How I Deal With It All | Dreka Gates

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  • Опубликовано: 17 янв 2025

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  • @thejadeappeall_2906
    @thejadeappeall_2906 4 года назад +662

    “You can’t want better for yourself if you’re not willing to do the work”

    • @cris-RN
      @cris-RN 4 года назад +5

      Wooooo... I felt this!! Thank you! ❤️

  • @venianorthcutt6083
    @venianorthcutt6083 3 года назад +117

    It’s up to me to be the person that I really am. And nothing else.

  • @nooniepoo4776
    @nooniepoo4776 4 года назад +1207

    She RARE. There’s not too many like her. When someone of her caliber cross your path PAY ATTENTION.

    • @sassyspice2727
      @sassyspice2727 4 года назад +103

      It more like her...its just so many ppl are brain washed and blind by society to see them. Toxicity and dysfunction is the wave right now....🙊🙈🙉

    • @Beautyishername82
      @Beautyishername82 4 года назад +72

      GOD keeps us hidden until our husband has eyes to see, maturity and provision to provide. We out here just minding our business.🙏🏼✨

    • @nooniepoo4776
      @nooniepoo4776 4 года назад +24

      @@sassyspice2727 I agree. They’re out here but like you said there’s a lot of TOXICITY AND DYSFUNCTION. It seems as though that’s the NEW NORM.

    • @iamkrazyshae4622
      @iamkrazyshae4622 4 года назад +4

      @@Beautyishername82 yes!

    • @jgurlluvsme6456
      @jgurlluvsme6456 4 года назад

      @@sassyspice2727 ture smh

  • @rashidaquetel563
    @rashidaquetel563 4 года назад +113

    When you are on a awakening journey, you will find your tribe. Peace and love.

  • @iman8400
    @iman8400 4 года назад +366

    dreka honey, please post more. we love you.
    Sincerely,
    Us.

  • @sweetter1983
    @sweetter1983 4 года назад +168

    Im so grateful that the universe has started leading me towards like minded individuals. I would have never came across something so beneficial before I started meditating and learning to manifest. Thank you universe and thank you Dreka.

    • @kaheaacfalle5025
      @kaheaacfalle5025 3 года назад +1

      wana be my friend 😂😂😂 im looking for like minded individuals as well. Lmao

    • @sweetter1983
      @sweetter1983 3 года назад +1

      @@kaheaacfalle5025 LOL absolutely

    • @kaheaacfalle5025
      @kaheaacfalle5025 3 года назад

      @@sweetter1983 u have any other social media? or i have a small youtube ill be adding videos to again.. “nspyr me”
      Its nice to actually talk to someone who always puts in work.. instead of people who are interested in these things but no effort.

    • @spirituallyguided144
      @spirituallyguided144 2 года назад

      🙌🧘🏽‍♀️🥰

  • @Inashiag
    @Inashiag 4 года назад +573

    Dreka you having a channel is a manifestation come true

  • @yuan-leethorpe8676
    @yuan-leethorpe8676 Месяц назад +1

    Just saw her in real life in SKIMS and i almost dropped on one knee and proposed...came back to this video cause it did so much for me listening to her voice saying things i needed to hear..you the best dre, wish you best in life

  • @DeeluxyLife
    @DeeluxyLife 4 года назад +306

    I saw this for a reason!!! On a journey towards HEALING 🤞🏽

    • @jeffallyear
      @jeffallyear 3 года назад +1

      Same! PEACE be wi th you

    • @DeeluxyLife
      @DeeluxyLife 3 года назад

      @@jeffallyear Right back at ya 💫💫

    • @Blys6
      @Blys6 3 года назад

      It really does work I been doing this for a few years now. Your letting go and releasing it back to the universe.

    • @babiface5508
      @babiface5508 3 года назад

      Same

    • @krystingrant6292
      @krystingrant6292 2 года назад

      Same. Came at the right time

  • @ambreka
    @ambreka 4 года назад +137

    I’ve done this exact same practice and it’s releasing!! Fire is so transformative and it’s why the element is used during so many transformative practices and rituals. I pray we find our way back to our TRUE selves and Dreka is using her platform to spread the word. We’re spiritual beings in physical bodies. Take care of your soul!

