College doesn’t equate success...Trust me, I’m a teacher | Melanie Whitney | TEDxCSULB

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  • Опубликовано: 27 июл 2024
  • Many of us spend countless hours investing in our education and our careers to make a better living, but how much time do we invest in ourselves to make a better life? In this painfully real but hopeful talk, CSULB Instructor, Melanie Whitney, elaborates on 3 things you will not learn inside a traditional classroom, but are absolutely necessary to create a life outside of it. Whether you’re a student or professional, this one will inspire you to finally answer the question, what am I doing with my life?
    Melanie Whitney is a Communication Studies educator at CSULB. For six years, she developed community programs targeted towards underprivileged youth. Upon receiving her Master’s Degree in Communication Studies she left for Los Angeles in search of her dream job in Event Planning and Public Relations (that was short lived). After many let downs and lessons, she found herself in a unforeseen career that made her happier than ever, being a teacher. The biggest lesson she has learned is that college prepares us how to make a living, but not a life. Obtaining your degree is a small part of the equation. The real key to “success” is understanding who you are, what brings you joy, and accepting that those things will inevitably change.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 71

  • @roiferreach100
    @roiferreach100 6 лет назад +293

    The truth is: entering College without understanding your interest and passion will not lead to success, only to stress. Before entering college you must really know yourself and interests.

    • @kellykim3684
      @kellykim3684 5 лет назад +11

      That’s not true. College is a period where you try different fields at least until your sophomore year and you may discover your passion or interests you never knew you had that you can pursue as a career path post graduation. Most people don’t have their future and their career path figured out at the end of their high school career. It’s too early

    • @PrasodjoMuhammad
      @PrasodjoMuhammad 5 лет назад

      Well said

    • @SCL111
      @SCL111 5 лет назад +9

      Not many people at 17 or 18 knows their passion because they haven’t experienced much

    • @rebearthproductions9783
      @rebearthproductions9783 5 лет назад

      No offense but this answer made me turn off the video. Short. Sweet and true

    • @UrbanSipfly
      @UrbanSipfly 5 лет назад +1

      Why? I ask because no one for certain either know their own or for that fact, anyone else what interest or passion is or much less how it can or is defined.

  • @Angela-bn7vq
    @Angela-bn7vq 6 лет назад +32

    I admire her public-speaking skills

  • @MrsTenacidad
    @MrsTenacidad 6 лет назад +33

    Love that she is so young and very realistic.. very impressive... love it.

  • @mukiabdi9984
    @mukiabdi9984 6 лет назад +40

    Why doesn't this talk have many views🤔

  • @frostyholic8018
    @frostyholic8018 5 лет назад +18

    You should not be going to college if: You are not interested, You are not good, You will not be using the information in your life.

    • @ErutaniaRose
      @ErutaniaRose 3 года назад +1

      Tell that to high school.

    • @Martin_Pritula
      @Martin_Pritula Год назад

      @@ErutaniaRose The last one is true for pretty much vas majority of degrees :/

  • @dominikbutkovic
    @dominikbutkovic 6 лет назад +23

    I am in law college and i cant finish it, i simpley didnt find myself in that

  • @ErutaniaRose
    @ErutaniaRose 3 года назад +5

    I got PTSD from being in school. Literally. Not even kidding. I got, and still get, nightmares, panic attacks, and plenty of other symptoms. I don't care what someone offers me, I would rather go jump off a cliff into rocks than go back to school.

  • @SnipeU696
    @SnipeU696 5 лет назад +12

    More and more teachers are actually teaching this in college along with there curriculum.

  • @wesleydaniels40
    @wesleydaniels40 3 года назад +3

    I love her vibe !

  • @sadiaswr
    @sadiaswr 7 лет назад +11

    I like the triangle method
    Im gonna try it

  • @AAXSlayer09
    @AAXSlayer09 6 лет назад +11

    mann...this teacher got style.....im crushing 😍

  • @pamante7
    @pamante7 8 лет назад +17

    excellent talk, a great message very eloquently said!

  • @sadiaswr
    @sadiaswr 7 лет назад +55

    And yea the volume is really low

  • @johnbatchler8551
    @johnbatchler8551 5 лет назад +12

    I've achieve success without a degree plus multiple times college dropout. Just buy buying text book in stem field and learned it then apply to real life do I need to spend $50,000 per yr at a top universities nope

    • @andreaweber8059
      @andreaweber8059 2 года назад

      I can guess you can learn some of the stuff by reading books (not all the "on-hands" stuff, you will hardly have a laboratory in your back-yard), but who would employ you for that knowledge if you do not have a paper saying you can apply your knowledge safely?

