Chosen! You Always Knew They Never Liked You But Ignored It

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  • @Scarybibletruth
    @Scarybibletruth Год назад +245

    Chosen are brutally rejected but we are protected and that's what matters.

    • @therealnaehall
      @therealnaehall Год назад +30

      I was just telling someone this the other day. I feel well protected by God because of those who rejected me and continue to reject me 👌🏾💜

    • @Scarybibletruth
      @Scarybibletruth Год назад +18

      @@therealnaehall Give thanks and blessings to you it's not easy but we made it chosen.

    • @ascend3654
      @ascend3654 Год назад +9

      so true. it always made me sad and confused. we should come together

    • @Scarybibletruth
      @Scarybibletruth Год назад +9

      @@ascend3654 I'm going through much envy that cost me too houses I'm almost on the street but I hold term blessings.

    • @voluptuouslyme9732
      @voluptuouslyme9732 Год назад +3

      @@Scarybibletruth🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾God got you. Stay strong

  • @fortheloveofgod7258
    @fortheloveofgod7258 Год назад +245

    🛡No weapon formed against me shall prosper.🛡
    🙏🏽It is done.

  • @joycehagins9900
    @joycehagins9900 Год назад +241

    My oldest sister never liked me as a child. She was always fake. I don’t like dealing with fake people.

    • @reneearmstead5116
      @reneearmstead5116 Год назад +6

      Mine either,we got closer as we got older.Didnt last long because she became very ill and has since passed away

    • @crokerblack8878
      @crokerblack8878 Год назад

      Sometimes what sucks?

    • @yvonnetillmanyattnet
      @yvonnetillmanyattnet Год назад +17

      You can definitely feel the fakeness

    • @joycehagins9900
      @joycehagins9900 Год назад +2

      @Ourania Sakellariou we didn’t have same father.

    • @reneearmstead5116
      @reneearmstead5116 Год назад +3

      @Ourania Sakellariou no that's not the case. All three of us had chores, but since you seem to think that you know so much, our Parents had to intervine on both my older brothers and myself behalf

  • @Str888_CHAOS_Warrior
    @Str888_CHAOS_Warrior Год назад +222

    Facts! I always knew my mom deep down never really liked me and my sister envy me. I felt this my entire life but shook it off like naw their my family. One thing I learnt when I awakened is your family be your biggest enemy when your the black sheep. Don’t trust them stay from around them Mom dad sister cousin grandma it don’t matter if they don’t vibrate high keep your distance. Cause the matrix use them to try and break the chosen.

    • @angelabachert7738
      @angelabachert7738 Год назад +25

      Exactly. Their actions reveal themselves. Envy is rottoness to the bones. I've been stalked for 15 yrs with major stealth. They're very sick ppl. If you were a person that felt good about yourself you would never feel the necessity to observe somebody else's life 24/7
      Absolutely insane & toxic. You separate from these ppl yet they go above & beyond to stay in your life by any desperate measures. 💯

    • @Kansasboy85
      @Kansasboy85 Год назад +6

      Very well said!

    • @neffi17
      @neffi17 Год назад +4

      Yes absolutely, friend ❤️🖤💚👏🏾👍🏾🫶🏾

    • @pauletteparker7225
      @pauletteparker7225 Год назад +3

      "TRUTH ".❤💔

    • @bruceleewize
      @bruceleewize Год назад +1

      @Goddess_Naatu777. The matrix uses them( satan's kids, his agents) to try to break us, bcuz we as so-called black people in america are really-Neo, the ones- (the true Jews) spoken of in the Holy Bible. We are from the tribe of Judah, and along with the other 11 tribes make up the 12 lost tribes of Israel. We are the Israelites ( The Heavenly Father's children), the other 17 nations on earth are the gentiles (heathens) as told by the Holy Bible KJV. We must follow the 613 laws, statues and commandments given by God to our ancestor Moses in order to truly be protected. If not, the Most High Creator says HE does not know us, and HE doesn't hear our prayers. Despite what we may tell ourselves or what the lying, false narrative the christian religion tells us...God has made it plain and clear that only 144,000 of us Israelites will make it to heaven. That's 12,000 people from each of the 12 tribes= 144,000. Outside of that, everybody else on earth will be destroyed at judgement day. All the leaders of all the other 17 nations outside of us Israelites, know that we are truly The Heavenly Father's chosen seed, we are the only ones that don't know this fact, yet ... They are jealous of us, that's why we are the most hated people of all. Same reason why they hated our brother the Holy Savior, who is also from our tribe of Judah. If u want to know who all the 12 lost tribes are on earth today, just let me know and I will tell u. The Holy Bible is our history book as well as our family tree, and it only speaks about us (the real Hebrews) and how we interacted with the other 17 nations of people on earth. All praise to The Most High Creator and our Holy Savior for ever and ever!

  • @queendredz0777
    @queendredz0777 Год назад +139

    My mother and younger sister is jealous of me. My mother has continued to put me down and sabotage anything that came for me and not my sister but I grew up in Jamaica with a family friend. I have attempted suicide due to feeling like the black sheep bur now I realize it's because I am chosen. I am proud to release my narcissist parent who want to judge me but not themselves or the role they have played in my drinking. I am proud of coming through the fire with love, empathy and a beautiful soul. In my awakening, I have released them. You can't miss what you never had... Chhavi your are a shinning light for those traveling on the same path. I am thankful to the Universe for your awakening... stay the course...

    • @Str888_CHAOS_Warrior
      @Str888_CHAOS_Warrior Год назад +11

      We got the same story❤ 💪

    • @cherylpalmerthereal7339
      @cherylpalmerthereal7339 Год назад +4

      @@Str888_CHAOS_Warrior I #third to that so sad dow. I hold my head high still and say fuk them and keep going #Ladies Love is Love💞💞🥰🥰🌺🌺

    • @kimlee7260
      @kimlee7260 Год назад +1

      Blessings sister ❤

    • @sharonlynnanderson0229
      @sharonlynnanderson0229 Год назад

      She really is the best!

    • @angelabachert7738
      @angelabachert7738 Год назад

      Omg. Narcissists are absolutely thee worst. They consume themselves to judge you cause they 're so rotten to the core & they know this. I escaped one & to this very day he still Stalks me. They are disgusting abusive people. But I guarantee you,your Mother put on a show in front of others. They go above & beyond to act like they're so awesome to those who you know!! Insidious vile creatures. That's why mine became me in essence. They envy you so they become you & shed their skin!! NEXT...

  • @QueenDTheTruthseeker
    @QueenDTheTruthseeker Год назад +141

    For as long as I can remember, it's been this way with my family. I've always been the "different one" and they treated me as if I was crazy even though I was academically the smartest in the family. It was hurtful. Now I am more spiritually aware and have had to come to the realization some of them were and still are intimidated and jealous, even my mother which still hurts me to this day. But now I realize I am better without them.

