Sunmi wrote this song about her BPD (borderline personality disorder) I’m so proud of her for opening up about her struggles and even writing a song about it
I discovered this song during her world tour and it became my fav during the concert, it was incredible. The song already have a big meaning for me but now it has one even stronger. Such an important song
@@diyac5196 @Elise Bauer i also have bpd, and also bipolar, and this song is very meaningful to me as well... hope you guys are saying strong w / everything that's happening right now
I remember when Sunmi would get panic attacks when she was in Wonder Girls, she would have to sit out of the performance and have ttouble breathing. I am so happy for her, I remember she said her dream was to become a singer that moves people (emotionally). Well Sunmi, you have achieved this, I am so proud of you and happy you chose to continue creating music.😚
that reminds me of when the intense hate sulli got began to increase more in 2013 and at one of the end of year festivals, f(x) recorded their stage about five times but sulli had to sit out on the fifth one because she was really sick and her condition was so bad that the cameraman didn't even give her much camera time because of how bad she looked, but of course, everyone, knets AND inets took it as her being lazy and just not wanting to be there when she actually loved f(x) so much, just that the public and even her own fans were so toxic to her that she couldn't handle it anymore. anyways i'm really proud of sunmi and other celebrities that open up about these things. it's a step forward to normalising mental health and allowing people to be open about it, and also giving a reminder that celebrities are just human like everybody else and they're allowed to have feelings, make mistakes and have troubles.
@@jinlissul I didn't know that. Thanks for the info. I'm a fan of f(x), Amber is my bias. Sometimes I'm still remember Sulli & being sad. I still love watching or listening to their songs bud it makes me feel bad for Sulli. She's just the cute baby one. Krystal is the real maknae but Sulli is the maknae as well. And how she's so close with Amber & call each other "Hyung" (Brother). 😢
Like Sumni said before, this song feel really raw. But it’s my kind of favorite song. Really admired that she finally released this song because it’s deeply personal : how she used to suffer but kept pretending that everything was okay. Even admitted she was taking Xanax, this may seem overdone to say in the western music industry but in Korea where mental illness are still taboo especially among idol that have to keep the perfect image, it’s really inspiring.This mature,dark yet sexy concept is everything I would hope to see even more in future song. The visuals are very classy and give this high fashion vibe I love. Moreover I was surprised this song is in English but il really suit the meaning of the song with her sultry voice, and the choreography feel almost contemporary (and seems difficult to achieve in live so really exciting to see it).
You know even in western countries it's taboo mental illness or even having an illness. It's not a problem concerning only South Korea, it's sad that you have to be healthy to be accepted in every society.
@@meibi6241 yea true, i suffer from PTSD, Depression, OCD and anxiety &panic attacks and i have to go into a mental clinic soon. A lot of 'friends' turned their back to me and left me, but then you see who your real friends are. Even in Germany this is a taboo topic.
@@ronja5516 I understand you so much, I suffer from epilepsy, seborrheic dermatitis, endometriosis, depression and anxiety (because of my epilepsy). All my friends turned their back, I should have lived my life lying if I wanted to have friends. They disgusted me so much, I didn't want to live any longer lying to myself. It's not a crime to be ill. I didn't choose to be ill. I know that my words are easy to say than to do but I hope that you will be happy. I wish one day all your troubles and illness disappear.
i dont have bpd and im deeply sorry fot those who suffer from it :(( sunmi and these comments have helped me understand it better, you guys are SO strong ♡
"I'm trying to be a good girl, didn't mean to fake it." This is so relatable and real... We are proud of you for you sunmi! You are so strong for even releasing this. We love you
So many people set up ridiculous unrealistic standards for "good girl/women" (as opposed to "bad" girls, "disrespectful" girls, "sluts" etc.). But then they are the same people who go around calling those good girls "fake". In their eyes, a woman is either BAD or FAKE. You just can't win. That's why you just have to ignore those stupid people, fight back and just BE YOURSELF.
@@queenning28 my mom is that kinda person. I'm her only daughter so maybe that's why she treat me like this. She always tells me to dress feminin, smile more (cuz my relaxed face look bitchy), get good grades etc So in her eyes i am a "bad girl" because i'm not doing anything of that unrealistic goals :/
Being the eldest daughter of an Asian family is literally a struggle in itself. Sunmi, the eldest, has worked her ass off in the music industry since she was a minor. She had to deal with pervs, weirdos, and haters all together, trying to act tough for her image not to be tainted. She's a blessing for her family (giving them a sense of pride bc their little girl grew to be a successful and well-loved artist) as well as fans whom she inspired dearly and to those random people who are touched by this side of her, a vulnerable one. Thank you Sunmi for sharing your story that most, if not all, of us can relate to. It really pains me that you went through such horrid things but you carried yourself so well that it seems we didn't have to worry much about you. Stay beautiful!
@@wonhoscake1214 she became an idol specifically to support her brothers since their father was very ill and unable to work, it makes me so happy to see her so successful and able to provide for them even as adults!
Being the eldest child in a family is already difficult enough, at a young age her father got really ill and they face financial difficulties. She quickly became the sole breadwinner and had to find a way to make a lot of money fast to afford her father's treatment. The young her decided to become a celebrity because she thought that was the only way, she trained hard and at last had the chance to debut in Wonder Girls, unfortunately her father passed away 3 months before he could see her debut. She faced so much criticism from people always pointing out her flaws and always telling her what to do at a young age but she had to bite her tongue and keep quite because she has to take care of her little brothers. Till today she still faces harsh criticism and every move she make is closely watch by people just waiting for her to make a little mistake to leave her hateful and degrading words. She has gone through so much, this song and video clearly depicts the struggles she had to endure from a young age and how it has already affected her. She mentioned many times how hard it is for her to share her struggles but she trust her fans enough that she had the courage to share this song and show her vulnerability. Hopefully this song can help others find comfort because she always mentioned that she hopes her songs can help people feel less lonely and find comfort.
Thank you for sharing her story with all of us . I had no idea she faced so much in her life.Sunmi has been one of my most favourite kpop idols and she is truly gifted.
Lots of comments, only a few knows that it’s her mental health she’s talking about. My mother is Borderline, and that video, lyrics and choreography explains EVERY SYMPTOM they suffer on a daily basis, even the cutting veins-suicidal part. You’re strong girl, stronger know for acknowledging it and accepting it. My love for you, you’re never alone
I think the lyrics and the video itself describes what the song is about . I highly doubt that anyone is unaware about what the song is actually about.
I have bpd myself and this sounds like our official anthem. But bpd shares a lot of symptoms with ptsd , bipolar, depression n anxiety. So we can all cry together with this song.
@@marianaortiz4515 Borderline, the word isn't only used when talking about bpd. She has depression and has been very open about it and has recently discussed how she's reducing her medications for it etc because she's in a better place. It's a song so you can interpret it in any way but she hasn't said she suffers with bpd and just because the song can relate to those who do suffer from it doesn't mean we should assume the artist does
"I shouldn't have said that because I'm a good girl " - I think many of us can relate to that , the society is judgemental towards girls , how we are supposed to act , how we are supposed to talk or even react to something . Borderline , I think is the line , the one which "supposed good girls " cross after the society drives them crazy.
