How to Date Finnish Men with ENG SUB (Interview)

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  • Опубликовано: 20 янв 2025

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  • @AleksiHimself
    @AleksiHimself  2 года назад

    Want to learn more about dating Finns? Sign up for my FREE Dating Finns Webinar: aleksihimself.com/date

    • @lorenamacedo18
      @lorenamacedo18 Год назад

      I have a friend from Finns..he is my best in the world 😊..

  • @annikaukkonen
    @annikaukkonen 2 года назад +65

    As a foreigner woman, I really enjoy listening to Finnish men speak, this language so reveals the depth of their voices!

  • @puttachatlekkhaeng8623
    @puttachatlekkhaeng8623 7 лет назад +272

    I met my Finnish boyfriend in the restaurent. He was really shy and i had to started talking first. Finnish guys are kind, generous and honest. The most important is Finnish guys are handsome. Hahaha

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +20

      Thanks for sharing your story! What kind of situation was it? How did you manage to break the ice? :D And hats off for you for being so brave! Girls who take action are awesome!

    • @puttachatlekkhaeng8623
      @puttachatlekkhaeng8623 7 лет назад +18

      Aleksi Himself. We were in the Thai restaurent. Our table were near each other and he was eating thai food but not the right way. So i just asked where he from and told him how to eat it. Then we had conversations after that.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +10

      Great! Taking action paid off for you. :)

    • @sannamati4571
      @sannamati4571 5 лет назад +3

      There is less good looking girls in Finland, and its competition, Good looking girls are mostly taken

    • @nihankik
      @nihankik 3 года назад +2

      @@sannamati4571 i think Finnish girls are so beautiful

  • @kannu5067
    @kannu5067 7 лет назад +169

    As a Finnish woman, I actually found this helpful...

  • @ShelbyLou297
    @ShelbyLou297 Год назад +16

    I have a Finnish husband, and the advice I would give for dating a Finnish man is don’t be surprised if you’re the one to ask him on a date or to make the first move etc. 😄 Also to be aware of cultural differences in dating. I’m American, and I was a little bit offended when he didn’t pay for my meal on a date until I learned that’s not usually the custom in Finland where women are more equal, which I appreciate!

  • @claudemountain6035
    @claudemountain6035 7 лет назад +90

    The guy in the turtleneck on the left in the beginning is drop dead gorgeous, no homo. I mean, there are a lot of handsome ones there, but he takes the cake.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад

      Thanks for the comment! :P

    • @Me_di
      @Me_di Год назад

      Guy at 8.9 is also great. Just dressed like that

  • @Rook1979
    @Rook1979 6 лет назад +53

    I love the sound of the spoken language!!

  • @wholesome122
    @wholesome122 7 лет назад +105

    My husband is an American Finn but damn every single one of these dudes could be his cousin.

  • @That0neMonkey
    @That0neMonkey 7 лет назад +334

    My goodness is everyone in Finland that good looking? What a bunch of cute boys!!!

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +56

      Thanks for the comment! These guys were all engineer major so at least we got some hot engineers around here. :😀

    • @nooravaylio
      @nooravaylio 7 лет назад +19

      you're literally the first one to say that haha :D

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +14

      I hope not the last either!

    • @nooravaylio
      @nooravaylio 7 лет назад +3

      Aleksi Himself yep, cause that opinion wasn't the most popular😂

    • @That0neMonkey
      @That0neMonkey 7 лет назад +20

      I stand by my comment, I think these boys are adorable!!!!

  • @MWOODYARD
    @MWOODYARD 4 года назад +30

    I love hearing spoken Finnish! I'm about to start learning it as a second major in college (since the plan is to move to Finland), and I'm so excited to get going. Wish me luck!

