How To Heal Ancestral Trauma
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- Опубликовано: 23 мар 2024
- How To Heal Ancestral Trauma with Bela Divine
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In this video, I sit down with Mexican Mystic, mentor, coach, and psychotherapist Bela Divine to discuss the topic of healing ancestral trauma. We dive deep into a conversation about ancestral and generational trauma, karmic patterns, and how what our ancestors went through may still be showing up in our lives today. We discuss how these patterns and trauma may be stored in our DNA and subconscious, and how to begin bringing awareness to them so that we can liberate ourselves and our ancestors from karmic loops that may still be playing out. Bela shares her knowledge and expertise of the Family Constellations modality, a tool for healing ancestral trauma and guides me through a session. We also discuss the concepts of Morphic Resonance and the Morphogenic Field and how this affects the stories we are playing out for the karmic patterns of our lineage to be cleared.
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I lost my entire family in the same year(2022) to different death causes and I am the last living soul in both bloodlines of my mother and fathers families and the guilt I have about not having kids because of it is killing me..knowing when I die, both bloodlines will be forever done and I could have kept them going if I had a child..I just don't want to bring a child into this technology/narcissistic society and the guilt of being the only person left is really confusing and disrupting my life not to mention the grief. But I also feel like being the last of both bloodlines is powerful in a way, like I am the culmination of centuries of two bloodlines that all existed so that I could be here and that makes me feel like a torch bearer for both bloodlines in a way and makes me want to see why I am the last of both, makes me want to live my life to the fullest and do everything I ever wanted so at least our bloodlines can end on an amazing note...Idk. Confusing. Just venting.
You are much more than the culmination of your bloodlines, and this spiritual / energetic exploration is a challenge you and your Higher Self determined before you incarnated in this life. If you’re inclined, some meditation and even plant medicine could give you the greater overview to accept ’what is’ without any remorse. Your whole ancestry is written in the Akashic Record, and no lifetime or experience is lost.✌🏽💗🌟
Looking deeply together, we can deconstruct the societal boundaries and we can see that we are human family. We are siblings and you are not ending anything so do not bear that guilt. It wasn’t too long ago that we lived in villages that were considered all one family. there is no separation
Girl, when I say that the waterfalls started..... the entire video, I was just crying crying crying, red nose, red eyes.... this was so beautiful 😭
Wow, beautiful that this resonating so deeply with you.
@@livingtheskylifeI'm Jesus yo
@@AngryJesusPrinceOfPaxno freaking way
My ancestors go back to the early 1600's in America and the puritans in Massachusetts. I have always felt a deep guilt about how the Native American's have been treated here and I believe much of this has to do with how my ancestors treated them and how they stole their land. So, what she says makes a lot of sense.
Might want to study some actual history. The Puritans had a great relationship with the Wampanoag for decades. It was the non religious immigrants who caused the problem. BTW, my ancestors are of both people groups; should I have ancestral victimhood or oppressor traumas?
@boulderman well done. Follow your heart
The Native Americans killed plenty of Puritans if that makes you feel less white guilt. Seriously feeling guilty for something you didn’t do makes no sense.
Guilt? Really?
Do you actually know that your particular ancestors did this? Or are you saying just in general? Because most people got along fine with each other back then. Not everyone was killing each other.
My mind is genuinely blown and I’m immediately hooked. I was adopted into a family where I became the youngest, but I always felt so weird, strange and discombobulated. I felt like I had to protect my older siblings, and that I should’ve had a lot of the responsibilities my eldest sister did even though we had a very large age gap. When we grieved, I prioritized them first and made sure they were all safe and comforted, and I was their shoulder to cry on, and I put myself in that position because I felt like it felt right, and like it was my duty to do so. From this perspective it all suddenly makes sense. I was my biological mother‘s first born, I was supposed to be the oldest, and she told me that my biological father had more children after me. I was always supposed to be the eldest sibling, watching over younger siblings, and I reflected this onto almost everybody that I’ve ever met in my life. I always settle into this weird position of trying to be everyones older sister.
