Girl I told you this on insta I’m telling you again. Just do it. You won’t ever look at that baby and regret them but you will regret not doing it. My c section with my fourth is Monday. I was DONE too but now I am so thankful and excited to be able to do this again. JUST DO IT 😂
We stopped at 3 and We REGRET it now (in our 50’s ) that we didn’t have a 4th . (Also I bought the book on how to have boy/girl and it worked ! We had 2 boys then a girl… had to do with carefully monitoring ovulation to hit it a day past ovulation vs right before or on the day of ovulation) & also prayers !!! I’ll tell you now , all babies of course are God’s blessings but it is wonderful to have both (& our daughter is my best friend … boys marry and you become # 2 … girls can marry & still be your best friend forever🥰)
I’m sitting on the floor playing with my number 4. He’s the sweetest addition to my family. I’m so grateful to Gd for him! My kids all love him so much and he just brings joy to our home. You are an amazing mom I think you should def go for it! ❤
I had my second at 36/37 and back & forwards with the idea of having a 3rd. I’m 40 this month. My youngest just turned 3 and eldest turning 7 next month. I do get overwhelmed & overstimulated easily but I also know I’m my best when I’m in the thick of motherhood because I’m forced to be selfless and surrender.
I'm 37 too, March of '87! I am considering a 4th too. I've had some health issues, but the 3rd doc I spoke to says he doesn't see an issue with having another. I'm wondering too if it's because 40 is around the corner, plus seeing so many others with babies makes me want another! I feel crazy too, but more and more I'm feeling like going for it. Also, we built a house last year, and I always thought it would be so special to bring a new baby into the new house and create a whole new round of memories. That probably sounds dumb, but God willing! Best wishes to all of you ❤
I had baby #5 at 37. Maybe I am crazy but I I love my large family. I’m 42 now and regret nothing. But…. If you feel done, be done. For what it’s worth, after #5, I 100% felt and feel DONE. I don’t envy those having babies and being pregnant.
I’m a mom of 4! My last were twins though. I’d say just keep in mind that baby 4 can always be babies 4&5. I never thought that would happen and literally joked about it at my first ultrasound and low and behold 😂 and they’re all boys lol I love them deeply and am in the thick of it with 17 month olds 😅🩵
@@justsaiyan5571we are lucky 🥰 I just simply mentioned to keep in mind. We didn’t even think of that possibility lol we don’t have enough bedrooms for everyone to have their own, can only use one of our cars for everyone etc. our neighborhood has so many sets of twins !!
That's what happened to my friend. They decided to go ahead and have baby #4. They ended up with twins. A boy and a girl. They absolutely don't regret it but it is challenging.
We were SO content having two girls for 3 years. Completely done. Our third, who is a boy just turned 7 mos. And he was the best surprise ever!! I can't imagine not having him in our lives. Yes, it was so hard "starting over" but....so worth it!!
We had our third and joked about a 4th. Well.. we were kinda serious but we wanted to wait a little longer. You know what they say … when you plan .. god laughs. Yeah. I was already pregnant with my 4th when the 3rd was 9 months old and I was 38 years old with my oldest being 11. Now my kids are 13, 11, 5 and 3. It’s chaotic but no regrets what so ever
I’m in the same boat as you! I’m 37 with 3 boys and most days I feel content with my 3 but then on rare occasions I think about what it would be like to have 1 more. I don’t think I’ll ever feel like I’m “done.” 😩
I’m a mom to four currently pregnant with my fifth! And we are done done after this one! But I would say do you do and do what’s right for you and your family!
I honestly think you should try for baby #4. I wouldn’t want you to have any regrets. But. It’s whatever makes you happy. Congratulations on the new baby ❤❤❤
My husband and I want three ideally but I just had my first at 35. So we would have to start for number two soon and we plan to in January hopefully. I would definitely go for four if I felt any itch towards it. I think people are right when they say you won’t regret it.!!!
