physician, and then became fascinated with the brain, which began his journey to become a neurosurgeon. His brother if I recall correctly, is an engineer. Had Ben's mother not put in work to remove her family from a bad neighborhood with bad schools, Dr. Carson and his brother may have vey well ended up in prison or dead. Someone has to have the will and determination ti ensure their children have a better life. Hats off to Dr. Carson's mom, a phenomenal woman. 3-Out of wedlock babies - nothing drags and keeps women in poverty quite like already being poor, yet no doing their due diligence in not becoming pregnant. Every baby sinks a woman and her existing children into poverty, and with each baby becomes more difficult to dig out from under poverty. And those babies will, if the mother does not have the determination to do what is necessary to put an end to the cycle (by not having more babies and patterning after mothers like Dr. Carsons mom and other moms who have done the same) her children will suffer. My solution....unmarried women who choose to lay with equally poor random men who have nothing to offer but hard dyck, should use effective birth control and insist her casual sex partners wear condoms. Abstinence is another optioj, while focusing on pulling herself out of poverty. It is selfish thoughtless and unfair for women to ALLOW themselves to become pregnant, then bring babies into the world they can barely feed, in violent, crime and drug infested neigbborhoods witb subpar schools...AND to top it off hsve these babies by men who just want to cum and leave. Pregnancy is preventable and FREE to women receiving gov't aid. No excuse for any woman being sloppy with her ability to carry and bring forth life. Our bodies are OURS, we are 100% responsible for the men we ALLOW to enter OUR bodies. And if in 27 yrs of marriage, my husband and I managed to practice family planning and have only TWO babies, I KNOW single women can do the same. No babies while you (you in general terms) are single, poor and broke because at that point you have nothing to offer a child but a life of misery and having to do without much of what that child will need (healthy food, quality medical and dental care, decent clothes, a decent home in a decent neighborhood where he or she can run and play without catching a bullet, with decent schools). Thats all I have for you....if you cannot comprehend this post then I don't know what else to tell you. Its common sense solutions, women can either utilize them, or choose not to.
Amen. The way Maxwell spoke was so wrong and I would not support any person that felt that way period. Clearly, he doesn't care what the black women feel about him showing only one race in his IG. He didn't care and told us to F ourselves.
I have seen this play out many of times with players. When an sister is feeling and wants a particular brother real bad, and that brother doesn't want her, she will say or put out a rumor that either he likes white women or he's gay. Simply, because he doesn't want her. In other words, they will tell lies on you if you reject them. .
Yeah, that's what I was more offended by. I personally, don't believe Maxwell has self-contempt for his own skin, but I do understand where the sentiment comes from. If you go on his IG--from FIRST GLANCE--it would appear he only fraternizes with whites, but it's too subjective to make claims that he seeks to disassociate himself from his own race because there's only so much you see on IG and when you take into account that he's in another socioeconomic bracket, you realize he's going to travel and come across people from different cultural backgrounds. However, my bigger issue is the fact that this is the SAME guy who wouldn't even say "f**k" in closer because he didn't want to be disrespectful and had to ask for permission in his songs to "get down" with a woman--forever being the gentleman--now adds F bombs into his vernacular and throws tongue lashing at women (no matter how wrong they may have been). The old Max, or the one he and his PR team pre-social media would of led us to believe he was, would of never said such a thing. He would of responded with more grace or just ignored it.
missym877 I don't know, I mean he's practically be called a "race traitor." I can see how that would shake him that much to become emotional. I mean, he's one of the few brothers still carrying the flag for soul music and he gets this noise. Him lashing out is understandable to me.
I mean, I agree I think calling people racists, bigots, traitors to their race are all loaded accusations but also if you go on his IG, you can see where the accusations come from. I'm not saying it's anyone's right to do so, nor do I agree with those few women's sentiments, but if you are going to place yourself on the pedestal as the one "bringing back 'black love'" you better live up to it or there will be backlash. I mean it's quite contradictory to give interviews saying you love black women but then you're only seen fraternizing with white women. Like I said, I don't think he hates his race, himself, or black women, those assumptions are too subjective because we don't know what he does in his personal life but IG is a small form glimpse into one's personal life. It's like a black woman saying she loves her skin, loves black men but you ONLY SEE her dating white men--yeah it's going to raise a lot of flags.
missym877 But, like you said, those are just Instagram pictures, that's not a whole lot to go on and those women started to sling accusations at him. If they had just come at him respectfully and asked him, he'd probably have explained what you said, he's in circumstances where he doesn't get to see a lot of black women. This is actually indicative to the plight of our community, we don't know how to just talk to each other. Everything has to be an argument, fight, or, at the very least, a dick measuring contest.
Class, class, class.... Some of our people lack that. Until we collectively understand that fundemental flaw in our people, black love will continue to diminish.
Maxwell didn't have to say the things he said though he did too much. I would say I will stop buying his music, but I never have bought any of his music to even be able to stop so.... as for other black women, stop supporting people who don't support you. hit them where it hurts. but we don't know how to do that, that's why people will say whatever they want about us because they know we don't know how to ban against them. like when the dixie chicks said something about George bush. and all their fans put them out of business. and when isaiah washington from Greys antomomy said something about gay people, their outrage was enough to get him fired. are we capable of doing that? nope, we still gone love Maxwell, buy his music, and go to his concerts.
Ell-J T. i'm not the black woman you're mad at, you need to go find her, and disrespect her like this not me. you're comment has been deleted, and don't respond to me again or you will be blocked and deleted again.
This is the type of shit that pisses me off. There are black women like myself that do not care about what race a famous man of color dates. Who are you to tell someone who to fancy? Anyway I think a lot of BM are annoyed cause they find someone they like they have to deal with these crazy women who they don't know make a big deal cause his date or crush isn't black. And these women make other women look crazy because it seems like all of us have this view but we do not.
Pirate7X Misinformed..How is that? I said he is HALF-PUERTO-RICAN the key word HALF..what part do you NOT UNDERSTAND? His father is Cuban and Puerto Rican so he is majority LATINO. so get your facts right before you open your mouth..Just because his mother is Haitian it dosent make him 100% black...Hate on that fool....
Wow you mad? Study more sis you'll learn that more Africans came through Cuba and the rest of the Caribbean than the USA, like 10x. Let Maxwell do what he wish and you can bob on Robin Thicke like the rest of the no taste pop fans.
Nobody signed a contract with black women to tell black men who they are allowed to date. Black women cut your losses and move on. That would the mature thing to do. Remember desperation is really a bad quality for a woman.
Assumptions my brotha' assumptions, you don't like it when you hear black women generalizing all black men for being dead beats, thugs, and convicts, but yet you generalize ALL black women for feeling one way. Division is for the folly and all it succeeds to do is continue to keep black people at the bottom of the totem pole. Remember ignorance is a really bad quality in a man...especially a black man.
Great video, you made complete sense. I love open minded people that understand situations. As a white guy I've heard numerous times from white men when they see a nice looking white girl with a black man "What is she doing with him?" To be honest, that never bothered me. Shit, more power to that dude that he was a great woman on his arm, black or white. Let people live. Stop with the nonsense and ignorance. Peace.
People can’t even have preferences anymore?! Holy shit ! I love his response ! SOME black women are full with self hatred. Full of hate and racism ! Love yourself women, and you will feel much better in your life!
Shit is sad. He had every right to go off on those women for trying to dictate who he post on his instragram. They should have stayed in their lanes, Maxwell don't owe them shit.
To many stereotypes. One cap does not fit all. I really wish you would say some black women. I don't care who black men date wether they are in the public eye or not. Who really cares ? Each to their own.
If some of these so-called strong black women only knew how to express and maintain their sense of convictions and stop attracting thugs and possessing diva complexes they would be not only datable and marriage material but approachable!!!
If Black women have no right to check Maxwell, then why are Black men constantly bitching about a TV show (Scandal)? And we do own Black men honey...sorry. When you all need help and on your ass, you're at our house eating our food and using our utilities. In Maxwell's case, we are making him rich with our money. If it wasn't for us he would not have any fame and fortune. So you are owned. Deal with it.
ShamelessNation I don’t agree sweetie know we don’t own black men chill out I was with you until you started with the aggressive owning bull shit your making their point us ass black women needs too better just stop with the support of his music you don’t like him don’t support him simple as that
Im sure that soon Maxwell will tire of even the white flavor, when he realizes that a change in color wont change the way he deep down feels...for it really has nothing to do with skin color at all....attraction is about need or desire, love about want, respect, trust and values which can give us more than just flesh and toys, but a fulfilled purpose, hope and desire for good....deep down we all need and want to love ourselves, progress and feel powerful.....nothing that will last or give us what we want, or need in the long run is based on color....eventually even Maxwell will know this, and then he will go silver..and not black or white :D
Most of these post have a measure of truth. Looking at my family from great grandfather to my nephews.l can't really see a great relationship sad to say. My 4 brothers and I have all married black women. All the women we married have a degree of crazy. Of course there's two sides to every story. Would it have a different outcome if we married out of our race ? Who can say . All I can say is be sure she's what you want or he's what you want. Invest some time getting to know a person before you guys sleep together. This has always worked for me. I don't think race really matters.
The objection was not to his having white women on is IG, but having ONLY white women. He needs to be more respectful of his fan base, which is black women.
Island Ninja, He's a public figure who banks on his image and persona. He has a social contract with his fans that extends beyond the purchase receipt. Unless he is an independent artist, he is also an employee of a major corporation that distributes his product. Thus, criticism of his social media platform use is fair game.
David Matthews, He's a public figure, specifically using social media to promote his career. Thus, criticism of how he elects to represent himself is fair game.
Island Ninja, Every artist has a social contract with his/her fans. That's why you constantly see artists apologizing to their fans for one fuck up or another that violated the social contract. A social contract is an unspoken agreement of mutual understanding between or among individuals that define rules of integrity and conduct.
