Mona Scott told her she was doing too much before he went to jail. She has passed her husband and her dosen't know how to keep up and dosen't feel needed and he's going to go some where with someone who wants him and more on his level. He doesn't want to go where she's going. She just need to come to terms you can't make him be what you want him to be. He's just not that dude!!!
Yandy had absolutely NOTHING to gain from this relationship. He himself admitted that he wouldn’t have done the same for her. What the hell more does he want from her? He told Erica that he wanted to be in the music industry ,and Yandy was his way in. Never date a man with multiple baby mothers
He and Erica also had their son and a whole apartment together while he was with Yandy. Samantha said along time ago that Mandeecee’s loved Erica, but Yandy is determined that’s her Man 🤷🏽♀️
@@jerseywomeninc.8640He was never her man!! She was his way out and he took it and married her for having his back but he never in love with her. He doesn't need her anymore and she disrespectful she just does what Yandy without Including him and there family that's a big problem. He doesn't want to where she's going. She destroyed her own marriage by not listening to her husband.
@@lynn8796? You mean the man that bought nothing to the table, let his mom disrespect her and trying to be out through the streets with his friends instead of feeling a life with his pregnant woman and child at home? That dude is a manchild that never grew up. She needs to include him, but he doesn’t have to respect her and he allows his mom to disrespect her. I guess that’s OK??? She’s not losing anything if she let him go, he only used her to get into the industry
I swear no matter what you do for some people. It is never enough! Sometimes, being loyal gets you heartache and pain. It makes you wonder if it is even worth putting all your eggs in one basket.
Most women who choose to get BBLs, ESPECIALLY over the age of 30, they tend not to be loyal. I don’t know their entire situation but she walks around half naked and is dismissive/ disrespectful. Most men aren’t loyal to women who they don’t respect.
Samantha said a long time ago that Mandeecee’s loved Erica. Yandy was always a lot more invested in the relationship and I never believed Mandeecee’s was with Yandy for the right reasons. Their chemistry gave more Friendship than in Love.
Yes, that’s what I’ve always said. He was not in love with Yandy… Yandy needs to slow down…. She is over the top with the relationship, she’s buying his love.
Most women just leave, they leave with everything especially when they are the breadwinner. Yandy held him down and receive a “ I never forced you or asked you to do all this for me”
@@MrsLovely218what about his respect for her and their relationship. If he felt like he wasn’t getting the respect, why did HE stay. Imagine making excuses for grown men. Weird.
This would really fck them folk up 😂😂😂😂 if yandy pulls a “ oh really have him” everything over there would fully crumble. Yandy could easily pull an Eve ( rapper from ruff Ryder ) and get married to a well established man who is on her level or more.
@@sincerely9187 Of course you wouldn’t understand, Comprehension on this internet is wild… She was single if she was the prize a man would have already married her, wait and see if she gets another one , she will be single for a long time What make her a “Prize”?
@MrsLovely218 comprehension has never been my weakness, but understanding stupidity has. They've been together for over 15 years. She stuck with him through his incarceration while remaining a part of his son's life from a previous relationship. She held things down. She later gave him two children and actively helped raise his son. She's a businesswoman, mother, partner who has stood by her man through adversity and the cheating rumors. In the midst of all that, she has managed to keep herself together and look good. So yeah, I called her a prize because he's lucky to have her. Know your worth.
Before yandy had kids, she was talking to a computer engineer who was there and treated her like a queen but she choose him,,,, now my boy married with a Philippine making 250k plus bonuses and yandy going through some shit,,,young ladies, learn from this cause you live once.
I think she's getting back what she deserves. She lied so much on the other women, who have kids from him. He never seemed to be invested in her and what they have .
EVERYTHING YOU SAID IS WOMENS PROBLEM....ALWAYS TRYNA RUN TO WHERE YOU THINK THE GRASS IS GREENER...YANDY WOULD OF HAD PROBLEMS WITH THE OTHER GUY TO BECAUSE LIFE IS NOT A CINDERELLA BOOK MISS....LIFE IS REAL WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS THAT GO THRU CHANGES DAILY......SOME DAYS WE FEEL GREAT SOME DAYS NOT SO GREAT......
Kirk is smarter he helps his wife build businesses and supports but mendecee sit here and complain yandy loves money meanwhile what the hell is he doing to bring more money to the family?
In no way is she the winner. She allowed a thug to impregnate her she played his side chick till he needed to benefit off her, let her play the wife position during her second pregnancy, had her wait five years for him in prison having her help raise his kids other while he was away and the moment he got out he went back to his baby mother while still benefiting off the money yandy brought to the table from the opportunities she gave then.