This is about her own personal struggle not a broad example. We can all relate to her pain. I am surprised she released a version because its so personal
I love how Sunmi shows her "darker" and deeper, also her vulnerable side in many of her videos and in her music. I think this is what makes it so strong. Of course i don't know her, but it always feels real and personal. I think she is really brave to put out such a song and I am really proud of her, the video is also a perfect representation - minimalistic yet so emotional and expressive. Also, i really hope she has good people around her, so she is not alone with her dark thoughts. Love you Sunmi, no matter how dark you get, you brighten my day
i cry so much to this song because i have bpd and these words hit even harder after sunmi revealed that she was diagnosed with it as well. now when i feel alone i’ll just think about her and remember that there’s somebody who’s feeling just like me
I see all of your words and feelings.Everything will be good ,trust me.We just need a little time and you should know you’re not alone ,take care 🤝✊🏻🙌🏻
Same here. I honestly cried the first time I watched this video. Having a public figure express her feelings and struggles about this disorder feels kinda surreal to me. I do feel that BDP is heavy stigmatized, so having her not only being honest about her diagnosis but also putting out a music video so endearing and real is enough to make me sob. I don't know if Sunmi will ever read this, but thank you. Your music and art makes me feel safe.
I have BPD. I survived. Sunmi survived. So will those of us who have it. I have never cried so much in my life, this song hit me deep. It hit me that deep.
As someone who struggles with mental health it feels comforting when popular artists sing about it. It's so brave and makes them more human and easier to connect to. Respect to Sunmi and her dancing is so beautiful here ❤
I'm trying to be a good girl Didn't mean to fake it Getting used to saying I'm OK And yellin' to myself Don't push me away I'm on the borderline I'm on the borderline I'm a good girl yeah I'm a good girl yeah I'm on the borderline I'm on the borderline Please be on my side Please be on my side I got too hyped Unstable eyes Hands, hair, and words Are all over the place Feels like a bird is living in my head Please don't piss me off, Oh no no I shouldn't have said that Because I'm a good girl yeah Don't spill it out I'm on the borderline I'm on the borderline I'm a goof girl yeah I'm a good girl yeah I'm on the borderline I'm on the borderline Please be on my side Please be on my side It's been years takin' Xanax And I got so much better Why people keep sayin' "What's wrong with her?" Digging myself deeper and deeper I see what I resented to see in the past (Pills, bloods, illness, abandoned) Well, okay, better be covered I gotta be lookin' vivid and classy I'm on the borderline I'm on the borderline I'm a good girl yeah I'm a good girl yeah I'm on the borderline I'm on the borderline Please be on my side Please be on my side Don't put me in a bad light 'til I'm in the limelight Don't put me in a bad light 'til I'm in the limelight
Heroine: Sunmi on the chair Gashina: Sunmi on the table Lalalay: Sunmi on the backup dancer Pporappippam: Sunmi on the top of a car Borderline: Sunmi on the bathtub
That is one of the things I love about RUclips, it just randomly suggests vids to watch and so it happen with this video of a singer I have never heard of called Sunmi. I clicked on the thumbnail and a watched a dark and sexy video pull me in as I listened to this almost raspy, memorizing voice from this young beautiful women. Sometimes all it takes is one song with words that move you, resonate within you, bring back memories of the past to realize that this someone I need to discover. Sunmi you have yourself a new fan.
She's truly such an amazing artist inside and out, and an equally amazing person. I hope you will seek out more of her music if you haven't already and follow and support her future activities! She is already hugely successful and popular but still deserves so much more.
Okkk !!! ... Now You Are New Iam a new fan too , i Saw a Publicity And , Here I'am ❤️ Wach her video " Sunmi - Ppopiripam " And " When WE Disco " it's her Colaboration with JYP , he used to be her Boss , now they Are like Father and Daughter , Remembering Their Old times 😭🤯❤️
I just understand her so bad cause, I suffer from depression, anxiety and panic and sometimes people just seem to look at me as it has something wrong with me. Listening to her song gives me confidence and strength to not be afraid to show my pain and my scars. I'm proud of me for living everyday and I'm proud of every single of you that passes through the same kind off thing.
What changed her mind to release this? Didn’t she mention in an interview before how this song was so personal to her she just couldn’t release it? Or was that a different song? Either way, I’m glad.
I don't know, it's been a year so things change and she's spoken about reducing her medications and being in a happier mind frame now aswell as treating her body well so I guess it finally felt right for her to release this and let that weight come off of her
"Feels like a bird is living in my head Please don't piss me off, oh no I shouldn't have said that Because I'm a good girl Don't spill it out" wow. one of my biggest fears as a pwBPD is that one day I'll say too much, get too emotional, and suddenly I'll be alone again. one of the hardest parts of bpd for me is that fear that you'll lose control of yourself and scare people away. that combined with the guilt of knowing you hurt someone can make it so that sometimes i feel like the only way to keep everyone safe is to create a character to play, someone who's always happy and never gets upset.
My doctors think I have BPD, and though I still need a formal diagnosis from a specialist I do know that I have struggled with BPD symptoms my whole life. I have been listening to Wonder Girls since I was nine years old. They introduced me to kpop. I am twenty two now. When I read that Sunmi opened up about this, I broke out in gasping tears. She is the first celebrity EVER, east or west, that I have heard be open about this. I am so deeply moved and so speechless. Admitting you have BPD when the stigma is deadly is the bravest thing possible. I love you Sunmi. Always have, always will. God bless you.
본인의 이야기를 담았다고는 알고 있었지만 그런 자세한 이야기는 몰랐어요.. 저도 비슷한 경험을 겪어본 적이 있는데 너무 힘이 되고 위로가 돼요 모두에게 사랑 받고 싶기에 모두에게 잘해주고 잘 보이려 노력했다는 거 .. 인간은 완벽할 수 없기에 모두에게 사랑받기도 불가능할텐데 말이죠 앞으로는 저를 더 사랑하고 아껴주려고요 이런 노래 내주셔서 감사해요 춤과 영상도 잘 봤습니다
The title and lyrics are a lot more meaningful after her recent comments. She's been through SO much and I'm so proud of her. I wish her only the best.
i'm so proud of sunmi for talking about her bpd diagnosis openly on camera, honestly couldn't have been easy... i hope she's doing okay. loved this song since the release and kind of love it even more now
Sunmi, I i love you Why because every song has meaning to me and other. I remember when the first (solo artist to first day debuted gashina) saw you and i was like "aura is mysterious " like pretty. Im just saying do it because you want to not because others. I have borderline to people always critic but those are criticism they not the right people you should be. I love you sunmi im you're fan for 5 years still gonna be I wish i can meet you. (Sorry if my english not good not first language)
(At the DC concert) Sunmi: Do you like my song Borderline? Crowd: (Cheers) Yes!! Sunmi: How do know what it is when I haven't released it? My favorite moment at her show. It's nice to see the video finally released. I like the mature tone of the song. I think many people face the dilemma of alway putting on a positive/bubbly face even when you're not feeling it inside. Thanks for bringing this song to light Sunmi!
