Auntie Kimberlee ok I did and zero in my city and surrounding city’s plus I’m not saying they are perfect I’m just saying the doc has an obligation to call them if they see neglect they were involved at all and you took it somewhere else
She is not expressing herself well. I think she keeps saying the baby starved when she means the dad is not giving the baby the breast milk she wants the baby to have. She's mixing up the doctors saying the baby is being starved with the baby is being fed formula to which the baby was having reactions to, me thinks. She is just not stating things well.
Should be illegal to do thi gs to I tentionally do things to keep child from the other parent. Child support is only done in cases where it is impossible for one parent to have a life (only when one parent refuses to be a part of the child's life). 50/50 is required at the beginning of every case. And if a mother wishes to only refer to the child as hers then she should be required to take the full responsibility including financial aid request nothing from the man. If it's not both of yours then why should you do things to make him suffer
My girlfriend and I broke up after 10 years almost 2 years ago. OUR son will be 9 tomorrow. I give her all the respect in the world for being so civil and understanding how important it is that we get along for OUR son's well being. I would say we actually get along better now than we did when we were together. Not that we ever really fought. She had plenty of reasons to make things hard on me but didn't for OUR son's benefit. If more people let their egos go and just did what is actually best for the children the world would be a much nicer place.
When my hubby and I split for a couple years, we had family evenings and our son saw that we all still loved each other. We both were involved with the school, doctors, everything. WE DONT COME FIRST, OUR KIDS DO!!!!
Yes but it depends on the child age and the stability of the parents. After 6 the child is done with their emotional attachment to their moms and they start watching and mimicking the father. Before 6 they need the maternal parenting more than paternal. But for their overall well-being they do need both parents present. It is a tragedy to have a child’s world broken up by fighting parents who can’t keep their oaths each other. It damages everyone in the family unit.
@@sarashepard7504 Ugh...that is not true ....My daughter mimicked me before she mimicked her mom. Her first words were dada...Focusing on having a child just with mom for first 6 years is what causes dads to be second class parents.
The father is looking to be there for his child, the mom is looking to be in control. After watching her speak for just a few minutes "I" wanted to divorce her!
This broad asked for a paternity test after being pregnant for 9 months and the baby being in the world 9mo she had 18mo to get an paternity test she's just an evil bitch yo!
I worked with women center and it was not good enough for the child to be used for money by Mommy dearest it made me sick the dad's really loved the kids but mom's didn't have any love lost by Mommy
They shouldn't, but sadly they do all the time. I am the second wife to hubby ( my first), he came with three daughters from the beginning. His family also informed me the ex left the kids too, when she left for a guy she hooked up with at her 10 year reunion.. So no mom for a few years for kids that were just 3,5 ,7. I show up, now she has issues! I meet her while I have kids, I say you want to take them today? No I can't. But ultimately she files for custody and she admits to custody evaluator she doesn't really want to raise them, she just wants let kids know she at least cared, but no intentions of actually raising them. ( her parents paid for her lawyer)
Its thanks to america and the family court system turning parenting into a monetary gain. Unfortunately this is why america is in poverty, because it chooses to turn every squabble into a cash cow for the state.
@@ThatOneDude88 unfortunately it creates a toxic environment in all family households. I cant help but feel sorry for all the fathers who end up becoming evil and then commit murder suicide because the criminal justice system is abusing us....
Lawyers quit when a parent no longer pays. Lawyers do not care about mothers, or fathers, or children. They are officers of the court and that is their priority. Secondary is the client and once that client runs out of money, the attorney drops them and fills that spot witha paying customer. Family law is a business and not at all about children.
@@OrlandoMarquez Not entirely true lawyers also quit when they can not come to an agreement of how they want to defend the position so here perhaps the lawyer didn't want to argue such things as starvation when the evidence simply does not support it.
I was dating my 1st type of race outside of white and got viciously beat upacouple nights ago by women I'm still living with till I jump on a travel thing and run I feel scared everyday. Lol shhhhhhh
Just like my ex.... she tried to trap me with a kid but i took the DNA test on my own and i gave the official results to her on her b-day.... that day i became a free man and she still took me to court to pay child support but i won that case also😂😂😂😂😂
@@Music.cigars.2024 Scary...do you watch Maury Povich? Oh yeah... I cheated but this one is yours by DNA. Then everything under the sun is alright? Where's the Love?
@Wesley do Guy at homeless shelter " Women are inbred to cheat and lie." From Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada Siloam Mission someone once told me while looking for Sunday Beer. Goin SOLO............................. The Peg.
Right...I don't understand they don't believe in mommy time. Hell I went on a a day vacation in the house with kids and dad. I made a sign that said ask your daddy. LoL...learned it from my mom, but it said you have two dads ask one of them. My dad and stepdad was in are life. Before my dad died he lived 2 or 3 years with my stepfather. I feel bad for my stepfather he miss him being around. I'm glad my mom never did something like that because I learned a lot of helpful things from my dad.
Angel C . This was only a year ago. I doubt anything has changed. Yet the orders and the law should be followed to a T. He did zero wrong. She brings the child to the ER and doctor’s office repeatedly.. (*im sure she did.. she wasn’t paying for it, taxpayers were)
@@cheymilion3168 I pray the truth will help you be with your kid. Just remember there are places that can help you. Learn the laws. And keep your information updated as your kid gets older, because your kid would look for you. Keep fighting for your baby. Keep everything. I'm really sorry for your kid, because of my dad and stepdad I'm a lot wiser. My dad is the one who showed me how to be a lady. Look for help
The system is biased against men and is not interested in a man's right. You see, there is no money in it for them. Now if a man can't or won't pay child support he'd be in jail in a flash. NO lee way here.
@chuck Berieka. Yep. Dealt with the "government sponsored kidnapping and extortion racket" for over 25 years. It's all about money, their money ane no it not for the kids. Their money!!!!
She filed an argument of she has breast milk and he didn't. So in this the judge can not or will not or can't argue for the child not getting the breast milk means this child is going without food being only 9 months old and clearly states a 9 month old can not avacate for them self just as the mother stated. Showing a great defence for the child safety and wellbeing at this time. She has just had the trump card in this matter of having breastmilk to feed this baby. In 6 to 12 months would be in contempt of court. but the baby is still a baby she has her validations met infavor of the the ruling as of this date. She needs to go to law school because she just kicked her ex's lawyers ass in court today. Her points of defence was and always will be the best for a breastfed baby. I was thinking vary well put out there perfect performance today in court.
A contempt hearing must be conducted before a litigant can be found in contempt. The judge must also appoint an attorney to represent the litigant in a contempt hearing.
She wasn't there to defend his rights..shes there to protect her baby from a sperm donor that has done nothing to protect the baby..refuses everything that should be required, see above comments cuz I'm tired of typing the same shit..
She forgets the child has a father who is also an advocate for the child, and she has had no classes to prove she is fit or knows what to do either. She forgets he has the same rights as her.
Ur mistaken in th rights part. Your father rights differ from mother rights. Is the reason why although u saw the facts in this video. She has physical custody of her child and he is the weekend dad.
@@josegrullon024 and he has the RIGHT to see him..there's always CUSTODIAL custody in a divorce situation where there's a child..the CUSTODIAL parent DOES NOT have the LEGAL right to keep the child from the other parent when there is a COURT ORDER
My baby, my baby, my baby. Not once does she ever say our baby. Whenever both parents are willing to take part in a child’s life, it should be encouraged.
Her council quit .. from what I’ve heard she’s gone through multiple lawyers... they probably want nothing to do with that lady she is twisting things and going against court orders just to keep her child away from his father
That isn't what i heard. What i heard was that she is worried about her child being fed, She sees her child as more hers than his and doesn't think he knows what he is doing. Im not saying she's right. Personally i feel like she is holding to tight, but then again her baby is only 9 months old and it is extremely hard to let your Childs well being be someone else's responsibility at that age.
Shes something alright. I guess she thinks shes the only one whose aloud to speask. I've tried to watch this 3 times but I cant. She thinks this is her show
At least it’s out there for the world to see that this dad is fighting tooth and nail to be in his child’s life. Hopefully the kid will see this when he’s older.
That’s how my son is.. keeps going to court and she doesn’t follow the court order. NM courts are Really Stupid! They don’t do nothing to her for not following the order! But she does recv the child support
This is so sad that men have to fight so hard to see their own babies. My dad passed when I was young so I remember his unconditional love & pain of losing him. I'd never do that to my children. A father is so vital to raising children. Great comment Karl, thank you.
I love how so many people in the comments think that because the father and his lawyer didn't object to her accusations that he must be guilty. No, the father is smart, listened to his lawyer, and the lawyer knows this hearing cannot consider or rule on any of that noise. And on top of all that got an on the record admission that the mother believes the child's father may be someone else! This was a dude doing everything correctly.
@@selderane : I agree. She is like the crazy one.... court should have asked for a evaluation of mental health and subpoena medical records to proof she ain’t this loving mother. If you can tell she was told over and over this has been hear already... their is something about this psycho mother... Men and friends see her and Run Run., Court should have put her in jail! Welfare check done unexpectedly done to her house.. protective services should be called on her also. Private detective shouldn’t have been hired to follow her. And not to mention her parents lying to law enforcement and to the court. Sad they believe their own lies. But the court picked up on that! At the end, psycho mother had to give in. Attorney- she ain’t good at that! Employer hope they are watching this : Run Some mothers do act like they own this child and father was only a donator. But quick I need Medicaid and government support. But act like high class..
This is what I'm going through right now. The mother made so much fake allegations to the court and DCF that I hurt my daughter and the mom and kicked them out of the house thank god I had text and proof that she was lying. The judge gave me temporary physical custody and DCF found her allegations bullshit after doing these bogus claims in 5 month later after she left my place. I'm praying everything goes well November 30 I have a big court case for my child.
The Mum here has had no fewer than 4 different attorneys, which translates into..SHE is impossible to deal with and the lawyers want nothing to do with her.
@@DimndSLM and yet you’re still wrong you moron . And i am so sorry if i gave you the impression i give a fuck what you say , not my fault you’re stupid
@@DimndSLM clearly you dont know the difference between a civil court and a criminal court. You DO NOT get a Public defender for civil court. Are you really that stupid?
She asked for supervised visitation, that isn’t trying to keep the baby out of the others parents life. It simply means that she wants someone competent during the visit with father and child to evaluate the child’s safety during. If she were trying to alienate him she would have requested that he have no visitation. Just saying.
@@hippiechicjewelz4634 That's exactly what she's doing. She didn't feel unsafe while getting a hot beef injection. Stop trying to make her look like a concerned mother.
I 100% agree. My mother actually kidnapped me from my father when I was 5, and I didn't see him until I was 12. She took me from alaska and hid with me in Florida. My dad was in the Airforce at the time and would have been arrested if he left his post. I will never forgive her for what she did to us.
@@hippiechicjewelz4634 supervised visitation isn't the same as regular visitation. Just saying. Unfortunately people use their kids as a weapon against their former spouse. It's neccesary sometimes I realize.
This is Chris (didn’t realize my wifes account was logged) Parents that do this are Narcissists. They don’t see their child as an individual person; however, they do see their child as an extension of themselves. So in there false reality there leg doesn’t hurt when they are kicking the ex spouse when they are already on the ground. Ive been dealing with this for 5 years and the first Two years I was dumbfounded beating my head against the wall thinking back and trying remember if mom did this crap too. She didn’t, sacrificed her wants to make sure I had everything I needed. So I just didn’t get the concept how a mother could and continued to purposely hurt there own child. Then when I read over a Covert Narcissists, I understood exactly how she was able to do this. She has a strong eight of the 12 classifying traits of a Covert Narcissist. It all started to make sense after that. Knowing helps to mentally understand how they are capable of doing horrific things to you and weaponizing your child against.
This lady. He loves and wants to see his child. How many adults are suffering today because their mother kept their fathers away? To many. Lady this isn't about your wants. It's about the best interest of the child.
@howdyhowdyhow seriously, did I tell you any of the facts/ issues...good job on being judgmental before knowing anything about the situation, because my twin 7 yr. Olds that live with me seem to disagree with your assumptions.