    • @MsNique511
      @MsNique511 Год назад +10

      @Queen D The Truthseeker…for DECADES Sis, I GETS it! ALL involved ALWAYS knew we were & are da Top Shottas (Top Shooters). I just wasted so much time seeking their approval, when ALL along I came here with The Most High’s Seal of Approval & Degrees of Heightened Awareness of Being! Now they ALL really hate us…😂. Stay in celebratory mode. 1Love

    • @candybastet
      @candybastet Год назад +11

      Your mother is just the vehicle you came through to enter this reality space...
      It seems to be the luck of the draw whether or not you score a good one! Alas, I too, had a jealous and vindictive natured one. Nothing hurts worse.
      💪😽💜

    • @angelabachert7738
      @angelabachert7738 Год назад +7

      They have no idea how juvenile & pathetic they look. It burns them that we are who we are. We don't have to "perform " I'm shocked that grown ass adults act like that. I'd be so embarrassed. They're like roaches cackling in the dark behind closed doors...then you open the door...you're the bright light...then the roaches scatter!!😂❤

    • @freddrickwilson6527
      @freddrickwilson6527 Год назад +2

      I understand sista,be free be free

    • @flowforever9084
      @flowforever9084 Год назад +3

      I've gone through this....made the best grades. It's always that negative talk towards you.

  • @flygod0177
    @flygod0177 Год назад +240

    Omgoodness… that happened to me in middle school, 8th grade graduation.. I was clapping for everyone & when I walked across the stage no one clapped for me. I felt so bad.. I took it like I offended everyone when I truly had no idea. I went thru this so many times. When I graduated from cosmetology school. No one would show up for me. Sistar you spoke a word!! I felt all this message. So true!!!
    💚💙💜🙌🏾🥰
    Now, I gives no fuuuuuuk!!😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤ I love me& I’m More than enuff..
    I💚💙💜🥰🙌🏾🙏🏾

    • @kayndidi
      @kayndidi Год назад +23

      Your energy is Beautiful and yes you are enough💙

    • @reneearmstead5116
      @reneearmstead5116 Год назад +18

      Been there,keep on doing you🎉😊✌🏿

    • @flygod0177
      @flygod0177 Год назад +8

      @@kayndidi gratitude 💚💙💜🙌🏾👌🏿

    • @candybastet
      @candybastet Год назад +15

      What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger...oh this world! 🙌💜

    • @TamaraGarrettAlpha
      @TamaraGarrettAlpha Год назад +17

      Sorry for this darling. I'm glad that you shook those haters off. 💯

  • @sleepingbeautyoracle
    @sleepingbeautyoracle Год назад +16

    My own mother didn’t clap for me at my high school graduation. I remember looking out in the crowd at her and she had a very evil look on her face. My mother never finish school she was a drop out. People I thought didn’t like me was clapping and my son father who’s no longer here 🕊️🤍 was clapping the hardest 😢

  • @sheilagrayman7147
    @sheilagrayman7147 Год назад +4

    I did not go to my mother's funeral and everyone saw it!🌹 I told her once, that she did not believe in the judgment day! Her face...!
    Yet, we must let GO without hate!
    And stay, away!🌹
    Enjoy our lives!
    YES.💖🌺

  • @anonymousgirl799
    @anonymousgirl799 Год назад +42

    Many in my family are Ain't Shit. Once you see it, you see it. I spoke out as a little girl and was shushed about telling the truth. Can't stop a grown ass woman for spitting the truth now, and right to their faces. I keep my distance from those who don't treat me right, as it is. Kick rocks!

    • @beverleyreid7572
      @beverleyreid7572 Год назад +3

      Sounds like my experience. My goodness. It is exhausting though.

    • @LysaChampione
      @LysaChampione 9 месяцев назад

      U too? Good for you.... know it's hard... but it's the best!!! Blessings 💖

  • @ExtraterrestrialEmpress
    @ExtraterrestrialEmpress Год назад +69

    IM CLAPPING FOR YOU 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
    I remember my “parents” came to my nursing school graduation. No one said congratulations I could sense the jealousy. None of my siblings came. All of them tried to take me out in many ways. I had the craziest childhood ever. Trafficked as a child, molested by family. As soon as I told my story last year the police showed up outside my house 🤣 helicopters hovering and all. I was even falsely arrested after a family member assaulted me & I called the cops. The same cops that been stalking me for years pulling me over without cause trying to make me feel inferior to them. I thank The Most High for protecting me through it all. I saved my “mothers” life, she came back from rehab and slapped me in my face. I’m watching them lose their minds & everything else. For some reason Yahweh wants me to see this, all I want is to get away! They still attack me spiritually EVERY night & I’ve been dreaming of many funerals. There jealousy is KILLING them, literally.

    • @dareo25
      @dareo25 Год назад +2

      wow ...I see my same family members losing their minds. Just about all of them.

    • @MsDera81
      @MsDera81 Год назад

      Sounds like you have a book to write. Get some benefit from your suffering.

    • @shardaswitzer6903
      @shardaswitzer6903 Год назад +3

      Wow! Keep it up family, I love you!

    • @ExtraterrestrialEmpress
      @ExtraterrestrialEmpress Год назад

      @@shardaswitzer6903 ❤️🥰💫

  • @theverbalantidotechannel9294
    @theverbalantidotechannel9294 Год назад +31

    Yes, it's you the reason they did not clap for you is that they always knew who you were/ They knew you were always on a higher plateau than them you did not need them to clap for you The Angels would not allow devils to worship you, even though they were your sure your family is not your true family and friends. THE CHOSEN 1

    • @zinzimdedetyana1234
      @zinzimdedetyana1234 Год назад +5

      Well said, I could not have said it any better myself. 🙌🙌🙌👌👌👌. All the chosen one's have all been through hell but look at us now, we are back taking up our rightful place in the Royal House as Supreme Divine God's and Goddesses! Ase'😅🙏🙏🙏

    • @ascend3654
      @ascend3654 Год назад

      the chosen are chosen by the devil. why? because being an openly honest and genuinely loving person will cause unity. unity is extremely dangerous to the matrix. this matrix was designed by the spirits

  • @FantasiesIntuitiveTarot
    @FantasiesIntuitiveTarot Год назад +9

    "Bridgett"
    I never experienced genuine support for anything I presented to my family

  • @gwendlynwatson9852
    @gwendlynwatson9852 Год назад +74

    Girl you are telling my story! I always knew I was different. The Elders in my community knew and shared this information in a positive light. It was my sisters and my father that were the wicked ones. I released all of those people from my space. What a relief. I wish I would have cut them off years ago. The peace and love I found in myself is truly a blessing! I am now one with The Source!

  • @lilliealbert3548
    @lilliealbert3548 Год назад +26

    I had my pinning ceremony in Feb 1996, my family came and did not clap for me. My mother was the most evil. I had a teacher who resembles my mom, Mrs Law (I love her rip) kindly told my mom she should be proud of me as my nursing program was extremely difficult and it was a 3.0 average with a toddler. I was devastated.... 27 yrs later after waking up, I don't need hateful people around me. I thought I was the only one but listening to you, im not

    • @livefromtheground7274
      @livefromtheground7274 Год назад

      You are NOT! When my husband died my mother told me I had a white liver! When I finally looked it up, I was shocked.