I beg to differ. No we shouldn't cheat in a marriage, may as well leave the relationship before you step out. But he was faithful and really tried with Yandy
Dude is a narcissist/user, and he used Yandy because he knew she'd go above and beyond for him, especially when him and all his teeth went to prison? Yandy, also should take accountability for her broken heart because, had she not ignored the red flags(I believe she possibly got pregnant thinking, it would keep him and maybe make him value her enough to start loving her? She's standing outside talking bout "FREE MENDEECEE!" and even back then I recall thinking "Dang sis, I hope he would do the same for u?" Here comes ol Mendeecee....... Interviewer: "Yandy stuck by u thru everything, would u do it for her?" Mendeecee: " Ummm.....Nah!" Yandy: 😳 Interviewer: 🫣
He never loved Yandy the way he loved Erica..from a man can say his marriage is nothing but a contract then that’s all it’s gone be a business..and yandy the ceo
Just was saying this I couldn’t remember her name but before they showed her pic I was saying it only had to be that baby mother..from the other get together they had with him wanting to all live in the same house I said he loves this woman and not letting her live out his sight..I lived for it..really rather her over yandy
@@Sanchia-y3y internet full of selective memories and outrage Erica been his girl she just wasn’t financially stable enough to help him through the charges and bail hell he was giving her money he needed yandys clean money and name she was the smartest move it was never love
Same here...and Erica said it on the reunion. That's why Yandy pulled dat B's at the birthday party. Then lil memdecess mom tried to tell her too. Smdh it was a story line for Yandy from jump but dat what she get clowning everybody else on the show wit relationship issues
Yandy allowed social status and pride of being "the chosen 1" cloud her judgement of this man's true character. She's always been passive aggressive and too arrogent to be wrong. Even when he's shown her time and time again that he's not that into her. She'll continue to go the extra mile for him knowing that he won't reciprocate that same energy. The cracks have been showing for almost a decade. She just doesn't wanna be wrong. And she doesn't want the time she invested in this "business" relationship to be in vain.
You are 1000% spot on. She has been trying to break into the forefront of celebrity status since she worked for Jim Jones. He was paying her a mint and she just wanted to be seen. This is why she and Chrissy weren't getting a long when LAHH first came out. She just needs to admit to herself that that is more important than being his "yes woman". Besides, what is it that he brings to the table other than drama?
Mendeeces chose Yandy because he was headed to prison and she was the better option to hold him down. Did you all forget how she thought she was better than the others and talked down on them because she was the chosen one? I have no sympathy for her. Karma always hits the mean girls the hardest.
Mendecees chose Yandy far before the court case. His involvement with her & the shoe happens before the show & the charges as a result of his being public. He was living with Erica in a apt paid for by Yandy when he left to be with Yandy to get that L&HH clout. He never seemed to like her like that she was more of a opportunity & had more to offer than the other girls. Yandy did act like she was better than the other two & the chosen 1. She is a mean girl when it comes to the. & A liar trying to do anything to keep him. Smh
I am so disgusted with Mendeecees but I also hope that Yandy finds the strength to leave and heal so that she can find someone who truly loves her. When someone holds you down for 6 years or however long he was in jail and make sure the kids are good how can u question their love for u. I swear ppl suck really bad and this is why I will probably be single for the rest of my life. I don't trust a soul anymore.
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Mendecees been crying out to Yandy for a long time and she has not been listening! She has always prioritized money and other worldly things over their relationship and their family. I know everyone wants her to be innocent in this but shes not. You have to prioritize your partner. Mendecees was trying to explain this to her, not for her to give up on her dreams but for her to prioritize her relationship as well. In life you need to have a balance. Cheating is never okay! HOWEVER, a lot of ppl get cheated on bc they neglect their partner even when their partner has confided in them about their needs. If you cant prioritize your relationship in your life, it will fall apart. Lastly, men have feelings too and want to feel needed and wanted just as much as us women do.
“Mendecees been crying out to Yandy”…I’m blown away by your comment. Did he make their relationship “a priority” when he chose to commit a crime and went to prison for 5 years…leaving her to care for their children, plus, paying all the bills?? The reason she “prioritize” money is because he doesn’t work, he’s simply a ‘lazy dusty.’ There are so many women, whom, prioritized their relationship, but when they’re abandoned, many are left scrambling to care for themselves and their children. Please, don’t make excuses for cheaters, because there are great men, who would appreciate someone like Yandy. Mendecees is a very selfish, misogynistic boy.😳
Yandy knew about Mendecees being in the streets, she wanted a street dude like Jim Jones and that’s what she got, she just probably didn’t think he would get locked up so soon. He was established before her which was the only reason she wanted to be with him however when the Feds got involved and he lost a lot her momentum went down and she did what she had to do as a mother to be there for him, does not seem from a love standpoint. He can pick up on that energy I think everyone can. Yandy is a narcissist and her life revolves around money, status, attention, image etc
Thank You!!!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 She still not listening and wondering why her marriage is falling apart. She thinks because she held him down for 5yrs she get to whatever she wants. It doesn't work that way.
@@lillybethford1915I agree he want all the shiny things but doesn't understand someone has to work and pay for those shiny things. She doesn't listen but maybe she can't listen because she has to pay all the bills??
Yandy should sue ole girl for martial interference and conversations. You wanna shake ‘em up, touch that money. Divorce him for infidelity and hit his pocket as well.
Let her have him he didn’t put her own she had her own before he got with her! She wants to elevate in every aspect and he just wants to stay in neutral…. Boy Byeeeeee. Let Erica have him✌🏾👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
He needs to stick by her like she did him all those years he was in JAIL!!! This is sickening!! Grow tfh!! All this back and fourth with all these baby momas!!! Life there are enough diseases out here!!! 😢
I hope Yandy just lets him go. She's carried him through their whole relationship. I don't blame her for not signing a marriage certificate if that's true. She was smart for not doing it , simply for these reasons. Let Erica have him, he's not worth anymore time, effort or anguish. I would hate to see Yandy become another Rasheeda.
