I never comment on videos…. BUT as a young mom like you, I want to give you a hug Rissa 🥺 The “why me?” I felt it and felt it was right to say you’re doing ok mama. I can’t imagine how it feels coming from a vaginal delivery to a c-section but that doesn’t take away your strength as a woman or a mother. Advocate as you did! Lean on Quan! I love seeing Black women/WOC having support from black men/men of colour. You’re doing amazing and continue to be such a beacon of light for woman like myself and many others. I pray you always feel loved and happy, I pray that God blesses your family and that you continue to heal mentally and physically post pardum 🤍
Why you? God has the answer...but also, you bring light to situations...you share so much of your life with us and it's not in vain...you both are informative and open to share with us your journey....and we love it. Continue to advocate I love love love the fact that you weren't hesitant about getting a 2nd opinion. God bless you both on this journey.❤❤❤
As a nurse, I do know this is normal as you can have fluid build up, and the incision will reopen so, the fluid may escape. It will heal itself and close up. I had three c-section, and my last SX, the incision reopen but, I had staples instead of sutures. When showering just let the soapy water fall over it, keep the area nice and dry. Thank you Rissa for sharing this with us. ❤❤❤
@@jeanetteambersley9237 if there is build of fluid that needs to be release, it is normal to escape from a fresh incision that was just open, in the healing process. It is not abnormal that this happened. But she is good now, as it re-healed itself.
Aw I can tell this after labor and delivery process has been hard on her I can see it all in her face and how gentle she’s been. Just wanna hug her and let her know it will all be ok ❤️
Ris c.section I had 3 normal births but my sister had 3 sections oh they traumatised her stomach I'm living in Ireland good girl for going back to hospital just believe in god and he be Yr saviour ur so awsome the both of you are doing so well
Glad you’re okay Rissa! 🥰 My last C Section, my baby was a week old and I got an infection in my uterus and had to be hospitalized for a week. Thank God I made it!!! My son will be turning 22 years old. Praise God for your healing 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Take care of yourself! Glad you are listening to your body. Three weeks after my baby I was having weird back spasms and decided to go to the hospital. I’ve been in the hospital and rehab for 3 months away from my baby and family because I lost my ability to walk. Turns out I had a bad reaction to the epidural it damaged my spinal cord unfortunately. Glad I listened to my body because they were able to help me relearn walking and standing. I’m still struggling with walking. I get to go home this Thursday. So excited for the snuggles.
The way you Guys take time out to share your status with all you have going on is everything. Rissa, take it easy. A C-section is major surgery which required them to cut several layers of your skin to bring Baby Savi here, and it takes time to fully heal. I'm glad you Guys aired on the side of caution and went to the Doctor. Love you Guys!!
Keep it dry that’s what helped me! Use a towel while showering! I used honey on my scar tbh I had puss and asked what could I do and was told it was normal… honey is a natural antibiotic
My prayers for Rissa, God's word, say you are healed through the sripes of Jesus. God, always keep his promise. You are definitely strong, Rissa. Take the time to recover. This is extremely important. I had a c-section with my second son. You will be back to your normal routine sooner than you know. Quan, you are a great future husband to Rissa and a great father to Shine and Saviour. We visualize the love you have for one another, Robert's family. The Angels are watching over Rissa, Quan, Shine, and baby Saviour. Believe and have faith as a grain of mustard seed all is well in Robert's household and their lives. Amen. 💙💙💙🩷❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌💪💪💪💪👀🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🪽🪽🪽🪽🪽🪽🪽💒💒💒💒🌟🌟🌟🌟✝️✝️✝️✝️ .
Lots of prayers coming out Rissa. I had the same thing happen after my c-section. My doctor told me it was normal. I feel in my heart you will be fine. Still sending lots of prayers for you girl!!!
Sorry Rissa! I love ho strong you’re tho, and Quan is there to support you too… take it slow don’t stress yourself pls. I’m happy it’s not infected, you’re a warrior Rissa. You’re UNBREAKABLE! ❤
I have four cesarean section and I am still numb underneath my stomach. It was a small hole underneath my stomach and they still forgot a stitches inside and was hurting for years until I went to the doctor in Philadelphia where I was staying at and my doctor took it out and it felt so good every now and then I have to still clean it, but you Gotta keep it clean so it won’t smell I love you Rissa it’s gonna be all right baby I don’t know nothing about natural birth. I only know about cesarean sections. I love you and your family. You are my favorite, RUclips channel and thank you for coming to my RUclips channel and show me some love we are helplessness to one another. Jesus is King.❤❤❤❤❤
Awww Quan’s eyes look so glossy when he was telling us what’s going on with her. You see the love and worry. He really hates seeing his wife in pain. I have so much admiration for this couple and their growing family. All prayers to the Roberts family ❤❤❤
The timing of it is so similar to mine! I had a tiny little burning opening on my left side and it was super tender just a week before my six weeks appointment. I also just used the tape to keep it covered. Doctor cleared me of any infection and said it was completely normal and healing well. It eventually worked itself out and I’m all good now. This is my third c section and this was the first time this happened. It’s crazy how the body reacts differently to different situations. All the best Rissa!
