I need to thank you for sharing this important information regarding cut offs. I've come a long way from toxic family members. Siblings even my mother. Being 46 years of age I have no reason to believe they really loved me. I realize they never respected me in anyway. I love them anyway because I grew up with all of them. It's been harder to communicate with them after my Dad had passed away, he was my rock and protector. It's like they waited for him to pass so they can be mean to me. They pushed me away Christmas eve of 2023 and I've never went back. It's been a roller coaster for me. Started drinking with the thought of been lost and disowned. I was in a rough spot. Learning to stop people from taking advantage of my kind nature. Today I find myself in solitude comfortable being alone. I stop partying because it was a response to my family's situation they put me through. I fear of opening my heart to the wrong people. I think of who next is trying to use my kind heart. So now I stay home and away from harm. I keep my kind heart for my young grandchildren and children. I'm alot stronger now with my thoughts and feelings of doing my cut offs. Alot of lessons learned. Thank you for your beautiful words.
I need to thank you for sharing this important information regarding cut offs. I've come a long way from toxic family members. Siblings even my mother. Being 46 years of age I have no reason to believe they really loved me. I realize they never respected me in anyway.
I love them anyway because I grew up with all of them. It's been harder to communicate with them after my Dad had passed away, he was my rock and protector. It's like they waited for him to pass so they can be mean to me. They pushed me away Christmas eve of 2023 and I've never went back. It's been a roller coaster for me. Started drinking with the thought of been lost and disowned.
I was in a rough spot. Learning to stop people from taking advantage of my kind nature. Today I find myself in solitude comfortable being alone. I stop partying because it was a response to my family's situation they put me through. I fear of opening my heart to the wrong people. I think of who next is trying to use my kind heart. So now I stay home and away from harm. I keep my kind heart for my young grandchildren and children. I'm alot stronger now with my thoughts and feelings of doing my cut offs. Alot of lessons learned.
Thank you for your beautiful words.