Most Hmong men are at fault when it comes to special events. Only once a year. Is not everyday. We women didn't ask too much only once a year. You are to be blame. If you don't change your way didn't matter how many times you married it will not work.
this is not once a year thing for some women. It's birthdays, mother's day, women's day, valentines day, christmas, anniversaries, and just about everyday hahahaha
@@MySunshine71 yes all those events but is not everyday. You celebrate all those events once a year only. Or do you celebrate your BD twice a year? And those events are months apart. When is our husband we don't forget we do something for the guys even just a card.
Let this be a lesson learned. Some of you men siab me heev. It’s the little things that matters to us women. Remember, celebrating special occasion only happens once a year, celebrate well with your significant other! Money you can always earned back.
sometimes i don’t understand why some men cant do these small favors for the person they love. giving babies and making out is not all about showing love. txiv neej ces ntshe ua yawg nrauj 2-3 zaug thiaj paub nws lub txim txhaum.
Koj niam aw, xyaum qhov zoo ces tsis xav mloog os. Mine is like that too. He doesn’t listen to stories that’ll benefit him and make him to be a better person.
Don't worry dude you are not alone. My husband is one of the few that don't celebrate nothing and I'm okay with it cause I'm not like your ex-wives so we had no problem in the marriage. Women like me just want a faithful husband who only has eyes on her and no one else. That's is what love is about....
I'm not a sentimental person either but I can see where this guy went wrong in a lot of things. He didn't treat his first wife equally or with respect in many areas. He also listened to the wrong people that he now have regrets about and discarded his first marriage too eagerly.
You can’t put your way of feeling loved upon others’ and say that’s love. Doing so will just put you in this guy’s class. People have different love languages that we speak and want to hear, see, feel or receive. Your love language is not the same as hers and your husband is speaking yours to you so you are satisfied. But her love language is affection quality time and gifts. That’s how she feels love and her husband refused to speak to her.
Wait until he finds someone he dotes upon and does everything for her. You’ll kick yourself for being naive. Every person has it in them to cherish and do special things for the one they love.
Txiv neej Hmoob 75% yeej coj li no, but nej yuav tau hloov me ntsis poj niam Thiaj tsis ntshaw2 luag. Thaum peb ntshaw2 los nej twb tsis kam ua pub rau peb los nej tseem cem peb Thiab ces tu siab dhau ces kawg yuav mus seb puas tau qhov peb ntshaw hos yuav cia koj nyob es mam ke ua ke kawm li ko.
Kuv ces rau tus viv ncaus kod txhais khau kiag lis ma. Tusiab kawg los vim yus laus tag lawn ces nrauj los Tsis zoo dab tsi lawm lam Nyob os. Muab xav tias yog yus txoj hmoov phem es Thiaj tau ib niag txiv zoo Li ntawd no xwb os :(
Do a little thing like buying flowers on special occasion is not a big deal, bro. Helping your wife cooking and cleaning the house is part of being a family. You men need to learn lesson like this man in his story.
You show your love to the wrong person. Some us women just want their husband to show a little love once in a while. Your first wife should have been the one you should have show your love too cause she wasn’t expecting to much, just a little. I hope you will find someone like your first wife and maybe show a little love. This is a lesson to some of our husband that are not romantic. Thanks for sharing your story, hopefully it will open some of our couples who have husband similar to you open their eyes so that they don’t make the same mistake. Women like me and your first wife, we don’t ask for much just a little during special occasions.
Tus brother, many ppl men and women don't know what they got until is gone but hopefully, today you learn your lesson and learned it well. In the future, yog tus poj niam twg txoj mhoo ho los txog koj ces nyaj koj yuav yog 1 tug txiv zoo rau nws lawm os. Tos peb 1 Co poj nrauj ho xaiv lub neej nyob 1 leeg nrog tej mi nyuam xwb los vim yog kuj ntshai2 tau cov txiv tsis zoo tsis txawj xav lawm thiab tiag. Xyov yog tim yus los tim lub ntuj li cas pheej tsis pab coj tus zoo mus ntsib tus zoo es tus phem rau tus phem li ces nyias ntshai2 nyias ces cia li muaj cov 1 txhais yim neej coob2 li tiam sis cia siab tias muaj 1 nhub koj ntsib tus poj niam zoo no nyaj koj kawm tiav lawm ces koj yuav coj zoo rau nws lawm os nawb. Good luck to you...
Dude, it’s because of you having too much pride and ego that your marriage failed. Any woman would want to feel loved, respected and appreciated. It doesn’t hurt to show affection.
This is not just all hmong men....it is all men....that is why they make fun of guys on tv shows....everybody is equal in at home and taking care of kids....and celebrating love..there's more to this story...there are some women who does not appreciated a good men..too..
Brother, sounds like you have learned your lesson. I hope that you will find someone special to share the rest of your life with. People don't be too mean to this brother...he learned from his first wife but his 2nd wife just took advantage of him.
Tiam 21 no muab paj thiab zaub mov los hu poj niam plig lawm xwb. Tsis ta tos lwm hnub es mam muab nyuj muab twm los muab ntxuav ntxw los hu plig. Thaum ntawv ces hu plig los plig tsis los lawm.
