Mtho just help us as men. I have been watching some dating platforms. So women tend to say they are looking for love, but all the sudden they are looking for someone to take care of them financially
@@OpenChatsPodcast My bad just seeing this, The complexity of being on the same page in relationships. I like to hear perspectives that I may not have considered or haven't heard from. Doesn't mean i always agree but I can appreciate the open chat...no pun intended. Peace and Love
I am a recent open chats podcast viewer and by far, every episode I have watched is very insightful and eye opening. You are doing a great job. Keep it up gents.🙏
High level thinking gents 👌🏾and man of the match goes to Carlos... I feel like Reece did not have a strong stance in his argument, which made him sound contradictory but otherwise his a passionate speaker... Big ups gents ✊🏾
@@OpenChatsPodcast fact...i love that you guys always talk reality, this podcast has changed me, i now view things deferent @eldruw_zambia all the way from the mother land 🇿🇲
I enjoy this podcast I just want to make a point. When y’all said a gent can date a hun below him but we can’t do that as honeys. In most cases gents want to always have an upper hand in the relationship. For example, some gents want to call the shots in everything especially if he knows he’s providing and if he knows his honey loves money so she can tolerate/accept any form of disrespect/ demands he my have. So gents are also not good people as much you said women aren’t Mtho. Fodo made a valid point when he said we not natural providers. Some women are willing to grow with gents. This topic needed women to be there because y’all are advocating for us as if most of us are like that. It’s better raising points based on your experience with women rather on generalisation. Overall it was a great episode🎉36:13
Another Great Episode 🔥🔥💯.... But eish it took another sharp curve in the end 🤣🤣... Carlo's GPS lost some signal at the last moment 🤣🤣🤣.... But I truly enjoyed Gents. Big Ups
He was actually making a whole lota sense. As black and African men once you reach billionaire status you can expand your territory have 2 or 3 women extend your family have more children build them a secure big home send your many kids to best schools. There's a lot of beautiful hopeless single African woman without husbands . .unlike those white billionaires who are spending their money on sinking titanic ships and travelling to spaces
Topic suggestions- high value women traits, what makes her a 10.... whats the ideal woman for a high value man..... is a woman's submission/ respect for you influenced by how a man treats her
Interesting episode indeed.Lot of thoughts were shared which is amazing. I don’t necessarily agree with Mtho’s opinion on females being bad people because they wouldn’t go for a Kasi men.This is because unlike men,women have to take into consideration facts like whether the men she’s attracted to will manage to run a household,especially financially.So it isn’t a smart move to settle with someone who has no vision or is content with little or has a small mindset.Men get to choose if they want to be part of a kids life or not,women don’t really get to.I’m not saying that all rich men are responsible men but it is best to go for a harding working men to ensure a better life for your children too.Hence why women have to take a man’s financially state into consideration when choosing a spouse. Men turn to feel emasculated when the female makes more money for many reasons.Men value other men’s opinions more & society isn’t accustomed to women having an upper hand financially so even if the woman respect her man,a man in such a position is bound to feel insecure since money is associated with power thus making the women in control especially in the eyes of society & another thing is most men turn to lose respect for a man in that position.That automatically wounds a man’s ego leading to a beginning of a lot of unnecessary problems in that relationship.Cause that really messes up with a man psychologically big time and honestly why would one choosen to have to deal with all that.Just to add up , it’s attractive to be in relationship with a manly man and him enjoying being a provider and I’m sure it feels good to take care of the woman you love just because you can and want to
Hey gang, one of the great topics. "Don't you think people should create more churches" That's should be a topic on its own cos it's very interesting on what views can come out
Gents. . Great work and relevant topics, also being realistic with logic!! That’s the type of thinking we need, “who set the rules”?. . Think about it we grow up living our lives based on another man’s opinion of what life should be. . High level thinking chief!!
