MAINTAINING LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS

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  • Опубликовано: 22 янв 2025

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  • @Organizedhuman
    @Organizedhuman Год назад +31

    I'm currently in Long Distance 2, to be honest it is not easy.
    But when both of you are intentional about where you are headed, in the end it will be worth it.
    COMMUNICATION IS A MUST (Before I didn't really like being on the phone for a long time, but right now I can be on the phone for hours with my partner and I wouldn't even notice).
    I don't know what voice calls are anymore, because we are always on video calls. We always carry each other along in our day(by leaving a trail), physically we are not together but we always spend each day together.
    Talk about EVERYTHING.
    Okay bye, we are about cooking 😃

    • @ninoandlulu
      @ninoandlulu  Год назад +1

      Great to hear that! We pray for more grace to continue as you've started

  • @nthatengmotaung4461
    @nthatengmotaung4461 Год назад +29

    Saturdays in South Africa will never be the same again!!!May the grace of God abound in your home ♥️♥️

  • @amaobongbassey6009
    @amaobongbassey6009 Год назад +5

    Finally...
    Spend time on the phone not talking 🤔. I can literally imagine the whole sleeping off thing😂😂. It's how I relate a lot to some of these things.
    But then again, the sleeping off thing just happens bc you're trying to be nice and listen in, and sometimes you can be saying you want to sleep but the other person may be too engrossed in the conversation to hear 🤷

  • @chiamakamiriam5052
    @chiamakamiriam5052 Год назад +11

    I'm currently in a long distance relationship. Omoo it hasn't been easy at all but we put in our best to keep it moving because we have marriage in mind. Thank you so much for this . Long distance requires sacrifice and being very intentional.

  • @jessicajohnson9227
    @jessicajohnson9227 Год назад +8

    Your videos are actually very clear today. Nice editing ❤❤

  • @TheWholesomeWomann
    @TheWholesomeWomann Год назад +2

    Your videos keep popping up on my RUclips, lemme subscribe already 😊
    Make I still drop small advice too: I think for me, what is most important in a long distance relationship is a future plan to bridge the gap and end up together in the same location. If that's not in view, let us not even waste each other’s time biko. Cos you'd be surprised that both partners hv everything going on well where they are and nobody has the intention of compromising their location for the other, so they shy away from that topic.The whole point of relationship or marriage is for companionship, and I don't think it's God's design for married people to live perpetually apart, physically or emotionally. So yh, we must discuss the timeline in the long distance relationship, after this, every other thing can follow. Speaking from experience

  • @Callme_Emediong
    @Callme_Emediong Месяц назад

    It did. 😊

  • @zaraokorochukwu4999
    @zaraokorochukwu4999 Год назад +1

    Watching all these ads because this videos are Soo great and y’all need to get thishhhhh money 😊❤️

  • @oluremiajayi6096
    @oluremiajayi6096 Год назад +4

    That sleep part? I totally agree with Nosa on that. I consider it very disrespectful, too. If you want sleep, abeg, tell me and I'll let you go. Don't. Sleep. On. Me! 😂

  • @mmesomaakuesodo
    @mmesomaakuesodo Год назад +2

    “A whole new world” 🎶 😂 I just love you😂😂

  • @naturalrelaxationsounds6045
    @naturalrelaxationsounds6045 5 месяцев назад

    I kept recommending Ur channel. I was blessed

    • @ninoandlulu
      @ninoandlulu  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much 🙏🏾

  • @Nicolearchie_
    @Nicolearchie_ Год назад +3

    Noted points for my future relationship 😂❤️ Glad to have you guys back

  • @amarachianoliefo7419
    @amarachianoliefo7419 Год назад +2

    Pouring out my life and heart to her 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Thisisbisola
    @Thisisbisola Год назад +2

    I think it’s disrespectful to sleep when your partner is pouring out his or her heart and the other sleeps off….it’s so annoying!! I’ve experienced it and I was so furious! 🤣🤣
    That said , I really enjoy you both❤🥰
    Nosa please what’s your skincare routine ooo??? Abeg share. You’re GLOWING!!!

    • @ninoandlulu
      @ninoandlulu  Год назад +3

      Yes, we all agree it's disrespectful 😂
      Nino's skincare routine is lots of love from Lulu 😚

  • @shiluvabilla1507
    @shiluvabilla1507 Год назад +5

    You guys are my new favorite thing about Saturdays♥♥♥

  • @meeteyorose
    @meeteyorose Год назад +2

    So I’m in a long distance promax friendship 😂😂😂

  • @sukaribamatthew452
    @sukaribamatthew452 Год назад +3

    Saturdays are always good , knowing that I will hear from you guys. Nice one.

  • @rachealifietekhai
    @rachealifietekhai Год назад +2

    I've missed you guys! Felt like you were away forever
    Glad to have you back🎉🎉
    Now let me dive in

    • @ninoandlulu
      @ninoandlulu  Год назад

      Thank you for sticking with us ❤️

  • @ifeoma1297
    @ifeoma1297 Год назад +2

    You both are so beautiful to watch every Saturday

  • @ohazurumestephanie842
    @ohazurumestephanie842 Год назад

    long distance is not for the faint of heart.
    I do not wish it on anyone.
    IT IS HARD!!!!!

