Expectations of a purple belt and why I’m still a blue belt (Belts off podcast)

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  • @MB-to5gl
    @MB-to5gl Год назад +8

    I appreciate vids like these. I recently was given my purple belt. I went through, like last week, a meltdown, self doubt, unworthy… my Professor and coach spoke with me, disciplined me, and I am well and truly better off for it.
    My blue belt was one hell of a ride… but purple is really shaping up as something special.
    OSS.

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад +1

      That’s awesome man keep at it, thanks for watching. 🫡💯

    • @skepticalhippo6376
      @skepticalhippo6376 7 месяцев назад

      What do you mean by “disciplined”? Congrats by the way 🤙🏼

  • @jackievoltraydes3833
    @jackievoltraydes3833 14 дней назад

    Great discussion and well-balanced insights. As an older Purple Belt I noticed that my game became a bit more relaxed and playful and I find myself more able to gauge my energy output during rolls and instinctively knowing when to explode and go for the finish.

  • @Unknownpractitioner123
    @Unknownpractitioner123 3 месяца назад +4

    Glad someone corrected the comparison to PhDs. Academia and obtaining a PhD is a full time commitment. For my PhD alone, after my BSc and MSc, I worked 8+ hours, 5+ days a week for nearly 5 years. Most BJJ practitioners are training approximately 2 hours 3 times a week. There is no comparison.

    • @isaacgarcia8686
      @isaacgarcia8686 Месяц назад +1

      for way more than 5 years too... I know jiujitieros who have been training 3 times a week for 2 hours for well over a decade, no comparison I agree.

    • @Unknownpractitioner123
      @Unknownpractitioner123 Месяц назад

      @ I think you may have missed my point. Even if someone trained BJJ for a decade at 6hrs per week, that would still surmount to significantly less time than it takes to get a PhD.
      They’re not comparable because obtaining a PhD is far more difficult than achieving a black belt

    • @isaacgarcia8686
      @isaacgarcia8686 Месяц назад

      @@Unknownpractitioner123 And more time has been sunk into bjj by some ppl than obtaining a phd, because one ends and another is an endless time sink.

    • @Unknownpractitioner123
      @Unknownpractitioner123 Месяц назад

      @@isaacgarcia8686 of course, but we’re talking about obtaining a belt vs obtaining a qualification. Obtaining a PhD is harder than obtaining a black belt. That is a fact. Additionally, as you pointed out, the black belt continues to practise BJJ after obtaining a black belt, however the PhD essentially also begins their career either within academia or in industry, which again is a full time commitment/job.
      They are not comparable, no matter how much you wish they were.

    • @isaacgarcia8686
      @isaacgarcia8686 Месяц назад

      @@Unknownpractitioner123 I do not really care if they are comparable or not, I do not really care for this arguement either. I just chimed in because I hate it when someone is throwing out Opinions as Facts.

  • @Mr.Kaeron
    @Mr.Kaeron Год назад +5

    I just got my blue belt, and I cannot fathom rn being anywhere close to purple. My journey has been almost exclusively rolling with purple belts and above, and even tho I see myself improve, I still feel like I'm eons away from a purple to a point that it seems beyond reach. Let's see how I feel in 5 years. Great vid

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад +2

      Congrats on the blue belt, that’s a big step. Don’t worry about feeling ready far away from purple, I as well feel the same way. The more I roll and get familiar rolling with higher belts most will tell you they all felt the same way. Thanks for watching and I really appreciate the comments. 🙏🫡💪💯

  • @skepticalhippo6376
    @skepticalhippo6376 7 месяцев назад +2

    Just got my purple Friday night. I’m 6’4” 260 and appreciate the segment on big guys being a “good roll” and controlling their weapons. I found that control midway through blue belt by letting go of trying to “win” , relaxing a little during rounds (especially with smaller partners), thinking my way through problems, being ok with getting stuck and not trying to power through every bad position. This opened my eyes to opportunities that I was missing while frantically trying to force the little technique I knew. It helps to find a group of upper belts with the same mentality that will allow you to work in some spots in between being subbed and shut down. So that’s what I want to be for newer whites and blues. Congrats to all the new purples in the comments! 🤙🏼