  • @hmoobrice3405
    @hmoobrice3405 4 года назад +11

    My dad can literally do everything a car mechanical can. He change the oil, lift cars, everything you could asked for, all learned from the internet.
    Lemme tell you, college is useless especially with professor nowadays that can’t teach any subject at their professions, a man from RUclips with a Chinese accent can probably teach better

  • @ericmorales9146
    @ericmorales9146 Год назад

    She was my professor at Cerritos College in 2017. Super awesome and really wanted you to succeed

  • @inspiredplus
    @inspiredplus 2 года назад

    Very realistic. Thank you Melanie.

  • @GoldenDarknezz
    @GoldenDarknezz 8 лет назад +101

    This is a talking channel, so why is the volume shit? I can barely hear her and my volume is maxed out.

    • @SorenSpada
      @SorenSpada 8 лет назад

      Agreed. Pls sound boost.

    • @erichom672
      @erichom672 8 лет назад

      Agreed. Pls sound boost.

    • @nathanielkoh1613
      @nathanielkoh1613 8 лет назад

      I also agree, with the sound boost.

    • @MSotelo503
      @MSotelo503 6 лет назад

      Lol true.

    • @hodl1570
      @hodl1570 6 лет назад

      They sound boosted 2 years later. Sounds great now lol

  • @tcproductionz1
    @tcproductionz1 4 года назад

    Great speech

  • @oceannotion272
    @oceannotion272 5 лет назад +15

    Come be my teacher. . . .
    Cause my teachers do never try to understand their students

  • @chinmoydutta489
    @chinmoydutta489 6 лет назад +1

    cheers to life

  • @amrithas182
    @amrithas182 6 лет назад +3

    boost sound

  • @geargrinder69
    @geargrinder69 6 лет назад +90

    She's hot

  • @RIMJANESSOHMALOOG
    @RIMJANESSOHMALOOG 6 лет назад +10

    Jessica alba +Scarlett johansson

  • @maryahhendershot9370
    @maryahhendershot9370 3 года назад

    the audio is very quiet... college can still be a great experience, however.

  • @mathisr.44
    @mathisr.44 5 лет назад +16

    Generation Z: I am not going to college. I don't need to. Even if I did, our American high school system has not prepared me for life outside of high school.
    College is Round 2.
    I don't need a degree to be successful. I need Wisdom, not only Knowledge. Our schools teach Knowledge and not *how* to pay bills or life skills. That is why we fall apart so easily.
    American Grinders: ⬆️
    Preparation for life: ⬇️
    Antidepressant sales: ⬆️
    (I discovered this IN high school, btw)

    • @lmusima3275
      @lmusima3275 3 года назад +1

      And these university graduates are coming out with six figure debts. In the U.K. I've met graduates who owe £40k

    • @ErutaniaRose
      @ErutaniaRose 3 года назад

      @@lmusima3275 Ya, hard to get any job you care about and focus on anything when you have so much debt.

    • @andreaweber8059
      @andreaweber8059 2 года назад

      @@lmusima3275for Europe, owning 40k is rather a lot.

  • @mmawalidh
    @mmawalidh 4 года назад +2

    Need better audio guys.

  • @seinfan9
    @seinfan9 4 года назад +2

    I think the problem is the career choice.

  • @mrsvoyage
    @mrsvoyage 5 лет назад +1

    Some degre are good but not all

  • @thedenalski4038
    @thedenalski4038 4 года назад +2

    the talk: inspirational
    the comments: 🤤

  • @oname4553
    @oname4553 3 года назад

    Sound Volume is Unconsistesnt

  • @pottop880
    @pottop880 5 лет назад +3

    I thought she has short hair. It would really fit her.

  • @olithevert
    @olithevert 6 лет назад +3

    yoo i need more info about her, cuz im trynna holla @her

  • @ronpaul5319
    @ronpaul5319 3 года назад +1

    Ironic, she talks about how college fails to make graduates successful but ADVOCATES FOR THEM BEING A FOOD STYLIST. Just pick a trade, get good at something.

  • @Neel-ff4mn
    @Neel-ff4mn 7 лет назад +40

    Here's a simple solution: DON'T GO TO COLLEGE!!!

  • @karansewbaran5773
    @karansewbaran5773 6 лет назад +15

    i would marry her

    • @lmusima3275
      @lmusima3275 3 года назад

      Great! Can i come to the wedding? 😎

  • @j_thom
    @j_thom 5 лет назад +1

    Babe!