You is smart, you is kind, you is important!!! - Viola Davis | The help Movie

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  • The Help (2011)
    Viola Davis
    Aibileen Clark, Mae Mobley
    Nanny Aibileen Clack wants the baby, Mae Mobley, to keep in mind that she is kind, she is smart, she is important.
    Aibileen is an African-American maid living in Jackson Mississippi. She cares for Elizabeth’s daughter, Mae Mobley, whom Elizabeth herself doesn`t treat well.
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Комментарии • 94

  • @ninarenay9204
    @ninarenay9204 7 месяцев назад +2154

    My favorite scene is when she says “You’re my real mama Abi” ❤❤❤

    • @larafranke1802
      @larafranke1802 5 месяцев назад +126

      but it makes their last moment even more heartbreaking 😭😭😭
      At least she was loved and taken care of for her first years. Except for the fact that the parents barely changed her diaper themselves 😠

    • @ninarenay9204
      @ninarenay9204 5 месяцев назад +15

      @@larafranke1802 very true! 💔💔💔

    • @k101-c8y
      @k101-c8y 3 месяца назад +3

      Abi wasn’t her mama though 😡🤔

    • @larafranke1802
      @larafranke1802 3 месяца назад +41

      @@k101-c8y I think children mostly call people their mom and dads when they feel safe, taken care of and loved by them. Abi spends more time with the kids then their biological mother.
      I often took care of the neighbours daughter and she often called me mum but then realised she wasn't with her actual mother. I felt honoured cause even though I am not related to her I was a parental figure for her. When she was spending more time with her dad and then did something with me she also called me daddy.
      Children express themselves differently and I totally get why the girl said this to her nanny

    • @k101-c8y
      @k101-c8y 3 месяца назад +8

      @@larafranke1802 I already know this. I just think where was the little girls actual mother in all this. It’s nice that Abi was kind enough to go out of her way to take care of another woman’s child but I don’t like the thought of Abis children being neglected whilst she is showing care, love and devotion to another woman’s child. Which is all I see when I see this. It’s not like she was even appreciated at the end. All in all- it’s only a movie.
      Similar story in *gone with the wind* as well.
      And I don’t think some of the women at that time would have seen it as an *honour*. People who have children should be the ones taking care of their own children. I’m looking at it from Abis perspective not the little girls.
      Everyone is always like how sweet this image is. Well I don’t think it’s sweet to leave your own child to take care of another woman’s child who didn’t even have the care or decency to allow you to use her toilet.
      But it’s only a movie.

  • @melissacontreras330
    @melissacontreras330 Год назад +1261

    This is so important positive affirmations so a child can be resilient ❤😁😊

  • @janeR96
    @janeR96 6 месяцев назад +545

    I would’ve love to see her all grown up saying this to herself because she never forget what AB did for her as a child and then have them reunite after all those years

    • @Kassitabbby
      @Kassitabbby 2 месяца назад +11

      Yes we need a part two !!

    • @Liamalaing
      @Liamalaing 19 дней назад

      In my heart, she always did, because love knows no colour, only impact!

    • @TheYungPrince
      @TheYungPrince 9 дней назад

      My grandmother still has the pictures of the two kids she raised

  • @rach_robinson0988
    @rach_robinson0988 2 месяца назад +343

    My daughter’s Pre-K teacher bent down with a mirror in the doorway when greeting each student every morning - and asked them to look at their reflection and repeat “I am kind, I am smart, I am important.” I cried the first time I watched this… We will never ever forget her. My daughter bawled her eyes out at the end of the school year, because she didn’t want to leave her classroom. She was the best teacher & left a lasting impression on every one of those children.

  • @MysticalMoonBaby80
    @MysticalMoonBaby80 Год назад +360

    The baby is adorable

  • @maddymunoz107
    @maddymunoz107 5 месяцев назад +183

    I love how the little girl develops a accent because of her ❤❤❤

  • @kirarasmom4274
    @kirarasmom4274 10 месяцев назад +184

    I say this every day in the mirror to my self. I also say, " I love you ."

  • @carolinecavalcante5778
    @carolinecavalcante5778 10 месяцев назад +104

    Who wouldnt want to have viola davis as a mom?! Gosh i love this woman!!! Will be hard to watch her in the new hunger Games movie

    • @1stRoi
      @1stRoi 6 месяцев назад +4

      @carolinecavalcante5778
      When watching just remember she is Viola Davis, one of the greatest female actors of our time!

