Yes, I pray judge Fumi does something about this. The issues on ground are sensitive issues and the audience are feeling entertained with it. To think that the children were there listening to all that and the laughs break my heart.
The only source of enjoyment for a poor man is the wife. Driver 6 Children, Gardener 4 Children, Cook 4 Children, Gateman 5 Children. The Oga wey all of them Dey work for go get 2 Children.
When the man complained that the wife was beating him everyone laughed and found his story very funny. Imagine the tables were turned, everyone will shout "crucify the man". What a world of double standard. The woman should be locked up if found guilty to serve as a warning to all to "keep their hands to themselves".
Am a mother of both genders, It pains me to hear people laugh, this is sickening, it makes other men not to come forward to report for fear of being laughed at, men are also human beings, this is so sad, something should be done to help boy child, SAD indeed.
Am not a man, Am always in support of men when I hear their domestic violence, stories, most times the men are the victims. May this man and all men find peace.
You are wrong. Most of the time women are the victims of domestic violence. Yet, we should never laugh at men being abused. It happens and is not funny.
Thanks for this my brother... If it happens to be the other way round. You will see how everyone will get serious with the narration. It happens to a man now. It looks like a joke to everyone.
@@ogunsanyakolawole3011 I am a woman by the way, but yes, I agree with you partially. In some places in Africa, family members will even send a woman back to her marital home even when she has reported being physically abused. We all have to take it seriously for both men and women.
Some one who earns just 25k monthly, and struggling to bearly survive just to make ends meet in the hand of this woman, where will he get such money for DNA?
@@miyakeangel4614 If asked for DNA Judge Funmi ld ve granted him, more-so d court ve some arrangements with some Labs, d only thing is dat Judge Funmi cannot go to dat route or extent unless d husband initiated, raised, or shows concerns. Bless Up.@miyakeangel🙏
Stop having many kids, especially when you have low income. Whenever there's not enough resources, frustration can lead to many things. Another point is, do not expect your partner to turn out the way you want him or her to be, just love and help to make things better. Great job Judge Funmi, God bless you.
Thank u judge funmi for giving the husband enough time to speak, to my own perspectives i perceived some truth in what the husband said than what the wife said.
This woman is the queen of gaslighting. I can recognize narcissistic people like her anywhere - their sweet talking and enterprising persona can fool most people into thinking they're the victim. The man is a bit submissive by temperament and perhaps phlegmatic, hence why he can be easily manipulated and dominated like so. I feel sorry for the kids. She can easily poison the mind of those kids.
This woman is a narcissist! I feel so sorry for the man. I could bet that even the way the woman appeared in court, looking all hagard and seek is all a set-up to curry unmerited favour from the judge. That is why it is not good to listen to one side of the story cos there are 3 sides to a story! Your part, my part and of cos the truth! I completely agree with the judge. You started having problem in your marriage right after the wedding, and you still went ahead to have 5children!😅😮 How do women do that!! I trust judge Funmi! She does not suffer any fool! She saw through all her lies, tears and pretences! Good judgment, your honor. More wisdom and knowledge
My dear, you nailed it. She even said that her husband absconding was the cause of her ill health, all these were lies too. She even started to shed crocodile tears from nowhere, just to know if she can get financial help. Stupid woman.
You're right. Immediately the man said in their 17years of marriage they have changed 13 houses I was like wow🤔. I knew she must be the problem. Changing houses and consequently their school increasing difficulties for the man.
You're very correct, the woman came to court to push sentiment, the video of her in the studio shows exactly who she is, these people are just unnecessarily wîćked, the woman is a bittered woman, she never objected the fact of infidelity, the man is a victim of events, looking at their daughter in court shows that the woman lied alot...
I mean, she purposely dressed up looking upkeeped at the court, I was so shocked to see her look like that in that video displayed. She did all these for self pity!!! She is a real narcissist.
I feel the woman is more exposed to life than the husband hence the problem cos she would see whatever the gentle man does as “dull” and the man doesn’t see life that way plus if you’re not careful you might be convinced that she is saying the truth
Thank you. This man just said he has never slept with any other woman in his life before and after her. She did not even deny that she had extramaritalital affair.
God bless you Tina , you are a smart lady to figure this out. Imagine the woman talking about diploma in covenant university for a man who earn 35k salary. The woman eyes are on the high side. May God help them both.
how do u judge exposure....because he had not met any other woman before her? Is that a justification for you? Speaks volume of your measure of reasoning...very typical
You're very correct, the woman came to court to push sentiment, the video of her in the studio shows exactly who she is, these people are just unnecessarily wîćked, the woman is a bittered woman, she never objected the fact of infidelity, the man is a victim of events, looking at their daughter in court shows that the woman lied alot... The body language of the daughter shows the man wasn't Lieing
I've never seen him with anyone until he got married. He used to work with NIPOST and he is a brother that I lived with for many years. His name used to be Muritala, used to be a great Barber at association avenue Ilupeju and became pastor as Owolabi. He's a good man and never picks a fight with anyone. I saw this today and really felt bad deep down. Whatever happened, this woman needs to redress it because he's a true man of God.