It’s the constant consistency for me even when you’re tired and it’s 2:30am. 💯👏🏽 I’m glad everything is well with you 🙌🏽 Get some rest guys 😊 #TeamRissQuanShineAndSaviour
Thumbs Up 👍🏿 I didn't skip ad I watched from the beginning to the end without skipping 👍🏿 It's good that y'all came to the Hospital to get it checked out , now y'all can rest in piece.
I'm praying that your incision will heal quick, Rissa. Thank you, guys, for sharing. Always consistent,even though your going through some discomfort. God bless you and your family.
I had 4 C-Sections so I totally understand what you are going through. I know you love your baby Shine, heck we all do but it would be a good idea for you not to lift/ pick him up. That could also cause your wound to open up. Please be very careful Rissa because you could experience a set back from all the lifting and bending. Also using a little bit of Vaseline on the wound will help you to heal also. I was allergic to the antibiotic ointment so it caused my wound to open up. But yes everything the doctor is saying is true. Continue on your healing journey and keep spoiling your two beautiful sons.. They are so handsome and I love how Shine loves on his baby brother. Love you guys ❤💙
It happened with my gallbladder surgery and tubal ligation. Of course i have 5 kids after the tubal ligation so it wasn't like i could just take it easy but it was open wide and bleeding because how much I was having to do but it ended up healing and I'm that stubborn one that won't go in unless I feel like I'm dying lol (NOT GOOD BTW). But I'm so proud of you Riss and I'm so happy for you to have an amazing man by your side. You all are such a beautiful family and we love you guys! 💙💜💙💙
Ima say this with love. That’s why it’s so important to rest and let your body heal. You were at the zoo not even a week i believe after the C section.
Exactly!!! A C section is a major surgery. With nothing but love, having had 2 c sections myself. The things you do after have a lot to do with how the body heals. Doing too much to fast can be costly. I wish her the best.
If it's one thing about Quan he's going to be supportive he's the man every women wish to have. He has never allow Rissa to go through the stress and worry alone, he's gonna go through it with her. Coming from a proud and happy supporter from day one LOVE YOU guys😊
Congrats to both of you on the birth of your new son. I think Rissa was active too soon, a c section is much different from a normal delivery. The tissues need to heal and that takes a while, you will be ok just no heavy lifting even picking up the baby u have to be careful not to strain your stomach and take it easy. Quan is such a gem and I know he will be there for you and your sons. Blessings to both on you, praying all goes well Rissa.
I had 3 daughters...28, 17, and 15. My 2 youngest daughters were both delivered by c-section. In my first c-section, the incision opened, and it hurt like pure hell. No infection but they packed it with gauze, and I had to leave it in for a few days, and it came out on its own. The incision took longer to close, but it finally did. I had staples/stitches, and yes... the burning sensation is normal. I'm glad all is well with you. But remember, no lifting, no squatting and no lifting baby Shine. He is too heavy for you to pick up right now because of your incision and the pressure will cause your incision to separate like a zipper. Go home, put your feet up, and don't lift anything heavier than the baby. That's the most important thing. ❤😊
Sending healing prayers to you Rissa. The body is weird and amazing after a c-section. You definitely got to take it easy, don't try to push yourself to much. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Good job with getting a second opinion. Black women /women of color HAVE to advocate for our pain and health issues in those settings. Unfortunately, our symptoms are taken lightly and that’s why we have the highest number of complications. You guys keep advocating for your recovery! Prayers for you ❤❤
After working L&D I saw this happening after several ladies had C-Sections. Everything the Dr’s said about healing and your body releasing fluid is exactly how it is. Everyone is different and heals different. You’re gonna be just fine Rissa and Sit down🤣 and Take it Easy, still early after C-Section and it takes timeeeeeeee. Love You Guys and Thank You for keeping us in the Loop. ♥️🥰
Quan and Rissa everything is going to be just fine. It's very true that a person's skin can separate, however it seems in your case that the skin has just about totally healed. Because they will push like that to see how much bleeding you could have going on. They also keep you guys for a while to see if any thing like more bleeding or fluid would come out..Rissa I'm like you I believe in getting checked out and it is a real good sign that you only have discomfort no real pain. You are going to be just fine and you my sister are a warrior. You got this. Bless you. Quan way to got you are always so supportive ❤️ 💕 of your wife Rissa and I love it.. True love ❤️ and family devotion, God bless you all. Peace and love ❤️ many blessings.