    • @theeggbreadguy3799
      @theeggbreadguy3799 2 года назад +6

      Good luck! Finnish is hard even to us Finnish people, so don't worry if you don't succeed immediately

    • @missyo1283
      @missyo1283 7 месяцев назад

      Wonderful choice ❤️

    • @cupidok2768
      @cupidok2768 6 месяцев назад

      I thought they were quiet but they talked a lot and explained a lot cause the education system allowed them to do speaking activities

  • @schnappzappschmetter3871
    @schnappzappschmetter3871 7 лет назад +154

    I just realised, that the Finnish language sounds really sexy. I guess, I am going to pick up learning it again.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +8

      +Schnappzapp Schmetter thanks for the comment! There will be soon a video how you can learn Finnish fast. Stay tuned!

    • @schnappzappschmetter3871
      @schnappzappschmetter3871 7 лет назад +2

      That could be helpfull, thank you. I already bought a book and did some work with it. The Finnish grammar reveals an interesting view at the world. Unfortunately I´m stuck in learning for my master exams right now, so I don´t have any time left for new languages.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +3

      I see. The language video will be up in a few hours! ;)

  • @josedelsud
    @josedelsud 7 лет назад +93

    As a gay guy I can tell you that meeting people is not hard but to build a relationship requires time, effort, sincerity like in st8 relationships, thanks Aleksis for this cool video. kiitos Aleksis tästä viileästä videosta, Toivotan teille parasta elämässäsi.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +21

      Thanks for the comment! Maybe you noticed already, but one of the guys in this video was gay and he had really cool opinions.

    • @josedelsud
      @josedelsud 7 лет назад +7

      Joo! komeat miehet Suomessa, minulla on ystäviä Helsingissä, Jyväskylässä ja Turussa (ne ovat str8), mutta niin monet ihmiset ajattelevat suomalaisista, olet lämmin, kohtelias ja enimmäkseen avoin ajattelevainen (on joitain sosiaalisia väärinkäytöksiä, suljettu kuten koko maailma), mutta olen ollut onnekas löytää nämä ystävät.

    • @0Quiwi0
      @0Quiwi0 7 лет назад +4

      The guy talking about beards might be the one :)

    • @fabianosilva3918
      @fabianosilva3918 2 года назад

      Vamos nos conhecer, sou do Brasil, vamos o Instagram?

  • @juksu9688
    @juksu9688 6 лет назад +36

    As a finnish man I can completely relate to many of these answers. Humor definitely plays a huge part for me :) We are not really taught how to small talk and even tho it might sound disappointing 'pointless' chatter is not really the way to go here. Sense of humor and common interests bring people closer in Finland. We are interested to know you and if you find the right person you can definitely end up having the most deep and meaningful conversations with a finnish person. Good video! Hyvä video!

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  6 лет назад +1

      Thanks for the comment Juksu!

    • @fabianosilva3918
      @fabianosilva3918 2 года назад

      Estou solteiro Gato 😍 topa um brasileiro 😻😏

    • @liloruf2838
      @liloruf2838 6 месяцев назад

      As a german woman, meaningful conversations are definitely a turn on for me 🫠

  • @shelby7090
    @shelby7090 7 лет назад +39

    I met my boyfriend in Amarillo! Our eyes met and then we danced. He said he was from Holland but I didn't believe him because he is so clearly Finnish. He thought I was joking when I said I was american. I was glad he could speak English, because we danced for a long time before we ever spoke. 😍 He is such a typical Finn and a great guy. 😋

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +1

      Such a romantic story! Thanks for sharing. :D

    • @fabianosilva3918
      @fabianosilva3918 2 года назад

      Oi lindo como vc está? Namoraria um brasileiro?

  • @ki_alexa_5987
    @ki_alexa_5987 6 лет назад +42

    My boyfriend is finnish and really shy...but that's soooo cute😍when we met for the first time, he just stared at me very weird, but now we are happy :D

  • @loredanab4389
    @loredanab4389 2 года назад +13

    I'm watching this again after some 4-5 years after I first saw it, to see how much I understand without reading the subtitles. And I understand what they're saying!! And they seem waaay more familiar, now that I see people like them every day around me. ☺ And sooo many guys are as sweet as these guys in the video, so, ladies, you know what to do. 😉

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  2 года назад +1

      Consistency is the key and brings long-term results. 😎

  • @VampireKiller999
    @VampireKiller999 6 лет назад +22

    Finnish people are so kind and friendly !