Jay Ayers i was at the dc concert too !! that was such an amazing time i remember her singing this and being so in her emotions and i could just feel exactly what she was saying (if that makes sense)
Hi, hello! I'm the one that organized her banner event for the DC concert. Haha~ It feels like so many moons ago. When will we get another world tour from her? But she's releasing a lot this year. So much content!
I literally cried watching this. It means so much for her to do a song in English because she does not have to do that for us but she did and not to mention everything about the video and song is so hauntingly perfect and beautiful.
@@김우영-n2h ruclips.net/video/Qe492FRFPac/видео.html 궁금하시다면 이 인터뷰를 한번 보실래요? 정말 멋지고 솔직한 인터뷰에요. 우연히 이 인터뷰를 보고 선미씨를 더 좋아하게 됐어요. 인터뷰를 보고 나면 선미씨는 아이돌 이라기 보다는 치열하게 고뇌하는 예술가에 가깝지 않나 생각하게 된달까요 :)
I'm so proud of her, writing and composing her music herself. I can't wait for a full album!!!!! This song is stunning and I love how raw it is, showing more than just happiness. Humans feel sadness, happiness and we get hurt and suffer mentally just as we do physically and I'm loving how open artists are being about these things, showing their human side instead of the glorified, famous celebrity thing the media pushes to hide these things and make us feel bad for not being manufactured. I'm glad she's at a point where she's happier and is able to reduce her medications and has decided to release this song. We need more people talking about medication for mental illnesses, the stigma around it is so silly, it helps. We are all different and some need medicine, we take medicine for our physical illnesses so why should we feel ashamed to take it for our mental illnesses? The brain is the most important part of our bodies and we need it to be healthy to live and not only to survive but to thrive. Stan Sunmi for clear skin and stream her entire discography because this gorgeous young lady only serves us bops, and that's on what? Period. (Not to mention how beautiful she looks in this MV, I like the choreo and the styling, it matches the song. I appreciate how she went simple for this so it's all focused on the song itself rather than a load of visuals. I like the use of just 2 female dancers aswell. Perfection if you ask me, she's perfection) This is my favourite song that she's ever released. I wish it was atleast 50 years long. Gorgeous! 이 선미/미야 & 미야네 화이팅!! ♥
Lyrics: I'm trying to be a good girl Didn't mean to fake it Getting used to saying I'm OK And yellin' to myself Don't push me away I'm on the borderline I'm on the borderline I'm a good girl yeah I'm a good girl yeah I'm on the borderline I'm on the borderline Please be on my side Please be on my side I got too hyped Unstable eyes Hands, hair, and words Are all over the place Feels like a bird is living in my head Please don't piss me off, Oh no no I shouldn't have said that Because I'm a good girl yeah Don't spill it out I'm on the borderline I'm on the borderline I'm a good girl yeah I'm a good girl yeah I'm on the borderline I'm on the borderline Please be on my side Please be on my side It's been years takin' Xanax And I got so much better Why people keep sayin' "What's wrong with her?" Digging myself deeper and deeper I see what I rejected to see in the past (Pills, bloods, illness, abandoned) Well, okay, better be covered I gotta be lookin' vivid and classy I'm on the borderline I'm on the borderline I'm a good girl yeah I'm a good girl yeah I'm on the borderline I'm on the borderline Please be on my side Please be on my side Don't put me in a bad light 'til I'm in the limelight Don't put me in a bad light 'til I'm in the limelight
@@thagirlonfyre Being "in the limelight" is basically the same as being in the spotlight, meaning being the center of attention or having some sort of attention being given to you.
I also had borderline and I have to say I can understand how she felt. The text and the song made me cry because it all came back from my borderline personality disorder😢😢😢
I don’t have bdp but i just love this song, i love the dance. I love everything about this. This song makes me feel in a particular way i feel protected but at the same time this song educate you on bdp and i think it’s amazing. I’m so proud of her, everyday more. I love that she wrote and publish this song, absolutely one of my favorite sunmi’s release
shes talking about the mental illness "I'm on the borderline please stay by my side" (fear of abandonment that can send us directly to insanity). "being on xanax for years" (people with BPD experience chronic internal anxiety and anxiety is a common comorbid )
My day just got better, it's a really bad day for me today but Red Velvet Wendy and Sunmi showing up outta nowhere made my day much better than awhile ago
Already you are blessed and good person. no matter what people judge you, pls don't listen to the shitty things. Always remember and feel that you already have a lot of lovers and admirers. You are already legend to me and encourage to live.....
I was diagnosed with BPD (amongst other disorders) about a year ago. I honestly cried the first time I watched this video. Having a public figure express her feelings and struggles about this disorder feels kinda surreal to me. I do feel that BDP is heavy stigmatized, so having her not only being honest about her diagnosis but also putting out a music video so endearing and real is enough to make me sob. I don't know if Sunmi will ever read this, but thank you. Your music and art makes me feel safe.
I used to be obsessed with this song when it got released but I didn't know the meaning of the lyrics. Till today, when I was diagnosed with borderline personality. My mind went straight to this song and listening to it now, it makes me feel safe. I can understand myself much better and I don't feel guilty anymore because of my thoughts and behavior. Sunmi is so strong and I hope she's doing great ❤
I'm sobbing, 'cause I relate and I don't want to but also because if it hurts me it means it hurt her too and I don't wish her that EVER. My girly, my baby, she's so strong. We love you, Sunmi, I am sorry that BPD makes us seem bad and see ourselves in bad ways too. I'm sorry, I'm so sorry.
This song is one of the most importantly songs in k-pop. Talking/learning about mental health, volnerability, having the right people around, being able to listen to your body and not being objectivying AND stop trying to hide everything and saying that everything is great/fine/ok is so important- no essential!!! There are helping hands but they need to know what's going on and THAT is something going on right now. Please take care (and of each other) ♥️
Omg I just realized it's that "Borderline"! Holy shit I'm so excited! I was anticipating this soooo much when I first heard it from one of her taped live performances!
