Asking Girls Which Is More Important: Looks or Personality?
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Before i was fat guy, girls dont even wanted to learn about my personality, rejection was 99% while i was trying to flirt. Now i get a bit fit and girls come n flirt to me, so dont lie. Everything starts with the look, if there is no personality you will not go to marry but the first is the look.
ofc, cuz reality isn't black and white. Hot guys that have chat are very common. Why would she settle for an unattractive guy that can make her laugh
I second this. I went from fat to losing it all via constant cardio (P.S. lads, don't do this ... You keep all the skins and manboobs😂😭😂😂😂) to building size/looking lean. Now, i just need to hold a decent convo and find women r on it hard. Personality is important, but most women won't sacrifice attraction until they get too old. Sad but true !
THIS IS SO FUCKING TRUE!
I was fat all my life and i was literally ignored me all the time
i was like a ghost for them.. after that ive lost weight and now im lean and have a lil bit muscles
its incredible, how women treat me.. i cant still believe how people in general will treat you, when you are good looking
completely another world
Idk broski I am ripped and still no one flirting with me. I say body doesn't do much at all
This is facts
Girl : I like women
Joe : Fair enough
the comment i knew was going to be 4 sure😂
Within 2 seconds of scrolling down I’ve already found the comment I was looking for
@@yogiagario1765 Yogi! :D
I was crying ☠️☠️☠️☠️
@@angelyaguepascual1752 i also looking for this comment
Girls will go for the attractive guy realise he might not have the personality then go after the next attractive guy hoping he’s got the chat. And the cycle repeats until she’s 30 and then lowers her standards.
I ain’t complaining I’m just explaining.
Lmaoao this is actually it
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Fax machine
But then it’s too late because she has 2 kids and sells wax melts on Facebook
Joe is single handedly the voice for skinny people bulking up
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@@willh1945 more plates more dates…
@@willh1945 never bulked up + unrelalistic without roids
When Joe told me about his intro I thought I was gunna get violated but he actually ended up simping 🤣 Sick video as always bro! Many more public vids to come 👀
Please stop giving me mean comments. My mother reads the comments I get and she cries a lot because of it. Please be nice, dear nate
@@AxxLAfriku wut?
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@@AxxLAfriku good day mister I am your biggest fan for last 5 minutes
@@AxxLAfriku maybe she should be looking at your weird content
Glad the comments can see through the cap. An attractive guy's shyness will be seen as cute and endearing, but an unattractive guy's shyness is seen as creepy or boring. That's why looks = personality.
So true dude. A very attractive and fit shy guy is seen as cute but a unattractive guy and not fit shy guy is seen as boring and weird and even make fun of him.
"An attractive guy's shyness will be seen as cute and endearing, but an unattractive guy's shyness is seen as creepy or boring" ong so true bruv
You guys talk like we men approach unattractive girls all the time and try to know more about them and their personalities LMAO
@@Xelth4 hhhh bet
@@Xelth4 lmao my class has a unattractive girl and barely anyone approaches her and of course i dont
Just remember guys, when a girl says personality is more important, she means looks are more important.
Ha-Ha
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Lmao true homie
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It's true, they virtue signal trying not to seem harsh but in reality get hit on by the wrong guys after making it seem like they had a chance
Being facially attractive is probably most important, but since we have very little control over our faces, we might as well strive for an attractive body.
or just stey at home and dont herass people with our ugly face
@@Linkinpurk yep its over
Lose body fat to get a sharp jawline (though pack on some muscle too so that it’s not unhealthy), moisturise and drink water/eat fruit and veg for great skin, go to a fancy hair stylist to get the possible cut for your face.
Mewing and losing body fat is pretty much it
@@cuck1ngfunt you’re not gonna get a sharp jawline just by losing fat. You’ll get one by losing fat AND having a sharp jawline under all the fat. Jawline is genetics 😢
I like how the results changed when you modified the question. Imagine, how sociologists and pollsters can and, probably, do manipulate questioning to get the opinion they want....
in sociology you have to ask what people do not what they would do or what they think For exemple : "the last time you had to choose between a good looking boring person and a ugly interesting one what did you do" Here we don't ask opinion but only facts Journalistic questioning are different from sociological one and you also have to give the questions in your study like that everyone can critisize them if wrongly ask
That's called being reflexive as a researcher, to avoid your own involvement in results. Nevertheless you're right, a lot of conclusions are "guided" by data rather than vice versa
Survey methodology is the easiest method to screw up and the hardest to get right. Lots of leading questions and misleading data
lol how old are you.. 7??
Lies again? Loo Kansas cause personality doesn't matter when sleeping
Joe being infatuated with Nate at the start is the stuff i live for
Haha 😂
Hahaha yeah too good !