I still think it's impossible to love more than one person There's no draw in love two or more people One has to be top. In a situation where you feel or think that you love them both, there's just care for another person (or maybe some other personal selfish reasons) otherwise you can't love 2 or more people at a go.
You guys are not seeing the whole picture though, Women wanna be courted so if the dude from Hamanskraal could find the confidence in himself to court the C.O.O lady then he has a chance bruh, Women need a leader even much more than a provider these days.
@OpenChatsPodcast LOL, it will my nigga, as long as you guys are not broke, security and provision is about a lot more than just finances. Women are more complicated than you can imagine, it's not a simple case of most money means you get the best woman, trust me bro, one drunk man is smarter than 3 women with Phd's😂
Omw what was Karlo saying at the end 😭😭which lady will encourage you to take another wife so they have stability, infact as a woman if my husband is rich and we have a beautiful family together I want that to myself I dont wanna share it with anyone😭😭😭😭✋️✋️
Lol 😂😂 it's a painful reality to imagine I know because it means that your childhood fantasy would be destroyed or atleast adjusted. Lol if it was an encouraged norm that the type of "good" man you imagine for your self must be shared mutually, it would mean you still get to have it all, but not all to yourself...share the good man, free the good brother...😂😂 Chances are the man of your dreams , appears in others woman's dreams as well.. they also have good dreams 😂
Love is the foundation of a good mariage not financial capabilities Does the rich guy want to have multiple wives 🤷♂️😂 is what should be considered first
I wish I was on this episode😭 I would have ate this topic up. I definitely disagree with Fodo_blackstyles and k_hadouken, they don't understand what they are speaking about because of their experience not for what it really is. They sound really conditioned. I love this podcast, can I please come on the show to speak😢🙏
I think we as men we should have a better understanding of the fact that we are expected to provide. And be grateful for the fact that whenever someone expect you to provide, they actually see value in you. And they actually acknowledge that you are able to provide. And if no one is expecting you to provide, I guess you should work on your self. 💔😩 I'm just adding on what Khalo said about the thing of, they can take the money from you but they cannot take your ability to generate more. 🤘🏼
I don’t know whether Reece is a female hidden in a male body, but the truth of the matter is that Woman will hardly ever date downwards and hence there’s so many rich aunties nowadays, you may come as a gent that is refreshing but you only as good as a Ben 10 and it ends there…sadly. We need to remember as humans that we are just animals, watch national geographic you’ll learn a lot from so called animals about our behavior Great episode gents That other guy is a critical thinker, I like him reminds me of my gents back In varsity with my gents
🔥❤Hey gang ! Lets remember our culture of pressing the like button first
if you new to the podcast... this is our tradition..press like 😎
Mtho just help us as men. I have been watching some dating platforms. So women tend to say they are looking for love, but all the sudden they are looking for someone to take care of them financially
This podcast got the most relatable conversations ❤️🔥wish you could upload two episodes a week
Thank you
We working on it 🫡 🔥
I would agree. I can appreciate the subject matter
@@JAWANNTALKS what subject matter ?
@@OpenChatsPodcast My bad just seeing this, The complexity of being on the same page in relationships. I like to hear perspectives that I may not have considered or haven't heard from. Doesn't mean i always agree but I can appreciate the open chat...no pun intended. Peace and Love
I am a recent open chats podcast viewer and by far, every episode I have watched is very insightful and eye opening. You are doing a great job. Keep it up gents.🙏
Watching more than an hour, no skip,ain't bored man I love this podcast 😂❤ I would subscribe million times only if was possible
Thank you buddy… apreciate this 😂
@@OpenChatsPodcast women are not good people 🤣🤣lets not forget that
I love it very much
High level thinking gents 👌🏾and man of the match goes to Carlos... I feel like Reece did not have a strong stance in his argument, which made him sound contradictory but otherwise his a passionate speaker... Big ups gents ✊🏾
This man understands the value of stable households!!🌍🏘 Gems💎💎💎
Gems on gems
which man?