She knew he wasn’t ish, that’s why she never turned in her marriage license to legalese the marriage. They’re letting a felon determine their futures and that’s ridiculous. Such beautiful ladies.
Yandy needs to make him a footnote in history. She has outgrown him. He's not on her level any more. He knows it-Erica will never want more. They are perfect for each other😅😂
Please don't just say it's him! This beautiful queen has been acting as if it's only her in her marriage .she has made extremely important choices without her husband, and he told her it ain't good
YESSSSS👏👏👏 this right here!! She held him down cool but since he has been home she has been moving as if she is a single female with no husband..doing whatever she wants to do with no regard to her husband..her giving her eggs to her sister was enough for him I'm sure..he was against it and she didn't care smh
If it’s TRUE; Well that’s why Erica was acting the way she has been acting towards Yandy. Darn! She even raised Samantha’s kid while Samantha up and down being FREE and held Mendecee DOWN while he’s in PRISON and made sure his TWO kids from different Mothers was well taken care of; Girl Yandy! Only the good salvation last. You did too much for Mendecee for him to be stepping out on you with Erica, It would had even looked a little better if it was a DIFFERENT CHICK. Yandy, You are a ALPHA FEMALE, You are STRONG, SMART AND A HARD WORKING WOMAN. He really DOG YANDY OUT! Sad…
So Scrapy went back to Erica after they’ve had children in other relationships, Kirk is secretly trying to get with his new baby mother, now Mendeeces is returning to his first love!!!!
I wonder if Yandy remembers when she told Chrissy that Jim bought her a ring to put her on an installment plan. Just being mean. Yandy been a mean girl.
Listen I *KNOW* him from NYC and he’s *NOT* broke so stop saying he’s broke lol. He was good before Yandy 🤡’s 😂😂 I’ve had 2 family members on lhhny and I KNOW this bs is staged for ppl like the gullible ones in this comment section 😂😂 *STORY LINE!!!*
After meeting Yandi at her restaurant in Atlanta. She is a very nice person!! I hate this is happening to her! She stuck by his side! I pray for her to gather up the strength to move forward with her life! Let him go ahead!! Watch Yandi shine as she always does! Love you Yan!!
This is the thing when a man constantly tell you that he’s not happy and he’s sitting there to try to work through things and you’re not listening and it’s all about you then of course he gonna go looking in other directions. Yes she has been with him through a lot, however if you only end it for alternative motives, it’s not gonna work out if the two of you cannot be a unit or as one it’s not gonna work he has clearly told her time and time again his feelings not saying she don’t have feelings, but at least he came to her to communicate before he backtrack you cannot make a man feel belittled or like he is beneath you it’s not gonna work no matter how hard you try once you feel like the first thing next to God in your life
He is not a good person and the mother know all about it.Erica it will come back to bite you Erica you is a hot mess she have no shame it will not last watch and you will see
I seen this before. He needed to manage babies and baby mamas. Yandy is a manager… it’s what she’s good at. Now kids and their mamas are managed. Que exit… 🙄💯
Yandy, you will always be a boss, and it is hard for him to accept who you are as a person. He wants you to slow down, not because you are not giving enough attention at home; but because you have superseded beyond anything he can ever accomplish. He is not your balance; never has been and never will be. Yandy, you should never have to dummy down to anyone.
Yandy was always that problem when it came to Samantha and Erika & just in general. Yandy wanted to be the "chosen one" and loved to rub it in their face. She is condescending, demeaning, and a pathological liar. She's in love with Mendeecees and I don't even think Mendeecees ever had any real/strong feelings for Yandy the way he did for Erika. I have no sympathy for Yandy and hope she gets her karma after how she treated samantha and erika. I hope they divorce.
I knew he was seeing somebody based on the way he kept speaking about her to his friends with no application after all she did for his irresponsible self. She needs to walk away from him. She is never going to stay with Erika anyway, he is a big Cheat!
So no one is gonna mention that this is yandy's karma she treated alot of people like crap as well as her disrespectful behavior to her own best friend who held it down for her please i dont feel bad for her at all
When you’re in a full-fledged marriage, you cannot try to be the breadwinner the mom, the wife, the business owner she just tried to be in too many places at too many times so she lost her husband
That explains why Erica was so upset all the time and trying to argue. She looks like the clown though he skipped over you to marry her. Never go backwards.👎😬
These comments are mind-blowing because everything that is being said about him are the same things women brag about doing to men No one should be messing with anyone.For personal gain, you're supposed to build together.But we know that's what most relationships are
@@BlackGirlMajik so they never got married? They married at the courthouse before he went to jail,so she couldn’t testify against him. Then when he came home,they had a whole hour for the wedding,unless that was someone else..