@@georgeboldi4343 Sorry about ignorant people that are mean jerks for no reason especially when they are ignorant to any facts and spoke so poorly to you when they didn't even ask about any facts. That person is absolute trash!
@@daddy_doug what advantages do being married have in this case? Like she's just going to be less of a control freak because they were married and divorced???
@sunrize601 No its judges like this, that make the bad Choices. That's my whole point think about it! Until your kids are taken and moved out of state and have no idea where they are you would understand.
Judge Judy's first order of business would be to have that pink feather pen removed from her court room. "Byrd...get that pink feather out of my court."
When you are Pro se means that you are your own attorney. Anybody can used any types of pen. Most divorced people know how to used the power of evil no matter what it is. I believe this is why you don’t hire the same sex as you because the attorney is will feel anything. If you hires a female attorney more likely would know ha head of time knows the future of what she going to say which would stop everything ahead of time. A supervisor visitation won’t stop the child being feed. Only thing is guaranteed that the child will be feed. The non-custodies parent to bring anything their for the child at any age at all. Breast feed is your own problem because you didn’t get enough feed for the child to eat.
Well she's not even sure if it is his child! That's why she requested the dna test. You'd think she'd find out who's kid it was BEFORE she put him through the nightmare of dealing with her, right!? She was probably too busy printing out all of her constitutional rights to be bothered with a pesky dna test though.
@@ninthsquarecommunity So what if it's not the most important issue? ...You're not the comment section police, are you? People aren't limited to ''the most important issue'', they can discuss whatever part of the video they want to! Besides, that shit WAS annoying as hell. Like the kid doesn't have a name.
@@Christine-xt8fr I think it's more of a desperate attempt to prolong the proceedings and affect his rights. As you said, if she was unsure, why didn't she get it sorted out before?
A lot of women do not respond to pumps. Having said that, baby only needs food every 3 or 4 hours so there is time for a visit. Also what is wrong with going to a park as coparents to allow time. I grew up without a dad, so when I ended up having to leave my ex with our 3 babies, I saw past the wrongs and.have always made every effort for them to get lots of daddy time.
There are a lot of issues with some women using pumps from the size of the breast to the pumps not getting the letdown correct to pump enough milk. There are baby's that won't take a bottle and if the parents are exclusively breastfeeding it's better that they don't take the bottle or a binky because that creates confusion.
@@annemchurchwell so supposing the mother is either unable, or unwilling to hand express or mecanically express breast milk. The child is exclusively breast feeding. Admittedly those situations do occur and in an intact family would pose no harm to the child as both parents could bond with the child despite feeding issues. In this situation the family is not intact and by the mother not facilitating the parental bond between father and child she is actually causing long term and substantial harm to the child. How should the situation be addressed to allow not only a preferred feeding pattern and a healthy child parent bond development between father and child? Admittedly I have not seen any data on tthe effects of bottle vs breast vs breast and bottle feeding on the future mental development of children I do believe physically breast is usually best but know for various reasons many many babies must be bottle fed and the long term effect is negligible in most cases. The effect of absentee fathers and loss of parental bonds on the other hand is well documented and sadly extremely detrimental to the child. There is a great deal of evidence that suggest it is the early bond development in the very first years tthat is most critical. So how would you resolve this issue?
Ladies quit using your kids as pawns to hurt your ex. In the end, the child is the one hurt the most by it. False claims of abuse or neglect to try and stop visitation makes it so much harder for real victims to get justice. If you love your child, learn to separate your relationship with the father from the child's relationship with the father.
Your speak truth which is apparent to all. But I always tell my son that crazy or certain negative traits will always present themselves. If a man still remains with a woman after seeing these unstable traits and then makes it worse by impregnating her . Well then he is the source of his own ills, no? There are always those who do evil and will use any to help accomplish their self serving goals. He can cry now but he new what he was putting his d#ck in. Now a child has to suffer the consequences. Sad and selfish by all parties. And I'm sure that judge is losing sleep from worry, lol
@@derekamanwiththegivennamej1082 I can tell you that Judges of family court do not lose sleep worrying about their cases. But it is sad that you cannot understand the male/female situation when it comes to primal sexual urges. And when they are stupid enough to have unprotected sexual encounters, they will breed children into the bad mix, making things worse for all, including children.
Erika Amen, Sister! I’ve had many talk with my bf of 9 years, that in the event that we get married &/or have children there should be a legally binding agreement between us that will clearly state that: in the case of a divorce, everything is split between us & in the event that we have children, custody will be 50/50, we will not slander each other & everything must stay civil & be in the children’s best interest. I think it’s a very good idea to come to these conclusions while me & him still love each other because I’m petty as hell & my Gemini will come out & it’s not out of the realm of possibility that I will become a raging vengeful bitch out to get him 🤣 haha & he’s a Taurus so there’s a good chance he would be just as bitter, vengeful & stubborn to no end. It sucks that divorces & custody gets so nasty. Watching other people go through it is the main reason we’re still unmarried after 9 years, & it’s how we’ve come to this conclusion.
Scorned Father's Need To STOP also ‼ Most people are in Court because Someone Feels they don't have to take Care of their CHILD ‼ I've worked and Retired he as Well .
In a perfect society, where laws were indeed fair for everyone, women wouldn’t even get near the door at Family Court! But with no-fault divorce and these openly misandrist fucks, running the courts, forget it! No wonder marriage rates are at the bottom
I am a single mom. Their dad never paid child support and certainly didn't take care of them. Yet he has access to his kids 24/7 because my irritation and frustration with him has zero to do with our kids. Period. Let's be clear this lady has an agenda and is absolutely willing to use her child as a pawn in her little war. Meanwhile dad just wants to be there spending time with his child.
I just happened to look up my court docket the other day because of something that happened in another case. I learned I have a court date on 12/20/2019. The clerk mailed the letter to an address I lived at in 2013. I had updated my address years prior in addition to registering for E notification. My change of address is noted in the court docket. The shit happens
What about an ability to pay the lawyer would they quit over that and I checked with the World Health Organization in third world countries did you breastfeed for long periods of time due to lack of nutrition but you're only supposed to do it up to 11 months because after that it has no nutritional value she said two years so that I can indicated to me that she was little bit psycho and you know she can pre pump and give the man bottles of milk and write the man out of feeding schedule Jesus he looks like a nice guy
While I agree she does not deserve to be with Julian I do not believe she committed adultery - they were not married. She is desperately trying to win. Sadly I have the impression it is due to her ego and pride - nothing to do with the 9 month old son.
Her constant reference to the child and "MY child" rather than "OUR child" is enough of a sign that any parenting plan involving this mom will always be dysfunctional.
Who cares what she references it to!! SHES BREAST FEEDING he won't even takes classes to educate his first tine fathering self. If he can't respond to the mother or take her direction or return the baby changed and clean HELLO..... LOL it amazes me how blind people are. Or Ignorant. But it's also been my experience that narcissists stick up for those of the same.
No we dont trust me ive been through it. I was pretty much told to shut up that the judge will decide if and when i see my child lol. i dont drink or do drugs have a good income my own home in a good housing development . never been arrested for any thing.. she Drank and partied had no home a crappy job but it was in the best interest of the child to be with his mother LMAO ..
The fact that you even thought that this comment would/could be an unpopular opinion is one of many measurements that shows that fathers need more rights. I liked your comment by the way. There are still to many men and women out there that would disagree or always feel the mother is the only fit parent even when the case is the absolute opposite.
That's the sad truth, the system is built that way, that the mother automatically the better parent. That's not always the case, there are father's out there who would do a much better job than a mother
I have gone through this. Men lacking funds, especially have no rights. But those willing, like myself, to spend what it takes to buy justice, can purchase a modicum of fairness. I won in the end because the court knew and the opposing party knew that I would not rest until I obtained recognition that being the father, I had the right to be in my son's life. The mother's accusations and lies were accepted verbatim by the court. Everything I said had to be proven with the help of expensive outside experts.
Unfortunately, people can - and often do - change! Things happen and they affect people in ways they NEVER thought could happen to them, or their loved ones.
Happened to me. Everyone knew it. No one did anything about it. The system makes a fortune off the alienaters that do not have jobs but want full custody.
@Neecy Neecy It happened to me as a child and my ex wreaked that hell on our kids. 40 years later, they still suffer the emotional effects. It broke my heart.
What type of child abuse does not affect the child for their entire lives? Your claim is ridiculous. Is parental alienation abusive? Of course. Is it the Worst Kind of child abuse? No. Not even close.
BrokenAlchemist 1987 unfortunately that happens more times than not. I am so blessed that my husband and I have custody of all of our kids from previous relationships. My son and his father have a wonderful relationship. No court orders, no child support, he gets to see him when he wants and always helps out financially. Women need to ALLOW the dads to be a parent first before all this court crap needs to go down. She’s using her son and it’s SICK.
@@megs6 she may have *_real_* concerns about the safety of her son with the father, unless you know something the rest of us do not, you cannot say that she does not have reason to be worried about his care of the baby. In addition to that, if she has chosen to breast feed her baby then no one else should be allowed to tell her she had to do something different! I cannot believe that they have set things up in such a way that it would be necessary for him to generally be breastfed and then on the days that he goes with the dad he is switched over to formula for a period of time then back to breast milk! Now I am not sure why she is not pumping breast milk for him to take to dad's, I know some women have some difficulty with pumping enough but to switch between formulas and breast milk constantly seems to be a very bad idea!
@@PrimateProductions , there is always that concern about who is telling the truth. In this case it sure looks to me like the mother is being as spiteful as she can. That judge has been extra patient with her disobeying multiple court orders!
@@punkyfeathers1639 Wish my ex was thinking the same thing but she was basically the same person as this whacko mom with no common sense and doesn't understanding the child comes first.
I don't like how she always says "it's her baby" and shes the only one that can speak for her baby um.. NO I am sorry but thats also is baby and HE CAN also speak for that baby! If anyone needs a parenting class it is her!
The motion that she is not impartial restricts the judgements she can make. That is part of the reason she clarified the order given the prior week would stand but she was only dealing with procedural issues today.
This was the same situation I dealt with for years. I kept pushing back even though there were times when I wanted to give up. My son is now 38, and we have had a great relationship. Were very close. It is sad.... my son refuses to have any contact with his mother. Not something I'm proud of, but he's a grown man. The best complement he ever gave me was "Dad, I never once heard you say anything negative towards my mother". I replied, I new you would eventually figure it out.
My boyfriend is going through this right now, I’m gonna show him your comment. There is hope! He’s so torn up from it all but doing such a good job fighting everything
I've seen this countless times. She is trying to keep the child away from Dad. She thinks if she keeps going he will give up, I pray he doesn't give up. You can bet that as the child grows she will be badmouthing the dad to the child. Shame on her.
Has anyone thought for one sec that the father could really be a piece of crap? I'm so tired of hear fathers have rights to... Blah blah blah I bet my life he is behind in child support!!!!!
Could be a POS, absolutely. COULD be. With all sorts of studies showing that the absence of a dad in a childs life is an almost guarantee that the child doesn't do as well, as a child AND when an adult, I think he should be given the benefit of doubt. My ex tried the same shit against me. It didn't work at all because I'm a great dad. If he is behind on child support it doesn't matter as far as seeing his child. The mom can't withhold visitation because of child support just the same as the dad can't withhold child support when mom doesn't follow the rules of visitation. 1 thing more important than anything else in a divorce - knowledge of human nature. 2nd thing is knowledge of your spouse. Procedure is why you have a attorney. You also need the smarts to know when you use which.
The problem: People falling into lust without preventing pregnancy. This is what happens when lust dissipates and the resulting child is used as a weapon.
totally agree with you. I just recently was on the receiving end of the anger of my youngest daughter, when I tried to explain the difference between LOVE and LUST. My daughter believes that we can just LEAVE if someone does not longer is SUITABLE for our own purposes. It hurts me because I believe I taught her well.
kary ann Fontaine I always wonder about the fact she got pregnant had the child. He is young enough to be breast feed. All these things happen and already your divorced. I wonder if their decision to get married and have a child happened thatfast. Everyone is in such a hurry to get married and have a child before they even know each other. Now there is a child that is being used as a weapon between these two idiots.
