That was not her ex husband! Proof that ppl don’t listen. That’s Austin’s sister ex husband, who walked in the apartment with her hoodie on. The guy even said he’s their to make sure nothing happens to his ex wife while she was trying to help her brother Austin.
Don't worry, as soon as she's gone, his friends and family will quickly tell him to "man up and get over it". Thats how male victims of DV are treated in the US.
I kind of wish there was a way to follow up with this story. I hope he’s not with her anymore. She seems crazy enough to stab him in his sleep because she had a negative dream about him.
SOO true. i was literally molested/ sexually assaulted multiple times when i was a minor. i never wanted it, and i still see the main abuser around and she always smirks like "we both know what i did, and we both know i got to grab you however i wanted/while you were asleep, and there's NOTHING you can do about it."@@NateWilliams-h8q
You're absolutely right about them being abusive but at least some of them most definitely are controlling too. They're abusive, controlling girlfriends.
The part where she said “Austin I was your only friend at work” and he replied “you’re not being nice right now” was honestly heartbreaking. I just imagine a lonely guy opening up to a woman who paid attention to him, then to only end up like this. I hope he finds the right one.
Yes. Someone who gets aggressive when the police come are dangerous. It's most likely the fight, flight or freeze response to anxiety. She fights when she's anxious and she seems like an anxious person.
@@lukegoffkat Unlucky any girl close to being like that I've dated I ghost and have no idea what they're up to just happy they don't know what I'm doing either.
That first chick might have literally tried every manipulation tactic available to human beings. The amount of crazy those cops allowed her to get away with before they did something to remove her is actually kind of insulting to Austin.
She honestly sounds like she’s going through something mental. They need to put her in the hospital. It would at least give the man more time to get away.
When I heard (and also read because of the subtitles obviously) "I was your only friend at work" that just struck me as a very weird thing to say that's also very specific... idk but now i can't get the name Austin out of my head because of how much she kept repeating it.
@@0MrUnknown0 Agreed, on the weirdness of "I was your ONLY friend at work" thing. This girl probably saw he was extremely vulnerable, and easily manipulated. Who knows what kind of things she told him or lied about to get that level of control.
Bless you. Very witty comment, made me laugh out loud. 😂😂You are very courageous to have gone to war 5 times. I hope you never have the great misfortune of ever seeing your ex again. All these women seem bonkers to me and the last one was like landed wale, eek, sex with that. ❤❤😊
That was not her ex husband! Proof that ppl don’t listen. That’s Austin’s sister ex husband, who walked in the apartment with her hoodie on. The guy even said he’s their to make sure nothing happens to his ex wife while she was trying to help her brother Austin.
@KingRicho229 I've watched it 5 times, and the narrator says it's Tanya's ex-husband. The guy says he is one of her exes and that he was in touch with Austin's mom via Facebook. Austin's mom asked Tanya's ex-husband to check on her daughter, Austin's sister, as she was at the apartment to check on her brother, and the mother was concerned for her safety. You have it wrong.
@@KingRicho229It clearly states that he was Tanya's Ex-Husband. & When the police asked him who he was to this situation he responded "I'm 1 of her ex-husbands. & Austin's Mom posted on FB he had been missing for hours & that she was worried about her daughter too who had went to help. So (he) was just there to make sure Austin & his sister were safe. & Nothing happened to them." So unless the narrator got his info wrong & the guy misspoke himself when speaking to the police, then I think YOU'RE the 1 who didn't pay attention. So, please tell me where u got the info he was the Sister's Ex-husband & not Tanya's bc the video made it crystal clear that he was Tanya's Ex.
This is why it’s so important for men to be taken seriously in DV cases. So many of these guys are being so manipulated that they don’t realize it’s abuse.
YES! Remove the stigma of being a male victim of dv! Dudes you are BRAVE for seeking help. There’s no weakness in that. It takes an incredible amount of strength.
Doesn't amaze me at all, when someone who's never been held accountable suddenly is. They flip out, try to blame any man, cry try, play the but I'm just a little girl tactic, try using sex. They're preditors who will use any dirty trick they can to get what they want
@@User-nx7rs In a full video, Austin says she gets like this when she isn't on medication, so she is able to control the behavior, she just needs to stay on her meds. It's likely paranoia rather than control.
I was thinking of Dia something. Where she hired a hit man to kill her husband but when the police thwarted her plan and she was under arrest she screamed out to him to help her. But yeah, all similar crazy.
@SoftballDani85 Yes that's the one. Everyone (including her) talked about how pretty she was but I never saw it. She was a horrible actress when she got caught.
Poor Austin. He needs to get a restraining order or enter witness protection before he ends up on First 48, Snapped, or the That Chapter podcast with Mike.
@@bob494949 because some people can be manipulated and he's that kind of guy, not saying you would let yourself be in such a situation but if ever you did need someone to be there for you for anything , I hope someone would help you out. You're also incorrect, he's getting himself away from her so he actually does care about himself
'don't leave me' screamed by a violent woman is a VERY bad sign. I think leave her as far away as quickly as humanly possible would be his best advice.
That cop was wonderful telling Austin, “tell me what you want and that’s what will happen”. You can see that his girlfriend took everything from him, he looked defeated. That cop just gave him back a some control over his life.
"This is your place. You tell me what you want and that's what will happen." He made sure to phrase it in a way to empower Austin, knowing damn well it was probably the first time in a while Austin could exercise some independence.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, I know 100% how it feels I'm glad you got out, I hope you're happier now. Try to stay away from the crazy from now on, I will too!