  • @DAS2165
    @DAS2165 Год назад +7

    nothing wrong with going one day a week! Your paying out your hard earned money, Many of us old timers (59 yrs old)can only make it when our bodies are not hurting or injured, lol I personally do it stickily as a hobby and for the fun and friendships. Its so mentally stimulating and give me much to look forward too :)

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад

      Oh for sure man. Definitely take it at your own pace. Props on being 59 and getting after it. 🫡 thanks for watching and appreciate the comment. 🙏

  • @aperezBJJ
    @aperezBJJ Год назад +7

    I got my purple about two months ago after only being a blue for a year and 10 months. I thought it was way too early, but not up to me, it’s up to my coaches. Decided to bite the bullet and compete a month after getting promoted and took silver out of a bracket of 7 guys. Despite my imposter syndrome, I’m glad I tested myself. Excited to be on the new journey at purple

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад +1

      Congrats man that’s awesome. Keep grinding! 🫡 thanks for watching

    • @Jiu-JitsuJourney257
      @Jiu-JitsuJourney257 Год назад +1

      I have my first tournament as a purple belt coming up next month. And damn if I’m not nervous as hell to see if I truly was worthy of the promotion. But it is what it is

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад

      Your coach sees it in you. Trust your coach and don’t judge it off the tournament. You earned it man regardless the outcome of the tournament. Good luck and thanks for watching and really appreciate the comments. 🫡💯💪

  • @ilreideimostri
    @ilreideimostri 8 дней назад

    I was a blue belt for 9 years because i ran away from the sport after getting promoted. I was training at the wrong gym and around the wrong people. I came back to the sport in 2022 started taking MMA fights and got promoted on 1/18/25 to purple. For me the promotion was more of a: I do belong doing this. I am supposed to be involved in martial arts. I do love it. It is THE thing that got me out of all the other nonsense i was putting myself through in life. Im almost 30 now. Im not the 19-20 year old that didnt know how to walk this road or what it would cost. And ive chosen this path full well knowing what im getting myself into. To me it was a huge life affirming moment that i didnt deserve or earn before.

  • @MiklosKov
    @MiklosKov Год назад +3

    So glad my gym doesn’t do warmups. We just do 3 warmup rolls at the beginning.

    • @user-vc6
      @user-vc6 2 месяца назад +1

      It’s the best, do cardio etc on your own time

  • @eireworm
    @eireworm Год назад +2

    Great chat lads. Never seen this channel before but it just came up front page of RUclips and I love it. Keep going.

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад

      Thank you man. I appreciate it, if you like this channel check out my coach Nick’s channel (Belts off podcast) 🙏🫡

    • @Nick_Johnsons
      @Nick_Johnsons Год назад

      Killing it with this video!

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад

      Thank you sir. We’re trying lol

    • @eireworm
      @eireworm Год назад +1

      ​@@Nick_Johnsons ​ @diligentminds2270 started watching a bunch of both your vids in the background of work... The dynamic of instructor/student is great and the insight is very valuable to noobs like myself. Michael's no bullshit reactions to everything can be hilarious too

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад

      @eireworm oh yeah definitely funny reactions lol thanks again for watching man I really appreciate it. It give us the drive to keep going.

  • @paintpaintpaintco.6039
    @paintpaintpaintco.6039 Год назад +4

    Trust your jiu jitsu, sick quote

  • @VinnyDoesLife
    @VinnyDoesLife Год назад +3

    My coach goes by the IBJJF rules for blue to purple, which requires 2 years at blue in order to get purple. I am just under 1 full year at blue and I won gold at a Grappling Industries tournament in the blue division (3 fights and won all 3 by submission). In my mind, I thought I would have received my purple belt, but my coach seems to be strict at sticking with IBJJF standards. By doing that, it made me completely forget and not care about belt colors and being promoted, and I think that is the best thing for me. Currently, I am a 2 stripe blue belt and continue to work on my growth and skill so by the time I get to purple, there will be no doubts whether I deserve it or not.