  • @jonasfoodjourney
    @jonasfoodjourney 4 года назад +392

    I love Dreka's spirit and openness and willingness to share her journey. I write and it is truly a release and healing.

    • @thestartofusasmr3778
      @thestartofusasmr3778 4 года назад +2

      Hi Jona! This is interesting.....I do Yoga and I Meditate a lot but I've never tried the "writing therapy" So you're saying it works for you? Is it really as therapeutic as it seems? Thanks so much for your feedback! Have a Blessed and Peaceful day!

    • @aliyahsakeena
      @aliyahsakeena 4 года назад

      @@thestartofusasmr3778 yes ! You should really try journaling ! Every day before you do some yoga and meditate try sitting down and writing your thoughts down for 12 minutes or however minutes you want. Just write whatever is in your thoughts , dont even filter anything.

  • @imvni
    @imvni 4 года назад +44

    I’ve been journaling everyday for over a year it really works y’all. Sometimes I don’t realize what’s bothering me until I start writing. I resolved so many things writing

  • @jamestaylor7119
    @jamestaylor7119 4 года назад +254

    Dreka always been solid since the first time I seen her and Kevin together 10 years ago....Kevin really got blessed with dreka,,she is the perfect wife....real talk....

    • @rosiebrooks7685
      @rosiebrooks7685 4 года назад +6

    • @agoodgurl2k
      @agoodgurl2k 4 года назад +12

      Thank you for speaking on that, Brother. Some men need to see other men uplift and acknowledge a good woman.

  • @saquisaqui9267
    @saquisaqui9267 4 года назад +36

    And the most powerful thing is if you write everyday for literally 12 minutes you just manifested a book that you can put out in less than 6 months.

  • @stephaniewilliams4920
    @stephaniewilliams4920 4 года назад +231

    Oooooooo the “Dont read it” part. I’m a re-reader and get mad all over againer....glad you said that!

    • @michellewilliams5383
      @michellewilliams5383 4 года назад +6

      Oouuu chile... WYS. that iz me...chkn for mistakes

    • @elynbryant7288
      @elynbryant7288 4 года назад +2

      Same!! 🤦🏽‍♀️😩

    • @shaunaf2811
      @shaunaf2811 4 года назад +4

      Yup, never read it. Write it and don't look back.

    • @SammyTheBigItGirl
      @SammyTheBigItGirl 4 года назад

      Lmfao 🤣 💯

    • @athomewithvicky
      @athomewithvicky 4 года назад +1

      😂😂🤣 yeah me to. I’m not even re thinking that shit 😂

  • @CaramelCuban
    @CaramelCuban 4 года назад +89

    I’m finding myself running out of things that pissed me off ..day 7 I’m feeling more at peace ☮️ thanks Drek

  • @tgmwonka8285
    @tgmwonka8285 4 года назад +229

    I love how she vloggin now

    • @rosiebrooks7685
      @rosiebrooks7685 4 года назад +8

      I can see she needed this to. Kelvin learned from her and I can see and feel it.

  • @MississippiWomanOnTheDirtRoad
    @MississippiWomanOnTheDirtRoad 4 года назад +74

    My first cousin committed suicide yesterday-- everyone’s saying he wouldn’t do it but depression makes you suffer in silence. I’ve been depressed but I just wasn’t ready to get this type of news. I’m going to try this 📝 🔥

    • @veganladymyles5855
      @veganladymyles5855 4 года назад +1

      Praying 🙏

    • @desireebailey1119
      @desireebailey1119 3 года назад +8

      You are here for a reason no matter what you are going through. You have a purpose on this earth that no one else but you can fulfill. Sometimes we are under attack from the spiritual realm. Learn to fight spiritually through prayer and having faith. I’m learning to pray and thank God for blessings that I don’t even have yet. Please stick around and be strong. You will not only hurt yourself if you were to get so depressed and commit suicide, you will hurt those who love you. Just passing along some positivity from someone that you don’t know, but I felt like you needed to read this ❤️ Use that peace that all of us have within us ❤️

    • @crystalmenton9659
      @crystalmenton9659 3 года назад +2

      Sorry to hear that honey

    • @Blys6
      @Blys6 3 года назад +2

      I’m sorry for your loss yes depression is very real and is a silent killer because you don’t know what’s on the next persons mind. You can act like nothing is wrong and your happy when in fact be going threw hell internally.