Island Ninja, I never said he could not date whomever he pleases. I simply stated that an artist's social media properties exist for business purposes: promoting their career. And every artist has a social contract with their audience that extends to public presentations, displays, messages, etc. For him to perform concerts for predominately Black female audiences, crooning romantic love songs and such. Then put up an Instagram account full of pictures of only White women is sending a message that is inconsistent with how he markets himself career wise. Artists are constantly adjusting how they present themselves publicly, their message, and their narrative based on fan feedback. You have to be seriously dense not to see that there are expectations that fans have for how their artists behave in offstage public arenas. Artists have to please their fans 360 degrees. That's why hardly a day goes by without some entertainer apologizing for something they said, tweeted, re-tweeted, posted, sang, or otherwise that caused their fans to be disappointed in them and question their character and integrity. Without understanding this, you could never work as an entertainment publicist. You best believe Trey Songz has Black women on his Instagram page, because that's who he caters to professionally.
Love maxwell! why it always have to be about a blk n white thing? females are females period dont matter the color, i'm so sick of all the hating on blk female this and that. We all are not the same!!!!!! because we're blk.
If this was a bw.Bm would be calling her all sorts of degradeing names.Continue supporting assholes that don't give a shit about you.And hurt the feelings of young blk girls that might admire his work.I bet the white girls will get back stage and you will be turned down.and laughted at.
If it is all about love, then show me some rich non-Black women that are marrying poor Black men? If its all about love then why is it always disproportionately, Black men with high financial status with non-Black women who are not equivalent or close to equivalent with his financial status? Tiger Woods white wife came up as a millionaire after divorcing him and so has many other non-Black poor women marrying rich Black men. Those non-Black females know what they doing.
I posted a comment and it was deleted this guy knowledge will only allow negative comments about black women on this page, when I speak the truth about him and other black men who hate black women he cant deal with it, Like I said sisters don't focus on them because theyre sick anyone he feels that way about there own race have mental health issues, stay focused on the real black men, these guys need therapy,watch him delete this
+salimah umrani if ". . . sisters don't focus on them because theyre sick anyone he feels that way about there own race have mental health issues . . ." THEN WHY ARE YOU HERE COMPLAINING ABOUT YOUR COMMENT BEING DELETED? If what you say is fact then demonstrate it by not coming to and posting to videos YOU ALREADY KNOW YOU DON'T LIKE.
HAAAAAAAA!!! This the funniest ass most hood ass video EVER!!! [3:00] "Maxwell useta work at Pizza Hut, you know...cleanin up shit...makin pizza pies n bullshit..."
You get this reaction with a lot of situations, There was a backlash from white girls when that pic of beiber with a black girl went up black guys make noise about the "scandal" tv show black women arent happy with maxwell now. . . . Sounds like some people need to stop having such a problem with interracial interactions, its sad and silly we're supposed to move forward not backwards.
if Maxwell still worked for A pizza joint no one would want him. Except the chickens he was around.... who cares who he loves.... doesn't change one thing in anyone's lifestyle .
"Our problem' black family we do not know how to love one another. Most of us put money and materials things, before our family as far as I see, the whole black race needs counselling because the majority of us grew up where there was no love, no one ever told us , or we heard" I Love you' we must first learn to love our selves, before we say I love you to some else.And the greatest teacher that will help us to do this is: Jesus CHRIST if we accept him as our Lord and Saviour he will teach us how we must love one another UNCONDITIONALLY, if we do it on our own, we will love only in the flesh, and that does not profit us nothing!the second thing is learn to respect one another the foul mouths got to go,black family it has nothing to do with black or white but it have to do with accepting ourselves and valuing each other, but our greatest problem in the midst of us, is to have a change of heart, and coming to our senses loving one another, and doing unto one, what you would like one to do unto you. Our problem is not having LOVE WITHIN OUR SELVES.We cannot give what we don't have period. and most of all some of us don't know how to love and some must, be taught that's exactly what the white males and females are doing, that's how we think they are perfect and we all know that's a lie. we all are starving for love, in our black community. When will we overcome? look at the way some of us are rising our children how to become thugs at one year old check out you tube and see for your self.
Also yes Maxwell has the right to do whatever he wants with his Instagram and date whoever he wants but there isn't anything wrong with black women stating that they wish Maxwell and other black men would give black women a chance. It should also be understandable why black women get frustrated because they put up with a lot. Also the black community fight with one another too much. Why can't we get along.
Black women move on from him...he live with his *boyfriend* in Atlanta anyway. Not worth your time. I get why you're upset, but don't support someone who doesn't support you.
so, you never actually talked to Maxwell about this, but you just assume black women didn't like him before he was famous. Your'e basing your whole argument off of an assumption, and you what they say "when you assume......"
Absolutely. Im mixed and my husband is black. We get hate from a lot of sources. Why? People are crazy and have nothing better to do. Ummm...pick up a book maybe.
Please!!!! U know how many black women sittin at home wit pizza hut workin ass tyrone. Lol stop! So ur saying that becuz he didn't get that attention from the black woman then now he leans toward white women? Are you saying that the white women were checking for him when he worked at pizza hut cause they somehow dont have the same type of financial hangups as black women??? These are questions by the way. And as a culture as a people I think that its not illogical to be sad when you see a black man do this. It's one thing to not limit yourself but to exclude black women all together. That hurts! When you know that this way of thinking is a direct result of a cultural breakdown set in motion centuries ago.....when you know that it is very possible for a race to go extinct (black people currently sit below the reproduction/survival rate needed to guarantee the races existence - contrary to popular belief we ain't just makin babies. We could very well be gone in a couple centuries)....when you are informed it cuts that much more! Black women need to stop leaning so heavily on wanting to be with their own race??!!! Tuh! Why? We the only idiots who dont!
One thing I can't stand is how black men talk bad about black women when they were raised by a black woman born from a black woman & when they have a mixed daughter, that daughter will have to identify herself as black on a job application but yet they speak so negatively about black woman.
***** Oh please. I have every reason to suspect that he might be gay. So maybe you should have written "WRONG" in lower case letters. If you Google Maxwell, you'll see how many links say that he is gay. So, my thinking he is gay is not so far fetched (it seems to be the word on the street, although it may not be true). And, apart from the Google thing, for years we did not see him engaging with women. It wasn't until recently, when the rumors of him possibly being gay began to spread wider than what they had been in the past, that he started showing up in images with women looking like they are a love interest. Luther did the same thing. It's all about selling his music to his largest fan base which is women. If women knew he were into men, they would probably not buy his love music (it's about PR) . And, as an aside, I have seen a few photos of him with women, and they all look like a photo op, not a love match no matter what race the woman was.
As an African American woman, I'm very attracted to Euro-American men. But the difference between me and people like Maxwell, is that I understand the psychological battle that has been raged against AA's since slavery times to make us hate ourselves and everything about ourselves. If I had an Instagram page, I would at least put people from every group just because of that fact. I will never hate on African American men or imply that they are less than based on their genetic make-up because they aren't. The ones that act in a self-demeaning way, do so because of culture along with other factors that have nothing to do with genetic make-up along with them being individuals. If I put them down based on their "race" alone, I'm letting the institution of whiteness win. Also, if you are putting a woman on a pedestal who looks nothing like you, you are going against your own self. You are harming your own mental health. I read a study that pro black people are mentally healthier and are less affected by racism than none pro black people. This just makes sense. If you are attracted to a group that looks different from yourself. FINE. Nothing wrong with that, in and of itself. But it's important, not to look at what you're attracted to but WHY you are attracted to it and ONLY it. That just seems off to me. I have a preference for people of European descent (a _preference_, not _exclusive_ attraction). But I can still recognize that not all Euro-Americans are automatically more beautiful just because they have pale skin and European features. I've also been attracted to men from other groups, including African American and can identify attractive people in every group, regardless as to whether I'm personally attracted to them or not. Also, notice that no other group dates women of other groups (and more specifically European women) like African American men. From the outside, this just makes our group look divided, weak and as if we scorn and hate ourselves which just makes the white supremacists out there, laugh their asses off. That is NOTHING to be proud of. You'll never see Euro-American men treating their women like that and the ones who do, are in the minority. They hold their women up as the standard and to the highest regard. Also, when alpha European men choose a mate, it is an alpha female from their own group, never or rarely from another group. If you do the same for their women and not your own, you are simply letting the "white" establishment WIN. NO other MALES from any other group, does this to their women. Not Asians. Not Hispanics and not Europeans. Hell, NOT even Africans. And women dating out, don't count. Men hold the power in patriarchal cultures which pretty much dominate in today's world. It doesn't matter. White supremacist males _want_ you to hate yourself. They _want_ their traits to be passed down and not yours. And don't think for a minute, that you're winning by mixing (from a racist perspective...mixing can be great for humanity as a whole and from an evolutionary perspective though) because just look at some South American Countries and how the black genes have been so watered down that they just call themselves "white" now. It's nothing more than mental sickness to hate your own women from your own group. They are the ones who will allow you to pass on traits that are similar to yours such as high melanin and so on. Also they carry the mitochondrial dna which allows your lineage to be traced back. Having lighter skin doesn't automatically mean that you will be better equipped to survive from an evolutionary perspective. If the Earth gets too hot, people with more melanin will be ideal. Rise above the ignorance.
U contradict yourself, you are convoluted and confused because you refuse to make a choice and construct a place in your own mind to fight the Europeanization of the African mind
LMAO at how mad black men get when people say something negative about white chicks. LOL! Y'all still on the plantation, or naw? That's alright Brothers ... keep your Cape on for your white queens. LMAO!!!
ZeeZee S. Are you also saying this to Black women who trash Black men in the multiples more videos? If not, you're trying to have your cake and eat it, which can't work.
At this point I am sorry that I ever made a comment to this video. I guess I allowed my emotions to get the best of me. After reading most of the comments after my original post, I now really see how much trouble we are in as a people. We hate each other and we willing display our distain. So sad!