I wish for you a speedy and complete recovery Rissa. Make sure you rest until you are fully healed. I've been through two c-sections and it takes a while before it fully heals. Love you guys ❤❤
Love how you guys keep up so involved. ❤ I get it Rissa! With my 3rd c section my incision came opened and they decided not to do anything but then it completely ripped open and was gushing blood. Be careful and stay aware! Positive vibes for complete healing! ✨️
I never had that happen to me after 4 c-sections but I am glad that you are doing well and kudos to Quan for the attention to detail! 🙏🏽💪🏽❤️ Prayers for a great recovery!! ❤️❤️
Hi guys! 👋🏽 I'm so glad you went to get that checked out and so happy there was no sign of infection! You did the right thing by getting that checked out! Hang in there Rissa! Love you guys ❤
Awe I’m so sorry Rissa is going through this… men will NEVER understand what we go to as mothers. Thankfully Quan is supportive and loving. I feel scared and worried for Rissa. The trauma of motherhood is lifelong. I still cry some days. I have recurring flashbacks of my labor. Also it makes me upset hearing this doctor talking. Because I know in the medical field they NEED to be careful with how they WORD the conversations. The medical professionals and the medical field is about TRIAL and error. Thanks for sharing this. Love being able to relate to Rissa and Rissa’s journey.
i love how genuine your love is for each other // your family. such a beautiful thing to watch and experience. thank yall for the consistency. God bless the Roberts family
Made me tear up a bit and have flash backs of my 3rd c section last year . I cried the whole procedure and afterwards during the healing process the burning sensation was painful and I couldn’t stand sit or lay down without crying in pain and when I called the dr she said that still needed to heal and had a major surgery . The lady didn’t seem concerned . Then later on my staple was poking through my skin it didn’t dissolve with the rest . My scar is still uncomfortable to this day . We know when our bodies are off and when something is wrong . I wish I had a dr like that, that was more caring and concerned and willing to see what was going on . I’m glad you got it checked and that you’re ok . ❤️❤️
Prayers for Rissa🫶💐🙏 Thank you for sharing your experience 🙏 ❤️ I really hope that you can get better asap 🙏 sending get well wishes & STRENGTH 💪. Your a very strong woman frfr💪🫶 #PRAYFORRISSA 🫶
Prayers for a complete recovery. Take it easy, Rissa you and your body have been through a lot. I know it's hard when you're a mom but let Quan help (more) as he offers because you NEED to rest as much as possible.
Rissa needs to rest don't think she's getting enough. You have gone to a major surgery so please take it easy. Trust God all will be well in Jesus name.❤
Rissa take good care of yourself sis! 💕🙏🏽 make sure you’re not lifting much, or at all at least for couple of weeks or just doing things that require your body to squat or bend. I will be praying for a fast recovery!!🙏🏽💕
C-sections can be so tough and healing process is so hard as well! I had my first C-section exactly 20 years ago last month and I still never got my feeling back around my scar area. Took about 5 mths to heal and my second C-section was 10 years ago and I healed and two months. Every C-section can be completely different. Hope you get feeling better soon Rissa!
Abdominal incisions are known to dehisce. Hopefully, it's not infected, good for you Rissa for taking control of your health! Another thing to look for is drainage redness or swimming. Congratulations on your new baby ❤️❤️
Still keep an eye on it Rissa, I had this same problem and after several hospital trips, use of glue and extra stitches. (I didn’t have an infection) I finally went into my OBs and what ended up happening was I was clotting underneath my incision which wasn’t allowing my body to heal from the inside out. Which is why I had an opening in my incision as well because it was healing just from the outside. Also why it kept/leaking/bleeding even 3 weeks after my surgery. What ended up happening was I had to get my incision opened back up again and had to get all blood clots removed from under the skin before it finally being able to heal properly. I had to have this process happen a few times a week and would have to go into my OBs office until it finally started healing from the inside out. My OB who did my C-section was a very well known OB in my city (he has delivered over 15,000+ babies) he had other OBs in there learning from him because they hadn’t ever really seen that before in any of their patients. He was just an OG so he knew exactly what was happening and all the other doctors that I saw from that same office couldn’t figure out why my incision wasn’t closing.
My whole c-section busted open. Mines had to be packed vs stitch when it reopen. Very painful process. Glad its not that bad. Praying for total healing ❤
I just absolutely love watching y’all. Everything just seems so genuine about y’all. Y’all relationship and just y’all as individuals. I thought me and my boyfriend were the only ones that acted like an “old” couple lol. I love everything about y’all💕
Rissa i’m sorry to hear what you’re going through with your post C section symptoms. I’m glad you are ok. Hopefully everything will continue to heel. I pray that all the pain will be gone real soon. Thank you for sharing your personal experience with this. Take it easy and feel better Rissa!! See y’all in y’all next lit video! Love y’all! Peace!!