Brodas y'alls conversations are pure fire... repeatable. Keep up the amazing work gents. Y'all are on the way to theee Top floor(no cap)
Open chat come on .bring this broo on the next gents corner!!!watching your old episodes is a blast
I live for this podcast, It is the most relatable pod
The sense in Carlo's statement at the end!🔥🔥🔥✊
💯
When Mtho starts laughing i just can't hold it in😭😂😂
The Reece guy had valid points🤷♀️
"Women are not good people!" I'm already dying 😂😂😂😂
They not 😂😂
Riss is on the women's side gang... loving the facts being spoken here
Reece has always been for the ladies 🙌🔥
@@OpenChatsPodcast fact...i love that you guys always talk reality, this podcast has changed me, i now view things deferent @eldruw_zambia all the way from the mother land 🇿🇲
He is a natural hardcore feminist.
Love this Podcast❤. Keep em coming guys. 😭🔥
Carlo took another direction at the end yohhh aiii😂😂😂😂
he almost killed me that one 😂😂😂
Bro !! 😅😁😁🤣
I really enjoy the conversations you always have super mindful i wish you could upload more content otherwise A BIG THUMBS UP
Thanks Joseph!
Apreciate you man ! We working on it 🫡
Carlo is the Man of the Match 🎉🎉🎉
Hahah wait but did you hear what he said at the end 😳😳😂🤷♂️
@@OpenChatsPodcast😂
im happy i discovered this podcast
As a married woman. I actually like how ris is for us
Hahah how is he ?
@@OpenChatsPodcast I think what she meant was Reece is for us and not against us.
Obviously he is a feminist
I enjoy this podcast I just want to make a point. When y’all said a gent can date a hun below him but we can’t do that as honeys. In most cases gents want to always have an upper hand in the relationship. For example, some gents want to call the shots in everything especially if he knows he’s providing and if he knows his honey loves money so she can tolerate/accept any form of disrespect/ demands he my have. So gents are also not good people as much you said women aren’t Mtho.
Fodo made a valid point when he said we not natural providers. Some women are willing to grow with gents. This topic needed women to be there because y’all are advocating for us as if most of us are like that. It’s better raising points based on your experience with women rather on generalisation. Overall it was a great episode🎉36:13
Another Great Episode 🔥🔥💯.... But eish it took another sharp curve in the end 🤣🤣... Carlo's GPS lost some signal at the last moment 🤣🤣🤣.... But I truly enjoyed Gents.
Big Ups
He was actually making a whole lota sense. As black and African men once you reach billionaire status you can expand your territory have 2 or 3 women extend your family have more children build them a secure big home send your many kids to best schools. There's a lot of beautiful hopeless single African woman without husbands . .unlike those white billionaires who are spending their money on sinking titanic ships and travelling to spaces
Yea true Khalo really shocked everyone there hey … he lost it live on the podcast 😂🤣
Topic suggestions- high value women traits, what makes her a 10.... whats the ideal woman for a high value man..... is a woman's submission/ respect for you influenced by how a man treats her
Like these a lot … will forward to the team for sure 🔥🔥
Open chats podcast all the way❤️🔥
Yessss Lungi 😊😊
"Ive chosen my life is gonna be a difficult life"😂
We need more of these. You guys are very good👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿
Thank you … more is definitely coming
You can be with the one you love or love the one you with
no bring the guy in the middle back he is the best guest ive ever seen he is mature, maybe put him with lebo also, danko
Interesting episode indeed.Lot of thoughts were shared which is amazing. I don’t necessarily agree with Mtho’s opinion on females being bad people because they wouldn’t go for a Kasi men.This is because unlike men,women have to take into consideration facts like whether the men she’s attracted to will manage to run a household,especially financially.So it isn’t a smart move to settle with someone who has no vision or is content with little or has a small mindset.Men get to choose if they want to be part of a kids life or not,women don’t really get to.I’m not saying that all rich men are responsible men but it is best to go for a harding working men to ensure a better life for your children too.Hence why women have to take a man’s financially state into consideration when choosing a spouse. Men turn to feel emasculated when the female makes more money for many reasons.Men value other men’s opinions more & society isn’t accustomed to women having an upper hand financially so even if the woman respect her man,a man in such a position is bound to feel insecure since money is associated with power thus making the women in control especially in the eyes of society & another thing is most men turn to lose respect for a man in that position.That automatically wounds a man’s ego leading to a beginning of a lot of unnecessary problems in that relationship.Cause that really messes up with a man psychologically big time and honestly why would one choosen to have to deal with all that.Just to add up , it’s attractive to be in relationship with a manly man and him enjoying being a provider and I’m sure it feels good to take care of the woman you love just because you can and want to
Loving the chat ❤🔥🔥
Thank you 😊
🔥🔥🔥 love you guys, I am learning a lot from you, ,,and Recee remains my favourite ❤❤
Thank you Regina
We appreciate you ❤️❤️
Carlo
gets it at the end
Haha finally he see’s light 😂
Hey gang, one of the great topics.