He's not. But, I still think Max has love for black women, but if at the chance he doesn't, it shouldn't mean a damn thing for any woman. Who a man dates in my opinion, says nothing about another woman's value.
When I hear black men denigrate black women, honestly, it really, really hurts my heart. These women they disrespect so publicly are their mothers, grandmother, sisters, aunt and female relatives. Do they really deserve this from one of their own? We are the only race of people who berate and demonize their women, most other races protect their women. I believe it is a curse of biblical proportions. Many of the black women who behave in a certain way have been brought low by life circumstances and spiteful hateful rhetoric only seek to bring them even lower. Many are coming from some very dark and depressed place, which often causes them to make a lot of poor choices and when they fall there is rarely anyone there to help pick up the pieces, therefore it's easier to continue to make another poor choice. What Maxwell and others like him fail to realize is that the things he says not only cast a poor light on black women but also on himself, because like it or not he is a member of the black community and until they invent a pill to whiten his skin and change his distinctly negroid features he had better get used to it. Women in other communities also make poor choices, the difference is that they have systems in place to smooth things out or hide theirs where as we do not, we throw ours to the wolves then sit back and help them laugh at us all. How sad is that? All of these misfortunes and maladies have been foretold and I for one understand that we have to go through these things but the day will come when all will be made clear. I just hope it's soon.
What is going on gold digger really ,black women know your worth and where you come from .We have come from a long line great black women strong , intelligent , with such courage Harriet Tubman , Sojourner Truth ,Rosa Parks and the list goes on .Teach our girls about respecting ourselves education is the key. Greatness lives in us , let us build a great community with our children respect , values ,and morals .
I am a great women from a small town call Pittsview , Alabama .I left my quiet country town to go and work with at risk black youth in Atlanta ,Georgia. Atlanta has high crime area just like out in California .I have saved many children from the street , encouraged them to stay in school and go to college .I adopted my son from a mother who was on crack ,he is now nine years old full of ambition , and very healthy , I have a 24 hour job saving as many young kids as possible , I only get pay for eight of them . Building strong bridges in our community from crime . Love ,respect ,education is the key
Dena Alabama-girl that's the problem, we as men don't want you to be strong and all that feminist bullshit that guarantees tthe average like minded female will be alone or go thru series of men who will never marry her
+Shane Rhabb Its not who he's dating that makes black women angry, it's the lies, disrespectful, and ungrateful attitude he has against ALL black women that's especially crazy and scary; especially since he's black himself (maybe he forgot, but he'll find out again). Shame SMH. His comments would angry any race of women he was bashing. So, it's not like every black woman is insecure.
tee briggs No The problem with black women is they have no sense of peace. Even if you tried to talk about positive stuff they will find a way to make it negative and drag you down. You can say, at one time in life I was doing well and they will reply and say yea well that didn't last long and then you were someone's problem. All they know how to do is kill a mood and environment. They do not cultivate peace. The cultivate frustration and anger. They don't believe in being the better part of existence in the home. When its hell on earth they bring hell home to and make the man deal with it. They have every excuse not to want to bring peace and happiness into the atmosphere and they want everything on their terms. In the long run they are horrible people.
I admit, you do have many black women like this, but also white women, latino women, asian women, arab women, italian women, I see these women flipping off and dragging down their men all the time. See there's a problem; I've been noticing, there is a huge majority of African American people that have turned from God and especially black men. They reject God's word so they don't understand that these type of women have been in existence since people have been created. There are many scriptures that warn men to stay away from these type of women (and they come from all backgrounds). And what I mean by "these type of women", im talking about Godless Women. What's ironic is that black men who bash black women and have preference for white women only disproportionately have a bad attitude against God also. It's almost like they are blaming God too. .These are Godless men. I don't see their lives turned around for the best spiritually. The women they are choosing are full of unbelief and are very worldly. Many of these black men that bash black women are self seeking and want to fulfill their lusts for the Devils world. They want everything the devil has to offer and they lust after the power, the money, the sex, the prestige, and the pleasure. As far as I can tell, they are reaping what they are sowing by living a lie and not admitting the truth about themselves as black men, and as men who are influencing others to turn away from the Lord. Some Black men have been running from their problems for a long time and they put the blame on everybody else but themselves. There is a culture of improper thought and bias when it comes to black women that I dont get and i don't see how us at blacks benefit at all. admit the truth. Black men aren't perfect either and black men have many flaws as well and most of the men on here know exactly what im talkin about. At least black women does have a tendency to admit their faults, and we admit it to the whole world, that's why we are in churches in droves trying to get help! But, not some of these black men, they can't even admit their faults to Jesus, so why would I think they'll give two cents about admitting their flaws to us or themselves. Sad.
Sir, you've just made my point. You have an attitude against black women and now you've exposed your bad attitude against God as well. What did God ever do wrong to you to warrant such a bad attitude against HIM? Something is amiss about your reasoning. How can you blame God for your problems if as an atheist you say God don't exist therefore he can't intervene, but then justify not believing in him, because you say you have no evidence he exist because he hasn't intervened? Man is the head of the household. It is the man's responsibility to manage his own affairs. The affairs with his children and woman are his responsibility.God holds him more responsible because he has put the woman and the children under his care. The man is the Sheppard of the flock. However, when you have a Christian woman married to a Non-christian man, this is a very taxing situation. Because of the spiritual nature of what's going on and because the man is spiritually blinded and won't listen to HIM, God will give the woman more power in the relationship (she's the only parent in the family unit that is willing to be directed by the Lord), so as the man won't lead the children spiritually astray but to see (have some evidence) the blessings of the Lord bestowed unto the family which in turns draw the man closer to God. The bible forbids treating your woman harshly as if she's a slave for you, but you are to love her as your OWN body and CARE for her likewise, even unto Death, just as Christ Sacrificed Himself for the Church. You can't have a selfish man as the head. He will be exposed. It's false saying black women will not support black men. they do so even to the detriment of their own livelihood and even their own freedom. Example, Some Black women are still supporting Maxwell even though he has a bad attitude against them and the bad thing about this is....THEY DON'T EVEN KNOW HIM! All they know is he's a black man with talent therefore, we must do our duty and support him. Now that's the black women attitude. A son and his Black mother has a special bound. I know of many black women that love them to death, and spoil they behinds too, that's why they grow up with this privileged type attitude. When you look in the bible woman have always had special care towards their sons. The woman's job is to actually do this. Women are natural caregivers. The man's job is to create a balance and be the more masculine side so as the children will grow up neither spoiled nor deprived. Problem; where are the men that are taking their place as men in the home and are willing to sacrifice themselves for the betterment of their families?
Well said thank you bruh not just black women but people all just need to mind their business. When a person is unhappy with self they don’t have nothing else to do but to talk shit and fuck with someone else.
No shit lol they talking about him like he a regular black dude black Puerto Rican have a diff way they are brought up so thus the color issue plus he only half black which could have aomething to do with his thought process as well
Right but growing up in that home with island parent you dont learn the same thing as any other black kid would I cant explain it you would just have to see it I have family from PR DR Haiti Jamaica cuba panama lol and they way fam members are raised different then people that originate from the u.s. so his mind set aint like everyome elses leave dude alone is all im saying not one black chick have shit to say about all the white dudes with black chick all over they shit so why fuck with him and domt even know him but to say he just like a black dude is to say he not his own person
And another thing lol people need to pick one or the other if a person parents are puerto rican and they black black people say you not black you got spanish and westindian blood you not really black but they are black when it benefits other black then then their race is black that shit is funny cause if you think about it a white boy born here from irish decent says hes irish not a white guy though he is white so to that shit her black dont really make sense
Nicely said!! I remember when Maxwell came out almost every black woman I knew would say..."Oh Maxwell this, Maxwell that...I'm going to see Maxwell!" You are quite right, they really wouldn't have given him a second thought before his recognition. Even if he was dating the white chick at Pizza Hut.
That HIS Instagram account. That man can post pics of whomever he likes. I'm glad that he checked those women. If he ain't judging your IG posts, why are you judging his?
It is what it is, the brown woman or black girl always seem to get the short end of the stick and I really believe black treats white women better in relationships. The more fame and money black men seem to think a dark woman is beneath them, even Maxwell who is one of my favorite singers. His concert I attended several years ago was the bomb that consisted of black women that help launch his career in ticket sales. He is still my favorite next to Luther.
Maxwell is a beautiful successful Black man, I am happy for him! Live well, love God, your life is yours to be responsible for... I'm not mad at you babe, be happy! Got any uncles, Lol. Peace
Okaaaaayyyyy! I never knew he was like that! He's half Haitian too... Never thought he disliked bw! This is almost as bad as when Eric Benet said he was a sex addict-While married to Halle Berry!! Seriously!!
I agree with adangme. Why? Because the black woman needs to know who she truly is and that's when she will be emotionally, spiritually, and mentally free. No validation should come from no one else but self. The black woman need to discover who she really is. And yes, I am black.
Black women, stop focusing on men who don't want you. Focus on the ones who do. There's a whole world of men who date and MARRY black women. If Maxwell doesn't want black women, then STOP supporting him. Stop buying his records, stop going to his concerts. Let the non-black women support him. It's that simple.
I wish its that simple when most b.women feel judged and sidelined: whiners, arguers, loud, ugly. and they have to do anything to prove their point and worth. look at the titles given. when u call ur kid bad, and naughty, u know the outcome.
I don't think we should stop supporting him just because he may have a preference. We didn't do for Quincy Jones or MJ so why him. Just wish him well and do you. Bet Eve wasn't worried about it.
Did white people stop supporting Robert Deniro for having a black wife? Why do we promote pettiness?
Leo Scarpoli robert diniro dont go through the same problems as a black man either they dont say shit to white men about sleeping with Black woman.
Why stop buying his music simply because he like white women, dating white women doesn't mean you hate black people,
These are the same sisters that praise tv shows like Scandal.