This man is so stingy, I spent thousands and thousands on skin care products and exercise equipments and my husband never complained. Ladies, love yourself and stay young and beautiful.
Yog peb feem coob cov txiv neej hmoob saib tej kev ua birthday, mother’s day, Christmas mus rau valentines no tsis tseem ceeb pheem nroo tias mekas li ntiag tu pheej yuav ua nkim nyiaj xwb!! Cia kom muaj li no thiab es seb peb cov txiv neej hmoob cov nyob suam lej 4,5,6 no puas hloov coob os! Cov no yog cov nplaum thiab saib tej kev no tsis khuav qhov muag kiag!!
Pojniam lub siab ces zoo li lub hnab to qhov, ntim nws npaum licas lis yeej tsis puv. Kuv tus ntshaw yam twg los tau tag lis yeej tseem khiav kuv. Txawm koj yuav txiav kiag koj lub tauhau rau los nws yeej yuav khiav koj.
My husband's oldest brother's mindset is exactly like this guy's that's why he's been divorced twice too. When my husband and I first got married he made fun and criticized my husband for being a good pet and that he's whipped. My husband didn't care he loves me and we'll be celebrating our 18 yrs together this year. Some advice to the men, when you help your wife around the house that doesn't make you less of a man, it actually turns us women on. It's really attractive when a man cooks and clean. Showering her with gifts and flowers is a plus. So please appreciate her and value her or else it will be too late like this guy's life here. Take care.
Peb cov txiv Hmong ib co yeej tsis paub hlub poj niam li like romantic date , celebrating birthday, valentines etc. Kuv yuav tau ib tu txiv Hmong thiab nws yeej tsis paub hlub los yog ua romantic nrog kuv li tu siab kawg.
ib txhia txiv neej tsis paub txog pojniam txoj kev ntshaw tabsis peb kuj txhob ask too much from men thiab...peb ib txhia pojniam ask too much, expect expensive stuff, and gifts. we only live by what we can afford. love is from the heart, not buying stuff to make us happy. yog yus muaj nyiaj ua tau kawg tabsis yuav tsum measure seb yus ob niamtxiv qhov financial puas duav yus. nyob by creditcard xwb ces tsis worth nothing li os...ib txhia txiv ua tsis tau los thov peb cov pojniam txhob ntshaw ntshaw tej ntawd thiab tshuav yus tus txiv hlub yus, txawj pab yus, tsis tham hluas nkauj ces zoo tshaj lawm, nis yuav koom plig txhua events, yog lub neej tsis zoo, ces tej ntawd tsis muaj nqi dabtsi li os..
You shouldn't regret about your decision. All you have to do is finding someone that is compatible with you. Those two weren't meant to be yours so put your head up and move on. Hope you luck bro!
Tus txiv tsev aw, qee koj lub siab qia dub, lub niag hlwb ruam tim plog teb uas cia poj niam ua qhev npaum li cas los yeej tsis siv ib lub caij rau yus tus poj niam. Poj niam ntshaw npaum li cas tseem hais tias”kuv twb muab Kuv tus kheej rau koj lawm ces zoo lawm los mas” Cov niag hlwb laus no nws tsis work rau lub teb chaws vam meej no lawm vim tiam 21 no kev hlub, kev ua zoo thiab kev khoom plig, yuav Paj rau poj niam yog #1
Tebbchaws meskas opposite tim nplog lawm, sib nrauj hnub twg ces txoj kev txom nyem los txog hnub ntawd rau tus txiv. Tus txiv koj yuav tsum txo fwj chim es los hlub thiab pab tus niam tiag tiag luag thiaj tsis muab kev quaj ntsuag rau yus. Poj niam hais li cas ces yus cia li teb hais tias "yes, boss...yes boss" no xwb nawb.
Hom txiv neej zoo li tus no tsis sawm zoo vim tau poj niam zoo hos tsis kam celebrate ib qho occasion hlo...Cia kom lwm tus muab nws tsim thiab siv thiaj li paub li...
Riam los tseem yuav tau rov tam riam thiaj siv nyog. Tsis hais poj niam los yog txiv neej yuav tau rua qhov muag ua neej. Saib ciaj ua noj saib xwm txheej ua neej. Yuav tau kawm thiab hloov mog. Muaj tej yam me me xwb peb twb hloov tsis tau es peb yuav ua cas hloov tau peb lub ce thiab peb tus kheej. Do not choose to blame, choose to fix it. Txhob ntshaw meej mom thiab txhob ntshai poob ntsej muag mog.. Luag yog president los yog vaj nrxwv luag twb tsis txaj muag thaum luag poob tsim..
Koj yog ib tug txiv tseem coj li xyoo 75 thiaj tsis txawj ua kom poj niam nyiam cov txiv neej coj li koj tseem muaj coob2 kawg cas nej tsis nyob tim nplog es txhob tuaj tim meskas no mas yog tuaj rau meskas lawv yuav tau coj zoo hloov thiab meb..koj ces niam qhuav ntxim xwb os
Ntsib cov nkauj nrab nyiam2 lom zem li ko ces kawg khaub hlab xwb lau phooj ywg ua neej nyob tsis ntsuas yus tus kheej siv nyiaj xav ua dab tsis ces ua kom tau xwb nyuab lau
The title of this hmong man story should be named “Kuv lub siab tsis pauv hlub kuv tus niam tsev lub neej thiab dau mus ua txiv dev”Lol!! Women’s needed loves from her man is to take efforts and action to show it, not just the words alone! My man said he loves me but just the words he said, words is easier for everyone expressed.