@@encantodesol Well she is correct that you can just leave a relationship if it is no longer working for you. That is the entire premise of relationships. If both sides are no longer trying to make the relationship work then it is a broken relationship and should be ended. The difference is if you choose to have children then in my opinion you have given up your choice to split up. You should be there for the child at least until they are adults.
I will never understand how all my friends have been put into this position and still don't wrap that pecker..I guess I was the best at the pull out game..I would always think about handing over my paycheck at the time I was about to climax and I pulled it out Everytime and I also thought about a bitchy woman and a nagging hateful mother inlaw...Her I am 44years later and I'm the only one without kids out of 100's of friends and family members..And they all said I'd have the most kids..the Lord blessed me with the gift to see the out come and negative problems that would arise.. it was like I was psychic I could see into the future...plus I had all brothers to watch slowly turn miserable and nasty overtime with kids and a woman that was miserable..
@@encantodesol Your good advice to your daughter carries much more influence than you can imagine. She will not show you how much influence you have on her choices now but eventually it will sink in. My mother was the voice of reason and in the long run, she was the one who cared about me, and had my best interest at heart. I do hope your daughter realizes what I did.
That’s what I was wondering is what ended up happening to the poor baby. You can’t claim breastfeeding is keeping you from letting the father participate in raising him when you can get a breast pump from wic or Walmart or many other places. She wants to use the baby against the father because he probably figured out how she was but stayed until the baby was born and now he’s regretting nearly everything he ever did with her
@@sharisscrappyshares go to the Veterans in Politics channel and go to the video section and then pick most popular and the very first one is about these people. Keren S. I can’t remember how to spell her last name. Lol
@@noblehousefoundation1731 need something to check the court bias. I have spent 10k fighting false and ridiculous allegations at least 3 judges saying she is playing games, and she being held in contempt and i am still fighting for custody even tho she still refuses to follow the judges order we have another court date coming soon it isnt on the calendar but it will be soon.
This is what happens after years of judges automatically giving preference to maternal rights. This woman is obviously the problem here and has been trained on how to work the system.
Women like this ALWAYS have misandrist Social Workers, within their circle, who train them into what to say in, or when to go to, court. Men in these situations, are often stalled in court and cornered into accepting a bad deal “in the best interest of the child.”
Good lord this sounds just like my ex. My case is one of the most famous in NYS. After years of litigation and numerous trials with the court ALWAYS siding with me and a learned judge (Snellenberg) stated in a memorandum decision “In over 15 years on the bench, I have never been witness to a more egregious case of Parental Alienation. However, given the severity I feel it would be psychologically detrimental to change custody to the father.” The judge did however order my ex and my son return to Long Island to reside no farther than 20 miles from my home and to grant me a month in the summer a week at Christmas and every Wednesday - she openly stated “I am a citizen of the commonwealth of Massachusetts and don’t have to follow your orders”. His honor explained that if she doesn’t she would be held in contempt and this would be escalated to a higher court… which it was - and she was once again given the chance to comply - she paid $70,000 for the best family lawyers in NYS to represent her in that hearing - 4 lawyers trailing boxes of documents appeared - but the judge told them to sit down and listen… he then warned her that if she didn’t comply with HIS order that she would go to jail… “Please instruct your client and have her understand” The following month she returned “pro se” as her lawyers quit (obviously unable to have her comprehend the reality of it) - the judge asked her if she had returned to LI or had made plans to - she once again said she was a resident of the Commonwealth of Massachusetts and that he didn’t have jurisdiction- he tried to explain that in family law an order from any state is legal in all states… when she said “your honor I took a course to become a para legal and you are wrong” - the judge had enough… he asked her where is your son at present… “In school in Weston” - to me “sir do you have a means to go to Weston?” “Yes sir, I have a friend who has a plane and is on stand by” “I am transferring custody to the father and sentencing you to 60 days incarceration for repeated and willful contempt” (paraphrased) at which point I flew up to MA went to the local police presented them with the expedited order and my son and I have been together ever since. He hasn’t seen his mother in over 15 years and wants nothing to do with her… (there is a big back story too long to go into here… stalking a federal judge, incarceration (1 year in federal pen) for stalking with intimidation. Sad just very sad… because of her insanity she has deprived my son of a mother…
Assuming he pays child support: She was sure he was the father when it came to child support! Oh yeah, lol, if he isn't the father you better be prepared for a lawsuit! If he is the father you may have to pay for the test! If you love your children, please don't do this to them.
@@paperproblem2666 I know that's right. In NY you can prove the kids aren't yours but, if you been paying for over 6 months, there is NO reverse. You are considered the parent regardless. NY is so f'd up when it comes to support. There were so many people wanting test that they have now made it mandatory for any unmarried couple to have a test at birth. I wish that law was passed when I was getting in to it 14 years ago. I pay for 2 now and, the court won't even let me test them.
It's videos like this that make me thankful every day that the relationship between my son's father and I is cordial and respectful. He is a great father and I have aligned my life choices to support not only his growth, but that of the child we share together. It's never your son or my son....it's our son. No bad mouthing, no destructive behavior. I respect his role as a father and know our son is blessed because I choose to honor that part of his life. A woman can not raise a son. She can nurture and encourage but she can not teach him those lessons that come from having a positive male around. It takes a good man to cultivate his seed and a good woman to encourage that growth. Team effort.
pede moses ...but percentage and probability say otherwise. You are an exception, congratulations. Doesn’t mean we should purposely lower our standards because it “can be done.”
pede moses ... it means exactly that. Take a look at prison inmate, high school dropout, and teenage pregnancy percentages. If you can’t acknowledge that our country is not exactly flourishing, and what part of the reason for that is...THEN YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM. Did you also teach your son to be snarky and passive aggressive like you? How about punctuation? Maybe if you spent more time with education and less with childcare, you’d be better equipped to understand that I wasn’t being rude. Maybe, you’d also understand how the comment section works and that when you make a public reply, its open for discussion. Thank you for contradicting yourself. Good day.
Yet another silly excuse to prevent dad from being an equal parent. Pay attention dads....hear the argument, dismantle the argument with basic common sense, show she is just trying to alienate the dad, then insist on at least 50/50 custody as your legal right. Moms like this will only block you time after time if you don't have equal parenting rights.
This used to happen to a friend of mine when his son was 3. The mom tried to keep his son from him EVERY time he was supposed to pick him up. He got a lawyer and got full custody.
This deplorable woman thinks she is the only parent here. There's a father who by the way has rights. Breastfeeding is not grounds for her to keeps THEIR child away from dad.
Well, all these new feminists are saying it’s their body, their choice so for those of us saying the man has rights better stick up for their rights from the beginning. And I mean the beginning... CONCEPTION!
Exactly when I took my ex to court for visitation she tried use breastfeeding as an excuse in the end she was told to pump her breast and send our son with me his father
I breastfeed my child and expressed my milk so he could take his daughter, he kept dragging me through courts because he thought £15 a week was good alimony, it cost him a fortune in court cases. Needles to say the judge looked right through him as he told the judge he only went out one night a week and the judge asked him how much did he spent, he said £15 , the judge gave him a total look of disgust and said, so ! You can drink £15 on a night and your child should survive on £15 a week. I was awarded £70 a week . He lied himself into a hole and then when his daughter turned 16 he stopped her money for her birthday so she took him to court and he had to pay until she was 21 . He never talks to her or his grandchild, she goes to all his side of the families special occasions and he ignores them. His mother stayed close to her and he even told her that if she told his other 2 children who my daughter was she would never see the other 2 kids who were born after we split up. Karma is wonderful, his life is miserable and mine is wonderful🌞 so not all women are bad.
I'm a father of a boy where me and his mother are separated i feel for this man luckily I have joint custody and have a great relationship with my boy. Hope he gets to have one with his son
This ratchet wrench keeps on saying "My Child". Last time I checked, You wouldn't have that child without him. News flash... The child belongs to both of you.
According to the Law, as written and enforced by activist & advocates, "your" child actually belongs to The State. And your insistence upon using "birth milk" as long as you decide to breastfeed him. He could "breastfeed" until ADULTHOOD, for God's sake!
She cant object unless it applies to " rules of evidence". She cant object because she does not like what is happening. This judge is extremely patient with this hag.
How is she ratchet? Because she’s black? You’re another twisted evil soul. Hell awaits you. She said nothing about denying access to the father only about supervised visits but i guess because she is black you want to attack her credibility? Wow.. such a loser you are.
Well idk the whole story or background but what I can say is, be careful who you have children with....That goes for women and men. I was with (my now husband) for 7 yrs. before we had a child together. Wise up and do better people!
How many men or women really do that anymore with the liberal temper of society for at least half of the population in this Nation. Without God, this Nation is sliding into total anarchy, disorder, no moral or ethical standards for behavior in home, school, workplace, or community and Society at large.
Also not many people get premarital counseling anymore. It seems like life changing events such as marriage and having children aren't taken seriously anymore.
Sam Kadiddlehopper You don’t need to believe in god to be moral or ethical. My husband and I raised two wonderful people who were taught to choose carefully. Our daughter found her husband at twenty-five but unfortunately our son is still looking and starting to feel that he’s running out of time at thirty-three because he wants time before having children and he doesn’t want to be too much older. He’d rather be alone than married to a nightmare.
Sounds like the Mom got everything she wanted. Judge, I am leaving all my rulings against the Mom in place but I am not going to enforce them. What kind of signal does that send?
She's gonna be like this for the rest of the childs life ... even if she gets remarried and has other kids ...she will still try to keep him from his kid
I agree with you. And it's really sad it's not fair to the child. Breastfeeding is no excuse. I breastfed my kids and you can pump the milk. In a way I hope he's not the father. I was reading the description that she wants a DNA test. I hope he's not the father and I hope whoever the father is she never contact him and he just remains in the wind. Because she will undoubtedly poison the child's mind against Dad. It's sad kids benefit from both parents.
@Voracious Reader I breastfed it's not that big of an issue. We can pump and bottles are made with various different types of nipples for breastfeeding babies that accommodate a breastfeeding baby. This woman will probably forever be looking for excuses. But as you said she might possibly lose her child completely. In this day and age courts don't tolerate nonsense. And fathers have every right to raise children just as mothers.
If the facts were reversed dad would be in jail. Family court is a nightmare for men. Anyone who watches this and does not see a woman who said to herself I do what I want, who cares dad probably paid the lawyer $500 to appear for him so mom could tell the judge I need two months to prepare for a hearing. Even though the judge ordered a turnover, mom didn't follow the judge's order. if dad did this the result would have been entirely different. Now, dad can wait 2 months to see a 9-month-old baby. Dad does everything right and mom talks nonsense and the judge sides with mom and dad's rights don't matter. Just make sure he pays the child support. The judge should be really proud of herself for showing dad how the courts work to protect everyone's rights.
@@30teriann exactly, I believe that the words that are spoken is just for the record. Because in reality you would do something to ensure the safety of the child. If anything should happen badly, and in a review of record it would show the judge showed concern. It's difficult in child support cases because you have all of the primary people involved, none of the primary are concerned about the child. The mother just want control same thing with the father. Both just want to win. Which shows me they look at it as a game. I feel badly for the baby because he will have to grow up with this back and forth.
She should have shut all her bullshit down early. No evidence from any medical personnel that the baby is being starved. It should not have been aloud. The judge should have gone to jail.
@David We would go extinct. Between just the normal school testing standards, pre-teens having sex, incest, and rape....... Yep, we would truly turn the world over to the insects.
I AGREE ABOUT THE LAW, BUT THEY HAVE TO MAKE DECISIONS, THAT IMPACT A CHILD'S LIFE IN MANY CASES....AND I DO FEEL SORRY FOR THE JUDGE IN THAT SITUATION
She will hold you to that & will use semantics concerning that price of the pack of pens, tell you how much that pack of pens is, before & after tax. Then she will continue to give the total cost of that pack of pens. Because of that, she will go on to say she cannot trust you because that pack of pens wasn’t valued properly.