  • @AleksiHimself
    @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +53

    Thanks to every guy who participated. I hope girls are taking notes!

    • @AngelusaNobilis
      @AngelusaNobilis 7 лет назад +3

      Aleksi Himself I am. If only I could afford to move there :'(

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +1

      Maybe in the future? Keep working on your dream and it will eventually come true. :)

    • @loredanab4389
      @loredanab4389 6 лет назад

      I ran into one of them in the street in Tampere!! And didn't have the courage to go talk to him. How Finnish of me. :D

  • @blognroses3161
    @blognroses3161 4 года назад +5

    The guy at 5.36 is not only reaaaally handsome and kind, but we also have the same approach on dating. Yes, humor, movies, restaurants and most importantly, taking a walk, is a great way to get to know someone in depth. Also the guy at 2.15 was so right in everything he said about looking for the special one. Oh guys, you made me want to learn some Finnish now. I love how the language sounds.

  • @aaabee5440
    @aaabee5440 7 месяцев назад +2

    they are so peaceful, no drama guys. There is something very soothing in these guys. Thank you for making this video in Finnish, sounds so good.

  • @NorfolkEnchants
    @NorfolkEnchants 7 лет назад +23

    Oh God I feel I am too old to be watching this but my love of Kimi Raikkonen brought me here! He's not the only very attractive Finnish man!

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +2

      I'm not judging you! Kimi is pretty confident and kind of a bad boy. :P

  • @giadixon8934
    @giadixon8934 5 лет назад +8

    1. I like how practical they are. 2. The guy at 4:30 is so right.

  • @215blasian
    @215blasian 6 лет назад +39

    I'm black and my love is finish he's the best man I've ever meet so sweet with such a good heart

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  6 лет назад +3

      Thanks Gina and I'm happy for you. :)

    • @ElizabethGonzalez-jt7ns
      @ElizabethGonzalez-jt7ns 6 лет назад +6

      Di Cheng ... girl talk to me. I’m Dominican and I have a finish guy who wants to date me. I know absolutely nothing about their culture.

  • @liloruf2838
    @liloruf2838 6 месяцев назад +2

    Just met a finnish man at the portugal vs. slowenia europe cup. Sooo cute and respectful!

  • @yerank3140
    @yerank3140 6 лет назад +5

    Hi these is Thais. thanks for these video. Every single think is right. I am West Armenian from Turkey My husbant is Finnish and we have a little daughter Regina. I want to say also from here that I love him.

  • @RC-zf7hp
    @RC-zf7hp 4 года назад +1

    Minulla on suomalainen ystävä, joka inspiroi minua oppimaan suomea. Suomi on kaunis maa, jossa on ainutlaatuisia kauniita ihmisiä. Watching your videos helps me pick up some Finnish words. Keep it up!

  • @ibrahimyaman9968
    @ibrahimyaman9968 4 года назад +29

    Finnish language is like elfish:) it sounds so mystical. I hope to learn this language.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  4 года назад +1

      Go for it!

    • @mentalbreakdownwithilayda1646
      @mentalbreakdownwithilayda1646 4 года назад

      Türksün galiba, öğrendin mi?

    • @ospehu1
      @ospehu1 Год назад +1

      You know that J.R.R Tolkien was huge fan of Finnish language right? And before he wrote LOTR he actually read the Finnish National eppos of Kalevala. And he mixed Finnish and old irish and scothis to form elfish in LOTR before he write it. So No Wonder our language sounds like elfhis to you. 😅

  • @QPrincessJustice435
    @QPrincessJustice435 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for your videos. I met a finnish guy online through a dating site
    and we talked for some time and now on skype and I haven’t heard from him much recently for awhile, but he did say hes going through a lot right now with his family (parents, siblings) since hes main financial provider for them. I really hope he’s okay. Finnish language sounds beautiful to me and I wouldn’t mind going to school there to get my masters degree. Plus, I could use a fresh start in life, too. I am now looking into learning how to speak finnish too. :) Thank you so much for your advice.

