Women Want Empowered Men - So How do You Get There?
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- Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024
- How can a man become more empowered?
Many people confuse having power with being an empowered human being, and yet the two often don't occur at the same time.
Women are turned on by empowered men, it's one of the top 5 traits women want to find in a man, but so often we walk around feeling dis-empowered because we focus so strongly on the things we don't have any control over.
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Like Damien says, the good news is that men can actually work on improving the things within themselves that women are attracted to (which happen to be the same things a man will respect within themselves even if he chooses to stay single).
Instead of complaining, make a plan for what you *can* do to improve your life and take action immediately. Do it for you not anyone else. It just happens that the side effect to *taking responsibility for yourself* happens to be super attractive.
P.S. *Radical* feminism has messed up relationships between men and women.
This is like therapy. I wasn't even focused on dating and relationships recently, just unhappy and this video gave me a different perspective on those thoughts. Thank you for your help
My girl came to me yesterday and said we needed to take a break.when i did not get all emotional or mad about it and messaged her the next day that i was using the time we had apart to better myself and to look at my part in what happened in our relationship that she needed to take a break she instantly replied that she could not stay away from me.and wants to see me over the weekend.that's empowerment!
Perfect example
Yikes.
Hope you still aren’t monogamous with her right now, 4 months later.
When women go on break, they have had another dude in them within 24 hours or 48 hours at latest.
I consider myself the culprit, not victim of my ongoing decline and being left behind in life's expected milestones. That's taking responsibility.
I don't know any men who talk about women as much as mgtow.
This is one of the best videos I have ever seen. You are a philosopher!! Man
Cheers Ju!
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There is only one thing a woman wants: more
(jokes aside, nice video once again)
By being MGTOW
So, you talk about "reframing", which is a prettier alternative to the word "lying".
If I, for example, lost my arm (I'm not, I'm just making an argument), I can try to "reframe" it - "I can have a better sleep on my side". But this would be lying, trying to distract me from a massive suckiness of being one-armed.
Instead of "reframing", I use the "hacker mindset". Instead of looking for a piece of candy in a bag of shit - you should look for vunerabilities in the situation. Exploits. Bugs. "Yes, me losing an arm sucks, and yes, trying to find a good side of it is definetly lying. But how can I abuse this sucking situation? What exploits can I use to make my life a bit less sucky?"
What's the main difference?
The "reframing" mindset says: "It's cool".
The "hacking" mindset says: "Yes, it's bad, and yes, I would prefer that this would not happen. But there is a chance - not a guarantee - that I can find a vunerability in this situation and make it less bad. I can do something about it."
And this is MUCH more empowering than telling little lies.
I think a lot hinges on how you define 'reframing' - to me, reframing isn't denying the other negative stuff, but instead it's focussing on the empowering stuff. Which really means it sounds the same as your 'hacking mindset'.
Who told you reframing = lying?
@@SchoolOfAttraction Well, nobody TOLD me this, like nobody TOLD you that reframing != lying ;-)
For me, reframing is an indirect lie, like messing with a mileage counter on an old car and trying to sell it as a new car - even if you do not tell explicitly that the car is new, the actions that you took are misleading and manipulative. It is called "lie of omission".
The main difference between "reframing" and "hacker's mindset" is that reframing tries to focus a person's attention away from bad stuff and onto the good stuff. "Hacker's mindset", on the other hand, is about still focusing on a bad stuff, but on specific vunerable points in the bad stuff that can be attacked to make the stuff less bad.
For me, this mindset is much more empowering =-)
Well actually yes, many people taught me what reframing was... I learned about it when I studied psychology, I learned about it from my mum who's a therapist, and I learned about it when I studied NLP... So.. yeah... there's that...
@@SchoolOfAttraction Ehm, of course, if someone's job is based on making pretty lies, he will try to teach you that they are not lies - nobody wants to feel like a bad person, so everybody invents their own rationalisations ;-)
So wait... a term is officially created and crafted by psychologists - it's then taught to people like me. Then a single individual decides to change the definition on his own - and he then just assumes guys like me who use the proper definition are lying to make money? Yep sure, seems legit ;)
Empowered, no. Victim, definitely.
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What an awesome episode, actually learned a bunch of new things.
"For a girl, "improving her dating life" would probably just mean making herself more accessible vs any kind of growth. I'm honestly not sure how a girl would become better with men other than just being prettier and maybe learning how to be slightly more engaging"
Actually no - For women, it's often around 'stronger boundary setting' , and healthy conflict resolution skills, and a whole host more - there's quite a lot of skills women need help with that cause them to suffer. Men struggle to meet women, women struggle constantly dating guys who treat them like rubbish. Just a different set of problems.
@@SchoolOfAttraction yeah it makes me laugh when people say women needs, because I don't see how they need to meeting guys or getting a date, when women don't have to do the approaching and play a passive role, don't have to escalate anything on their part
So? Are you thinking to look for another carrie?