I felt really sad and angry listening to this man for what his wife did to him, the entire world see women as victims but when men are in this kind of situations they see them as weaklings
Yes, really wished Judge addressed dat n warned d woman cos one day d man might retaliate, ppl who doesn't know his story, hmm if dem know nko, d man ld still b blamed anyway. Bless Up @sullamanjallow 🙏
This is very sad 😞. Woman if you want have a successful children’s don’t ever beat your father,mother, or your husband never. There’s so many unsuccessful children it’s was because of them mothers was treating bad them husband’s and karma is real and God is not sleeping.
To me, the woman is an aggressive and troublesome in nature. We need serious prayer before marriage. I don't know how they will cope with training their children in this situation.
Men learn how to speak out because the society didn't do us well by bringing us up with the ideology of men don't complain,men don't talk,men don't cry. Many men have died in silence and because of domestic violence.
She did it, what is there to counter? her laziness has brought her here, if she had something doing she won't be looking the way she is. The man is sincere but made a mistake doing ministry without form of solid employment but I am glad he is picking up, I pity his daughter if she follows her mum's footsteps..otilo
Its always good to listen to both parties before taking decision.This woman with the way shes talking shows how aggressive and uncultured she's.The man must have been passing through alot at home
Thank god you've already written what I wanted to write. Evil is clearly written all over the face of this woman. Good children can never come out of such marriages and their children would likely be as aggressive and abusive as herself .
If this man should do a DNA test all those children are not his . This woman is a criminal. She have been beating him , tormenting him . She took advantage of his weakness and innocent.
Shout out to the judge. Such a good listener🙌🏽🙌🏽. The little comment he made about her parents shows why she seemed to be always aggressive to him that is to tell us that for those that bear abusive environments, they are not only sacrificing self but the development and the mental quality of your children because what they see with their eyes make a good part of the person they become by default. God will help us.
To live in thirteen houses for17 years is shocking. This woman chased her husband away with her bad character now the kids are meant to bear the brunt. may God help these people. May lack and want never be our portion.
Oh how i wish these two can raise their kids together because they are both intelligent people. 😢 I pray for peace in every marriage and home for the future of our next generation.
Since I saw this quote, it has never left me "I NEVER BELIEVED MY FATHER UNTIL I BECAME ONE" I listened to the first episode on TVC News and I concluded this man must be a devil. But listening to the man here says the opposite. She is alleging that the man is not faithful and yet she explained to the man how another man slept with her (she didn't deny it).
I told you all now.. part 1 all of you ladies crucified the man before he even spoke.. now you can see?? That’s why it’s always good to listen to both sides before judging and using emotional sentiments
Honorable Judge, considering your reliance on evidence in case proceedings, it is evident that this woman necessitates a psychological assessment. Her behavior reveals deceitfulness and manipulative tendencies. On the contrary, the man displays genuine qualities of a gentleman, and she should consider herself fortunate to have him as her spouse.
Judge funmi is very wise. God bless her. This woman spoke of her husband like he’s the Evil one I began to wonder . Now he has said his part and it’s just terrible. Thank God for the Judge
Imagine the woman who has musical video singing gospel and who also couldn't prove she didn't do extra marital affairs, woe unto you workers of iniquity,
Hmm! The man seems lonely. Where are his family members. They probably didn't support the wedding, and he cut them off. May God save him. My neighbor beats her husband regularly, so I believe the man. However, she didn't refute the allegation. May God save this man once again
Sigh. This is a product of failed parenting. The parents today were also kids at a point in their lives and were subconsciously raised defectively. Now these parents are at the point of raising defective kids and the cycle continues. I pray the kids improve on themseleves and get themselves rid of every toxicity they pick in this home. Damn! This is a very deep societal problem. PARENTING IS NOT CHILD'S PLAY
Let me start by appreciating Judge Funmi on how she weigh into the matter, God bless you ma. Women wake up and learn how to plan your family on how many kids you can raise. If you kill the man because of your problem you will carry the suffering alone better wake up and be a submissive woman plus hard working. He claimed he find peace with the other lady you said his cheating on with you. In this days 3 kids is not a joke not to talk of 5kids, again you say what convenant University like seriously manage the 20k abeg. I come in peace.
In my own opinion they are both the architects of their problem ! Poverty mentality giving birth to five children .... their feeding alone not to talk of schooling, clothing etc. To crown it all, she mentioned covenant University. She better face reality.l pitied those children sha! Thank you Judge Funmi, l celebrate the wisdom of God upon you.
Only God always can reveal couple's misunderstanding My husband know how to explain words than me anytime there's issue, I only shout shout Until I learned how to utter all issue wit evidence b4 everyone knew what have been passing through, now my husband has been begging bt all my families hate him dan snake, I thank God i have peace of mind now
I pity these children; they kept on procreating without plan!!! The woman appears like a narcissist and she didnt deny hitting the man. She doesn't even look healthy and even needs help.
Fact! I just checked her out on facebook, if not that she displayed her old picture when she mentioned her name for people to check that she is a public figure, you won't know she is the same person. Sad!