My son went to his father's from Friday to Sunday every weekend from three months old I just pumped froze and gave it to his father for weekends. What is this girl smoking lol
Cause it's nothing other then being a women that abuses the Courts lean towards woman.Notice how she said her baby never out.baby then pulls the preturnaty test card?..I been to the same rodeo,but I got custody of my child eventually
@@SuperGordont Congratulations !! I was not so fortunate, drove me nuts to hear the judge saying that she is gravely concerned. There is NO judge nor attorney that has ever cared or lost sleep for our children.....Any judges reading this, please do speak up. Tell us how you care or how much sleep you lost....t.y.
Nina Greiner....and your son will become will thank you for it later. You love your son more that you dislike his father (I'm not saying you dislike his father)
Cliches exist cuz they’re true... he’s been rung through the ringer... hence his poor appearance... look this girl.. this is what she is showing the public-so imagine what she is like to the dad behind closed doors...
People watch TV and think they know how court works. I've thankfully not had to deal with court but you bet your ass I'd find a lawyer and let them do the talking. That's the whole point of paying them. So you don't look like this clown.
I remember as a baby thinking my father was exciting, more exciting than my mother because he would dress up, leave, then come back smelling stronger than he did when he left. So I was excited to find out what he did all day. As I grew up I was always interested in my father more than my mother until he went to war. Then my mother became more interesting since she went to work and came back home hours later. Research has shown children as well as animals differentiate parents and adults through smell.
She's real worried! Yes! She's real worried!! And decides to do sweet F.A. A court order was given! A court order was not! honoured! Hence the defence does a two finger job to the court and the father is not left holding the baby as the court suggested he should.
And after all of that mom is telling the court she's not sure if the block sitting opposite is the father of the child? Sorry!! I think she's playing games with public money and the judge should get her (I'm really worried) act together and schedule some Judge training courses, because she's clearly not up to the task!
I am too. But I think there was something that her lawyer (who quit) may have indicated the judge couldn't be impartial in this case. So this has to go to the next higher judge. Did anyone else get that?
She had filed an affidavit for disqualification against the judge. Basically, wanting a new judge. Until that motion is judged upon, it limits the judges decisions.
Never. Ever. Involve CPS/DSS. Ever. They are very corrupt and literally sell children. As well as lie and fabricate evidence or hide the truth for the purpose of stealing children for profit. Children are often killed, starved, raped or simply abused in foster care.
It’s sad, her arrogance makes it seem like she thinks she will win just because she’s the mother. She could have at least communicated with the father she was late. She never called him, nothing. Just expects him to just know. She never intended to hand the child over that day. That’s clear. Poor guy. It’s sad really. She just wants to keep the baby from the father, she’s grasping at straws.
I don't know. She claims evidence that he keeps the baby hungry and even went to the emergency room. Those are things that can't be lied about. I hop3 everything works out for the baby who is a year now.
MY child-MY child 🙄 NO! it’s “OUR” child. Like some random dude took you to court to have rights to YOUR child. Btw☝️ a sure fire way to have the court find NOT in your favor, is to TELL a Judge what they did wrong and what they OUGHT to do🤣
Did anyone else notice how she had forgotten about the paternity testing UNTIL she looked at the people behind her?? With her “know-it-attitude” it’s no wonder her attorney quit on her. My heart goes out to the innocent victim here, the baby, praying for this precious angel. angel!!
@@vonakenyon7981 I was being facetious. She is one of the most Manipulative Entitled Sociopath, and now, this poor man HAS TO deal with her for the foreseeable future!.
No way in hell the hospital said the child was being starved without calling CPS and dealing with it immediately
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You need to research the children who have been neglected and died in the custody of CPS and the court system. You are woefully incorrect.
Auntie Kimberlee ok I did and zero in my city and surrounding city’s plus I’m not saying they are perfect I’m just saying the doc has an obligation to call them if they see neglect they were involved at all and you took it somewhere else
So not true. CPS is flawed and has case overload in most counties across the nation. Mom said she provided documentation from the doctor.
She is not expressing herself well. I think she keeps saying the baby starved when she means the dad is not giving the baby the breast milk she wants the baby to have. She's mixing up the doctors saying the baby is being starved with the baby is being fed formula to which the baby was having reactions to, me thinks. She is just not stating things well.
Using your child as weapons and paychecks should be illegal, and punishable by law.
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I agree but in addition it should be punishable by law to abandon or neglect the child financially either.
Should be illegal to do thi gs to I tentionally do things to keep child from the other parent. Child support is only done in cases where it is impossible for one parent to have a life (only when one parent refuses to be a part of the child's life). 50/50 is required at the beginning of every case. And if a mother wishes to only refer to the child as hers then she should be required to take the full responsibility including financial aid request nothing from the man. If it's not both of yours then why should you do things to make him suffer
@@snypermarksman Women do it all the time.
@@andrekruger135 Why did you find it necessary to list these things line by line instead of just typing like a normal human?
My girlfriend and I broke up after 10 years almost 2 years ago. OUR son will be 9 tomorrow. I give her all the respect in the world for being so civil and understanding how important it is that we get along for OUR son's well being. I would say we actually get along better now than we did when we were together. Not that we ever really fought. She had plenty of reasons to make things hard on me but didn't for OUR son's benefit. If more people let their egos go and just did what is actually best for the children the world would be a much nicer place.
She might have been a keeper. Most women think you owe them something.. I've learned my lesson marriage is a scam
Amen!
When my hubby and I split for a couple years, we had family evenings and our son saw that we all still loved each other. We both were involved with the school, doctors, everything. WE DONT COME FIRST, OUR KIDS DO!!!!
@@OkieMaiden Yup. I spend 3 nights a week at my ex's with my son. I'm there now
That is so awesome for your boy, good on both of you 👍
"Men are not 2nd class citizens, they have as much right to the child as the mother" - Judge Judy
Ken P and very much needed by ther children 2 help them grow into good adults and law abiding citizens.
Yes but it depends on the child age and the stability of the parents. After 6 the child is done with their emotional attachment to their moms and they start watching and mimicking the father. Before 6 they need the maternal parenting more than paternal. But for their overall well-being they do need both parents present. It is a tragedy to have a child’s world broken up by fighting parents who can’t keep their oaths each other. It damages everyone in the family unit.
@@sarashepard7504 Ugh...that is not true ....My daughter mimicked me before she mimicked her mom. Her first words were dada...Focusing on having a child just with mom for first 6 years is what causes dads to be second class parents.
BS. Our society hates men and looks at them as slaves.
@@sarashepard7504 Or as in this case, an insanely hate filled mom.
"My child" "My child" "My Child" it's so obvious shes reaching for reasons to control the situation.
Exactly. She should have thought of that before she engaged!
This was a mess
The my child was driving me insane. It’s not your child. It’s yalls child. It takes two. He is as much a part of that child as she is. 🤦♂️
The father is looking to be there for his child, the mom is looking to be in control. After watching her speak for just a few minutes "I" wanted to divorce her!
Use your * to make words bold, same way you did, like *this*
This broad asked for a paternity test after being pregnant for 9 months and the baby being in the world 9mo she had 18mo to get an paternity test she's just an evil bitch yo!
😂😂😂😂😂😂. I think any man would!
I felt this comment on a whole new level. Enough said.
I worked with women center and it was not good enough for the child to be used for money by Mommy dearest it made me sick the dad's really loved the kids but mom's didn't have any love lost by Mommy
Children should never be used as Pawns in parents break ups.
They shouldn't, but sadly they do all the time. I am the second wife to hubby ( my first), he came with three daughters from the beginning. His family also informed me the ex left the kids too, when she left for a guy she hooked up with at her 10 year reunion.. So no mom for a few years for kids that were just 3,5
,7. I show up, now she has issues! I meet her while I have kids, I say you want to take them today? No I can't. But ultimately she files for custody and she admits to custody evaluator she doesn't really want to raise them, she just wants let kids know she at least cared, but no intentions of actually raising them. ( her parents paid for her lawyer)
Its thanks to america and the family court system turning parenting into a monetary gain. Unfortunately this is why america is in poverty, because it chooses to turn every squabble into a cash cow for the state.
Sadly, children are treated that way sometimes and then , as a result, the child will find a way to make it the divorce his or her OWN fault.
@@ThatOneDude88 unfortunately it creates a toxic environment in all family households. I cant help but feel sorry for all the fathers who end up becoming evil and then commit murder suicide because the criminal justice system is abusing us....
I know. I would MUCH rather be a bishop!
This why you hire a lawyer. She is clueless and trying to cut out the father. Lawyer likely quit because she is unwilling to follow orders.
Each time they goto court she has a different lawyer or no lawyer. Same as my ex
Apparently she has had 4 who resigned.
Lawyers quit when a parent no longer pays. Lawyers do not care about mothers, or fathers, or children. They are officers of the court and that is their priority. Secondary is the client and once that client runs out of money, the attorney drops them and fills that spot witha paying customer.
Family law is a business and not at all about children.
@@OrlandoMarquez Not entirely true lawyers also quit when they can not come to an agreement of how they want to defend the position so here perhaps the lawyer didn't want to argue such things as starvation when the evidence simply does not support it.
@@OrlandoMarquez Doesn’t really make sense that she wouldn’t be able to pay the current lawyer but is able to pay the next one.
She's not fighting for her child. She's fighting for control.
I was dating my 1st type of race outside of white and got viciously beat upacouple nights ago by women I'm still living with till I jump on a travel thing and run I feel scared everyday. Lol shhhhhhh
Wrong , Stupid
@Max Riley HIs attorney often hands his head and covers his face while she is playing attorney. lol
They all are.
Yeah man, she's done just about every wrong thing a person can do in front of a judge.
So she wants a paternity test because she doesn't think the child is his, but she wants him to pay child support. Figures.
Just like my ex.... she tried to trap me with a kid but i took the DNA test on my own and i gave the official results to her on her b-day.... that day i became a free man and she still took me to court to pay child support but i won that case also😂😂😂😂😂
@Jamie Mills Drama Queen at her child's expense?
@@Music.cigars.2024 Scary...do you watch Maury Povich?
Oh yeah... I cheated but this one is yours by DNA. Then everything under the sun is alright? Where's the Love?
@Wesley do Guy at homeless shelter " Women are inbred to cheat and lie." From Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada
Siloam Mission someone once told me while looking for Sunday Beer. Goin SOLO............................. The Peg.
@Jamie Mills I can hear Maury Povich & Hey Springer saying the first part of your comment 🤣😉
I’m a mother and watching how hard this mom is making it difficult for the baby to bond with his Dad.. Shame on the Mom. Grow up! Move on
The courts are taking parental alienation very serious now..
Right...I don't understand they don't believe in mommy time. Hell I went on a a day vacation in the house with kids and dad. I made a sign that said ask your daddy. LoL...learned it from my mom, but it said you have two dads ask one of them. My dad and stepdad was in are life. Before my dad died he lived 2 or 3 years with my stepfather. I feel bad for my stepfather he miss him being around. I'm glad my mom never did something like that because I learned a lot of helpful things from my dad.
Angel C . This was only a year ago.
I doubt anything has changed.
Yet the orders and the law should be followed to a T.
He did zero wrong.
She brings the child to the ER and doctor’s office repeatedly.. (*im sure she did.. she wasn’t paying for it, taxpayers were)
My ex won't let me see my child, and it sucks bc i changed every single diaper since the baby was born.
@@cheymilion3168 I pray the truth will help you be with your kid. Just remember there are places that can help you. Learn the laws. And keep your information updated as your kid gets older, because your kid would look for you. Keep fighting for your baby. Keep everything. I'm really sorry for your kid, because of my dad and stepdad I'm a lot wiser. My dad is the one who showed me how to be a lady. Look for help
It's very clear "mom" is only concerned about controlling and abusing the father.
Why isn’t the Mom being held in contempt of court for not abiding by the pickup order? If the Dad did that he would be thrown in jail!
The system is biased against men and is not interested in a man's right. You see, there is no money in it for them.
Now if a man can't or won't pay child support he'd be in jail in a flash. NO lee way here.