That's a piece of paper that doesn't mean nothing cause he don't respect anything you can get a ring but what it is if he still act like he not married
@@ninagreen8228 a piece of paper which states their union? I wonder if you would feel the same if you were married,and the same thing happened to you? Would you still see it as a piece of paper?
this is what happens when you think u think u better or bring something diff than the prev baby mommas, yandy should have been taking notes from them, growing pains baby
That’s why important for the man to make more than women cause he may feel less of a man seeing his women empire expand n not be know as the bread maker
Right Erica may seem sweet now ,but he doesn't know what she may have up her sleeve . She may jus dog him out and he probably wanna run back to yandy I would send his ass back to Erica 😂😂
I knew it. Erica said he LOVED her more 😅 And you have to be a crazy woman to allow your “man” to be married to another woman. Before and after the prison sentence. Erica is the crazy one as well 😐
Never let a man keep showing you it's over. Love your kids, and let him go.❤❤❤❤
I needed to hear this minus the kids part
@@angelgoto4159know your worth baby, move.❤
I needed to hear this so bad😭🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭
Facts
Thhhiiiissssssss👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
My mother told me and my sisters, “Don’t Never Let A Man Tell You Twice He Don’t Want You” I never forgot that.
Pride is keeping Yandy in this relationship! Y’all not gone tell her I told you so!😂😂😂😂
We told her She just don’t listen 🤷🏽♀️
Facts Loo. She was to loud and flamboyant about him. Lol won’t throw eggs in her face if she can help it
And that is what make alot of women look stupid
Mona Scott told her she was doing too much before he went to jail. She has passed her husband and her dosen't know how to keep up and dosen't feel needed and he's going to go some where with someone who wants him and more on his level. He doesn't want to go where she's going. She just need to come to terms you can't make him be what you want him to be. He's just not that dude!!!
@@Lilrtvr_gtlike Jenny Mai
Yandy had absolutely NOTHING to gain from this relationship. He himself admitted that he wouldn’t have done the same for her.
What the hell more does he want from her? He told Erica that he wanted to be in the music industry ,and Yandy was his way in.
Never date a man with multiple baby mothers
He and Erica also had their son and a whole apartment together while he was with Yandy. Samantha said along time ago that Mandeecee’s loved Erica, but Yandy is determined that’s her Man 🤷🏽♀️
@@jerseywomeninc.8640He was never her man!! She was his way out and he took it and married her for having his back but he never in love with her. He doesn't need her anymore and she disrespectful she just does what Yandy without Including him and there family that's a big problem. He doesn't want to where she's going. She destroyed her own marriage by not listening to her husband.
They were never married @@lynn8796
@@lynn8796? You mean the man that bought nothing to the table, let his mom disrespect her and trying to be out through the streets with his friends instead of feeling a life with his pregnant woman and child at home? That dude is a manchild that never grew up. She needs to include him, but he doesn’t have to respect her and he allows his mom to disrespect her. I guess that’s OK??? She’s not losing anything if she let him go, he only used her to get into the industry
What? 😂😂😂😂…so the same applies for women with multiple baby daddies!
He never left her alone, i believe that's who he truly wants to be with but yandy was more successful.
Exactly, most of us saw that he was somewhere else.
I swear no matter what you do for some people. It is never enough! Sometimes, being loyal gets you heartache and pain. It makes you wonder if it is even worth putting all your eggs in one basket.
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Most women who choose to get BBLs, ESPECIALLY over the age of 30, they tend not to be loyal. I don’t know their entire situation but she walks around half naked and is dismissive/ disrespectful. Most men aren’t loyal to women who they don’t respect.
It’s when it’s done for the wrong person.
Samantha said a long time ago that Mandeecee’s loved Erica. Yandy was always a lot more invested in the relationship and I never believed Mandeecee’s was with Yandy for the right reasons. Their chemistry gave more Friendship than in Love.
I was just thinking this ... I always believed Erica
Whelp at least it was said
What Chemistry?
@@mostdivine6192 You’re Right 🤷🏽♀️
Yes, that’s what I’ve always said. He was not in love with Yandy… Yandy needs to slow down…. She is over the top with the relationship, she’s buying his love.
This dude was never for her, never. Girl 🏃🏾♀️ 🏃🏾♀️ 🏃🏾♀️
True!🥴
His body language speaks volumes; she definitely likes him way more than he likes her and it shows
That’s ALWAYS been the case.
She did and give him too much now he doesn't need her anymore. He came home and had to work for what??😳
Yandy was the other one when she forced this relationship. Mendeeces was NEVA REALLY INTO YANDY💯💯💯CHECK THEIR HISTORY
Cap
From day one from what I remember
When I watch the new season he just looks unhappy like he's not for it anymore
The nerve on Mendeecees, who came home to a mansion.
Most women just leave, they leave with everything especially when they are the breadwinner. Yandy held him down and receive a “ I never forced you or asked you to do all this for me”
@@brownskindragon bum energy fr
A mansion?, What about the respect he has been asking for?
@@MrsLovely218what about his respect for her and their relationship. If he felt like he wasn’t getting the respect, why did HE stay. Imagine making excuses for grown men. Weird.
@@MattRomPsalms Works both ways making excuses for a grown woman who wanted to be married but act single, yeah weird
She needs to get another man and let him have his ex. She's the prize
This would really fck them folk up 😂😂😂😂 if yandy pulls a “ oh really have him” everything over there would fully crumble. Yandy could easily pull an Eve ( rapper from ruff Ryder ) and get married to a well established man who is on her level or more.