  • @evawoodworth8731
    @evawoodworth8731 Год назад +5

    I'M CLAPPING FOR YOU! AS CHOSEN PEOPLE WE HAVE TO CLAP FOR OURSELVES!!!!! GOD WILL "ALWAYS" CLAP FOR US! AND THAT'S WHAT TRULY MATTERS..❤❤❤❤❤

  • @shayjoe7303
    @shayjoe7303 Год назад +12

    I got some stories. My intuition was telling that they were manufacturing hardship my life. Every 1-2.5 years since early childhood I’d find myself in a different type of hell. I was constantly adapting. And Because my karmic mother wasn’t always the main perpetrator I started to idolize a version of her that didn’t exist when she wasn’t around. And she’s done some very heinous things I don’t think I ever justified them ,but Id forget how bad they were. My brain wasn’t forming memories properly. When I started my healing journey I had to repeatedly sit with the memories and pain so that I’d make a change. It was like cutting open a wound everyday just so I wouldn’t forget it was there. This woman would force me to wear tight clothes when I was clearly uncomfortable as young as 6. I told her that one of my uncles had an inappropriate video of a girl on his phone that I saw as a kid ,and she’d talk loudly on the phone with him so that I’d know that she’s still associated with him. I begged her for mental health assistance because I was done and she told me to figure it out. (This woman is college educated and we’re middle class)Little did I know that was the goal. I ended up healing myself over a few years and establishing faith in the process. So now when I see unawakened people I don’t look down on them or call them stupid. I don’t even believe in stupidity anymore there’s only trauma, ignorance and circumstance. Keep your head up chosen ones you’re here to model healing, so that the masses know that recovery is possible. We’ll show that any spiritual confusion caused by this system can be undone. Thanks for reading 💚.

  • @tikster67
    @tikster67 Год назад +63

    I have listened to so many of your videos and never commented. This one...chills running from the top of my head! As soon as you said you were adopted...say no more child of the most high!! I am seeing a pattern with us who were relinquished. Your story resonates with the story of my life. We were rejected, yet still had so much love to give. I believe we have been protected by something much higher than a couple of humans❤

    • @angelabachert7738
      @angelabachert7738 Год назад +6

      ❤ me too!! The Most High took us on a special journey and I wouldn't have had it any other way. Our Father knows best & I'm so grateful I'm not in their shoes. ❤Shalom

  • @tamarajones7835
    @tamarajones7835 Год назад +10

    Wow🥺 I’ve never heard my real life come from someone else… you’re amazing and I’ll always applaud you

  • @constancepitts8499
    @constancepitts8499 Год назад +32

    I’m clapping now 👏👏👏people can be so cruel and if I were there I would have clapped for you because it is never my intention for anyone to feel left out or not belonging-I would have clapped longest and loudest for you and most definitely the first to clap ❤

    • @livefromtheground7274
      @livefromtheground7274 Год назад

      I wouldve been clapping too even if I didn't know her because I wouldve known what was up.

  • @rosalindbonaparte
    @rosalindbonaparte Год назад +12

    I resonate with you. Same thing at my high school graduation. My mother did not congratulate me but turn her back to me and before I got ready to cry my father grab me and hug me so tight I forgot everything at that moment. Many signs were given to me that those siblings and my mother were not my tribe. I alway love with a open heart. For many years those family member treated me like I was not a family member. And for years I welcome them into my life with no love from them. I am free from them and not once did I return any hate or wanted any understanding why they hated me so much. When my father die they all including my mother did not wanted me there and let me know that by not going to the wait and told me you go and represent the family and my mother was in the bed saying she was not going to. And at the funeral at the bury they made sure I did not sat with the family at the gravesite I had to stand in the back. It took years to try to understand these people. I am free them now. I try to help one of my siblings a sister who got hook on drugs and she was one who use to beat me up and even try to harm with a butter knife and to cut my arm off . I try to help her when the other disowned her. Her hate was still there so finally I let her go. The last time I saw those people at one of my brother funeral it’s been a long time since I saw them they were shocked when they saw me and I show them love and they were just surprise. I went to each one of them and gave them a hug but one of my brother as I approached him just sat in the car and struck his hand for a hand shake I said are you kidding get out that car and give me a hug as he got out I hug him so tight that the heaven hug me back. I was not their for them nor did go home to be with them it was my brother children. It was my sister-in law who called me and invited me and my husband to stay with her. They think that I needed them but I see their pain. For whatever pain they are carrying I am not their whipping board nor am I that person they treat like a stranger I Am Free and I do understand their pain but it is not mines to carry for them. I will be in their present again showing love and Grace.

  • @thedonrodriguezexperience.8658
    @thedonrodriguezexperience.8658 Год назад +8

    You and your skin is glowing, makeup blending in naturally, Aura lit.... Goddess energy on God mode FASHO FASHO!

  • @raycornelious7817
    @raycornelious7817 10 месяцев назад +1

    My family and long term friends have always treated Mthis way. Recently, a favorable niece said I was never supposed to have a successful life according to my numerous siblings. I was bused to highly recognized high school. As an inner city black male, I graduated with a 4.0 gpa. Nothing I ever did garnered my family's respect. Once the lights turned on, I started to cut them off. Even in our sixties, they are still haters. Thank you for your message.

  • @neiclemons8297
    @neiclemons8297 Год назад +16

    Amen. You are telling the truth. I do not have to accept being treated bad.

  • @SweetT720
    @SweetT720 Год назад +21

    I absolutely resonate with your story! I have had many memories flood back now with complete understanding. Sending you love n light you beautiful soul! 😇🥰

  • @karenstaton6726
    @karenstaton6726 Год назад +21

    That happened at my high school graduation. My parents and older sister were there. After the long silene I could hear my sister laughing. Devestating at the time.
    When I graduated with my BS with honors, I didnt even attend. My family didnt even mention it or congratulate me. Havent thought about it till now, hearing your story. Thank you for sharing this. Much love to you 💖💖💖👩‍🎓💐🥂.

    • @MsDera81
      @MsDera81 Год назад +2

      I didn't see where you mentioned that your sister was punished for laughing at you, which raises a red flag concerning your parents.

    • @mustbeheard9834
      @mustbeheard9834 Год назад

      Congratulations on all you're accomplishments. We here see you! ❤

  • @fawndamathison9544
    @fawndamathison9544 Год назад +30

    The graduation 'crickets' hurt my heart! I was applauding for you! My neighbours must think I'm crazy!!
    Thank you so much for helping others. You have restored my faith that there are wonderful souls out there!!
    Much love to all of my fellow 'black sheep' it is not easy being that person.
    Heal, deal and grow. Moving on is freedom. ❤❤❤

  • @tarabass479
    @tarabass479 Год назад +17

    I definitely can attest to growing up in a dysfunctional family with a narcissistic parent, she adopted me as a baby! I've never had genuine real love but I'm glad I got to see what a demon is because I am the Total Opposite and would never hurt anyone intentionally! They say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, as a child you don't understand what is going on but you can feel that the Love Isn't Present, I always felt like I was walking on eggshells around my narcissistic parent. Now I totally understand why I would always drop things when she would come around and I felt her demonic energy, then she would hit me for dropping it.