It_OG_Brotha unknown Whoa! All that wasn't called for. I don't know why you're hostile towards the topic but it's way off from the point I was making.
No!!! It NOT way off the line!!! You don't know what you're talking about sir!!!
It_OG_Brotha unknown Yeah whatever, man.
Man I was thinking the same damn thing.
Chris Davis Huh?! Who are directing this particular comment to?
maxwell is a cool dude. . . he use to come to my party and h always came with a sister, if he likes white chics thats his business....he loves the ladies... nobody owes us their preference what people like is what they like!!
I’ve met Maxwell in NYC when his first album came out. I saw him come out of Paul Smith. I called his name and he turn and look at me and smile.I told him how much I loved his album and I asked him for a hug he smiled and gave me a hug. The second time I saw him at a popular restaurant in Soho NYC. He was with a group of his friends. When he and a friend was at the bar to order , I said something sassy to his friend. He looked at his friend and me . Then she smiled and said “I like this girl”. He has been a cool dude to me each time I’ve met him.
Sistas try to shame brothas into wanting them.
No not at all most of you are a shame by yourselves
Yet say they don't need no man lol
The King we dont need the trash ones
Right?? That's another one. Sickening.
Trash ones are abundant and can go lol
if a Spanish actor always post and is seen with another race of women most or all the time, his community will speak out against him or her for that! this is natural to all races of people but some how black women are picked out of the crowd and scorned for questioning her own people.
... This is a ridiculously touchy subject. What's messed up is that a lot of black women get very hostile when a black man calls them out on the double standards and their malicious ways. If black men challenge a black women on their twisted logic with facts, they immediate resort to character assassination tactics, saying, "He must hate his mother," or, "He must be gay," even, "He's a traitor," and my personal favorite, "He's weak and can't handle a 'strong black woman'".
agreed
You ain't never lied! Preach on!
Top guy.
why don't you get it? we don't have a problem with people dating out of the race. but the problem becomes when you say I don't date white woman because they are all one thing or another. that's when we have a problem. and this ideal that black woman don't date broke black dudes, is so much bs.
Cassandra badie I strongly disagree with some of the things. That you have stated on This particular topic. But you have the right to say, what you want to say.
All these Black women are mad at Maxwell posting pics of white women. But they have every album R.KELLY and CHRIS BROWN put out.
Please save that crap...
Amen
Pirate7X for real R Kelly tell these motherfuckers step to the left step to the right and they do it... Chris Brown beat the shit out of somebody and they love him
Thanks for the upload.
I totally agree. Maxwell does seem like a calm person. He doesn't even curse or degrade women in his songs or on his Facebook, so these women must have really ticked him off. Everyone has the right to love who they love. Black women need to start looking in the mirror and find out what they're doing wrong. Not all black women are loud and mad all the time, but some of them are.
C Ali. Good to see a black women with a good healthy mind..You are rare..Any man that gets you is a lucky man
haha..yea. it is true. I still insist. are we really talking about the root causes of the problem. when did it all begin. yes she is mad and loud, well not ugly , though these characteristics can make any beautiful black woman ugly. was the black woman loud and whiny since she stepped in America (ship her back here in Africa!)
Yes, I wonder too because I've met so many African women and they behave different from African American women. And none of them have issues getting a black man. Also a lot of European white men are attracted to these women, so yeah you're right, it's not looks. Black women are attractive, it's just attitude.
Exactly! It's like a mental propaganda that is set to destroy this woman. Abd you know what. When u destroy the woman you destroy the society as well.
C Ali That's totally correct
Well, I do not have any children. And if I did, I would love and raise them. Women are blind to men like me. It seems like the more sensible you are, the more weird you seem to appear. And I haven't abandoned sisters at all, and for all of the BS I have gone through, it is a miracle I havent left. I speak two languages and I travel. I have plenty of options. But I am caught up in the psycosis aspect of BW. And I know if I do pick wisely, black is the dominant gene. I'm on a whole different plane. When you choose to procreate it is important to connect with the person metaphysically because what is going on in your mind and emotions are transferred to offspring. People need to get their mind right. But the problem is too many of us are still slaves.
Black7od u ever thought women are blind to u because ur fat! The same way men like physically fit attractive women we want our men to be attractive as well!!
Drop that pic since you’re talking about your him.
LOL I did this video years ago and it still gets lots of comments..much respect people.
Christine Njagi I am a black African girl that believes the black race has to face the conditions that have led to the bad outcomes, rather than engage in 'lazy debates' of blame game and lame excuses.
+KNOWLEDGESPEAKSTRUTH I guess it is a touchy subject for some people..lol
Your video response message is on point... thank you for being real and forth coming about it... there are bigger fish to fry then all this damn child's play.
black women are out of control.
if it hasnt gotten worse since then, this video wouldnt still be getting comments and views
MillionShadesofDarkness
Your only posting because your looking for some attention like all the rest.... Go find a subject matter that is more uplifting instead of looking for drama and attention.... Your post name speaks for itself....
Evil it is.... Demon!
i don't care if a Blackman
dates outside his race, i am
not a ghetto black woman
i have a descent all black man
in my life who works for a living! all black woman are
not bad!
Leave Maxwell alone....He is old enough to date whoever the hell he wants to date.....whether he happens to date black woman or white woman...so what...don't worry about him....he is a grown man and must know what he likes by now...Love is color blind....remember that!
ChocolateWorld726 ChocolateWorld726 Thank God, there are still sensible men left in this world...lol
ChocolateWorld726 ChocolateWorld726 No black or white woman, has exclusive rights, or dibs on men of the same race.....that's plain out childish....a grown man should be able to date whatever race he wants to be without being called an Uncle Tom or traitor.
When black woman date white men they don't have a problem with that.....but when black men date white woman.....the black woman has a problem with that??? Sorry black ladies....it don't work that way.....you can't date white men and still think that you own, all the black men too... your so funny.
ChocolateWorld726 ChocolateWorld726 I hear you....there are pretty woman in every race and it's up to the individual to date whatever color they want....everyone is different, not everyone likes the same flavor of ice cream neither. Most, white woman don't care if white men date black woman, why should black woman care who black men date? I never could understand that....I've never dated outside of my race but I sure don't care who dates who, that's their business.
usually a man of his status end up at functions that black women are few. so who else will he be dating if the majority of the women are white at these functions. Is the same thing with football players and other entertainers the majority of them anyway. we all bleed blood but, understand black womens light with being always left out. Of course I don't have that problem. I'm very international and know how to date other nationalities or wherever I feel that I'm going to be treated kindly and with respect.
didn't know maxwell felt that way about black women. I'm not a big fan and I don't follow him on twitter or whatever but I do like his music. I don't care what he does or who he dates in his personal life. I'll just stick to liking his music
You should keep your mouth shut u said u love white men so get off this brother nuts.
maxwell is a great artist. i don't care who he dates/likes, I'm still going to buy his music.
To each his own - I am not mad at Maxwell or anyone else who finds love wrapped inside a skin color different from their own - Bottom line is you like who you like and hope and pray for the best.
That's right black women.... because White women, asian women, and all other women WOULD BE checking for pizza hut man.... Only you black women have stary eyes for financially stable men and powerful men. * Eyes rolling*
“Maxwell's family is from the West Indies: His mother is from Haiti and his father is Puerto Rican. Puerto Rican come in all colors, so he can like any color !
the question should be would a black women date him if he was at pizza hut?
you spoke the truth on here.. i'm a black male and one of my personal problems with black women is how they always want to say "do you like white women?" or "you like white girls don't you" ..but i wonder why they even ask if they aren't interested in me.. like if you (a black woman) doesn't like me, and also none of your friends (other black females) like me either.. then what am i supposed to do? lol.. like they never even realize to an extent its their own fault.. if you don't accept a black man then don't get mad when he goes where he is accepted
women are not always seeing the full picture, a lot of black women don't like me.. they always assume its me rejecting black women but the truth is many black women don't like me and don't accept me.. even though i went to college, have a job, a place, a car, and i go to church and have a gym membership
and some of u may be thinking .. why is that?
i'm glad you asked.. see.. one of the major problems is this- many black women have one of the following:
A. a live-in boyfriend
B. a friend with benefits
so when a good man is interested guess what? she is occupied.. and so when her situation with the live-in or the fwb ends, then she tries to find the God-fearing black man and he has moved on
i have seen it happen.. for example i was trying to date this gorgeous black girl at my job.. i was flirting with her and inviting her to spend time with me and i felt we had chemistry but guess what? one day she came to work talking about she was pregnant.. and she tried to hide it from me but i knew what was going on.. now, ask me if she is married to her child's father
I THINK YOU ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER TO THAT
He can choose his mate. But, the irony is that a white woman can not raise a Maxwell. He was raised with a black woman's love and perspective. Like it or not they can not produce a strong and viral black man. Look at Obama, he is a shell of a black man. Do you believe that if Collin Powell was not raised by a black Mama he could have taken a position of supporting Obama and not give a flip about his pundits. Damn right. So at the end of the day I would rather her work out his black female anxiety on a white woman.
He wouldnt be appealing to rich white women either if he wasnt famous and?
Wait. So the black women wouldn't have been checking for him when he worked at Pizza Hut, but do you think those white girls would've?
Correct! No chicks of any color would have given him or any other guy of any color the time of day when he is so low on cash.
Oops!
+Erica Kenny (EKenny83)
A lot of black men know this already but don't care, because they've already sold their dignity.
Erica Kenny black male's always expect black women to accept the struggle love narrative ( pizza but worker) but soon as that same man gets his shit together they go straight for other races knowing damb well Becky ling-ling & Maria wouldn't have given him the time of day while he was making minimum wage! They expect black women to be work horses but then he treats other races like unicorns!
White women are not checking for bums neither.lol you are right black women should date out!