I have never receive any flowers, chocolates, gifts etc from my husband and I’m still married to the same guy 16 years strong! If I ever receive gifts from my husband, Great! But if I don’t, I’m fine with it! These little gifts will not last a lifetime, but his love will! As long as he loves you for who you are, that’s what counts. Don’t make these little things a big issue and cost your marriage.
Same here. But truth be told,.it does breaks my heart that I never get any of these "considered" romantic items. I know it broke your heart sometimes too but you just don't let it ruined your life.
Cov txiv neej ruam ces coj li ko tiag u tej kwv tij dag kom u nrauj los u cia nrauj hloov u tu kheej los ua kom u tu niam tsev zoo siab nrog u ua u lub neej kom ob leeg muaj kev kaj siab xwb twb ua tsis tau ces thiaj nyob txom nyem Ntsuav li ko lauv peb cov me txiv neej hmoob nej yuav tau hloov thiab ua raws poj niam txoj kev ntshaw es lub neej thiaj tsis nyiaj siab thiab nawb niaj hnub no muaj ib txhia tseem coj zoo li ntawv tab sis vim tu poj niam siab ntev thiab siab zoo tsis xav mus ua poj nrauj es thiaj tseem nyob xwb nawb tsawg2 tu thiaj lucky xwb os
Women just want to be loved and appreciated. Words don’t always show it all. You need to show some love and affection towards your wife. Do special things. A lot of Hmong men lack in this category, especially the older generations. All women like a man who know how to treat a women. If most Hmong men could just do that I’m pretty sure their would be less headaches and divorces. Same goes to Hmong women as well.
He needs to read the Love Languages. Even though my love language isn't gifts, I still appreciate them and it's super exciting to receive flowers out of the blue. My ex was a big learning experience, no romance, no appreciation, no gifts.. just a stagnant marriage with many lackings and a wasted 17 years. My soon-to-be husband is everything that my ex would not be. Learn your love languages and communicate. Communicate if you want all of the above or learn what makes eachother feel loved. It's not just gifts for some, it may be acts of service or physical touch, whatever it is, just openly communicate.
Thaub koj lub siab yog siab dev xwb ne tos koj yuav tsaug tus poj Niam los luag nrog koj ua tsis taus neej nam koj tsuas hlub koj tus kheej xwb koj tsis hlub lwm tus vim koj yog siab dev yeej tsis paub ntshai luag tu siab li ne es yog koj tsis hloov koj lub siab dev los ua siab neeg ces tsis muaj poj Niam yuav nrog koj ua taus neej li nawj vim siab neeg thiab siab dev yeej nyob tsis tau ua ke 1 zaug hlo es hloov nawj yog koj xav muaj lub neej thiab muaj poj Niam los nrog koj nyob nam hloov es muab Suav pov tsaug los coj siab neeg es koj thiaj muaj poj Niam zoo rau koj nawj thaub
Tsis muaj tus poj niam los yus ua yus ib yim neej li peb cov poj niam mas, tus brother. Nej twb cem cem peb tias yog peb tsis muaj tus txiv ces peb ua maum dev thawj thiab ib yim rau ib yim no ne. Tab sis peb muaj vaj tse nyob. Peb ua tau ib yig.
Hnub no koj mam paub txijnkawm txoj kev hlub haub lub cuab yig thiab kwvtij txhob koj sib nrauj ces lig dhau. Koj muab pobzeb tsoo koj tobhau🤯, npuaj teg koj noog🦅 ya, koj ntaug taw koj nas 🐿khiav xwb.
Tij lau cav pe lau li no yeej tsis tau poj duab paj ib zau li ho mus nj mo lo tsis tau muaj ib zau li lo twb g ua cav thiab tag si tu siab nqo ua tau tu txiv hau nthua xwb xav ko tau ib tu hlub yus tsis muaj paj lo xo hau nthau xb ce nthe twb zoo siab tsis ta li os
Brother your first wife was wrong in comparing her relationship with others but you were also wrong in not listening to the signs. If you invested your time and showed some love and attention to your wife she would not envied her sister-in-law. Also remember that no matter how long you are married you should continue to work on your relationship. Showing love does not mean you have to buy expensive things. It’s the time that you spend and effort you put in to show you love and appreciate your spouse. It can be as simple as saying I love you, writing a loving message, or just saying thanks when your spouse does something nice.
A lot of people comment that most of the Hmong men are at fault and being narrow minded. A small birthday, valentine or anniversary is not a problem to our men but if every celebration is a huge party to empty your pocket is not a god thing to us all. you need to understand money does not grow on trees. we need to save money for a rainy day. you also have children at home are waiting for foods and other stuffs. a lot of people like to show off but showing off does not make a better couple.
If he threw the first wife a small party she would've of been over the moon but he didn't, he rather threw a massive party for his second wife who thinks its just a small party.