Gland there is no infection. When I had a c-section they stapled my incision. My incision never opened but I did have a burning sensation on the right side for like a year. I too NEVER looked at my incision I just made sure that when I showered I used that bottle and squirted water on it to keep infection away. But Rissa you’ll heal like a champ…your young ❤️
Hi Rissa and Quan. Thank you both for the vlog. Rissa, you need to take things slowly so you can heal properly. Please let Quan help as much as possible. I know from experience that you need rest to heal because I have had three abdominal surgeries (2 C-sections and a laparotomy). Please make sure your intake of vitamin C and protein is adequate which are necessary for healing. May God continue to bless and keep you and your family safe and healthy. All the best to you both!!!
Prayers for you Rissa. Yes, c-sections are a very long healing process. When you get cleared at the 6 week mark, try not to do strenuous workouts. You know your body. I didn’t start doing crunches until 4 months after my son. Incisions being open doesn’t sound normal and they should close it, but they are the doctors but my doctors said to return if incision opened up. Either way, take your time to heal properly because layers of muscles have been cut and the slightest moves like reaching for your purse in the back seat can feel like a muscle pulling.
Girl I feel your pain the same thing happened to me when I had my c-section with my twins but mine got infected and I was put on antibiotics. I’m praying for you to have a quick recovery please keep a eye on in and if it get worse go straight back up the hospital.
Rissa you are doing so great with that. I had Uterine Fibroids and I got surgery in December of 2021 and the same place that they cut for C-Sections is for that surgery as well. Mines cut is just now getting back to normal and sometimes you will still feel discomfort & numbness in that spot. I will get better I promise. ❤❤❤❤ Love y’all family.
The way Quan pays attention… he was definitely listening to what the doctor was saying 😂❤
Yes , he was!!! I absolutely love that!!!❤
I never comment on videos…. BUT as a young mom like you, I want to give you a hug Rissa 🥺 The “why me?” I felt it and felt it was right to say you’re doing ok mama. I can’t imagine how it feels coming from a vaginal delivery to a c-section but that doesn’t take away your strength as a woman or a mother. Advocate as you did! Lean on Quan! I love seeing Black women/WOC having support from black men/men of colour. You’re doing amazing and continue to be such a beacon of light for woman like myself and many others. I pray you always feel loved and happy, I pray that God blesses your family and that you continue to heal mentally and physically post pardum 🤍
Why you? God has the answer...but also, you bring light to situations...you share so much of your life with us and it's not in vain...you both are informative and open to share with us your journey....and we love it. Continue to advocate I love love love the fact that you weren't hesitant about getting a 2nd opinion. God bless you both on this journey.❤❤❤
Hope everything is ok with u Rissa😊
As a nurse, I do know this is normal as you can have fluid build up, and the incision will reopen so, the fluid may escape. It will heal itself and close up. I had three c-section, and my last SX, the incision reopen but, I had staples instead of sutures. When showering just let the soapy water fall over it, keep the area nice and dry. Thank you Rissa for sharing this with us. ❤❤❤
That’s true, but it’s not normal for an incision to reopen. It happens, but not normally
@@jeanetteambersley9237 if there is build of fluid that needs to be release, it is normal to escape from a fresh incision that was just open, in the healing process. It is not abnormal that this happened. But she is good now, as it re-healed itself.
Aw I can tell this after labor and delivery process has been hard on her I can see it all in her face and how gentle she’s been. Just wanna hug her and let her know it will all be ok ❤️
So touching ❤
That was so kind of you
Ris c.section I had 3 normal births but my sister had 3 sections oh they traumatised her stomach I'm living in Ireland good girl for going back to hospital just believe in god and he be Yr saviour ur so awsome the both of you are doing so well
Healing mercies ❤
Went through the same thing with 1st c section. ❤ From South Africa
The fact the I dropped EVERYTHING to click and check on Rissa and the family. Safe healing to Rissa. ❤
Glad you’re okay Rissa! 🥰 My last C Section, my baby was a week old and I got an infection in my uterus and had to be hospitalized for a week. Thank God I made it!!! My son will be turning 22 years old. Praise God for your healing 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Rissa deserves all the credit. She is a warrior and A Queen. Shine and Saviour are so lucky!
Take care of yourself! Glad you are listening to your body. Three weeks after my baby I was having weird back spasms and decided to go to the hospital. I’ve been in the hospital and rehab for 3 months away from my baby and family because I lost my ability to walk. Turns out I had a bad reaction to the epidural it damaged my spinal cord unfortunately. Glad I listened to my body because they were able to help me relearn walking and standing. I’m still struggling with walking. I get to go home this Thursday. So excited for the snuggles.
Sorry about that 😢 hope you're better now
Get well soon❤❤ sending lots of hugs to you.