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад +1

      That’s awesome man. A great way to look at things, good shit on the gold. Thanks for watching and I appreciate the comments 🫡💪💯

  • @JSMinstantcoaching
    @JSMinstantcoaching 4 месяца назад +1

    Skills above all, coaches would overuse their status unfortunately to make you feel inadequate and keep some form of control, it doesn't mean it's nonsensical, it means it's not all that there is

  • @ConveyApp
    @ConveyApp Год назад +1

    I’m a 43 yr old, 5’5”, 170lb no-gi purple belt. I got my purple belt in March. I even blew out both my meniscus, 3 months in. I had surgery in late July. I put on my huge metal brace and let people crush me. I just worked bottom defense for the last 3 months. Recently I am doing crazy better, almost 90% now. I didn’t think I would have such a skill explosion again. This getting crushed and not having my right leg working at all, to now a 90% function leg has done absolute wonders for my game and my skill level. I’m having brown belts wanting me to work with them on parts of my game. It’s awesome.

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад

      Congrats on the purple belt and good shit still training, thats savage 🫡 thanks for watching and appreciate the comment 🙏

    • @ConveyApp
      @ConveyApp Год назад +1

      @@diligentminds2270 Thank you. I got my blue belt in 2001 from Carlos Machado. I quit in 2003. I had my life and my marriage fall apart in 2019. So naturally in went back to BJJ in January 2020. I was a short 240lb, 44 inch waist guy. Coming back absolutely change my life for the better. It’s hard to think about my life problems, while being crushed by a 300lb, 10th planet brown belt for 5 minutes. 10+ hours per week of training of no-gi BJJ is hard to stay 240lbs. Purple belt was such a life accomplishment for me. I never thought I would have seen it. Every time I open my backpack and see it I almost pinch myself.

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад

      Sorry to hear about your hardships back in 2003 man that sucks but I’m happy for you about how you turned it around. Down 70lbs and got the purple belt that’s awesome. Keep up the good work. I was 240 at one time in my life as well, so I know what that took 🫡

  • @Luckybjj614
    @Luckybjj614 Год назад +2

    Also a new purple vs a purple that’s about to go brown should be a lot different all the way round.

  • @glexx2655
    @glexx2655 7 месяцев назад

    Just got promoted to Brown Belt. I loved purple belt by far the most favourite so far.

  • @tededo
    @tededo Месяц назад +1

    52 yo seaseoned grappler, and long time blue. I most have visited at least a dozen grappling schools, and met about 25 groups. There are levels to that shit. The longer I roll, the less relevan the belt becomes, I'm dead serious here. I roll with a bjj black belt and made it even. But the guy doesnt attend as often as I do. Doesnt put much heart as I do into this art, so on and so forth.
    Its often, if not always, style vs style, background A vs background B, 25 yo heavyweight and prep for his blue vs a 35 yo father of 3 and early purple that attends 2x/month. Truly, the comparison game is so complexe, its practically almost impossible to find an objective metric to rank your own level. Thats why, comparing your you of 3 yo ago to you now is more relevant. But than again, your you of 3 yrs ago was trying 2x/month while your you today train 3x/week so of course you're better than your yesterday you.
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  • @castro619a
    @castro619a 8 месяцев назад

    I always try to remember how I looked up to purple belts as a fresh white belt. I’m so happy I was able to learn a lot and make white belts see me the same way. Now that I’m almost brown it’s kinda sad because this was the belt I was always looking forward to and I’m now leaving it behind, but I’m also getting good and closer to black

  • @Luckybjj614
    @Luckybjj614 Год назад +6

    I think a purple belt should look amazing against all white belts, but have some blues that are a handful and even can lose to them. A brown I think should look amazing against white and blue belts. Struggle more with purples and so on. A black should look amazing against a white blue and purple. This also means that you are hanging at your own level and giving trouble to upper belts. With that said the water can be murky. Age, weight, and so on.