Personally, I have the highest respect for everyone. It saddens me to see black men speak so ill of their women, when surprise, surprise that "mannish, gold digging, attitude having nag" that you just described is your own mother, sister, aunt, or whomever. It truly is a disgrace when I was never raised to look to a man of any race let alone black, for what he can provide materialistically, or financially, but if he was rich in ambition, honesty, and heart. If he can speak to the queen in me. Black women are beautiful. And the same holds true for every single race there is.
***** Amen homie, couldn't have said it any better myself.
You're 100% correct sir! Fortunately its not all black American women, but there are way too many of them who have this shitty attitude, and feel justified in attacking someone's character of whom they don't even know on a personal level whenever they SEE him with a woman who isn't black. You don't really find this level of insecurity among black women of other cultures as much tho. This is mostly an American dilemma. And there's nothing anyone else can do about it either. It's something they each have to overcome on a personal level. Even when other African women who understand the problem try to talk sense to them they get defensive and dismiss it... Smh
It's called "slave mentality". Similar to the light skinned vs dark skinned thing in black culture.
yup
Preach my brother! You hit the hammer on the nail!
***** Dam! I guess you told him! 👍
***** Yeah! That's how you have to deal with simpletons! lol
LOL...I don't do Instagram either, bro. For those same reasons you don't. It's for girls, and nobody cares what I just ate.
Bless you, man.
Good for Maxwell. I don't blame him for only wanting to date white women. Very wise man and he makes good music too.
I have listened to several of these attacks on black women over the last couple of days. I really think it is time that black women get themselves together. We really need to stop trying to support black men. They have made it clear that they hate us. Why keep trying to convince someone who has said repeatedly that you are not beautiful, unwanted, undesirable, and unloved. I am not a young woman and I have had many experiences, traveled and seen a lot of the world. This is something I can assure you of. Every man in the world envies the back man because he has the black woman. It is time for us to stop!!! You are beautiful, desirable, loved, and especially wanted, find somebody that see this in you and be happy. If this happens to be a black man great, but stop feeling guilty if you desire somebody who is not black because black men have repeatedly said they don't want you anyway. The more you try to support the black man the more he hates you for it so sistas please just stop!! You deserve to be happy, supported, and taken care of respected and cherished. Stop looking to the black man to do this for you, he has made it clear that he will not.
"The more you try to support the black man the more he hates you for it so sistas please just stop!!"
How many deadbeats and losers did you choose to deal with, to feel so bitter? I'm asking becuz honestly every blkwmn who echos your sentiments insisted on getting with and even having babies by men who weren't interested in them like that. I've seen blkwmn who back in the day when we were young, repeatedly pass of good brothas for deadbeats. I've never heard any blkwmn who was in a happy marriage or committed relationship, speak so ill about blkmn. Maybe it's not the blkmn, maybe it's you young ladies who keep picking the wrong men, instead of giving the good guys with no swag, no cool. While passing over blkmen lack swag and cool, who would rather actually buy a home in a decent neighborhood and take public transportation to work and take a brown bag lunch, than waste money on new ride while and eating out every day, while living in the projects. Plus no woman should be looking to a man to make her happy. Happiness starts within. Happy blkwmn usually attract happy, decent blkmn.
***** I did not reference goldiggers so I don't know how to respond to your question. My comment above was clear and concise. I will repeat one portion, and that is again...Black women who had the ability to think reason analyze and assess individual men BEFORE jumping into bed with them....Black women who have and do secure men who are good men and good candidates as husbands FIRST...THEN the father of their children....are not complaining. 27 yrs of marriage to the same man who was and still is a good husband to me and a good father to our two grown sons, I have no complaints and have no desire to ride the Black men ain't shit express. I have no issues with Black men because I did not ALLOW Black men to use me sexually, and pump me up with babies I had to struggle to struggle to raise alone. I have no dog in your fight. If Black women want quality men, the process is two fold....first be a quality woman...then choose a quality man, based on good character integrity and substance. Another thing....most men who are trying to build a good life for themselves and have no children, and want to meet good women for marriage with NO CHILDREN so they can create their OWN legacy and familial foundation, are not checking for single women with a bunch of kids. Single motherhood reduces a woman's marital worth. Most men with no children do not want the burden of another man's (or men's) responsibility.
Lets recap:
To attract a quality man, a woman must be a quality woman and have more to bring to the table besides a *tight sex game, a cute face, and a "phat ass"*. I've said this time and time again, if one polled 100 happily married black men and asked this question....what were the five things that made you know your wife was "that special lady", NONE of what I highlighted above would be among the five reasons why they decided to make these women their wives. And most of the men in TJ's forum who are married, have a special lady they want to marry, or hope to be married someday, would agree with me. Also remember that in MOST cases, water seeks its own level. If some women are consistently attracting bums and deadbeats, perhaps they are not quite the good, quality women they think they are.
***** Also let me answer your question as to why a percentage of women are disproportionately stuck in poverty.
1-Trying to keep up with the Jonses -They may make a decent salary, but blow their money on material items, instead of learning the value of a dollar, consistently save a portion of their salary, and take advantage of learning the art of financial, and investing in 401k's and low risk, long term investing. These are the women who bring home a paycheck on Friday, and by Wednesday, they are broke and borrowing money to pay a utility bill that they could have paid, but the shoe, handbag or other nonsense they could have lived without, was more important at the time than keeping the lights or gas on.
2-Generational poverty - There used to be a time when a generation of poor people were determined that they would work their fingers to the bone to ensure their children would have a better, more financially stable life, thus putting an end to the familys cycle of generational poverty. Perfect example of this, is the mother of Dr. Ben Carson, renowned pediatric neurosurgeon, who has saves and changed the lives of children worldwide. When then young Ben started to stray onto the wrong path she worked hard saved money and moved herself Ben and his brother out of the slums, and bought a home in a decent community with good schools, one of which Ben and his brother attended. Ben's grades became great and he was able to get scholarships to college, medical schoo, he became a physician, and then became fascinated with the brain, which began his journey to become a neurosurgeon. His brother if I recall correctly, is an engineer. Had Ben's mother not put in work to remove her family from a bad neighborhood with bad schools, Dr. Carson and his brother may have vey well ended up in prison or dead. Someone has to have the will and determination ti ensure their children have a better life. Hats off to Dr. Carson's mom, a phenomenal woman.
3-Out of wedlock babies - nothing drags and keeps women in poverty quite like already being poor, yet no doing their due diligence in not becoming pregnant. Every baby sinks a woman and her existing children into poverty, and with each baby becomes more difficult to dig out from under poverty. And those babies will, if the mother does not have the determination to do what is necessary to put an end to the cycle (by not having more babies and patterning after mothers like Dr. Carsons mom and other moms who have done the same) her children will suffer. My solution....unmarried women who choose to lay with equally poor random men who have nothing to offer but hard dyck, should use effective birth control and insist her casual sex partners wear condoms. Abstinence is another optioj, while focusing on pulling herself out of poverty. It is selfish thoughtless and unfair for women to ALLOW themselves to become pregnant, then bring babies into the world they can barely feed, in violent, crime and drug infested neigbborhoods witb subpar schools...AND to top it off hsve these babies by men who just want to cum and leave. Pregnancy is preventable and FREE to women receiving gov't aid. No excuse for any woman being sloppy with her ability to carry and bring forth life. Our bodies are OURS, we are 100% responsible for the men we ALLOW to enter OUR bodies. And if in 27 yrs of marriage, my husband and I managed to practice family planning and have only TWO babies, I KNOW single women can do the same. No babies while you (you in general terms) are single, poor and broke because at that point you have nothing to offer a child but a life of misery and having to do without much of what that child will need (healthy food, quality medical and dental care, decent clothes, a decent home in a decent neighborhood where he or she can run and play without catching a bullet, with decent schools).
Thats all I have for you....if you cannot comprehend this post then I don't know what else to tell you. Its common sense solutions, women can either utilize them, or choose not to.
Amen. The way Maxwell spoke was so wrong and I would not support any person that felt that way period. Clearly, he doesn't care what the black women feel about him showing only one race in his IG. He didn't care and told us to F ourselves.
I have seen this play out many of times with players. When an sister is feeling and wants a particular brother real bad, and that brother doesn't want her, she will say or put out a rumor that either he likes white women or he's gay. Simply, because he doesn't want her. In other words, they will tell lies on you if you reject them.
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Strangley, I'm more surprised that Maxwell dropped an F-Bomb.
lol me too.
Yeah, that's what I was more offended by. I personally, don't believe Maxwell has self-contempt for his own skin, but I do understand where the sentiment comes from. If you go on his IG--from FIRST GLANCE--it would appear he only fraternizes with whites, but it's too subjective to make claims that he seeks to disassociate himself from his own race because there's only so much you see on IG and when you take into account that he's in another socioeconomic bracket, you realize he's going to travel and come across people from different cultural backgrounds.
However, my bigger issue is the fact that this is the SAME guy who wouldn't even say "f**k" in closer because he didn't want to be disrespectful and had to ask for permission in his songs to "get down" with a woman--forever being the gentleman--now adds F bombs into his vernacular and throws tongue lashing at women (no matter how wrong they may have been). The old Max, or the one he and his PR team pre-social media would of led us to believe he was, would of never said such a thing. He would of responded with more grace or just ignored it.
missym877 I don't know, I mean he's practically be called a "race traitor." I can see how that would shake him that much to become emotional. I mean, he's one of the few brothers still carrying the flag for soul music and he gets this noise. Him lashing out is understandable to me.