Glad you're better.. I wish you speedy recovery and I hope you get home to your baby soon💜💚
@@ingridnamulondo-pe3qdday by day just excited to see my baby and sleep in my own bed
@@clarahchivaku2719thank you!
The way you Guys take time out to share your status with all you have going on is everything. Rissa, take it easy. A C-section is major surgery which required them to cut several layers of your skin to bring Baby Savi here, and it takes time to fully heal. I'm glad you Guys aired on the side of caution and went to the Doctor. Love you Guys!!
Thank God, Your Aware of your Body! Take Care of yourself! We love you all!!! Slow down Lady!
Keep it dry that’s what helped me! Use a towel while showering! I used honey on my scar tbh I had puss and asked what could I do and was told it was normal… honey is a natural antibiotic
Having a C-Section is major surgery, your body will heal, but try not to do much, rest when u can
Facts! I had complications during my c-section and didn’t heal for at least 9 weeks.
Rissa i hope you heal soon, you did a great job carrying and giving birth to Savy, you are a queen ❤❤❤
I get my strength back always after watching Rissa 🤍❤️
My prayers for Rissa, God's word, say you are healed through the sripes of Jesus.
God, always keep his promise.
You are definitely strong, Rissa. Take the time to recover. This is extremely important. I had a c-section with my second son. You will be back to your normal routine sooner than you know.
Quan, you are a great future husband to Rissa and a great father to Shine and Saviour.
We visualize the love you have for one another, Robert's family. The Angels are watching over Rissa, Quan, Shine, and baby Saviour. Believe and have faith as a grain of mustard seed all is well in Robert's household and their lives. Amen.
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Lots of prayers coming out Rissa. I had the same thing happen after my c-section. My doctor told me it was normal. I feel in my heart you will be fine. Still sending lots of prayers for you girl!!!
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I hope you’re doing ok yourself 🙏🏻
@@glitzandlifestylewithjeeda I am. Thank you so much! 🙂
@@glitzandlifestylewithjeeda lmk
The fact that Rissa handled it like a pro is so admirable. You are a Queen Charissa❤❤❤
Sorry Rissa! I love ho strong you’re tho, and Quan is there to support you too… take it slow don’t stress yourself pls. I’m happy it’s not infected, you’re a warrior Rissa. You’re UNBREAKABLE! ❤
I have four cesarean section and I am still numb underneath my stomach. It was a small hole underneath my stomach and they still forgot a stitches inside and was hurting for years until I went to the doctor in Philadelphia where I was staying at and my doctor took it out and it felt so good every now and then I have to still clean it, but you Gotta keep it clean so it won’t smell I love you Rissa it’s gonna be all right baby I don’t know nothing about natural birth. I only know about cesarean sections. I love you and your family. You are my favorite, RUclips channel and thank you for coming to my RUclips channel and show me some love we are helplessness to one another. Jesus is King.❤❤❤❤❤
Awww Quan’s eyes look so glossy when he was telling us what’s going on with her. You see the love and worry. He really hates seeing his wife in pain. I have so much admiration for this couple and their growing family. All prayers to the Roberts family ❤❤❤
Rissa please don't lift shine n don't try to be super mom be careful glad you get a second opinion 😊😉
@@oneekagreen7666 very true
Kudos to Rissa for always being attentive to her body and not taking things lightly. Love u Roberts Fam
Oh Russia am sorry for that,I don't like this at all
I HOPE THAT RESSA GET WELL SOON
It's Quans explaining everything for me just shows how much of a concentrating person he is❤
The timing of it is so similar to mine! I had a tiny little burning opening on my left side and it was super tender just a week before my six weeks appointment. I also just used the tape to keep it covered. Doctor cleared me of any infection and said it was completely normal and healing well. It eventually worked itself out and I’m all good now. This is my third c section and this was the first time this happened. It’s crazy how the body reacts differently to different situations. All the best Rissa!
This is exactly what happened to me a week after my C's but it opened on the right side
May God protect Rissa🙏😊
Sending prayers for Rissa And the Fam!💜
It’s the constant consistency for me even when you’re tired and it’s 2:30am. 💯👏🏽 I’m glad everything is well with you 🙌🏽 Get some rest guys 😊 #TeamRissQuanShineAndSaviour
Thumbs Up 👍🏿 I didn't skip ad I watched from the beginning to the end without skipping 👍🏿 It's good that y'all came to the Hospital to get it checked out , now y'all can rest in piece.
I'm praying that your incision will heal quick, Rissa. Thank you, guys, for sharing. Always consistent,even though your going through some discomfort. God bless you and your family.