If you still wonder. Ask yourself the same thing with the people you are attracted to. Personally I’d like my SO to have a nice body and face at first. But if I’m completely in love with the personality I can lower my face/body standards.
It just a whole package and the connection to the other is really important to me.
(As a male attracted to women)
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As a man you only need her to breathe🗿🗿🗿
Same man 🔥🔥🔥
The halo effect is real and the connection here is pretty clear.
The face is the emphasis for the halo effect. If a person is approached by someone, the face presents the first impression of the personality before the body or personality are really observed. People "guess" what the personality is like based on their face anchoring a bias and then they confirm that bias from there on.
Next, height and build are what people associated with "looks and appearance" despite the face being a stronger form of physical appearance because the face is associated with personality. This is likely because the majority of communication is nonverbal with a semi-strong emphasis on the face. Nearly half of all communication comes from reading and guessing facial cues... If you break it down to "Face, body, or personality", they say "face". If you say "personality or appearance", they say personality... Meaning they associated "face" with "personality" greater than "appearance", but "body" is associated with "appearance" greater than "face".
"Appearance" still matters. "Personality" still matters. "body and face" still matter". Counterintuitively, "face" is disproportionately a determining factor on "percieved personality" rather than "appearance". "Face" is the "personality" until they get to know someone well enough to actually understand their personality.
You guys talk like we men approach unattractive girls all the time and try to know more about them and their personalities LMAO
Bro out here doing Harvard level maths for us
"If you're ugly you're ugly, stop talking about inner beauty, men do not walk around with X-Rays to see your inner beauty."
-Robert Mugabe
Facts
Women do walk around with X-Rays to see your bones beneath your glasses/fat/hair/whatever
@@JimmyBoosterCrate They don't mate. Also I don't wear glasses
**laughs in 20/20 vision**
@@rfj1156 They do
I have glasses, baby fat and long hair which often make me feel effeminate. However I have a good jaw and theoretically correct facial proportions.
Result: As an awkward 17 year old homeschooled in a shithole with almost no girls, I've been hit on three times
@@JimmyBoosterCrate How many of them did you approach?
lemme be honest guys and this is coming from experience, I used to be fat and no girl ever approached me or gave a crap about my personality, I started hitting the gym, got in pretty good shape only then girls started caring about my personality
Cool
Yeah bro your right, i used to be ugly and they didnt care about personality, I approched girls and they just didnt care. Now i leveled up hit the gym selfcare all that, all of a sudden they be approching me
What im tryna say is it dont matter unless you have the whole package
I think that when they're answering the question, the guy that pops into their head for personality is a good looking dude. Since they most likely talk to guys who don't look bad, the first thing that pops into their head is an average dude with a great personality instead of bad looking guys since they've never experienced talking to them. Hence why they're choosing personality.
That explanation was way longer than it needed to be.
Most of these girls are capping. You don’t ask the fish how to catch fish, u ask the fishermen
or you catfish :)
Yeah but the fish doesn’t decide whether it’s wants to be caught or not but girls do so it’s a bad analogy
90% of the men aren't picking up fish. You're a moron.
And 10% of the guys are just more attractive physically/have better banter.
@@unwashedtowel we have some intellectuals here
@@unwashedtowel it's a bait, the bait is what you use to catch fish, not all fish will fall for it but each species of fish has a preference for bait, you can't force a fish to be caught unless you are spear fishing or using a net. It's a good analogy, you just don't agree with it and that's fine.
5:26 had me dying. Nate smooth with it
Yeah real smooth
Too smooth that it's not smooth
Thats killed me omg
What did he say? Edit: Ah really nice teeth
@@maximus7947 the accent is thick?
attract her with a look, hold her by your site with personality - simple.
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nah you don’t attract her with a look, it’s up to her whether or not she finds you good looking or not.
Well f*ck me I don't have any of those things at the moment.
So I work on my Grades and my Body instead! My personality i'm trying to develop at the moment.
editing on point! 👌👌👌
we need to know ur answer now haha
Thank you!
The most important to anyone is personality. But if you’re not physically attracted to the person then they’re just a friend. So it takes the face and the body to get to the door, it’s the personality that brings em back for more. That’s the way it is for everyone.
You just said that if you're not physically attractive you're just a friend. The most important is not personality at all. Personality just makes you friendzoned. Physical attractiveness gets you laid.
Key thing though. With "personality" do you mean a kind, good person? I actually think character is the most important thing, particularly for long term. Lots of people can be superficially charming and funny when u first meet them, but may have poor social boundaries and lack of respect when u get to know them. Looks or personality don't show how they will be later on. Some people may be boring when u first meet them, but may be good partners long term.