  • @PS-ru2ov
    @PS-ru2ov 6 лет назад +25

    the guy in the blue shirt at the beginning is gorgeous i want a Suomi boy friend

  • @supernovax6867
    @supernovax6867 5 лет назад +43

    Blonde blue-eyed men are the sexiest, most handsome men in the world!

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  5 лет назад +4

      Good stuff!

    • @ipanema7446
      @ipanema7446 5 лет назад +6

      Agreed! They're so tall, manly, and handsome! Love from Brazil! 🇧🇷 😍

    • @freckleheckler6311
      @freckleheckler6311 4 года назад +1

      Ipanema what about the red haired green/blue eyed ones? Some are pretty some are not from my observations

    • @karimebat4296
      @karimebat4296 4 года назад +2

      not true

    • @Србомбоница86
      @Србомбоница86 4 года назад +1

      @@ipanema7446 tall for sure,manly NEVER:)))

  • @nostalgiaxx-fc38
    @nostalgiaxx-fc38 7 лет назад +47

    in contrast to dating around and being called a slut, I have never dated anyone and I am afraid to admit that...
    My friends keep asking me why don't I ever date anyone but I just don't feel like I have met the right person.
    Sometimes I met some guys through unnatural encounters (like on the street or in a random cafe) I do agree that these encounters are not good encounters people were usually nice at first but then became sleazy eventually...
    I am not confident enough to tell others (except close frds) that I have never had a boyfriend because I feel like they will find me super weird lol

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +16

      Thanks for the comment! That's not a bad thing at all. Being single is fun too. I've spent most of my youth as a single and I'm glad I did, cos I had nothing to stop me. :P If you have a hobby or an interest, you can try going to a hobby circle etc. to meet people who have similar interests (just as the guys advised here :D)

    • @soukial3963
      @soukial3963 7 лет назад +27

      As someone who dated the first time at 25 and never had a boyfriend, and never ever regretted the wait, I can tell you with confidence: do your thing! You're not weird. You have a standard. You have a whole life ahead of you to meet people that are on that standard or better. Then you'll have really fulfilling experiences instead of meaningless drama. Take that time to know yourself, build your character, follow your aspirations, etc. There is nothing rushing you and there is no reason to be shy about it. And I agree meeting someone at unit, at an activity or a sport club/event is a nice option since there is already common ground to start from.

    • @nostalgiaxx-fc38
      @nostalgiaxx-fc38 7 лет назад

      Soukaina Ch. Alaoui

    • @turnertaylor97
      @turnertaylor97 7 лет назад +3

      Nostalgia xx
      it's ok! !!
      your not alone. that's actually a pretty reasonable worry.

    • @leticiaaraujo2476
      @leticiaaraujo2476 3 года назад +2

      I'm 21and like you I never dated before, people really think i'm a weird, but i just never found the right person. So I totally feel you...

  • @pet_ricia
    @pet_ricia 7 лет назад +52

    Hahah I'm Polish and I met Finnish guy on the web three months ago. Wish me good luck 😂 (and yes, thanks to my little experience, everything is true 😁)
    I love blonde men, Finland looks like heaven!

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +1

      Nice! On Tinder? Good luck! ^^

    • @pet_ricia
      @pet_ricia 7 лет назад +1

      Aleksi Himself nope, Instagram 😂

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад

      Wow interesting! How did that happen if I may ask? :P

    • @pet_ricia
      @pet_ricia 7 лет назад

      If you don't mind I prefer to talk in private.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +2

      That's okay. If you mean you want to share it in private, you can get in touch with me on my other social media channels. :)

  • @momozuke2757
    @momozuke2757 7 лет назад +13

    Thank you for this video, it helped me plan my first date with my Finnish crush :))

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +1

      Nice! Where are you from yourself if I may ask?

    • @momozuke2757
      @momozuke2757 7 лет назад +3

      Aleksi Himself I’m from California, but my parents are from Japan.