I'm so happy you're out of that abuse! My son was out of the abusive relationship, Only because she went to jail for 6 months. Buuut, he's been gradually seeing her again. My Son's words about the subject, But Mom she's chaaaanged, no she hasn't changed or found Jesus like she says she has, it's a rouse to make him believe she's changed. His self esteem was so depleted and he was doing drugs, for the last 6 months he's got a job, he's stopped doing the m_th crap, he's gained weight, he looks so good now, and we helped him get a car, and he was working on getting his own place. But,now I'm afraid for him, she's his first relationship he's ever been in. It's hard for him to break away, I do understand that, but she used to cheat on him, call him names, she stabbed him with a screw driver! She's been arrested for domestic violence 3 other times, besides this last time she got 6 months for. I know he's grown and can make his on choices, but I will always be worried about him, I am his Mom! Men suffering through domestic violence Need a Voice too! There needs to be domestic violence shelters for men to have a safe place to go and counseling for them too, before there's more situations like the Jodi Arias, and Travis Alexander situation! We have to help these poor men suffering because they are too ashamed to admit they're abused. If you believe your family or friend is going through this kind of abuse, please say something, it could mean the difference between life and death!
The reason why it can be hard for men to leave abusive women is the embarrassment of being controlled by a woman or the fact the abuse will be flipped onto them.
That's pretty much it in a nut shell, all it takes is for you to try and leave and they make one phone call to the cops saying you did something to them and your life is over. Most dudes just live with it, until we can't anymore, there is a reason the male suicide rate is 4x higher.
@@gsp4prez Yes because a handful of videos invalidates actual real life. Do a quick google search on some of the domestic abuse stats, most female on male violence be it physical or phycological goes unreported 9/10 times. Something that would put you in jail as a male is brushed off most of the time as a female because it's considered weak to get mentally or physically assaulted by a women so it's never even reported. That's why modern feminism is a plague because it's not about equality anymore it's about pushing males as far down as they can get away with while lifting themselves up and would have most first wave feminists rolling in their graves.
That was not her ex husband! Proof that ppl don’t listen. That’s Austin’s sister ex husband, who walked in the apartment with her hoodie on. The guy even said he’s their to make sure nothing happens to his ex wife while she was trying to help her brother Austin.
He said I'm her ex husband assuming it's Karen's ex not the daughter if you actually listen he said he was there to check on the daughter instead of my ex sister or my ex not his sister so clean them ears
That was not her ex husband! Proof that ppl don’t listen. That’s Austin’s sister ex husband, who walked in the apartment with her hoodie on. The guy even said he’s their to make sure nothing happens to his ex wife while she was trying to help her brother Austin.
I guess you dont listen. He says he is one of her ex husbands and that he was on contact with Austin's mother and came to make sure Austin's sister was unharmed when she checks on her brother! @@KingRicho229
"My parents can't afford it!"😭😭😭 "I drive a Lexus!" 😭😭😭 The narrator was hilarious! "The 23 and 24 year old "kids" were arrested. For kids, they were really aggressive."😂😂
All these cases are vile, but the last just blows - the gall of those two adults in their twenties claiming they are just kids. Ridiculous. How do these morons find each other? There needs to be a Go Sterilize Me organization started.
TRUE!! EXCEPT ME THREW ME IN JAIL TOOK ME OUTTA MY MF BED OVER A SCRATCH N IT NVR BLEAD!! AT 4,000 N COUNTING!! COPS (SOME) ARE EVIL N ONNA POWERTRIP!!! 357 MAY GET HIS ATTENTION LMAO!!!
The girl that got tased is a walking red flag. She was stripping at the bar, while other men were talking, probably flirting, taking pictures and her bf got mad and left, and she got home and started a fight because he was sick of it and talking to her friends and he's the bad guy. Her bf needs to find a new, better woman. That guy is going to get arrested and put I prison because she's physically attacking him. That poor guy needs to get out now.
Shout out to the ex-husband for coming through in the clutch and looking out for the boyfriend. He looked all kinds of exhausted and seemed defeated by what she put him through. If he can stay away from her long enough, he can finally realize that he doesn't need to be with her.
I saw the original video...someone actually counted screamed austin 124 times..she needs horse tranquilizers and xanax. And he needs witness protection and change his damn name
That's the standard. When they think you're quitting while ahead, they will do everything to destroy you. That's why they hate being ghosted or broken up with via text -- because they can't punch you like that, and because texts leave evidence.
I also loved the cop saying to that little BOY what I always want to hear when the perp is told to DO something and says"WHY SHOULD I?" COP: "Because I TOLD YOU TO!". PURE GOLD!
@@darreth0104 Seems like your hearing was selective. At 54:16 the officer said, "Cause I said so, cracker". Imagine if the roles were reversed. It would be national news. BLM protesters would take to the streets.
The last girl. Okay, so you’re 24, live with your parents along with your boyfriend, and you pay for Botox and drive a Lexus? Sounds like they both need a reality check.
"If you tell my dad I'll kill you", she says. Then they let her take the baby out of the car. She just threatened to kill a man... If it was the other way around, he would go to jail and everyone knows it.
I'm gonna take a guess that if the police arrested every single person they ever heard mutter an "I'll kill you", they'd at least double their arrest count.