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад +2

      The water is definitely murky lol thanks for watching and I really appreciate the comment. 🙏🫡

    • @richarddangler7596
      @richarddangler7596 7 месяцев назад +1

      Great summary.

    • @Luckybjj614
      @Luckybjj614 7 месяцев назад

      @@richarddangler7596 thank you I probably stole it from someone I could not have possibly made that up or maybe I did

  • @gilberttiborjakub9890
    @gilberttiborjakub9890 7 месяцев назад +1

    I am still a blue belt since 2019 December. I almost completely quit after my knee surgery (skipped 2022-23 I did my comeback in this February). Now I feel very depressed : those guys who were beginners at that time when I got my belt now can catch me. Basically I feel I am the most talentless blue in our club… actually I asked my coach what if I would be a white again because I don’t feel myself enough good for being a blue but he rejected my suggestion. As a 2 stripe blue belt I have constant imposter syndrome since my comeback. Now after a few months I am getting better now, but I am still struggling.

    • @emanuelornelas1819
      @emanuelornelas1819 5 месяцев назад

      Hey bro, you’re not asking for advice or any comments. Sound like you have a lot on your mind though. Wanted to comment about some things that are important to note. You were out for 365 days, Recovering, doing your best I’m sure. You coming back and seeing the skill gap- could be a huge realization but I’m not sure you are looking at it the right way. The imposter syndrome from what I read isn’t from the skill of the belt but for the love of bjj. Are you training to win and surpass everyone regardless of your injury and much needed recovery? Are you training to be capable and show everyone your capability? Or are you training to have fun and learn some cool pajama rolling skills? training to be a better version of yourself, a self that can depend on your jiujitsu. If the last roll you had, you were smiling and laughing for doing sum thing dumb just to see what happens? you’ll realize that it’s not that serious.
      Take it easy my brother. You are at the level you need to be and you will advance. It’s impossible not to. You didn’t earn your blue because of your skill (although it’s included in the belt) but because of your mindset.
      Keep rolling. You’re doing fine.

  • @Gayngisconisgayngisconisgay
    @Gayngisconisgayngisconisgay 6 месяцев назад +1

    Been a P belt for 8 years, never felt like it once.

  • @dragonballjiujitsu
    @dragonballjiujitsu 9 месяцев назад

    10:50 I agree with how someone is rolling being the main factor in blue to purple but I also have a check list at my school. Simply because someone may have just a few techniques but be extremely good at them. They still have a very limited game. Everyone has that one technique they can catch even on higher belts. In my mind no one should get to purple and have any huge holes in their game. Even at the stuff they don't really like or do they should still be proficient at it. Also they should be getting tapped by white or even blues regularly. Its gonna happen sometime but if they are getting tapped by lower belts regularly something is wrong.

  • @MultiTictock
    @MultiTictock Год назад +2

    Ah this is the martial arts in JJ i like to see. The 10p Nogi only Sport, you ll never rank up based on "beauty and flow". just look at danaher students, winning worlds at blue belt. This brings us back to the art in martial arts. more schools like this

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад

      Thanks man, appreciate the kind words. I’m glad you enjoyed it.

  • @RickC-rs7ny
    @RickC-rs7ny Год назад +2

    I'm getting my purple belt in december, and this was interesting! agree with all your perspectives!! been a blue belt for 4 years!(took me awhile because I really wanted to feel like I was a true blue belt, also time on and off, different gym, etc)... but now it's the inevitable is coming to pass, purple here we goo!! thanks for the video!