    • @rubyreduxx
      @rubyreduxx 3 года назад

      Sorry about your loss beloved. Sending love and healing thoughts

  • @raquaylen
    @raquaylen 4 года назад +122

    Being someone that hold things in, I started doing this a few years ago and it does clear your mind and feel like a weight has been lifted off of your shoulders.

    • @rosiebrooks7685
      @rosiebrooks7685 4 года назад +8

      IT'S A WONDERFUL EXPERIENCE TO KNOW AND LET GO. KEEP DOING IT EVERYDAY AND U WILL BECOME STRONGER NO MATTER WHAT.

  • @shani9165
    @shani9165 4 года назад +70

    I did this and I can tell you when it started burning I felt so much relief. The paper acted like it did not want to burn at first and I took that as it was some type of negativity that did not want to leave. I made sure all the paper burned to ashes and I allowed it to fly away in the wind. I feel so much better , like a weight lifted . ✨ Please make more videos🧡

    • @MissTaviBaby
      @MissTaviBaby 4 года назад +1

      Has anything changed in you life as a result?!

  • @alangarrett3989
    @alangarrett3989 4 года назад +395

    We don’t see you enough 😔

    • @tfias6626
      @tfias6626 4 года назад +10

      I agree! She is so inspiring!

    • @SHAWELLS1107
      @SHAWELLS1107 4 года назад +3

      Fact

    • @trevorbressman6717
      @trevorbressman6717 4 года назад +1

      Got Michelle Obama beat swear🙌🏽🙏🏽

    • @mirroringmii688
      @mirroringmii688 4 года назад +1

      Thank You! I needed to hear from you today. 🙌🏾🙏🏾💙

    • @Justin-TimeForDaShitz
      @Justin-TimeForDaShitz 4 года назад +2

      I think that it’s more powerful to give us sprinkles of her knowledge, it keeps us wanting more and it adds value to the message. 🤍🤍

  • @AssataAmani
    @AssataAmani 4 года назад +102

    That is something that the book, "The Artist's Way" teaches too! To write in the morning about random things to release. Thank you for bringing this back into my mind to deal with everything.

    • @greta6860
      @greta6860 4 года назад +1

      I have this book❣️

    • @azizasingh
      @azizasingh 2 года назад +1

      Amazing book ❤️

  • @RuviOfficial
    @RuviOfficial 4 года назад +145

    Something so calming about Drekas energy😍🙏🏽

  • @JayRKnox
    @JayRKnox 4 года назад +38

    God sent me an angel when he sent me Dreka” Subscribed.

  • @instigatorfromdetroit2692
    @instigatorfromdetroit2692 4 года назад +561

    I don’t know whose more luckier Kevin or dreka they both amazing.

    • @michellewilliams5383
      @michellewilliams5383 4 года назад +22

      Lol. I agree wit u on that.. To me, they are ONE.. i love them BOTH

    • @atifking8731
      @atifking8731 4 года назад +21

      Nah definitely Kev, he cooko af... Music great, but minset when it comes to reality is warped. That's what I see based on his interviews and other shit he put up. Great music tho

    • @serealbowl.theman
      @serealbowl.theman 4 года назад +2

      Opposites attract

    • @nyahmanismommy
      @nyahmanismommy 4 года назад +25

      Kevin is a very lucky man.

    • @beezytalkingshit9319
      @beezytalkingshit9319 4 года назад +4

      @@nyahmanismommy He's given her this life and lifestyle. She don't have to get up and go work a 9 to 5 like your ass. You wish you had a kevin so you could be lucky too.

  • @latishiaeddarif2888
    @latishiaeddarif2888 3 года назад +1

    Sis none of us is perfect but I tell you what , I respect you because you share with others in the world the things that helps you . You are unselfish and very giving in your own way barak'allahu feek

  • @SuperPKinney
    @SuperPKinney 4 года назад +175

    I love your whole energy, vibe, light, and amazing beauty!!! I just want to thank you for letting us into your life and sharing.