Because they will make a man take her back to court so they can get more money I personally went through this bullshit
@chuck Berieka. Yep. Dealt with the "government sponsored kidnapping and extortion racket" for over 25 years. It's all about money, their money ane no it not for the kids. Their money!!!!
She filed an argument of she has breast milk and he didn't. So in this the judge can not or will not or can't argue for the child not getting the breast milk means this child is going without food being only 9 months old and clearly states a 9 month old can not avacate for them self just as the mother stated. Showing a great defence for the child safety and wellbeing at this time. She has just had the trump card in this matter of having breastmilk to feed this baby. In 6 to 12 months would be in contempt of court. but the baby is still a baby she has her validations met infavor of the the ruling as of this date. She needs to go to law school because she just kicked her ex's lawyers ass in court today. Her points of defence was and always will be the best for a breastfed baby. I was thinking vary well put out there perfect performance today in court.
A contempt hearing must be conducted before a litigant can be found in contempt. The judge must also appoint an attorney to represent the litigant in a contempt hearing.
Knows "her" rights but not the rights of the Father.
People that spout their rights are usually clueless about their responsibilities to others.
She wasn't there to defend his rights..shes there to protect her baby from a sperm donor that has done nothing to protect the baby..refuses everything that should be required, see above comments cuz I'm tired of typing the same shit..
John Saathoff
Yes his right began where her’s end.....
CherBear well stop typing it cause aint nobody fucking listening
Spot on mate
@@cherbear1996 from the father, not sperm donor. If she wanted a out of picture sperm donor she should have chosen someone else to knock her up...
She forgets the child has a father who is also an advocate for the child, and she has had no classes to prove she is fit or knows what to do either. She forgets he has the same rights as her.
Oh but she HAS had classes,..they are just from the PEANUT GALLERY of friends and family egging her on with sh_thouse legal advice.
Ur mistaken in th rights part. Your father rights differ from mother rights. Is the reason why although u saw the facts in this video. She has physical custody of her child and he is the weekend dad.
This is what's wrong with America. Then give your Damn Breast milk...Ignorant kids.
@@josegrullon024 and he has the RIGHT to see him..there's always CUSTODIAL custody in a divorce situation where there's a child..the CUSTODIAL parent DOES NOT have the LEGAL right to keep the child from the other parent when there is a COURT ORDER
Don't you know that Facebook Family classes are certified?!?!?
My baby, my baby, my baby. Not once does she ever say our baby. Whenever both parents are willing to take part in a child’s life, it should be encouraged.
I thought of taking a drink every time she said “ my child”.
But thought maybe I don’t need alcohol poisoning.
every time i heard "my baby" i heard "my paycheck"
Maybe she was saying my baby because she’s not sure if it’s his child, at least that’s what I assumed.
@@commiekillareee912 I bet you're racist.
Mommy’s baby is Daddy’s maybe, as the saying goes.
Here’s a breakdown of what she is trying to say “I want my child to hate his father as much as I do and I want to punish for leaving me”
Absolutely! But judge failed her job! Bitch had no counsel why?
FOCKUHARD AGAIN - because her lawyer quit. That definitely is a bad sign.
Her council quit .. from what I’ve heard she’s gone through multiple lawyers... they probably want nothing to do with that lady she is twisting things and going against court orders just to keep her child away from his father
@@msuew94 same story with my ex. Every time we went to court she had a new lawyer. And the last time she had no lawyer
That isn't what i heard. What i heard was that she is worried about her child being fed, She sees her child as more hers than his and doesn't think he knows what he is doing. Im not saying she's right. Personally i feel like she is holding to tight, but then again her baby is only 9 months old and it is extremely hard to let your Childs well being be someone else's responsibility at that age.
This baby needs to be protected from his parent, alright. His MOTHER is a loony.
Shes something alright. I guess she thinks shes the only one whose aloud to speask. I've tried to watch this 3 times but I cant. She thinks this is her show
I object your honour
At least it’s out there for the world to see that this dad is fighting tooth and nail to be in his child’s life. Hopefully the kid will see this when he’s older.
That’s how my son is.. keeps going to court and she doesn’t follow the court order. NM courts are Really Stupid!
They don’t do nothing to her for not following the order!
But she does recv the child support
This is so sad that men have to fight so hard to see their own babies. My dad passed when I was young so I remember his unconditional love & pain of losing him. I'd never do that to my children. A father is so vital to raising children. Great comment Karl, thank you.
I love how so many people in the comments think that because the father and his lawyer didn't object to her accusations that he must be guilty.
No, the father is smart, listened to his lawyer, and the lawyer knows this hearing cannot consider or rule on any of that noise. And on top of all that got an on the record admission that the mother believes the child's father may be someone else!
This was a dude doing everything correctly.
@@selderane : I agree. She is like the crazy one.... court should have asked for a evaluation of mental health and subpoena medical records to proof she ain’t this loving mother. If you can tell she was told over and over this has been hear already... their is something about this psycho mother... Men and friends see her and Run Run.,
Court should have put her in jail!
Welfare check done unexpectedly done to her house..
protective services should be called on her also.
Private detective shouldn’t have been hired to follow her.
And not to mention her parents lying to law enforcement and to the court. Sad they believe their own lies.
But the court picked up on that!
At the end, psycho mother had to give in.
Attorney- she ain’t good at that!
Employer hope they are watching this : Run
Some mothers do act like they own this child and father was only a donator.
But quick I need Medicaid and government support.
But act like high class..
This is what I'm going through right now. The mother made so much fake allegations to the court and DCF that I hurt my daughter and the mom and kicked them out of the house thank god I had text and proof that she was lying. The judge gave me temporary physical custody and DCF found her allegations bullshit after doing these bogus claims in 5 month later after she left my place. I'm praying everything goes well November 30 I have a big court case for my child.
The Mum here has had no fewer than 4 different attorneys, which translates into..SHE is impossible to deal with and the lawyers want nothing to do with her.
That totally depends on if she has public pretenders (i.e. court appointed attorneys) or she is paying them (i.e. choosing them), obviously.
@@renatababulevich5914 this is not a criminal trial its family court you idiot
@@daffybigbear you're the "idiot". Have you no humanity? You took the appropriate profile name. Daffy, lol
@@DimndSLM and yet you’re still wrong you moron . And i am so sorry if i gave you the impression i give a fuck what you say , not my fault you’re stupid
@@DimndSLM clearly you dont know the difference between a civil court and a criminal court. You DO NOT get a Public defender for civil court. Are you really that stupid?
I question any mother's so called love for a child when she does everything she can to keep a father out of his child's life.
She asked for supervised visitation, that isn’t trying to keep the baby out of the others parents life. It simply means that she wants someone competent during the visit with father and child to evaluate the child’s safety during. If she were trying to alienate him she would have requested that he have no visitation. Just saying.
@@hippiechicjewelz4634 That's exactly what she's doing. She didn't feel unsafe while getting a hot beef injection. Stop trying to make her look like a concerned mother.
I 100% agree. My mother actually kidnapped me from my father when I was 5, and I didn't see him until I was 12. She took me from alaska and hid with me in Florida. My dad was in the Airforce at the time and would have been arrested if he left his post. I will never forgive her for what she did to us.
@@hippiechicjewelz4634 supervised visitation isn't the same as regular visitation. Just saying. Unfortunately people use their kids as a weapon against their former spouse. It's neccesary sometimes I realize.
This is Chris (didn’t realize my wifes account was logged)
Parents that do this are Narcissists. They don’t see their child as an individual person; however, they do see their child as an extension of themselves. So in there false reality there leg doesn’t hurt when they are kicking the ex spouse when they are already on the ground. Ive been dealing with this for 5 years and the first Two years I was dumbfounded beating my head against the wall thinking back and trying remember if mom did this crap too. She didn’t, sacrificed her wants to make sure I had everything I needed. So I just didn’t get the concept how a mother could and continued to purposely hurt there own child. Then when I read over a Covert Narcissists, I understood exactly how she was able to do this. She has a strong eight of the 12 classifying traits of a Covert Narcissist. It all started to make sense after that. Knowing helps to mentally understand how they are capable of doing horrific things to you and weaponizing your child against.
That pink feather pen is in contempt of court.
Hilarious!
Lol !!!
Sustained!
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STOP I CANT
This lady. He loves and wants to see his child. How many adults are suffering today because their mother kept their fathers away? To many. Lady this isn't about your wants. It's about the best interest of the child.
Haven't seen my daughter since she was 9 other than f.b./ she is 16 now...smh
I dont have no contact or even an address
@howdyhowdyhow seriously, did I tell you any of the facts/ issues...good job on being judgmental before knowing anything about the situation, because my twin 7 yr. Olds that live with me seem to disagree with your assumptions.
@howdyhowdyhow You are a complete moron. No way else to put it.
@@georgeboldi4343 Sorry about ignorant people that are mean jerks for no reason especially when they are ignorant to any facts and spoke so poorly to you when they didn't even ask about any facts. That person is absolute trash!
This woman doesn't know how lucky she is to have a father who wants to be in their children's lives.
Exactly! My ex husband left the winter of 2014 and hasn't seen since
This is why you get married, they literally had kids out of wed lock. Of course she's gonna try and use him. She probably thinks he has money
@@daddy_doug what advantages do being married have in this case? Like she's just going to be less of a control freak because they were married and divorced???
@@daddy_doug marriage means nothing these days!
@@daddy_doug plenty of married people end up in court just like this.
When you watch to many court dramas...."I OBJECT YOUR HONOR"
She didn’t cite the law school she graduated from
The way she talked that judge I'm surprised the judge didn't reprimand her
Her lawyer fired HER. Enough said.
Yes! Why did he do that! Because she's nuts like ever other woman!!!!!!!
That's what I said 1 second in! I agree but the judge is really worried about the kid, thats hidden from the father wtf!
@@fockuhardagain2237 anecdotal doesn’t count. Unless you know every woman.
@sunrize601 No its judges like this, that make the bad Choices. That's my whole point think about it! Until your kids are taken and moved out of state and have no idea where they are you would understand.
she went through 3 lawyers
With a mother like that, I feel very sorry for that child.
Heartbeat214 That's a great mom.
Please explain? I thought she was fantastic... Yes please explain!
mzpchypchz me too
obrbob194 how so?
& be specific
Judge Judy's first order of business would be to have that pink feather pen removed from her court room. "Byrd...get that pink feather out of my court."
I thought I was the only one thinking that lmbo!
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When you’re representing yourself AND you think you're Elle Woods in Legally Blonde ...with that fluffy pink pen she’s using 🤣😉
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She knows how to play the courts. Her son will hate her in the future.
Lol
When you are Pro se means that you are your own attorney. Anybody can used any types of pen. Most divorced people know how to used the power of evil no matter what it is. I believe this is why you don’t hire the same sex as you because the attorney is will feel anything. If you hires a female attorney more likely would know ha head of time knows the future of what she going to say which would stop everything ahead of time. A supervisor visitation won’t stop the child being feed. Only thing is guaranteed that the child will be feed. The non-custodies parent to bring anything their for the child at any age at all. Breast feed is your own problem because you didn’t get enough feed for the child to eat.
Glad I'm not the only one who noticed the pink frilly pen in court.
I get so tired of a parent saying "my" child when they should say "our" child ☹
Oh yeah thats the most important issue here..smh..
Well she's not even sure if it is his child! That's why she requested the dna test. You'd think she'd find out who's kid it was BEFORE she put him through the nightmare of dealing with her, right!? She was probably too busy printing out all of her constitutional rights to be bothered with a pesky dna test though.
@@ninthsquarecommunity So what if it's not the most important issue? ...You're not the comment section police, are you? People aren't limited to ''the most important issue'', they can discuss whatever part of the video they want to! Besides, that shit WAS annoying as hell. Like the kid doesn't have a name.
@@Christine-xt8fr I think it's more of a desperate attempt to prolong the proceedings and affect his rights. As you said, if she was unsure, why didn't she get it sorted out before?
@@Christine-xt8fr she should have not got knocked up to get a check.
Breast pumps exist, lady. Let the child visit his father, that's so incredibly important.