So sad to see family tearing apart with children involved. The woman might have anger and violent tendencies, but poverty and lack triggered this violent nature of hers. I watched her video on facebook, the talent and voice are there to excel and be at the top of her career, but it is what it is. This alone can cause frustration and depression for her to pour it on someone who unfortunately happens to be the husband whose look is as gentle as a dove. The man sounds intelligent and gentle, but it is what it is. These features doesn't solve economic issues. My fear is for the children not to be totally damaged in this tussle as they are going to be affected mentally and behaviorally. They are going to see their parents way as the way of life. My prayer is for God to help the family unite in love and be a testimony. The children can bring them together in peace with divine wisdom. Kudos to judge Funmi
How can anyone in the right frame of mind finds this case amusing like some people in the audience, without regards for the daughter! Imagine what this girl is going through to see her parents fight and to make the matter worse, publicly humiliate each other! I say it again, that many Nigerians has mental issues but they don’t know! This is an example of grave impact of corruption which has destroyed many people’ in mind! Mind is a terrible thing to lose! Where there is no compassion for one another in a situation like this or any other demise.
I pray the court does something about that. The audience were feeling entertained rather than being compassionate with the situation and to know that the children were there listening breaks my heart.
Nawa o. How can a woman sleep with her husband's friend and still have the nerves/guts to tell her husband. I wrongly judged this man on the first episode to the extent i even had issue with my boyfriend because of it. Please o guys. Lets stop judging from a one sided story. Having extra marital affair with another is hard to be forgiven. Let alone a friend to your husband 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
You see this pastor said this, pastor said that marriage 🤣🤣🤣 na so e dey always end. All these church courtship that you will just see each other, smile and shout praise the Lord. Like it's always not about the virginity ooo, character and compatibility should be checked too
The previous episode where the man said he married the woman as a virgin, most people thought he was referring to the woman as the 'virgin' not knowing it is himself.
Single life is depressing only in Nigeria because you people are brainwashed to believe that everybody must marry. You people in Nigeria need to learn the meaning of self love. If you cannot enjoy your own company and love yourself, you shouldn't get married because you will torture and suffocate your partner.
@ijonuigbo7417 either you are in Nigeria or not .God doesn't want us to be alone that is why the idea of marriage was created. There is no one in the world who want to be alone . Stop all this rubbish talk. I don't live in Nigeria and I can tell you that it is depressing to be alone . You must know when to leave an abusive relationship regardless.
@@toyinke441 speak for yourself for being depressed due to singleness. Singleness doesn't cause depression, because even married people get depressed too. If marriage heals depression, then why do a lot of married people commit suicide due to depression? Depression is a mental illness that affects both single and married people. So please, stop the ignorance and get educated on issues. Don't preach for people to get married to avoid depression because it shows your ignorance and illiteracy in that subject. When you marry, you will remember this discussion, when you realize that you will have depressing seasons in the marriage. By the way, if you want to help yourself, I suggest you lean how to love yourself now and how to find happiness within yourself before you marry anyone, because your marriage partner will not give you happiness. It is not the responsibility of your husband or wife to make you happy. You have to make yourself happy. You and your husband or wife have a duty to fulfill the marriage agreed values, that all.
@ijonuigbo7417 you are the ignorant one . Should we say that because there are some bad marriage mean marriage shouldn't be encouraged? God have ordained marriage, and there is no brainwashing in the word of God.
@@toyinke441 your ignorance is blinding your thinking. I never said that marriage was a bad thing. But it is bad to get married just to run from loneliness, because you will be disappointed and run out again. I can see you are incapable of that basic understanding, so I will leave you in your ignorance. Maybe the marriage experience will open your mind to understand what I am telling you. It's unfortunate that some people cannot learn until it hits them in the head.
Why are they laughing at the court. If they don’t have empathy they should be sitting there. Nonsense. The man is narrating his ordeal and some fools are laughing.
The Bible says, "better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife." - Proverb 21:9 Any wise person (as the judge), can tell that that woman is a very troublesome person. Queen of drama too! The man is too weak to be with someone like that. If he were a very strong alpha male, he MIGHT have been able to survive with her. This kind of woman is not meant for a weak man.
Thank you so much for the way you have handled this matter. I visited the woman's facebook page and saw and watched her videos. She is so talented. I believe the sky will be her limit if she can get a sponsor. She sings so beautifully.
@@BiofoodTechCoach May I know whats funny about my comment? You called yourself a life coach and mentor, so you should know better than laugh. No matter the situations in life, we all deserve a second chance.
I feel sorry for the children. That girl looks sad and embarrassed. The father needs to step up and be there for them, i pray he finds the strength and knowledge to raise them right.
That part got me. Covenant university’s no joke with a man earning 35k and not through admission o. He wants the man to shrink and die cause na only him be man.
The audience should not have laughed when the man said his wife beats him. This will discourage men from coming out.
Honestly 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes, I pray judge Fumi does something about this. The issues on ground are sensitive issues and the audience are feeling entertained with it. To think that the children were there listening to all that and the laughs break my heart.
