Why I Started Chasing My Dreams & Stop Caring What Other People Think

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  • Опубликовано: 14 дек 2024

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  • @bethgreen5587
    @bethgreen5587 7 месяцев назад +28

    I needed this today. I’ll be 60 next month and getting ready to take classes on raising bees 🐝. Never to old to try something new❤

    • @ComplicatedSimplicite
      @ComplicatedSimplicite 7 месяцев назад +2

      You could have 40 plus years left in your life. I would say there is lots of time to learn new things!🙌

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад

      I love this! There is always time to learn something new and there’s no better time than the present to start! I wish you luck with your new endeavour☺️✨

  • @legiontheatregroup
    @legiontheatregroup 7 месяцев назад +7

    Great message. My motto: “I aspire to lead the kind of life I won’t ever need to retire from.”

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад

      What a great motto, I love that and it couldn’t be more true☺️🫶

  • @williamclark1244
    @williamclark1244 7 месяцев назад +2

    I needed to hear this. I have an office job that I feel is very constricting, draining and unfulfilling for me because I'm naturally a creative. I was happier when I was younger when pursuing a career in dance (before an injury ended that path) and having a job as a face painter. The money was not always consistent but I was ever so happy. I am reigniting that creative spark that once was but I don't share what I want to do with everyone. People don't support other peoples dreams if they haven't pursued their own.

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing this. I feel you’re certainly not alone with feeling this way, particularly when it comes to finding work unfulfilling. I think the best means to combat this is to find meaning outside of just a work remit, like within hobbies and relationships🙂 Money certainly is important but unfortunately that sense of purpose and meaning cannot fulfilled by monetary means alone. Just never give up pursuing that which is meaningful and enjoyable to you and you never know what could come of it in the end! Wishing you all the best🫶✨

  • @harryjamessmithmusic7762
    @harryjamessmithmusic7762 7 месяцев назад +2

    Awesome video, Holly! I was once chasing my dreams too, and I earned a Master's and a PhD degree with honours in musicology. However, I lost my passion for it, and now I'm pursuing a completely new dream, building my new future. I've been working on it for three years now, and there is still so much to do on this project. But I will finish it because I know how, it's just so slow. Have a nice day! Greetings to the UK!

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you Harry! Sounds like you're on the right path and have an exciting future ahead! I wish you the best of luck with your new endeavours and for the hard work to pay off very soon! ☺ ✨

    • @harryjamessmithmusic7762
      @harryjamessmithmusic7762 7 месяцев назад

      @@lagomholly Thank you so much! Cheers!

  • @f50koenigg
    @f50koenigg 2 месяца назад +1

    This is something I always having a hard time to deal with. I always care what people think even to the detrimental of myself. Something Ive been working on. It is slow process but worth it in the long run.

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  2 месяца назад +1

      For sure, its something that takes time and patience especially with yourself. I don't think its possible to not have moments of self-doubt or setbacks but they form part of the process and growth. Keep going and I wish you the best ✨

  • @SuperSiddhu
    @SuperSiddhu 7 месяцев назад +1

    Nice one, Holly. Loved this topic! As a kid, I was always indecisive about what I would do if I'd grow up. Today after so many years of learning and making mistakes, I am finally pursuing my dream of teaching. I love how you have raised the point of being courageous in our pursuits. It takes effort to stay consistent with your dream as life can be unpredictable. I am grateful to my parents for supporting me in achieving my dream. A lot of people have the "dream" but they fail to pursue it because they procrastinate. It's now or never. By the way, you look so beautiful and love the jacket.

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад +1

      I loved reading this, sounds so exciting! 😆 Like you said its the courage and consistency that is the most important and realising it's never "too late" to pursue anything. The perfect time will always be now. Wishing you the best of luck with your future endeavour! 🫶

  • @lottielewis-l8j
    @lottielewis-l8j 7 месяцев назад +3

    I need to stop caring what others think, it's really held me back over the years. Thank you for this Holly

  • @dawnwest3766
    @dawnwest3766 7 месяцев назад +1

    Just what I needed to hear right now, I am currently studying to become a massage therapist whilst I still work full time. I am finding it difficult most days but like you said just do something each day to help achieve your dream. Thank you so much ❤

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад +1

      I love this, sounds like an exciting new chapter is on its way for you! I do agree it can be hard to balance everything but every step be it big or small contributes towards something greater!😊 Wishing you the best of luck!🫶✨

  • @StefanPagacik
    @StefanPagacik 7 месяцев назад +1

    Music and art have a way of tapping into our innermost dreams and aspirations. And it's so true that seeking approval from others can cause more harm than good. What resides in our soul and our heart is the compass we need to use to find our north star and live accordingly. Good on you Holly for taking a stand for your dreams and not letting the opinions of others get in the way. Wishing you every success!