Well, a small birthday, valentine dinner was all his first wife ever wanted and he can’t even fulfill the littlest things for her. Plus, it’s not like it’s a everyday thing, only during special occasion and he can’t even do it. Too bad, his loss.
To all that has dogged on Hmong men.. Im sorry you have met all the failures within. 1st wife: You should have done your due diligence and made her happy. Flowers on every occasion, dinners, and what women loves best are the mini vacations 😘. 2nd wife : You married a door mat that was poor and was looking for a sugar daddy. Obviously, you were trying to be someone you were not.
Me txiv tsev koj ob tug poj niam dhau los siv nyiaj loj2 thiab ntshaw2 kev hlub li ces tsis txhob yuav hmoob tej ntxhais los ua poj niam lawm es tom ntej no ces mus yuav Maiv Lauj thiab Maiv Xis nkawd los ua poj niam lawm xwb es thiaj tsis siv nyiaj nawb es koj muab li cas los nkawd siv li ntawm xwb thiaj txuag tau nyiaj nawb.
Most Hmong men are at fault when it comes to special events. Only once a year. Is not everyday. We women didn't ask too much only once a year. You are to be blame. If you don't change your way didn't matter how many times you married it will not work.
Nyob zoo og
Super true!!
this is not once a year thing for some women. It's birthdays, mother's day, women's day, valentines day, christmas, anniversaries, and just about everyday hahahaha
@@MySunshine71 yes all those events but is not everyday. You celebrate all those events once a year only. Or do you celebrate your BD twice a year? And those events are months apart. When is our husband we don't forget we do something for the guys even just a card.
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Tau cov niag txiv neej npaj nauj ces zoo li koj niag txiv no ma, g hais leej twg peb yog poj niam peb yeej ntshaw
Let this be a lesson learned. Some of you men siab me heev. It’s the little things that matters to us women. Remember, celebrating special occasion only happens once a year, celebrate well with your significant other! Money you can always earned back.
Txiv neej hmoob yeej qia dub txoj kev hlub heev li , yeej tsis nyoo xiam piaj yuav txo hwj chim hlub tus poj niam li, txhob hais tias tej yam ub yam no yog luag lwm haiv neeg xwb, yus twb nyob luag lub,ntuj thiab ne, 3 poj niam yeej ntshaw2 kev hlub thiab thiaj li yuav tus txiv os tus mi txiv tsev aw
sometimes i don’t understand why some men cant do these small favors for the person they love. giving babies and making out is not all about showing love.
txiv neej ces ntshe ua yawg nrauj 2-3 zaug thiaj paub nws lub txim txhaum.
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.... Most men do but not in the eyes of his wife because she has her heart set like someone elses. This case, his younger brother.
Whao! neb daim duab no zoo heev li. Neb sib phim kawg nkaws li os May. Ua tsaug rau koj lub sij hawm hais dab neeg rau peb mloog.
Cas es peb cov poj niam es yuav muaj ib co ntshaw khoom plig npaum ntag. Thov txhob muab ntshaw tshaj qhov yus lub peev Xwm thiab.
I wish my husband would listen to this story, but i know he wouldn’t and even if he did he, wouldn’t learn anything.
Koj niam aw, xyaum qhov zoo ces tsis xav mloog os. Mine is like that too. He doesn’t listen to stories that’ll benefit him and make him to be a better person.
Life is too short .. but also know when things can be let go and when it’s too much for you to handle for the rest of your life.
Don't worry dude you are not alone. My husband is one of the few that don't celebrate nothing and I'm okay with it cause I'm not like your ex-wives so we had no problem in the marriage. Women like me just want a faithful husband who only has eyes on her and no one else. That's is what love is about....
Good point, hope others read ur comments. Everyone is different.
I agree with you me and my husband been married for 20 year he never said he love me and never buy me flower I still love him no matter what.
I'm not a sentimental person either but I can see where this guy went wrong in a lot of things. He didn't treat his first wife equally or with respect in many areas. He also listened to the wrong people that he now have regrets about and discarded his first marriage too eagerly.
You can’t put your way of feeling loved upon others’ and say that’s love. Doing so will just put you in this guy’s class.
People have different love languages that we speak and want to hear, see, feel or receive.
Your love language is not the same as hers and your husband is speaking yours to you so you are satisfied. But her love language is affection quality time and gifts. That’s how she feels love and her husband refused to speak to her.
Wait until he finds someone he dotes upon and does everything for her. You’ll kick yourself for being naive. Every person has it in them to cherish and do special things for the one they love.
kuv tus txiv ces zoo kiag li koj thiab tiag tu siab ntshaj plaws li
Los. Txhob tu siab tag tag thiab tseem tshuav peb ib cov pojniam no los yeej taug koj txoj kev thiab ma.
Txiv neej Hmoob 75% yeej coj li no, but nej yuav tau hloov me ntsis poj niam Thiaj tsis ntshaw2 luag. Thaum peb ntshaw2 los nej twb tsis kam ua pub rau peb los nej tseem cem peb Thiab ces tu siab dhau ces kawg yuav mus seb puas tau qhov peb ntshaw hos yuav cia koj nyob es mam ke ua ke kawm li ko.