24 year old yelling “we’re kids”. I wonder when they think they will be adults? When I was 24 I had already been in the military, served during the Gulf War, gotten out, started a career and was married and had kids of my own. 🙄
@@colleenpeck6347 And slept with more people than NASAs computers can count. The one percenters turned the ninety-nine percenters into little tyrants by allowing them access to luxuries usually only obtainable by monarchs. First generational wealth is not for the unwise. Otherwise they end up like the Kardashians.
@@downhomesunsetright? Those scratches looked painful! Also, I get the male victim was being a bit of a shit but I was surprised with how rough the cops treated him, both in how they grabbed him in the same spot as those painful- looking marks and in giving him 2 charges. It just doesn't feel fair that she got a single battery charge whilst he got 2 obstruction charges for intervening on behalf of his abuser, which many DV victims do because of the manipulation they experience. Maybe there's no better options/actions in cases like this one but it just doesn't seem fair from an external pov
Saying that someone’s abuse is ‘only’ verbal is awful. The highest risk score on a DA case I worked had zero violence. It was all verbal, emotional and controlling. No violence whatsoever.
@@shutterbird13I’m a guy and I would rather be hit than to deal with psychological abuse. I dated girl who was the queen of mind f*cking. She knew all the right things to say. It was 10yrs ago and I was way too forgiving. After 2yrs I was done, tried everything.
I’ve been single for a decade and loving life. People put too much emphasis on being partnered up but most relationships suck and people stay in them so “they won’t be alone”. Alone is awesome. People just need to realize their own company is enough
The actual problem. Believing you’re a kid, playing the immigrant card?? These are B/S excuses they hear on TV. Parents please stop harboring drunks. Adults.
23 is still a kid, you have basically just finished college and have just entered the adult world. 85% of a 23 year olds life experience has been purely school with little to no responsibility, heck in the US you have only been legally allowed to drink for a couple years, 100% still a kid.
@@CaIastair No they’re a young adult. They’re kids compared to people in their 30s, but they’re still adults. They’ve been able to have the responsibility of working full time for 5 years.
That first lady is either tweaking hard or having some kind of mental episode. Either way, not safe for Austin. Poor guy probably never wants to hear his own name again lol
At 54:16 the officer said, "cause I said so, cracker". Imagine if the roles and races were reversed. It would be international news. People in London would be protesting with BLM signs.
"Tonya's constant repetition of Austin's name, amounting to thousands of times, begs the question: is she in need of psychological assistance? Dive into the mind of this Spokennoise woman and unravel the reasons behind her obsessive behavior."
"Austin, Austin, Austin, Austin!" She couldn't get out a single sentence without saying his name repeatedly. It was like nails on a chalkboard by the end of it
Austin needs to get a restraining order before he ends up on a true crime documentary
And that wasn't Tanya's ex-husband. He is Austin's sister's ex-husband.
Austin needs some back bone!
@@elenadattomo1167and gym also.
Restraining orders are love letters to people like her.
Austin imo is just as dumb as she is for staying with that psycho
How crazy do you have to be for your ex-husband to come and do a health check on your current boyfriend.
EXACTLY!!!!
That's Austin's sister's ex husband.But it's still something to admire, because obviously they split amicably, not an every day occurence I'd say.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
That was not her ex husband! Proof that ppl don’t listen. That’s Austin’s sister ex husband, who walked in the apartment with her hoodie on. The guy even said he’s their to make sure nothing happens to his ex wife while she was trying to help her brother Austin.
Amen!
Austin looks so exhausted in every way. I hope he gets all the support he needs to heal and be himself again.
He looks wiped out and his hair is literally standing up!
Austin gets a free drama show every day. Nobody needs that.
Don't worry, as soon as she's gone, his friends and family will quickly tell him to "man up and get over it". Thats how male victims of DV are treated in the US.
I kind of wish there was a way to follow up with this story. I hope he’s not with her anymore. She seems crazy enough to stab him in his sleep because she had a negative dream about him.
SOO true. i was literally molested/ sexually assaulted multiple times when i was a minor. i never wanted it, and i still see the main abuser around and she always smirks like "we both know what i did, and we both know i got to grab you however i wanted/while you were asleep, and there's NOTHING you can do about it."@@NateWilliams-h8q
"Austin theyre separating us Austin"
"Yeah"
"that's the idea"
Literally what manipulators say. She brainwashed him. Turned his family against him
Call this what it is - abuse. These aren't controlling girlfriends, they're abusive girlfriends. Abuse in any direction is wrong.
You're absolutely right about them being abusive but at least some of them most definitely are controlling too. They're abusive, controlling girlfriends.
@@kevinmiller4371 Yep. Abuse and control go hand in hand, for men, women, leaders, anyone.
Change the sex and we would be calling it for what it is abuse. Why don't these videos call them abusive women
Emotional blackmail is real and that is definitely what this is. Poor Austin.
It's almost like the word abuse is meant for men but yet when it's a women oh no they couldn't do something like that is total BS
The part where she said “Austin I was your only friend at work” and he replied “you’re not being nice right now” was honestly heartbreaking. I just imagine a lonely guy opening up to a woman who paid attention to him, then to only end up like this. I hope he finds the right one.
That was the cop saying that lol
@@PartnershipsForYou Still
Guys being told to "find the right one" is why they jump from abuser to abuser.
It was heartbreaking! The manipulation and emotional abuse.
Austin, let me in, Austin. Only you can prevent forest fires.
And rising sea levels.
And solve poverty, world hunger, and bring peace to the Middle East.
Only you Austin lmao😅
😂😂😂😂 y’all have me rolling!!