Astrology also tells us that we're dealing with ancestral karma and it's in our natal charts.
You can see the charts of families all resembling and mirroring each other. It's amazing.
Bela is fantastic. I love how she integrates everything together to create a truly helpful, healing atmosphere with energetic rituals that facilitate inter-generational communication between Sky and her ancestors and extant family members. 🙏
Yes I love astrology it’s so freaky good
Astrology is deceiving and demonic
I find it mind blowing that before today I had not heard the words morphic resonance before . I was listening to a podcast of merlin sheldrake this morning and he was talking about it. It stood out so much to me I wrote it down to research later, then I felt so called to watch this and in the first 10 minute you spoke about it. I definitely think there is a lesson in this for me. Thank you
the divine timing of this is insane!!!! Doing this kind of healing on a full moon eclipse feels so right. I learn so much by watching these videos, and they spark amazing journaling prompts!
I can feel this is real. I had to let the research go when I was 30 because memories of abuse from boyscout master came into my mind. This then damaged all areas of my life. I did many methods of healing for 5 years. I felt that lost my adult life. I felt I was stuck as a young teenager then later I was stuck in my 30s. Sad! All other people was starting their career and getting into relationships. I could not. I did breath work, Silva mind control, energy work and more. Now, 61 years old, I'm refacing trauma from boyscout master because of the national lawsuit going on. The writing is hard but praying that when I'm done it will help me release. I will look into this, EFT, EMDR, meditation with Joe dispenza's and much more to heal and release for good. Lastly, ready to take a road trip to focus on merging all of me by visiting the many places that I lived in. So thank you.
Bless your bold and relentless journey. ❤
Good on you. 60 yrs here and a therapist. I decided last year to mindfully tackle childhood traumas and got a trauma informed therapist on board and applied for a govt recognition payment. It was sooo hard completing all of the paperwork but after coming out the other end.....the payment helped with validation and gave me new opportunities and the focussed work has now helped so much. Good luck
I’m sorry that happened.
sending love and healing to you
If you are a woman, you are trapped in the Labyrinth/Wonderland/Heroine's journey. Signs will come if you are open to them on how to defeat the inner monsters. A big lesson I have learned being 37 now, the monsters want to be seen, heard and validated and through your ultimate warrior strength, you will see the darkness makes the light have form and color. We are deeply rooted in the fairy tales and stories that have shaped us, making it very clear to see we are the many characters we meet. Every single movie you watch has these personas or aspects that resides in every single spirit. This journey is not easy, but it is quite simple once you learn inner peace, strength and gentleness. You are a beautiful flower blooming. Once we wake up, there is no more pretending. You really can't go back. And, If you could only see how much planning and detail has gone into this world around you, you would understand the love that all the universe has for you. You would finally trust! Thank our enemies for the lessons, send gratitude to all who unknowingly serve your journey and release into your ultimate oneness my loves. I'm Ashley ~
Wow!! Agree so much! 🙌🙌🙌 living to witness something like that. Congratulations!
How interesting... Im of Zulu decent and now live in Peru (don't ask... I ended up here through my husband). When you speak about how we pick up on our families trauma, it's so true. I have betrayal and addiction In my family. 2 sisters died from heartbreak (that's another story). I am so happy I watched this. I came to Peru to heal, deeply heal. My dad named me Sabena which is a very popular Peruvian name, so, I'm home in that case. Life is funny
Beautiful share 🥰 It's o incredible how connected we really are. Much love on your healing on your unlearning of all that you are not and all that is not yours so you can see more clearly who you truly are WITH your compassionate ancestors in full support! 💗.
You are healing this world. I am so grateful for you.
Ancestral healing changed my life.