If she was the prize, He wouldn’t have gotten her, she would’ve already been taken?
@@MrsLovely218 go get some rest. You're not making any sense
@@sincerely9187 Of course you wouldn’t understand, Comprehension on this internet is wild… She was single if she was the prize a man would have already married her, wait and see if she gets another one , she will be single for a long time
What make her a “Prize”?
@MrsLovely218 comprehension has never been my weakness, but understanding stupidity has. They've been together for over 15 years. She stuck with him through his incarceration while remaining a part of his son's life from a previous relationship. She held things down. She later gave him two children and actively helped raise his son. She's a businesswoman, mother, partner who has stood by her man through adversity and the cheating rumors. In the midst of all that, she has managed to keep herself together and look good. So yeah, I called her a prize because he's lucky to have her. Know your worth.
Before yandy had kids, she was talking to a computer engineer who was there and treated her like a queen but she choose him,,,, now my boy married with a Philippine making 250k plus bonuses and yandy going through some shit,,,young ladies, learn from this cause you live once.
How do you know this? Down to how much that guy was making. Are you him?
I think she's getting back what she deserves. She lied so much on the other women, who have kids from him. He never seemed to be invested in her and what they have .
The lesson… stop clout chasing. He didn’t want her in the first place. She was tooo busy trying to be the number 1 baby mama!
@@BK-dv3hh i work with him,,,she know who im talking about.
EVERYTHING YOU SAID IS WOMENS PROBLEM....ALWAYS TRYNA RUN TO WHERE YOU THINK THE GRASS IS GREENER...YANDY WOULD OF HAD PROBLEMS WITH THE OTHER GUY TO BECAUSE LIFE IS NOT A CINDERELLA BOOK MISS....LIFE IS REAL WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS THAT GO THRU CHANGES DAILY......SOME DAYS WE FEEL GREAT SOME DAYS NOT SO GREAT......
He didn't want to address the working hard because he's receiving but not working at all😢
Exactly! He's gonna lose the fight every time she talks about working hard. He was tooo quick with that response 😂.
Yandy is silly. She is the winner in this. This boy is just another kirk.
Right
Kirk is smarter he helps his wife build businesses and supports but mendecee sit here and complain yandy loves money meanwhile what the hell is he doing to bring more money to the family?
In no way is she the winner. She allowed a thug to impregnate her she played his side chick till he needed to benefit off her, let her play the wife position during her second pregnancy, had her wait five years for him in prison having her help raise his kids other while he was away and the moment he got out he went back to his baby mother while still benefiting off the money yandy brought to the table from the opportunities she gave then.
They all stay needing storylines 🙄 the whole show needs to be canceled
I beg to differ. No we shouldn't cheat in a marriage, may as well leave the relationship before you step out. But he was faithful and really tried with Yandy
He is no prize. Just leave him Yandy. He has used you to ling.
Not at all
Dude is a narcissist/user, and he used Yandy because he knew she'd go above and beyond for him, especially when him and all his teeth went to prison? Yandy, also should take accountability for her broken heart because, had she not ignored the red flags(I believe she possibly got pregnant thinking, it would keep him and maybe make him value her enough to start loving her? She's standing outside talking bout "FREE MENDEECEE!" and even back then I recall thinking "Dang sis, I hope he would do the same for u?" Here comes ol Mendeecee.......
Interviewer: "Yandy stuck by u thru everything, would u do it for her?"
Mendeecee: " Ummm.....Nah!"
Yandy: 😳
Interviewer: 🫣
@@faithruckdeschel1294y'all keep forgetting that man had and still has his own money
Believe people the first time, he's disconnected and it's telling
He never loved Yandy the way he loved Erica..from a man can say his marriage is nothing but a contract then that’s all it’s gone be a business..and yandy the ceo
He don't love Erika either. He love his self.
Overextending yourself does not guarantee you'll be appreciated for it.
🎯🎯. With these men it’s really is about less is more
So SO TRUE!!!
Doesn't it usually end up being just yhe opposite? Hey....when you treat em like dogs, they can't get enough.
He never stopped fkin with Erica period I peeped that from lhhny
Just was saying this I couldn’t remember her name but before they showed her pic I was saying it only had to be that baby mother..from the other get together they had with him wanting to all live in the same house I said he loves this woman and not letting her live out his sight..I lived for it..really rather her over yandy
@@Sanchia-y3y internet full of selective memories and outrage Erica been his girl she just wasn’t financially stable enough to help him through the charges and bail hell he was giving her money he needed yandys clean money and name she was the smartest move it was never love
Same here...and Erica said it on the reunion. That's why Yandy pulled dat B's at the birthday party. Then lil memdecess mom tried to tell her too. Smdh it was a story line for Yandy from jump but dat what she get clowning everybody else on the show wit relationship issues
Explains why Erica was always confrontational they wrong Yandy raised THEIR child
Yandy allowed social status and pride of being "the chosen 1" cloud her judgement of this man's true character. She's always been passive aggressive and too arrogent to be wrong. Even when he's shown her time and time again that he's not that into her. She'll continue to go the extra mile for him knowing that he won't reciprocate that same energy. The cracks have been showing for almost a decade. She just doesn't wanna be wrong. And she doesn't want the time she invested in this "business" relationship to be in vain.