Kuv ces rau tus viv ncaus kod txhais khau kiag lis ma. Tusiab kawg los vim yus laus tag lawn ces nrauj los Tsis zoo dab tsi lawm lam Nyob os. Muab xav tias yog yus txoj hmoov phem es Thiaj tau ib niag txiv zoo Li ntawd no xwb os :(
Hais tau zoo heev sib pab os
Special events once a year is not too much to ask because she deserves more. It's good that your first wife found someone who loves her.
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Do a little thing like buying flowers on special occasion is not a big deal, bro. Helping your wife cooking and cleaning the house is part of being a family. You men need to learn lesson like this man in his story.
Yus tsi xum ua zoo rau yus tus niam nkauj txhav qaib es yus xum muab yus tus nrauj es mus ua zoo rau lwm tus. Ua neej rov qab ces yog koj ntag lo....
Neb daim duab nov ntxim hlub sib phim kawg li nawb
You show your love to the wrong person. Some us women just want their husband to show a little love once in a while. Your first wife should have been the one you should have show your love too cause she wasn’t expecting to much, just a little. I hope you will find someone like your first wife and maybe show a little love. This is a lesson to some of our husband that are not romantic. Thanks for sharing your story, hopefully it will open some of our couples who have husband similar to you open their eyes so that they don’t make the same mistake. Women like me and your first wife, we don’t ask for much just a little during special occasions.
Tus brother, many ppl men and women don't know what they got until is gone but hopefully, today you learn your lesson and learned it well. In the future, yog tus poj niam twg txoj mhoo ho los txog koj ces nyaj koj yuav yog 1 tug txiv zoo rau nws lawm os. Tos peb 1 Co poj nrauj ho xaiv lub neej nyob 1 leeg nrog tej mi nyuam xwb los vim yog kuj ntshai2 tau cov txiv tsis zoo tsis txawj xav lawm thiab tiag. Xyov yog tim yus los tim lub ntuj li cas pheej tsis pab coj tus zoo mus ntsib tus zoo es tus phem rau tus phem li ces nyias ntshai2 nyias ces cia li muaj cov 1 txhais yim neej coob2 li tiam sis cia siab tias muaj 1 nhub koj ntsib tus poj niam zoo no nyaj koj kawm tiav lawm ces koj yuav coj zoo rau nws lawm os nawb. Good luck to you...
Omg my hubby is just like this guy n pretty soon my hubby gonna be divorced guy for the second time too
Ib tug neeg es yuav tos yus hais mam li ua xwb tu neeg no tsis yog ua tawm hauv lub siab hlub tuaj nws lam ua kom koj txhob chim xwb
May, I’m sure you already know this but you are so naturally beautiful.
I find May’s Beauty to be extremely unique. ❤️
She is truly natural beautiful and don't forget her beautiful voices too.......and love the way laugh 😆
Zoo qhia rau cov txiv neej kawg li
This man in this story need to learn how to treasure a good woman but you need to learn from the hard way and learn from your mistakes
Dude, it’s because of you having too much pride and ego that your marriage failed. Any woman would want to feel loved, respected and appreciated. It doesn’t hurt to show affection.
This is a lesson to learn for us Hmong men that don’t know how to show ur wife love and respect
This is not just all hmong men....it is all men....that is why they make fun of guys on tv shows....everybody is equal in at home and taking care of kids....and celebrating love..there's more to this story...there are some women who does not appreciated a good men..too..
May Koj mas hais dab neeg zoo heev
Siab me ces qhia koj paub!
Sawv Koj ntxov kawg
Me kwv, nrhiav txij nkawm mas Txhob xav tias Yuav nrhiav kom tau tus hlub hlub koj xwb Txhob mus nrhiav tus kom zoo tshaj tus qub mas
Brother, sounds like you have learned your lesson. I hope that you will find someone special to share the rest of your life with.
People don't be too mean to this brother...he learned from his first wife but his 2nd wife just took advantage of him.
Kev txij nkawm sib hlub yuav tsum tawm tuaj hauv lub siab tiag2 xwb. Yog yuav tsum muaj nyiaj thiaj sib hlub aub tu siab kawg
Thaub,koj ua neej rov qab vim koj yog ib tus neeg tsis sawv zoo nawb. Tsis tsob tus tus siab os
Poj nrauj xyob txhiaj zoo li ntawv tag ib tug niam tsev zoo yuav khoom yuav li teb chaws ib lub kab paus $2.000 hauv nws lub hlab puas muaj ib puas lam saus kom teb chaws qhuas tab sis tsis txog twg os
Kav tsij mua puag koj pob nyiaj xwb txhob puag puag poj niam os
Cov pojniam zoo li koj tus niam#2 yog niam xyob txhiaj.....neeg plog tsab muaj....
Koj yuav tsum txhob ua neeg ruam tsab ntse, pluag tsab muaj yus yuav tsum tswj yus lub neej txhob cia lwm tus txiav txim yus lub neej mog
Happy wife happy life?
Vim you lub siab phem xwb
These types of women wanted a "Sugar Daddy" not a husband.
Lol, yeah there's two sides to everything 🤣😂😅
Men that think like this want a maid, not a wife. 😂
The second wife wants a sugar daddy...$2,000 purse...
This kinds of married is called dead marriage.