It's not a laughing matter that a woman is beating the husband.
It's not a laughing matter that a woman is beating the husband.
This is the reason men don't speak up when their wife beats them because will be laughed at
The only source of enjoyment for a poor man is the wife. Driver 6 Children, Gardener 4 Children, Cook 4 Children, Gateman 5 Children. The Oga wey all of them Dey work for go get 2 Children.
This man looks like a peaceful man. This is heart shattering!!
I pray he heals from this horrible experience 😢
Honestly
I’m telling you
Am telling you
amen
He is a peaceful man. The woman is looking like hmmmmmm
It's disgusting that people were laughing as the husband was explaining his domestic abuse story. The judge should have cautioned them.
i know! terrible
You are right😢
It's terrible they are not to be laughing .it's painful
Is funny ni 😅😅😅😅😅
If she is the one, everyone will pity her, but now they laugh.
Time men have their own defense attorney.
When the man complained that the wife was beating him everyone laughed and found his story very funny. Imagine the tables were turned, everyone will shout "crucify the man". What a world of double standard. The woman should be locked up if found guilty to serve as a warning to all to "keep their hands to themselves".
Seriously...it wasn't funny
The woman is mentally imbalanced.
Am a mother of both genders, It pains me to hear people laugh, this is sickening, it makes other men not to come forward to report for fear of being laughed at, men are also human beings, this is so sad, something should be done to help boy child, SAD indeed.
What knocks me off my feet is those laughing... Its not even funny...
I agree with you
Proper Narcissistic woman with an Empath man.. you don’t need a judge in this case. Her face alone don judge the matter. Run for your life
Truly she is a narcissist
She's a proper psycho!
Lesson learnt, always listen to both sides of the story 😮
I swear when have not heard the man story I was like hummmm man sha
17 years 13 houses
God abeg in every mistake i will ever make in this life ,May i never marry wrongly
Amen for my children in Jesus name
This man is soft. He is a good man. I wish he had married someone who loves peace like him.
When you home school that number of children, with little income you'll may become crazier than her
God is control
This woman met a good man and took advantage of him... May God help them
This man is humble and gentle. May God bless him. He deserves some peace of mind.
Am not a man, Am always in support of men when I hear their domestic violence, stories, most times the men are the victims. May this man and all men find peace.
As in some woman are wild. imagine beating a man.
You are wrong. Most of the time women are the victims of domestic violence. Yet, we should never laugh at men being abused. It happens and is not funny.
It’s the fact that people in the audience are laughing. This is exactly why men do not report domestic violence.
What do you want the people in the audience to do cry,,u can't tell me even you didn't laugh, except your wife is beating you to
Thanks for this my brother... If it happens to be the other way round. You will see how everyone will get serious with the narration. It happens to a man now. It looks like a joke to everyone.
@@ogunsanyakolawole3011 I am a woman by the way, but yes, I agree with you partially. In some places in Africa, family members will even send a woman back to her marital home even when she has reported being physically abused. We all have to take it seriously for both men and women.
Exactly
The man should do DNA test on the five children to ascertain their paternity, a violent woman who's unfaithful cannot be trusted.
Some one who earns just 25k monthly, and struggling to bearly survive just to make ends meet in the hand of this woman, where will he get such money for DNA?
I totally agree with you
That will be my first point of call
Yes
@@miyakeangel4614 If asked for DNA Judge Funmi ld ve granted him, more-so d court ve some arrangements with some Labs, d only thing is dat Judge Funmi cannot go to dat route or extent unless d husband initiated, raised, or shows concerns.
Bless Up.@miyakeangel🙏
They are fighting everyday but they have 5 children 😂😂😂😂
This woman carry trouble for paper come oo😂😂😂😂.
I'm now addicted to this channel
When you agree to meet your own kids on a NEUTRAL ground? then you know this man is running away from trouble. i wish him luck
It's disheartening.. The man has been through the worst in that relationship. God I pray for the right woman for me 🙏
That woman na problem for this man .
Stop having many kids, especially when you have low income. Whenever there's not enough resources, frustration can lead to many things. Another point is, do not expect your partner to turn out the way you want him or her to be, just love and help to make things better. Great job Judge Funmi, God bless you.
They have just two kids
YES!!!!❤❤❤❤
@@monopoly9and can’t afford them.
@@monopoly95 she said in part 1
@@monopoly9They have 5 kids😂😂😂
He's saying she beat Him All of Y'all are laughing!! Just Flip the coin!!! 😠
It’s very typical tbh sigh
My dear it's sad. If a man beats a woman, wahala, if a woman beats a man, it's funny. Hmmm
Thank u judge funmi for giving the husband enough time to speak, to my own perspectives i perceived some truth in what the husband said than what the wife said.
Seeing the woman you no that she is troublesome person.
This woman is the queen of gaslighting. I can recognize narcissistic people like her anywhere - their sweet talking and enterprising persona can fool most people into thinking they're the victim. The man is a bit submissive by temperament and perhaps phlegmatic, hence why he can be easily manipulated and dominated like so. I feel sorry for the kids. She can easily poison the mind of those kids.