  • @DivineGoddessHealing-hj8xr
    @DivineGoddessHealing-hj8xr Год назад +7

    I was most definitely the black sheep in my family. I always felt different and was treated as a scapegoat by my narcissistic father. I used to cry myself to sleep wandering what I did to make them hate me so much. My older sister is extremely hostile and jealous if I get more attention than her. I know she doesn't really like me, but for some reason, she always wants to be around me.
    It took a long time for me to finally break free, and I'm so glad I did. I've met members of my soul family who love me and accept me unconditionally.
    It has been a long journey, and relationships have been challenging, but as I'm learning to love myself, I'm learning to be more vulnerable and trusting ❤✨️🙏🏿

  • @kaTrinaMaurice90
    @kaTrinaMaurice90 Год назад +3

    I listened to this video on the way to work this morning, and now, writing this comment I feel like I could cry. I am the black sheep on both sides of my family, and knowing this my hole life I still held on to all of the relationships knowing none of them fooled with me. Thank you for this confirmation that it is okay to cut ties with these people who are not my tribe. May God keep blessing you, and thank you once again!

  • @msb2199
    @msb2199 Год назад +41

    Great message!! This is right on time. Decided to cut some people "family" out of my life recently. They were taking advantage of my kindness. I will be taking that energy and focusing on myself and myself only. Thank you Chhavi

  • @Iamjustice222
    @Iamjustice222 Год назад +20

    I have a 9 siblings and when I graduated college only my daughter and a friend showed up to support me. I know my family don’t care for me but I am so unbothered them and I’m ok with it. I still keep on moving. I’m right there with the chosens elevated and unbothered. Thank you for being a light to me.❤

    • @collins9383
      @collins9383 Год назад +1

      Dear Lord, forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.

    • @FinishTheRaceVL7
      @FinishTheRaceVL7 Год назад +1

      Congratulations on graduating from College. 🎉 I'm proud of you😊

  • @angelacrowe5575
    @angelacrowe5575 Год назад +3

    That's so hurtful 💔. I would have been too finished with them. What were they even there for?? This specifically bothers me because I'm a nurse too, and when you graduate and walk across that stage, it's a proud moment for you. A person does not deserve to be treated in such a way at their own graduation.I know that you've dealt with it now that you've grown spiritually, but that was truly uncalled for. BTW you are so beautiful inside and out. Blessings to you sister.❤

  • @sjreed1348
    @sjreed1348 Год назад +15

    I can agree 100% with the feelings. I had the same experience. My 2yr old's voice was the only voice yelling loudly at the Apollo Theatre when I walked across the stage come that graduation day when they called my name. I was in tears as she sat with my fiance' at the time and with one other family member. It hurt like hell, but it was one I had become use to. And like you I clapped for and stood everyone before me and after me. My daughter's 2yr old voice broke the dead silence..."⁰I see you there Mommy. I love you. You did it."😢😅😂 She was in class with me every day from pregancy to graduation. She sparked an awwwweee from the entire audience after she spoke because they knew she was the silent baby then toddler in their classes.

  • @ThisisyourAliyah
    @ThisisyourAliyah Год назад +56

    I can relate, Chhavi. Everytime I've graduated my grandmother and one of my aunts on my dad's side always come up with an excuse of why they can't attend. My sister recently graduated and they came up with the same excuses. Honestly, I'm grateful that they do not want to come around because I've seen the truth about who they are and I don't want them around me or family.
    Also, I thought I would share something interesting that happened at my college graduation. When they announced my name, the lady pronounced my middle name as "alien". My middle name is "Aliyah". I was just beginning to awaken to the truth. Looking back, I'm like she was telling the truth lol.

    • @candybastet
      @candybastet Год назад

      😎💋

    • @David-eu1ms
      @David-eu1ms Год назад +10

      Envy is an ugly emotion.

    • @dareo25
      @dareo25 Год назад +1

      ...from Aliyah to alien ...they couldn't understand you! 🏆🏆

  • @rekelthomas4709
    @rekelthomas4709 Год назад +20

    Thank u for this measage. I feel like a huge weight has been lifted. It took for me to separate from everything an everyone to gain clarity. I chose me over everything. I am learning an growing an getting better everyday. 👑Queen Chhavi👑your messages is a blessing. I can love them from a distance bc that is who I Am love. At the same time continue to move forward while protecting my inner child. Nomore people pleasing. I am the love i desire to attract.

  • @johnnylamothe1428
    @johnnylamothe1428 Год назад +22

    Amen! We're not in this world to follow its ways. Because they are filled with jealousy, envy, bitterness and hatred. But we are in it, so we can be transformed from the ordinary beings to the supernatural beings that God created us to be. So we can be identified with Him but not the fallen world.👍♥

    • @dareo25
      @dareo25 Год назад

      100% 🏆

    • @flowforever9084
      @flowforever9084 Год назад +1

      So eloquently stated.
      Amen
      Everyone is not meant to go with us on OUR journey. It's painful, but it's doable with the Lord's help.

    • @shardaswitzer6903
      @shardaswitzer6903 Год назад +1

      All praises! Facts, 💯

  • @sedricrussell5061
    @sedricrussell5061 Год назад +32

    Been through this part coming up.... always made to feel not part of my family.
    Today my Journey is mine and I'm finding
    My way for self love and live a positive
    Life for me Thank you for the message ✊🏾
    I've

    • @dareo25
      @dareo25 Год назад

      100%🏆🏆

  • @Jason-nosaJ
    @Jason-nosaJ Год назад +1

    Some family members simply don't like your light to shine brighter than theirs.
    Never feel the need to keep people around that are toxic to your soul.

  • @michaelhenderson2582
    @michaelhenderson2582 Год назад +40

    I resonate with your story my Soul Sister I grew up in a similar situation it made me strong. I begin to understand the importance of loving myself unconditionally then I came into my spiritual journey I'm still learning and working on myself. I keep a small circle now mostly my spiritual family. Peace Love strength and abundance family.

