life unfiltered | a discussion as a couple, graduation dinner and a minor crisis ~_~

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  • Опубликовано: 5 янв 2025

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  • @mikirai
    @mikirai  2 года назад +18

    Healthy conversations are really important in a relationship 💓
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    • @yhwhwithus7464
      @yhwhwithus7464 2 года назад +1

      Syalom brother sister please use the right name🐣❤Get the right bapthism in the right name Abba YHWH King Yeshua HaMashiakh Elohim Ruah Haqodesh and do what Abba YHWH want🐣❤.Abba YHWH King Yeshua HaMashiakh Elohim Ruah Haqodesh bless you all🐣❤

  • @chchchjia
    @chchchjia 2 года назад +147

    seeing how you brought up splitting up cleaning in such a healthy way was so nice to see 🥺 i’ve never seen my parents do that. better to talk about it right away instead of letting it fester forever and then blowing up about it later on

  • @garden_vibes7796
    @garden_vibes7796 2 года назад +30

    Its so nice to see a young person functioning and having healthy relationships/conversations. As a young person myself its nice to see in a realistic way.

  • @tarraalvaro1121
    @tarraalvaro1121 2 года назад +67

    I love how raw and honest this vlog is ❤️ much love to you both!

  • @sandbagger1912
    @sandbagger1912 2 года назад +19

    This video resonated. My wife and I value together time and time apart (so-called being "nicely separated"). How you handled the communication about appreciation was spot on. We've had the same conversation. If you can do it in a thoughtful and respectful manner, you can get the message across without causing an argument. Really liked how you and Kevin handled it. Inject a bit of humor in the talk to take the edge off is also important. All about the communication.

  • @filomenafragione6503
    @filomenafragione6503 2 года назад +1

    I find it so helpful when you show the "real" you, as in, showing when you feel frustrated when Kevin doesn't help with chores sometimes etc. It's something I feel we ALL have to go through, but most couples on RUclips don't show that side of them and that unconsciously makes other people thing "healthy couples" should never have issues etc. Thank you so much ❤️

  • @DarkHairedCurlyOne
    @DarkHairedCurlyOne 2 года назад +27

    I could feel your emotion when you started saying you were frustrated! Starting off kind of laughing cus you don't know what your partners reaction is going to be and are nervous.....then settling in....I do the same thing !

  • @tkmmnico4582
    @tkmmnico4582 2 года назад +21

    wow. i’ve always had problems communicating with my mom properly because of the difference in the environment we grew up in. i’ve learned a lot in this video and how u and kevin talked things out and was so- idk, straightforward about it. thanks miki and kevin! 😚😚

  • @symbolic_913
    @symbolic_913 2 года назад +10

    You don't have to figure out everything at once. that's like a one way ticket to feeling overwhelmed. some people don't figure out what they really want well into their later age. take some time to live in the moment, for the current moments won't be around forever. life is about the journey not the destination.

  • @gracesantoso9148
    @gracesantoso9148 2 года назад +2

    Miki, i just wanna say thank you so much for being real af and share your struggles. I know its not an easy thing to do, but for me as the audience who is going through the same thing, is such a great reminder that I’m not alone. I think trying to figure out life in your 20s is such a roller coaster, its defo harder cause we have social media and comparing ourselves to others on daily basis. But thanks so much for the reminder, please don’t stop what youre doing, youre an inspiration! ✨

  • @DrMikeHerring
    @DrMikeHerring 2 года назад +24

    Minimum requirements for “outside”
    1. 2 weeks written notice
    2. 3 text message reminders spaced over 2-5 days prior to the event with ZERO pressure if I don’t respond
    3. One full week of good sleep prior
    Otherwise, idk.

  • @daysixmyday3203
    @daysixmyday3203 2 года назад +2

    I actually like this life unfiltered series bc it's so raw & honest.

  • @jworthingtonxox
    @jworthingtonxox 2 года назад +15

    Love your conversation at the end about figuring out life and your expectations vs. your reality in your 20's. Felt that! ❤

  • @JoannBasilio
    @JoannBasilio 2 года назад +93

    Its so true that its important for each person in a relationship to have their own space! Its such a coincidence that you're talking about this in today's video because I saw Kevin at University Village yesterday lol I didn't say hi though because you weren't there and I forgot his name haha

  • @ChristopherRucinski
    @ChristopherRucinski 2 года назад +2

    As someone who feels like they have been stepping way too far into being socially awkward and unsure of how to go about daily events with others and communication like this. I really appreciate getting this kind of look into these aspects

  • @samantha7966
    @samantha7966 2 года назад +6

    I love how honest this vlog was! I definitely have been through those moments where my efforts felt a little unappreciated and my love language is acts of service! I feel like I get to know you more through youtube nowadays :')

  • @mrsindianmonroe
    @mrsindianmonroe 2 года назад +3

    Very mature of you to come at him the way you did. Men are not mind readers and I’m pretty sure Kevin appreciated that you actually told him what was on your mind. You stood your ground and was very respectful in a way.