I mean, I agree I think calling people racists, bigots, traitors to their race are all loaded accusations but also if you go on his IG, you can see where the accusations come from. I'm not saying it's anyone's right to do so, nor do I agree with those few women's sentiments, but if you are going to place yourself on the pedestal as the one "bringing back 'black love'" you better live up to it or there will be backlash. I mean it's quite contradictory to give interviews saying you love black women but then you're only seen fraternizing with white women. Like I said, I don't think he hates his race, himself, or black women, those assumptions are too subjective because we don't know what he does in his personal life but IG is a small form glimpse into one's personal life. It's like a black woman saying she loves her skin, loves black men but you ONLY SEE her dating white men--yeah it's going to raise a lot of flags.
missym877 But, like you said, those are just Instagram pictures, that's not a whole lot to go on and those women started to sling accusations at him. If they had just come at him respectfully and asked him, he'd probably have explained what you said, he's in circumstances where he doesn't get to see a lot of black women. This is actually indicative to the plight of our community, we don't know how to just talk to each other. Everything has to be an argument, fight, or, at the very least, a dick measuring contest.
Class, class, class.... Some of our people lack that. Until we collectively understand that fundemental flaw in our people, black love will continue to diminish.
Maxwell didn't have to say the things he said though he did too much. I would say I will stop buying his music, but I never have bought any of his music to even be able to stop so.... as for other black women, stop supporting people who don't support you. hit them where it hurts. but we don't know how to do that, that's why people will say whatever they want about us because they know we don't know how to ban against them. like when the dixie chicks said something about George bush. and all their fans put them out of business. and when isaiah washington from Greys antomomy said something about gay people, their outrage was enough to get him fired. are we capable of doing that? nope, we still gone love Maxwell, buy his music, and go to his concerts.
all that negativity over instagram smh.
Ell-J T. i'm not the black woman you're mad at, you need to go find her, and disrespect her like this not me. you're comment has been deleted, and don't respond to me again or you will be blocked and deleted again.
girl you are so on point!
You're not our Sistas and he's entitled to like who he likes Skin color entitles you to someone.
US Superprints Well, with the way Cops are killing black men it doesn't look like y'all will survive either!
This is the type of shit that pisses me off. There are black women like myself that do not care about what race a famous man of color dates. Who are you to tell someone who to fancy? Anyway I think a lot of BM are annoyed cause they find someone they like they have to deal with these crazy women who they don't know make a big deal cause his date or crush isn't black. And these women make other women look crazy because it seems like all of us have this view but we do not.
He's half Puerto-rican so most latinos think they are white anyway..Maxwell aint all that anyway...
Hatorade floweth... I rest my case.
Hate on what? it aint like Maxwell is making any hits lately..His career is over..Robin Thicke is the new Maxwell....
Misinformation & green Haterade for pouring. He's half Haitian also so what's up?
Pirate7X Misinformed..How is that? I said he is HALF-PUERTO-RICAN the key word HALF..what part do you NOT UNDERSTAND? His father is Cuban and Puerto Rican so he is majority LATINO. so get your facts right before you open your mouth..Just because his mother is Haitian it dosent make him 100% black...Hate on that fool....
Wow you mad? Study more sis you'll learn that more Africans came through Cuba and the rest of the Caribbean than the USA, like 10x. Let Maxwell do what he wish and you can bob on Robin Thicke like the rest of the no taste pop fans.
I don’t care who he dates because it’s none my business long as it’s not me
Nobody signed a contract with black women to tell black men who they are allowed to date. Black women cut your losses and move on. That would the mature thing to do. Remember desperation is really a bad quality for a woman.
Assumptions my brotha' assumptions, you don't like it when you hear black women generalizing all black men for being dead beats, thugs, and convicts, but yet you generalize ALL black women for feeling one way. Division is for the folly and all it succeeds to do is continue to keep black people at the bottom of the totem pole. Remember ignorance is a really bad quality in a man...especially a black man.
Desperate4Knowledge. Exactly .....
It blows my mind how people are worried about someone dating white or black why the fuck do you care it's not your life .
Great video, you made complete sense. I love open minded people that understand situations. As a white guy I've heard numerous times from white men when they see a nice looking white girl with a black man "What is she doing with him?" To be honest, that never bothered me. Shit, more power to that dude that he was a great woman on his arm, black or white. Let people live. Stop with the nonsense and ignorance. Peace.
I meant that he uses just mixed or white models but no blacks... then withdraw support
black women need began to boycott artist's music that degrades or doesn't uplift them
Goodluck 😂😂
People can’t even have preferences anymore?! Holy shit ! I love his response ! SOME black women are full with self hatred. Full of hate and racism ! Love yourself women, and you will feel much better in your life!
Shit is sad. He had every right to go off on those women for trying to dictate who he post on his instragram. They should have stayed in their lanes, Maxwell don't owe them shit.
Marcus Ward Show "Why I Don't Like Black Girls"
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To many stereotypes.
One cap does not fit all.
I really wish you would say some black women.
I don't care who black men date wether they are in the public eye or not.
Who really cares ?
Each to their own.
I agree with you he can put what ever he wants on his page but if the women feel he doesn't appreciate their beauty then stop supporting that artist.
If some of these so-called strong black women only knew how to express and maintain their sense of convictions and stop attracting thugs and possessing diva complexes they would be not only datable and marriage material but approachable!!!
I REALLY DID NOT KNOW THAT BLK..MEN HATED BLACK WOMEN,, SO DEEP.
If Black women have no right to check Maxwell, then why are Black men constantly bitching about a TV show (Scandal)?
And we do own Black men honey...sorry. When you all need help and on your ass, you're at our house eating our food and using our utilities. In Maxwell's case, we are making him rich with our money. If it wasn't for us he would not have any fame and fortune. So you are owned. Deal with it.
ShamelessNation I don’t agree sweetie know we don’t own black men chill out I was with you until you started with the aggressive owning bull shit your making their point us ass black women needs too better just stop with the support of his music you don’t like him don’t support him simple as that
Ironically Maxwell's the same guy that a lot of black women drool over.. Sad.
Well black women, instead of going off on him about instagrams -- stop purchasing his music.
Im sure that soon Maxwell will tire of even the white flavor, when he realizes that a change in color wont change the way he deep down feels...for it really has nothing to do with skin color at all....attraction is about need or desire, love about want, respect, trust and values which can give us more than just flesh and toys, but a fulfilled purpose, hope and desire for good....deep down we all need and want to love ourselves, progress and feel powerful.....nothing that will last or give us what we want, or need in the long run is based on color....eventually even Maxwell will know this, and then he will go silver..and not black or white :D
Most of these post have a measure of truth. Looking at my family from great grandfather to my nephews.l can't really see a great relationship sad to say. My 4 brothers and I have all married black women. All the women we married have a degree of crazy. Of course there's two sides to every story. Would it have a different outcome if we married out of our race ? Who can say . All I can say is be sure she's what you want or he's what you want. Invest some time getting to know a person before you guys sleep together. This has always worked for me. I don't think race really matters.
I guess this video was not intended to bring further insight. It was simply a chance for to share your your opinion.
Who gives a shit? Let 'em hate
The objection was not to his having white women on is IG, but having ONLY white women. He needs to be more respectful of his fan base, which is black women.
Karim Bennett be quiet & let him live it's his choice patna
Island Ninja, He's a public figure who banks on his image and persona. He has a social contract with his fans that extends beyond the purchase receipt. Unless he is an independent artist, he is also an employee of a major corporation that distributes his product. Thus, criticism of his social media platform use is fair game.
David Matthews, He's a public figure, specifically using social media to promote his career. Thus, criticism of how he elects to represent himself is fair game.
Island Ninja, Every artist has a social contract with his/her fans. That's why you constantly see artists apologizing to their fans for one fuck up or another that violated the social contract. A social contract is an unspoken agreement of mutual understanding between or among individuals that define rules of integrity and conduct.
Island Ninja, I never said he could not date whomever he pleases. I simply stated that an artist's social media properties exist for business purposes: promoting their career. And every artist has a social contract with their audience that extends to public presentations, displays, messages, etc. For him to perform concerts for predominately Black female audiences, crooning romantic love songs and such. Then put up an Instagram account full of pictures of only White women is sending a message that is inconsistent with how he markets himself career wise. Artists are constantly adjusting how they present themselves publicly, their message, and their narrative based on fan feedback. You have to be seriously dense not to see that there are expectations that fans have for how their artists behave in offstage public arenas. Artists have to please their fans 360 degrees. That's why hardly a day goes by without some entertainer apologizing for something they said, tweeted, re-tweeted, posted, sang, or otherwise that caused their fans to be disappointed in them and question their character and integrity. Without understanding this, you could never work as an entertainment publicist. You best believe Trey Songz has Black women on his Instagram page, because that's who he caters to professionally.
Love maxwell! why it always have to be about a blk n white thing? females are females period dont matter the color, i'm so sick of all the hating on blk female this and that. We all are not the same!!!!!! because we're blk.
If this was a bw.Bm would be calling her all sorts of degradeing names.Continue supporting assholes that don't give a shit about you.And hurt the feelings of young blk girls that might admire his work.I bet the white girls will get back stage and you will be turned down.and laughted at.
If it is all about love, then show me some rich non-Black women that are marrying poor Black men? If its all about love then why is it always disproportionately, Black men with high financial status with non-Black women who are not equivalent or close to equivalent with his financial status? Tiger Woods white wife came up as a millionaire after divorcing him and so has many other non-Black poor women marrying rich Black men. Those non-Black females know what they doing.
I posted a comment and it was deleted this guy knowledge will only allow negative comments about black women on this page, when I speak the truth about him and other black men who hate black women he cant deal with it, Like I said sisters don't focus on them because theyre sick anyone he feels that way about there own race have mental health issues, stay focused on the real black men, these guys need therapy,watch him delete this
+salimah umrani if ". . . sisters don't focus on them because theyre sick anyone he feels that way about there own race have mental health issues . . ." THEN WHY ARE YOU HERE COMPLAINING ABOUT YOUR COMMENT BEING DELETED? If what you say is fact then demonstrate it by not coming to and posting to videos YOU ALREADY KNOW YOU DON'T LIKE.
+salimah umrani
thank you. Already peeped it.
HAAAAAAAA!!! This the funniest ass most hood ass video EVER!!! [3:00] "Maxwell useta work at Pizza Hut, you know...cleanin up shit...makin pizza pies n bullshit..."