Exactly
So true
God bless you.
The woman is very manipulative.
And they cry easily to attract sympathy
Very true
This woman is a narcissist! I feel so sorry for the man. I could bet that even the way the woman appeared in court, looking all hagard and seek is all a set-up to curry unmerited favour from the judge. That is why it is not good to listen to one side of the story cos there are 3 sides to a story! Your part, my part and of cos the truth! I completely agree with the judge. You started having problem in your marriage right after the wedding, and you still went ahead to have 5children!😅😮 How do women do that!! I trust judge Funmi! She does not suffer any fool! She saw through all her lies, tears and pretences! Good judgment, your honor. More wisdom and knowledge
My dear, you nailed it. She even said that her husband absconding was the cause of her ill health, all these were lies too. She even started to shed crocodile tears from nowhere, just to know if she can get financial help. Stupid woman.
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You're right. Immediately the man said in their 17years of marriage they have changed 13 houses I was like wow🤔. I knew she must be the problem. Changing houses and consequently their school increasing difficulties for the man.
You're very correct, the woman came to court to push sentiment, the video of her in the studio shows exactly who she is, these people are just unnecessarily wîćked, the woman is a bittered woman, she never objected the fact of infidelity, the man is a victim of events, looking at their daughter in court shows that the woman lied alot...
I mean, she purposely dressed up looking upkeeped at the court, I was so shocked to see her look like that in that video displayed. She did all these for self pity!!! She is a real narcissist.
I feel the woman is more exposed to life than the husband hence the problem cos she would see whatever the gentle man does as “dull” and the man doesn’t see life that way plus if you’re not careful you might be convinced that she is saying the truth
Thank you. This man just said he has never slept with any other woman in his life before and after her. She did not even deny that she had extramaritalital affair.
God bless you Tina , you are a smart lady to figure this out. Imagine the woman talking about diploma in covenant university for a man who earn 35k salary. The woman eyes are on the high side. May God help them both.
how do u judge exposure....because he had not met any other woman before her? Is that a justification for you? Speaks volume of your measure of reasoning...very typical
If you are very careful while listening, it shows that the woman is 😈... fear who no fear woman
You're very correct, the woman came to court to push sentiment, the video of her in the studio shows exactly who she is, these people are just unnecessarily wîćked, the woman is a bittered woman, she never objected the fact of infidelity, the man is a victim of events, looking at their daughter in court shows that the woman lied alot...
The body language of the daughter shows the man wasn't Lieing
I've never seen him with anyone until he got married. He used to work with NIPOST and he is a brother that I lived with for many years. His name used to be Muritala, used to be a great Barber at association avenue Ilupeju and became pastor as Owolabi. He's a good man and never picks a fight with anyone. I saw this today and really felt bad deep down. Whatever happened, this woman needs to redress it because he's a true man of God.
Is there a way you can connect me to him?
Wrong marriage. He was fore warned. I feel for him
Wow, he's such a rare Gem
Hmmmm
Judge Funmi, I admire your patience. Your personality always reminds of me of my late mum.
I felt really sad and angry listening to this man for what his wife did to him, the entire world see women as victims but when men are in this kind of situations they see them as weaklings
Yes, really wished Judge addressed dat n warned d woman cos one day d man might retaliate, ppl who doesn't know his story, hmm if dem know nko, d man ld still b blamed anyway.
Bless Up @sullamanjallow 🙏
@@blessedbabe3316 he might decide to react and it will prove to be fatal.
This is very sad 😞. Woman if you want have a successful children’s don’t ever beat your father,mother, or your husband never. There’s so many unsuccessful children it’s was because of them mothers was treating bad them husband’s and karma is real and God is not sleeping.
Exactly.
Bless Up @@stepheniheanyichukwu1260
To me, the woman is an aggressive and troublesome in nature.
We need serious prayer before marriage.
I don't know how they will cope with training their children in this situation.
Men learn how to speak out because the society didn't do us well by bringing us up with the ideology of men don't complain,men don't talk,men don't cry. Many men have died in silence and because of domestic violence.
This woman the mental oooo covenant university kwa hiaaaa she no de look her pocket at all!
She be influencer na
@@rahmatmuhammad8736 lol influencer wey no fit feed her children 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This man needs help seriously, the woman is extremely deceptive, she didn't even counter the allocation of infidelity against her😢. Sorry man
am surprised
Am not surprised 😂. I know you will support the man 😂😂
@@lyziejofficial234who do you support ?
She did it, what is there to counter? her laziness has brought her here, if she had something doing she won't be looking the way she is. The man is sincere but made a mistake doing ministry without form of solid employment but I am glad he is picking up, I pity his daughter if she follows her mum's footsteps..otilo
Anger problems I can see here. Too bad. She needs to repent truly
I hate the fact that the audience laughed when he said she beats him. That’s why men don’t speak on abuse.
They laugh because men are suppose to be more strong.The spiritual husband of the human is beating him trough the woman.theirs homes need delivrance.