Just go for it ☺️🫶🏽 I’m a mother of 4…. It is very exhausting 😂 but I know one day I’ll miss all the craziness 🥹🥹🥹🥹 my youngest just turned 5, I have a 7, 12 and 14 year old my home is loud but I love it 🥰
If your even thinking about it your not done, lol. I’m 41 had my 2nd at 40. I would honestly like one more but my Husband is content with what we have. ( 1 Girl 1 Boy ) I also feel done but deep down want another. I would say do it. It’s definitely something you might regret down the road. ❤
Your so young! Plenty of time to decide! Don’t worry about the age differences my lil brother is 8 years younger then me and we are so close don’t even feel the age difference anymore now as adults! But I know being close in age is wonderful too my older brother was my best friend/hero too growing up and as adults. He passed 20 years ago. Miss him like crazy! I hope you have a lil girl next would be the cutest with 3 big bros!
I have 3 boys too. When i was pregnant with the 3rd we knew we were going to be done. I ended up having a lot of complications the end of pregnancy. And i was told i would be really high risk to have another. We decided it was for the best to be done. My husband got fixed. And then i ended up being diagnosed with endometriosis amd adenomyosis and i got a hysterectomy. Now 2 years later my husband and i both feel sad we can't have anymore. We both knew it was for the best for my health to be done. And we did the responsible thing. But i do wish our circumstances could have been different. We definitely would be trying to have a fourth right now if we could 😂 my point in saying all of this is, it's ok to change your mind.
I just turned 37 and my youngest just started kinder and I'm having some of the same feelings. I feel like I could have another, and I definitely don't feel done. But I don't really feel like someone's missing. I do worry now about an age gap, although it's not like it's crazy huge. I don't really worry about my age yet but I do think the time is kind of now or never. I also worry about missing this fun stage with my girls because I'm busy with a baby. But they'd love the baby. So many of my female friends are strongly done. So that's very telling. I would definitely be happy if it happened but how hard do I lobby for it?!
Liza I think your a lucky to have three beautiful boys focus on them but you do what's good for you . Not everyone has three boys I have one boy only and truly with I would have had another baby after I had tommy but I listen to my doctor so decided not to because of certain things also had tommy at 45 years old . Happy birthday to you you look great 🎂🎁🎈🎉🎉
As a mother of 8, I feel like if your second guessing if you should have another one, you should, I knew when I had my last baby at 38 that I didn’t want anymore, I had my tubes removed last October and I’ve had zero regret.
Girl you’re done-enjoy your boys and your little family. While I don’t think you’ll regret having another, it’s a whole other thing to just enjoy who you have now. Maybe a small part of you wants a girl. If you had one maybe you wouldn’t feel that way. But I understand the itch
I can relate so hard to this. I have 3 also and my youngest just turned 1. I’m already thinking about it even though we said we were done. I feel crazy and like you said that this feeling isn’t ever going to go away. I’m also so happy to feel like myself again and don’t want to lose that feeling. It’s so hard. I have trouble picking out a candy bar at the gas station. Like who put me in charge of this decision I just wanna talk to them. 😂
Ww decided we were done at two kids. I always said two but maybe three. We were satisfied and ready to move on to a new chapter. Gave most of the baby clothes away or sold them. Gave baby toys away. Three months later, God had different plans and I found out I was expecting! My oldest will be 9 next week, 6 years old, and 7 months old. There is a 5.5 year gap. Things are going well. I have to say certain things are a bit easier when there the two oldest are in school. I'm 35.
I'm feeling the same way too 😅my husband has a vasectomy tho but I definitely feel it tho mine have the same age gap i go back and fourth but I know three is right for me we will make good grandmas 🤣
Girl. Just go for it. If guy want to possibly try for a fourth DO IT! If your questioning? DO IT! It’s all in God’s hands and if feels a fourth is right, it’ll happen if not, it won’t happen!
As hard as it was for you to get pregnant with the other children, I'm so surprised that you even practiced any family planning. I was 37 years old when I gave birth. When I was growing up most families had four to six to eight children. Women nowadays give up too soon. I think there's something to be said for raising a village. I said to a friend of mine the other day that if I could have kept having kids in my 40s 50s I would have done so. I would have spaced them all out and done so because one day they'll all be gone and likely won't even live in the same state. Yes you're tired. Moms are always tired. I agree that you'll never be sorrowful that you had another one but you could be sorrowful that you didn't have more.