  • @retired5218
    @retired5218 2 года назад +2

    Give each other space, yes. But you need to do things together and support each other too. Set goals for yourselves individually and as a couple. And take time to say I love you.

  • @siyuanguo5128
    @siyuanguo5128 2 года назад +1

    nana's green tea is literally really good for couples!

  • @toki7111
    @toki7111 2 года назад +2

    this vlog is so real i love it 🥲. I hope you guys will be together for a long time and not let social media be the source of any turmoil in your relationship 💛💛

  • @DarkHairedCurlyOne
    @DarkHairedCurlyOne 2 года назад +6

    Kev.....appreciate your girl okay....she has always been your biggest cheerleader and support! And she needs that too. She dosent need things but she does need a hug and a good cheesecake!!

  • @ychan460
    @ychan460 2 года назад +1

    I'd like a podcast about your convos with Kev about the ✨life✨wisdom✨kinda stuff✨I'd be so pumped about it. I feel like I needed it too.

  • @galerieadducul3518
    @galerieadducul3518 2 года назад +1

    I can relate when you do something good or things that great but some people just dont realise the efforts you put in. I know I'm just a high school student but some people are expecting so much from me and it was making me super exhausting. Your videos always making me feel good thanks

  • @himalshashayani396
    @himalshashayani396 2 года назад +7

    I absolutely love this vlog!!! Really appreciate u sharing this side of the relationship and shows how respectful and open you guys are with each other ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @YingyingAndJiejie
    @YingyingAndJiejie 2 года назад +6

    Ahh enjoyed the vlog and loved how the healthy and raw conversation is in the vlog ❤️

  • @issa6430
    @issa6430 2 года назад +2

    i appreciate this vulnerability (on both sides)

  • @MelloneeKecia
    @MelloneeKecia 2 года назад +4

    Love how honest you guys are ❤️

  • @sheetalbarge5984
    @sheetalbarge5984 2 года назад +1

    Perhaps first time I’ve seen an almost full video where he’s talking in his original
    Voice and accent ! He sounds so different.

  • @cutepinksocks
    @cutepinksocks 2 года назад

    Kevin!!! Baby talk ain’t gonna work. Men like to say all the things they do in self defense before they apologize or say thank you. Pls just say sorry and thank u first it can easily let the steam out, I’m glad miki was able to communicate it but I know it’s not easy. Hugs

  • @Blopez383
    @Blopez383 2 года назад +1

    Always share with your love how you feel. Always appreciate your time and effort. It is alot of constant work when it comes to the home.

  • @allahnijefferson3695
    @allahnijefferson3695 2 года назад +1

    Sending love to both of y’all 💕 y’all are my favs !!

  • @Athaya175
    @Athaya175 2 года назад +3

    For me both off U have realy nice live. Having ichother (with personal space life friends, etc) No big deal drama in life(yes Im telling it 😏)
    Work, goals, dreams. Milestons happening sooo... Yours life is the best! Best wishes!

  • @ms.peregrine
    @ms.peregrine 2 года назад +3

    Kevin’s voice is much better without the “accent” he puts on. lol Like in his chat in the car, he spoke differently and it felt more fluid/genuine. :)

  • @christineb9593
    @christineb9593 2 года назад

    Thank you for beeing so open and honest.

  • @odb233
    @odb233 2 года назад +15

    Just asking, how much more “free time” do you have as opposed to Kevin? The dude seems like he is on call 24/7 so maybe cut him some slack or maybe just say hey do think you could says “thanks for doing x y or z more”. Maybe that isn’t the case but it seems a bit like that on here. Y’all will figure it out, or maybe not. Good luck 👍

  • @siyuanguo5128
    @siyuanguo5128 2 года назад

    you guys are in seattle! welcome !

  • @jonm1066
    @jonm1066 2 года назад

    through the dish pod where the water blades are. itll clean much better.