That is why men don't speak out and die in silence. So sad. It was annoying to see even men laughing among the audience
It's very annoying
@@reinematene460 what? Genuine question if a man beats a woman is that the spiritual wife?
@@reinematene460 You are spitting nonsense
Its always good to listen to both parties before taking decision.This woman with the way shes talking shows how aggressive and uncultured she's.The man must have been passing through alot at home
Ahswear... She was trying so hard not to rain insults on him, people like her shouldn't even be breathing
Looking at her face, you will know she's a Tiger.
Thank god you've already written what I wanted to write. Evil is clearly written all over the face of this woman.
Good children can never come out of such marriages and their children would likely be as aggressive and abusive as herself .
Very important
@@topeadebayo391She appears scary, truthfully
Listening to both sides of the story is quite important. I was supporting the woman all the way untilI heard the man speak
Exactly, same with me
MORE GRACE MA. MARGESTRATE FUNMI. U ARE A REAL MOTHER INDEED
Una Sabi support nonsense
D same here
If this man should do a DNA test all those children are not his . This woman is a criminal. She have been beating him , tormenting him . She took advantage of his weakness and innocent.
I am proud to be a good woman
Shout out to the judge. Such a good listener🙌🏽🙌🏽. The little comment he made about her parents shows why she seemed to be always aggressive to him that is to tell us that for those that bear abusive environments, they are not only sacrificing self but the development and the mental quality of your children because what they see with their eyes make a good part of the person they become by default. God will help us.
Babcock and covenant for who never chop?
This woman!!!!!
😂😂😂😅
Greed
I Taya o
Abi ooo
I first shock when I hear am.
This is just unbelievable...
This man needs to run as far his legs can carry.
To live in thirteen houses for17 years is shocking. This woman chased her husband away with her bad character now the kids are meant to bear the brunt. may God help these people. May lack and want never be our portion.
these people need to help GOD
The wife is something else, God help mercy on this man.
For my observation i think this woman get anger issue, 😠 and she did all those things her husband said which is very bad because she' couldn't deny it
Oh how i wish these two can raise their kids together because they are both intelligent people. 😢 I pray for peace in every marriage and home for the future of our next generation.
They’re both excellent people 😂
you is foolish,this demon isn't his wife,a mental demon? y'all always putting God in stuff he doesn't belong
I hope we have the courage to act on red flags in relationships.
Since I saw this quote, it has never left me "I NEVER BELIEVED MY FATHER UNTIL I BECAME ONE"
I listened to the first episode on TVC News and I concluded this man must be a devil.
But listening to the man here says the opposite.
She is alleging that the man is not faithful and yet she explained to the man
how another man slept with her (she didn't deny it).
you people mind is wicked how you think judge this man before you even heard him
Thanks to the hon. judge for the judgement. It is well
Men are really going through a lot just that they unable to voices it out. May God have mercy.
I feel this man is saying the truth. Men are human to. We women can do better abeg.
I told you all now.. part 1 all of you ladies crucified the man before he even spoke.. now you can see?? That’s why it’s always good to listen to both sides before judging and using emotional sentiments
I said the same thing. You can just sense the woman has no self awareness. This poor man has been through hell
May God help us not to marry wrong in this life.. Amen 🙏
What about those who already married wrong?
@@barakasha2812 I pray God imterven on their behalf because I can't imagine
Honorable Judge, considering your reliance on evidence in case proceedings, it is evident that this woman necessitates a psychological assessment. Her behavior reveals deceitfulness and manipulative tendencies. On the contrary, the man displays genuine qualities of a gentleman, and she should consider herself fortunate to have him as her spouse.
Are you sure! Bico!
I agree
Total agree
Where did you get your psychiatry degree?
@@aaa-pp😂😂😂
Judge fumi ,I thank you ma for the good job you are doing. You have heard so many funny things yet you don't laugh. At times I will laugh and roll.
This woman knows how the man is struggling but wants her child to take diploma in convenant university…. Thank you your honor for correcting her.
Can you imagine that, a school that most professional workers can't even afford
@@luluchris9564 I’m telling you,I really pity him, it’s better for him to be paying 20k from far before pressure kill him jare
That’s where you get to know she’s evil as she looks
She seems a very unreasonable woman, wtf 😥
She said Baba de Sell Land 😂😂😂
Judge funmi is very wise. God bless her. This woman spoke of her husband like he’s the Evil one I began to wonder . Now he has said his part and it’s just terrible. Thank God for the Judge
The man shaking his head behind him is making it very funny 😁 😂
What I'll tell the man "RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!!"
Imagine the woman who has musical video singing gospel and who also couldn't prove she didn't do extra marital affairs, woe unto you workers of iniquity,
She even married a virgin, I wonder what's wrong with her, her heart is not right at all
The judge has a good parental advice
I feel bad for the children growing up in this dysfunction
It's just so sad. You don't include children in this. It's shameful and not palatable.
You look so beautiful. 🙂
Thats it, such a scattered life moving houses 13 times... the kids need therapy
So sad
@@aallthingsbeautiful lol, who will give them? 🤣
The only thing that break my heart is the involvement of these children.Imagine them watching these drama, it's so disheartening .