😂😂😂😂
15:00
She didn't know that cop was fluent and understood everything she had been saying. You could see the panic 😂
That cop was so furious he went back to speaking his main language; English.
I don't think she even cared. The officers were crearly Latinamerican so she knew that they could understand everything she said..
LMAO i speak Spanish and the whole situation was hilarious
She knew long before that multiple cops were fluent
Rumor has it she’s still screaming “!!!AUSTIN!!!” into the void to this day.
😂😂😂😂
This was all the convincing I would need to believe that 😂 just this comment. That poor void 😂
Don't forget Auston protect me
AUSTINNNNNNNN!!!!!
Austin was found the next night PLANTED in her rose garden !!
Austin needs witness protection, my god.
You are correct!!!!
We’ll be seeing her on one of those criminal shows/documentaries soon!
Someone needs to drive her to Mexico! 🇲🇽
Omg! Yes. Austin better run.
Yes. Someone who gets aggressive when the police come are dangerous. It's most likely the fight, flight or freeze response to anxiety. She fights when she's anxious and she seems like an anxious person.
When the ex-husband shows up to protect the current boyfriend, you know you're dealing with a real psycho.😂😂
Facts
I've done that! LOL!!!
😮
@@lukegoffkat Unlucky any girl close to being like that I've dated I ghost and have no idea what they're up to just happy they don't know what I'm doing either.
When the more powerful, old main character has to make a cameo to save the new main character 😂😂😂
That first chick might have literally tried every manipulation tactic available to human beings. The amount of crazy those cops allowed her to get away with before they did something to remove her is actually kind of insulting to Austin.
The cop yelling at her in Spanish was the funniest thing I've seen in weeks!😅
That man put the fear of Spanish God into her.
I loved it too!!!!!
Yes lol
and it was pretty effective
That was amazing, I had to rewind it several times because I couldn't hear everything over my own laughing LOL
The extreme emotional manipulation from the first woman was so hard to listen to
It was almost cringy
Ostin?
She honestly sounds like she’s going through something mental. They need to put her in the hospital. It would at least give the man more time to get away.
When I heard (and also read because of the subtitles obviously) "I was your only friend at work" that just struck me as a very weird thing to say that's also very specific... idk but now i can't get the name Austin out of my head because of how much she kept repeating it.
@@0MrUnknown0 Agreed, on the weirdness of "I was your ONLY friend at work" thing. This girl probably saw he was extremely vulnerable, and easily manipulated. Who knows what kind of things she told him or lied about to get that level of control.
Tanya from the first clip is exactly what my ex-wife is like. I’ve been to war 5 times and I have more nightmares about her than combat.
Bless you. Very witty comment, made me laugh out loud. 😂😂You are very courageous to have gone to war 5 times. I hope you never have the great misfortune of ever seeing your ex again. All these women seem bonkers to me and the last one was like landed wale, eek, sex with that. ❤❤😊
You must mean 5 deployments to Kuwait.
That's more sad than funny, but I laughed really hard 😂
@@ar6146honey islets time you get some peace! 5 times?? She should be taking you somewhere fun every weeked
@@krazy_karyssa3772He’s trying to get away from her! 🤦🏻♀️
I'm high af,and i could swear i just heard "austin,austin" coming out from another room...😅
lmfao!
Lmao
Kudos to the ex-husband looking out for the new boyfriend. Crazy chick, indeed.
He's the ex husband of the victims sister. Not the mental girlfriend
That was not her ex husband! Proof that ppl don’t listen. That’s Austin’s sister ex husband, who walked in the apartment with her hoodie on. The guy even said he’s their to make sure nothing happens to his ex wife while she was trying to help her brother Austin.
What is that PFP 💀
@KingRicho229 I've watched it 5 times, and the narrator says it's Tanya's ex-husband. The guy says he is one of her exes and that he was in touch with Austin's mom via Facebook. Austin's mom asked Tanya's ex-husband to check on her daughter, Austin's sister, as she was at the apartment to check on her brother, and the mother was concerned for her safety. You have it wrong.
@@KingRicho229It clearly states that he was Tanya's Ex-Husband. & When the police asked him who he was to this situation he responded "I'm 1 of her ex-husbands. & Austin's Mom posted on FB he had been missing for hours & that she was worried about her daughter too who had went to help. So (he) was just there to make sure Austin & his sister were safe. & Nothing happened to them." So unless the narrator got his info wrong & the guy misspoke himself when speaking to the police, then I think YOU'RE the 1 who didn't pay attention. So, please tell me where u got the info he was the Sister's Ex-husband & not Tanya's bc the video made it crystal clear that he was Tanya's Ex.
This is why it’s so important for men to be taken seriously in DV cases. So many of these guys are being so manipulated that they don’t realize it’s abuse.
Seriously, she is a dangerous and mentally unstable.
Imagine if the cops asked a FEMALE DV victim what SHE did to "start" it?
We simply don't care about men here. And that is eventually going to bite us in the ass.
YES! Remove the stigma of being a male victim of dv! Dudes you are BRAVE for seeking help. There’s no weakness in that. It takes an incredible amount of strength.
@robertbarker5474 they do all the time...
Doesn't make either okay.
If we were to do a drinking game every time she said Austin we all be passed out drunk before the next clip 🤣🤣
I have no desire to die from acholic poisoning 😂
Bruh we would have alcohol poisoning in 30 secs
😅😂😅😂😅😂
I counted at least 269 times
😂😂😂😂😂, thanks for the comment, I had a good laugh
These grown women throwing toddler tantrums never cease to amaze me.