Tiam 21 no muab paj thiab zaub mov los hu poj niam plig lawm xwb. Tsis ta tos lwm hnub es mam muab nyuj muab twm los muab ntxuav ntxw los hu plig. Thaum ntawv ces hu plig los plig tsis los lawm.
This man is so stingy, I spent thousands and thousands on skin care products and exercise equipments and my husband never complained. Ladies, love yourself and stay young and beautiful.
Tus txiv tsev koj ua tau zoo kawg
Yog peb feem coob cov txiv neej hmoob saib tej kev ua birthday, mother’s day, Christmas mus rau valentines no tsis tseem ceeb pheem nroo tias mekas li ntiag tu pheej yuav ua nkim nyiaj xwb!! Cia kom muaj li no thiab es seb peb cov txiv neej hmoob cov nyob suam lej 4,5,6 no puas hloov coob os! Cov no yog cov nplaum thiab saib tej kev no tsis khuav qhov muag kiag!!
Is ok brother. Some other had it worst. Just be patient and work hard for yourself
May koj hais tau zoo heev
Pojniam lub siab ces zoo li lub hnab to qhov, ntim nws npaum licas lis yeej tsis puv. Kuv tus ntshaw yam twg los tau tag lis yeej tseem khiav kuv. Txawm koj yuav txiav kiag koj lub tauhau rau los nws yeej yuav khiav koj.
Tej lau yeej ib txwm hais tias, lag luam zoo tsua yog thawj ntsug , txij nkawm zoo tsua yog thawj tug ..... muaj tiag laiv yom???
Cov txiv neej qe qub tsis txawj hlub poj niam li koj ces yuav tsawg tus los koj yeej kawg ua yawg nrauj li os.
Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb...siab phem siab dub tshob cuab diam ...tsav fwj chim txij ntuj tsis hlub tus nws hlub hlub koj. ..ces kawg mag
Peb ib cov pojniam ces ntshaw 2 a little romantics es lub siab tuag tag, txoj kev ntshaw cia li ploj mus tag.
koj ua nej rov qab lawm thiab koj lub niag hlwb khiav rov qab lawm os thaub aw.
Yus ntshais poj niam vim yog yus txoj kev qia dub peb cov txiv neej nav ntsh 1 rab phom yuav tsum yuav kom tau xwb .. ntshaw niam yaus los yuav tsum yuav kom tau niam yaus xwb ca poj niam thov koj me 2 xwb ca koj ho tsis ua rau yam li ntxim nyob 1 leeg ntsia luag sib hlub sib puag rau koj saib xwb lauj
My husband's oldest brother's mindset is exactly like this guy's that's why he's been divorced twice too. When my husband and I first got married he made fun and criticized my husband for being a good pet and that he's whipped. My husband didn't care he loves me and we'll be celebrating our 18 yrs together this year. Some advice to the men, when you help your wife around the house that doesn't make you less of a man, it actually turns us women on. It's really attractive when a man cooks and clean. Showering her with gifts and flowers is a plus. So please appreciate her and value her or else it will be too late like this guy's life here. Take care.
You learned from your mistakes, so it’s good.
Peb cov txiv Hmong ib co yeej tsis paub hlub poj niam li like romantic date , celebrating birthday, valentines etc. Kuv yuav tau ib tu txiv Hmong thiab nws yeej tsis paub hlub los yog ua romantic nrog kuv li tu siab kawg.
Txiv siab me niam qhuav ncim kawg
Yes he is small heart but wait if you have the big heart husband you 2 will be so poor.
Cov txiv neej uas tsis muaj kev hlub thiab tsis txawj sib pab ces yuav tsum nyob ib leeg li ko xwb thiaj tsis muaj kev nyuaj siab hos
ib txhia txiv neej tsis paub txog pojniam txoj kev ntshaw tabsis peb kuj txhob ask too much from men thiab...peb ib txhia pojniam ask too much, expect expensive stuff, and gifts. we only live by what we can afford. love is from the heart, not buying stuff to make us happy. yog yus muaj nyiaj ua tau kawg tabsis yuav tsum measure seb yus ob niamtxiv qhov financial puas duav yus. nyob by creditcard xwb ces tsis worth nothing li os...ib txhia txiv ua tsis tau los thov peb cov pojniam txhob ntshaw ntshaw tej ntawd thiab tshuav yus tus txiv hlub yus, txawj pab yus, tsis tham hluas nkauj ces zoo tshaj lawm, nis yuav koom plig txhua events, yog lub neej tsis zoo, ces tej ntawd tsis muaj nqi dabtsi li os..
Some men's have very small heart and very greedy.
Too boogie
Txiv neej tsis sawm zoo, luag twb tias luam zoo thawj ntsug, txij nkawm zoo thawj tug yus tsis hlub luag thaum luag sim lawm yus mus tau ib niag uas luag ntse2 ces yus ces kawg ntoo tsis nyoo ces luag muab yus ncaws tawm ces yus ho nyoo tuag nthi
Lesson Learned...Your wife needed Love & Appreciation...Meanwhile, your GF only wanted your $... Best of luck.
Txhob ntshaw ntshaw thiab. Things only to showed. Peb cov Txiv neej hmoob na. Kom lawv hlub yus es lawv Ua ces. Txhob tos os mog.