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts here Stefan, I resonate a lot with this!😊Appreciate your support and for your words of encouragement! Wishing you all the best too!☺️✨

  • @Lunadelilah3455
    @Lunadelilah3455 4 месяца назад +1

    This made me cry. Im starting college soon, and just feel so lost as to what I am truly meant to do. I can think of a few things I really want to do, but was always scared, but guess I'll take the first steps soon!

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  4 месяца назад

      So glad this was a little helpful! All I can say is I’ve totally been there too and it can be a difficult/confusing time. Try not to be hard on yourself and enjoy the moment now what you like doing and feels best for you!😊 Everything else will fall into place from there☺️ Take care!🫶

  • @heatherlw13
    @heatherlw13 7 месяцев назад +2

    You are right that we need to discover our inner child and find joy rather than letting life around us make us become drones, hovering and not touching down on the things we want to do, like to do, and could be doing. We need to wake up, find the middle ground and realize that no matter the circumstances, you can either make things happen or you can sit back and dream about it.

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад

      Appreciate your thoughts here, I don't think you could've summed it up any better! 😊 Thank you for watching ✨

  • @PromisingPod
    @PromisingPod 7 месяцев назад +1

    Exactly the kind of video I love. Thanks for talking about something that is so relevant to so many people. In life, pretty much all of the most successful people, have had to lay it all down the line and in some cases put extreme efforts into their dreams, to create an invention that advanced humanity's knowledge, or to gain a serious music skill, or to achieve an extraordinary sports feat, or to climb that unscaled mountain.
    I sometimes struggle with the difficulty of not seeing immediate results at the beginning. It feels like 0 progress almost. Anyway, I still feel like we should be grateful to be alive and it will be a victory to live our best life, under our own terms, and making our own choices. Cool studio, Holly.

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts here, it's so nice to connect with someone who feels equally as passionate about this topic. I understand what you mean, we have a tendency to use the evidence we obtain (the results, progress etc) as a measuring tool for whether something is working and could happen in the long run. But I think like any master would say or dream, its the struggle and learning that enable you to grow, learn and eventually succeed 😊 Realising anything is possible if you're willing to endure the obstacles along the way, which undoubtedly is the hardest thing to do! ✨

  • @cosywoodlands
    @cosywoodlands 7 месяцев назад +1

    Oh Holly, this video is so inspiring 💛
    I feel the need to watch it first thing every morning now to make sure that I pursue my dreams a little bit at a time every single day ☀️

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much!🥹 So glad you enjoyed this and found it helpful ☺

  • @fraudebs8786
    @fraudebs8786 7 месяцев назад +2

    Such a great video Hollie, and so so true. Social conditioning has been so stifling to many. It's a tragedy that people are afraid to follow their dreams and passions 😢 People need inspiration. It's not just about fitting into a box. Thankyou 💖

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад

      So glad you enjoyed this! That's so true and it has caused us to miss out on a lot of great talent as a result. Hoping in time to come many more will have the courage to pursue their passions and the social conditioning will change! ✨ Thank you for watching ☺

  • @Transamandy
    @Transamandy 7 месяцев назад +1

    Holly you always have my attention but this video made me stop dead in my tracks …I just put my guitar down a few minutes ago before seeing what is on RUclips and there you are in a room full of guitar’s and all kinds of really kool older stuff for recording then hearing you say your dad’s music studio….I was just completely blown away by this video….you’re so right about everything you said…when people get older and get responsibilities they forget life was given to us to enjoy and to have fun …without having a creative outlet life would become nothing more than just work……having something that you truly love to do & having people you truly love being around is what our soul creates as it’s heaven & every once in a while some people align their dreams with their living in such a way that the two become one …Holly thank you for being my hero 💫💫💫

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for your comment and sharing your thoughts Andy, I couldn't agree more that creative expression is so crucial to balance alongside work! And the irony of the timing! So glad you enjoyed this and it resonated with you too ☺ ✨