We thought we were done 3 kids ago, but God quickly reminded us who is the author of our story. I’m 41 and just had my 7th. 🥹❤️ God is good and already knows our story.
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Girl I told you this on insta I’m telling you again. Just do it. You won’t ever look at that baby and regret them but you will regret not doing it. My c section with my fourth is Monday. I was DONE too but now I am so thankful and excited to be able to do this again. JUST DO IT 😂
This!!!
Lol I was DONE at 3. I'm currently holding my 4th little sweetheart ❤ best thing ever
We stopped at 3 and We REGRET it now (in our 50’s ) that we didn’t have a 4th .
(Also I bought the book on how to have boy/girl and it worked ! We had 2 boys then a girl… had to do with carefully monitoring ovulation to hit it a day past ovulation vs right before or on the day of ovulation) & also prayers !!! I’ll tell you now , all babies of course are God’s blessings but it is wonderful to have both (& our daughter is my best friend … boys marry and you become # 2 … girls can marry & still be your best friend forever🥰)
I’m sitting on the floor playing with my number 4. He’s the sweetest addition to my family. I’m so grateful to Gd for him! My kids all love him so much and he just brings joy to our home. You are an amazing mom I think you should def go for it! ❤
@@pinksophie18 love that so much 🥹
Do it! You’ll never regret it. You’ll regret not having one 💛
I’m 46 and just did my 10th ivf transfer will find out soon if it worked. You are never to old to have a baby
I had my second at 36/37 and back & forwards with the idea of having a 3rd. I’m 40 this month. My youngest just turned 3 and eldest turning 7 next month. I do get overwhelmed & overstimulated easily but I also know I’m my best when I’m in the thick of motherhood because I’m forced to be selfless and surrender.
I'm 37 too, March of '87! I am considering a 4th too. I've had some health issues, but the 3rd doc I spoke to says he doesn't see an issue with having another. I'm wondering too if it's because 40 is around the corner, plus seeing so many others with babies makes me want another! I feel crazy too, but more and more I'm feeling like going for it. Also, we built a house last year, and I always thought it would be so special to bring a new baby into the new house and create a whole new round of memories. That probably sounds dumb, but God willing! Best wishes to all of you ❤
I had baby #5 at 37. Maybe I am crazy but I I love my large family. I’m 42 now and regret nothing. But…. If you feel done, be done. For what it’s worth, after #5, I 100% felt and feel DONE. I don’t envy those having babies and being pregnant.
I’m a mom of 4! My last were twins though. I’d say just keep in mind that baby 4 can always be babies 4&5. I never thought that would happen and literally joked about it at my first ultrasound and low and behold 😂 and they’re all boys lol I love them deeply and am in the thick of it with 17 month olds 😅🩵
What a blessing!
@@justsaiyan5571we are lucky 🥰 I just simply mentioned to keep in mind. We didn’t even think of that possibility lol we don’t have enough bedrooms for everyone to have their own, can only use one of our cars for everyone etc. our neighborhood has so many sets of twins !!
That's what happened to my friend. They decided to go ahead and have baby #4. They ended up with twins. A boy and a girl. They absolutely don't regret it but it is challenging.
We were SO content having two girls for 3 years. Completely done. Our third, who is a boy just turned 7 mos. And he was the best surprise ever!! I can't imagine not having him in our lives. Yes, it was so hard "starting over" but....so worth it!!
@@autumnhogan5182 I bet!!! Love that ❤️
Enjoy your kids you have. 40s is no joke for exhaustion. I can’t imagine having small children in my 40s
Yessssssss
I’m 39 and have a two boys (ages 5 and 7) and a baby girl who’s 14 months and I’m definitely trying for a 4th baby.
@@cazzraz1164 I think you misinterpreted my comment. I was just sharing and encouraging.
I had my daughter at 40 no exhaustion here.