Doesn't amaze me at all, when someone who's never been held accountable suddenly is. They flip out, try to blame any man, cry try, play the but I'm just a little girl tactic, try using sex. They're preditors who will use any dirty trick they can to get what they want
@@ItossSallad That’s not what a predator is, sounds like you just don’t like women and need an excuse to type up some venom towards them. 🤦🏻♀️
It's insane
Ya they were never told no
That first lady is dangerous
That first lady is kookoo.
Many of them are. And we're not interested in helping men in these situations.
I hope Austin figured it out.
More like psychotic
@@User-nx7rs In a full video, Austin says she gets like this when she isn't on medication, so she is able to control the behavior, she just needs to stay on her meds. It's likely paranoia rather than control.
Tanya reminds me of ‘Jodi Arias’.
And we all know how that ended.
I hope Austin has someone keeping an eye on him.
I was thinking of Dia something. Where she hired a hit man to kill her husband but when the police thwarted her plan and she was under arrest she screamed out to him to help her. But yeah, all similar crazy.
@@bonniesimpson1636wasn’t her name like Dalia or something? Dalia Dippo something.
@SoftballDani85 Yes that's the one. Everyone (including her) talked about how pretty she was but I never saw it. She was a horrible actress when she got caught.
I was thinking the same thing.
I swear I thought that too!!
Austin….run bro. We are here for you.
The ex-husband coming to protect the current boyfriend, that man is amazing
He came because the mothers daughter was there, and the mother was concerned about the daughter too
Austin is gonna have PTSD everytime someone calls his name
Guy won't be able to go to Texas without wanting to lock himself in a room.
He'll change it to "Walter"...😅
I don't even know if you're joking but I think this is literally true
@birgittkellermann1420 waltuh
@@jasonfrost6448lmao
I love how smart the 2nd dude is. He knows he has to break up and he knows he needs backup to not go to prison from defending himself.
He knows what she will do, so he needs witnesses.
Bro made the right move having the cops there as a witness
Dude I hate how the cops didn’t back him like yeah we got you bro
That man really said “ it’s not the first time, but it’s been a long time”.. it’s just sad. No one deserves being abused.
nam kitty flash backs
230 liks and 1 reply lrt me fix this
on god
As the husband was trying to leave his wife claimed she was going to make his life impossible. From what I could see that ship has already sailed.
Poor Austin. He needs to get a restraining order or enter witness protection before he ends up on First 48, Snapped, or the That Chapter podcast with Mike.
“Wait, Austin? THE Austin?” Literally every person in that apartment complex when the met Austin from now until the end of time.
That first woman is deliriously toxic - I fear for Austin’s well-being if he doesn’t get far away from her, and clearly - so does his mom!!!
Maniacal insanity, the first time a woman ever acted like that with me would be the last time I ever have contact with her, life's too short.
He doesnt care about himself, why should anyone else?
@@bob494949 because some people can be manipulated and he's that kind of guy, not saying you would let yourself be in such a situation but if ever you did need someone to be there for you for anything , I hope someone would help you out. You're also incorrect, he's getting himself away from her so he actually does care about himself
I think I read that abusive women are extremely likely to kill their partners.
"Austin hes smiling" had me dying 😅😂🤣😅😭
To this day, Austin is still smiling 😃
3:24 you’re welcome
'don't leave me' screamed by a violent woman is a VERY bad sign. I think leave her as far away as quickly as humanly possible would be his best advice.
Strong & Independant 😂😂
That cop was wonderful telling Austin, “tell me what you want and that’s what will happen”. You can see that his girlfriend took everything from him, he looked defeated. That cop just gave him back a some control over his life.
He had no good father and became a simp
"This is your place. You tell me what you want and that's what will happen."
He made sure to phrase it in a way to empower Austin, knowing damn well it was probably the first time in a while Austin could exercise some independence.
I’m a victim of domestic abuse from my ex wife. Glad to see that women can get arrested
I'm glad you were able to get out.
W mans 😊
I'm so sorry that happened to you, I know 100% how it feels I'm glad you got out, I hope you're happier now. Try to stay away from the crazy from now on, I will too!
I'm so happy you're out of that abuse!
My son was out of the abusive relationship, Only because she went to jail for 6 months.
Buuut, he's been gradually seeing her again.
My Son's words about the subject, But Mom she's chaaaanged, no she hasn't changed or found Jesus like she says she has, it's a rouse to make him believe she's changed.
His self esteem was so depleted and he was doing drugs, for the last 6 months he's got a job, he's stopped doing the m_th crap, he's gained weight, he looks so good now, and we helped him get a car, and he was working on getting his own place.
But,now I'm afraid for him, she's his first relationship he's ever been in.
It's hard for him to break away,
I do understand that, but she used to cheat on him, call him names, she stabbed him with a screw driver! She's been arrested for domestic violence 3 other times, besides this last time she got 6 months for.
I know he's grown and can make his on choices, but I will always be worried about him, I am his Mom!
Men suffering through domestic violence Need a Voice too!
There needs to be domestic violence shelters for men to have a safe place to go and counseling for them too, before there's more situations like the Jodi Arias, and Travis Alexander situation!
We have to help these poor men suffering because they are too ashamed to admit they're abused.
If you believe your family or friend is going through this kind of abuse, please say something, it could mean the difference between life and death!