Same. ❤ love you all
i’ll admit i was quite skeptical and closed off at first. which is common when we don’t know coupled with the bad reputation in such spaces. thank you sky for investigative yet compassionate journalism and bella for beautifully explaining and addressing any concerns. i love love loved this video. it allowed me to go inwards into my abandonment wound. it’s hard to face, sky you’re such an inspiration to delve into the unknown, work through the heartache and transform into a wiser butterfly each time 🦋💓
It’s soooo interesting that she mentioned her families Huichol lineage. 😍 I (half white and Mexican) also on my dad’s side (Mexican) have Huichol & Cora indigenous roots. As well as northern African.
As a kid I’ve always believed in animals, energy, and nature. Not really religion (although I respect them all). Not realizing I was practicing the huichol and cora belief.
There's a video about the Emotion Code where he talks about how healing yourself also heals your ancestors, as well as future generations. Regarding scientific evidence, DNA scientists say that ancestral trauma is present in your DNA. They give the example of holocaust survivors passing along that trauma in their DNA. Wish I had those studies at hand, but it can be Googled.
Yep….epigenetics
Amazing❤ excited!! Ancestral healing changed EVERYTHING for me
I love hearing this. Thank you for sharing.
Through all the experiences you and others explore, it becomes clear to me that spirit can use all kinds of things to work with us and we can use all kind of ways to communicate with them. What a meaningful experience I can see this was for you. I wish you well. 😀
As we heal our own trauma we naturally heal our ancestral trauma because we came in with the trauma in our DNA/energy which then manifested the traumas we had in our life because of our thoughts and beliefs from the energy passed down to us... If that makes sense!
I have had a crazy life. I definitely have healing with my family to continue and complete. I've done Family Constellation work. It was amazing what came through. I'm looking forward to more. I'm going down to TX for the eclipse. I hope the Universe lines us up for our paths to cross. I appreciate your work. Blessings!
So cool you’ve also done family constellations work! I’m sure we will cross paths at some point!
@@livingtheskylife I'm looking forward to it, you've already had some of my friends in your videos.
Thank you so much for this conversation/interview about ancestral healing. There's so much depth, insight, information which you shared that can help to support people on their healing journeys. I really appreciate your honesty, intelligence & humor.
Wow thank you so much for this sky we definitely need more of this to help us heal properly from the stuff that we've gone through in our lives wishing you and yours the very best in life. Keep following your heart. Have a wonderful week. Take care
This was super powerful for me. I saved the video, shared it with my sister, and joined the vibe tribe. I will be a part of this healing.
Interestingly, it seems like I'm affected by some of the same traumas as were mentioned, but there's even more.
I was able to find and keep love in my life, true long-lasting love, unlike the females in my line, yet there's more healing I need to work on.
Okay I feel this deeply! Your intro gave me all the energy I needed to feel, you’re absolutely glowing. I’ve been following you for years, and this is the exact platform style you were meant for. You’re glowing once again sky love you!!!Blessed be!! 🔆
Thank for you this amazing content. My friend and I were just talking about how family trauma and seeing patterns from our ancestors. My friend isn’t especially spiritual but she was open to the idea that we store this trauma in our DNA and it keeps going until someone does the work to break the cycle.
I’ve felt a strong pull to work on some things that have become clearer to me in the last year but I wasn’t exactly sure how to go about it and then your video came up on my feed.
I’m feeling really excited to improve my life but also to heal my family. I didn’t realize doing this work would impact my living family.
Thank you again for getting out this important information!
Thank you so much for this insightful episode. 💜🧡💚 Truly enjoyed listening to both of you. Wishing you and everyone here continued ancestral healing.
Wow, Love the Clown Horn synchronicity! Ask and keep the field open! They are here!
Right timing to meet this video, Thanks you guys a lot of love for sharing this , thank you again :) ❤❤❤
Thank you Sky! Been doing a lot of ancestral healing myself lately
Incredible
Your videos are so refreshing Sky. Such high quality interviews and guests to die for (excuse me). Really appreciate the indepth personal approach. Thank you for this inspiring interview.