You shouldn't regret about your decision. All you have to do is finding someone that is compatible with you. Those two weren't meant to be yours so put your head up and move on. Hope you luck bro!
Tus txiv tsev aw, qee koj lub siab qia dub, lub niag hlwb ruam tim plog teb uas cia poj niam ua qhev npaum li cas los yeej tsis siv ib lub caij rau yus tus poj niam. Poj niam ntshaw npaum li cas tseem hais tias”kuv twb muab Kuv tus kheej rau koj lawm ces zoo lawm los mas” Cov niag hlwb laus no nws tsis work rau lub teb chaws vam meej no lawm vim tiam 21 no kev hlub, kev ua zoo thiab kev khoom plig, yuav Paj rau poj niam yog #1
Tebbchaws meskas opposite tim nplog lawm, sib nrauj hnub twg ces txoj kev txom nyem los txog hnub ntawd rau tus txiv. Tus txiv koj yuav tsum txo fwj chim es los hlub thiab pab tus niam tiag tiag luag thiaj tsis muab kev quaj ntsuag rau yus. Poj niam hais li cas ces yus cia li teb hais tias "yes, boss...yes boss" no xwb nawb.
Ngob mis kas twb txis txom ngem li ngob ngab laj os tij laug
Hom txiv neej zoo li tus no tsis sawm zoo vim tau poj niam zoo hos tsis kam celebrate ib qho occasion hlo...Cia kom lwm tus muab nws tsim thiab siv thiaj li paub li...
Riam los tseem yuav tau rov tam riam thiaj siv nyog. Tsis hais poj niam los yog txiv neej yuav tau rua qhov muag ua neej. Saib ciaj ua noj saib xwm txheej ua neej. Yuav tau kawm thiab hloov mog. Muaj tej yam me me xwb peb twb hloov tsis tau es peb yuav ua cas hloov tau peb lub ce thiab peb tus kheej. Do not choose to blame, choose to fix it. Txhob ntshaw meej mom thiab txhob ntshai poob ntsej muag mog.. Luag yog president los yog vaj nrxwv luag twb tsis txaj muag thaum luag poob tsim..
Koj yog ib tug txiv tseem coj li xyoo 75 thiaj tsis txawj ua kom poj niam nyiam cov txiv neej coj li koj tseem muaj coob2 kawg cas nej tsis nyob tim nplog es txhob tuaj tim meskas no mas yog tuaj rau meskas lawv yuav tau coj zoo hloov thiab meb..koj ces niam qhuav ntxim xwb os
Txhob tag ke cia siab tim nplog tseem tshuav cob. Tseem nyob tos koj.
Ntsib cov nkauj nrab nyiam2 lom zem li ko ces kawg khaub hlab xwb lau phooj ywg ua neej nyob tsis ntsuas yus tus kheej siv nyiaj xav ua dab tsis ces ua kom tau xwb nyuab lau
Sadly, guys reflect too late. All women want is their husband time and love. He changed for the wrong person. Glad he learn his lesson.
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Vim ...Koj yog qia dub Ned..yuav leej twg los..thiab tsis zoo
The title of this hmong man story should be named “Kuv lub siab tsis pauv hlub kuv tus niam tsev lub neej thiab dau mus ua txiv dev”Lol!! Women’s needed loves from her man is to take efforts and action to show it, not just the words alone! My man said he loves me but just the words he said, words is easier for everyone expressed.
I have never receive any flowers, chocolates, gifts etc from my husband and I’m still married to the same guy 16 years strong! If I ever receive gifts from my husband, Great! But if I don’t, I’m fine with it! These little gifts will not last a lifetime, but his love will! As long as he loves you for who you are, that’s what counts. Don’t make these little things a big issue and cost your marriage.
Same here. But truth be told,.it does breaks my heart that I never get any of these "considered" romantic items. I know it broke your heart sometimes too but you just don't let it ruined your life.
@@leejmuam1 it did when I was younger, but now, it’s ok. You just get used to it.
Cov txiv neej ruam ces coj li ko tiag u tej kwv tij dag kom u nrauj los u cia nrauj hloov u tu kheej los ua kom u tu niam tsev zoo siab nrog u ua u lub neej kom ob leeg muaj kev kaj siab xwb twb ua tsis tau ces thiaj nyob txom nyem Ntsuav li ko lauv peb cov me txiv neej hmoob nej yuav tau hloov thiab ua raws poj niam txoj kev ntshaw es lub neej thiaj tsis nyiaj siab thiab nawb niaj hnub no muaj ib txhia tseem coj zoo li ntawv tab sis vim tu poj niam siab ntev thiab siab zoo tsis xav mus ua poj nrauj es thiaj tseem nyob xwb nawb tsawg2 tu thiaj lucky xwb os
Cute couple
Women just want to be loved and appreciated. Words don’t always show it all. You need to show some love and affection towards your wife. Do special things. A lot of Hmong men lack in this category, especially the older generations. All women like a man who know how to treat a women. If most Hmong men could just do that I’m pretty sure their would be less headaches and divorces. Same goes to Hmong women as well.