  • @lacyspano11440
    @lacyspano11440 7 месяцев назад +103

    Every child needs these affirmations!!!!!
    This movie teaches us so so much!

  • @bimaginaryworld
    @bimaginaryworld 22 дня назад +5

    Because of this movie, Im saying this every morning when my daughter woke up 😊

  • @thesweetlife6344
    @thesweetlife6344 4 месяца назад +29

    Her cute little hands ❤

  • @kristinaj9159
    @kristinaj9159 11 месяцев назад +85

    She didnt deserve what happened, neither of them did

    • @Spida_Chapplliinn
      @Spida_Chapplliinn 11 месяцев назад +27

      The ending a child got separated from her mama….

    • @aaizaasghar3000
      @aaizaasghar3000 Месяц назад

      @@Spida_Chapplliinnoh na don’t 😢😢😢😢

  • @maggiebellekenyon
    @maggiebellekenyon 7 месяцев назад +27

    stop i cried so hard at this movie

  • @mikehansen3508
    @mikehansen3508 6 месяцев назад +19

    I wish I had somebody telling me that every morning.

  • @terrigwyn9963
    @terrigwyn9963 5 месяцев назад +16

    Warms my heart I just watch over and over…….

  • @terrigwyn9963
    @terrigwyn9963 5 месяцев назад +28

    The little hands! Soooo sweet. 💕💕

  • @Kassitabbby
    @Kassitabbby 2 месяца назад +14

    I just watched this movie because ther3 was so much shorts on here and let me tell you i am sobbing at the end broke my heart when she said give my little sweatheart a chance to her mom and the little girl was banging and screaming on the window that part broke me !!! I ain’t want her to leave the little girl she needed her ugh my heart 😢

  • @WinterRiviR
    @WinterRiviR 15 дней назад +1

    I say this sentence to my 3 year old daughter all the time bc of this movie. This little girl made me want to have a daughter of my own and I am so thankful to have my son and my daughter both, they’re my treasures!

  • @MsRocker961
    @MsRocker961 8 дней назад +1

    I so love ❤️ this movie

  • @VJMOJO
    @VJMOJO 7 месяцев назад +8

    We need to stand up for people like this

  • @adalidreyes403
    @adalidreyes403 4 месяца назад +13

    Mae Mobley was one of the most beautiful little girls in Jackson, in the Help 🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @user-df8jv4ye1v
    @user-df8jv4ye1v 4 месяца назад +6

    Adorable

  • @Krishnakumartvm
    @Krishnakumartvm 5 месяцев назад +5

    Cute baby learns quickly ❤❤😊

  • @LolGurrl91
    @LolGurrl91 Месяц назад +2

    This sweet moment makes me emotional because I remember how it ended 😢

  • @donnasams2836
    @donnasams2836 8 месяцев назад +6

    I love this movie!! This little girl is so cute!!! 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Muushca03
      @Muushca03 8 месяцев назад

      She learned lines!!!! Wow

  • @paulettebillson49
    @paulettebillson49 7 месяцев назад +4

    I loved that movie. The Help.

  • @mysticstarlight2802
    @mysticstarlight2802 Год назад +38

    I absolutely love this movie ❤

    • @me1149
      @me1149 Год назад +2

      what is it called?

    • @Elfitaelle
      @Elfitaelle Год назад +2

      ​​@@me1149 the help

    • @mysticstarlight2802
      @mysticstarlight2802 Год назад +2

      @@me1149
      The Help

    • @Beccs1080
      @Beccs1080  Год назад +1

      @@me1149 The help

    • @mrj.kottari8453
      @mrj.kottari8453 11 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@me1149
      Try reading the novel, too (where the movie bases)
      Also called "The Help"

  • @nikkie9302
    @nikkie9302 Месяц назад +1

    This is precious 😢

  • @ameliaflynnhayes
    @ameliaflynnhayes Месяц назад +1

    That was some great advice she gave her

  • @imarandomgirl.
    @imarandomgirl. Месяц назад +1

    Watched this film after I saw this short and it’s amazing❤

  • @user-xj4qy4ix7p
    @user-xj4qy4ix7p 2 месяца назад

    This is exactly what I tell my child ever so often ,this movie taught me so many lessons ❤

  • @Annieslayyyys
    @Annieslayyyys 24 дня назад

    I know the actor who plays Mae Mobley! Her mom also teaches me

  • @gokulanath647
    @gokulanath647 Месяц назад

    It melts me

  • @ellevictory1339
    @ellevictory1339 8 месяцев назад +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤ yep i remember this years ago so important for all my future children and this one she knows 😂🎉❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉😂

  • @user-fx2hg7jl5h
    @user-fx2hg7jl5h 2 месяца назад

    the baby is so cute ☺️

  • @monisemelo1823
    @monisemelo1823 Год назад +32

    Everyday I say this to my nephew 🫶

  • @ritialydia
    @ritialydia 2 месяца назад

    Love ...the Superpower.