  • @landonwright8804
    @landonwright8804 3 года назад +2

    Absolutely right. Don't go back and read it. Burn it and let it go.
    Perfect

  • @tumaini08
    @tumaini08 4 года назад +102

    I love Dreka, she's so beautiful and positive. She's the reason that I became such a huge Kevin Gates fan

  • @rosiecast5022
    @rosiecast5022 4 года назад +1

    She is so real raw uncut strong women! Strong mother daughter wife! Keep being you and always shine bright. A child of the high most power father God or what ever you believe in and always highly blessed highly favor.

  • @keyeramichelle9128
    @keyeramichelle9128 4 года назад +50

    She stepping into her power and we can all see it. Love her 💙

  • @elliejean9069
    @elliejean9069 4 года назад +1

    I used to do this in my teenage years and some of my early 20's (as well as poetry) but INSTEAD of putting fire to i would rip the writing into small pieces, hold it in the palm of my hands under the faucet to soften the paper then flush it down the toilet. Ive been telling myself to start back at it but its just been soooooooo hard with everything going on in my life.........P.S im so glad that you mention taking a SHIT because EVERYTHING is processed through the gut and that includes EMOTIONS! If there is a build up /repressed emotions you'd more than likely have trouble shitting😭😭😭.

  • @tristanaintshit4332
    @tristanaintshit4332 4 года назад +55

    Give me chills, I can hear it in ur voice just pure happiness

    • @jordanjackson3817
      @jordanjackson3817 4 года назад +2

      This is going to go over most peoples head. But you’re spot on, it’s a whole vibe.

  • @tierrasanea9560
    @tierrasanea9560 4 года назад +26

    Just happen to be up at 6 in the morning to get something to drink and scroll through YT & came across Dreka's channel in my recommendations. I have been on a journey of self-discovery and bettering my soul and spirit for about a year now and I am definitely going to try this! This woman is a gem. I had to subscribe. 💫😌

  • @kenyarice7665
    @kenyarice7665 4 года назад +55

    Writing is so healing, I’ve been doing it since elementary. So many things come to you as well as you releasing. Thanks Drek!

  • @hellojovoni
    @hellojovoni 3 года назад +6

    Yes! It’s a brain dump and releasing stress. I’ve done it since I was a child and never knew why but now it all makes sense ♥️

  • @LeeLeeUrsTruLee
    @LeeLeeUrsTruLee 4 года назад +284

    I love this, it’s also a tool you can use to communicate with WHATVER or whoever you’d like♥️ it helps ✨

    • @janejohnson3031
      @janejohnson3031 4 года назад +6

      Awww I was just watching yall video 😋

    • @dannih2715
      @dannih2715 4 года назад +2

      Just watched y’all video. love the intro with them cute red robes.

    • @d.c.exclusives9191
      @d.c.exclusives9191 4 года назад

      fr ?

    • @allieroneisha
      @allieroneisha 4 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/ANgul3FWNww/видео.html🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @allieroneisha
      @allieroneisha 4 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/ANgul3FWNww/видео.html

  • @elizabeth3883
    @elizabeth3883 3 года назад +8

    Yes Dreka! Crying is healing! I am in a space where I’m learning more and more about myself. Healing is taking place right now. 💛🙏🏾

  • @jaguar-lx5md
    @jaguar-lx5md 4 года назад +6

    By writing people can't hold stuff against u later on, it's YOUR BUSINESS, burning it sets u free of the negative energy🔥☁

  • @redmoonessentials2593
    @redmoonessentials2593 4 года назад +15

    I feel the same way spiritually and I’m so happy my husband was raised spiritually because it’s a lot once your called.

  • @GoddessSupreme3x
    @GoddessSupreme3x 4 года назад +95

    “Its Up to ME to be the Person that I really AM.. and NO-Thing else”! #DrekaGates 🌀🌀🌀

  • @everythinglidd
    @everythinglidd 17 дней назад +1

    Yes I love journaling I call it brain dumping ❤thank you for this!

  • @shechosen111
    @shechosen111 4 года назад +15

    You control the power to heal yourself that's deep I love it though.🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸 Thank you Queen.