    • @Transamandy
      @Transamandy 7 месяцев назад

      @@lagomholly Have a beautiful day Holly & thank you for everything 🙏

  • @stephenmacafee5478
    @stephenmacafee5478 7 месяцев назад +2

    Wow Holly.. this really is such a beautiful, moving, deeply insightful message :-) The timing is amazing too, because this is where I'm at in my life, not wanting to just survive but to pursue my dreams. I love that this video is musically themed too, because my dream is music. I've tried playing guitar, piano, finger drumming (electronic pads) then somewhere along the way I just landed on electronic music, which is actually amazing because I can produce my own music. I've taken masterclasses in it and have followed a ton of RUclips tutorials. You're right consistency really is key and that's something I'm working on. I heard something a long time ago that I love which was "Do what makes you come alive". Thank you for the beautiful and inspiring advice Holly, I actually needed this :-)

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing this! Sounds amazing, you really are so talented and its so nice to hear how you never gave up with this pursuit! 😊 Like you said it's the desire to continuously learn and improve that will get you there in the end. What a beautiful quote to sum it all up with too, I love that!☺ Wishing you all the best with your endeavours! ✨

    • @stephenmacafee5478
      @stephenmacafee5478 7 месяцев назад

      @lagomholly Thanks so much Holly :-) I was actually in a very rough place when I wrote that, and for a while I stopped moving with my dream. As of seeing your video, literally on the same day, I started writing music again. You helped me more than you realise, and this is actually my favourite video of yours, because it's very personal for me. So again, thank you so much :-)

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад +1

      @@stephenmacafee5478 that’s so humbling to hear thank you Stephen! Never give up and always remember why you started in the first place. It’s always what keeps me going🙂 Wishing you all the best and for brighter days ahead🫶✨

    • @stephenmacafee5478
      @stephenmacafee5478 7 месяцев назад

      @lagomholly Awww thank you Holly :-) you made me smile again. I was feeling quite depressed and discouraged before to be honest, but I went to church today so I feel much better now. I really appreciate your kind words and encouragement, really cheered me up, and that's some beautiful advice I will remember too. Wishing you all the best too lovely Holly :-)

  • @trailersandtea
    @trailersandtea 7 месяцев назад +2

    Beautifully stated Holly! Your dad's studio looks like a very special place, thank you for sharing💕

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад

      It certainly is!☺️ Thank you for watching🫶

  • @JoeSmithton
    @JoeSmithton 7 месяцев назад +1

    "The claps only come following the win" - that really hit me.

  • @mark_tolver
    @mark_tolver 7 месяцев назад +1

    This is all very true, especially as doing anything creative has a tendency to not be taken seriously by many. I think this is part of the reason why many people who do creative stuff tend to keep it quiet and to ourselves. Maybe that’s also where creative perfectionism comes in - we don’t want to show the fruits of our labours to others before we feel they’re perfect because we’re exposing our inner selves to potential derision or indifference.
    I think though, that there’s a significant difference between creativity as a child and creativity as an adult. As children, self-doubt doesn’t seem to enter the creative process that much; we scrawl whatever comes to mind with crayons or bang sticks on upturned saucepans and we don’t really consider or even care much whether the results are any good or not. As adults though, we think about what the outside world might think about our endeavours and whether our work meets our own expectations. Our creativity can be crippled by our own self-doubt.
    Connecting to that childlike sense of play is really important in bringing out our creativity but overcoming that creative self-doubt seems to be an absolutely Herculean task. It’s something I’m still working on and I don’t know whether I’ll ever overcome it. If anyone feels like they’ve ever personally battled with creative self-doubt and managed to slay the monster then I’m all ears!

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you for sharing this, I think you've summarised this concept perfectly. It's a challenge as we become adults for sure, especially given the whole notion that it's within a child's nature to be "extravagant" or "delusional" when it comes to dreams. I find this particularly evident when children are asked what they want to do when they grow up. But I think there's something inspiring about the boldness of children we need to keep when we're adults. It's also fundamental in a way to ensure dreams and ambitions are executed. I just hope in time many more have the courage to go for it and make their inner child proud 😊