Speedy recovery rissa, love from Jamaica 🇯🇲 ❤
I had 4 C-Sections so I totally understand what you are going through. I know you love your baby Shine, heck we all do but it would be a good idea for you not to lift/ pick him up. That could also cause your wound to open up. Please be very careful Rissa because you could experience a set back from all the lifting and bending. Also using a little bit of Vaseline on the wound will help you to heal also. I was allergic to the antibiotic ointment so it caused my wound to open up. But yes everything the doctor is saying is true. Continue on your healing journey and keep spoiling your two beautiful sons.. They are so handsome and I love how Shine loves on his baby brother. Love you guys ❤💙
It happened with my gallbladder surgery and tubal ligation. Of course i have 5 kids after the tubal ligation so it wasn't like i could just take it easy but it was open wide and bleeding because how much I was having to do but it ended up healing and I'm that stubborn one that won't go in unless I feel like I'm dying lol (NOT GOOD BTW). But I'm so proud of you Riss and I'm so happy for you to have an amazing man by your side. You all are such a beautiful family and we love you guys! 💙💜💙💙
Ima say this with love. That’s why it’s so important to rest and let your body heal. You were at the zoo not even a week i believe after the C section.
Exactly!!! A C section is a major surgery. With nothing but love, having had 2 c sections myself. The things you do after have a lot to do with how the body heals. Doing too much to fast can be costly. I wish her the best.
Yep 😂
If it's one thing about Quan he's going to be supportive he's the man every women wish to have. He has never allow Rissa to go through the stress and worry alone, he's gonna go through it with her. Coming from a proud and happy supporter from day one LOVE YOU guys😊
Sending prayers 🙏🏾❤️❤️I love you guys so much !!!❤❤I’m praying for a speedy recovery Rissa!!🥺🥰
Wishing you a speedy recovery, Rissa!
And I really appreciate this video, it seems to have been really informative to a lot of people. Hugs! 🐙
Wishing you a speedy recovery Rissa❤🙏🏾
Praying for a speedy safe recovery Rissa ❤️🙏🏾
Congrats to both of you on the birth of your new son. I think Rissa was active too soon, a c section is much different from a normal delivery. The tissues need to heal and that takes a while, you will be ok just no heavy lifting even picking up the baby u have to be careful not to strain your stomach and take it easy. Quan is such a gem and I know he will be there for you and your sons. Blessings to both on you, praying all goes well Rissa.
I had 3 daughters...28, 17, and 15. My 2 youngest daughters were both delivered by c-section. In my first c-section, the incision opened, and it hurt like pure hell. No infection but they packed it with gauze, and I had to leave it in for a few days, and it came out on its own. The incision took longer to close, but it finally did. I had staples/stitches, and yes... the burning sensation is normal. I'm glad all is well with you. But remember, no lifting, no squatting and no lifting baby Shine. He is too heavy for you to pick up right now because of your incision and the pressure will cause your incision to separate like a zipper. Go home, put your feet up, and don't lift anything heavier than the baby. That's the most important thing. ❤😊
Praying for you Rissa! Praying for a speedy recovery!
Wishing you a speedy recovery Rissa, Quan we are praying for your good family. Soon you ll be happy guys🙏🏾👏🏻
Sending healing prayers to you Rissa. The body is weird and amazing after a c-section. You definitely got to take it easy, don't try to push yourself to much. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Good job with getting a second opinion. Black women /women of color HAVE to advocate for our pain and health issues in those settings. Unfortunately, our symptoms are taken lightly and that’s why we have the highest number of complications. You guys keep advocating for your recovery! Prayers for you ❤❤
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This !!!
So true.
Okay why bring race in it like ??????? Wtf.... but okay???
I hope everything’s okay Rissa! We love you ❤
After working L&D I saw this happening after several ladies had C-Sections. Everything the Dr’s said about healing and your body releasing fluid is exactly how it is. Everyone is different and heals different. You’re gonna be just fine Rissa and Sit down🤣 and Take it Easy, still early after C-Section and it takes timeeeeeeee. Love You Guys and Thank You for keeping us in the Loop. ♥️🥰
Quan and Rissa everything is going to be just fine. It's very true that a person's skin can separate, however it seems in your case that the skin has just about totally healed. Because they will push like that to see how much bleeding you could have going on. They also keep you guys for a while to see if any thing like more bleeding or fluid would come out..Rissa I'm like you I believe in getting checked out and it is a real good sign that you only have discomfort no real pain. You are going to be just fine and you my sister are a warrior. You got this. Bless you. Quan way to got you are always so supportive ❤️ 💕 of your wife Rissa and I love it.. True love ❤️ and family devotion, God bless you all. Peace and love ❤️ many blessings.