You get this reaction with a lot of situations,
There was a backlash from white girls when that pic of beiber with a black girl went up
black guys make noise about the "scandal" tv show
black women arent happy with maxwell now. . . .
Sounds like some people need to stop having such a problem with interracial interactions, its sad and silly we're supposed to move forward not backwards.
Dame Lia Sorelle Naaaah man genetically we should not be mixing
Dame Lia Sorelle Justin Beiber is actually racists and if you don't believe me look it up.
Pierre Matthews-Martin ??? segregation ???
if Maxwell still worked for A pizza joint no one would want him. Except the chickens he was around.... who cares who he loves.... doesn't change one thing in anyone's lifestyle .
"Our problem' black family we do not know how to love one another. Most of us put money and materials things, before our family as far as I see, the whole black race needs counselling because the majority of us grew up where there was no love, no one ever told us , or we heard" I Love you' we must first learn to love our selves, before we say I love you to some else.And the greatest teacher that will help us to do this is: Jesus CHRIST if we accept him as our Lord and Saviour he will teach us how we must love one another UNCONDITIONALLY, if we do it on our own, we will love only in the flesh, and that does not profit us nothing!the second thing is learn to respect one another the foul mouths got to go,black family it has nothing to do with black or white but it have to do with accepting ourselves and valuing each other, but our greatest problem in the midst of us, is to have a change of heart, and coming to our senses loving one another, and doing unto one, what you would like one to do unto you. Our problem is not having LOVE WITHIN OUR SELVES.We cannot give what we don't have period. and most of all some of us don't know how to love and some must, be taught that's exactly what the white males and females are doing, that's how we think they are perfect and we all know that's a lie. we all are starving for love, in our black community. When will we overcome? look at the way some of us are rising our children how to become thugs at one year old check out you tube and see for your self.
Also yes Maxwell has the right to do whatever he wants with his Instagram and date whoever he wants but there isn't anything wrong with black women stating that they wish Maxwell and other black men would give black women a chance. It should also be understandable why black women get frustrated because they put up with a lot. Also the black community fight with one another too much. Why can't we get along.
Black women move on from him...he live with his *boyfriend* in Atlanta anyway. Not worth your time. I get why you're upset, but don't support someone who doesn't support you.
great comment. and that's the essence. when a woman focusses too much attention on a man that don't want u she'll end up loosing herself
True JamesClark
Now you calling him gay😂 typical bitter black woman tactics
Bruh you're killing me with the "INSAGRAM"
so, you never actually talked to Maxwell about this, but you just assume black women didn't like him before he was famous. Your'e basing your whole argument off of an assumption, and you what they say "when you assume......"
Absolutely. Im mixed and my husband is black. We get hate from a lot of sources. Why? People are crazy and have nothing better to do. Ummm...pick up a book maybe.
Please!!!! U know how many black women sittin at home wit pizza hut workin ass tyrone. Lol stop! So ur saying that becuz he didn't get that attention from the black woman then now he leans toward white women? Are you saying that the white women were checking for him when he worked at pizza hut cause they somehow dont have the same type of financial hangups as black women??? These are questions by the way. And as a culture as a people I think that its not illogical to be sad when you see a black man do this. It's one thing to not limit yourself but to exclude black women all together. That hurts! When you know that this way of thinking is a direct result of a cultural breakdown set in motion centuries ago.....when you know that it is very possible for a race to go extinct (black people currently sit below the reproduction/survival rate needed to guarantee the races existence - contrary to popular belief we ain't just makin babies. We could very well be gone in a couple centuries)....when you are informed it cuts that much more! Black women need to stop leaning so heavily on wanting to be with their own race??!!! Tuh! Why? We the only idiots who dont!
One thing I can't stand is how black men talk bad about black women when they were raised by a black woman born from a black woman & when they have a mixed daughter, that daughter will have to identify herself as black on a job application but yet they speak so negatively about black woman.
Well no shit ....
I don't think they thought about that smh lol. Brandi Matthews
I thought he was gay!
*****
Oh please. I have every reason to suspect that he might be gay. So maybe you should have written "WRONG" in lower case letters. If you Google Maxwell, you'll see how many links say that he is gay. So, my thinking he is gay is not so far fetched (it seems to be the word on the street, although it may not be true). And, apart from the Google thing, for years we did not see him engaging with women. It wasn't until recently, when the rumors of him possibly being gay began to spread wider than what they had been in the past, that he started showing up in images with women looking like they are a love interest. Luther did the same thing. It's all about selling his music to his largest fan base which is women. If women knew he were into men, they would probably not buy his love music (it's about PR) . And, as an aside, I have seen a few photos of him with women, and they all look like a photo op, not a love match no matter what race the woman was.
*****
Not to say that it is true, but that's what was being said for years.
+micmacman1 typical trailer trash reaction. How do you define someone without knowing them???
Love comes from blacks, white, or asian it really doesn't matter as long as that person loves you.
As an African American woman, I'm very attracted to Euro-American men. But the difference between me and people like Maxwell, is that I understand the psychological battle that has been raged against AA's since slavery times to make us hate ourselves and everything about ourselves. If I had an Instagram page, I would at least put people from every group just because of that fact. I will never hate on African American men or imply that they are less than based on their genetic make-up because they aren't. The ones that act in a self-demeaning way, do so because of culture along with other factors that have nothing to do with genetic make-up along with them being individuals. If I put them down based on their "race" alone, I'm letting the institution of whiteness win.
Also, if you are putting a woman on a pedestal who looks nothing like you, you are going against your own self. You are harming your own mental health. I read a study that pro black people are mentally healthier and are less affected by racism than none pro black people. This just makes sense. If you are attracted to a group that looks different from yourself. FINE. Nothing wrong with that, in and of itself. But it's important, not to look at what you're attracted to but WHY you are attracted to it and ONLY it. That just seems off to me.
I have a preference for people of European descent (a _preference_, not _exclusive_ attraction). But I can still recognize that not all Euro-Americans are automatically more beautiful just because they have pale skin and European features. I've also been attracted to men from other groups, including African American and can identify attractive people in every group, regardless as to whether I'm personally attracted to them or not.
Also, notice that no other group dates women of other groups (and more specifically European women) like African American men. From the outside, this just makes our group look divided, weak and as if we scorn and hate ourselves which just makes the white supremacists out there, laugh their asses off. That is NOTHING to be proud of. You'll never see Euro-American men treating their women like that and the ones who do, are in the minority.
They hold their women up as the standard and to the highest regard. Also, when alpha European men choose a mate, it is an alpha female from their own group, never or rarely from another group. If you do the same for their women and not your own, you are simply letting the "white" establishment WIN. NO other MALES from any other group, does this to their women. Not Asians. Not Hispanics and not Europeans. Hell, NOT even Africans. And women dating out, don't count. Men hold the power in patriarchal cultures which pretty much dominate in today's world. It doesn't matter. White supremacist males _want_ you to hate yourself. They _want_ their traits to be passed down and not yours. And don't think for a minute, that you're winning by mixing (from a racist perspective...mixing can be great for humanity as a whole and from an evolutionary perspective though) because just look at some South American Countries and how the black genes have been so watered down that they just call themselves "white" now.
It's nothing more than mental sickness to hate your own women from your own group. They are the ones who will allow you to pass on traits that are similar to yours such as high melanin and so on. Also they carry the mitochondrial dna which allows your lineage to be traced back. Having lighter skin doesn't automatically mean that you will be better equipped to survive from an evolutionary perspective. If the Earth gets too hot, people with more melanin will be ideal. Rise above the ignorance.
U contradict yourself, you are convoluted and confused because you refuse to make a choice and construct a place in your own mind to fight the Europeanization of the African mind
franklyhanky
Why do you say that?
franklyhanky yeah I agree with u... a couple slight contradictions lol
Max just wants to speak his mind. More people should. Too often we are beaten into submission to the point where we are afraid to speak up.
LMAO at how mad black men get when people say something negative about white chicks. LOL! Y'all still on the plantation, or naw? That's alright Brothers ... keep your Cape on for your white queens. LMAO!!!
Blah, Blah, Blah ... The same old talking points over, and over, and OVER ... Jeez!
ChocolateWorld726 ... I'm not miserable. I'm a truth teller. And I said something you didn't want to hear and it made YOU miserable. LOL!!
ChocolateWorld726 ... Is there something wrong with you?
ZeeZee S. Are you also saying this to Black women who trash Black men in the multiples more videos? If not, you're trying to have your cake and eat it, which can't work.
+Jadon Carter lmfao...i luv u for these comments bro...get em...
At this point I am sorry that I ever made a comment to this video. I guess I allowed my emotions to get the best of me. After reading most of the comments after my original post, I now really see how much trouble we are in as a people. We hate each other and we willing display our distain. So sad!
Interesting in that Maxwell's girlfriend is a black female model. Selita Ebanks
He's not.
But, I still think Max has love for black women, but if at the chance he doesn't, it shouldn't mean a damn thing for any woman. Who a man dates in my opinion, says nothing about another woman's value.
missym877
I read t he instagram message he posted. He didn't direct ANY comments at black women specifically.
I didn't say he did, so I'm not sure where this comment is coming from? I'm just telling you his girlfriend isn't Selita Ebanks.
When I hear black men denigrate black women, honestly, it really, really hurts my heart. These women they disrespect so publicly are their mothers, grandmother, sisters, aunt and female relatives. Do they really deserve this from one of their own? We are the only race of people who berate and demonize their women, most other races protect their women. I believe it is a curse of biblical proportions. Many of the black women who behave in a certain way have been brought low by life circumstances and spiteful hateful rhetoric only seek to bring them even lower. Many are coming from some very dark and depressed place, which often causes them to make a lot of poor choices and when they fall there is rarely anyone there to help pick up the pieces, therefore it's easier to continue to make another poor choice. What Maxwell and others like him fail to realize is that the things he says not only cast a poor light on black women but also on himself, because like it or not he is a member of the black community and until they invent a pill to whiten his skin and change his distinctly negroid features he had better get used to it. Women in other communities also make poor choices, the difference is that they have systems in place to smooth things out or hide theirs where as we do not, we throw ours to the wolves then sit back and help them laugh at us all. How sad is that? All of these misfortunes and maladies have been foretold and I for one understand that we have to go through these things but the day will come when all will be made clear. I just hope it's soon.