  • @cutepinksocks
    @cutepinksocks 2 года назад

    Y’all be lookin noiiiceeee😍 love ur outfit miki

  • @cupcakexcake
    @cupcakexcake 2 года назад +1

    What vacuum did you use for your floors? I’ve been trying to look for one 😃

  • @PieceofKimmiePie
    @PieceofKimmiePie 2 года назад

    Listening to all the things that were listed I do all those and more with no significant other to help on top of two kids. I think I would be pretty independent even having someone bc I am already used to doing basic responsibilities that I would just expect them to fulfill their own responsibilities. When I did have someone I would do their laundry bc I wanted them to relax after work even though they insisted I shouldn't bother with it. The person with more free time should be doing more. In my case I have little free time but I do it all. I like doing acts of service for others. In return I am perfectly okay with a thank you.

  • @mt560
    @mt560 2 года назад +1

    So glad that you guys follow One Piece too! Zoro is my fav character!

  • @calvinm976
    @calvinm976 2 года назад

    Miki! I’m not sure how comfortable you felt posting that intimate and raw moment between you and Kevin. But I Thank you! It gave me an example as to how I can bring things up to my partner without making them into fights and without breaking down. Thank you!

  • @dashino2839
    @dashino2839 2 года назад

    I really enjoyed watching this vlog and thank you for sharing.

  • @LuBlossoming1984
    @LuBlossoming1984 2 года назад +2

    You are so gorgeous!!

  • @komalprajapati2426
    @komalprajapati2426 2 года назад +2

    Ohhh enjoyed the vlog you guys are cute and amazing congratulations to Kevin hope you guys spend a great life have a nice day 🤍💓🤍

  • @juliakuo5224
    @juliakuo5224 2 года назад +1

    Miki, you are the best! I've always enjoyed watching your vlogs! You are such an inspiration! Thank you and Kevin for sharing your life with us and being so honest. Hope you're feeling good and you both have a great weekend:) Love from Taiwan❤️❤️

  • @buildcook2070
    @buildcook2070 2 года назад

    Love your content both really good together

  • @lazarafernanda3939
    @lazarafernanda3939 2 года назад

    Hi from Brazil!! I meet you for the shorts videos ❤

  • @amandas7656
    @amandas7656 2 года назад +1

    what hair products did you use?:D

  • @SpiritualDoves
    @SpiritualDoves 2 года назад

    Congrats with his senior graduation!! I'm really proud with how your life has been formed together. Making the best out of it. I pray for more healthy and happy years to come @

  • @Mittskii
    @Mittskii 2 года назад +2

    love the honesty

  • @haenahpark
    @haenahpark 2 года назад

    What brand of scrubs do you wear?

  • @DarkHairedCurlyOne
    @DarkHairedCurlyOne 2 года назад

    Bage/off-white is your color !

  • @lilboholano
    @lilboholano 2 года назад

    What is your go-to order at Nana’s? The bowl looks delicious! Mmm curry.

  • @tanvidaware2045
    @tanvidaware2045 2 года назад

    Lots of love ❤.

  • @cindyj8914
    @cindyj8914 2 года назад

    " its like ur my mom hahah" LOL idk why I laughed so hard. but glad that u guys talked it through

  • @Jerry-yy5gu
    @Jerry-yy5gu 2 года назад

    Love watching you and Kev talk🥰🥰!! Jesus fulfills our heart and loves us with love this world can never give us, we are content in every situation when we have Jesus 🥰🙏! God bless you guys 🤍🤍

  • @treeshagayoso
    @treeshagayoso 2 года назад

    Miki what is your camera please share 🥺

  • @v1yanbh
    @v1yanbh 2 года назад

    Hey! I’ve been subscribed for a while, I love your videos your so inspiring💗

  • @richardtrey5358
    @richardtrey5358 2 года назад +1

    you look a lot like suhyun from akmu the korean duo.. nice

  • @rqadri133
    @rqadri133 2 года назад +1

    She’s a gorgeous beautiful princess

  • @wittlechickennugget6240
    @wittlechickennugget6240 2 года назад

    Hi, how much maths do you have to do to become a doctor :( because you seem to look so smart ;-;

  • @ashwanikashyap781
    @ashwanikashyap781 2 года назад

    People who are socially accepted more due to their professional status tend to often lose emotional connect as they are happy enjoying their cloud world and eventually don't invest thoughts and emotions in partner relative to what they get in return.
    Dear Miki, it is something which you must manage to live with. I have also faced a similar situation. My girlfriend is a doctor and she does the same as your boyfriend is doing.
    Keep your good karma going .