You are 1000% spot on. She has been trying to break into the forefront of celebrity status since she worked for Jim Jones. He was paying her a mint and she just wanted to be seen. This is why she and Chrissy weren't getting a long when LAHH first came out. She just needs to admit to herself that that is more important than being his "yes woman". Besides, what is it that he brings to the table other than drama?
💯💯💯💯👍🏽 agree with everything you said
This is why I stay single September 2024
Yessss me too!!
Is it really ?
I SECOND THAT MOTION AND I LOVE IT
Mendeeces chose Yandy because he was headed to prison and she was the better option to hold him down. Did you all forget how she thought she was better than the others and talked down on them because she was the chosen one? I have no sympathy for her. Karma always hits the mean girls the hardest.
She is far from a MEAN girl. How dare you speak down on her. Karma always spins the block so watch out
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Mendecees chose Yandy far before the court case. His involvement with her & the shoe happens before the show & the charges as a result of his being public. He was living with Erica in a apt paid for by Yandy when he left to be with Yandy to get that L&HH clout. He never seemed to like her like that she was more of a opportunity & had more to offer than the other girls. Yandy did act like she was better than the other two & the chosen 1. She is a mean girl when it comes to the. & A liar trying to do anything to keep him. Smh
If two baby mama against you would you back down she always stand up for herself
I am so disgusted with Mendeecees but I also hope that Yandy finds the strength to leave and heal so that she can find someone who truly loves her. When someone holds you down for 6 years or however long he was in jail and make sure the kids are good how can u question their love for u. I swear ppl suck really bad and this is why I will probably be single for the rest of my life. I don't trust a soul anymore.
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Girl, say SAY BYE, then move ON📣
I was done with Mendeeces when asked if he would do the same for her. And he had to think about it.
They WONT (99%) reciprocate!
These men are not marriage material. Period! If you have to be the Provider,what do you need him for? Girl,cut your losses!!!😢
Mendecees been crying out to Yandy for a long time and she has not been listening! She has always prioritized money and other worldly things over their relationship and their family. I know everyone wants her to be innocent in this but shes not. You have to prioritize your partner. Mendecees was trying to explain this to her, not for her to give up on her dreams but for her to prioritize her relationship as well. In life you need to have a balance.
Cheating is never okay! HOWEVER, a lot of ppl get cheated on bc they neglect their partner even when their partner has confided in them about their needs. If you cant prioritize your relationship in your life, it will fall apart.
Lastly, men have feelings too and want to feel needed and wanted just as much as us women do.
“Mendecees been crying out to Yandy”…I’m blown away by your comment. Did he make their relationship “a priority” when he chose to commit a crime and went to prison for 5 years…leaving her to care for their children, plus, paying all the bills?? The reason she “prioritize” money is because he doesn’t work, he’s simply a ‘lazy dusty.’ There are so many women, whom, prioritized their relationship, but when they’re abandoned, many are left scrambling to care for themselves and their children. Please, don’t make excuses for cheaters, because there are great men, who would appreciate someone like Yandy. Mendecees is a very selfish, misogynistic boy.😳
yea YANDY IS A WORK A HOLIC AND MAN DC HAS NEEDS
Yandy knew about Mendecees being in the streets, she wanted a street dude like Jim Jones and that’s what she got, she just probably didn’t think he would get locked up so soon. He was established before her which was the only reason she wanted to be with him however when the Feds got involved and he lost a lot her momentum went down and she did what she had to do as a mother to be there for him, does not seem from a love standpoint. He can pick up on that energy I think everyone can. Yandy is a narcissist and her life revolves around money, status, attention, image etc
Thank You!!!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 She still not listening and wondering why her marriage is falling apart. She thinks because she held him down for 5yrs she get to whatever she wants. It doesn't work that way.
@@lillybethford1915I agree he want all the shiny things but doesn't understand someone has to work and pay for those shiny things. She doesn't listen but maybe she can't listen because she has to pay all the bills??
I saw Mendeeces and Erika back in May at Roc South restaurant in Atlanta. 😮 Now everything makes sense now.
Fighting over an idiot is idiotic
Yandy should sue ole girl for martial interference and conversations. You wanna shake ‘em up, touch that money. Divorce him for infidelity and hit his pocket as well.
They not really married 😂😂😂
@@VibingWithSaint😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that’s the fucked up part lol
They're not married. Never was. Not to mending, Yandy was the side chick for a while! Lol she also treats Mendeeces like he's stupid.
They are not married!!!
@@specialsabb-elliott175😂😂
Let her have him he didn’t put her own she had her own before he got with her! She wants to elevate in every aspect and he just wants to stay in neutral…. Boy Byeeeeee. Let Erica have him✌🏾👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
When its over its OVER..any humans follows their heart
They all know about one another. They all need to just co parents with him. All ladies are beautiful and deserves better than Mendecces
He always seemed like a wimp to me😂😂
Correction: Men-D-Seas 😂😂
He has all of his children living with him, with Yandy!
He needs to stick by her like she did him all those years he was in JAIL!!!