What is going on gold digger really ,black women know your worth and where you come from .We have come from a long line great black women strong , intelligent , with such courage Harriet Tubman , Sojourner Truth ,Rosa Parks and the list goes on .Teach our girls about respecting ourselves education is the key. Greatness lives in us , let us build a great community with our children respect , values ,and morals .
Harriet Tubman, Sojourner Truth, and Rosa Parks would be spinning in their graves if they could see the trifling wig wearing bitches out here!
I am a great women from a small town call Pittsview , Alabama .I left my quiet country town to go and work with at risk black youth in Atlanta ,Georgia. Atlanta has high crime area just like out in California .I have saved many children from the street , encouraged them to stay in school and go to college .I adopted my son from a mother who was on crack ,he is now nine years old full of ambition , and very healthy , I have a 24 hour job saving as many young kids as possible , I only get pay for eight of them . Building strong bridges in our community from crime . Love ,respect ,education is the key
Dena Alabama-girl that's the problem, we as men don't want you to be strong and all that feminist bullshit that guarantees tthe average like minded female will be alone or go thru series of men who will never marry her
Dena Alabama-girl stfu.
"damm bruh" - you went off on pizza hut didn't ya - haha
black women make my head hurt.
Tell that to your mama.
If black women want to mess up his career all because who he chooses to date it shows how insecure and destructive their are.
+Shane Rhabb
Its not who he's dating that makes black women angry, it's the lies, disrespectful, and ungrateful attitude he has against ALL black women that's especially crazy and scary; especially since he's black himself (maybe he forgot, but he'll find out again). Shame SMH. His comments would angry any race of women he was bashing. So, it's not like every black woman is insecure.
tee briggs No The problem with black women is they have no sense of peace. Even if you tried to talk about positive stuff they will find a way to make it negative and drag you down. You can say, at one time in life I was doing well and they will reply and say yea well that didn't last long and then you were someone's problem. All they know how to do is kill a mood and environment. They do not cultivate peace. The cultivate frustration and anger. They don't believe in being the better part of existence in the home. When its hell on earth they bring hell home to and make the man deal with it. They have every excuse not to want to bring peace and happiness into the atmosphere and they want everything on their terms. In the long run they are horrible people.
I admit, you do have many black women like this, but also white women, latino women, asian women, arab women, italian women, I see these women flipping off and dragging down their men all the time. See there's a problem; I've been noticing, there is a huge majority of African American people that have turned from God and especially black men. They reject God's word so they don't understand that these type of women have been in existence since people have been created. There are many scriptures that warn men to stay away from these type of women (and they come from all backgrounds). And what I mean by "these type of women", im talking about Godless Women. What's ironic is that black men who bash black women and have preference for white women only disproportionately have a bad attitude against God also. It's almost like they are blaming God too. .These are Godless men. I don't see their lives turned around for the best spiritually. The women they are choosing are full of unbelief and are very worldly. Many of these black men that bash black women are self seeking and want to fulfill their lusts for the Devils world. They want everything the devil has to offer and they lust after the power, the money, the sex, the prestige, and the pleasure. As far as I can tell, they are reaping what they are sowing by living a lie and not admitting the truth about themselves as black men, and as men who are influencing others to turn away from the Lord. Some Black men have been running from their problems for a long time and they put the blame on everybody else but themselves. There is a culture of improper thought and bias when it comes to black women that I dont get and i don't see how us at blacks benefit at all. admit the truth. Black men aren't perfect either and black men have many flaws as well and most of the men on here know exactly what im talkin about. At least black women does have a tendency to admit their faults, and we admit it to the whole world, that's why we are in churches in droves trying to get help! But, not some of these black men, they can't even admit their faults to Jesus, so why would I think they'll give two cents about admitting their flaws to us or themselves. Sad.
Sir, you've just made my point. You have an attitude against black women and now you've exposed your bad attitude against God as well. What did God ever do wrong to you to warrant such a bad attitude against HIM? Something is amiss about your reasoning. How can you blame God for your problems if as an atheist you say God don't exist therefore he can't intervene, but then justify not believing in him, because you say you have no evidence he exist because he hasn't intervened?
Man is the head of the household. It is the man's responsibility to manage his own affairs. The affairs with his children and woman are his responsibility.God holds him more responsible because he has put the woman and the children under his care. The man is the Sheppard of the flock. However, when you have a Christian woman married to a Non-christian man, this is a very taxing situation. Because of the spiritual nature of what's going on and because the man is spiritually blinded and won't listen to HIM, God will give the woman more power in the relationship (she's the only parent in the family unit that is willing to be directed by the Lord), so as the man won't lead the children spiritually astray but to see (have some evidence) the blessings of the Lord bestowed unto the family which in turns draw the man closer to God. The bible forbids treating your woman harshly as if she's a slave for you, but you are to love her as your OWN body and CARE for her likewise, even unto Death, just as Christ Sacrificed Himself for the Church. You can't have a selfish man as the head. He will be exposed.
It's false saying black women will not support black men. they do so even to the detriment of their own livelihood and even their own freedom. Example, Some Black women are still supporting Maxwell even though he has a bad attitude against them and the bad thing about this is....THEY DON'T EVEN KNOW HIM! All they know is he's a black man with talent therefore, we must do our duty and support him. Now that's the black women attitude. A son and his Black mother has a special bound. I know of many black women that love them to death, and spoil they behinds too, that's why they grow up with this privileged type attitude. When you look in the bible woman have always had special care towards their sons. The woman's job is to actually do this. Women are natural caregivers. The man's job is to create a balance and be the more masculine side so as the children will grow up neither spoiled nor deprived. Problem; where are the men that are taking their place as men in the home and are willing to sacrifice themselves for the betterment of their families?
You even have black women supporting black men who bash black women! Seriously.
Let God be the glory.
Dollface 17 the same women talking of god don't accept the role god gave them so go on with the god talk please
They are not checking for Maxwell they are checking for his money
He goes off on ALL black women?????? Hmmm, are Black women really following him?? I think not. Maxwell is done.
Black women don't buy enough records to make any artists feel the pressure of poor sales
+808 Lana white women have always been the main source of black music sales, do the research
+808 Lana
LOL!!
+franklyhanky fact to bad they don't recognize this.
+franklyhanky fact again
Well said thank you bruh not just black women but people all just need to mind their business. When a person is unhappy with self they don’t have nothing else to do but to talk shit and fuck with someone else.
Maxwell is Puerto Rican FYI
its a difference between nationality and race
No shit lol they talking about him like he a regular black dude black Puerto Rican have a diff way they are brought up so thus the color issue plus he only half black which could have aomething to do with his thought process as well
Right but growing up in that home with island parent you dont learn the same thing as any other black kid would I cant explain it you would just have to see it I have family from PR DR Haiti Jamaica cuba panama lol and they way fam members are raised different then people that originate from the u.s. so his mind set aint like everyome elses leave dude alone is all im saying not one black chick have shit to say about all the white dudes with black chick all over they shit so why fuck with him and domt even know him but to say he just like a black dude is to say he not his own person
And another thing lol people need to pick one or the other if a person parents are puerto rican and they black black people say you not black you got spanish and westindian blood you not really black but they are black when it benefits other black then then their race is black that shit is funny cause if you think about it a white boy born here from irish decent says hes irish not a white guy though he is white so to that shit her black dont really make sense
Smitty Smiff respect!! bro and bty how did the black euro girl act as vs here in tha states
Maxwell said in one of his award speeches that he always felt not black enough. You can thank black peoples for that.
Nicely said!!
I remember when Maxwell came out almost every black woman I knew would say..."Oh Maxwell this, Maxwell that...I'm going to see Maxwell!" You are quite right, they really wouldn't have given him a second thought before his recognition. Even if he was dating the white chick at Pizza Hut.
INSTAGRAM is for CHILDREN!!!!!!
That HIS Instagram account. That man can post pics of whomever he likes. I'm glad that he checked those women. If he ain't judging your IG posts, why are you judging his?
MAXWELL IS A MAN HE CAN DO SAID WHAT HE WANTS.TO EACH HIS OWN.
It is what it is, the brown woman or black girl always seem to get the short end of the stick and I really believe black treats white women better in relationships. The more fame and money black men seem to think a dark woman is beneath them, even Maxwell who is one of my favorite singers. His concert I attended several years ago was the bomb that consisted of black women that help launch his career in ticket sales. He is still my favorite next to Luther.
Maxwell is a beautiful successful Black man, I am happy for him! Live well, love God, your life is yours to be responsible for... I'm not mad at you babe, be happy! Got any uncles, Lol.
Peace
Lol you mean if he has any Haitian Uncles lol your comment was the funniest on here.
Okaaaaayyyyy! I never knew he was like that! He's half Haitian too... Never thought he disliked bw! This is almost as bad as when Eric Benet said he was a sex addict-While married to Halle Berry!! Seriously!!
Thank you at :38. Instagram is a female app. Not really for men unless they are effeminate.
Ladies leave the man alone...he has the right to date who ever he wants.
Maxwell is right. White women are Maxwell's biggest fans. Maxwell is a business man and if you support him, he will support you.
BGM: Maxwell it's woman's work. Oooh that voice. I'am going to tell you like I told DMX don't fall, they r just jealous.
I agree with adangme. Why? Because the black woman needs to know who she truly is and that's when she will be emotionally, spiritually, and mentally free. No validation should come from no one else but self. The black woman need to discover who she really is. And yes, I am black.