He needs to read the Love Languages. Even though my love language isn't gifts, I still appreciate them and it's super exciting to receive flowers out of the blue. My ex was a big learning experience, no romance, no appreciation, no gifts.. just a stagnant marriage with many lackings and a wasted 17 years. My soon-to-be husband is everything that my ex would not be. Learn your love languages and communicate. Communicate if you want all of the above or learn what makes eachother feel loved. It's not just gifts for some, it may be acts of service or physical touch, whatever it is, just openly communicate.
Ntshe koj yog nyuj thiab twm lub siab xwb ces tsawg tus los yeej tsis nyob lau
Lwm hnub rov yuav poj niam no mus pw koj tus kwv qab txag kawm koj tus kwv koj thiaj li zoo
Thov tiag tiag thiab lauj los, niam Ntsuab Teev , thaum koj yuav pib hais ibtxoj neejneeg twg na koj hais koj lo-lus kom ceev menris, tsi xob hais lo uas ..HNUB....NO-o-o-h hais ntev2 lis ntawd xob2 plaub hau linaj..
Thaub koj lub siab yog siab dev xwb ne tos koj yuav tsaug tus poj Niam los luag nrog koj ua tsis taus neej nam koj tsuas hlub koj tus kheej xwb koj tsis hlub lwm tus vim koj yog siab dev yeej tsis paub ntshai luag tu siab li ne es yog koj tsis hloov koj lub siab dev los ua siab neeg ces tsis muaj poj Niam yuav nrog koj ua taus neej li nawj vim siab neeg thiab siab dev yeej nyob tsis tau ua ke 1 zaug hlo es hloov nawj yog koj xav muaj lub neej thiab muaj poj Niam los nrog koj nyob nam hloov es muab Suav pov tsaug los coj siab neeg es koj thiaj muaj poj Niam zoo rau koj nawj thaub
Tsis muaj tus poj niam los yus ua yus ib yim neej li peb cov poj niam mas, tus brother. Nej twb cem cem peb tias yog peb tsis muaj tus txiv ces peb ua maum dev thawj thiab ib yim rau ib yim no ne. Tab sis peb muaj vaj tse nyob. Peb ua tau ib yig.
Hnub no koj mam paub txijnkawm txoj kev hlub haub lub cuab yig thiab kwvtij txhob koj sib nrauj ces lig dhau. Koj muab pobzeb tsoo koj tobhau🤯, npuaj teg koj noog🦅 ya, koj ntaug taw koj nas 🐿khiav xwb.
Your first, second wife are not working for me either. Don’t worry you almost there.
hahaha cov neeg zoo li no ces lub neej yeej yuav puas tim ob leeg
To this brother you can still find a place od your own just for your kids
Tij lau cav pe lau li no yeej tsis tau poj duab paj ib zau li ho mus nj mo lo tsis tau muaj ib zau li lo twb g ua cav thiab tag si tu siab nqo ua tau tu txiv hau nthua xwb xav ko tau ib tu hlub yus tsis muaj paj lo xo hau nthau xb ce nthe twb zoo siab tsis ta li os
Brother your first wife was wrong in comparing her relationship with others but you were also wrong in not listening to the signs. If you invested your time and showed some love and attention to your wife she would not envied her sister-in-law. Also remember that no matter how long you are married you should continue to work on your relationship. Showing love does not mean you have to buy expensive things. It’s the time that you spend and effort you put in to show you love and appreciate your spouse. It can be as simple as saying I love you, writing a loving message, or just saying thanks when your spouse does something nice.
Tseem hais kuv tsi qab zib qais dub. Muab nws lub 2,000 purse thiab khoom ua yuav kim kim los ✂️ rau nws siab kiag.
A lot of people comment that most of the Hmong men are at fault and being narrow minded. A small birthday, valentine or anniversary is not a problem to our men but if every celebration is a huge party to empty your pocket is not a god thing to us all. you need to understand money does not grow on trees. we need to save money for a rainy day. you also have children at home are waiting for foods and other stuffs. a lot of people like to show off but showing off does not make a better couple.
Very good point sent...
If he threw the first wife a small party she would've of been over the moon but he didn't, he rather threw a massive party for his second wife who thinks its just a small party.
Well, a small birthday, valentine dinner was all his first wife ever wanted and he can’t even fulfill the littlest things for her. Plus, it’s not like it’s a everyday thing, only during special occasion and he can’t even do it.
Too bad, his loss.
lillylove: 😂😂😂
To all that has dogged on Hmong men.. Im sorry you have met all the failures within.
1st wife: You should have done your due diligence and made her happy. Flowers on every occasion, dinners, and what women loves best are the mini vacations 😘.
2nd wife : You married a door mat that was poor and was looking for a sugar daddy. Obviously, you were trying to be someone you were not.
Koj lub neej tsis zoo vib koj xwb ua cas muaj poj niam zoo nkuaj tsis hlub ces tag li xwb
I take you to hong ha hee oy
Me txiv tsev koj ob tug poj niam dhau los siv nyiaj loj2 thiab ntshaw2 kev hlub li ces tsis txhob yuav hmoob tej ntxhais los ua poj niam lawm es tom ntej no ces mus yuav Maiv Lauj thiab Maiv Xis nkawd los ua poj niam lawm xwb es thiaj tsis siv nyiaj nawb es koj muab li cas los nkawd siv li ntawm xwb thiaj txuag tau nyiaj nawb.
20 xwb tsawg dhau lawm os