  • @kaybee1025
    @kaybee1025 Год назад +9

    Some people I cut off it was as if they were waiting for me to realize how much they don't like me. Just me trying to hold on to what wasn't there. The moment you stop reaching out to them first, they take the opportunity to never talk to you again.
    I used to feed a childhood's friend ego and whatever else he had going on, after he helped me fighting off a pedo who was about to hurt me.
    Why as an adult, living in different countries, every time we talk he had to bring up the event as if the effer's hands were on him....As usual, I would get triggered and go on a verbal rampage and ended crying while thanking my friend for being there.
    To realize that my 'friend' was mentioning the event to tickle his savior complex
    One time, mid conversation, he tried to bring it up, I hanged up on him and that was the end of the friendship too. Someone I had known since he was 9mo old. His father was my departed sister's godfather...type of so called childhood friendship 🙄

    • @myamericacares
      @myamericacares Год назад

      Good Morning I am Aaron Ben Moshe--the Almighty gave me my name. May our Sabbath Day find you and yours in good health! My Yahweh, likes you so I guess I have to try and help Yah save you and other men and women of the Ancient Tribes of Israel with this message! You are so much like me when you speak to a thousand people --you have the gift of having the presence of the Holy Spirit and I and others can feel it with you and your voice and physical presence. May Yah Bless you and yours always. These are the last days for the Gentiles to dominate mankind. 1/3 of Gentile White America shares the blood of Black America still held in mental slavery who are the Ancient Ancestors of Israel and they will be given the opportunity of salvation like you and I because of our sincerity. Like me you learned all the pagan names handed down to us from ancient Rome and Greece that we pray to that are not the Hebrew names given to us by the Almighty in our Bibles. You may reject this notation by saying to me, "who am I"" but as you and many others will learn --I was sent to you and your following to help open up your eyes. Please tell our people to stop praying to the pagan!
      There is nothing named god-- it's just a term the Romans and those of Greece used to call their pagan deities. Yahweh is our Father's name and in Hebret Yah told Moses, 'I am that I am!" So please realize that you serve Yahweh and not the pagan names. Your strength comes for Yah, "I am" and not the names of the White men who surround you. So, I ask for donations to train our youth to fly as many of our people out of here and leave no man or woman behind to where the Great Spirit leads us. Donations are accepted at cashapp $Charley1946
      Please look in your home dictionary at the letter J in our alphabet, you’ll discover that J sound is only 2 to 3 hundred years old. The Holy Bible was originally written in Hebrew and Aramaic and there never was a word or name with the J sound-so Jesus was not the name of our Messiah-his name was Yahshua. In the years 1611-1612 King James published our King James Bible and changed all the names in it. This information is now online-so please pray to our Father and his Son using their real names! May Yah and Yahsuah Bless you and yours, forever!
      Donations are accepted at Cashapp: $Charley1946 We need to train our own pilots, buy airplanes and other vehicles to go home with-- your support is needed.

  • @ionlycompetewiththewomaniw5429
    @ionlycompetewiththewomaniw5429 Год назад +7

    Well me personally I thought that I could love the BS out of them. They need an Excorsist...once I realize that I set myself free.

  • @candybastet
    @candybastet Год назад +33

    It’s interesting how in time everyone becomes transparent...whether they like it or not!
    I applaud the highly transformative work you’re bringing forth everyday.
    And thank you for the wonderful reading! Love you!👏😸👏😎💜
    *When I graduated from grade school every student was called up one at a time with applause to receive an award except for me. That really hurt.
    I had completely forgotten about that. That was so mean! I was the class clown, so I guess that was my punishment 😅 🙃

    • @roenamorgan8286
      @roenamorgan8286 Год назад +2

      "Suggestion,'to'candybasket'only trying to give a constructive idea;I have for years,(since a 9 year old girl. . .)been writing my own composed stories to myself: Writing a love note to a disrespectful boy,who was in Junior High School,spoke loudly'rejection':When I heard he went into the Army. . .I thought his wicked wife,might tear up his veteran's check:At age 61'Jamaican mom and dad,I did endure."6--8--2023'

    • @candybastet
      @candybastet Год назад +4

      @Roena Morgan 🦋Thank you for your kind suggestion and for sharing. I agree, writing is indeed extremely healing work...I need to do more🌻 Life on this planet is like a game of survival. For Everyone...including those who have wronged us or appear to have everything. Storytelling is the best medicine✨️🗝💪😽

  • @kamilahreid8373
    @kamilahreid8373 Год назад +3

    I'm pleased you got your degree. You are right about the signs we get in life

  • @johnnylamothe1428
    @johnnylamothe1428 Год назад +20

    Amen! The battle is not ours but God. Because all authority roots in the sovereign God. That's why He took dominion from the adversary and gave it back to us, so we could exercised that authority to push back against the hard core enemy.👍♥

  • @803_iz_where_i_be5
    @803_iz_where_i_be5 Год назад +38

    I resonate with this so much...This was personal. With my headphones in the birds were chirping so loudly...I knew this message was for me. Gratitude 💫✨💫✨💫

  • @starr6465
    @starr6465 Год назад +27

    I’ve been thru this also, it hurt then but Mamas got a brand new bag now.
    This to me was a Beautiful heart felt message.
    Thank you Chhavi

  • @greatnessfollows5028
    @greatnessfollows5028 Год назад +8

    I been surrounded by people like that, that's why I cared, and definitely gave my young ones (as well as the youth), all the love and understanding I didn't have, I've always given what I wish I had, and there are people that TRY to use and abuse, but I'm bigger and better everytime.

  • @jonpark5203
    @jonpark5203 Год назад +8

    Completely resonate with you chhavi zain: I come from a very disfunctional family who were selfish and self centered to the core: the very same People who you take the time to love, care for, support, phone them and visit, knowing deep down that they wouldn't show the same heart-felt reciprocation for you: when you start to work on yourself and heal from the very trauma they inflicted on you, you will truly see them for who they truly are (To cut a very long story short) chosen ones: the moment you cut all toxic people out of your life, is the moment you will start receiving your blessings, AMEN 💯🙌🙏🙏

  • @alexandriachristos3428
    @alexandriachristos3428 Год назад +17

    Chhavi, its been the story of my life.. loving people to the fullest and it not being reciprocated-until one FINE day I woke up and smelt the true roses… it was rather sobering to realise the people who you cared about so much quiet different. This also links in with the long history of people being jealous of me for just being me…. Not to mention my successes…. I’m so grateful I’ve learnt I was able to love despite others- and I’ve also learnt to let go. I’m now in the process of learning to love myself as much and more than I’ve loved all those people in the past. MY BIG LESSON “ LOVE MYSELF…Thank you for this very thoughtful message.. truly resonates ..LOADS of LOVE to you CHHAVI.. ❤

    • @flowforever9084
      @flowforever9084 Год назад +1

      I can relate. I let go of toxic family and friends in 2020. It took a while to face the truth. No support and I was doing all the giving and keeping in touch with family and friends. Friends were takers. Nvr supported me in anything. Not even a birthday card, yet I gv to them for theirs. I supported them, but when its me..all excuses. I stopped being a fool. Now they get nothing. Like T D Jake's said once....ppl expect reciprocity

  • @latonyarhodes4246
    @latonyarhodes4246 Год назад +9

    The universe bought me here!!! This resonated with whole entire soul! This is my story! I’ve had and stayed in relationships with people I know I should’ve left alone. I know and was in complete denial because it hurt too much to face the truth. Thank God for growth and guidance. Thank God for removing blinders and giving me the strength to face the truth and myself. Thank God for forgiving myself and others. I thank Gid for the wisdom to realize that I am too bright of a light to dim. While many have tried, it just keeps shining brighter. I’m in my idgaf phase and it feels pretty damn good after such a long time of suppression.