I wish for you a speedy and complete recovery Rissa. Make sure you rest until you are fully healed. I've been through two c-sections and it takes a while before it fully heals. Love you guys ❤❤
Oh no! Sending lots of love and prayers! Praying that you’re ok! Love you guys! ❤🙏🏽
It hurts to hear about that 😭but I trust the living God we serve🙏 and He will heal you Rissa🥺 lots of love dear
Love how you guys keep up so involved. ❤ I get it Rissa! With my 3rd c section my incision came opened and they decided not to do anything but then it completely ripped open and was gushing blood. Be careful and stay aware! Positive vibes for complete healing! ✨️
Keeping you guys in prayer. Praying Rissa heals well soon❤🙏🏽
Much love and healing prayers for yall get better soon Rissa
I never had that happen to me after 4 c-sections but I am glad that you are doing well and kudos to Quan for the attention to detail! 🙏🏽💪🏽❤️
Prayers for a great recovery!! ❤️❤️
Savi is getting so big and his features are starting to develop more with his little mocha self 🥰🤎 #TeamRissQuanShineAndSaviour
I had 2 C-sections. It's going to be alright Rissa. Sending you positive vibes❤❤❤❤❤
I've had 3 kuddos to the c-section mommas & natural
Thank you guys for always keeping us posted . I pray 🙏 Rissa will feel much better soon. Love you guys ❤
Happy u got it checked out n wish u a speedy recovery Rissa.. love Quan's support and how he listens to u
Hi guys! 👋🏽 I'm so glad you went to get that checked out and so happy there was no sign of infection! You did the right thing by getting that checked out! Hang in there Rissa! Love you guys ❤
Awe I’m so sorry Rissa is going through this… men will NEVER understand what we go to as mothers. Thankfully Quan is supportive and loving. I feel scared and worried for Rissa. The trauma of motherhood is lifelong. I still cry some days. I have recurring flashbacks of my labor. Also it makes me upset hearing this doctor talking. Because I know in the medical field they NEED to be careful with how they WORD the conversations. The medical professionals and the medical field is about TRIAL and error. Thanks for sharing this. Love being able to relate to Rissa and Rissa’s journey.
i love how genuine your love is for each other // your family. such a beautiful thing to watch and experience. thank yall for the consistency. God bless the Roberts family
Made me tear up a bit and have flash backs of my 3rd c section last year . I cried the whole procedure and afterwards during the healing process the burning sensation was painful and I couldn’t stand sit or lay down without crying in pain and when I called the dr she said that still needed to heal and had a major surgery . The lady didn’t seem concerned . Then later on my staple was poking through my skin it didn’t dissolve with the rest . My scar is still uncomfortable to this day . We know when our bodies are off and when something is wrong . I wish I had a dr like that, that was more caring and concerned and willing to see what was going on . I’m glad you got it checked and that you’re ok . ❤️❤️
I'm really sorry that you had to go thru this Rissa but I think that you are so strong and an amazing mommy. I just love y'all videos❤
Wishing you a quick recovery, Rissa
Quick recovery, Rissa.
Love and prayers.
Same thing happened to me after my c section. My area was opened overtime the area closed on its own. Sending lots of loves and praying to Rissa
Prayers for Rissa🫶💐🙏 Thank you for sharing your experience 🙏 ❤️ I really hope that you can get better asap 🙏 sending get well wishes & STRENGTH 💪. Your a very strong woman frfr💪🫶 #PRAYFORRISSA 🫶
I hope you are resting Rissa it's really important. Wishing you a speedy recovery 🙏
Prayers for a complete recovery. Take it easy, Rissa you and your body have been through a lot. I know it's hard when you're a mom but let Quan help (more) as he offers because you NEED to rest as much as possible.
Rissa sit down it's going to heal but please don't do to much. Love you guys 💕
Rissa needs to rest don't think she's getting enough. You have gone to a major surgery so please take it easy. Trust God all will be well in Jesus name.❤
Lifting Rissa & her family up in prayer. 🤍
Praying for you girl and your well being . My heart literally sank into my chest
Glad you’re ok Rissa! I know how scary that can be! You’re a true warrior❤
Rissa take good care of yourself sis! 💕🙏🏽 make sure you’re not lifting much, or at all at least for couple of weeks or just doing things that require your body to squat or bend. I will be praying for a fast recovery!!🙏🏽💕
C-sections can be so tough and healing process is so hard as well! I had my first C-section exactly 20 years ago last month and I still never got my feeling back around my scar area. Took about 5 mths to heal and my second C-section was 10 years ago and I healed and two months. Every C-section can be completely different. Hope you get feeling better soon Rissa!
Had my last c_section still suffering from it
Did your doctor swab the area to checm for infection? Mine definately didn't take this precaution.
@@NNP123 yes my doctor did and it didn’t come back infected thank goodness!!