경계선 인격 장애…진짜 힘들고 내 맘을 자기도 통제 못 하고 걍 소중한 사람이한테 상처 주고 또다시 자기혐오가 되고…이런 날들에 선미가 자기도 있다는 걸 방송에서 말해주고 혼자가 아니구나라고 좀 안심했어요. 감사해요. 가족관계도 좀 복잡하고 여기 올 때까지 진짜 힘들어셨죠..응원할게요..같이 살아가요🤍(일본에서)
I listened to this song a few months ago, I loved the song but I thought she was using the 'concept' of a Bordeline personality, since that seems to be a thing in Kpop, but to know that it is actually a personal song about her mental disorder; I'm so proud of Sunmi for speaking about it especially in an industry where Mental Health is still a Stigma and almost a sin to speak about it when we all go through it and mental health is as important as doing a check at the doctors, but still people don't know. I'm very smiley person and I have depression, but people wouldn't know if I don't tell them. Let's go SUNMI, you got this and everyone who is going though it, we are in this together! 💖
I can’t believe she has a personality disorder , Someone close to me has it and it’s confusing at times because they wake up differently each day . But I’m glad Sunmi decided to speak and share it with us . We love you Sunmi and we’ll all continue to support you , Remember self care comes before anything !!! I’ll keep listening to your music . Much love from nyc 💯
I got my BPD diagnosis earlier this week and I was feeling really bad, but I remembered that sunmi revealed her diagnosis, and she has always been someone I really admire. she was an example to me before, and now I have even more reasons to admire her and follow her example
I suffer anxiety and depression. Listening this song and releasing my queen is suffering the same makes me feel a little bit "normal". Did someone agree with me? Sometimes we feel like the weirdos and want to be like other people, and then you hear your favorite singer saying this. I love this song till the first day I listened. And I hope she, and everyone suffering the same, feels better one day. Thank you, queen💕 You drop this 👑
I completely agree with you. It's hard to be understood by other people. I feel like only people who suffered from depression can deeply understand you.
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Sunmi wrote this song about her BPD (borderline personality disorder) I’m so proud of her for opening up about her struggles and even writing a song about it
This hits rly different now
Im bpd too and she is my inspiration ❤️
@@ariadnawaldorf same
I have just being diagnose with it and first thing I came to listen to this song ❤️
not to be dramatic but every single day i thank God that sunmi exists
Saammee💜
need more sunmi :P
i wish i was the same age as sunmi, i wanna marry her ㅋㅋㅋㅋ and yes Thank God she exists 💜💜
Not to be dramatic but same
Me too dkdkkdkd
She revealed recently she was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder years ago. This song has even more meaning now
I discovered this song during her world tour and it became my fav during the concert, it was incredible. The song already have a big meaning for me but now it has one even stronger. Such an important song
yeahh☹️
I have Borderline Personality as well, and I have never related so hard to a song. Never.
I also have BPD so this hits close to home
@@diyac5196 @Elise Bauer i also have bpd, and also bipolar, and this song is very meaningful to me as well... hope you guys are saying strong w / everything that's happening right now
I remember when Sunmi would get panic attacks when she was in Wonder Girls, she would have to sit out of the performance and have ttouble breathing. I am so happy for her, I remember she said her dream was to become a singer that moves people (emotionally). Well Sunmi, you have achieved this, I am so proud of you and happy you chose to continue creating music.😚
that reminds me of when the intense hate sulli got began to increase more in 2013 and at one of the end of year festivals, f(x) recorded their stage about five times but sulli had to sit out on the fifth one because she was really sick and her condition was so bad that the cameraman didn't even give her much camera time because of how bad she looked, but of course, everyone, knets AND inets took it as her being lazy and just not wanting to be there when she actually loved f(x) so much, just that the public and even her own fans were so toxic to her that she couldn't handle it anymore.
anyways i'm really proud of sunmi and other celebrities that open up about these things. it's a step forward to normalising mental health and allowing people to be open about it, and also giving a reminder that celebrities are just human like everybody else and they're allowed to have feelings, make mistakes and have troubles.
I'm the 1k liker & it makes me happy ☺🤩
the way you have to clarify moves people 😭
@@jinlissul
I didn't know that. Thanks for the info. I'm a fan of f(x), Amber is my bias. Sometimes I'm still remember Sulli & being sad. I still love watching or listening to their songs bud it makes me feel bad for Sulli. She's just the cute baby one. Krystal is the real maknae but Sulli is the maknae as well. And how she's so close with Amber & call each other "Hyung" (Brother). 😢
Like Sumni said before, this song feel really raw. But it’s my kind of favorite song. Really admired that she finally released this song because it’s deeply personal : how she used to suffer but kept pretending that everything was okay. Even admitted she was taking Xanax, this may seem overdone to say in the western music industry but in Korea where mental illness are still taboo especially among idol that have to keep the perfect image, it’s really inspiring.This mature,dark yet sexy concept is everything I would hope to see even more in future song. The visuals are very classy and give this high fashion vibe I love. Moreover I was surprised this song is in English but il really suit the meaning of the song with her sultry voice, and the choreography feel almost contemporary (and seems difficult to achieve in live so really exciting to see it).
When did she say she took xanax
Yeri Kim 1:53
You know even in western countries it's taboo mental illness or even having an illness. It's not a problem concerning only South Korea, it's sad that you have to be healthy to be accepted in every society.
@@meibi6241 yea true, i suffer from PTSD, Depression, OCD and anxiety &panic attacks and i have to go into a mental clinic soon. A lot of 'friends' turned their back to me and left me, but then you see who your real friends are. Even in Germany this is a taboo topic.
@@ronja5516 I understand you so much, I suffer from epilepsy, seborrheic dermatitis, endometriosis, depression and anxiety (because of my epilepsy). All my friends turned their back, I should have lived my life lying if I wanted to have friends.
They disgusted me so much, I didn't want to live any longer lying to myself. It's not a crime to be ill. I didn't choose to be ill.
I know that my words are easy to say than to do but I hope that you will be happy. I wish one day all your troubles and illness disappear.
i dont have bpd and im deeply sorry fot those who suffer from it :(( sunmi and these comments have helped me understand it better, you guys are SO strong ♡
"I'm trying to be a good girl, didn't mean to fake it."
This is so relatable and real...
We are proud of you for you sunmi! You are so strong for even releasing this. We love you
So many people set up ridiculous unrealistic standards for "good girl/women" (as opposed to "bad" girls, "disrespectful" girls, "sluts" etc.). But then they are the same people who go around calling those good girls "fake".
In their eyes, a woman is either BAD or FAKE. You just can't win.
That's why you just have to ignore those stupid people, fight back and just BE YOURSELF.
@@queenning28 my mom is that kinda person. I'm her only daughter so maybe that's why she treat me like this.
She always tells me to dress feminin, smile more (cuz my relaxed face look bitchy), get good grades etc
So in her eyes i am a "bad girl" because i'm not doing anything of that unrealistic goals :/
It's very interesting how thoroughly the release of this song recontextualised her previous solo works and the album this was eventually attached to.
“please be on my side” is the corest point of bpd, and that’s just so heartbreaking
totally I have it
Being the eldest daughter of an Asian family is literally a struggle in itself. Sunmi, the eldest, has worked her ass off in the music industry since she was a minor. She had to deal with pervs, weirdos, and haters all together, trying to act tough for her image not to be tainted. She's a blessing for her family (giving them a sense of pride bc their little girl grew to be a successful and well-loved artist) as well as fans whom she inspired dearly and to those random people who are touched by this side of her, a vulnerable one. Thank you Sunmi for sharing your story that most, if not all, of us can relate to. It really pains me that you went through such horrid things but you carried yourself so well that it seems we didn't have to worry much about you. Stay beautiful!