    • @ninoandlulu
      @ninoandlulu  Год назад

      It's not easy but it's doable ☺️

  • @adebowalefaith1904
    @adebowalefaith1904 Год назад +2

    Beautiful couple 🥰

  • @praiseoladiran8447
    @praiseoladiran8447 Год назад

    I agree with you, your Partner should inform you before he/she sleeps off. A lot of healthy compromises on both sides, long distance relationship is not for the weak.

    • @ninoandlulu
      @ninoandlulu  Год назад

      Yes, long distance relationships require a lot of sacrifice

  • @adofowaa
    @adofowaa Год назад +1

    Yayyyyy🎉🎉🎉

  • @bukayomi1
    @bukayomi1 Год назад +2

    I was in a long distance relationship promax, couldn't visit him. It was not easy at all, but we are now married and living together. We had lots of challenges with communication because my partner wasn't a talking person which caused lots of arguments and almost broke us up. Intensive communication, prayers and determination plus God helped us survive. Love conquers all.

    • @Jessie_bernard
      @Jessie_bernard Год назад

      May I ask ,how did you cope with your partner not being the talking type in a LDR pro max??

    • @ninoandlulu
      @ninoandlulu  Год назад

      That’s right! Communication is very key to the foundation! Thank you for watching 😊

  • @TheNkoyoEyo
    @TheNkoyoEyo Год назад +2

    You people are hilarious 😂...love your content so much ❤️

  • @chekwubehope9446
    @chekwubehope9446 Год назад +2

    Finally😊
    Welcome back 🎉

  • @GlobalUju
    @GlobalUju Год назад +1

    Here again to mark attendance 🤭

  • @CHIGOAH
    @CHIGOAH Год назад +1

    I'm in a long-distance relationship pro max as in we have 7 hrs of different time zone. I will say we are on the right track but being together right now is hard and I really don't know when we are going to be able to be together. We are trying but Omo things are so hard y'all. Thanks for sharing ❤❤

    • @ninoandlulu
      @ninoandlulu  Год назад

      May God help you and give you the grace to overcome all difficulties. Thank you for watching 😊

  • @dimmakezie
    @dimmakezie Год назад +1

    Yaaaay finally.
    I literally waited the whole year. 😩😩

  • @OziomaGospel-xx6ln
    @OziomaGospel-xx6ln 5 месяцев назад

    Hmmm... JUNE
    #JoUrNEy

  • @ujubright1982
    @ujubright1982 Год назад +1

    Finally 😍💃. This is beautiful!

  • @abayayima
    @abayayima 6 месяцев назад

    Oluchi is exactly like my boyfriend or should i say ex because i broke up with him last month because of all these reasons ,communication ,SLEEPING ,having body clock 😭😭sleeping on serious conversations ,and yes I'm always doing the going to visit him because he's also 9-5 and cannot multitask 😢

    • @ninoandlulu
      @ninoandlulu  6 месяцев назад

      We pray that God gives you your heart’s desire in Jesus name 🙏🏾

  • @HephzibahFrances
    @HephzibahFrances 5 месяцев назад

    Long distance pro max here😅

  • @tamarausinla_
    @tamarausinla_ Год назад

    Yaaaay!🤍

  • @DoctorFumaj
    @DoctorFumaj Год назад +2

    One of my fave online couples ❤

  • @ruthngube3515
    @ruthngube3515 Год назад +1

    Leaving a trail! Wonderful point. Thank you guys

  • @irenegwanzuwang1174
    @irenegwanzuwang1174 Год назад

    Yaaay....its another one💃💃💃

  • @Vivian__Eze
    @Vivian__Eze Год назад +2

    I keep learning a lot here ... thank you guys so much

  • @FaithAdegboye
    @FaithAdegboye Год назад +1

    We are back🎉

  • @sharonchukwuebuka1304
    @sharonchukwuebuka1304 Год назад +1

    Miss you guys❤❤

  • @CuriosityWithTee
    @CuriosityWithTee Год назад +1

    You guys are too cute❤❤❤

  • @ndifrekeinam6951
    @ndifrekeinam6951 Год назад

    Lmaoooo😂😂, my favess!! ❤️❤️

  • @joyee33
    @joyee33 Год назад

  • @adetejutaiwo1721
    @adetejutaiwo1721 Год назад

    My people 💃💃💃❤️

  • @patiencemensah9865
    @patiencemensah9865 Год назад

    😂😂 oh Lulu

  • @hearttalkvlog.707
    @hearttalkvlog.707 Год назад

    This is interesting.