Hope you get better soon Rissa and I hope Quan doesn't get too stressed out, we know you guys have been going through a lot. All the best to you both❤
Abdominal incisions are known to dehisce. Hopefully, it's not infected, good for you Rissa for taking control of your health! Another thing to look for is drainage redness or swimming. Congratulations on your new baby ❤️❤️
Still keep an eye on it Rissa, I had this same problem and after several hospital trips, use of glue and extra stitches. (I didn’t have an infection) I finally went into my OBs and what ended up happening was I was clotting underneath my incision which wasn’t allowing my body to heal from the inside out. Which is why I had an opening in my incision as well because it was healing just from the outside. Also why it kept/leaking/bleeding even 3 weeks after my surgery. What ended up happening was I had to get my incision opened back up again and had to get all blood clots removed from under the skin before it finally being able to heal properly. I had to have this process happen a few times a week and would have to go into my OBs office until it finally started healing from the inside out. My OB who did my C-section was a very well known OB in my city (he has delivered over 15,000+ babies) he had other OBs in there learning from him because they hadn’t ever really seen that before in any of their patients. He was just an OG so he knew exactly what was happening and all the other doctors that I saw from that same office couldn’t figure out why my incision wasn’t closing.
Sending prayers and love to Rissa and fam❤️
Sending my prayers 🙏🏾 feel better soon Rissa
Praying for a speedy safe recovery for Rissa . With God you will be fine 🙏🏻😘❤️
Every person can heal different. Rissa please know that you can be numb or burn there for years. Bless up fam❤️🙏🏾
Quickest recovery Rissa. All will be well💚💜
Rissa hope everything is ok with your c section hoping for a speedy recovery God bless you and your family
The same thing happened to me on my 1st c-section but mine got infected. Glad everything is ok 🙏🏾 much love from Wisconsin ❤
My whole c-section busted open. Mines had to be packed vs stitch when it reopen. Very painful process. Glad its not that bad. Praying for total healing ❤
hope everything’s okay Rissa. blessings to you and Quan! 😊
I just absolutely love watching y’all. Everything just seems so genuine about y’all. Y’all relationship and just y’all as individuals. I thought me and my boyfriend were the only ones that acted like an “old” couple lol. I love everything about y’all💕
Rissa i’m sorry to hear what you’re going through with your post C section symptoms. I’m glad you are ok. Hopefully everything will continue to heel. I pray that all the pain will be gone real soon. Thank you for sharing your personal experience with this. Take it easy and feel better Rissa!! See y’all in y’all next lit video! Love y’all! Peace!!
Gland there is no infection. When I had a c-section they stapled my incision. My incision never opened but I did have a burning sensation on the right side for like a year. I too NEVER looked at my incision I just made sure that when I showered I used that bottle and squirted water on it to keep infection away. But Rissa you’ll heal like a champ…your young ❤️
Aww Rissa, I am so sorry you had a minor scare but better safe than sorry. Praying for a speedy recovery.🙏🏾🥰
Get well soon Risa , sending love to you and your family 🙏
Rissa is a true definition of strong❤sending my love and prayers to you
Hi Rissa and Quan. Thank you both for the vlog. Rissa, you need to take things slowly so you can heal properly. Please let Quan help as much as possible. I know from experience that you need rest to heal because I have had three abdominal surgeries (2 C-sections and a laparotomy). Please make sure your intake of vitamin C and protein is adequate which are necessary for healing. May God continue to bless and keep you and your family safe and healthy. All the best to you both!!!
Wishing you a speedy recovery and i pray everything go well and you recover quickly...
Glad it’s nothing too serious 🙏🏾 speedy recovery Rissa 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Sending prayers 🙏 for Rissa and the fam.❤❤
Praying for your complete healing Rissa🙏🏽🙏🏽
Praying for You Rissa God Blessed You Always🙏🏾❤️💯Quan is so Good With Rissa&Babies🙏🏾❤️💯🥰🥰🥰🥰
Prayers for you Rissa. Yes, c-sections are a very long healing process. When you get cleared at the 6 week mark, try not to do strenuous workouts. You know your body. I didn’t start doing crunches until 4 months after my son. Incisions being open doesn’t sound normal and they should close it, but they are the doctors but my doctors said to return if incision opened up. Either way, take your time to heal properly because layers of muscles have been cut and the slightest moves like reaching for your purse in the back seat can feel like a muscle pulling.
Girl I feel your pain the same thing happened to me when I had my c-section with my twins but mine got infected and I was put on antibiotics. I’m praying for you to have a quick recovery please keep a eye on in and if it get worse go straight back up the hospital.
Love to you Rissa. Please take it easy. I pray that all will heal well. Quan continue to support Rissa. You both are so amazing. ❤❤❤
Rissa you are doing so great with that. I had Uterine Fibroids and I got surgery in December of 2021 and the same place that they cut for C-Sections is for that surgery as well. Mines cut is just now getting back to normal and sometimes you will still feel discomfort & numbness in that spot. I will get better I promise. ❤❤❤❤ Love y’all family.
I'm so happy that Rissa paid attention, because even the smallest opening can cause a infection. Keep it clean and dry and take it was ❤