True, i'm so proud of her
louise and she buys her brothers what they want, like she bought her youngest brother a pc set. I’m jealous of their genes smh
@@wonhoscake1214 she became an idol specifically to support her brothers since their father was very ill and unable to work, it makes me so happy to see her so successful and able to provide for them even as adults!
not to mention she debuted when she was like 14 three months after her father died :(
Sunmi released this?
Wendy finally healthy again?
Jisoo acting?
This day really my lucky day
Hotel? Trivago!
(sorry, I had to 😅)
Jisoo acting??
@@GG_ab yes she's the lead actress in snowdrop(not sure of the name)
@@astermelia6691 blackpink jisoo? :0
And Hyolyn released her new song and mini-album
anyone 2024??
such a masterpiece
Being the eldest child in a family is already difficult enough, at a young age her father got really ill and they face financial difficulties. She quickly became the sole breadwinner and had to find a way to make a lot of money fast to afford her father's treatment. The young her decided to become a celebrity because she thought that was the only way, she trained hard and at last had the chance to debut in Wonder Girls, unfortunately her father passed away 3 months before he could see her debut. She faced so much criticism from people always pointing out her flaws and always telling her what to do at a young age but she had to bite her tongue and keep quite because she has to take care of her little brothers. Till today she still faces harsh criticism and every move she make is closely watch by people just waiting for her to make a little mistake to leave her hateful and degrading words. She has gone through so much, this song and video clearly depicts the struggles she had to endure from a young age and how it has already affected her. She mentioned many times how hard it is for her to share her struggles but she trust her fans enough that she had the courage to share this song and show her vulnerability. Hopefully this song can help others find comfort because she always mentioned that she hopes her songs can help people feel less lonely and find comfort.
ty for ur comment, i had no idea she went thru all that and now the song makes much more sense for her pov, shes so strong
She is amazing and I will immediately stop bit*hing about my own life...
Thanks for sharing her story!
💕
Thank you for sharing her story with all of us . I had no idea she faced so much in her life.Sunmi has been one of my most favourite kpop idols and she is truly gifted.
Lots of comments, only a few knows that it’s her mental health she’s talking about. My mother is Borderline, and that video, lyrics and choreography explains EVERY SYMPTOM they suffer on a daily basis, even the cutting veins-suicidal part.
You’re strong girl, stronger know for acknowledging it and accepting it.
My love for you, you’re never alone
I think the lyrics and the video itself describes what the song is about . I highly doubt that anyone is unaware about what the song is actually about.
I have bpd myself and this sounds like our official anthem. But bpd shares a lot of symptoms with ptsd , bipolar, depression n anxiety. So we can all cry together with this song.
i have bpd and can confirm that this song definitely sounds like it might be about it
@@marianaortiz4515 Borderline, the word isn't only used when talking about bpd. She has depression and has been very open about it and has recently discussed how she's reducing her medications for it etc because she's in a better place. It's a song so you can interpret it in any way but she hasn't said she suffers with bpd and just because the song can relate to those who do suffer from it doesn't mean we should assume the artist does
Is this song about mental health in general or specifically Borderline personality disorder
이른 새벽 생각나서 찾아듣게되는 노래,
"I shouldn't have said that because I'm a good girl " - I think many of us can relate to that , the society is judgemental towards girls , how we are supposed to act , how we are supposed to talk or even react to something . Borderline , I think is the line , the one which "supposed good girls " cross after the society drives them crazy.
completely agree
ruclips.net/video/SiqUWhrzvCo/видео.html we all can relate
Its about mental health, she has borderline.
This is about her own personal struggle not a broad example. We can all relate to her pain. I am surprised she released a version because its so personal
@@theEpicpond Did she say that anywhere? I have Borderline too and would like to know if it's true.
I love the simplicity of this video. Sometimes less is more. Really like this song.
Nominate sunmi as most beautiful woman!! 💕
I have to agree
@@ro_miyane that acc is fake
@@minghaosfilm417 it's verified?
@@aspannas its fake its an emoji and why would they comment on an idols video?
너무 힘들고 괴로운 순간에서 헤매고 힘들때가 있어요. 선미님의 호소력 짙은 목소리로 지금 이 순간을 넘겨봐요. 죽고 싶은 순간을 넘기고 더 나은 삶을 꿈꾸며...
I love how Sunmi shows her "darker" and deeper, also her vulnerable side in many of her videos and in her music. I think this is what makes it so strong. Of course i don't know her, but it always feels real and personal. I think she is really brave to put out such a song and I am really proud of her, the video is also a perfect representation - minimalistic yet so emotional and expressive. Also, i really hope she has good people around her, so she is not alone with her dark thoughts. Love you Sunmi, no matter how dark you get, you brighten my day
She NEVER disappoints. Name one bad song by her.. exactly, it doesn't exist
i cry so much to this song because i have bpd and these words hit even harder after sunmi revealed that she was diagnosed with it as well. now when i feel alone i’ll just think about her and remember that there’s somebody who’s feeling just like me
I see all of your words and feelings.Everything will be good ,trust me.We just need a little time and you should know you’re not alone ,take care 🤝✊🏻🙌🏻
Same here. I honestly cried the first time I watched this video. Having a public figure express her feelings and struggles about this disorder feels kinda surreal to me. I do feel that BDP is heavy stigmatized, so having her not only being honest about her diagnosis but also putting out a music video so endearing and real is enough to make me sob. I don't know if Sunmi will ever read this, but thank you. Your music and art makes me feel safe.
Prayers you're doing okay, and you got this; never give up! 👏👏👏💙💙💙
@@monsterhanna6691 still fighting 😔 thank you 💗
I has too bpd
sunmi makes me very proud. after noir she has been inspiring me a lot and strengthening some criticisms, this woman is pure power!
Hi! I am new
@@garimasingh7673 welcome to this fandom ! ✨✨✨💜
She's so courageous 🖤
I have been listening to Sunmi for a while now, to keep it short, and she has quickly become a favorite K pop artist of mine!
@@sunmiults7886 What is the fandom called??? And which entertainment is she in??
늘 상상 이상의 것을 선보이는 선미님. 그 뒤에 노력들과 아픔, 창작의 고통들이 저는 상상도 되지 않아요. 그래도 응원하고 오래 보고 싶어요. 선미님께서 안정적으로 건강하게 행복하게 선미님 자체가 일순위로, 오래 자신을 표현하며 활동하시기를 진심으로 응원해요💜
I have BPD. I survived. Sunmi survived. So will those of us who have it. I have never cried so much in my life, this song hit me deep. It hit me that deep.