@@cazzraz1164 are you joking or just being incredibly bitchy?
I was 37 when i had my last baby! And she was so worth it!! You will never regret having another.
I couldn't shake the feeling of one more, so here I am pregnant with number 4! My kids are 8,5, and 4. We can't wait for baby to join! ❤
We had our third and joked about a 4th. Well.. we were kinda serious but we wanted to wait a little longer. You know what they say … when you plan .. god laughs. Yeah. I was already pregnant with my 4th when the 3rd was 9 months old and I was 38 years old with my oldest being 11. Now my kids are 13, 11, 5 and 3. It’s chaotic but no regrets what so ever
I’m in the same boat as you! I’m 37 with 3 boys and most days I feel content with my 3 but then on rare occasions I think about what it would be like to have 1 more. I don’t think I’ll ever feel like I’m “done.” 😩
Just found out I am pregnant with #4 on Monday 🥰 thought I was done with 3- but God had other plans!
I’m a mom to four currently pregnant with my fifth! And we are done done after this one! But I would say do you do and do what’s right for you and your family!
You’ll never regret another baby 💗
I had baby number 4 in 2023 and baby number 5 in 2024 I removed my tubes and now 2 months pp I deeply regret it! You will regret not having one more
I honestly think you should try for baby #4. I wouldn’t want you to have any regrets. But. It’s whatever makes you happy. Congratulations on the new baby ❤❤❤
I’m 17 weeks with #4! If you feel it in your heart then don’t ignore it ❤
My husband and I want three ideally but I just had my first at 35. So we would have to start for number two soon and we plan to in January hopefully. I would definitely go for four if I felt any itch towards it. I think people are right when they say you won’t regret it.!!!
Liza Liza Liza.. do what your heart desires.. I have 3 boys and I feel absolutely content and beyond done having kids.. ❤❤❤
Girl this is so me! I’m 38 and go back and forth on a third but I’m so happy with my two boys and love the ages they are right now
Just go for it ☺️🫶🏽 I’m a mother of 4…. It is very exhausting 😂 but I know one day I’ll miss all the craziness 🥹🥹🥹🥹 my youngest just turned 5, I have a 7, 12 and 14 year old my home is loud but I love it 🥰
If your even thinking about it your not done, lol. I’m 41 had my 2nd at 40. I would honestly like one more but my Husband is content with what we have. ( 1 Girl 1 Boy ) I also feel done but deep down want another. I would say do it. It’s definitely something you might regret down the road. ❤
Your so young! Plenty of time to decide! Don’t worry about the age differences my lil brother is 8 years younger then me and we are so close don’t even feel the age difference anymore now as adults! But I know being close in age is wonderful too my older brother was my best friend/hero too growing up and as adults. He passed 20 years ago. Miss him like crazy! I hope you have a lil girl next would be the cutest with 3 big bros!
I have 3 boys too. When i was pregnant with the 3rd we knew we were going to be done. I ended up having a lot of complications the end of pregnancy. And i was told i would be really high risk to have another. We decided it was for the best to be done. My husband got fixed. And then i ended up being diagnosed with endometriosis amd adenomyosis and i got a hysterectomy. Now 2 years later my husband and i both feel sad we can't have anymore. We both knew it was for the best for my health to be done. And we did the responsible thing. But i do wish our circumstances could have been different. We definitely would be trying to have a fourth right now if we could 😂 my point in saying all of this is, it's ok to change your mind.
If you feel like you want another one, just do it 🥰. You will never regret having another baby and 37 is still so young, you can totally do it lol!
You can do it girl!! Baby#4❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I just turned 37 and my youngest just started kinder and I'm having some of the same feelings. I feel like I could have another, and I definitely don't feel done. But I don't really feel like someone's missing. I do worry now about an age gap, although it's not like it's crazy huge. I don't really worry about my age yet but I do think the time is kind of now or never. I also worry about missing this fun stage with my girls because I'm busy with a baby. But they'd love the baby. So many of my female friends are strongly done. So that's very telling. I would definitely be happy if it happened but how hard do I lobby for it?!
if your debating one go for it. youll never regret having one, but youll def regret not having one!