Yes. Thank you for sharing this. Both of you are inspiring.
I just started some deep ancestral work last week and feel like it’s finally healing. This was really interesting. Thanks for sharing!!
Great video as always!❤ Never done this spiritual work but I'm always open to new things as we all should. Have faith, and open your heart everyone!💓
this was incredible! every time I watch you I say this was my fav! but honestly this was!! being adopted I have challenges of the knowing.
but wow this was powerful.
Thank you Sky for shining a light on all things alternative :)
Thank you for being here!
Thanks so much to both of you for sharing this 💛 can't wait for the live ritual
that was sooo amazing and helpful and beautiful. I had a pretty spiritual experience of my own while watching this - so thank you for providing space for us as the audience to dive deep into our own experiences and feel supported while doing so!
3:01 I have not even started to listen to this yet, and I could feel all of my feminine lineage stepping in... Lighting me up from my heart down. That's so cool. Thank you 💗
Incredible ❤️
I felt the same strongly in my heart!! I can't wait to dig deep into my healing ❤️🩹🥰
Wow didn’t expect to see this collab! Love to you both ❤
The timing of this is insane. My grandfather passed away almost 4 years now due to Covid and I went to visit him at his grave Friday, I’ve been feeling so much guilt and heaviness since his passing and I don’t know how to heal it. I talked to him on Friday and asked him to please show himself to give me a sign. Ive asked if this before but I think he knew I wasn’t mentally ready but I’m bettering myself. And I really think this is his sign. I’m hoping to make the Discord event, thank you so much to both of you for this video ❤
I love Bela💜
Beautiful video Skye & Bela! Thank you so much !!
Thank you Sky for an epic Video I also have to say I love the longer videos they really show how much you have grown and detail of every subject keep them coming and see u at the Next one
The part about fear of disappointing ancestors triggered such an emotional reaction within me, like whoa! I’ve participated in a more general constellation in 2020, focused on shifting slavery wounds. I never dig into the family constellation aspect, but I’m so excited for the group constellation session! Thank you ladies ❤
I feel like having spiritual gifts are almost seen as normal for a lot of brown people. Don't get me wrong they'll fear it but if it's something like seeing angels, seeing your dead loved one, or saying you got messages from a deceased loved one it's welcomed. I knew when people were going to die as a kid and I always had this weird connection with death and I didn't say anything until I was older out of fear. The only people I told were my parents because they also had certain abilities. If it's something seen as dark they try and tell you it's not real but if it's seen as positive they welcome it. I grew up baptist and the church folks would talk about things like that openly because it was normal for them.
Ever know someones feelings or vibes when you meet that person? I k ow i do...😊
Didnt mewn to ut that emoji on there lol oops.
This is so inspiring and amazing. You two have the best energy!
I am only a few minutes in and it is spot on. I have been on the path to heal ancestral trauma and I am so happy to see this. Whenever you post something it connects deeply always. So thank you
This was so so beautiful and helpful! Thank you from my heart to yours ❤
This was awesome it taught me lot about things I have been holding in my mind.
Answers are coming already.
Thank you Bella Divina for your insights and thank you to your ancestors too.♥️ Everyone who has an inquisitive mind and a grand curiosity should always be open and optimistic about these types of modality’s we all need this😊
Incredible experience ! I heard about this practice but now I reaaally want to do it ! Thank you sky
Love both of you!
This was a beautiful healing! 🙏🏽💗
Yes another long form conversation 🙌
I love this theme, and also how she puts some things about the origin of trauma to words. I work with family constellations too, it is becoming more and more common in this part of the world (netherlands) as Bert Hellinger had a big influence in the work and german and dutch are quite close. There is so much dutch podcasts going in depth on the systemmic laws at play in us and it's dynamics making it very available.
