Cultivating Practical Synchronicity, Dr. Tom Myers: EP 298
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- Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
- #coincidence #serendipity #synchronicity
Explanations for synchronicity vary. Tom Myers knows they are all around us ready to be used for our benefit. Build on your native genius, your combination of skill and passion to find your purpose. Synchronicities will find their way to you.
Tom Myers is a Synchronicity researcher and activator. His company, TriSync Impact (trisyncimpact.com), helps individuals and teams realize greater Synchronicity opportunities utilizing positive psychology and strengths-based approaches with online courses, podcasts, and custom consultations. To also currently serving as the interim Operations Director for Reef Renewal USA (reefrenewalusa.org), a nonprofit organization that grows endangered coral in underwater nurseries and out-plants them on the coral reefs throughout the Florida Keys. Tom lives in Jericho, Vermont with his wife, Julie, and they have two grown sons. www.trisyncimpact.com
Our host Dr. Bernard Beitman is the first psychiatrist since Carl Jung to attempt to systematize the study of coincidences. He is Founding Director of The Coincidence Project. His book, and his Psychology Today blog, are both titled Connecting with Coincidence. He has developed the first valid and reliable scale to measure coincidence sensitivity, and has written and edited coincidence articles for Psychiatric Annals. He is a visiting professor at the University of Virginia and former chair of the Department of Psychiatry at the University of Missouri-Columbia. He attended Yale Medical School and completed a psychiatric residency at Stanford. Dr. Beitman has received two national awards for his psychotherapy training program and is internationally known for his research into the relationship between chest pain and panic disorder.
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Tom starts talking at 6:04. You're welcome 😊
I thought it was so odd this host didn't introduce or give Tom a moment to say hello. He referred to him as an aside and rambled on way too long I forget what he's getting to!
Poor guy goes through this every time he is brought on to talk with anyone lol
@@crysaura maybe that's a humorous real life example of synchronicity. I also just watched Dr Myers interviewed with Mel Robbins and she also spoke over him a bit too much. But I guess if we do start to pay attention to these signs maybe that's one of them lol
I lived in SF and one day found a pile of magazines someone had thrown out. I moved back to NY and was interviewed by this magazine company and could speak enthusiastically about various issues they published and they hired me. This was a new magazine.
This guy lets his guest talk!! Unlike the Mel Robbins lady. Lol
I noticed it. Mel Robbins was always interjecting him, I really do not know why she was doing it, maybe she was trying to save time.. it really got me a bit worried
I searched him after Mel Robbins interview because Mel totally took over the convo and I really wanted to understand his research.
@@kyiaunggyaw exactly, same here. That was why I came here.. I knew to pick up his name from her interview, which led me here two days ago.
But even this host didn't even let Tom speak for quite some time.
That's how i got here! I saw him and was interested but the guy couldn't get a word in edge wise 😂
The very first time I heard of Serendipity was when I saw the movie by that name in 2001 , manny years earlier my parents experienced an event in 1946 while both visiting New York City they ran into each other in Central Park she on vacation with her aunt , he on a business trip both where Cuban my dad was taken by her beauty asked for her phone number , she refused 3 years later they ran into each other at a wedding in Havana the rest is history 9 months later they where married . I took them to see the movie Serendipity, they both said we experienced that so long ago 😊♥️🌹I believe in destiny serendipity etc
beautiful!
That’s such a beautiful story of serendipity!! Thanks for sharing ❤
@@silleecat you are most welcome!
Good session, Bernie and Tom - hullo again - just an addition, Bernie - my 9 keys of synchronicity is based on answers to the question "What facilitates synchronicity?". My PhD field research with leaders indicated that when serving others, synchronicity seemed to happen more - it's not that serving others came first.
thanks, Phil!
This is my first time listening and I was the 3rd “like”. I came in with #3 as my favorite number. This is a blast already and I’m thrilled to know you’re all out there.
Thank you❣️
and we are thrilled to know you are there too!
I would have liked your post but i wanted to leave you with 3 😁
Dr. Beitman, my PhD is about how Jung's synchronicity enriches our understanding of Cosmogenesis. I'd love to talk to you about being an external reader for this dissertation.
thank-you for your request. I must decline given the press of obligations. When your dissertation is available, please send it to me.
I totally enjoy this conversation. Thank you for sharing these vital details. The world is a better place with you doing great world.
thanks!
Hi I ordered your book , got it yesterday will let you know my thoughts but I’m sure I would love it .
Grateful Dr. Beitman' for these series with all the wonderful participants with their varying stories and explanations of synchronicity' each guest bringing up an awakening within' and how at this chapter of my life' being at an impasse to come to a decision whether or not to help financially a far related cousin' at my discomfort' suddenly the past few days these videos started popping up whenever I opened RUclips ' - - - Laura
what does that mean to you?