You guys are great parents go for baby number 4!!!❤
Liza I think your a lucky to have three beautiful boys focus on them but you do what's good for you . Not everyone has three boys I have one boy only and truly with I would have had another baby after I had tommy but I listen to my doctor so decided not to because of certain things also had tommy at 45 years old . Happy birthday to you you look great 🎂🎁🎈🎉🎉
She wants to try for the girl that's all
As a mother of 8, I feel like if your second guessing if you should have another one, you should, I knew when I had my last baby at 38 that I didn’t want anymore, I had my tubes removed last October and I’ve had zero regret.
Honestly you sound content with 3 ❤
I always wanted 4 ! I have 3 but at a certain age I put a stop only bc I wanted my life back . Depends on how soon you want your freedom back
I’m 37 and had a baby! Go for it
Have another baby ! More good people need to start having more babies ! I'm voting for number 4 😆
Just do it girl 🩷
I feel the same!! But i also agree they’re so expensive and inflation is super bad😭😭 but I would love to have another one and I’m 42 hahaha
Great video Liza and your beautiful kids and happy first day of fall
@@leslycorrales1444 thanks so much!!!
Girl you’re done-enjoy your boys and your little family. While I don’t think you’ll regret having another, it’s a whole other thing to just enjoy who you have now. Maybe a small part of you wants a girl. If you had one maybe you wouldn’t feel that way. But I understand the itch
Go for it!
Oh, i think you should!! ❤❤❤
Great video ❤what makeup product do you use on your eyebrows they look really good!❤
I just see a baby girl in your future ❤
You can’t say that you don’t know.
I can relate so hard to this. I have 3 also and my youngest just turned 1. I’m already thinking about it even though we said we were done. I feel crazy and like you said that this feeling isn’t ever going to go away. I’m also so happy to feel like myself again and don’t want to lose that feeling. It’s so hard. I have trouble picking out a candy bar at the gas station. Like who put me in charge of this decision I just wanna talk to them. 😂
Ww decided we were done at two kids. I always said two but maybe three. We were satisfied and ready to move on to a new chapter. Gave most of the baby clothes away or sold them. Gave baby toys away. Three months later, God had different plans and I found out I was expecting! My oldest will be 9 next week, 6 years old, and 7 months old. There is a 5.5 year gap. Things are going well. I have to say certain things are a bit easier when there the two oldest are in school. I'm 35.
I mean either do it or stop talking about it 😂
@@jessicazimmerman9126 other moms can relate to me not being sure whether to have another baby. I will continue to talk about it but thanks
I think we all wonder what it would be like with one more. That’s normal .
I'm feeling the same way too 😅my husband has a vasectomy tho but I definitely feel it tho mine have the same age gap i go back and fourth but I know three is right for me we will make good grandmas 🤣
I think you talked yourself out of it in this video. 😂
Girl you have millions just do it 😂
Aww just do one more 😊
What if you have another boy?
Have another one I did two and two is good🌸😃🤱
Girl. Just go for it. If guy want to possibly try for a fourth DO IT! If your questioning? DO IT! It’s all in God’s hands and if feels a fourth is right, it’ll happen if not, it won’t happen!
You sound content though. You would know 100% and not be content. Also what does Alex say?
Why is every kid you say you’re done and then views get low and you’re like nope again
As hard as it was for you to get pregnant with the other children, I'm so surprised that you even practiced any family planning.
I was 37 years old when I gave birth.
When I was growing up most families had four to six to eight children. Women nowadays give up too soon. I think there's something to be said for raising a village. I said to a friend of mine the other day that if I could have kept having kids in my 40s 50s I would have done so. I would have spaced them all out and done so because one day they'll all be gone and likely won't even live in the same state.
Yes you're tired. Moms are always tired. I agree that you'll never be sorrowful that you had another one but you could be sorrowful that you didn't have more.
We thought we were done 3 kids ago, but God quickly reminded us who is the author of our story. I’m 41 and just had my 7th. 🥹❤️ God is good and already knows our story.