Goodness, I love Mandy and Kathyrn! Their relationship is refreshingly real. Totally agree w/what she is saying about aging, etc. Thank you for sharing snippets of your life. Brings me joy and delight.
When my dear uncle was 101-years-old (He's almost 105 now) I was visiting him and I asked him if I could help him walk to the door of his house to wave to his neighbor. He graciously allowed me to help him walk to the door. It became quickly apparent to me that he didn't need my help at all. That experience taught me not to assume anything - even about someone who is 101. But, I did appreciate how he handled it. I had good intentions. I just made a mistake.
Why are you shaking your head if you know it's a thin line? Clearly the offense was unintended, and she apologized for it. Sounds to me like she's making a mountain out of a mole hill.
She is SO SO right about the comment from the seating hostess or whomever....a judgment was made to Kathryn solely based on age and it had nothing to do with her complete ability to do the stairs...its a form of age discrimination ...love you Kathryn and Mandy!!
@@bfsgman Couldn't disagree more. Would you want someone looking at you and making a judgment about where or how you access your surroundings? She is correct. The appropriate thing to do is ask if a person is obviously using a cane, walker or appears visually to be struggling in their mobility, which she was not.
When my mother’s hair finally turned all grey, she noted how invisible she became. Years later I know from experience what she meant. Sometimes it’s useful (not getting harassed on the street) but often frustrating.
@@lmclasen I am a senior citizen so I am very well aware of ageism. I am also disabled, so I know the anti stuff about that, too. What I was objecting to here was the manner in which the server was being treated. You can tell a very great deal about the character of a person by the way that they treat someone who is in the job of being of service to them. In this case, the rudeness that was shown to this server was inexcusable. If we want people to treat us with respect (for age or for whatever reason), we must show respect and kindness first. I am very tired of people being "called out" because being judgmental does not teach goodness; it is generally only more unkindness and I have no time for that.
You make a valid point. I am temporarily disabled due to severe hip degeneration from RA, I'm waiting for a double hip transplant and Covid has added a year to my wait. I use canes to walk and I sometimes struggle to do simple things like get something from a high shelf in the grocery store or get something heavy into my cart. I don't like to ask for help and I never expect people to just offer it but when someone proactively offers to help me with such a struggle, it's a huge relief to me and greatly appreciated. Sometimes, people are just trying to be kind and helpful, no reason to take offense. Yes, ageism is real but IMNSHO, a younger waitress offering to allow an older person to use the first floor restroom when the public restroom is up a flight of stairs is simply one human trying to be thoughtful to another human. How many older people have climbed those stairs in pain or just "held it" because they were too embarrassed to ask to use the employee restroom on the ground floor?
@@tdublakeo Thank you for this good commonsense. You are quite right: many older people do "hold it" or avoid asking for assistance because it can be embarrassing. I have certainly been very grateful when someone has kindly assisted me with information so that I don't have to suffer walking upstairs or whatever. Unfortunately, it has become an awful habit these days for many people to take offense immediately instead of accepting that others do not have evil intent; that, in fact, there are simply attempting to be kind. Please accept my best wishes for your health and my prayer that your surgery will come soon. Pain is the most horribly isolating thing of all, and you need relief. Many years ago, when hip replacements were actually made of steel, my grandmother had to have both hips replaced and her doctor told her that she should not hope to walk again. My sweet religious Nana looked that doctor in the eye and said, "the hell you say!" She walked just fine for the nearly twenty years until God finally called her home. When you are in recovery, just remember what my Nana said--that small rebellion helped her and the memory of it helps me, too, on difficult days. Be well!
@@zzydny Than YOU for your kind words and well wishes! Your grandma was a pistol! I had one of those too, and both will be an inspiration when I'm back on my feet I hope that I'm blessed with a grandchild some day so that I can be an awesome Nana too♥
I am 100% with you. Just because my hair is now white people call me dear and do I need to rest! Ridiculous! No nursing home for me either! I don't want to be around people who have given up!