  • @LaVenderlocx
    @LaVenderlocx 3 года назад +16

    So true I feel I have no one to talk to. Even during my most difficult dark times when I go to a person about how I feel I end up feeling worst afterwards. Definitely gonna start journaling. Thank you!
    Edit: Journaling and Burning!

  • @jazzyjakie50
    @jazzyjakie50 4 года назад +27

    Such a multidimensional human queen! Journaling and fire ceremonies or strong quantum time/energy leapers! Yassss Queen, this serves humanity more than you know! Thank you

  • @TheOpenHeart218
    @TheOpenHeart218 4 года назад +11

    I used to this as a kid i had no idea how healthy this was keeping my mind.

  • @SubieFrancis
    @SubieFrancis 4 года назад +25

    Man im grateful having someone like dreka spreading her knowledge to people who need it. I see nothing but good, positive vibes in the comments too, amazing

  • @locklife4336
    @locklife4336 4 года назад +46

    Ima keep it💯when you’re financially secure, 75% of your problems are solved and the other 25% is just life shit.

    • @raginaeandrews2048
      @raginaeandrews2048 4 года назад +4

      Money don’t bring happiness

    • @locklife4336
      @locklife4336 4 года назад +14

      @@raginaeandrews2048 Didn’t say it brings happiness, but to many it does. And at the same time it’s the most major necessity we need to survive through daily life. I notice people with money do t have the same issues or to the same magnitude.

    • @kjthomas4553
      @kjthomas4553 3 года назад +3

      @@locklife4336 it’s what you can do with money brings happiness

    • @jackfowler8146
      @jackfowler8146 3 года назад +4

      Being financially stable also brings other problems into life that us without that kind of money won't understand or feel cause we haven't experienced it, you gotta always look at life from every angle instead of just your own path, wealth brings alot of stress isolation and paranoia sometimes we don't learn a situation till we have experienced it ourselves the grass ain't always greener till you get there yourself

    • @anyathomas8423
      @anyathomas8423 3 года назад

      Not true but okay your opinion

  • @rosiebrooks7685
    @rosiebrooks7685 4 года назад +25

    I LOVE YOU DREKA. I'VE FELT LIKE THIS MY WHOLE LIFE AND NOW I SEE I WAS NEVER CRAZY.

  • @shakerahs23
    @shakerahs23 3 года назад +5

    Yes it does work. I used this method years ago. I normally write and burn it. I did this when I wanted closure from someone that passed and I needed and wanted to forgive them so bad.
    ❤️❤️💕💕

  • @LeeWinters99
    @LeeWinters99 4 года назад +4

    I actually started doing this 4 days ago! Free writing will have you bringing up forgotten memories and connecting dots you would’ve never associated. I don’t burn mine but I don’t reread. The burning of the page is a physical expression of your release, once it’s gone it’s gone.

    • @bobbyw8742
      @bobbyw8742 4 года назад

      Has freely writing helped you remember forgotten memories? I suffer a lot from memory loss and can’t really figure out why my memory is messed up 😅 I wonder if this would help.

    • @LeeWinters99
      @LeeWinters99 4 года назад

      @@bobbyw8742 yes! I am extremely forgetful in general, but childhood things I experienced good and bad have come back to me because I was talking on paper

    • @bobbyw8742
      @bobbyw8742 4 года назад

      @@LeeWinters99 thank you for replying. I’ve forgotten so much of my life..I can’t remember anything prior to age 14-15 unless it’s a ‘flash’ or a ‘mental photo’ of a memory..Mostly I ‘just know’ that this or that happened in my life, it’s from somewhere deep in my subconscious.I been getting a strong urge to start writing again..I think it would help a lot.

    • @blackwell6064
      @blackwell6064 3 года назад

      @@LeeWinters99 why don't you burn the paper? just curious ?