It is up to them to not turn out the way their parents did
@@adeyemiadeleye5428 you are right. But it will be difficult. All these has psychological effects on kids
@@dumebitemple4029you are right this is so sad
I feel for the man , because i have male children i fear them to suffer this way in the name of marriage 😪😪
They will marry thier friends, not enemies. Ma'am keep praying for them and God will direct thier ways to right women.
They will marry thier friends, not enemies. Ma'am keep praying for them and God will direct thier ways to right women.
Hmm! The man seems lonely. Where are his family members. They probably didn't support the wedding, and he cut them off. May God save him. My neighbor beats her husband regularly, so I believe the man. However, she didn't refute the allegation. May God save this man once again
Sigh. This is a product of failed parenting. The parents today were also kids at a point in their lives and were subconsciously raised defectively. Now these parents are at the point of raising defective kids and the cycle continues. I pray the kids improve on themseleves and get themselves rid of every toxicity they pick in this home. Damn! This is a very deep societal problem. PARENTING IS NOT CHILD'S PLAY
It's good to listen to both sides.
As in eh. Very correct
Let me start by appreciating Judge Funmi on how she weigh into the matter, God bless you ma.
Women wake up and learn how to plan your family on how many kids you can raise. If you kill the man because of your problem you will carry the suffering alone better wake up and be a submissive woman plus hard working. He claimed he find peace with the other lady you said his cheating on with you.
In this days 3 kids is not a joke not to talk of 5kids, again you say what convenant University like seriously manage the 20k abeg. I come in peace.
In my own opinion they are both the architects of their problem ! Poverty mentality giving birth to five children .... their feeding alone not to talk of schooling, clothing etc. To crown it all, she mentioned covenant University. She better face reality.l pitied those children sha! Thank you Judge Funmi, l celebrate the wisdom of God upon you.
I loved the judgement of Judge Funmi.
She's staking about Covenant University as if she's talking about Federal University 😂
Judge funmi is fantastic!
May God bless my country oo...
Imagine 20k settlement..
One adult and 4 other kids
Only God always can reveal couple's misunderstanding
My husband know how to explain words than me anytime there's issue, I only shout shout
Until I learned how to utter all issue wit evidence b4 everyone knew what have been passing through, now my husband has been begging bt all my families hate him dan snake, I thank God i have peace of mind now
Did I hear COVENANT UNIVERSITY? This woman is well oooh
I pity these children; they kept on procreating without plan!!! The woman appears like a narcissist and she didnt deny hitting the man. She doesn't even look healthy and even needs help.
Fact! I just checked her out on facebook, if not that she displayed her old picture when she mentioned her name for people to check that she is a public figure, you won't know she is the same person. Sad!
@@awojemilaajoke5396 exactly. She dresses well with make up. But she came here looking like a desolate woman.
I know women who appear sick and actually become sick... whenever they want, just to make their spouse look evil. That woman is healthy, I tell you.
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@@oluwaseundaramola304😂
So sad to see family tearing apart with children involved. The woman might have anger and violent tendencies, but poverty and lack triggered this violent nature of hers. I watched her video on facebook, the talent and voice are there to excel and be at the top of her career, but it is what it is. This alone can cause frustration and depression for her to pour it on someone who unfortunately happens to be the husband whose look is as gentle as a dove.
The man sounds intelligent and gentle, but it is what it is. These features doesn't solve economic issues. My fear is for the children not to be totally damaged in this tussle as they are going to be affected mentally and behaviorally. They are going to see their parents way as the way of life. My prayer is for God to help the family unite in love and be a testimony. The children can bring them together in peace with divine wisdom. Kudos to judge Funmi
How can anyone in the right frame of mind finds this case amusing like some people in the audience, without regards for the daughter! Imagine what this girl is going through to see her parents fight and to make the matter worse, publicly humiliate each other! I say it again, that many Nigerians has mental issues but they don’t know! This is an example of grave impact of corruption which has destroyed many people’ in mind! Mind is a terrible thing to lose! Where there is no compassion for one another in a situation like this or any other demise.
It's quite sad and unfortunate. We jest and laugh at things we should not where and when we should not.
I pray the court does something about that. The audience were feeling entertained rather than being compassionate with the situation and to know that the children were there listening breaks my heart.
I just wonder how insensitive they can be
The daughter behind was like😮😮😮 this my mother can lie ooh😮😮😮
Nawa o. How can a woman sleep with her husband's friend and still have the nerves/guts to tell her husband. I wrongly judged this man on the first episode to the extent i even had issue with my boyfriend because of it. Please o guys. Lets stop judging from a one sided story. Having extra marital affair with another is hard to be forgiven. Let alone a friend to your husband 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Covenant university 😂 this woman na Olee
Justice Funmi is doing wonderfully well, let's all gather here and give her a 👍
They're cause of the challenges they're going thru. 5 Childeren without a reasonable income.