I have too bpd
As someone who struggles with mental health it feels comforting when popular artists sing about it. It's so brave and makes them more human and easier to connect to. Respect to Sunmi and her dancing is so beautiful here ❤
I'm trying to be a good girl
Didn't mean to fake it
Getting used to saying I'm OK
And yellin' to myself
Don't push me away
I'm on the borderline
I'm on the borderline
I'm a good girl yeah
I'm a good girl yeah
I'm on the borderline
I'm on the borderline
Please be on my side
Please be on my side
I got too hyped
Unstable eyes
Hands, hair, and words
Are all over the place
Feels like a bird is living in my head
Please don't piss me off, Oh no no
I shouldn't have said that
Because I'm a good girl yeah
Don't spill it out
I'm on the borderline
I'm on the borderline
I'm a goof girl yeah
I'm a good girl yeah
I'm on the borderline
I'm on the borderline
Please be on my side
Please be on my side
It's been years takin' Xanax
And I got so much better
Why people keep sayin'
"What's wrong with her?"
Digging myself deeper and deeper
I see what I resented to see in the past
(Pills, bloods, illness, abandoned)
Well, okay, better be covered
I gotta be lookin' vivid and classy
I'm on the borderline
I'm on the borderline
I'm a good girl yeah
I'm a good girl yeah
I'm on the borderline
I'm on the borderline
Please be on my side
Please be on my side
Don't put me in a bad light
'til I'm in the limelight
Don't put me in a bad light
'til I'm in the limelight
I think she actually changed the original word of "rejected" with "resented"
Thank you for the lyrics
wait, is she talking about borderline personality disorder in this song? im crying bc i relate too much ;-;
„its been years takin‘ xanax“
I love Sunmi.
Her voice is so beautiful, and she's very charismatic. Yes, she's a good girl. :)
Heroine: Sunmi on the chair
Gashina: Sunmi on the table
Lalalay: Sunmi on the backup dancer
Pporappippam: Sunmi on the top of a car
Borderline: Sunmi on the bathtub
sunmi was also in a bathtub in gashina!
For the Third time; Gashina, Siren and now, Borderline.
If you hear the live version, in the lyrics she literally says “I’m on the borderline”
Borderline: Sunmi on the borderline
Siren: Sunmi on the washing machine xd
와우
After watching this, I'm fully convinced that Sunmi should sing next James Bond's theme song
Take it one step further: sunmi should be james bond
Omg absolutely !! For both comments !
YAAAAAAAAAAAAAS TO THESE COMMENTS
Sunmi should be perfect for next James Bond OST
That is one of the things I love about RUclips, it just randomly suggests vids to watch and so it happen with this video of a singer I have never heard of called Sunmi. I clicked on the thumbnail and a watched a dark and sexy video pull me in as I listened to this almost raspy, memorizing voice from this young beautiful women. Sometimes all it takes is one song with words that move you, resonate within you, bring back memories of the past to realize that this someone I need to discover. Sunmi you have yourself a new fan.
TYSM.. please listen to more of her musics.
She has great and unique music that can also get pretty real. I'm sure you'll be hooked like I was 💝
She's truly such an amazing artist inside and out, and an equally amazing person. I hope you will seek out more of her music if you haven't already and follow and support her future activities! She is already hugely successful and popular but still deserves so much more.
Okkk !!! ... Now You Are New
Iam a new fan too , i Saw a Publicity And , Here I'am ❤️
Wach her video
" Sunmi - Ppopiripam "
And
" When WE Disco "
it's her Colaboration with JYP , he used to be her Boss , now they Are like Father and Daughter , Remembering Their Old times 😭🤯❤️
I think you will find that this artist is worthy of your time. Enjoy the journey.
I just understand her so bad cause, I suffer from depression, anxiety and panic and sometimes people just seem to look at me as it has something wrong with me. Listening to her song gives me confidence and strength to not be afraid to show my pain and my scars. I'm proud of me for living everyday and I'm proud of every single of you that passes through the same kind off thing.
thank you 😭💗 I'm proud of you too
I hope I will get to this point in my life too… to be proud to live
That's great , I hope I get to feel the same way
I also have anxiety and her songs really helps me 💕
What changed her mind to release this? Didn’t she mention in an interview before how this song was so personal to her she just couldn’t release it? Or was that a different song?
Either way, I’m glad.
Its the same song
I don't know, it's been a year so things change and she's spoken about reducing her medications and being in a happier mind frame now aswell as treating her body well so I guess it finally felt right for her to release this and let that weight come off of her
@@littlelou050 her medications ?? What for ?
I don't know if that interview was before or after her Europe tour, but she performed it for us at her concerts.
@@yasminebelaid9743 Depression, she took medication for her mental state
숨겨진 명곡 띵곡... 이거 작사 선미가 직접 하고 작곡까지 참여했단걸 뒤늦게 알고 정말 깜짝놀람. 선미의 저 깊디깊은 세계가 날 울려ㅠㅠ
"Feels like a bird is living in my head
Please don't piss me off, oh no
I shouldn't have said that
Because I'm a good girl
Don't spill it out"
wow. one of my biggest fears as a pwBPD is that one day I'll say too much, get too emotional, and suddenly I'll be alone again. one of the hardest parts of bpd for me is that fear that you'll lose control of yourself and scare people away. that combined with the guilt of knowing you hurt someone can make it so that sometimes i feel like the only way to keep everyone safe is to create a character to play, someone who's always happy and never gets upset.
My doctors think I have BPD, and though I still need a formal diagnosis from a specialist I do know that I have struggled with BPD symptoms my whole life. I have been listening to Wonder Girls since I was nine years old. They introduced me to kpop. I am twenty two now.
When I read that Sunmi opened up about this, I broke out in gasping tears. She is the first celebrity EVER, east or west, that I have heard be open about this.
I am so deeply moved and so speechless. Admitting you have BPD when the stigma is deadly is the bravest thing possible. I love you Sunmi. Always have, always will. God bless you.
Almost same situation here, so nice to see her open abt it
This version is very superior than the ones in spotify or other platforms
본인의 이야기를 담았다고는 알고 있었지만 그런 자세한 이야기는 몰랐어요.. 저도 비슷한 경험을 겪어본 적이 있는데 너무 힘이 되고 위로가 돼요 모두에게 사랑 받고 싶기에 모두에게 잘해주고 잘 보이려 노력했다는 거 .. 인간은 완벽할 수 없기에 모두에게 사랑받기도 불가능할텐데 말이죠 앞으로는 저를 더 사랑하고 아껴주려고요 이런 노래 내주셔서 감사해요 춤과 영상도 잘 봤습니다
The title and lyrics are a lot more meaningful after her recent comments. She's been through SO much and I'm so proud of her. I wish her only the best.
coming here after listing to the masterpiece oh sorry ya 😞
god borderline is such an emotional song i’m so honored that she trusts miyanes this much
The black and white aesthetic in this video is really important for understanding BPD and the song.