“AUSTIN, HE’S SMILING” yeah cause this is ridiculously funny
The reason why it can be hard for men to leave abusive women is the embarrassment of being controlled by a woman or the fact the abuse will be flipped onto them.
Or worse they share assets so leaving will be rocky
That's pretty much it in a nut shell, all it takes is for you to try and leave and they make one phone call to the cops saying you did something to them and your life is over.
Most dudes just live with it, until we can't anymore, there is a reason the male suicide rate is 4x higher.
@@CaIastairwe just watched numerous videos that that didn’t happen. The woman was taken to jail.
@@gsp4prez Yes because a handful of videos invalidates actual real life.
Do a quick google search on some of the domestic abuse stats, most female on male violence be it physical or phycological goes unreported 9/10 times.
Something that would put you in jail as a male is brushed off most of the time as a female because it's considered weak to get mentally or physically assaulted by a women so it's never even reported.
That's why modern feminism is a plague because it's not about equality anymore it's about pushing males as far down as they can get away with while lifting themselves up and would have most first wave feminists rolling in their graves.
And most of the time the men stay to protect the children from the cra cra mum, if they go they know the kids are going to take the brunt
If I hear 'Austin' one more time....I'm gonna scream like Tanya 😂😂
Fr, I'd join ya 😂 Get all up in her face shouting her name, see how she likes that
Take one shot for every time you hear 'austin'
Me: 'passes out'
underrated comment
She said 121 times, so yeah I agree
@@bettergetdave Then I would probably be dead by the time she gets to 1 billion
....when your ex husband is sent to protect your new boyfriend from you...I think it's time to reevaluate your life decisions....she's crazy
One of the legit crazy ex’s oh my right 😮
That was not her ex husband! Proof that ppl don’t listen. That’s Austin’s sister ex husband, who walked in the apartment with her hoodie on. The guy even said he’s their to make sure nothing happens to his ex wife while she was trying to help her brother Austin.
That was Austin’s sisters ex husband
He said I'm her ex husband assuming it's Karen's ex not the daughter if you actually listen he said he was there to check on the daughter instead of my ex sister or my ex not his sister so clean them ears
Take a shot for everytime she says Austin, you may end up in Austin, Texas
Great, now I'm drunk and think I can fix her 😂
That would be something, since I'm in Finland. But totally possible😅
The baby in the second case is in danger of harm from his crazy AF mother. I got a bad feeling about this.
Any mother using her baby as a bargaining chip is not a mother.
She seems like the type to harm her child just to get even with her husband.
Gotta love the ex-husband stepping in to help get the current bf out of an abusive situation. This is what we need more of.
That was not her ex husband! Proof that ppl don’t listen. That’s Austin’s sister ex husband, who walked in the apartment with her hoodie on. The guy even said he’s their to make sure nothing happens to his ex wife while she was trying to help her brother Austin.
I guess you dont listen. He says he is one of her ex husbands and that he was on contact with Austin's mother and came to make sure Austin's sister was unharmed when she checks on her brother!
@@KingRicho229
"My parents can't afford it!"😭😭😭
"I drive a Lexus!" 😭😭😭
The narrator was hilarious!
"The 23 and 24 year old "kids" were arrested. For kids, they were really aggressive."😂😂
Tanya is unhinged, manipulative, and emotionally abusive. Dude needs to get far far away from her.
Lord, Austin needs hugs 🫂
You can tell he was beaten down.
The echo of Austin’s name in her very awkward anxious voice is going to stick with me for a while usually ! Austin must be a God of some sort 😂
Austin Austin Austin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She makes him feel like a god for the sake of manipulating him. It’s how she consumes her victims.
If a man did half this he would have been arrested in the first minute
All these cases are vile, but the last just blows - the gall of those two adults in their twenties claiming they are just kids. Ridiculous. How do these morons find each other? There needs to be a Go Sterilize Me organization started.
TRUE!! EXCEPT ME THREW ME IN JAIL TOOK ME OUTTA MY MF BED OVER A SCRATCH N IT NVR BLEAD!! AT 4,000 N COUNTING!! COPS (SOME) ARE EVIL N ONNA POWERTRIP!!! 357 MAY GET HIS ATTENTION LMAO!!!
Meh they get released immediately lol
And there is the reason they act this way! We don't treat them equal, we treat them special! Their spoiled, so they act like spoiled brats!
Yes. Complete double standard. , I feel these women got too many chances!!
Austin! Run Austin! Get out Austin! Move Austin! AUSTIN! Move far, far away from her, Austin! AUSTIN!
I know I shouldn't laugh, but her shouting Austin had me in stitches
I think the second cop had every right to yell at that phyco ...
*psycho 📚
Absolutely not. If anyone should be able to control their temper and remain impartial, it’s the fucking police.
@@Poeticfloetic we know what they meant
Well, it did FINALLY get her attention and a bit more cooperation.
Absolutely Agree!! I loved that cop putting her in check!
"We're Kids! We're Kids!" No boo, you're adults
When you treat them like kids, they yell about being adults. When you treat them like adults, they yell about being kids...
I felt so bad for that guy...😢 he didnt realize how toxic his girlfriend really was
At 54:16 the officer said, "Cause I said so, cracker". Imagine if the situation were reversed. It would be national news. Welcome to diversity!
Lmao they're 21-22 but they're kids still
@sweettoothgirl honestly i don't feel bad at all, that guy is also extremely toxic if he sides with her
She clearly just wants to tell Austin about an extended warranty that is about to expire
AUSTIN, AUSTIN RENEW IT AUSTIN! YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN RENEW YOUR CARS EXTENDED WARRANTY!!!