A lot of women do not respond to pumps. Having said that, baby only needs food every 3 or 4 hours so there is time for a visit. Also what is wrong with going to a park as coparents to allow time. I grew up without a dad, so when I ended up having to leave my ex with our 3 babies, I saw past the wrongs and.have always made every effort for them to get lots of daddy time.
@@Tzara86 My daughter refused to take a bottle, even if it was pumped breast milk. She wouldn't take a pacifier either. Stubborn little critter! LOL
@@Tzara86 good on you, babies so need parents Mom and Dad. You must be mature enough to put your own needs aside for the child. Your babies are lucky
There are a lot of issues with some women using pumps from the size of the breast to the pumps not getting the letdown correct to pump enough milk. There are baby's that won't take a bottle and if the parents are exclusively breastfeeding it's better that they don't take the bottle or a binky because that creates confusion.
@@annemchurchwell so supposing the mother is either unable, or unwilling to hand express or mecanically express breast milk. The child is exclusively breast feeding. Admittedly those situations do occur and in an intact family would pose no harm to the child as both parents could bond with the child despite feeding issues. In this situation the family is not intact and by the mother not facilitating the parental bond between father and child she is actually causing long term and substantial harm to the child. How should the situation be addressed to allow not only a preferred feeding pattern and a healthy child parent bond development between father and child? Admittedly I have not seen any data on tthe effects of bottle vs breast vs breast and bottle feeding on the future mental development of children I do believe physically breast is usually best but know for various reasons many many babies must be bottle fed and the long term effect is negligible in most cases. The effect of absentee fathers and loss of parental bonds on the other hand is well documented and sadly extremely detrimental to the child. There is a great deal of evidence that suggest it is the early bond development in the very first years tthat is most critical. So how would you resolve this issue?
This woman is entitled to the point
of nausea... she needs to get a life!
I knew she meant business when she pulled out her fluffy pink pen...things just got real!
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Yes, it says it all!
Lol
Lol 😂😂😂😂
She’s a GANGSTER
Ladies quit using your kids as pawns to hurt your ex. In the end, the child is the one hurt the most by it. False claims of abuse or neglect to try and stop visitation makes it so much harder for real victims to get justice. If you love your child, learn to separate your relationship with the father from the child's relationship with the father.
Erika Torally agree. This is a great reminder for all separated/divorced parents.
Your speak truth which is apparent to all. But I always tell my son that crazy or certain negative traits will always present themselves. If a man still remains with a woman after seeing these unstable traits and then makes it worse by impregnating her . Well then he is the source of his own ills, no? There are always those who do evil and will use any to help accomplish their self serving goals. He can cry now but he new what he was putting his d#ck in. Now a child has to suffer the consequences. Sad and selfish by all parties. And I'm sure that judge is losing sleep from worry, lol
@@derekamanwiththegivennamej1082 I can tell you that Judges of family court do not lose sleep worrying about their cases. But it is sad that you cannot understand the male/female situation when it comes to primal sexual urges. And when they are stupid enough to have unprotected sexual encounters, they will breed children into the bad mix, making things worse for all, including children.
Erika Amen, Sister! I’ve had many talk with my bf of 9 years, that in the event that we get married &/or have children there should be a legally binding agreement between us that will clearly state that: in the case of a divorce, everything is split between us & in the event that we have children, custody will be 50/50, we will not slander each other & everything must stay civil & be in the children’s best interest. I think it’s a very good idea to come to these conclusions while me & him still love each other because I’m petty as hell & my Gemini will come out & it’s not out of the realm of possibility that I will become a raging vengeful bitch out to get him 🤣 haha & he’s a Taurus so there’s a good chance he would be just as bitter, vengeful & stubborn to no end. It sucks that divorces & custody gets so nasty. Watching other people go through it is the main reason we’re still unmarried after 9 years, & it’s how we’ve come to this conclusion.
Scorned Father's Need To STOP also ‼ Most people are in Court because Someone Feels they don't have to take Care of their CHILD ‼ I've worked and Retired he as Well .
That's BS! She should go to jail for keeping her kid from seeing his/her father. I am so disappointed.
In a perfect society, where laws were indeed fair for everyone, women wouldn’t even get near the door at Family Court! But with no-fault divorce and these openly misandrist fucks, running the courts, forget it! No wonder marriage rates are at the bottom
I am a single mom. Their dad never paid child support and certainly didn't take care of them. Yet he has access to his kids 24/7 because my irritation and frustration with him has zero to do with our kids. Period. Let's be clear this lady has an agenda and is absolutely willing to use her child as a pawn in her little war. Meanwhile dad just wants to be there spending time with his child.
That's my Son fighting to see his Son and I never fought to see him. I feel shame
Holy words
And how was she not aware of the court day but.....she showed up
I wonder the same thing.
Yeah, kinda fuckin strange.
Exactly
I just happened to look up my court docket the other day because of something that happened in another case. I learned I have a court date on 12/20/2019. The clerk mailed the letter to an address I lived at in 2013. I had updated my address years prior in addition to registering for
E notification. My change of address is noted in the court docket. The shit happens
right hahahah
"oh, I almost forgot....
Can I get a paternity test?"
... 🙄🤔 GTFOH 😂
Lmbo all that and at the end ask for a paternity test WHAT!?!? 🤣 Hope that baby is ok though
Dunh. Dunh. Duuuuuunh! 💭💥🔥☄
Boom! Sad, really.
Belive me when a lawyer quits it means that she is trouble and nuts lolol.
Stephen Kelly I said the same thing
It definitely means the money is not worth it for whatever reason
What about an ability to pay the lawyer would they quit over that and I checked with the World Health Organization in third world countries did you breastfeed for long periods of time due to lack of nutrition but you're only supposed to do it up to 11 months because after that it has no nutritional value she said two years so that I can indicated to me that she was little bit psycho and you know she can pre pump and give the man bottles of milk and write the man out of feeding schedule Jesus he looks like a nice guy
Or attorneys fees haven't been paid.
Fathers hv no rights which is wrong
Mom’s request for a paternity test is tantamount to an admission that she committed adultery. And she’s judging the Dad? What a piece of work.
Woman moment
Maybe he got her pregnant after her last relationship
While I agree she does not deserve to be with Julian I do not believe she committed adultery - they were not married. She is desperately trying to win. Sadly I have the impression it is due to her ego and pride - nothing to do with the 9 month old son.
He didn't want her. That can be the first item to consider.
2019 and it looks like it was filmed with a potato
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This is why we can't get good pics of Sasquatch. All this technological advancement and our cameras still run like potatoes lol.
That just cracked me up
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Mr Creative 🤣
We can only hope the paternity test shows the child
isn't hers.
Lmao oh shit!🤣
Lmbo!!’😂
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Love it😂
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I’m a woman and I’m appalled by her. I hope the dad gets his rights enforced.
U know what. This broad wins in the end
Same here!
Her constant reference to the child and "MY child" rather than "OUR child" is enough of a sign that any parenting plan involving this mom will always be dysfunctional.
Amen!
Who cares what she references it to!! SHES BREAST FEEDING he won't even takes classes to educate his first tine fathering self. If he can't respond to the mother or take her direction or return the baby changed and clean HELLO..... LOL it amazes me how blind people are. Or Ignorant. But it's also been my experience that narcissists stick up for those of the same.
This is a perfect example of why men should wear a helmet when going to war.
They also are clean shaven to prevent infection.
sundevilification clean shave to make a perfect seal for your gas mask*
@@TheHomesteadingHistorian Touche
Men should be more circumspect with whom they war and view contact as gaming.
@@TheHomesteadingHistorian
It doesn't prevent pregnancy entirely nor HIV. You are giving advice which supports a false sense of security.
Guilty of parental alienation. Send her to jail.
My baby, my baby, my baby... it's his baby too.
I noticed that also
This may be an unpopular opunion, but dads have rights too. This is sad.
No we dont trust me ive been through it. I was pretty much told to shut up that the judge will decide if and when i see my child lol. i dont drink or do drugs have a good income my own home in a good housing development . never been arrested for any thing.. she Drank and partied had no home a crappy job but it was in the best interest of the child to be with his mother LMAO ..
The fact that you even thought that this comment would/could be an unpopular opinion is one of many measurements that shows that fathers need more rights.
I liked your comment by the way. There are still to many men and women out there that would disagree or always feel the mother is the only fit parent even when the case is the absolute opposite.
That's the sad truth, the system is built that way, that the mother automatically the better parent. That's not always the case, there are father's out there who would do a much better job than a mother
I have gone through this. Men lacking funds, especially have no rights. But those willing, like myself, to spend what it takes to buy justice, can purchase a modicum of fairness. I won in the end because the court knew and the opposing party knew that I would not rest until I obtained recognition that being the father, I had the right to be in my son's life. The mother's accusations and lies were accepted verbatim by the court. Everything I said had to be proven with the help of expensive outside experts.
Dont mess with a nursing mother...of any species.
Words of wisdom: Women and Men please choose your mate wisely.
Absolutely! Happily married for 15 years
Unfortunately, people can - and often do - change! Things happen and they affect people in ways they NEVER thought could happen to them, or their loved ones.
Parental alienation. People are starting to go to jail for it. And rightly so. It is THE absolute worst emotional abuse you can put on a child.
Happened to me. Everyone knew it. No one did anything about it. The system makes a fortune off the alienaters that do not have jobs but want full custody.
@Neecy Neecy It happened to me as a child and my ex wreaked that hell on our kids. 40 years later, they still suffer the emotional effects. It broke my heart.
Yeah, I can think of worse ways to emotionally abuse a child. In my case, parental alienation should've occurred 15 years earlier.
@Neecy Neecy Me too. But 40 years later, my kids are still screwed up about it. It affected their entire lives.
What type of child abuse does not affect the child for their entire lives? Your claim is ridiculous. Is parental alienation abusive? Of course. Is it the Worst Kind of child abuse? No. Not even close.
Gawd... That poor baby is gonna be a pawn to her for the rest of it's life.
BrokenAlchemist 1987 unfortunately that happens more times than not. I am so blessed that my husband and I have custody of all of our kids from previous relationships. My son and his father have a wonderful relationship. No court orders, no child support, he gets to see him when he wants and always helps out financially. Women need to ALLOW the dads to be a parent first before all this court crap needs to go down. She’s using her son and it’s SICK.
@@megs6 definitely happens too often
BrokenAlchemist 1987 .M
@@megs6 she may have *_real_* concerns about the safety of her son with the father, unless you know something the rest of us do not, you cannot say that she does not have reason to be worried about his care of the baby. In addition to that, if she has chosen to breast feed her baby then no one else should be allowed to tell her she had to do something different! I cannot believe that they have set things up in such a way that it would be necessary for him to generally be breastfed and then on the days that he goes with the dad he is switched over to formula for a period of time then back to breast milk! Now I am not sure why she is not pumping breast milk for him to take to dad's, I know some women have some difficulty with pumping enough but to switch between formulas and breast milk constantly seems to be a very bad idea!
@@PrimateProductions , there is always that concern about who is telling the truth. In this case it sure looks to me like the mother is being as spiteful as she can. That judge has been extra patient with her disobeying multiple court orders!
The father looks very bewildered...." I just want to see my child."
It’s crazy. She doesn’t know how lucky she and the baby are that he wants to be in his life.
Baba Ganush
Slick and sick. Those years are so important.
He is going to get him. She crazy
I was bewildered too!
@@punkyfeathers1639
Wish my ex was thinking the same thing but she was basically the same person as this whacko mom with no common sense and doesn't understanding the child comes first.
I don't like how she always says "it's her baby" and shes the only one that can speak for her baby um.. NO I am sorry but thats also is baby and HE CAN also speak for that baby! If anyone needs a parenting class it is her!
If the judge is so WORRIED she should DO SOMETHING! SHAME ON THAT JUDGE!!
The motion that she is not impartial restricts the judgements she can make. That is part of the reason she clarified the order given the prior week would stand but she was only dealing with procedural issues today.
Got Damn Right! The Judge is Intimidated and Incompetent SMH
Wait... what just happened here?? The judge was so worried about the safety of the child that she didn't order an immediate pick-up?? What the what???