  • @davidparnell1637
    @davidparnell1637 2 года назад

    Hi Miki! New subscriber

  • @jahnelsalogue5441
    @jahnelsalogue5441 2 года назад +2

    Kevin: what's happening I'm scared
    soooo cutieee

  • @tammymoore7770
    @tammymoore7770 Год назад

    ❤❤❤❤ ❤❤❤

  • @terryking6824
    @terryking6824 2 года назад

    Omen for future

  • @wawawho18_adventures
    @wawawho18_adventures 2 года назад +1

    kevin was petting miki
    lol

  • @Sol-ew5kk
    @Sol-ew5kk 2 года назад

    Naol

  • @jordanli2952
    @jordanli2952 2 года назад

    Did kevin's accent just change what

  • @jnguyen7867
    @jnguyen7867 2 года назад

    Omg miki you do look like twice nayeon!!

  • @wanzhongcai3632
    @wanzhongcai3632 2 года назад +2

    我是大陆人,未婚,37,在纽约,做餐馆。能帮我介绍一个台湾妹子做女友吗?

  • @meikouken1
    @meikouken1 2 года назад +1

    Ni hao!

  • @s275490383
    @s275490383 2 года назад +1

    Did someone ever say Miki looks quite similar to Nayeon?

  • @cutepanda7055
    @cutepanda7055 2 года назад

    Do u have super power?🤔

  • @yhwhwithus7464
    @yhwhwithus7464 2 года назад +1

    Syalom brother sister please use the right name🐣❤Get the right bapthism in the right name Abba YHWH King Yeshua HaMashiakh Elohim Ruah Haqodesh and do what Abba YHWH want🐣❤.Abba YHWH King Yeshua HaMashiakh Elohim Ruah Haqodesh bless you all🐣❤

  • @shamgarcia2000
    @shamgarcia2000 2 года назад

    How come you never get shower 🚿😂 you just wash your hair and face 😅 imagine without wearing perfume 🤣

  • @ometofu
    @ometofu 2 года назад

    wow. there is a youtube channel with 1M subs. wow. and i thought u guys were just small time tiktoker… wow

  • @Seabass777333
    @Seabass777333 2 года назад

    Nice One Piece toy. One Piece my favorite anime.

  • @whfishridhe6106
    @whfishridhe6106 2 года назад

    You like One Piece?!!!!
    You know wassup lol

  • @keith1moore
    @keith1moore 2 года назад

    I wish any of my partners communicated anything close to you.

  • @pamo4732
    @pamo4732 2 года назад +10

    I feel u guys are too young to be in a relationship , let alone live together. Be single enjoy life. No one to answer to. Miki you always complain and u just seem like rolling your eyes at poor Kevin all the time. And once you’re both more life experienced then get into a deep relationship. Bc just wait till you have kids. You’re too stressed at this young age. So sad.

    • @Lazarojailene
      @Lazarojailene 2 года назад +2

      I’m in a relationship similar to you Miki and I’ve heard this comment many times. I think in the end you just have to think about how much this relationship matters to you and how much you value it. Yes it’s easy to be single and live life as a single person, but when will you come across another person with as many green flags as this one. Does a future with someone by your side matter to you? Ultimately I think about the balance of pros vs cons in a person, and if the person who is by my side is outweighing all the cons bc they are kind and loving and supportive, then that outweighs the little moments when we may get frustrated over little things. Even if you are single you will have moments of frustration, so why does it matter if you have these moments now but you are in a relationship. I hope you guys continue a happy healthy relationship 💓

    • @pamo4732
      @pamo4732 2 года назад +4

      @@Lazarojailene very true also. But through her videos she comes off unhappy and sad. As long as it stays healthy. But again we never see what’s behind closed doors. We only see what comes off in the videos.

    • @goodmorning3210
      @goodmorning3210 2 года назад +4

      We only see what they want us to see....advise, everyone just do you and be happy. No pressure, who cares

    • @vivek27789
      @vivek27789 2 года назад

      @@Lazarojailene True.. Very True 👍

  • @Avatarreema0
    @Avatarreema0 2 года назад

    First 31 seconds

  • @michellelankford8880
    @michellelankford8880 2 года назад

    I thought you were brother and sister

  • @darinaraghaill5967
    @darinaraghaill5967 Год назад

    Miki, how do you divide the house responsibilities ?🥹