  • @RiseandShineMinistryPodcast
    @RiseandShineMinistryPodcast 3 года назад +3

    I've been writing sense 13 years old very good therapy and failed myself as an adult, calling sharing my grace with the next believing their reaction would be a level of comforting, at 13 i was upset my grandmother a find my diary so broken to find myself breaking my own privacy as an adult ,but the power that's in your centering is so important I'm so happy to see someone else encourage the self satisfaction of facing things head on and experiencing the change in yourself and become Free ! to become exactly WHO YOU ARE! Key to this was DONT RE-READ ! Never Dwell in your sorrow the Spirit is what will move you , nothing more can inspire you but your higher power, nothing works over night. 12 years later I'm grasping the importance in protecting my blessings so I can relate to experiencing the Glory and not sharing the satisfaction now, because knowing that I'm setting myself up for Victory! Fuels me enough to stay centered with self , I know I got the Holy Ghost it's just all about how I open my center to recieve my messages! LOVE DREKA ! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHOWING ME THAT IM NOT ALONE.

    • @londonwants4242
      @londonwants4242 Год назад +1

      Wow I actually experienced something similar to this as well.. Blessings upon your journey.

  • @dedeereed7335
    @dedeereed7335 4 года назад +7

    I just love how pure and natural she is she really chill and low-key I love her for that she not all on social media. I love Dreka 😍

  • @monsterball5224
    @monsterball5224 4 года назад +17

    That’s a good idea ms gates..I been dealing with depression over 20 years and talking to other people only made them gossip about my problems to other people sometimes even my enemies so I’m definitely willing to give this a try

  • @slimtemptress7290
    @slimtemptress7290 4 года назад +8

    I love this. I’ve always kept a journal to write my thoughts down because I don’t believe in putting others in my business but I’ve never burnt them. I’m gonna incorporate that

  • @midnighter9544
    @midnighter9544 4 года назад +6

    If you write it will happen. What you write is very powerful especially if it’s like a personal letter for your self. I usually set my goals or things I haven’t achieved physically.
    Blessings on your journey

  • @nooniepoo4776
    @nooniepoo4776 4 года назад +26

    Oooooooh! Here go my girl Dreka! She’s such a beautiful spirit. We all can learn a lot from this Queen 👸🏽. Love from the Bay Area! ❤️

    • @nooniepoo4776
      @nooniepoo4776 4 года назад +1

      @@annjohnson212 Fame & Make-up? Dreka always was in the background and she barely wore make-up. Very natural!

  • @tyniy9505
    @tyniy9505 2 года назад +2

    We create our own realities… I love this!!! Thank you 🙏

  • @jaylenwatson1775
    @jaylenwatson1775 4 года назад +6

    From my experience, writing is one of the best forms of self therapy. I started about a month ago and I am way more grounded than I was before. I have see an immediate difference. This video solidifies the benefits I see in writing/journaling.

  • @Moe-wq1sz
    @Moe-wq1sz 8 месяцев назад +1

    This is Beautiful..I've done the burning for years.. your spirit is so beautiful Dreka. ❤

  • @kimberlytyler9373
    @kimberlytyler9373 4 года назад +20

    I love this, as I’ve gotten older I realize you can’t talk to people. I’m doing this right now because I have a lot of pinned up shit that I need to get out! Thanks Dreka💕

  • @BigMommaTruckn
    @BigMommaTruckn 2 года назад +3

    I remember watching this video a while back an it made me feel so much better. I’ve searched for this video again because this is how I love to deal with my hurt and disappointment. Most people will try to force u to do things their way when you seek help or answers through them. However this video taught me to rely on me. I love her energy. I am also a Virgo and love nature and going into nature for healing. I feel like I’m fighting post partum depression and do not have my sons father to help me through it because he’s chosen to be unfaithful and now has another baby coming a month after my son( his first child) this is one of the hardest things I’ve dealt with and not knowing how to let him go.

  • @Nikkiloveblossoms
    @Nikkiloveblossoms 4 года назад +8

    OMG. I have been dealing with the same thing meaning spiritual journey and learning about who I am and what I'm supposed to be doing. I know who I am but I didn't know the power that stood behind me. I would love to share my journey but I know I have some heavy baggage to release and this was actually one thing I've been putting off. Thank you.

  • @irenewilliams5145
    @irenewilliams5145 2 года назад

    I've done this my entire life! I'm not alone??!!!! Thank you God! 🥰🥰🥰🤗🤗🤗🤗🔥🔥❤️❤️

  • @shepaintsartboutique3230
    @shepaintsartboutique3230 4 года назад +13

    I love this! I actually started doing this a few months ago, it I don’t burn it. I’m gonna start burning my journals. I was afraid of someone getting hold of my thoughts.