  • @distantfable4824
    @distantfable4824 7 лет назад +19

    I'm lucky I've already gotten myself a Finnish man; looking to move to Finland soon also :)
    From watching this video a lot of the things these guys comment on our ones that we did indeed do (( also helps that we both a have a very dry sense of humou )) but honestly I have to say Finnish people in general are incredibly, very kind and modest also-I've not only fallen in love with a Finn but the country and all it's culture too.

    • @distantfable4824
      @distantfable4824 7 лет назад

      Excuse my mistakes :) it happens when I try to text fast.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад

      That's great! I'm happy for you. :)

    • @distantfable4824
      @distantfable4824 7 лет назад

      Thank you! :)
      The language is causing me a few problems though

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад

      You should my video about WordDive for Finnish tips!

  • @mayaj2354
    @mayaj2354 7 лет назад +22

    omg thank you so much for making this video! XD
    I have things for Finland, especially their language, and there's this Finn guy I've been talking to lately (I have a huge crush on him 😂😂) can't wait to visit him next year 😆

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +1

      Thanks for the comment! I'm happy that my video provided value for you. Where are you from yourself? Good luck with the Finnish guy. 😉

    • @mayaj2354
      @mayaj2354 7 лет назад +1

      Aleksi Himself I'm from Indonesia and he lives in Lahti 😆 have you ever been to Bali?? you should totally visit Indonesia sometime 😀👌

    • @toefi_
      @toefi_ 7 лет назад

      Mayaza Valiantdri I hope you'll have great time when you visit Finland!

  • @gwendolynibarra18
    @gwendolynibarra18 5 лет назад +11

    I totally loved this video! It physically made me laugh sometimes with their responses! Did you choose the good looking ones on purpose or everyone is just that handsome? 😂

  • @alvina9693
    @alvina9693 7 лет назад +11

    After watching this video I think Finnish guys are shy but they would like to get to know her at the same time also and that why they pick activities that both can do while getting to know each other without feeling awkward. I have a Finnish boyfriend and he is also a shy one 😂

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +2

      Thanks for the comment Alvina! I hope you enjoy having a FInnish BF :P

  • @catherinene1111
    @catherinene1111 3 года назад +7

    The most sympathetic guy for me was the one talking about feminine girls and bold knights :) Person has his opinion and is saying it honestly. My respect.

  • @DanielRodriguez-do3ib
    @DanielRodriguez-do3ib 4 года назад +4

    Finn guys seem to have so many fans around europe. It makes a contrast with the more outgoing and cheecky italians and spanish for example. Its the mix between cute and shy and funny hehe. You guys rock! I do find though that most of finns are with finns girls, they do not mix so much as other cultures. Is there any reason why?

  • @Agriking
    @Agriking 7 лет назад +49

    Haha, this makes me want to learn better Finnish.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +2

      I'm glad I can provide some motivation! ^^

  • @Omoro192
    @Omoro192 5 лет назад +7

    9:16 this guy was cute but don't worry Aleksi you are still my favorite

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  5 лет назад

      Thanks for the comment Indiana Abarca!

  • @efhn
    @efhn 5 лет назад +6

    I have blond hair and blue eyes and from finland-everybody does. Nice if someone thihks its special

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  5 лет назад +2

      Being different is attractive. ;)

    • @Wolf741000
      @Wolf741000 5 лет назад +1

      nope, there a lot of brown hair and brown eyed Finns in the NOrth

    •  4 года назад

      Jun Bug Sami Asians

  • @upscaleavenue
    @upscaleavenue Месяц назад +1

    My god, they are absolutely gorgeous! Natural blonds!!! 😍

  • @rainn5571
    @rainn5571 Год назад

    This was a very interesting video. Lots of fun. I must say, though, that what I really noticed was the fact that the Finnish responses were soooo much longer than the English subtitles!!! OMG! Your language is quite involved!

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Год назад +1

      I was lazy with the subtitles back then and did not subtitle every single word. :D

  • @Virveli88
    @Virveli88 7 лет назад +3

    Enpä tiennyt odottavani tätä videota. Aivan loistava. :D

  • @timetoknow3252
    @timetoknow3252 7 лет назад +1

    Really God idea , every body has it's own way to get the situation for dating,but it is better and easier for someone gentle in his way and also must be ready to feed love instead of waiting only , Mutta Mahtavaa juttu Aleks.