Being vocal abt BPD is so important to end the stigma and it's so heartwarming to see Sunmi be open with her experience with it❤
i'm so proud of sunmi for talking about her bpd diagnosis openly on camera, honestly couldn't have been easy... i hope she's doing okay. loved this song since the release and kind of love it even more now
Sunmi, I i love you
Why because every song has meaning to me and other. I remember when the first (solo artist to first day debuted gashina) saw you and i was like "aura is mysterious " like pretty. Im just saying do it because you want to not because others. I have borderline to people always critic but those are criticism they not the right people you should be. I love you sunmi im you're fan for 5 years still gonna be
I wish i can meet you.
(Sorry if my english not good not first language)
처음엔 그냥 너무 좋아서 보던 영상이였는데 유희열의 스케치북을 보고...이 영상의 진정한 느낌을 알아 버린 듯 느껴졌어요...다 알지 못해도...백댄서들은 선미님을 위로하는 존재이기도 하고 위협이 될수도 있는거 같은 그림자 같네요.
*Feels like a bird its livin in my head* line breaks my heart...
Who would have guessed a year later she wold put this song on 1/6
Sunmi ♥♥♥♥♥
(At the DC concert)
Sunmi: Do you like my song Borderline?
Crowd: (Cheers) Yes!!
Sunmi: How do know what it is when I haven't released it?
My favorite moment at her show. It's nice to see the video finally released. I like the mature tone of the song. I think many people face the dilemma of alway putting on a positive/bubbly face even when you're not feeling it inside.
Thanks for bringing this song to light Sunmi!
Jay Ayers i was at the dc concert too !! that was such an amazing time i remember her singing this and being so in her emotions and i could just feel exactly what she was saying (if that makes sense)
Hi, hello! I'm the one that organized her banner event for the DC concert. Haha~ It feels like so many moons ago. When will we get another world tour from her? But she's releasing a lot this year. So much content!
kyootnshort hey! Nice seeing you here! Yeah I miss Sunmi so much 🥺
kyootnshort omg thank you so much for the banners !! i still have mine in my room hanging up 🥺❤️
@@alallgaier103 i do too omg 🥺🥺
Miyane always be your side
선미노래너무좋아 사랑해 선미야
I literally cried watching this. It means so much for her to do a song in English because she does not have to do that for us but she did and not to mention everything about the video and song is so hauntingly perfect and beautiful.
대중음악을 하는 아이돌이 이런 개인적인 의미가 많은 노래를 발표한다는것은 정말 용기있고 능동적으로 문화를 선도하는 모습이라고 생각해요. 노래와 뮤직 비디오 모두 잘 감상했습니다. 박수를 보내고 싶어요!
어떤 개인적인 의미 인가요?
@@김우영-n2h ruclips.net/video/Qe492FRFPac/видео.html
궁금하시다면 이 인터뷰를 한번 보실래요? 정말 멋지고 솔직한 인터뷰에요. 우연히 이 인터뷰를 보고 선미씨를 더 좋아하게 됐어요. 인터뷰를 보고 나면 선미씨는 아이돌 이라기 보다는 치열하게 고뇌하는 예술가에 가깝지 않나 생각하게 된달까요 :)
sunmi-borderline
chungha-dream of you
chungha and sunmi best solo
we waited for so long and it’s finally here!
EVERYONE SAY THANK YOU SUNMI
THANK YOU GODDESS
Thank u, SUNMI
I'm so proud of her, writing and composing her music herself. I can't wait for a full album!!!!! This song is stunning and I love how raw it is, showing more than just happiness. Humans feel sadness, happiness and we get hurt and suffer mentally just as we do physically and I'm loving how open artists are being about these things, showing their human side instead of the glorified, famous celebrity thing the media pushes to hide these things and make us feel bad for not being manufactured. I'm glad she's at a point where she's happier and is able to reduce her medications and has decided to release this song. We need more people talking about medication for mental illnesses, the stigma around it is so silly, it helps. We are all different and some need medicine, we take medicine for our physical illnesses so why should we feel ashamed to take it for our mental illnesses? The brain is the most important part of our bodies and we need it to be healthy to live and not only to survive but to thrive. Stan Sunmi for clear skin and stream her entire discography because this gorgeous young lady only serves us bops, and that's on what? Period.
(Not to mention how beautiful she looks in this MV, I like the choreo and the styling, it matches the song. I appreciate how she went simple for this so it's all focused on the song itself rather than a load of visuals. I like the use of just 2 female dancers aswell. Perfection if you ask me, she's perfection)
This is my favourite song that she's ever released. I wish it was atleast 50 years long. Gorgeous!
이 선미/미야 & 미야네 화이팅!! ♥
Lyrics:
I'm trying to be a good girl
Didn't mean to fake it
Getting used to saying I'm OK
And yellin' to myself
Don't push me away
I'm on the borderline
I'm on the borderline
I'm a good girl yeah
I'm a good girl yeah
I'm on the borderline
I'm on the borderline
Please be on my side
Please be on my side
I got too hyped
Unstable eyes
Hands, hair, and words
Are all over the place
Feels like a bird is living in my head
Please don't piss me off, Oh no no
I shouldn't have said that
Because I'm a good girl yeah
Don't spill it out
I'm on the borderline
I'm on the borderline
I'm a good girl yeah
I'm a good girl yeah
I'm on the borderline
I'm on the borderline
Please be on my side
Please be on my side
It's been years takin' Xanax
And I got so much better
Why people keep sayin'
"What's wrong with her?"
Digging myself deeper and deeper
I see what I rejected to see in the past
(Pills, bloods, illness, abandoned)
Well, okay, better be covered
I gotta be lookin' vivid and classy
I'm on the borderline
I'm on the borderline
I'm a good girl yeah
I'm a good girl yeah
I'm on the borderline
I'm on the borderline
Please be on my side
Please be on my side
Don't put me in a bad light
'til I'm in the limelight
Don't put me in a bad light
'til I'm in the limelight
Thank you very much !😊
So nice of ya 😘
(Please, what does limelight mean..? I'm not fluent yet ahah)
@@thagirlonfyre Being "in the limelight" is basically the same as being in the spotlight, meaning being the center of attention or having some sort of attention being given to you.
@@whataheavenlywaytolive Ooh okey, i see ^^. Thank you so much !😉
Thank you !
Thank you Sunni. I send you strength for the daily struggle that is BPD. ❤️
I also had borderline and I have to say I can understand how she felt. The text and the song made me cry because it all came back from my borderline personality disorder😢😢😢
I don’t have bdp but i just love this song, i love the dance. I love everything about this. This song makes me feel in a particular way i feel protected but at the same time this song educate you on bdp and i think it’s amazing. I’m so proud of her, everyday more. I love that she wrote and publish this song, absolutely one of my favorite sunmi’s release
i know sunmi is most likely singing about her anxiety but as someone with BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER I resonated with this song
same it's such a bpd mood. reallllly relatable
It made sense to me too that she is talking about borderline.
i feel the same way.
shes talking about the mental illness
"I'm on the borderline please stay by my side" (fear of abandonment that can send us directly to insanity).