I don’t understand if the judge is worried about the father or the mother or both so confusing
This judge always says she is concerned or worried and then lets the unstable parent keep spending time with the child.
This was the same situation I dealt with for years. I kept pushing back even though there were times when I wanted to give up. My son is now 38, and we have had a great relationship. Were very close. It is sad.... my son refuses to have any contact with his mother. Not something I'm proud of, but he's a grown man. The best complement he ever gave me was "Dad, I never once heard you say anything negative towards my mother". I replied, I new you would eventually figure it out.
My boyfriend is going through this right now, I’m gonna show him your comment. There is hope! He’s so torn up from it all but doing such a good job fighting everything
I've seen this countless times. She is trying to keep the child away from Dad. She thinks if she keeps going he will give up, I pray he doesn't give up. You can bet that as the child grows she will be badmouthing the dad to the child. Shame on her.
Yep, especially the bad mouthing part.
This woman hates her baby Daddy more than she loves her child. If the father is so unworthy, why were you in his bed in the first place?
YES that is what all women do, BAD MOUTH THE DAD!
Has anyone thought for one sec that the father could really be a piece of crap? I'm so tired of hear fathers have rights to... Blah blah blah I bet my life he is behind in child support!!!!!
Could be a POS, absolutely. COULD be. With all sorts of studies showing that the absence of a dad in a childs life is an almost guarantee that the child doesn't do as well, as a child AND when an adult, I think he should be given the benefit of doubt. My ex tried the same shit against me. It didn't work at all because I'm a great dad. If he is behind on child support it doesn't matter as far as seeing his child. The mom can't withhold visitation because of child support just the same as the dad can't withhold child support when mom doesn't follow the rules of visitation. 1 thing more important than anything else in a divorce - knowledge of human nature. 2nd thing is knowledge of your spouse. Procedure is why you have a attorney. You also need the smarts to know when you use which.
I dislike when women try using the courts against the father to keep the child away from the father.
"Oh yeah, by the way, I'm requesting a Paternity test." That's the bombshell, lol!
Thanks i didn't want to waste my time on shity quality videos.
Really wish I didn’t waste my time like this.....
Thank You!!!
Its just a stalling tactic
Mary Allen thank you! Cause I didn’t want to watch the whole thing.
The problem: People falling into lust without preventing pregnancy. This is what happens when lust dissipates and the resulting child is used as a weapon.
totally agree with you. I just recently was on the receiving end of the anger of my youngest daughter, when I tried to explain the difference between LOVE and LUST. My daughter believes that we can just LEAVE if someone does not longer is SUITABLE for our own purposes. It hurts me because I believe I taught her well.
kary ann Fontaine I always wonder about the fact she got pregnant had the child. He is young enough to be breast feed. All these things happen and already your divorced. I wonder if their decision to get married and have a child happened thatfast. Everyone is in such a hurry to get married and have a child before they even know each other. Now there is a child that is being used as a weapon between these two idiots.
@@encantodesol Well she is correct that you can just leave a relationship if it is no longer working for you. That is the entire premise of relationships. If both sides are no longer trying to make the relationship work then it is a broken relationship and should be ended.
The difference is if you choose to have children then in my opinion you have given up your choice to split up. You should be there for the child at least until they are adults.
I will never understand how all my friends have been put into this position and still don't wrap that pecker..I guess I was the best at the pull out game..I would always think about handing over my paycheck at the time I was about to climax and I pulled it out Everytime and I also thought about a bitchy woman and a nagging hateful mother inlaw...Her I am 44years later and I'm the only one without kids out of 100's of friends and family members..And they all said I'd have the most kids..the Lord blessed me with the gift to see the out come and negative problems that would arise.. it was like I was psychic I could see into the future...plus I had all brothers to watch slowly turn miserable and nasty overtime with kids and a woman that was miserable..
@@encantodesol Your good advice to your daughter carries much more influence than you can imagine. She will not show you how much influence you have on her choices now but eventually it will sink in. My mother was the voice of reason and in the long run, she was the one who cared about me, and had my best interest at heart. I do hope your daughter realizes what I did.
The moms not giving any actual evidence on why the father shouldn’t see the baby alone.
From what I remember she screw with everyone so much that they finally gave the father custody of the child
I wish I could find the other video after this one.
That’s what I was wondering is what ended up happening to the poor baby. You can’t claim breastfeeding is keeping you from letting the father participate in raising him when you can get a breast pump from wic or Walmart or many other places. She wants to use the baby against the father because he probably figured out how she was but stayed until the baby was born and now he’s regretting nearly everything he ever did with her
@@sharisscrappyshares go to the Veterans in Politics channel and go to the video section and then pick most popular and the very first one is about these people. Keren S. I can’t remember how to spell her last name. Lol
@@kparkslpnful she is pure evil,the father was awarded custody.
Oh good, parental alienation is not cool. The more she talked, the more unfit I felt she was. Now she can have the supervised visits.
I would love to start a charity that helps provide good fathers money for attorneys
Do it
Good idea Jason. Although, how would one tell a good father from a bad father pretending to be good?
GO ahead and see how fast the Feminist turn against you ! ! 1 Guy tried that in Sacramento California and was SHUT DOWN by women's Groups !
@@noblehousefoundation1731 need something to check the court bias. I have spent 10k fighting false and ridiculous allegations at least 3 judges saying she is playing games, and she being held in contempt and i am still fighting for custody even tho she still refuses to follow the judges order we have another court date coming soon it isnt on the calendar but it will be soon.
@Chester Smith man where do you find them?
I knew Mom was crazy when she brought out the pink pen.
MY Child! MY Child! MY Child! NO! Our child! Stupid Baby Momma! 😑
Michael McDonald used the same pen during his custody trial. Must be a way to show they are supported by Steve Sanson and Veterans in Politics
I think its a Troll pen. I bet he wished he put a condom on that night!!!!
@@meanlene4823 NAILED IT
@@sandrablosser9888 but why? These videos make her look so so bad and Nick look like father of the year.
This is what happens after years of judges automatically giving preference to maternal rights. This woman is obviously the problem here and has been trained on how to work the system.
Nail on head
Women like this ALWAYS have misandrist Social Workers, within their circle, who train them into what to say in, or when to go to, court. Men in these situations, are often stalled in court and cornered into accepting a bad deal “in the best interest of the child.”
Good lord this sounds just like my ex. My case is one of the most famous in NYS. After years of litigation and numerous trials with the court ALWAYS siding with me and a learned judge (Snellenberg) stated in a memorandum decision “In over 15 years on the bench, I have never been witness to a more egregious case of Parental Alienation. However, given the severity I feel it would be psychologically detrimental to change custody to the father.” The judge did however order my ex and my son return to Long Island to reside no farther than 20 miles from my home and to grant me a month in the summer a week at Christmas and every Wednesday - she openly stated “I am a citizen of the commonwealth of Massachusetts and don’t have to follow your orders”. His honor explained that if she doesn’t she would be held in contempt and this would be escalated to a higher court… which it was - and she was once again given the chance to comply - she paid $70,000 for the best family lawyers in NYS to represent her in that hearing - 4 lawyers trailing boxes of documents appeared - but the judge told them to sit down and listen… he then warned her that if she didn’t comply with HIS order that she would go to jail… “Please instruct your client and have her understand” The following month she returned “pro se” as her lawyers quit (obviously unable to have her comprehend the reality of it) - the judge asked her if she had returned to LI or had made plans to - she once again said she was a resident of the Commonwealth of Massachusetts and that he didn’t have jurisdiction- he tried to explain that in family law an order from any state is legal in all states… when she said “your honor I took a course to become a para legal and you are wrong” - the judge had enough… he asked her where is your son at present… “In school in Weston” - to me “sir do you have a means to go to Weston?” “Yes sir, I have a friend who has a plane and is on stand by” “I am transferring custody to the father and sentencing you to 60 days incarceration for repeated and willful contempt” (paraphrased) at which point I flew up to MA went to the local police presented them with the expedited order and my son and I have been together ever since. He hasn’t seen his mother in over 15 years and wants nothing to do with her… (there is a big back story too long to go into here… stalking a federal judge, incarceration (1 year in federal pen) for stalking with intimidation. Sad just very sad… because of her insanity she has deprived my son of a mother…
Wow .. I’m in the almost the same boat .. but wow
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Assuming he pays child support: She was sure he was the father when it came to child support! Oh yeah, lol, if he isn't the father you better be prepared for a lawsuit! If he is the father you may have to pay for the test! If you love your children, please don't do this to them.
Lawsuit? What. You can't sue for that. In most cases you have to keep paying child support. It's just the way it is. Even if it is wrong.
@@paperproblem2666 I know that's right. In NY you can prove the kids aren't yours but, if you been paying for over 6 months, there is NO reverse. You are considered the parent regardless. NY is so f'd up when it comes to support. There were so many people wanting test that they have now made it mandatory for any unmarried couple to have a test at birth. I wish that law was passed when I was getting in to it 14 years ago. I pay for 2 now and, the court won't even let me test them.
It's videos like this that make me thankful every day that the relationship between my son's father and I is cordial and respectful. He is a great father and I have aligned my life choices to support not only his growth, but that of the child we share together.
It's never your son or my son....it's our son.
No bad mouthing, no destructive behavior. I respect his role as a father and know our son is blessed because I choose to honor that part of his life.
A woman can not raise a son. She can nurture and encourage but she can not teach him those lessons that come from having a positive male around. It takes a good man to cultivate his seed and a good woman to encourage that growth. Team effort.
Moms like that are as rare as diamond and just as beautiful
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽
pede moses ...but percentage and probability say otherwise.
You are an exception, congratulations.
Doesn’t mean we should purposely lower our standards because it “can be done.”
pede moses ... it means exactly that.
Take a look at prison inmate, high school dropout, and teenage pregnancy percentages.
If you can’t acknowledge that our country is not exactly flourishing, and what part of the reason for that is...THEN YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM.
Did you also teach your son to be snarky and passive aggressive like you?
How about punctuation? Maybe if you spent more time with education and less with childcare, you’d be better equipped to understand that I wasn’t being rude. Maybe, you’d also understand how the comment section works and that when you make a public reply, its open for discussion.
Thank you for contradicting yourself.
Good day.
@@Dt.1.KENOBI stay in your negative bubble
“My baby”, “my child”, “my baby”, “my baby”....”MY”, “my”, “my “....
Yea as if he has no part in it LOL
My ex says that all the time.
And my son is 20.
Well i hear Men saying the same bullshit!
Yet another silly excuse to prevent dad from being an equal parent. Pay attention dads....hear the argument, dismantle the argument with basic common sense, show she is just trying to alienate the dad, then insist on at least 50/50 custody as your legal right. Moms like this will only block you time after time if you don't have equal parenting rights.
This used to happen to a friend of mine when his son was 3. The mom tried to keep his son from him EVERY time he was supposed to pick him up. He got a lawyer and got full custody.
This deplorable woman thinks she is the only parent here. There's a father who by the way has rights. Breastfeeding is not grounds for her to keeps THEIR child away from dad.
I got that too. She kept saying MY child not OUR child.
Pump woman!
Well, all these new feminists are saying it’s their body, their choice so for those of us saying the man has rights better stick up for their rights from the beginning. And I mean the beginning... CONCEPTION!
Exactly when I took my ex to court for visitation she tried use breastfeeding as an excuse in the end she was told to pump her breast and send our son with me his father
I breastfeed my child and expressed my milk so he could take his daughter, he kept dragging me through courts because he thought £15 a week was good alimony, it cost him a fortune in court cases. Needles to say the judge looked right through him as he told the judge he only went out one night a week and the judge asked him how much did he spent, he said £15 , the judge gave him a total look of disgust and said, so ! You can drink £15 on a night and your child should survive on £15 a week. I was awarded £70 a week . He lied himself into a hole and then when his daughter turned 16 he stopped her money for her birthday so she took him to court and he had to pay until she was 21 . He never talks to her or his grandchild, she goes to all his side of the families special occasions and he ignores them. His mother stayed close to her and he even told her that if she told his other 2 children who my daughter was she would never see the other 2 kids who were born after we split up. Karma is wonderful, his life is miserable and mine is wonderful🌞 so not all women are bad.