@@wanderingwill4138😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅
Ha ha ha!🤪
😂😂😂 genius! Well played.
😂😂😂😂
The girl that got tased is a walking red flag. She was stripping at the bar, while other men were talking, probably flirting, taking pictures and her bf got mad and left, and she got home and started a fight because he was sick of it and talking to her friends and he's the bad guy. Her bf needs to find a new, better woman. That guy is going to get arrested and put I prison because she's physically attacking him. That poor guy needs to get out now.
man I never wanna hear the name Austin ever again lol
I'm gonna name my kid Austin lmao
@@KnockedupNoutname them AUSTIN!!!
Same!
Neither does Austin. Just guessing...
I never want to go to Austin, tx lol
Take a shot Everytime she says "AUSTIN!"
I'd die 😂
I don't know anyone that can even come close to drinking that much!🤣🤣
No thank you, I want to live.
im pissed after that many shots
Don't think my liver would survive xD
I hope Austin got a restraining order. The GF sounds insane and wouldn’t surprise me if she attempted to take him out.
Another Jodi Arias. Austin needs to sleep with one eye open.
Yes Glenn Close/Fatal Attraction crazy
Shout out to the ex-husband for coming through in the clutch and looking out for the boyfriend. He looked all kinds of exhausted and seemed defeated by what she put him through.
If he can stay away from her long enough, he can finally realize that he doesn't need to be with her.
Take a shot for every time she says austin. You'll be dead from alcohol poisoning within minutes of this video.
They won’t be able to keep up.
😊😅😅😅
I sure wish I had a girl as well composed and sensible as the first girl.
I saw the original video...someone actually counted screamed austin 124 times..she needs horse tranquilizers and xanax. And he needs witness protection and change his damn name
Yep😂😂😂
This girl is legitimately insane. Austin needs to run for his life.
22 and 23? You are far from kids, you may have the mentality of one but you are far from a child.
"We're just kids! We're just kids!", shouted the 24 year old woman, desperately trying to stop the cops from arresting them.
She will NEVER let Austin leave her without dire consequences.
That's the standard. When they think you're quitting while ahead, they will do everything to destroy you. That's why they hate being ghosted or broken up with via text -- because they can't punch you like that, and because texts leave evidence.
You got that right hitzoneproductions! There used to be insane asylums for these ppl! Pret-ty scary! 😮
Nah she's fattening him up so she can wear his skin as a suit.
Anyone notice how quick the two “adults” playing grown up started claiming they’re kids when it got real in the last case😂
I also loved the cop saying to that little BOY what I always want to hear when the perp is told to DO something and says"WHY SHOULD I?" COP: "Because I TOLD YOU TO!". PURE GOLD!
@@darreth0104 Seems like your hearing was selective. At 54:16 the officer said, "Cause I said so, cracker". Imagine if the roles were reversed. It would be national news. BLM protesters would take to the streets.
"Drive me somewhere safe, Austin!" is what I'd shout everytime I see Austin walking down the street.
I feel so bad for the first guy like she was so manipulative to him
i'm surprised the sister didn't lay hands on her to be honest
Holy shit watching her get lit up in Spanish gave me goosebumps! I didn't understand a word of it but I knew EXACTLY what he was saying lol
When a Deputy starts shouting at you in Spanish, you know you messed up.
The last girl. Okay, so you’re 24, live with your parents along with your boyfriend, and you pay for Botox and drive a Lexus? Sounds like they both need a reality check.
"If you tell my dad I'll kill you", she says. Then they let her take the baby out of the car. She just threatened to kill a man...
If it was the other way around, he would go to jail and everyone knows it.
Wow. Out of everyone in the entire video, youre going to knit pick the officers? Ok
I'm gonna take a guess that if the police arrested every single person they ever heard mutter an "I'll kill you", they'd at least double their arrest count.
@@deecal2001Tell me how you'd react if someone violent said the same to you. This isn't really a nitpick.
@@deecal2001 Tell me you're an entitled woman without saying you're an entitled woman
That was my immediate thought. If a man said it to her I doubt it would be so easily ignored
Idk why but the cop snapping at the second woman made me laugh entirely too hard
For me, it was cathartic. We all want to scream at people like that... That cop was our mouthpiece😂
Austin: "I dont even know this woman. My name is Dustin!"
Sitting here fuckin ROOTING for Austin to just go downstairs and talk
I think the 1st one needs a restraining order.
No. What she needs is jail time. She knows what she's doing.
She needs a straight jacket and a padded room.
She’s WAY too much like Jodi Arias. Dude needs to sleep with one eye open.
She needs medication
Unless you've been in this situation you can't imagine how incredibly intense it is
Run Austin and don't look back!!! Good luck to you
Oh yeah, poor Austin needs to head for the hills!! She reminded me of Jodi Arias.
The way it cut to him pepper spraying her, I was NOT expecting that lmfaoo it was such close range 😭😭
Was looking for this comment😳😳 they sprayed it so close.. and so much ouchhh
🎶It's raining pepper spray HALLELUJAH, it's raining pepper spray AMEN!🎶 😂😂
It’s so good to see this. Men don’t get taken seriously when they are being abused.