  • @usualsuspects42
    @usualsuspects42 2 месяца назад

    Don’t we all wish we had someone who would have told us this

  • @DippedInSauce1795
    @DippedInSauce1795 2 месяца назад

    I just watched this, damn, I cried. It’s such an inspiring and wonderful film to watch.

  • @Krista-b2r
    @Krista-b2r Месяц назад +1

    This movie was a hard watch at times..

  • @L19966
    @L19966 Месяц назад

    You are*

  • @xl-origins
    @xl-origins 6 месяцев назад +5

    I don't have kids but, I say this to mh dog every morning!

  • @DeannaRodriguez-yq5ym
    @DeannaRodriguez-yq5ym 6 месяцев назад +1

    My therapist showed me the stuff right here😂

  • @lissetterivera3045
    @lissetterivera3045 7 месяцев назад

    Dios es bueno.

  • @art4023
    @art4023 Месяц назад

  • @Brooklyn-rj3np
    @Brooklyn-rj3np 6 месяцев назад

    Never had this

  • @lovelyblackdove
    @lovelyblackdove 18 дней назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @haydinGlass
    @haydinGlass 2 месяца назад

    that’s my camp counselor 🎉

  • @jacquilong6208
    @jacquilong6208 Месяц назад

    😊

  • @brianharris706
    @brianharris706 2 месяца назад

    My mom used to tell me to say this every day in the mirror because we watched this movie

  • @Angxlzedits
    @Angxlzedits 14 дней назад

    whats the movie name

  • @goody2shoes560
    @goody2shoes560 Месяц назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @shanafehr
    @shanafehr 6 месяцев назад +1

    🤍🤍🤍💐💐💐💐💐💐🤗🤗🤗🤗😍😍😍😍

  • @donatapowell8143
    @donatapowell8143 3 месяца назад +2

    This is how black mothers should be with their own children.

    • @Beccs1080
      @Beccs1080  3 месяца назад +3

      This is how ALL mothers should be with their children….

  • @SheelaMarieMVacal
    @SheelaMarieMVacal 18 дней назад

    This should be is time with mother and daughter.. not The Help..
    The Help at this hour is rest in.. and fixed in is things that forget to fixed at morning.. as goes to work into kitchen and clean house..

  • @rizqiaannisa5219
    @rizqiaannisa5219 8 месяцев назад +3

    Why she uses 'is' not 'are'?

    • @rogertaylor7433
      @rogertaylor7433 7 месяцев назад +9

      She's black and from the south in the sixties. Often, young ladies of the African American race had to drop out of school to have jobs to help support their families. Being a maid or watching children for wealthy white families was one of the major jobs in Mississippi for them. The movie THE HELP is a good movie based on an equally fantastic book.
      Blessings!!!

    • @rizqiaannisa5219
      @rizqiaannisa5219 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@rogertaylor7433 I see, now i understand. Wow, this movie really put attention to detail. Thank you for explaining for me.

    • @1stRoi
      @1stRoi 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@rogertaylor7433absolutely

    • @whippinsaw
      @whippinsaw 5 месяцев назад +3

      Its part of AAVE, or African American Vernacular English. Its just a dialect of English, with its own rules.

  • @iwakalbus3970
    @iwakalbus3970 8 месяцев назад +2

    Why did she use “you is” isntead of “you are”? As somene not using English language daily, this scene confuses me 🤔

    • @msparker4493
      @msparker4493 8 месяцев назад +19

      In those days, lots of african american maids left school at a young age to work. Some were not highly educated . Although They were intelligent.

  • @n0tfr0mth1sw0rld
    @n0tfr0mth1sw0rld Месяц назад

    I don't get how these kids could've possibly grew into racists themselves as they were receiving all their love from black servants 😒 surely that must've changed something in them

  • @mathanifanchun7198
    @mathanifanchun7198 2 месяца назад