I believe this ancestral and systemmic approach is not the holy grail in the sense that one should dismiss indvidual body related trauma healing, but it is def the missing link in our healthcare approach! quite an important one too, taking us off the path of solely looking for everything in our individual selves, as that is not where all is to be found. Imagine going to therapy till your old days looking to work on yourself while a pattern stems from the system instead and to approach it there could be relativly easy.
After working with this method for some years i cannot imagine taking on lifes challenges without having this inner ancestral connection. What once was more of a theory coming from indigenous teachings, but now has become the most touchable matter in my experience. My favorite constellation work is with human representatives in the field. But also with the puppets on a table it holds so much power. I also love how it doens't matter how sceptical one may be, but once he stands in the field as a representive he suddenly feels and thinks all these different things. It seems magical but it is so down to earth in this way.
Excited for this episode thank you sky 🌌
Yoga ❤ absolutely can heal u from what's coming to yr side
Yoga is the best. So deeply healing.
@@livingtheskylife thank u 😊 🛸 🕍 ∆∆∆ imagine this(orlee Stewart) demonic yoga necromancy spell if could listen to her mantra she can fly me more then that cobra 🐍🌪️👽 d Jinia !!! #skylife #casanndrathewitch #miamagick #sahararose
New earthquake in ramadan again Morocco turki nightmares.
Amazing ❤
Love all of your episodes 🎉
Great work 👏
This is so hard-core: thank you!
Wow this was so cool to watch! Thank you so much ❤
omg 😳😍 yesss so happy to see you both in a video!
also, first learned about family constellation from Bela and felt such potent healing and creation of better connections within my lineage. 💝✨🥰
How does this card deck call?
I've had so many messages about my ancestors come up lately. My relationship with my mom came up in a mushroom journey, then the next week in therapy my mom kept coming up in different ways, then a few days later a friend did an intuitive reading for me and my mom came up AGAIN, as well as my grandma, and my friend specifically said she felt like there was some work to do with them, and then the next day this video pops up in my notifications! Perfect timing!
Hey hazard muffin, I recommend looking up new age to Jesus testimonies, there are SOOO many. I sound like a crazy person but demons are behind all new age practices. It will never bring you complete peace! Because demons don't care about your intentions, only that you don't turn to God. Even if you think what I'm saying is a load of rubbish, why not spend some mins researching, then make your mind up. Hope you have the best day, evening or night ! And if ever you feel frightened, just say the name of Jesus, demons will run because he will save you
I heard about Ancestral Trauma but I never thought there is more to that. I might need to dive deeper more myself soon. Thank you for a long video! Greetings!
Wonderful video - was just on Bella’s page and didn’t see any family constellation content , would love to see more of this! ❤
Thank you for this. From the bottom of my heart... Thank you.❤🔥
Great information. Thanks and keep the good work👍
I absolutely love Sky. I love the straight forward questions she asks in order to determine the validity and reliability of the information being provided.
I learned from Dr Bruce Lipton that every single experience we go through it's stored in our Energy Field.
I am not sold on the reincarnation theories quite yet, specially the so called reasons to reincarnate specially choosing horrific parents, people and experiences before reincarnating. This is a topic I would love Sky to research and share her findings with us.
I absolutely love you, admire you and look forward to every single one of your videos. Bravo darling 👏👏👏
I really really really want to dive deep into this topic and do more research!
I’ve also been very drawn to ancestral healing. Teal Swan talks about this too, she says we carry all the traumas and memories of our ancestors and this has actually been proven with experiments with mice.
Pls keep uploading on Sundays 😊
I will do my best!
@@livingtheskylifeSky! I love your channel keep up the good work😊
I'm a Buddhist, I would love to see you challenge yourself to a zen retreat Soto or Rinzai. I think it might be one of the most challenging videos and experiences of your life!
Yes the child can bring many traumas into the world. Im convinced of this when for years of working with children in water (swim teaching) i would be blown away at inexplicable interactions and responses from some of these kids that past lives experiences were at play.