To my understanding, Nitric Oxide is the "light bringer" in the body and is created in the heart, to modern understanding. It is not that one 'needs' to get rid of it/'release it,' it is that an unbalanced heart cannot release too much if it at once, as this may cause a heart event, or somatic imbalance, In The Difference between it's 'dearth' and a 'great sudden presence.' But moderation of it, assimilation of it, and continuous flow, if of great benefit and an aim of natural healing modalities. Good on you for even mentioning it! Without Nitric Oxide, healing may be difficult in the body. Attention is paid to this in Chinese energetic medicine, to a great degree. I personally know two people who have healed stage four brain cancer with correct guidance from a qualified Master in regards to non-dual energetic healing... Naada Yoga (The Yoga of Sound). But not the kid stuff. (Okay, it's the kid stuff, but not the lazy kid stuff.) Great mindfulness is deeply beneficial. Somehow, I did not expect to unveiling of my Sound Healing background in enjoying you as someone who helped carry The Secret Garden in 2008 with a full orchestra to Lucy Simon's praises (should have done Dr. Zhivago at her invite...) but I do have multiple certificates in Sound and Vocal Healing (after working on Broadway), and this was a focus of some of those studies. Am I surprised Mandy Patinkin's family casually discusses aspects of high esoteric energetic healing? No. Not really. :) #waxoff
How so not gracious of you. Just accept the apology, for God's sake. She was only trying to be nice. You were actually the one in the wrong. Humility goes a long way.
Chelle DeGrasse Well said. I thought the very same. The waitress was coming from a place of kindness. I think some people such as this woman in this video are not as tolerant as they would have everyone believe, JMO.
My favorite dynamic duo! Always loved Mandy since Princess Bride. Thank Gideon for introducing His Mother! She is my kind a gal!
Great exercises Kathryn!! YOU GO GIRL!!
Your Mom reminds me of my Mom❤️ She was a strong woman and Would tell me, “Donna, don’t be a doormat”
Go Kat, she is in great shape xx
Loves these two! So real
These 2 are hilarious!
Absolutely! I agree. Never liked being in any segregated group.
I love these two so much!
I am with you girl!
You are without question the real deal and have a “nuchumah”that is so loving! Thank you for sharing you with us…
Adorable.
She is amazing
Goodness, I love Mandy and Kathyrn! Their relationship is refreshingly real. Totally agree w/what she is saying about aging, etc. Thank you for sharing snippets of your life. Brings me joy and delight.
Love her!!
Kathryn, I whole-heartedly agree with you. I don't want to be with one population of people either. It's artificial and boring!
Yep, dont condescend to me!!
These videos are wonderful. Thank you for sharing your family!!!!
I LOVE your MOM!!!
This Cabin reminds me of On Golden Pond.
This is just amazing, what a great idea to film it, pure gold
I wish it was more people in the world like you too ....the world would be such a better place....Thank You🙂
At 80 I can still bound into most places. I'm always a bit shocked when I get a little old lady attitude directed at me.
When my dear uncle was 101-years-old (He's almost 105 now) I was visiting him and I asked him if I could help him walk to the door of his house to wave to his neighbor. He graciously allowed me to help him walk to the door. It became quickly apparent to me that he didn't need my help at all. That experience taught me not to assume anything - even about someone who is 101. But, I did appreciate how he handled it. I had good intentions. I just made a mistake.
Gideon ahhhh ❤❤miss you
it is such a thin line between being helpful, and being patronizing. smh. I love their family.
Why are you shaking your head if you know it's a thin line? Clearly the offense was unintended, and she apologized for it. Sounds to me like she's making a mountain out of a mole hill.
@@bfsgman huh, I have no idea what you are talking about? sorry, but uh read my comment again. go on
She is SO SO right about the comment from the seating hostess or whomever....a judgment was made to Kathryn solely based on age and it had nothing to do with her complete ability to do the stairs...its a form of age discrimination ...love you Kathryn and Mandy!!
@@bfsgman Couldn't disagree more. Would you want someone looking at you and making a judgment about where or how you access your surroundings? She is correct. The appropriate thing to do is ask if a person is obviously using a cane, walker or appears visually to be struggling in their mobility, which she was not.
When my mother’s hair finally turned all grey, she noted how invisible she became. Years later I know from experience what she meant. Sometimes it’s useful (not getting harassed on the street) but often frustrating.
I wanted to see the whole exercise series.
It's really funny sense of humor.
I am so glad I stumbled upon this channel.. I am in love with Kathryn.. "F' that".. lol...
How are you doing?
Thank you.
So much fun👍👍👍😄😄😄😄
Never a dull moment
@MANDY PATINKIN healdton Oklahoma
@MANDY PATINKIN I watched you on Chicago hope and criminal minds
I'm just usually on Facebook or utube
Why be rude to someone who is just doing her job?
When you have the choice between being right and being kind, choose kind.
Ageism is both real and prevalent. It should be called out.
@@lmclasen I am a senior citizen so I am very well aware of ageism. I am also disabled, so I know the anti stuff about that, too. What I was objecting to here was the manner in which the server was being treated. You can tell a very great deal about the character of a person by the way that they treat someone who is in the job of being of service to them. In this case, the rudeness that was shown to this server was inexcusable. If we want people to treat us with respect (for age or for whatever reason), we must show respect and kindness first. I am very tired of people being "called out" because being judgmental does not teach goodness; it is generally only more unkindness and I have no time for that.