Umm... ''My baby's not being fed' 'my baby's having a reaction to the formula he's giving her'' .....
OMG..EXCELLENT point! i never picked up on that til u said something
4 real? “My baby isn’t getting the nutes it needs with the formula he’s giving her.” That’s what she meant but might not have had the words
I'm a father of a boy where me and his mother are separated i feel for this man luckily I have joint custody and have a great relationship with my boy. Hope he gets to have one with his son
This ratchet wrench keeps on saying "My Child". Last time I checked, You wouldn't have that child without him. News flash... The child belongs to both of you.
According to the Law, as written and enforced by activist & advocates, "your" child actually belongs to The State. And your insistence upon using "birth milk" as long as you decide to breastfeed him. He could "breastfeed" until ADULTHOOD, for God's sake!
She cant object unless it applies to " rules of evidence". She cant object because she does not like what is happening. This judge is extremely patient with this hag.
MAYBE ?
How is she ratchet? Because she’s black? You’re another twisted evil soul. Hell awaits you. She said nothing about denying access to the father only about supervised visits but i guess because she is black you want to attack her credibility? Wow.. such a loser you are.
Lets all take a shot every time she says "my child"
She keeps referring to their baby as, " my child"...that says a lot about how she feels
Well idk the whole story or background but what I can say is, be careful who you have children with....That goes for women and men. I was with (my now husband) for 7 yrs. before we had a child together. Wise up and do better people!
How many men or women really do that anymore with the liberal temper of society for at least half of the population in this Nation. Without God, this Nation is sliding into total anarchy, disorder, no moral or ethical standards for behavior in home, school, workplace, or community and Society at large.
Also not many people get premarital counseling anymore. It seems like life changing events such as marriage and having children aren't taken seriously anymore.
Is that your eye?
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Sam Kadiddlehopper You don’t need to believe in god to be moral or ethical. My husband and I raised two wonderful people who were taught to choose carefully. Our daughter found her husband at twenty-five but unfortunately our son is still looking and starting to feel that he’s running out of time at thirty-three because he wants time before having children and he doesn’t want to be too much older. He’d rather be alone than married to a nightmare.
Sounds like the Mom got everything she wanted. Judge, I am leaving all my rulings against the Mom in place but I am not going to enforce them. What kind of signal does that send?
What?🤪She didn't get notice of the hearing she's sitting in today?🤦♀️
I thought that does she just hang around the court just in case🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
If you use those weird things on either side of your empty head she said she was only given 24 hours notice. Listen.
Noelle B ok but if she wasnt given notice why is she there? Exactly. Dumbass
Just listen to video ..she did !!!! 24 hours before
@@Levi-dz7zx you are the dumbass. She was given 24 hour notice.
She's gonna be like this for the rest of the childs life ... even if she gets remarried and has other kids ...she will still try to keep him from his kid
and if he is a day late on child support she will want him arrested....after all it's court ordered
I agree with you. And it's really sad it's not fair to the child. Breastfeeding is no excuse. I breastfed my kids and you can pump the milk. In a way I hope he's not the father. I was reading the description that she wants a DNA test. I hope he's not the father and I hope whoever the father is she never contact him and he just remains in the wind. Because she will undoubtedly poison the child's mind against Dad. It's sad kids benefit from both parents.
@Voracious Reader I breastfed it's not that big of an issue. We can pump and bottles are made with various different types of nipples for breastfeeding babies that accommodate a breastfeeding baby. This woman will probably forever be looking for excuses. But as you said she might possibly lose her child completely. In this day and age courts don't tolerate nonsense. And fathers have every right to raise children just as mothers.
This woman is going to milk this situation for all it’s worth...
@@luckysixman It's sad, especially when you obviously have a father that wants to be around a child.
All that and SHE thinks he may not be the father.
Family court terrifies me...☹️☹️
If the facts were reversed dad would be in jail. Family court is a nightmare for men. Anyone who watches this and does not see a woman who said to herself I do what I want, who cares dad probably paid the lawyer $500 to appear for him so mom could tell the judge I need two months to prepare for a hearing. Even though the judge ordered a turnover, mom didn't follow the judge's order. if dad did this the result would have been entirely different. Now, dad can wait 2 months to see a 9-month-old baby. Dad does everything right and mom talks nonsense and the judge sides with mom and dad's rights don't matter. Just make sure he pays the child support. The judge should be really proud of herself for showing dad how the courts work to protect everyone's rights.
I’m concerned she will harm the child to frame him
So "gravely concerned" that the judge does NOTHING!
It makes me sick. U have no idea how much this bothers me. Judges are so concerned but do nothing & in the end it's the child left to suffer.
@@30teriann exactly, I believe that the words that are spoken is just for the record. Because in reality you would do something to ensure the safety of the child. If anything should happen badly, and in a review of record it would show the judge showed concern.
It's difficult in child support cases because you have all of the primary people involved, none of the primary are concerned about the child.
The mother just want control same thing with the father. Both just want to win. Which shows me they look at it as a game. I feel badly for the baby because he will have to grow up with this back and forth.
She should have shut all her bullshit down early. No evidence from any medical personnel that the baby is being starved. It should not have been aloud. The judge should have gone to jail.
@@lanishapenn7957 Agree 💯
This is exactly why people should have to pass a test and prove that they Are worthy of having children.
So basically youre all for a full on eugenics program then? Got ya.
@@fadedtiger3181 kinda reaching there. we should sterilize some of the burdens though cuz all they do is just breed more burdens.
@@dissimulii In that case, what is your thoughts on abortion?
Do you support abortion then?
@David
We would go extinct. Between just the normal school testing standards, pre-teens having sex, incest, and rape....... Yep, we would truly turn the world over to the insects.
My heart breaks for this child.
Yep and apparently they're still going through this drama. Poor kid will never have a good relationship with his dad bc of this psycho mom.
I feel sorry for some judges making decision that affect people’s lives....pray they make the right decision for the children
They need to make decisions based on the law, not on emotions.
Baba Ganush Agreed, I was just responding to “just me just me.” Who seemed, by their comment to not understand the law.
I AGREE ABOUT THE LAW, BUT THEY HAVE TO MAKE DECISIONS, THAT IMPACT A CHILD'S LIFE IN MANY CASES....AND I DO FEEL SORRY FOR THE JUDGE IN THAT SITUATION
My grandpa used to do family court. He was really haunted by it. It’s a lot of responsibility.
Ronnie There is so much behind the scenes. And manipulation that the parents are trying to do, on both sides.
Sweetie, you're going to court, at least buy a $1 pack of bic pens.
idiot. She is entitled to like a pink fuzzy pen if she wants to.
Yes the pen has same material attached to it as what her head contains . Floating feathers!
She will hold you to that & will use semantics concerning that price of the pack of pens, tell you how much that pack of pens is, before & after tax. Then she will continue to give the total cost of that pack of pens.
Because of that, she will go on to say she cannot trust you because that pack of pens wasn’t valued properly.
My son went to his father's from Friday to Sunday every weekend from three months old I just pumped froze and gave it to his father for weekends. What is this girl smoking lol
Cause it's nothing other then being a women that abuses the Courts lean towards woman.Notice how she said her baby never out.baby then pulls the preturnaty test card?..I been to the same rodeo,but I got custody of my child eventually
@@SuperGordont Congratulations !! I was not so fortunate, drove me nuts to hear the judge saying that she is gravely concerned. There is NO judge nor attorney that has ever cared or lost sleep for our children.....Any judges reading this, please do speak up. Tell us how you care or how much sleep you lost....t.y.
Are they saying 5 days away from mom? Long time for a breast feeding baby. I can't hear it well. A weekend is understandable though.
Pumping is a hassle but the kid’s gotta eat.
Nina Greiner....and your son will become will thank you for it later. You love your son more that you dislike his father (I'm not saying you dislike his father)
The husband looks like he slept in his clothes, rolled out of bed and went to court!! 😳
Cliches exist cuz they’re true... he’s been rung through the ringer... hence his poor appearance... look this girl.. this is what she is showing the public-so imagine what she is like to the dad behind closed doors...
WHY DOES NOONE TELL HER THAT SHE DOESNT HAVE TO OBJECT WHEN THEY ARE ALLOWING HER TO RESPOND
She studied under Michael McDonald...
People watch TV and think they know how court works. I've thankfully not had to deal with court but you bet your ass I'd find a lawyer and let them do the talking. That's the whole point of paying them. So you don't look like this clown.
Kids love their daddies too.
liberals hate daddies.
I remember as a baby thinking my father was exciting, more exciting than my mother because he would dress up, leave, then come back smelling stronger than he did when he left. So I was excited to find out what he did all day. As I grew up I was always interested in my father more than my mother until he went to war. Then my mother became more interesting since she went to work and came back home hours later.
Research has shown children as well as animals differentiate parents and adults through smell.
Kids are not just for moms!! There for dads as well!!
She's real worried! Yes! She's real worried!! And decides to do sweet F.A.
A court order was given! A court order was not! honoured! Hence the defence does a two finger job to the court and the father is not left holding the baby as the court suggested he should.
And after all of that mom is telling the court she's not sure if the block sitting opposite is the father of the child?
Sorry!! I think she's playing games with public money and the judge should get her (I'm really worried) act together and schedule some Judge training courses, because she's clearly not up to the task!
Crazy self-entitled princess. Never subject yourself to this type of vampire.
Lee Hague a mother who’s looking out for her baby is a self entitled princess mmm ok
Bro, I wanna divorce her and I'm not even married to her.
Why didn't judge order to see the child immediately if she's concerned or bring in Child Protective Services! I'm confused
I am too. But I think there was something that her lawyer (who quit) may have indicated the judge couldn't be impartial in this case. So this has to go to the next higher judge. Did anyone else get that?
She had filed an affidavit for disqualification against the judge. Basically, wanting a new judge. Until that motion is judged upon, it limits the judges decisions.
I agree.
Women protect women. That's it
Never. Ever. Involve CPS/DSS. Ever. They are very corrupt and literally sell children. As well as lie and fabricate evidence or hide the truth for the purpose of stealing children for profit. Children are often killed, starved, raped or simply abused in foster care.
This is appalling. Shes bitter and using her child as a tool for revenge.
It’s sad, her arrogance makes it seem like she thinks she will win just because she’s the mother.
She could have at least communicated with the father she was late. She never called him, nothing. Just expects him to just know. She never intended to hand the child over that day. That’s clear.
Poor guy. It’s sad really. She just wants to keep the baby from the father, she’s grasping at straws.
I don't know. She claims evidence that he keeps the baby hungry and even went to the emergency room. Those are things that can't be lied about. I hop3 everything works out for the baby who is a year now.
MY child-MY child 🙄 NO! it’s “OUR” child. Like some random dude took you to court to have rights to YOUR child. Btw☝️ a sure fire way to have the court find NOT in your favor, is to TELL a Judge what they did wrong and what they OUGHT to do🤣
glenn doleberry That part really bothered me. Last time I checked, it takes 2 to make baby.
@@jenniferwellman5311 Explain this to nazi-femminist 😂
Nobody is asking the most important question needed.
1342 hrs. WHERE IS THE CHILD RIGHT NOW. ?
Did anyone else notice how she had forgotten about the paternity testing UNTIL she looked at the people behind her?? With her “know-it-attitude” it’s no wonder her attorney quit on her. My heart goes out to the innocent victim here, the baby, praying for this precious angel. angel!!
AND THE FATHERRRRR what did he do wrong???? Hmmmmmmmmm both are someone to feel sorry for
Someone really needs to service the bearings in that ceiling ventilation fan.
Marlon St. John damn you for pointing that out lol. I can’t hear anything else now - even the squawking of that obnoxious bitch
Hahaha. The best comment.
Welcome to being a father in America, the system wasn't designed to help a father
He slept with her...On purpose!!! Good Lord...Let him go, Sis! That bitterness is UGLY!
Sorry-It should be-On purpose???
@@vonakenyon7981 I was being facetious. She is one of the most Manipulative Entitled Sociopath, and now, this poor man HAS TO deal with her for the foreseeable future!.