I'm so grateful for all the comments so far Mary is finding them really helpful, Please keep the comments coming, don't hold back as you'll help Mary make a very important decision
Oh wow.... I found this quite relatable as my friend once went through this I don't have much to advise but Mary I hope you heal from the hurt and become better 😢
Forgiveness does not mean allowing the abuser into your life again. Forgiveness is for your own soul, health and wellbeing. Mary take your time to grieve and feel all you need to feel, free yourself of any guilt or shame if there is any because it’s part of grieving. Allow yourself the opportunity to heal and continue to show yourself love and appreciation. You will know with God’s guidance what you should do if and when you decide. You are enough and are worthy. Blessings ❤
For Mary, she need to know if she can forgive and trust her husband again, the husband would need to think about his action and decide if he can replace the broken trust in the marriage. If the are not able to work through it, get counseling, and see if that helps. If that, they call it a day, cause a relationship without trust and loyalty from both parties not going to work out.
I have a funny question though 😅 Where did the pastor learn to do all that? 😂😂😂 Ok I'm sorry I laughed but people do have experiences before getting married, maybe Mary had none that's y it was quite difficult for her to keep up I ll always advise people do away with gaining too many experiences before getting Married 😢 As for Mary, I ll advise her to do what makes her happy, if she thinks she caught up for it and can settle her dispute with her husband, she should go for it LOVE IS NEVER ENOUGH 😢
Mary should have a conversation with her husband and find out if he's genuinely sorry. He needs to do the work to find out if he has an addiction, and seek therapy if necessary. I know it's hard to pick up the pieces when betrayed like that and she probably feels inadequate. They need to have a real conversation about his needs ( counseling may be needed), her needs and her boundaries. Can he realistically be fulfilled by her and if he feels that they can, they can work on being friends and building again while separate. They need to be prayerful and fasting and keep outsiders out of it. This is not easy and needs extra care.
Thank you so much Lily for this story It's quite relatable.... I appreciate you bringing this to us As for Mary, I think your husband loves you and you should give him another chance ❤ That's my own advise though I pray many people get to see this story at least a Million 😂
It's true heartbreaking but,,,, she firstly need to forgive him and then pray for God healing over her broken heart ,,,,,forgiveness is the first step,,,,secondly let her pray and ask God to heal her wounds,,,,,thirdly they can separate for a while then they can reconcile as long the husband decides to change his ways......May God help her through 🙏
So let me get this straight his wife doesn’t want to have sex with her husband?? He has a high sex drive and he he started cheating?? And now she feels betrayed? I’m confused fr
I wouldn't say she didn't want to but she just couldn't keep up, I think the whole thing wouldn't have happened the way it did, if they communicated properly. Thanks for watching ♥️
This story is very interesting though 😅 My advise to Mary is that she should let herself heal, take her time, heal, process and feel everything she wants to feel, the anger, the hate, I mean everything and then when she's done all that LET HER GO BACK TO HER HUSBAND 😅 I can't advise anyone to leave their man if they can still work it out I wish you well Mary and I pray RUclips recommends this video to as many as Cox things like this actually do happen a lot of times and PASTORS aren't exempted ❤
I just wished the Pastor had communicated with his wife more that would have saved their marriage but for MARY, I WOULDN'T ADVISE HER TO GIVE UP ON HER MARRIAGE ❤
I'm so grateful for all the comments so far
Mary is finding them really helpful, Please keep the comments coming, don't hold back as you'll help Mary make a very important decision
Nice one
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Oh wow.... I found this quite relatable as my friend once went through this
I don't have much to advise but Mary I hope you heal from the hurt and become better 😢
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Thanks for watching
Forgiveness does not mean allowing the abuser into your life again. Forgiveness is for your own soul, health and wellbeing.
Mary take your time to grieve and feel all you need to feel, free yourself of any guilt or shame if there is any because it’s part of grieving. Allow yourself the opportunity to heal and continue to show yourself love and appreciation. You will know with God’s guidance what you should do if and when you decide.
You are enough and are worthy.
Blessings ❤
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I appreciate your comments
For Mary, she need to know if she can forgive and trust her husband again, the husband would need to think about his action and decide if he can replace the broken trust in the marriage. If the are not able to work through it, get counseling, and see if that helps. If that, they call it a day, cause a relationship without trust and loyalty from both parties not going to work out.
Thank you so much for your comments ♥️
Mary finds it very helpful ♥️
I have a funny question though 😅
Where did the pastor learn to do all that? 😂😂😂
Ok I'm sorry I laughed but people do have experiences before getting married, maybe Mary had none that's y it was quite difficult for her to keep up
I ll always advise people do away with gaining too many experiences before getting Married 😢
As for Mary, I ll advise her to do what makes her happy, if she thinks she caught up for it and can settle her dispute with her husband, she should go for it
LOVE IS NEVER ENOUGH 😢
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Mary should have a conversation with her husband and find out if he's genuinely sorry. He needs to do the work to find out if he has an addiction, and seek therapy if necessary. I know it's hard to pick up the pieces when betrayed like that and she probably feels inadequate. They need to have a real conversation about his needs ( counseling may be needed), her needs and her boundaries. Can he realistically be fulfilled by her and if he feels that they can, they can work on being friends and building again while separate. They need to be prayerful and fasting and keep outsiders out of it. This is not easy and needs extra care.
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Thank you so much Lily for this story
It's quite relatable.... I appreciate you bringing this to us
As for Mary, I think your husband loves you and you should give him another chance ❤
That's my own advise though
I pray many people get to see this story at least a Million 😂
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It's true heartbreaking but,,,, she firstly need to forgive him and then pray for God healing over her broken heart ,,,,,forgiveness is the first step,,,,secondly let her pray and ask God to heal her wounds,,,,,thirdly they can separate for a while then they can reconcile as long the husband decides to change his ways......May God help her through 🙏
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So let me get this straight his wife doesn’t want to have sex with her husband?? He has a high sex drive and he he started cheating?? And now she feels betrayed? I’m confused fr
I wouldn't say she didn't want to but she just couldn't keep up, I think the whole thing wouldn't have happened the way it did, if they communicated properly.
Thanks for watching ♥️
This story is very interesting though 😅
My advise to Mary is that she should let herself heal, take her time, heal, process and feel everything she wants to feel, the anger, the hate, I mean everything and then when she's done all that LET HER GO BACK TO HER HUSBAND 😅
I can't advise anyone to leave their man if they can still work it out
I wish you well Mary and I pray RUclips recommends this video to as many as Cox things like this actually do happen a lot of times and PASTORS aren't exempted ❤
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I'm sure Mary will find this comment very helpful
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James realised his mistake and carried it without blaming the secretary....Mary should forgive him
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I don't know if he's sorry he got caught or he's truly sorry though but I think MARY SHOULD FORGIVE HIM
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I just wished the Pastor had communicated with his wife more that would have saved their marriage but for MARY, I WOULDN'T ADVISE HER TO GIVE UP ON HER MARRIAGE ❤
Communication is so vital in relationships, couples shouldn't joke with it
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