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад

      Hell yeah man, congrats I’m excited for you. I have also been a blue belt for about 2 years now and I still feel I have a long way to go, but looking forward to the journey. Keep getting after it. Thanks for watching.

  • @Jimi1124
    @Jimi1124 Год назад +1

    The guy with the chain...
    I agree with

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад

      Definitely, yeah he’s got a lot of knowledge! 🫡🥋

  • @patrickobrien9981
    @patrickobrien9981 Год назад +1

    I agree 100% on everything yous have said about the road to been a purple belt 👊💪😎 great video lads

  • @VikingMale
    @VikingMale 6 месяцев назад +1

    Start Judo at 5, and do Wrestling in jr high. By the time you are 18 you would have 13 years of judo and 6 years of wrestling. And you would have %90+ of BJJ going into life. And you would have better self defence. Why? You would have stand up and ground game gi and no gi grappling but your focus would be throwing the guy to the ground then run…. He would have to get up of the ground to chase you and you’d be 10 yards away and booking it.

  • @PeterJames143
    @PeterJames143 Год назад +1

    I don't think you should advise people to just take a break. Having one toe in the water is really different from eating haagen dazs on your couch for months on end. But some of what you said is pretty interesting thank you.

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад +1

      I hear it man and to be honest that shit hit me hard when he said that. I really had to stop and think about why I’m even doing this and it put a lot into perspective. 🫡 keep at man, thanks for watching.

  • @jiujitsumemoir
    @jiujitsumemoir Год назад +1

    Great topic and episode. I was looking for some guidance on how far away it is from blue to purple. Awesome work guys!

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад

      Thanks for watching and the kind words. Keep at it man 🫡

  • @Metal_Kimura
    @Metal_Kimura Год назад +2

    I hate rolling w really big guys cuz I end up injured, and miss class ngl. I love having the roll w everybody attitude, it's just cost me months of sitting at home.

  • @Jiu-JitsuJourney257
    @Jiu-JitsuJourney257 Год назад +1

    I feel that I don’t deserve it, But I guess my coach did. lol

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад

      We all feel like this at times, congrats on the purple belt. Keep grinding 🫡

  • @701garage
    @701garage 9 месяцев назад

    There is a big difference between a big guy and lets say a super athletic 250 power that is stronger than our 360 pounds and has some of the best jiu-jitsu and judo.

  • @FAFOCLUB
    @FAFOCLUB Год назад +1

    If you think size matters, look up Mikey Musumeci

  • @theaouch4749
    @theaouch4749 Год назад +14

    Belts mean nothing. Skills is all you need.

    • @diligentminds2270
      @diligentminds2270  Год назад +9

      I agree, but it’s nice to know where you’re at on the journey.

    • @drake1to9
      @drake1to9 Год назад +2

      just discovered the wheel

    • @MrGhostface85
      @MrGhostface85 Год назад +7

      I respectfully disagree.
      Validation means a lot to people. It’s why people love recognition from their superiors in their jobs (even if there’s no raise or promotion).
      It’s why a lot of people strive for A’s in College when C’s still get degrees.
      So long as the belts have value (unlike in many other martial arts), people will covet them.
      If belts don’t matter, why would winning gold in a local comp matter? It’s not as if it it has any real value in the long run.

    • @uke_mike
      @uke_mike Год назад +4

      i used to think they meant more but i really dont think belts mean much anymore...look at adcc when 17 year old wrestlers beats seasoned black belts.., put in the time an have fun

    • @DSVN23
      @DSVN23 Год назад +2

      @@uke_mikethe belts don’t apply to professional athletes in the sport. But for the 90% of us that are hobbyists they’re definitely a marker of skill and definitely a tangable goal

  • @JSMinstantcoaching
    @JSMinstantcoaching 4 месяца назад +1

    Skills above all, coaches would overuse their status unfortunately to make you feel inadequate and keep some form of control, it doesn't mean it's nonsensical, it means it's not all that there is