  • @CareBlair222
    @CareBlair222 6 месяцев назад +1

    Your strength is so admirable. Severe rejection is part of the spiritual process. Unfortunately.

  • @ellethestar9951
    @ellethestar9951 Год назад +13

    Yes, I've NEVER had emotional suppoert . I feel The Chosen's life lesson is about answering the Call which usually comes form the rejection rceived from our family and peers that should be the ones if anybody. We must develope a deeper sense of who we are without any outside support. This is the Heroes/Chosen's journey. A narrow , lonely path..

    • @amb4855
      @amb4855 Год назад +5

      Absolutely 🎯

  • @TheAnkhGod
    @TheAnkhGod Год назад +5

    I've experienced that thing too many times to count. One of the first lessons I had to learn was to be my own cheerleader because you don't have many in this lifetime. Sorry you had to go thru that. Asé

  • @JimmieDavis-pu4dq
    @JimmieDavis-pu4dq Год назад +13

    💚I was a loner at early age, I noticed I would see certain things trying to figure it out. I made sure I would ignore it all and keep it moving; because time waits for no one. And here I am now a senior citizen. Life is a lesson for a lifetime I knew from an early age knowing right from wrong. So I knew there was a higher being our savior Jesus Christ! with no one I could depend on as far as friend. From an early age with my Sunday school teachings, I started leaning on his name and made him my guide thru it all. I learned thru it all. No weapon formed against me shall prosper🙏🏽. When I realized it was The holy Spirit has always been with me throughout my lifetime, the good, and bad times , going thru it all, I am still here I "m Grateful. Thanks for sharing your story. You are appreciated Chhavi Zaine, keep the up the work You are doing.. Sending Peace and Blessings to you and family 💜🙏🏽🥰

  • @tlp1015
    @tlp1015 Год назад +18

    Another relevant and transparent conversation Chhavi🌟
    Give Thanks✨
    🇬🇳Blessings and Wellness🇬🇳

  • @birth2love
    @birth2love Год назад +28

    My mom abandoned us kids when I was 15-16, and my hanai (adopted) mom has supported me more than my birth mom ever did. Talk about narcissistic...didn't realize until recently been dealing with narcissists my whole life. Mahalo for this message! 🙏🏽🌱❤️

    • @lorettalynndavis9695
      @lorettalynndavis9695 Год назад

      Mahalo! I lived in Hawaii as a military brat for 3 years.
      Went to Radford High School and loved my time over there.
      It's nice to see a Polynesian and hear the local language again.
      God Bless.

  • @lisacook856
    @lisacook856 8 месяцев назад +1

    You hit the nail on the head.... For my graduation, I ended up buying my mum's entrance ticket and in return she started an argument just before we sat down for the presentations and walked out. So in essence, she didn't even get to see me on stage collecting proof of the five years hard work. On top of that, she brought me a 8 x 6 cm picture frame for a snap shot and I brought her a celebration lunch. Could have completely ruined my day but as a resilient little soul, I just got on with it. Funny enough, you have triggered another memory. I then went to visit a friend in the North of England who equally acted weird all weekend and didn't want to leave her place to celebrate. I've been exposed to this type of behaviour all of my life, since a child and it still continues. Nice to hear others sharing, as so many people do not understand

  • @demetriahewlett6508
    @demetriahewlett6508 Год назад +8

    Girlllll I don’t have Noooo CLAPPERS either and the silence is louder than loud it is appalling but yet it’s liberating. Thanks for the testimony ❤

  • @brunoramos9747
    @brunoramos9747 8 месяцев назад +1

    I get what she is saying..
    Sometimes we have to realize that there is something greater carrying us😊

  • @terrellwebb2246
    @terrellwebb2246 Год назад +8

    My whole family left me in the streets so this resonates with me so perfectly all this time they never came back for me I secretly knew they didn't give a damn but something in me thought they would change now it's been years and years since I talked to those people I am doing so much better on my own thank you my spiritual friend

    • @swannoir7949
      @swannoir7949 Год назад

      I felt this. You think people will change, then find out that they like who they are.

  • @dougfredricks2017
    @dougfredricks2017 Год назад +1

    Avoid toxic narcissists. They mean you no good.... Detect the familiar spirits and move on.

  • @falinhudson6768
    @falinhudson6768 Год назад +28

    You in the spirit ✨🕊️✨with this one...message hits hard, I been going through this a bit... People been trying to get through by force, but it don't work like that.. you did beautiful job, this message warmed my day.. ✨🐉blessings to you and to all.💗

  • @arvstephenson1107
    @arvstephenson1107 Год назад +1

    THIS IS AN EXCELLENT PRESENTATION OF HEARTFELT KNOWLEDGE TO SAVE, RECOMMEND AND PASS ON!!

  • @Imimajination
    @Imimajination Год назад +4

    Thank you sharing this. It was right on time when I was coming to the realization that my Mother and Grandmother do not like me. I moved to an island with two of her grandchildren. My mother gets free flights due to my sister who also doesn’t like me, working for the airport. She called today to cancel. She says she doesn’t feel good to fly at first. Today she said that she gonna try to buy a house. She has been saying that for a long time. She wanted my to react but I just said Oh’ that’s good! You should do that. Her trip was supposed to be next month. The main reason she was going to make the trip I feel, “because she had no problem to throw it in my face”, was that a co worker was having a wedding here. Lol Yet she travels every where else nonstop. My deceased
    father told me that she was jealous of me but who would want to believe that? I always wondered why I had no real connection with her. I’m unvaccinated and I posted a message on fb about us being hero’s and my grandmother is 88 years old and commented on my post being extremely rude and antagonist saying that I’m not a hero for standing up for my rights because she is vaccinated. We are not close I’ve never asked her for anything. I can’t believe the disrespect. I’m disconnecting. My sister has free flights here and won’t visit My best friend chose her man over me which is expected however it was all because I told them both that he shouldn’t have her doing illicit thing. These earth dwellers are too much 🤣I’m not wasting anymore time on these type of people.

    • @OtheDaddy
      @OtheDaddy Год назад

      Forget them and forget ALL Vaccines! Please accept my love!