I believe him. She didn't share any concrete evidence. How can you claim somebody cheats by dream
😂😂😂
E tire me sef
What hit me hard is that she didn't deny of having sex with her husband friend 😢😢😢
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Omo e tire me self oooo😂😂😂
She said she is a prophet and dream interpreter 😂
You see this pastor said this, pastor said that marriage 🤣🤣🤣 na so e dey always end.
All these church courtship that you will just see each other, smile and shout praise the Lord.
Like it's always not about the virginity ooo, character and compatibility should be checked too
Wahala wahala wahala...this woman "wants problem and violence always". Be calming down
This is a good man....
Thanks for leaving home..
The previous episode where the man said he married the woman as a virgin, most people thought he was referring to the woman as the 'virgin' not knowing it is himself.
Lexical ambiguity
Ma u are so full of wisdom.. God bless you ma
women that have good men as husband don't know what they have until the lose him. single life is depressing .God abeg ooo
Single life is depressing only in Nigeria because you people are brainwashed to believe that everybody must marry. You people in Nigeria need to learn the meaning of self love. If you cannot enjoy your own company and love yourself, you shouldn't get married because you will torture and suffocate your partner.
@ijonuigbo7417 either you are in Nigeria or not .God doesn't want us to be alone that is why the idea of marriage was created. There is no one in the world who want to be alone . Stop all this rubbish talk.
I don't live in Nigeria and I can tell you that it is depressing to be alone . You must know when to leave an abusive relationship regardless.
@@toyinke441 speak for yourself for being depressed due to singleness. Singleness doesn't cause depression, because even married people get depressed too. If marriage heals depression, then why do a lot of married people commit suicide due to depression? Depression is a mental illness that affects both single and married people. So please, stop the ignorance and get educated on issues. Don't preach for people to get married to avoid depression because it shows your ignorance and illiteracy in that subject.
When you marry, you will remember this discussion, when you realize that you will have depressing seasons in the marriage. By the way, if you want to help yourself, I suggest you lean how to love yourself now and how to find happiness within yourself before you marry anyone, because your marriage partner will not give you happiness. It is not the responsibility of your husband or wife to make you happy. You have to make yourself happy. You and your husband or wife have a duty to fulfill the marriage agreed values, that all.
@ijonuigbo7417 you are the ignorant one .
Should we say that because there are some bad marriage mean marriage shouldn't be encouraged?
God have ordained marriage, and there is no brainwashing in the word of God.
@@toyinke441 your ignorance is blinding your thinking. I never said that marriage was a bad thing. But it is bad to get married just to run from loneliness, because you will be disappointed and run out again. I can see you are incapable of that basic understanding, so I will leave you in your ignorance. Maybe the marriage experience will open your mind to understand what I am telling you. It's unfortunate that some people cannot learn until it hits them in the head.
I don't know why people are laughing o. If na the man dey beat the woman now everyone go look bad, everyone should look sad in that court room
Thank you for the 2nd part to this video.❤
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Thank you for giving that man enough time to talk.....
Look at the way her daughter is looking at her from the back.
I just saw that 😢
This is indeed painful.
And coincidentally I just posted a story video about a husband being physically abused by his wife and lo this video popped up
Thank you so much judge fummi God bless you ma
This woman get mind na convenant univ you go select
Imagine 😢
Why are they laughing at the court. If they don’t have empathy they should be sitting there. Nonsense. The man is narrating his ordeal and some fools are laughing.
Judge Fumi I have been Following your vidéos I keep on praisinf God for your life. You are the kind of Judges wé need.
The Bible says, "better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife." - Proverb 21:9
Any wise person (as the judge), can tell that that woman is a very troublesome person. Queen of drama too! The man is too weak to be with someone like that. If he were a very strong alpha male, he MIGHT have been able to survive with her. This kind of woman is not meant for a weak man.
I have to be close to my bible
Thank you so much for the way you have handled this matter. I visited the woman's facebook page and saw and watched her videos. She is so talented. I believe the sky will be her limit if she can get a sponsor. She sings so beautifully.
@@BiofoodTechCoach May I know whats funny about my comment? You called yourself a life coach and mentor, so you should know better than laugh. No matter the situations in life, we all deserve a second chance.
It's not about talents sir...this woman is psychotic...she needs mental therapy
Pls what is her face book page please
@@suppaprosolutions6639 Yetunde Ologodidan
I feel sorry for the children. That girl looks sad and embarrassed. The father needs to step up and be there for them, i pray he finds the strength and knowledge to raise them right.
Excactly it is the children for me having to witness the shameful scene
Is that all you can say? Even when you heard that the woman always beat up the man you didn't condemn her act. U must be a very bad person
@@mrtag9907 Be wise.
I wept watching this. How do people go from 'i love you' to this?
God!!!
She is surprised about how her fellow woman is misbehaving 😢
Na wa ooo,dz man too soft abeg, me no fit train my son like dat abeg, imagine his own wife riding him like dz bcos of his upbringing
Thank you judge Funmi. They will be putting children in school that the father cannot afford.
That part got me. Covenant university’s no joke with a man earning 35k and not through admission o. He wants the man to shrink and die cause na only him be man.
I judge the man in part 1 now I am wrong it's good to listen to both side of the story