  • @noimifilms
    @noimifilms 8 месяцев назад

    I wrote 3 pages before I knew it. I gotta do it again tomorrow. Couldn't sleep for thinking so much. Now I'm feeling relieved and tired ❤🙏✨️

  • @marielbutton9051
    @marielbutton9051 3 года назад +3

    Thank you. I’ll never forget the words when you said “what he was going, wasn’t to me, he was doing it to himself, I needed to remove myself from the equation.” It hurts to be an empath and absorb such painful energy of the others on this earth. I takes a truly strong soul to heal a broken one. I am still learning but I have been very sick physically because of all the ugly dirty energy I have absorbed. I am just learning to let things go and be. I will be doing this. I need it to make sure my soul doesn’t break in the process. You are a gift on this planet. I have hurt many people by using the sharpness of my tongue when I snap; cause I have gotten very angry, but this WILL help. Truly.. thank you.

  • @ImmaRealist81
    @ImmaRealist81 3 года назад +2

    I have been feeling so insecure lately about venting to people about my problems. this is the fn answer I been looking for. Starting today. Thanks girl

  • @MarleysHealingPlace
    @MarleysHealingPlace 4 года назад +10

    I love THIS, I have always used writing as healing. I don't do it on a daily. I should start doing it on a daily so I can keep my vibes high

  • @Amjad_HA
    @Amjad_HA 5 месяцев назад

    I just wrote in my journals tonight that i should write everyday everything I want or I need to get it out of my heart and my mind , and here you are giving me my confirmation to start it right away, I hope you’re doing well ❤

  • @Jasmine-bk5jw
    @Jasmine-bk5jw 4 года назад +5

    Yes, ❤❤❤ this, my therapist says its best to acknowledge how you feel in the moment, feel it then release it. That what you are not running from or avoiding the experience. It gets easier with practice

  • @marguello1976
    @marguello1976 16 дней назад

    I have had to watch this over and over again different months of time and who we are the last hours again of another year

  • @ateminus1
    @ateminus1 4 года назад +6

    I just love you!!!!! And you are right! I have a book and it breaks down the word (dis)ease and it says how disease means our body is in dis ease and how we can heal ourselves from within. Of course that’s not to say we don’t appreciate medicine & science, but God, our tongue, and our minds are so powerful!!!! I love your channel! I appreciate the positivity you bring to the world! ❤️

    • @ateminus1
      @ateminus1 4 года назад

      @@brooklynnn777 it’s called heal your body a-z 😊

    • @ateminus1
      @ateminus1 4 года назад

      @@brooklynnn777 same to you 🤗

  • @marcusseaton6567
    @marcusseaton6567 2 года назад

    Coming from a man's point of view this is really DEEP!!...A LOT of men don't know about things like this. I've been holding A LOT of things on the inside for the past 25+ years. Now I've gotten this out, I feel SO MUCH BETTER!!...IM SPEAKING THIS INTO EXISTENCE!!!...BETTER ME 2022!!!...STAY CONSISTENT STAY FOCUS!!!

  • @leslysalinas3702
    @leslysalinas3702 4 года назад +11

    Independent females are the best 🖤love you girl stay safe and god bless u

  • @Lovejoyful606
    @Lovejoyful606 4 года назад

    I agree with working some inner things out by yourself💫without beating yourself up.

  • @DebraJohnson
    @DebraJohnson 4 года назад +29

    I’m actually going to try this, thanks.

  • @BrianSmith-sc1xk
    @BrianSmith-sc1xk 4 года назад

    Don’t sleep on dreka, she a BIG SPEAKER, gates music and these vlogs have helped me through a lot, my mom OD’d a month ago and I dunno where I woulda been without his music, coming from the gutter and now striving to become a great father these people are my role models.

  • @yusefhasan7524
    @yusefhasan7524 4 года назад +9

    You are very calming. We all need this, Dreka.