You make a valid point. I am temporarily disabled due to severe hip degeneration from RA, I'm waiting for a double hip transplant and Covid has added a year to my wait. I use canes to walk and I sometimes struggle to do simple things like get something from a high shelf in the grocery store or get something heavy into my cart. I don't like to ask for help and I never expect people to just offer it but when someone proactively offers to help me with such a struggle, it's a huge relief to me and greatly appreciated. Sometimes, people are just trying to be kind and helpful, no reason to take offense. Yes, ageism is real but IMNSHO, a younger waitress offering to allow an older person to use the first floor restroom when the public restroom is up a flight of stairs is simply one human trying to be thoughtful to another human. How many older people have climbed those stairs in pain or just "held it" because they were too embarrassed to ask to use the employee restroom on the ground floor?
@@tdublakeo Thank you for this good commonsense. You are quite right: many older people do "hold it" or avoid asking for assistance because it can be embarrassing. I have certainly been very grateful when someone has kindly assisted me with information so that I don't have to suffer walking upstairs or whatever. Unfortunately, it has become an awful habit these days for many people to take offense immediately instead of accepting that others do not have evil intent; that, in fact, there are simply attempting to be kind. Please accept my best wishes for your health and my prayer that your surgery will come soon. Pain is the most horribly isolating thing of all, and you need relief. Many years ago, when hip replacements were actually made of steel, my grandmother had to have both hips replaced and her doctor told her that she should not hope to walk again. My sweet religious Nana looked that doctor in the eye and said, "the hell you say!" She walked just fine for the nearly twenty years until God finally called her home. When you are in recovery, just remember what my Nana said--that small rebellion helped her and the memory of it helps me, too, on difficult days. Be well!
@@zzydny Than YOU for your kind words and well wishes! Your grandma was a pistol! I had one of those too, and both will be an inspiration when I'm back on my feet I hope that I'm blessed with a grandchild some day so that I can be an awesome Nana too♥
Bravo
Love Wall Drug hat!
Hello how are you doing?
Me encanta tú mamá! 💓💖💜
I am 100% with you. Just because my hair is now white people call me dear and do I need to rest! Ridiculous! No nursing home for me either! I don't want to be around people who have given up!
Gid, these are gold.
Man, I need her assertiveness. And I think I need to do those moves.
To my understanding, Nitric Oxide is the "light bringer" in the body and is created in the heart, to modern understanding. It is not that one 'needs' to get rid of it/'release it,' it is that an unbalanced heart cannot release too much if it at once, as this may cause a heart event, or somatic imbalance, In The Difference between it's 'dearth' and a 'great sudden presence.' But moderation of it, assimilation of it, and continuous flow, if of great benefit and an aim of natural healing modalities. Good on you for even mentioning it! Without Nitric Oxide, healing may be difficult in the body. Attention is paid to this in Chinese energetic medicine, to a great degree. I personally know two people who have healed stage four brain cancer with correct guidance from a qualified Master in regards to non-dual energetic healing... Naada Yoga (The Yoga of Sound). But not the kid stuff. (Okay, it's the kid stuff, but not the lazy kid stuff.) Great mindfulness is deeply beneficial.
Somehow, I did not expect to unveiling of my Sound Healing background in enjoying you as someone who helped carry The Secret Garden in 2008 with a full orchestra to Lucy Simon's praises (should have done Dr. Zhivago at her invite...) but I do have multiple certificates in Sound and Vocal Healing (after working on Broadway), and this was a focus of some of those studies.
Am I surprised Mandy Patinkin's family casually discusses aspects of high esoteric energetic healing?
No. Not really. :)
#waxoff
Also; so lovely, you people.
Not getting rid of: releasing. :)
Saraswati (Indian Athene) translates to "She Who Flows." Just saying.
Loved Kathryn in TWENTIETH CENTURY BLUES.
👍👍💙
Besos desde España familia Patinkin 🇪🇸❤️💓💖
Please show more 🙏 ❤
How so not gracious of you. Just accept the apology, for God's sake. She was only trying to be nice. You were actually the one in the wrong. Humility goes a long way.
Chelle DeGrasse Well said. I thought the very same. The waitress was coming from a place of kindness. I think some people such as this woman in this video are not as tolerant as they would have everyone believe, JMO.
Not sure just what the waitress said to her.
Like Mandy.... I prefer not to watch her squat!!