This is sickening!! Grow tfh!! All this back and fourth with all these baby momas!!! Life there are enough diseases out here!!! 😢
Forth
Yandy's was a loyal and inconsiderate at the same time,Da Brat told her.
Riiight she really is. Best words to describe her
I hope Yandy just lets him go. She's carried him through their whole relationship. I don't blame her for not signing a marriage certificate if that's true. She was smart for not doing it , simply for these reasons. Let Erica have him, he's not worth anymore time, effort or anguish. I would hate to see Yandy become another Rasheeda.
He ain’t it.
She knew he wasn’t ish, that’s why she never turned in her marriage license to legalese the marriage. They’re letting a felon determine their futures and that’s ridiculous. Such beautiful ladies.
Wait, so they're not legally married??
So they are not married
@@OGFyahthey are legally married now. They got legally married after he got out of prison.
They are legally married. They finally got legally married after he got out of prison.
Everybody is cheating on somebody!!!! How is this Exciting????😢
Lmmfao
Right , before he decided to take that route he should have told her he feels like ending things and jus move on ,at least it would be less drama.
I’ve never cheated on anyone
Yandy needs to make him a footnote in history. She has outgrown him. He's not on her level any more. He knows it-Erica will never want more. They are perfect for each other😅😂
And he’s saying or moving differently from before. He can’t control her no more so now he needs someone else to control..
Please don't just say it's him! This beautiful queen has been acting as if it's only her in her marriage .she has made extremely important choices without her husband, and he told her it ain't good
YESSSSS👏👏👏 this right here!! She held him down cool but since he has been home she has been moving as if she is a single female with no husband..doing whatever she wants to do with no regard to her husband..her giving her eggs to her sister was enough for him I'm sure..he was against it and she didn't care smh
So where are your receipts? Y’all just be making up stuff!
I'm like, y'all do know they are still together right?! Anything we see on Love and Hip Hop Atlanta was filmed a while ago.
Yany is the definition of a city girl not a married women.
Exactly!!
He only married her for fame and stability. She was his sugar mama. How ungrateful karma will get him.
If it’s TRUE; Well that’s why Erica was acting the way she has been acting towards Yandy. Darn! She even raised Samantha’s kid while Samantha up and down being FREE and held Mendecee DOWN while he’s in PRISON and made sure his TWO kids from different Mothers was well taken care of; Girl Yandy! Only the good salvation last. You did too much for Mendecee for him to be stepping out on you with Erica, It would had even looked a little better if it was a DIFFERENT CHICK. Yandy, You are a ALPHA FEMALE, You are STRONG, SMART AND A HARD WORKING WOMAN. He really DOG YANDY OUT! Sad…
She need to leave him
So Scrapy went back to Erica after they’ve had children in other relationships, Kirk is secretly trying to get with his new baby mother, now Mendeeces is returning to his first love!!!!
I wonder if Yandy remembers when she told Chrissy that Jim bought her a ring to put her on an installment plan. Just being mean. Yandy been a mean girl.
Yandy played the game and didn't take her husband seriously. She at like she is single while being married.
Mann fuck him if he loves her he wouldn’t give up on her 🗣️
Now you know why.
Listen I *KNOW* him from NYC and he’s *NOT* broke so stop saying he’s broke lol. He was good before Yandy 🤡’s 😂😂 I’ve had 2 family members on lhhny and I KNOW this bs is staged for ppl like the gullible ones in this comment section 😂😂 *STORY LINE!!!*
I am feeling you, entertainment 🎉🎉🎉
FACTS!!!!💯💯💯💯
After meeting Yandi at her restaurant in Atlanta. She is a very nice person!! I hate this is happening to her! She stuck by his side! I pray for her to gather up the strength to move forward with her life! Let him go ahead!! Watch Yandi shine as she always does! Love you Yan!!
This is the thing when a man constantly tell you that he’s not happy and he’s sitting there to try to work through things and you’re not listening and it’s all about you then of course he gonna go looking in other directions. Yes she has been with him through a lot, however if you only end it for alternative motives, it’s not gonna work out if the two of you cannot be a unit or as one it’s not gonna work he has clearly told her time and time again his feelings not saying she don’t have feelings, but at least he came to her to communicate before he backtrack you cannot make a man feel belittled or like he is beneath you it’s not gonna work no matter how hard you try once you feel like the first thing next to God in your life
He hg😝🤬
The way yamdy treated erica. Kicking her out their apartment. You reap what you sow
He is not a good person and the mother know all about it.Erica it will come back to bite you Erica you is a hot mess she have no shame it will not last watch and you will see
Yandy did the same thing when they was together so it already came back to bite her in the azz
This why I don’t date baby daddies 🙅🏾♀️😂😂😂
I seen this before. He needed to manage babies and baby mamas. Yandy is a manager… it’s what she’s good at. Now kids and their mamas are managed. Que exit… 🙄💯
She needs to manage her self to stop trying to be in a relationship with a man that don't even respect her 🤔🤔😞
Girl that’s his other bm 😂😂😂
What she expected
There so many better men put there nothing to cry over
i used to have yandys back..yandy is like the man of the relationship so..she is welcome to have money its her choice.she made it
Yandy chose not to legalize the marriage. Mendecee is not married. He can be engage to Erica and it is nothing Yañdy can do about it. Be blessed 🙏
Yandy, you will always be a boss, and it is hard for him to accept who you are as a person. He wants you to slow down, not because you are not giving enough attention at home; but because you have superseded beyond anything he can ever accomplish. He is not your balance; never has been and never will be.