  • @tripcode1722
    @tripcode1722 4 года назад +2

    Very informative. Did you just pick the hot ones, or is this a usual level of attractiveness for Finnish men? 😋
    While there are trends, I like how this also highlights the way that attraction is very individualistic. Great video!

    • @imaginaryfriend6409
      @imaginaryfriend6409 3 года назад

      but if your finnish like me then you attract to foreigners and not so much in finnish men haha

    • @tripcode1722
      @tripcode1722 3 года назад

      @@imaginaryfriend6409 Well, I'm American and I also like foreign men, but for me, foreign men also includes Finnish men, lol.

  • @marikabournes9703
    @marikabournes9703 Год назад +4

    These Finnish men are beautiful 😊 from an Irish girl

  • @lillylazer429
    @lillylazer429 7 лет назад +52

    Wow Finland has some cuties

  • @camilaveg
    @camilaveg 3 года назад

    The guy in 2:00 is so cute! Looks a sweet and nice guy! 😍

  • @phambee8842
    @phambee8842 6 лет назад +1

    Lol now i know more about finnish guy. My speacial one is from Finland and it was the best dating i've ever had. Now he came back FL but we still keep in touch though.:) he's kind, shy, gentle, and always cooking for me when we meet, that's why i loved him.😂

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  6 лет назад +1

      That's great!

    • @phambee8842
      @phambee8842 6 лет назад

      Aleksi Himself - Videos about Finland :) yes, wish can meet more .lol

  • @larissa.laisla
    @larissa.laisla 6 лет назад +8

    Even if I decided to take notes, I've never met one single Finnish person in my life hahaha but actually they did not say anything revolutionary, I guess I would be okay :)

  • @Никто-к4э
    @Никто-к4э 6 лет назад

    that is very interesting. Thank you.
    I liked their last advice, seemed very supportive and reasonable
    I am thinking of moving to Finland to do my Master's. My relatives live there but I don't speak Finnish just yet...

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  6 лет назад

      There are plenty of international master programs here. You can learn while studying.

  • @elisestarday6372
    @elisestarday6372 4 года назад +1

    I haven't had the best of luck meeting a handsome, kind, Finnish man! Have I looked around the wrong places?!

  • @hanac5586
    @hanac5586 7 лет назад +42

    Rakastan kuinka laajasti osa käyttää niiden sanavarastoa :D

  • @shamymanavie5096
    @shamymanavie5096 3 года назад +2

    The first 2 men talking looks like they're the descendants of Queen Jadis of Narnia. lol

  • @tsigaraki_arvyla_xasan
    @tsigaraki_arvyla_xasan 5 лет назад

    Aleksi, I know it's related to the video, but I think you'd look absolutely great with a beard!

  • @missyo1283
    @missyo1283 7 месяцев назад

    My partner is Finnish we met theough a game called Evony, He is 7 years younger than me lol and i am Mixedrace(black) English lol, but he came ro see me in England, i plan to go in my first ever foight at 35 to finland next month I'm so excited, Finnish folk are my kind of introverts lol and apparently its the happiest country in the world, and he is the best man in the world, i recommended darong a dinniah man if you want to feel true love ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Sabri23lintu
    @Sabri23lintu 6 лет назад +5

    XD I find funny that everyone talks about humor :D I'm Argentinian and my boyfriend is Finnish and that's how our relationship started, first we became really close friends because it was fun to be together!!!! :D actually, I visited him in February and we went to his university, the one in ur video!! Kiitos Aleksi, it was fun! as the other videos I've watched from you XD

  • @iceshades
    @iceshades 2 года назад +1

    I got carried away with my personal story :) Any tips on how to deal with 40+ men and mixed signals?

  • @nilmisirli9483
    @nilmisirli9483 5 лет назад +2

    the finnish guy i met at a park in helsinki this summer was the cutest ever! sigh :( !