Thank you Skyy!!! This topic has been coming up recently for me, and I've been sleeping on the work I need to do. Maybe I needed checked❤
I absolutely love what u said, u are not the healer u teach people to heal themselves. U are real i love you
Literally my fav channel 💞
Awh yay! I’m so happy you like it 🥰
I am loving these longer videos
✨🙏🏻 great video! I love the ritual ❤️
They way we are so connected... WoW❤❤❤
This is really amazing!! So beautiful how it works. And this carddesk looks amazing too! Do you know where its from?❤
I’ve been loving all your recent content!
So happy to hear this!
i love this!!!!!
what healing looks like, t.p on the couch and mascara tears!!
Impressive info. Ty for sharing your wisdom. ❤
I have came to realize I am working with a curse as well as trauma. I have healed some trauma this far, but I have never believed in “curses” .. karma, I can resonate with. I need to untie this curse and that’s much harder than the other work I have accomplished in my journey. So right now I feel stuck and slightly helpless.. for now. I know the information will come to me in devine timing
Thank you ❤
oh man i got so emotional from this!!!!
wow. what a powerful video
I love her precent so much 🙌🏾✨🤍
I've recently got the medicine wheel tattooed onto me in a patch. For other meanings and now it has so much more meaning behind it 🙏🏽 thank you
I love this Sky
That clown synchronicity was wild, gave me chills! Love these talks
You ask great questions Sky xo
If you were adopted as an infant does ancestral trauma from both your birth family and adopted family need to be healed? Some adoptees do not know their birth family.
Most people don’t know their ancestral trauma even if they’re not adopted.
You go into meditation and your higher self will let you know.
I have done my own kind of healing and my family didn’t know about where/location our ancestors came from before the Americas and I knew before them. And they took 23 and me and it confirmed it.
So it’s interesting. No one knows what their ancestors went through until you sit down and meditate and ask God/Divine/Creator/Source.
I also, think you have a purpose for being adopted. You could be healing both your biological and adopted family.
I participated in family constellations for the first time last year, as a character in someone else's family. I was a bit skeptical at first, and afraid that I won't know what to do or say. But as the feelds was opened, words and actions just poured through me (and other people who were participating) - things that none of us knew...I can imagine it being a bit hard to believe with figurines, I didn't even know it could be done that way, but as I experienced it personally, I can't not believe in this field of knowledge.
Yes I love her!! 🎉❤
I really like the way Bela Devine uses the medicine wheel and the characters to symbolize “family” members. I was looking for more RUclipss using the medicine wheel, and it’s quite rare -
many therapists use people (volunteers) in the room - or a diagram with figures……
I would certainly like to experience this medicine wheel technique!!!
This was fun. Thank you beautiful goddesses 💗
Yeeees ive been waiting for this
Amazing!
Amazing ❤ I would Love to have her lead me through this so much
We can't wait to see you there!
Such an interesting episode !! Would love an episode feedback
This was so interesting! Have you ever seen the show "Who do you think you are" where celebrities look into their ancesters and find out their stories. I have noticed a lot of times in the show how people find out very similar things and similar patterns that carry on down the generations. It looked like you had a meaningful experience Sky. Oh and by the way I loved her shawl! Haha!
Yes I have seen that show actually!
I know that shawl was amazing totally!!! One of the first things I thought about when I saw it!!!! ❤❤
Will the Ancestral Karma Ritual with Bela be available on repaly? It's not suitable with european standard time :)
If I had a photo album of my ancestors on an alter, would that count? Like I would look at their pictures and then meditate.
Me and my husband carrying all 7 karmic energies 👀.
I did a group family constellation with Bela once and it was deeply healing for sure.
But I feel like I need another one now.
It's not something that happens overnight of course, as you know ❤Thank you so much for your commitment to the deep work consistently!