"being on xanax for years" (people with BPD experience chronic internal anxiety and anxiety is a common comorbid )
I've recently got diagnosed with it, shit's really shitty tbh
SUNMI is the best solo artist
I love sunmi poland
선미 좋아한 지 일주일 됐는데 어떻게 이제 알았나 싶다. 댄스 여자 솔로 중 너무나 우아한 본인만의 분위기가 있고 독보적이어서 더 확실한 디바로 자리매김하면 좋겠다. 예술적이고
너무나 훌륭하고 뛰어나다.
최고..👍🏻👍🏻
girl, I can't explain how much I love you
Thank you...just thank you!
My day just got better, it's a really bad day for me today but Red Velvet Wendy and Sunmi showing up outta nowhere made my day much better than awhile ago
i hope you day go even better than now♡
@@raspberry-o9r 네, it really became even better but i hope Sunmi is good as well. Thank you for that 💜💜
Thank you, My Queen. Is really hard live with this and be judge all the time and still has to live with yourself
Already you are blessed and good person. no matter what people judge you, pls don't listen to the shitty things. Always remember and feel that you already have a lot of lovers and admirers.
You are already legend to me and encourage to live.....
진짜 선미의 최근 레트로 풍의 분위기는 진짜 최고인것 같애요! 목소리하고도 잘 묻어나고 암튼 최고입니다!!!
나중에 꼭 선미하고 작업할 수 있는 날이 오길! 🤞
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I was diagnosed with BPD (amongst other disorders) about a year ago. I honestly cried the first time I watched this video. Having a public figure express her feelings and struggles about this disorder feels kinda surreal to me. I do feel that BDP is heavy stigmatized, so having her not only being honest about her diagnosis but also putting out a music video so endearing and real is enough to make me sob. I don't know if Sunmi will ever read this, but thank you. Your music and art makes me feel safe.
i wanna hug her so bad
I need this song in Spotify... This version... Need :`(
I used to be obsessed with this song when it got released but I didn't know the meaning of the lyrics. Till today, when I was diagnosed with borderline personality. My mind went straight to this song and listening to it now, it makes me feel safe. I can understand myself much better and I don't feel guilty anymore because of my thoughts and behavior. Sunmi is so strong and I hope she's doing great ❤
I'm sobbing, 'cause I relate and I don't want to but also because if it hurts me it means it hurt her too and I don't wish her that EVER. My girly, my baby, she's so strong. We love you, Sunmi, I am sorry that BPD makes us seem bad and see ourselves in bad ways too. I'm sorry, I'm so sorry.
i still prefer this version of borderline tbh
보더라인이 어디서 부터 비롯된것인지 어제 방송의 눈물을 통해 알게 된 이후로 이 곡이 새롭게 해석된다 ㅠ
still so good
작사 작곡 다되고 프로듀싱에 춤잘추고 겸손하고 영어도잘하고 괜히 선미가 아니구나
Revendo essa musica da minha solista favorita depois de descobrir que tenho borderline.
Miyayeah aka. Gorgeous SUNMI. her music video tells you everything about her struggle. Xanax help her. Godspeed Gorgeous ❤❤
Idk why this song has similar vibe of her friend’s song, Ha:tfelt’s Life Sucks. This one is like an alternate version to it. I love them both.
I will always be on your side sunmi
This song is one of the most importantly songs in k-pop. Talking/learning about mental health, volnerability, having the right people around, being able to listen to your body and not being objectivying AND stop trying to hide everything and saying that everything is great/fine/ok is so important- no essential!!! There are helping hands but they need to know what's going on and THAT is something going on right now.
Please take care (and of each other) ♥️
Omg!!! I’ve been waiting for this song since I heard it in sunmi’s concert last year. Finally!!! I’m so excited!!!! My favorite song ever!!!
Omg I just realized it's that "Borderline"!
Holy shit I'm so excited! I was anticipating this soooo much when I first heard it from one of her taped live performances!
Omg same I was at the concert in Paris...
선미는 선미 그대로 완벽해요
더이상 다른 사람들 말에 상처받지 말아요
당신은 그들보다 훨씬 아름다운 사람입니다
As a person with BPD, I appreciate this song than any other music out there.
Sunmi is a legend
경계선 인격 장애…진짜 힘들고 내 맘을 자기도 통제 못 하고 걍 소중한 사람이한테 상처 주고 또다시 자기혐오가 되고…이런 날들에 선미가 자기도 있다는 걸 방송에서 말해주고 혼자가 아니구나라고 좀 안심했어요. 감사해요. 가족관계도 좀 복잡하고 여기 올 때까지 진짜 힘들어셨죠..응원할게요..같이 살아가요🤍(일본에서)
This song is classy and charismatic but also shows a vulnerable side. It has a different vibe that separates it from other Sunmi songs, and I love it.
It's a perfect... Shape, emotional, drama... Psychological state of a person when star being visible...
I have ptsd ... I realized how similar the fear I felt in this song was
I listened to this song a few months ago, I loved the song but I thought she was using the 'concept' of a Bordeline personality, since that seems to be a thing in Kpop, but to know that it is actually a personal song about her mental disorder; I'm so proud of Sunmi for speaking about it especially in an industry where Mental Health is still a Stigma and almost a sin to speak about it when we all go through it and mental health is as important as doing a check at the doctors, but still people don't know. I'm very smiley person and I have depression, but people wouldn't know if I don't tell them.
Let's go SUNMI, you got this and everyone who is going though it, we are in this together! 💖
te amooooo
I can’t believe she has a personality disorder , Someone close to me has it and it’s confusing at times because they wake up differently each day . But I’m glad Sunmi decided to speak and share it with us . We love you Sunmi and we’ll all continue to support you , Remember self care comes before anything !!! I’ll keep listening to your music . Much love from nyc 💯
I got my BPD diagnosis earlier this week and I was feeling really bad, but I remembered that sunmi revealed her diagnosis, and she has always been someone I really admire. she was an example to me before, and now I have even more reasons to admire her and follow her example
- 미야네 일동은 행복에 가까워진 선미를 응원합니다😘😘 -
She's a great and very talented artist. Love her ❤️
I suffer anxiety and depression. Listening this song and releasing my queen is suffering the same makes me feel a little bit "normal". Did someone agree with me? Sometimes we feel like the weirdos and want to be like other people, and then you hear your favorite singer saying this. I love this song till the first day I listened. And I hope she, and everyone suffering the same, feels better one day. Thank you, queen💕 You drop this 👑
I completely agree with you. It's hard to be understood by other people. I feel like only people who suffered from depression can deeply understand you.
Yeah i totally agree with you.. I really hope everyone who feels this way can have a better day at least for once ♡
Realizing you are not alone makes it a little easier❤️
Len Doherty Iam pretty sure every idol has such problems. This industry is extremly toxic
@@foxkujo9684 sadly true 😔
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1/6 IS COMING. FINALLY GETTING THIS ONE ON SPOTIFY