  • @LaGiaGarcia
    @LaGiaGarcia 2 года назад +1

    I'm just picturing myself getting clocked in the face with a frisbee in front of a guy I like haha.

  • @thandazapiliso6392
    @thandazapiliso6392 3 года назад

    I enjoyed this video😂😂😂😂😂💖

  • @aztecdune
    @aztecdune Год назад +2

    I met my Finnish husband because we were friends on Facebook. He wasn't very shy. 😂

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Год назад +1

      Did he make the first move?

    • @aztecdune
      @aztecdune Год назад

      @@AleksiHimself yes, he did. Weird!

  • @igocano2942
    @igocano2942 Год назад +1

    Hi there Alex, I'm Asian I had a finn guy friend who admitted he likes me. I used not to like finns because I have encountered a rude one before but he is really nice to me but not consistent I guess like I don't want to do the move either because I was raised from a conservative family😂

  • @hannesk7800
    @hannesk7800 4 года назад +2

    I watched one video and went on a youtube rabbit hole that took me here. I'm a guy, and Finnish. Why am I even watching this?

    • @tripcode1722
      @tripcode1722 4 года назад +1

      That's how I got here too. I'm American and I've never been to Finland, and have never met a Finn. I don't know how I got here either, lol.

  • @valhoundmom
    @valhoundmom 5 лет назад

    These guys are very brave. They are mostly NOT comfortable with this but getting past the discomfort. One thing, since when is a silence a problem for a Finn? 😄

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  5 лет назад +1

      Silence is a natural thing for Finns. :)

  • @anacalderon6841
    @anacalderon6841 4 года назад +6

    I would date somebody only if my shyness allows me to do that D:
    New sub, btw!

  • @theturkccc2706
    @theturkccc2706 6 лет назад +1

    0:42 what is his name Aleksii?? (the left)

  • @MonMon-qu5cd
    @MonMon-qu5cd 4 года назад +1

    I'M HERE FOR THE COMMENTS. wohooo!!

  • @anneofgreengables1619
    @anneofgreengables1619 6 лет назад +1

    Loving that air horn lol!

  • @iceshades
    @iceshades 2 года назад

    Ouchh, now I'm even more confused!! 😫I'm used to men who come forward and chase a lot... Even Finns were like that some years ago... but nowadays I'm sooo in love with one (40+), at first he began chasing me, but only fell for him many years later when we finally had a chat 😭 He acted flawlessly, even made me join his close group of friends (they quickly ran though, to leave us by ourselves!), then had a 1-on-1 encounter and without any pressure from me he said he had a long and terrible relationship and doesn't want anything anymore... Few months later, checked on him just to say hi. He shocked me with some veeery long, letter-like replies, sharing his plans, future dreams, fears, memories, along with asking questions about me. Super polite, always apologising for the smallest delay... then BOOM! He vanished... No mistake on my side, don't know what in the world happened... Im not too confident and I already feel I've done enough chasing him... But it's him I want! His friends are also pretty damn shocked that he's so stuck on being single for years...

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  2 года назад

      Sorry to hear that. Shit happens sometimes. It's better to move on a keep looking for a better one.

  • @errorbanana5063
    @errorbanana5063 7 лет назад +8

    Onko Yuta Aoki inspiroinut sinua? :D

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +3

      On itse asiassa. Oon seurannu sen kanavaa jo ennen kuin lähdin Japaniin ja tosiaan näihin haastatteluvideoihin saanut häneltä inspistä.

  • @enokart1826
    @enokart1826 7 лет назад +2

    OMG, who is he 6:20?

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад +2

      Some random student at my school. :)

  • @perlazywicz4684
    @perlazywicz4684 2 года назад +1

    The Finnish, Beuatiful Boys. 😍

  • @modapink4023
    @modapink4023 3 года назад +2

    😍😍 Qué guapos !!

  • @elizabethfarias9104
    @elizabethfarias9104 5 лет назад +1

    Wondering how much a one way ticket from California to Helsinki is...

  • @cristinetulio982
    @cristinetulio982 4 года назад +1

    I fall involve with Finnish guys because of this video...