The first girl is so damn scared because she knows if Austin shows his body she will be arrested
24 year old yelling “we’re kids”. I wonder when they think they will be adults? When I was 24 I had already been in the military, served during the Gulf War, gotten out, started a career and was married and had kids of my own. 🙄
Seriously! Exactly what I was thinking lol. Also- thank you for your service!
adults like you are so baller, thank you for your service sir!
nowadays they cry "Adult brains dont fully develop until 25 so we cant be held accountable"
I moved out and was living in another country as an adult at 16
congrats, do you want a trophy for having a normal life? must be a nice view in that ivory tower
That Cop:"It's too late to apologize, Pepper Spraaaaaaay"
15:23 they dont have translated subtitles but we dont need them, that rage was universal
paying for botox and fake nails, but living with parents..
Sighs...raise adults, not children
Wigs, hair extensions, spider 🕷 eyelashes 👀, name brand clothes, Uber Eats, new cars, and a horrible work ethic.
@@colleenpeck6347 And slept with more people than NASAs computers can count. The one percenters turned the ninety-nine percenters into little tyrants by allowing them access to luxuries usually only obtainable by monarchs. First generational wealth is not for the unwise. Otherwise they end up like the Kardashians.
Well, rude awakening for the last girl.... 24 is NOT A KID. WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD
sweety if she is F%$#ing she is not a kid.. period.
Those were vicious scratches too!
@@downhomesunsetright? Those scratches looked painful! Also, I get the male victim was being a bit of a shit but I was surprised with how rough the cops treated him, both in how they grabbed him in the same spot as those painful- looking marks and in giving him 2 charges. It just doesn't feel fair that she got a single battery charge whilst he got 2 obstruction charges for intervening on behalf of his abuser, which many DV victims do because of the manipulation they experience. Maybe there's no better options/actions in cases like this one but it just doesn't seem fair from an external pov
At 54:16 the officer said, "Cause I said so, cracker". Could you imagine if the situation were reversed? Welcome to diverse America!
Saying that someone’s abuse is ‘only’ verbal is awful. The highest risk score on a DA case I worked had zero violence. It was all verbal, emotional and controlling. No violence whatsoever.
I would even go so far as to say verbal, emotional, and psychological abuse are forms of violence.
@@shutterbird13I’m a guy and I would rather be hit than to deal with psychological abuse. I dated girl who was the queen of mind f*cking. She knew all the right things to say. It was 10yrs ago and I was way too forgiving. After 2yrs I was done, tried everything.
@shutterbird13 I would agree. My therapist said I was a abuse victim.
Abusive women finally getting called on their bs is the best thing ever.
I just love it when grown a*s adults yell for mummy 😅
Watching this reminds me of why I've been single for the last 15 years. PTSD.
Or rather PMSD "Post Marriage Stress Disorder."
You are better off being completely alone for the rest of your life than you are with someone like this at your side.
Same, sorry dude😢
I’ve been single for a decade and loving life. People put too much emphasis on being partnered up but most relationships suck and people stay in them so “they won’t be alone”. Alone is awesome. People just need to realize their own company is enough
Still saying they're kids at the age of 23. Definitely the problem.
And she was 24😂😂😂 yes, very strange.
The actual problem. Believing you’re a kid, playing the immigrant card?? These are B/S excuses they hear on TV. Parents please stop harboring drunks. Adults.
Welcome to the future. What, you thought we'd be at widely distributed flying cars and an end to world hunger? Nah, we return to monke.
23 is still a kid, you have basically just finished college and have just entered the adult world.
85% of a 23 year olds life experience has been purely school with little to no responsibility, heck in the US you have only been legally allowed to drink for a couple years, 100% still a kid.
@@CaIastair No they’re a young adult. They’re kids compared to people in their 30s, but they’re still adults. They’ve been able to have the responsibility of working full time for 5 years.
That first lady is either tweaking hard or having some kind of mental episode. Either way, not safe for Austin. Poor guy probably never wants to hear his own name again lol
24 year olds are not kids, stop enabling your children to be horrible people.
Couples in their 20's saying they're kids😂
He said “we’re just F’ing little kids, I swear!” SO YOU’RE A PEDO??
It’s time these “kids” learn what assault and domestic abuse means.
Millennials consider themselves kids until they hit 40!🤫
At 54:16 the officer said, "cause I said so, cracker". Imagine if the roles and races were reversed. It would be international news. People in London would be protesting with BLM signs.
23:31 "its so hot... its so hot" 🤣 im sorry but that shit had me crying hahaha
As hot as it feels to have patches of hair removed by hand 😂
Austin is such a chill dude, he don't deserve this
The "The 23 and 24 year old kids" narration was gold 🙌
She is 24 and saying we are just kids.... there is your problem
"Tonya's constant repetition of Austin's name, amounting to thousands of times, begs the question: is she in need of psychological assistance? Dive into the mind of this Spokennoise woman and unravel the reasons behind her obsessive behavior."
"Austin, Austin, Austin, Austin!" She couldn't get out a single sentence without saying his name repeatedly. It was like nails on a chalkboard by the end of it
Just because you're 24 at home doesn't make you kids. Mom and dad, shame on you.
It was her boyfriend saying she's just a kid
I hope Tanya feel nice and safe in whatever padded cell she finds herself living.
😅😂😅😂😅😂
The worse part is that she probably found a new "Austin" to wear down emotionally, women like this are emotional vampires.
Did she just say "I can show you the phones on my video" 🤣🤣
Man, I never want to hear the name Austin ever again, lol
SHE'S A FRUITCAKE, RUN AUSTIN, RUN !!!
😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Fruitcake makes her sound lighthearted and wild.she is crazy and dangerous