  • @alejandrorodriguez4189
    @alejandrorodriguez4189 7 месяцев назад +2

    Starting my day with this inspirational video you have done thank you Holly ❤

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад +1

      So glad you enjoyed this! Thank you for watching🫶✨

  • @Hudzoom
    @Hudzoom 7 месяцев назад +1

    What a superb video and your dad's studio looks absolutely amazing 🤩 He's got some quality equipment and you look right at home in there.
    You couldn't have said it any better and so eloquently put Holly. You're absolutely right!
    I was kind of hoping to hear you sing seeing as you have such a lovely way with words.
    Not many people will understand when you try to do something against the norm and follow a dream, but if you truly feel strongly about something you should never let anything or anyone stop you.
    Just remember if nobody ever followed their dream this world would be a rather boring place to be.
    When trying to make your dream come true you will have so much fun along the way because you'll be following your heart's desire and there's nothing more important than that. Every step you take you'll gain more knowledge and momentum and that fuels the fire even further to keep going. Along the way you'll meet people who want to support and help you achieve your dream and that is all you need. With a lot of determination, passion and a pinch of luck you'll get there and make it reality.
    It's not always easy to achieve your dreams but if you keep moving forward then you're always closer to the finish line.
    In the unfortunate case that you can't make your dream come true you can always have another one. That's the beauty of dreams. 💫
    May I ask what your dream is and what sort of music / groups you are into?
    I've been drumming for 14 years now so I'm slightly nosey when music's involved ☺️

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for your comment! It is a little creativity cave and he has some amazing equipment I feel lucky to have used over the years 😊 I wish I could have given a little rendition but unfortunately my voice is not as good as it was when I was younger! I think you've summed this concept up wonderfully and that a dream itself is most meaningful because of the struggle and strife required to make it happen. It shows a persons true strength of character I think when you hear stories about how they made their seemingly impossible dreams come true. I was into classical music but am more into indie as I've grown older. The drums are a fantastic instrument though, what a great talent to possess! ☺ Wishing you the best ✨

    • @Hudzoom
      @Hudzoom 7 месяцев назад

      @@lagomholly That's quite alright, I think we all need a little creativity cave in life!
      I bet you can still sing a lot better than I could, that's why I'm a drum instead 😂
      I couldn't agree more, it's so inspiring when you hear how people make their dreams come true and what it took to get there.
      That's an interesting cool music taste you have 😊
      Thankyou, you can't beat a bit of drumming!
      Keep up the brilliant videos and take care 💫

  • @allan1302
    @allan1302 7 месяцев назад +1

    Another nice and inspiring video. Your Dad must be very proud of you.

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you very much!🥹 Appreciate your kind words🫶

  • @GRORGvideot
    @GRORGvideot 7 месяцев назад +1

    I relate to what you mean. I'm writing my third book atm (two self-published). I still feel the whole "it's going to be sh*t, no one wants to read it, people will laugh, I'm an imposter..."
    Still, I love writing so much that I push through the feelings, holding hands with fear.

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад +1

      That sounds so exciting! I couldn't agree more, its love of what you're doing that will ultimately prevail and keeps you going. Don't allow any negative thoughts to hold you back. Always remember why you started! 🫶 Wishing you the best of luck! ☺

    • @GRORGvideot
      @GRORGvideot 7 месяцев назад

      @@lagomholly Thank you Holly ! 😊

  • @KyleLeeuw
    @KyleLeeuw 7 месяцев назад +2

    You’re amazing holly honey ❤❤❤! I hope i can find a way to stop caring about what others think

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад +1

      Don’t be too hard on yourself, but know the most important opinion about yourself is your own. So more of a reason to make it a positive one!🫶✨

    • @KyleLeeuw
      @KyleLeeuw 7 месяцев назад

      @@lagomholly thanks sweetheart! Wish I could talk to you more

  • @user-cu8lw1uc5w
    @user-cu8lw1uc5w 7 месяцев назад +2

    Hi 😊 have a wonderful day🌱🐇 and so beautiful memories 💚

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you! I hope you have a wonderful day too🫶✨

  • @letterbox203
    @letterbox203 4 месяца назад

    This message really speaks to me! Thank you

  • @julesm9081
    @julesm9081 7 месяцев назад +1

    Oh my goodness I need to see this video! Thank you

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for watching🫶

    • @julesm9081
      @julesm9081 7 месяцев назад

      @@lagomholly i haven’t yet but will do today :) x

  • @reganstandlick7520
    @reganstandlick7520 4 месяца назад

    Lovw this. I've been trying to figure out what I want to do next

  • @WritingArcadia
    @WritingArcadia 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
    It really helped me a lot.

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you! So glad you found this helpful☺️✨

  • @Abeers.wonderland
    @Abeers.wonderland 7 месяцев назад +1

    I love this! Thank you sweetie 🤎🥺

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for watching🫶

  • @Shashwat_1729
    @Shashwat_1729 7 месяцев назад +1

    A dream must be followed by whole-hearted, disciplined implementation.
    Often we focus more on daydreaming about our passion and ultimately the dream always remains a 'dream'. Procastination and complacency are the biggest evils which deter us from accomplishing our dream.
    Rise, Awake and Rest not till the goal is accomplished!!