  • @SolRaElJustice
    @SolRaElJustice Год назад +6

    Facts. 😊 it resonates just off the title

  • @jillallcock
    @jillallcock Год назад +37

    I was a nurse as well ... Lost my license due to narc abuse. Now on a different path. I am where I'm suppose to be. Bless 💙🙏🕊️

    • @lisaanderson6920
      @lisaanderson6920 Год назад +2

      At one Time in my , Life . I was a Very ! Skilled and Multiple Trained . Nurse Assistant . I had Plans , to Pursue my ( Nursing 🧑‍🍼Degree ) But , I have a Bir of a Barrier . And I had to , take a Medical 🏥 Leave in 02/2002 Due to Having a Surgery . I had to even , Turn down a Higher Position , with the Current , Nursing the Facility I was , Employed With . And then I Came into , a Situation and With a Total Shift / a Sudden Ship 🚢 Wreck in My Life . I Wish I Could Delete it out Of My Time Capsule . But I always Held to My Faith . To Strive and Tp Persevere and Endure 😣 What Hardships that All I was going Through ! The Devine Intervention . Let me know, just the , the True Secret Agenda , behind Close Doors 🚪 Was Really Going On , with my , Life ❤️😊

    • @jillallcock
      @jillallcock Год назад +3

      @@lisaanderson6920 God has other plans for you my dear...better ones. Believe that. Nothing happens by accident...you are meant for something greater.
      BLESS 🙏💙

  • @Scarybibletruth
    @Scarybibletruth Год назад +4

    Been there my lady I have no relatives at all just my children it hurts I cried too wondering why that happened to a loving person like me, chosen don't get any applaud from those sculls and bones but life is unfear and that took me to my awakening to another level hold the faith and blessings to you.

  • @traysimmons4126
    @traysimmons4126 Год назад +10

    THANK YOU CHVVIA 💞🙏 ALL THE MESSAGES AND KNOWLEDGE RESONATES AND I'M SO GRATEFUL FOR THIS HEALING JOURNEY SO THAT I CAN HELP

  • @amcgee0668
    @amcgee0668 Год назад +28

    Thank you so much for this Cchavi! I applaud you and your presence👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿💖 It's my "blood" family who are presently my haters. It was easier for me to rid myself of false friendships. This is more confirmation that it's time for these dysfunctional, toxic family members to go🙂

    • @TamaraGarrettAlpha
      @TamaraGarrettAlpha Год назад +4

      Let em go if you need to. It's damn hard but it's not at the same time. 💯

    • @flowforever9084
      @flowforever9084 Год назад

      Please leave them alone. Family is the worse. You'll hv peace.
      I finally learned that bc you're blood doesn't mean that they love you. It's a hard pill to swallow 😪 I deal with mental illness and it's horrible. They think that they act normal. It's demonic.

  • @kameeshastephens5948
    @kameeshastephens5948 Год назад +20

    OMG chavi the same thing happened to me at my high school graduation....no one clapped for me dead silence when they called my name and yes it does hurt for the moment but look at us now❣️❣️❣️🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🧿🧿🧿

    • @maishatopez6203
      @maishatopez6203 Год назад +1

      I clap for u now.. Happy awakening and healing.

  • @susanthompson9637
    @susanthompson9637 Год назад +14

    I’m estranged from some immediate relatives one of which has always hated me. I was never permitted to acknowledge her mental illness and nobody ever even discouraged her from her sick obsessive vendetta. Thanks for giving us the space to discuss such matters. I’m listening ❤

  • @AbdulaliMuhammad-ql5nh
    @AbdulaliMuhammad-ql5nh Год назад +4

    Definitely right and you one-hundred-percent OnPoint🎉 sometimes blood relationship don't mean a damn thing but a headache🎉

  • @Yahsef-777
    @Yahsef-777 Год назад +3

    it is comforting to hear someone else tell their story as if it is a duplicate of yours, we truly are alone but not alone, we know love and how to love but to release it to someone else expecting them to reciprocate is not an easy task. TRUST, when you are chosen certain focuses only go through your soul source before it can get to the physical you.

  • @BIGGEEshorty01285
    @BIGGEEshorty01285 Год назад +3

    I'm so glad you woke up and saw what it is!!! It has nothing to do with you!!! You learn to ignore red flags in childhood. From what you are describing with your mom (my mother was VERY mean too), you learn to ignore the bad behavior in order to survive. It is a trauma response. You learn to be delusional about the malignant care giver in order to "bond" because you need them to provide care.
    Please read a book called "Soul Rape" if you haven't done so already.
    Peace and blessings sis 🥰❤🙏🏾

  • @angelmoonbabydivineguidanc3119
    @angelmoonbabydivineguidanc3119 Год назад +4

    Wow, I am so sorry no one applauded you, that is terrible and breaks my heart! Some people really suck!! I would have applauded you beautiful! I think you are amazing love! A true Warrior, for all that you have overcome! You are a Beautiful Soul and deserve everything this life has to offer!! Thank you for all you do, much love and many blessing's to you and your family! ❤🌟🙏🌟❤ I know what being the black sheep feels like, because I am one! 🥺 but we rise above and realize how special we truly are, God chose us!! ❤🙏❤

  • @sheronjackson9182
    @sheronjackson9182 Год назад +2

    That’s crazy to have people 😮 that close to not celebrate you. However it showed you that they were never truly with you.

  • @reedhadley7995
    @reedhadley7995 Год назад +3

    How ironic that I'm sitting in my Mums hospital room after flying to be with her (93) and my young sister still is as evil as she was when she was in her 20's. Mind poisoned (gas lighted) by her father against me ( because I stood up to him defending my Mum) she now carries out his evil wishes. It was clear this should have been a time of togetherness but instead power, anger and hippocrracy reigned during my time visiting her. When you tell someone you love them and they refuse to look you back in your eyes and say the same yet sing God's praises, they bring in their prayer warriors (which I applauded) then that's a sign ... now I really know how to deal with her. Sister, I truly feel you and thanks for posting this🙏🏾

  • @nicemomasmr
    @nicemomasmr 8 месяцев назад +1

    I’m applauding your graduation Queen 👏🏽

  • @blackman3964
    @blackman3964 Год назад +6

    We as BLACK People and the BLACK Family have our issues , and if your not getting the support you want from family , then maybe you have to LOVE them from a distance , stay focused and keep moving forward in the right direction , We Love You Sista ................. Smile

  • @faiththingnotseen
    @faiththingnotseen Год назад +7

    Shalawam Sis, ALL Praises To To The Most High!! One of my birth sisters said to me years ago "I don't like you, I have never liked you". Sis to this day I can still feel the pain if though she said it to me to this day. I thank the Lord for the peace He has given me in mine heart/mind to have unspeakable joy. I agree with you sister 💯 Manying Blessing🙏🏽

  • @kayndidi
    @kayndidi Год назад +11

    Love you Chhavi🌟They are meant to give us the challenge of learning how to love ourselves. On a soul level it can be painful for them to do, its like watching a child overcome a fear when all you really want to do is shield them from it.
    Self love is the first step of the Evolutionary Process, I find peace in thanking them for my Evolution. It's not easy! But it's worth it everytime💜

  • @maishatopez6203
    @maishatopez6203 Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing . Still healing 50 years later. Thank you forfor letting 'us' know We were Not Alone.