@@Coinciders Synchronicity at work indeed' arrangement of acausal circumstances or happenings directing towards an answer' in this case to refuse' not feel pressured or guilty and be at ease with my decision' also your point that after a while we feel overdone of helping others had a considerable effect'
@@VAgnerian18 yes, I have reached my current limit of helping recently
I believe it’s God saying hello.
I am searching for an answer; I have experienced a series of remarkably interconnected events. Are there phenomena known as SUPER Synchronicities? Or is there another term for when four distinct events occur within hours, all part of a singular theme, creating what I call "a today is tomorrow, tomorrow is yesterday, and yesterday is today" moment? How can such seemingly unexplainable phenomena be understood or explained?
Gary Schwartz has written a book with the title Super Synchronicities. My interview with him was posted a few days ago. You will find his book reflects your experience
Thank you
I enjoyed this topic very much. Thank you.
Great, great conversation. Wonderful speakers and content.
thanks!
While I can agree with the first two of the "three A's" (53:10) used to describe the experience of synchronicity (awareness & awakening), the third step (action) is not only unnecessary, but potentially perilous. There doesn't always need to be a specific meaning (54:43). Our own interconnectedness should be meaning enough and adopting the standard default of "this is telling me to do something" (55:07) will only lead to GUESSWORK and quite possibly taking a WRONG action. Sorry to be the party pooper here, but that has been my experience with synchronicities over the past 15 years. Let it happen, enjoy it, but don't drive yourself crazy searching for some hidden meaning.
I fully agree with you. Sometimes no action is best. Sometimes just enjoy it, sometimes think about it. Action is useful sometimes but as you imply meaningful coincidences are suggestions, not commands.
I recommended this guy to you before i dont know if i used him by name but he had worked on an AI linked to synchronicity in the past and thats why i mentioned him.
thanks!
Yes you can burn out and also feel taken advantage of.
Darlene` what is being offered as a response to you is that the more you are engaged in OTHER THINGS the more you experience , not a given not looking at the ceiling response it is fact in order to see it you must be involved into other people and the outer inner life lines not to be scoffed at but to be tried without question to find, Toms answer for you sir. I followed his answer quite well. Great episode, books or no book's written life is the path tired or not and is why we are here especially when we seek such acknowledgements when alive.. Thank you. Darlene
thanks for your comment!
The host doesn't address the guest until like 6 min into the podcast.
❤😇🙏🏽TY Gr8 Show!!! :0)
Is manifestation the same as synchronicity
Don’t scientists discover things by this
oh, yes. Many, many times. Penicillin is one of many
Why won’t these people let their experts actually speak
I keep running into an ex friend who I didn’t want to run into. Maybe it’s resistance?
Also the man who coined this term was Carl Jung. You should look into who he is and what his philosophy is
thank you, I have looked into those things.
Except nothing practical was said over the entire hour
How do you account for its being the most popular podcast?
@@Coinciders I don't know, I assume your listeners haven't once heard this concept over their entire life, so it's novel for them and they'd accept any information even if it were false. I look for practical ways to use synchronicity for years, and I'm growing more skeptical over time as the novelty diminishes. That said, when we're at emotional phases in life, it seems as if some entities with control over this reality deliberately decide to orchestrate events so they are subjectively meaningful, but then they take a break and it can take years for any synchronicity to show up. We have no tests for it, no research reports on statistical analysis of when and why does it occur, and especially no actionable options for how to act on them. At best, often it feels like just being randomly trolled by the universe for the sake of it. But naive spiritually-minded seekers are very prone to conscious biases of seeing synchronicity even in ordinary events, so unless we distinguish it, promoting this idea merely solidifies delusions for many people whose sense of mental growth consists just of endlessly looking for confirmation biases. (Mental health is a serious matter.) Nowadays with how internet is saturated by people repeating the same spiritual knowledge (most of which is wrong anyway if you put in any effort to test it, as it only serves as an emotional reflection for people looking to be soothed by hearing anything like-minded), I find giving low quality information and wasting time to be of a great harm, despite how many thirsty people throw likes your way. You'll easily find good quality channels that don't have any viewers at all, which shows the privilege of being popular and points to the responsibility of such "winners at RUclips algorithm" :) In any case, I could barely pay attention, so it's difficult to discern if there was no small nugget of wisdom hidden anywhere in the video, but as a general rule this kind of content typically only plays on emotions anyway. There were some practical "tips" but they were just so pointless, I can't imagine that ever helping anyone... Synchronicity is an important topic that deserves proper research, as anyone who brutally experiences it in their life can testify.
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Global warming?!? No.
please explain