"Don't you think people should create more churches"
That's should be a topic on its own cos it's very interesting on what views can come out
Gents. . Great work and relevant topics, also being realistic with logic!!
That’s the type of thinking we need, “who set the rules”?. . Think about it we grow up living our lives based on another man’s opinion of what life should be. . High level thinking chief!!
Fodo Aka rasta myGee for president 🍻I share everything he says this niggah aaaah I’m feeling him 100% 💪🏽 “ please invite me to ur podcast oneday gents
Haha Fodo is a problem ! Don’t listen to him … he’ll lead you astray 🔥🔥😂
Whatever Reece says is true 😭🙌 this guy got reasons damn🙌when Reece speaks, listen #teamreece❤️
Nahhhh 🤣🤣🤣🤣
What ever reece says?😂😂
Team Reece all the way😂😂❤
Nigga is a hardcore feminist lol
Let's go! 🔥
lesss gooooo !!
A topic on how we guys end up dating our girlfriends best friend 😮can do?
love love love this podcast😀
Thank you 😎
Topic idea 💡 what's the role of a man or woman in today's society.should men really be provider's and do women find simps attractive?
Thanks for the suggestion… women don’t want Simps
Ive agreed and disagreed with everyone throughout this conversation 😂😂😂
Hahaha that’s how you know it’s a great chat ! But question is !
Who’s your man of the match 🤣🤷♂️
Mtho, Holla at me when you're around Matsapha, I'll put you on game.
Mtho is the MacG of this podcast 😂 1:05:10 👀😂
The problems begin when you start thinking about how she feels
I’m new in the family, can we have more of this*conversation
I still think it's impossible to love more than one person
There's no draw in love two or more people
One has to be top.
In a situation where you feel or think that you love them both, there's just care for another person (or maybe some other personal selfish reasons) otherwise you can't love 2 or more people at a go.
You guys are not seeing the whole picture though, Women wanna be courted so if the dude from Hamanskraal could find the confidence in himself to court the C.O.O lady then he has a chance bruh, Women need a leader even much more than a provider these days.
Nah bro you talking fairytale scripts my bro … you confidence isn’t Gona give her security and provision
@OpenChatsPodcast LOL, it will my nigga, as long as you guys are not broke, security and provision is about a lot more than just finances. Women are more complicated than you can imagine, it's not a simple case of most money means you get the best woman, trust me bro, one drunk man is smarter than 3 women with Phd's😂
@@OpenChatsPodcast But what if she already has that.
always pick the one who gives her card to pay for the meal when its her treat.