  • @riyariya3481
    @riyariya3481 3 года назад +2

    God Finnish men can talk finally

  • @AngloAm
    @AngloAm 6 лет назад +1

    Do all these apply with gay Finnish guys as well? And is "don't overdo it" the Finnish National Motto?

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  6 лет назад

      I guess so and I think that is not a motto here.

  •  7 лет назад +5

    ooh nice!

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад

      +Ihana Pön take some notes Juliana. 😀

    •  7 лет назад

      I already KNOW how to date a Finnish man. :D

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  7 лет назад

      Well in that case you should do the next video about the topic. :P

  • @bellaalaverd7400
    @bellaalaverd7400 4 года назад +1

    Love finish language

  • @georginabrigs1891
    @georginabrigs1891 4 года назад +2

    I am going to meet a finnish man soon!!!

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  4 года назад

      Great!

    • @georginabrigs1891
      @georginabrigs1891 4 года назад +2

      I dont want to expect too much. But i wish(not hoping) that he's my soulmate. Lol. We met during my finland trip before quarantine. And im going back again to visit him. But more of a friendly meetup. But i like him already. We do chat often. and always compliments me more of my personality. Which i am really flattered as i know finna do really mean it. Right? He's nice, and never he talked about sex. If he's not the one i would rather stay single for the rest of my life.

  • @blaiseducdaumont1280
    @blaiseducdaumont1280 2 года назад

    Are the Finns completely opposed to arrange marriages??
    I think it would be so much easier for the introverts.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  2 года назад +1

      Arranged marriages are not a thing here.

  • @alemon2367
    @alemon2367 4 года назад +1

    People In The Comments REALLY Seem To Like Finnish Men...

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  4 года назад +2

      Can't blame them. They have a good taste.

  • @nasreen9252
    @nasreen9252 6 лет назад +4

    There are so "HANDSOME" 😍

  • @SAESomethingAboutEverything
    @SAESomethingAboutEverything 3 года назад +3

    Did you only sample handsome men or are all men in Finland handsome 😍

  • @makarailla
    @makarailla 3 года назад +1

    Suomi 💙🇫🇮

  • @georgiananesu6317
    @georgiananesu6317 3 года назад +1

    I see finnish awsomeness

  • @servantofallah8029
    @servantofallah8029 6 лет назад +13

    Im Arab and i have this crush on a finnish guy

  • @Elizabeth-mf3dn
    @Elizabeth-mf3dn 6 лет назад

    I like your Pikachu microphone!

  • @reklamy_iq
    @reklamy_iq 2 года назад

    Hahaa very wise answers!

  • @CarolinaCarolBela
    @CarolinaCarolBela 6 лет назад +4

    Why wasn’t I born in Finland 😫?

  • @jiboopiu6609
    @jiboopiu6609 5 лет назад +1

    I'm half romanian and half italian..I can tell finnish boys it's what I'm looking for ahahah

  • @SerenityGillis
    @SerenityGillis 7 месяцев назад

    Pika!❤ 🇺🇲

  • @basaka00
    @basaka00 5 лет назад +2

    I'm a gay latino and I would like to meet a Finnish guy

  • @Txitxitt
    @Txitxitt 5 лет назад +4

    So beautiful men😱🖤

  • @LadySialeeds
    @LadySialeeds 5 лет назад +5

    0:26 The left guy is hella hot !

  • @maysusana1
    @maysusana1 6 лет назад +1

    And are they already have GF or still being single?

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  6 лет назад

      There are plenty of single guys in Finland. ;)

    • @maysusana1
      @maysusana1 6 лет назад

      Aleksi Himself - Videos about Finland : thanks for the information 😁👍

  • @ladysnake8449
    @ladysnake8449 4 года назад +3

    I want a blond Finnish man so bad! 😍💜

    • @robinlindholm1525
      @robinlindholm1525 3 года назад

      I got light brown hair, is that good enough?

    • @fUNNY-do6rb
      @fUNNY-do6rb 3 года назад +3

      @@robinlindholm1525 dye it blond