  • @b-loved7777
    @b-loved7777 9 месяцев назад

    First , thank you . I knew I listened to this for a reason. I have been doing this for years , buttttt the gift you just gave me , “ don’t re read it “ boom 💥 that’s it that’s why I listened to the whole video. You just helped me get to my next level. Thank you mamma . I wish you a million times more than you give. May you keep growing and glowing and living a life of purpose. ONE ☝🏽✨🌊🙏🏽💜

  • @jdsquadd9763
    @jdsquadd9763 4 года назад +7

    Love you dreka. I love the woman vibe that you bring & the energy!!!!🙏🏽🗣

  • @HerbalHarmony_1
    @HerbalHarmony_1 3 года назад

    Same. On a journey wanting to go deeper. I really wanna grow closer to our creator. Become one with all this beautiful nature. I’ve always been looked at as different. So it is time for me to start walking in that. 🙏🏽

  • @aldrychcoke666
    @aldrychcoke666 3 года назад +8

    I've been so down and out I feel like no one cares and I've been trying to deal with things its driving me crazy

  • @crysgarcia6424
    @crysgarcia6424 2 года назад +1

    You are such a beautiful human being, your pure energy gives me chills!!

  • @deslove843
    @deslove843 4 года назад +13

    See i been doing tgis to myself and no lie she's stating all facts

  • @laneshastanley5034
    @laneshastanley5034 3 года назад +2

    Writing does work! I am a living witness! The quest to do better is truly amazing and life changing. Keep pushing n stay encouraged!🙌

  • @serenityempressmomma2017
    @serenityempressmomma2017 4 года назад +8

    I dealt w this for 7 years of my young life it was so tough

  • @QueenRissa_34
    @QueenRissa_34 Год назад

    I agree….I do not want people in my business!!! I am going to try this writing it out for twelve minutes…🙏🏾❤️🙌🏾

  • @shayduncan8324
    @shayduncan8324 3 года назад +4

    Omg I'm like this I write about everything not only negative, I got ton of books, I haven't written in a while could be the reason I been so emotional, I needed to hear this thanks for sharing Dreka. I don't burn mine tho I reread what I wrote. I will try it too. Thanks you. ❤️

  • @Sauci4Lyfe
    @Sauci4Lyfe 4 года назад

    I have been teaching the bathroom thing for 40 years. If it goes in it must come out! Your toilet should be your best friend

  • @kristenkane2344
    @kristenkane2344 4 года назад +16

    'You might have to take a shit after this' I am on the floor cackling

  • @krystingrant6292
    @krystingrant6292 2 года назад

    Dreka is like that long lost I never had an opportunity to connect with. I love her energy. ❤️

  • @tanmem.5028
    @tanmem.5028 4 года назад +8

    You are so refreshing and needed!! Please keep posting! This energy is needed in the Universe. PEACE QUEEN

  • @AriessunvirgomoonlightLibraise
    @AriessunvirgomoonlightLibraise 3 года назад +2

    She's gonna have her own show...like on tv not on
    YT, her spirit an energy is something more need to be aware of, she's part of the new earth that's currently being created now 💖

  • @YAHdiEL
    @YAHdiEL 3 года назад +5

    Preciate this sis, all praises to Our Creator

  • @KockyKey
    @KockyKey 3 года назад +1

    This video is so therapeutic, and Dreka is really a beautiful person. More black women need this!

  • @amillionbradley153
    @amillionbradley153 3 года назад +5

    I REALLY appreciate your dedication your strength the spiritually and purification is pure. I look up to YALL because im going thru it with my husband listening to u and my spirituality in faith is better cuz I was ready give up. I don't like social media but im glad I follow The Gates u the GENERAL u growing so fast can't nobody keep up bless up! BWA FOREVER!

  • @shanaalexander4234
    @shanaalexander4234 3 года назад

    This came in divine timing. I was just thinking earlier how I have too many people in my business. So I’m trying to recover my privacy back. It’s a little tricky when it’s your mother or a close relative.

  • @serenityempressmomma2017
    @serenityempressmomma2017 4 года назад +4

    To the point blessing in the spiritual realm wish I met you for real

  • @goddessceejay8889
    @goddessceejay8889 4 года назад +2

    I am on day number 3 and YES this does work. It also works when manifesting as well. I am a big positive thinker so I do write some positive things about myself and things that I want or need. Things are appearing like magic. 12 minutes seems like a long time but when you start writing the time flies by.