Haha they do that just to score points nowadays … stay work my king 😉 😂
Relatable 🤝🏽🤝🏽🤝🏽
Omw what was Karlo saying at the end 😭😭which lady will encourage you to take another wife so they have stability, infact as a woman if my husband is rich and we have a beautiful family together I want that to myself I dont wanna share it with anyone😭😭😭😭✋️✋️
Lol 😂😂 it's a painful reality to imagine I know because it means that your childhood fantasy would be destroyed or atleast adjusted. Lol if it was an encouraged norm that the type of "good" man you imagine for your self must be shared mutually, it would mean you still get to have it all, but not all to yourself...share the good man, free the good brother...😂😂 Chances are the man of your dreams , appears in others woman's dreams as well.. they also have good dreams 😂
That’s exactly what I was thinking! Like… more for me hawww?😂😂
Gentlemen Chats 🤔🤔
🤔 not corner ?
I am with the middle guy who advocate for more wife's, if the man has the capacity to have a big family
Love is the foundation of a good mariage not financial capabilities
Does the rich guy want to have multiple wives 🤷♂️😂 is what should be considered first
@k_hadouken preaching facts, if we are to build the black commu, this is the way.
I wish I was on this episode😭 I would have ate this topic up. I definitely disagree with Fodo_blackstyles and k_hadouken, they don't understand what they are speaking about because of their experience not for what it really is. They sound really conditioned. I love this podcast, can I please come on the show to speak😢🙏
Another idea since there's a man's conference can we get a woman's conference?
Hahah what can they talk about those ones ? 😂🤷♂️
@@OpenChatsPodcast lol wow
Appreciate this gentleman,gem topics . Eye opening everytime. This niggas don't miss
Hit after hit, after hit !! Danko 😎
I think we as men we should have a better understanding of the fact that we are expected to provide. And be grateful for the fact that whenever someone expect you to provide, they actually see value in you. And they actually acknowledge that you are able to provide. And if no one is expecting you to provide, I guess you should work on your self. 💔😩 I'm just adding on what Khalo said about the thing of, they can take the money from you but they cannot take your ability to generate more. 🤘🏼
Here I am rewatching an episode from 7 months ago because you haven’t posted anything in 2024 👀...Operators,we safe?.....from Zambia 🇿🇲
Riz gonna be hurt 🤣🤣🤣by gals this guy grew up in suburbs not in the kasi
Haha soft living
Danko
52:30 - 54:00 finally facts
Reece can be so out of touch with reality sometimes😂
I don’t know whether Reece is a female hidden in a male body, but the truth of the matter is that Woman will hardly ever date downwards and hence there’s so many rich aunties nowadays, you may come as a gent that is refreshing but you only as good as a Ben 10 and it ends there…sadly. We need to remember as humans that we are just animals, watch national geographic you’ll learn a lot from so called animals about our behavior
Great episode gents That other guy is a critical thinker, I like him reminds me of my gents back In varsity with my gents
He lives in his own word let him be ! 😂
Thank you for tuning in 😎🔥
Khalo speaks sense🔥
He made sense everywhere but lost it at the end 🤣🤣🤭
Dating up is CRAZY bro🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are still gonna struggle bro
Polygamy is good🤘🤘🔥
It is the best way to go 🔥🔥🔥
But you can't love 2 people and be comparing them their are different and you love them for different reasons #isthembu is the way
the two guys (not the host) a feminists to the core and they cant help it. I mean talking about love languages, and connection and what what...
Nah bro they just in touch with they feminine side which is a good thing 😂
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Ris does not get it and he will never
Never has! And never will 🤷♂️😂
@@OpenChatsPodcast 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I know I'm late, but damn, Khalo needed his meds right at the end 😂
ON GOD! WOMAN RE NT GOOD PEOPLE FRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
😂 never have been, never will be 🐍 😂😂
Why wouldnt i love two women when i love people no homo......
Bro ...
Brother !!!
Amadoda sewa khulumile
These people don’t know what they’re saying
Lol why would I say that though
@@OpenChatsPodcast I wish I could come to that podcasts
This guy is simping yoh
Who’s simping and why
i wish i was on this conversation🫶🏼