Yandy, you should never have to dummy down to anyone.
Yandy won’t allow Erica around like Samantha she’s sooo jealous of that girl
Yandy was always that problem when it came to Samantha and Erika & just in general. Yandy wanted to be the "chosen one" and loved to rub it in their face. She is condescending, demeaning, and a pathological liar. She's in love with Mendeecees and I don't even think Mendeecees ever had any real/strong feelings for Yandy the way he did for Erika. I have no sympathy for Yandy and hope she gets her karma after how she treated samantha and erika. I hope they divorce.
I knew he was seeing somebody based on the way he kept speaking about her to his friends with no application after all she did for his irresponsible self. She needs to walk away from him. She is never going to stay with Erika anyway, he is a big Cheat!
Hopefully Erica doesn’t allow him back after publicly humiliating her.
So no one is gonna mention that this is yandy's karma she treated alot of people like crap as well as her disrespectful behavior to her own best friend who held it down for her please i dont feel bad for her at all
Yandy you are way to BEAUTIFUL to go through this. Stay strong.
Let that 🥷🥷🥷🥷 go.....he's jealous of yandi ....
First thing that popped into my mind is The one reunion when Erica exposed him gifting her a car with a bow.
This was all for tv.... he never gave a DAMN..... about Yandy😂😂😂😂 too bad she didn't know it🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️😒
I'm ctfuuuu 😅😂
I never thought he wanted her anyway to be honest 💯‼️
That’s why women have to learn to want who wants them!
He’s been showing her for years.. It always seemed like Erica always had a special hate for Yandy!!! 😏😏😏😏😏😏
When you’re in a full-fledged marriage, you cannot try to be the breadwinner the mom, the wife, the business owner she just tried to be in too many places at too many times so she lost her husband
Don't mother a man or control him and don't do for him what he won't do for you!!!
That explains why Erica was so upset all the time and trying to argue. She looks like the clown though he skipped over you to marry her. Never go backwards.👎😬
He’s been forcing himself to be with her. And he’s been with Erica for years. I thought she knew; before prison.
😭😭 now I'ma have to rewatch love and hip hop because what😭😭😭
Why is it always be the ones you hold down tht end up cheating...smh
Any woman that deals with a snake like him is crazy he set his own mother up for drugs sell. I don't feel bad for manly Yandy !
SAY WHAAAATTT? WOW
Manly? Well damn, why do you say that? 😂😂
SHE DIDNT KEEP HER GRASS CUT…. SO SHE CAN SEE THE SNAKE
Leave that man !
I really hope That Yandy finds her King that appreciates her and loves her
The Heart wants what it wants but in this case....i honestly believe she is too good for him. And hes so ungrateful.
These comments are mind-blowing because everything that is being said about him are the same things women brag about doing to men No one should be messing with anyone.For personal gain, you're supposed to build together.But we know that's what most relationships are
Erica saying Yandy is a side chick is crazy,seeing as he married Yandy and had kids with her….Yet she still hiding sleeping with him…
He never married Yandy. Yandy was a side chick while he was with Erica lol
@@BlackGirlMajik are they not married?
@@BlackGirlMajik so they never got married? They married at the courthouse before he went to jail,so she couldn’t testify against him. Then when he came home,they had a whole hour for the wedding,unless that was someone else..
That's a piece of paper that doesn't mean nothing cause he don't respect anything you can get a ring but what it is if he still act like he not married
@@ninagreen8228 a piece of paper which states their union? I wonder if you would feel the same if you were married,and the same thing happened to you? Would you still see it as a piece of paper?
this is what happens when you think u think u better or bring something diff than the prev baby mommas, yandy should have been taking notes from them, growing pains baby
That’s why important for the man to make more than women cause he may feel less of a man seeing his women empire expand n not be know as the bread maker
She knew she wasn’t shit
😂😂😂😅
Welp, Erica tried to warn her a long time ago.
He was never IN love with Yandy. She knows it
I won’t say she knows but now she should
He always seems distant.
Walk away
Wow😮 I didn't see this coming but than I probably would have if I had watched LHH. Time will tell
A woman like yandy is rare he better appreciates her,b4 he end up picking stone why losing a diamond 😊
Right Erica may seem sweet now ,but he doesn't know what she may have up her sleeve . She may jus dog him out and he probably wanna run back to yandy I would send his ass back to Erica 😂😂
I knew it. Erica said he LOVED her more 😅 And you have to be a crazy woman to allow your “man” to be married to another woman. Before and after the prison sentence. Erica is the crazy one as well 😐
She swore she "won" over his other baby mothers. Erica not winning either. He obviously aint 💩
When Yandy actually leaves dude alone, he will fade into obscurity because he's not really a go-getter and his personality is uninteresting
Side Note: He's still fine as wine.
Hahhaaaa 😂
Where are you getting this information from 🤔🤨