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you for this, how perfectly put. Overcoming the evils of procrastination, comfort and complacency is a challenge in itself, but are what make dreams more meaningful knowing you had the ability to overcome these things along the way! 😊 ✨

  • @letterbox203
    @letterbox203 7 месяцев назад +3

    Your message is inspiring but lack of vision on my part keeps me from achieving that “dream”. I guess I need a structured way to take a dream and break it down in such a way so that I can take steps toward its fulfillment and feel that I am making progress along the way. But where can I find this? I need like a project manager for my life. Again, thanks for your inspiration. I like how you say we must take the steps ourselves because no one else will do it for us.

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад

      Don’t be too hard on yourself for not having it all completely mapped out right now🙂 I’ve definitely been there myself too but I think part of the process is figuring out how to make it happen and trying different tactics to get there along the way. I suppose the best advice I can give is just research research research!🤓 It’s what gets the ball rolling for me even if it’s just watching a RUclips video about someone else discussing the same goal or how they got there to inspire me! Never give up and keep chipping away each day! Wishing you the best✨

  • @JaimeOrJayOetjens
    @JaimeOrJayOetjens 7 месяцев назад +1

    Dear Holly, FYI - We exchanged kind words in your past couple of videos but please take notice that I changed my name.
    I'm not slow to respond, I'm just slow to let you know that I'm responding. The strange reality is that I actually found myself watching 👀 this video 3 different times on 3 different days. Each time I watched it, I realized more and more how important your teachings are going to be in the near future for all of humanity. You say "What is this world going to look like in a hundred years" but I'm wondering what this world is going to look like in 10 years when businesses figure out how easy it is to automate a third of their jobs. Your 💯 percent correct in stating that an "Aimless life is not good" and my knowledge and wisdom is informing me that we need an army of Caring and Loving 💜 people just like you to spread comfort and joy talking people down off the ledge of dispare when Artifical Intelligence begins torchering their well-being.
    Please continue 🙏 creating content that is geared exactly around the Vision you are Portraying in your Teachings. I'm unsure if you are a Godly woman, but I'm certain your message is divine and that you are preparing for a time of Biblical Porportions, which will be here sooner than most realize. P.s, I 💯 Absolutely Loved the old school setting in your Dad's Music Studio for this video. Another Outstanding Video!

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for your comment and sharing your thoughts here! I appreciate your wisdom and think you’ve made some important points about the direction the world is going. I do agree it’s awareness that is key and realising that we do have the ability to influence and control certain outcomes within our lives. Really glad you enjoyed this and it resonated with you too!🙂 Plenty more philosophical videos to come to stay tuned!☺️✨

  • @davem1564
    @davem1564 7 месяцев назад +1

    Hello Holly, i wished that my path was different but unfortunately my path took a wrong direction and it cost me dearly both financially and emotionally. I’m sorry to say its to late for me. I love your suggestions but i wished things were different. Holly, i have no idea to turn things around. However, it is a great video and you are great in what you do and i know there are others that can benefit your advice. Thank you Holly🙏🫶

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you for sharing this Dave. Although it may not feel like it, I do believe there is always time to start again and pursue something you're passionate about. Sometimes it's not always by the means we initially thought or tried but the most important thing is to keep trying. If it's not meant to be I firmly believe something better always comes instead 😊 Don't be too hard on yourself in the meantime, wishing you the best! ✨

  • @ruebennomura9143
    @ruebennomura9143 7 месяцев назад +1

    I hope you did the right thing on you do in life

  • @markevans7269
    @markevans7269 7 месяцев назад +1

    Another lovely video 📺what tipe of music 🎶🎷🎸🎤🎺did your dad make 🌷💐❤

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you!🫶 He has produced a range over the years, but mostly soul and rhythm and blues! Specialising in the guitar, but can also play the drums and piano! Hes very talented☺️

    • @markevans7269
      @markevans7269 7 месяцев назад

      Thank you❤ for your reply must of been great😁 being brought up with all that music 🎶 around you ❤💐🌷

  • @andy_intruder
    @andy_intruder 7 месяцев назад +1

    OMG Holly, i am sooooooooo disappointed i was thinking we were about to hear you sing something ( I'm not really disappointed, only kidding haha). I'm sure you are a lovely singer though with that beautiful voice. Another great video though as always, very enjoyable. Hope you're having a great weekend, take care and keep smiling ☺☺☺❤❤❤

    • @lagomholly
      @lagomholly  7 месяцев назад +1

      Haha my apologies Andy! 😂 Maybe I'm keeping that a secret for another video so you never know 😉 Thank you for watching and wishing you a great weekend too! ☺