  • @jazzy2653
    @jazzy2653 Год назад +5

    Beautiful message. Very true💯

  • @MarkAnthonyJenkins
    @MarkAnthonyJenkins Год назад +2

    Congratulations on graduating from nursing school and becoming a registered nurse! This is an incredible achievement, and I couldn't be prouder of you. Your hard work, dedication, and unwavering commitment to helping others have paid off.
    As a registered nurse, you now have the knowledge, skills, and compassion to make a real difference in people's lives. You will touch countless hearts, provide comfort to those in need, and offer healing to those who are unwell. Your passion for nursing is evident, and I have no doubt that you will excel in your chosen profession.
    Nursing is a noble and selfless calling, and you have proven yourself more than capable of taking on this important role. Your patients will be fortunate to have you by their side, providing care, empathy, and support during their most vulnerable moments.
    Remember, being a nurse is not just a job; it's a lifelong journey of learning, growth, and making a positive impact. Embrace every opportunity that comes your way, never stop expanding your knowledge, and continue to be the caring and compassionate person you are.
    Once again, congratulations on this well-deserved achievement. Your dedication to nursing and your unwavering pursuit of excellence make you an inspiration to us all. I wish you a fulfilling and rewarding career as a registered nurse, filled with countless moments of joy, gratitude, and professional fulfillment. You have so much to offer, and I have no doubt that you will make a remarkable difference in the lives of those you serve.

  • @DivineStepper
    @DivineStepper Год назад +7

    I am truly proud of you Chhavi!👏 👏❤️👏 I feel you on the black sheep. I innerstand now why it hurt so much. It's the fact that (we would have never done them that way) but I forgive, but never forget. Love and positivity to you who had to be your own motivater, know the most high was there Asè! ❤️💎🌹

  • @Electriccoach
    @Electriccoach Год назад +1

    What I have learned through out my life dealing with people like haters, narcissists; the like, keep your mouth closed concerning what you have, thinking, and are doing. Haters are unproductive people who don't have what it takes to get things done. They hate you because your are productive. Upon meeting such people, it is imperative that they be found out quickly. You must catch them early. Once caught; you must behave accordingly. That means denying them all access to you, your time, your children, your property, etc. If they try you by asking for something and they will, say no. Saying yes to a hater or a narc, is interpreted by them as weakness and\or stupidity.

  • @scorpiotigerstarot
    @scorpiotigerstarot Год назад +15

    Powerful message! 🙌🏿🙌🏿
    Thank you Beautiful! 💚✨

  • @zinarhone7642
    @zinarhone7642 Год назад +1

    Once we realize that we have been selected by someone as a scapegoat, we understand why there always seemed to be an imbalance in our relationship with them. The most empowering truth we can gain from our understanding is that the person has a personal inadequacy that we either highlight by our own light or they compare themselves to us and are envious of us. For either reason they will withhold the least support and celebration of you.

  • @AlchemistEmpath
    @AlchemistEmpath Год назад +5

    This definitely resonates Chavi. My mother attended my 3 graduations 🎓 just to brag on other people that graduated with me. She was present but not for me.

  • @jussdoughjustin3893
    @jussdoughjustin3893 8 месяцев назад +1

    if I was there I'd applaud you sister 👏

  • @kdean5514
    @kdean5514 Год назад +5

    Lol!! I was in it but not of it. This message is on time and I hope many, young and old hear! Congrats to you on your accomplishments! Keep building! Thank you!

  • @garveygear3279
    @garveygear3279 Год назад +1

    I have struggled with this for years. Not an accident that I came across your video at this moment.

  • @antoniotruthseeker3827
    @antoniotruthseeker3827 Год назад +4

    Chavi I swear you in my head on every message 😮

  • @myles4gone
    @myles4gone Год назад +1

    I had something like that happen to me when I was in the military. I had just completed leadership school, and none of the members of my command didn't bother showing up...not one. It was discouraging to see all of my classmates command there to support them, and out of close to 100 guys I didn't have one show up to support me. When the graduation ceremony was over I went back to my unit, and my First Sergeant asked me what I was doing there. At that point I was done. I got out the military a few months after that.

  • @LovelinessIndeed
    @LovelinessIndeed Год назад +8

    I soooo needed to hear this right now... my family, son and even two ex have treated me really fake
    . I've never had emotional support throughout my life
    It's been extremely hard. Yes to all the feeling voids was me. I went through a silent emotional breakdown when I decided to see them for who they really were. I'm still healing now,it has been a long road. I'm happy that I found your channel . It's has been a pleasure. Thank you also love you style. 👏 👏 👏 on year Nuring degree ❤ Yes, ,understand it was years ago but I'm proud of you my dear Sis. 👏 and 🌷.

  • @chrisbova9686
    @chrisbova9686 Год назад +1

    I feel the same way, and all I can think is... Wow, you are beautiful.

  • @blessedandwinning
    @blessedandwinning Год назад +3

    I appreciate you telling your stories it all makes sense I can relate now I'm like fuck them all I don't need them they got nothing to offer.

    • @myamericacares
      @myamericacares Год назад

      Good Morning I am Aaron Ben Moshe--the Almighty gave me my name. May our Sabbath Day find you and yours in good health! My Yahweh, likes you so I guess I have to try and help Yah save you and other men and women of the Ancient Tribes of Israel with this message! You are so much like me when you speak to a thousand people --you have the gift of having the presence of the Holy Spirit and I and others can feel it with you and your voice and physical presence. May Yah Bless you and yours always. These are the last days for the Gentiles to dominate mankind. 1/3 of Gentile White America shares the blood of Black America still held in mental slavery who are the Ancient Ancestors of Israel and they will be given the opportunity of salvation like you and I because of our sincerity. Like me you learned all the pagan names handed down to us from ancient Rome and Greece that we pray to that are not the Hebrew names given to us by the Almighty in our Bibles. You may reject this notation by saying to me, "who am I"" but as you and many others will learn --I was sent to you and your following to help open up your eyes. Please tell our people to stop praying to the pagan!
      There is nothing named god-- it's just a term the Romans and those of Greece used to call their pagan deities. Yahweh is our Father's name and in Hebret Yah told Moses, 'I am that I am!" So please realize that you serve Yahweh and not the pagan names. Your strength comes for Yah, "I am" and not the names of the White men who surround you. So, I ask for donations to train our youth to fly as many of our people out of here and leave no man or woman behind to where the Great Spirit leads us. Donations are accepted at cashapp $Charley1946
      Please look in your home dictionary at the letter J in our alphabet, you’ll discover that J sound is only 2 to 3 hundred years old. The Holy Bible was originally written in Hebrew and Aramaic and there never was a word or name with the J sound-so Jesus was not the name of our Messiah-his name was Yahshua. In the years 1611-1612 King James published our King James Bible and changed all the names in it. This information is now online-so please pray to our Father and his Son using their real names! May Yah and Yahsuah Bless you and yours, forever!
      Donations are accepted at Cashapp: $Charley1946 We need to train our own pilots, buy airplanes and other vehicles to go home with-- your support is needed.

  • @Auntkekebaby
    @Auntkekebaby Год назад +1

    My life!!! I knew when my parent never attended my dance recitals.

  • @BLACKMAGICK816
    @BLACKMAGICK816 Год назад +2

    YES!!! CHOSEN ONES STAND ALONE And ARE WARRIORS 4 YAH ALMIGHTY ALWAYS AND FOREVER.