  • @AdedolapoBalogun
    @AdedolapoBalogun Год назад +1

    this was very insightful and I just kept smiling... 😊

  • @dups6995
    @dups6995 Год назад

    Always ❤️

  • @cynthianez3982
    @cynthianez3982 Год назад

    Yippee.
    Was waiting for this sat.
    Nice one

  • @akinsanya_anjola26
    @akinsanya_anjola26 Год назад

    Yeahhhhhhhh 🎉🎉❤

  • @salvame4657
    @salvame4657 Год назад

    How come I have alot in common with Oluchi 😂? I sleep early too. Thank you Jesus I'm not the only lady that doesn't know how to multitask. I have always felt different or incomplete cos I find it difficult to multitask.

    • @ninoandlulu
      @ninoandlulu  Год назад +1

      There's always someone you can relate to you're not incomplete 🤗

  • @FolahKabiti
    @FolahKabiti Год назад

    Yipeeee
    We're back😘

  • @mmesomaakuesodo
    @mmesomaakuesodo Год назад

    🥳🥳 finally

  • @pearlbaby1
    @pearlbaby1 Год назад

    Yayyyyyy they are back 💃💃

  • @Moments_with_Teak
    @Moments_with_Teak Год назад

    Thank you🥳🥳🥳💃💃💃

  • @naomiogoke
    @naomiogoke Год назад

    Finalyyy🎊🎊🤩

  • @jenniferokafor3156
    @jenniferokafor3156 Год назад

    I got value,thank you.

  • @_remilekun_xx
    @_remilekun_xx Год назад

    Finally.... Love to from you guys

  • @hollayhemme7081
    @hollayhemme7081 Год назад

    I’m facing mine now😊.. Lord help me London/Germany.. very frustrating 😢

    • @ninoandlulu
      @ninoandlulu  Год назад

      The Lord is your actual strength 🤗

  • @Adannaya_uzo
    @Adannaya_uzo Год назад

    💯

  • @ajayiayomiposi1786
    @ajayiayomiposi1786 Год назад

    💃💃💃💃💃

  • @mercyabakah6228
    @mercyabakah6228 Год назад

    Guys your video came at the right time 😊☺️ special this topic

  • @naomiiadeh
    @naomiiadeh Год назад +3

    Why is Lulu holding Nino like he's going to run away?😂😂

    • @ninoandlulu
      @ninoandlulu  Год назад +4

      😂 touch is one of her love languages

  • @Thedamipeters
    @Thedamipeters Год назад

    Thanks for sharing 🥰🥰

  • @imaabasienoch2552
    @imaabasienoch2552 Год назад

    Helpful. Thank you❤

  • @tayonashey2566
    @tayonashey2566 5 месяцев назад

    Long distance 2. What was the sleeping arrangement when she came. As a Christian couple did you share the bed?🙈😅

  • @tobiimohimiosifuye5758
    @tobiimohimiosifuye5758 Год назад

    Love this

  • @KeepingUpWithIfunanya
    @KeepingUpWithIfunanya Год назад +1

    But then, what happens when you’ve both agreed that it’s gonna lead to marriage and you’ve committed yourself to the relationship but it ends.

    • @ninoandlulu
      @ninoandlulu  Год назад +1

      Sometimes things end because they are meant to. Even if God says it’s meant to be, it takes humans to partner with God to bring things to reality.

  • @dorisolajide2407
    @dorisolajide2407 Год назад

    Love from FL❤❤❤❤❤

  • @em_myz6749
    @em_myz6749 Год назад

    💕

  • @JoyAbraham-p6v
    @JoyAbraham-p6v 10 месяцев назад

    Pls, what if you have not met the guy before and you guys are in different cities?

    • @ninoandlulu
      @ninoandlulu  10 месяцев назад

      We advise you meet the person physically before considering marriage

  • @sophianyanful6219
    @sophianyanful6219 Год назад

    I love you guys❤

  • @stephaniejulius
    @stephaniejulius Год назад

    Sistren😂

  • @Praiseee_
    @Praiseee_ Год назад

    Please how do you guys deal with the language differences? Do you speak English? Or you try to learn your languages?

    • @ninoandlulu
      @ninoandlulu  Год назад

      We both speak English ooo 😂😂

  • @akinsanya_anjola26
    @akinsanya_anjola26 Год назад

    How does one do that though ? 🤔 staying on the phone and not talking 😆

    • @therandombae9781
      @therandombae9781 Год назад +2

      You're not staring at eachother the whole time... from experience, most of the time, we are just doing other things while being on the phone and it's comforting knowing that the other person is "there".

    • @favour_mkpuruoma
      @favour_mkpuruoma Год назад

      ​@@therandombae9781 wow😂😂

    • @ninoandlulu
      @ninoandlulu  Год назад

      Building intimacy is also in the small things like staying on the phone even if no one is saying anything. It indirectly says, i'd rather be here with you than anywhere else

  • @Melissa_Tee
    @Melissa_Tee Год назад

    🤣😂

  • @sharonchukwuebuka1304
    @sharonchukwuebuka1304 Год назад

    I think nosa is annoying in a sweet way❤❤

  • @Claraberl
    @Claraberl Год назад +1