All the hard work you've been putting into RUclips is paying off almost at 500k keep grinding you are an inspiration to me and many others, not only to workout but you also motivated me to start my youtube channel.
ngl if a person alrdy have the most perfect physical attractiveness, they automatically become charming personality - wise
I don’t think science works this way
@@tose5566 have you heard of halo effect?
@@tose5566 it’s possible lol if you’re ripped and you have abs then you’ll most likely have a good face because you’ll have a jawline and etc
@@sah_sook definitely but that doesn’t automatically mean that you’re gonna be super charismatic
@@Majima_57 no I haven’t bet I’m kinda curious now
I think the most important thing to search is mindset. Cause if the person is ugly, dumb or have a bad conversation, those can be changed if he/she know how to change and have will to do so. And trust me, is very interesting seeing this transformation eye to eye. (i know that comment is not 100% related to the video)
Agree i can see were your coming from... If there was someone who had the mindset to should grow then in reality people would spend more time with this person
JOE KILLING IT ON RUclips ATM
Love from South Africa bro, you made me start to bulk up and train hard, up 6kgs in 3 months 🙌🏼 keep up the good work man
SA gang gang
@@anonymousmafia6973 awehhh
Kwaai man
Lakka man love from the UK as a South African
Joe you're not ugly, you're good looking period.
Body is the most important to them, so I guess these girls are just trying to be nice... My ex cheated on me because apparently I didn't look great... It was almost nine months ago, and I was bored as hell and felt soo bad about myself at the time, but these corona times helped me to work on myself. Friends motivated me to work hard, introduced me to some tips and tricks that helped me to eat clean as well. In the process I took diet from website dietarize to further improve my meal planning. I lost 63lbs in nine months, and I am strongly motivated for more!!
Did you get your ex girlfriend back?
@@Roberto-eq7jb hé is worth more now
birds lie non stop dont ever listen to them
I guess for your ex it was body that was more important. remember her mentality doesn’t make up the entire population of women. Good on you for working on yourself and if she reaches out to you; curve her.
Guys it's a sneaky ad for dietariaz or whatever the website's called,that website is trash and you'll find at least 1 bot talking about that website in his "motivational" story in every fitness videos
i think it all depends on the situation. if a not so good looking guy approaches a girl for the first time, she most likely wont give him the chance to talk to her. But if they both had something in common like a class they were taking together, they would start off as classmates and if she vibes with him then maybe she’ll develop feelings for him. It all depends on the situation. Because if the girl doesnt find you physically attractive shes not going to give you a chance initially.
Short answer: Looksonality
Hahah another iconic video Joe.
You are gonna smash the algoritm, again.
Yes but the reality is, it’s not either or, in other words, women are going to want at least 2, preferably the 2 most important, Face AND personality, the question forces one OR the other, but in a social situation women are eliminating most me men who don’t possess both.
To anyone born at 2000s or earlier: you only find true love when youre 28-30. Anything before that is just a warm up.
My point of view is that my 20s is to mess around. 30 is when I would like to settle down.
@@CoolVictor2002 degenerate mindset
I'd say it goes like that: there is certain looks threshold that we don't lower for almost any reason.
Above that threshold personality overtakes better looks.
We don't need to have 10/10 be our girlfriend, but when she is super cute, you connect well, but she's just not there with looks, it's no more than friendship. You cannot build relationship without physical attraction
5:20 the kid on the scooter is the the most wholesome person i have ever seen
No matter your gender, if someone starts talking to you for no apparent reason it's most of the time only for your look. So it's logical that you don't want to keep on talking if you're not attracted to them. However if there is a logical reason you won't judge them based on their look but on what they say aka their personnality.
Looks, Money & Status. In that order.
Joe: my chat with girls is absolute dogshit
umm... doesn't look like it dude
He's probably like me and doesn't know what to say.
@@safcjoe7062 Joe definitely knows what to say.
@@reformedzoomer he's got game then🤣
Have you ever seen a beautifully shredded guy not dating a hot girl? I haven’t! So nothing to be confused guys. Onward!
Being shredded does not automatically make you attractive to women. If you want to be ripped do it for yourself.
I'm 16 shredded about 5'11 average face still lonely
@@damiank5976 ahh your only 16, give yourself time to get out there first😉
@@Jake_05_ how about if i am 18, 6'1 tall and have a lean body and average face? I feel like standards are higher here and hard to get a gf
@@truealpha7258 Tbh it’s hard to say as I don’t know where you live and standards of women are different everywhere😂 For me it’s not that’s hard but that could be because I’m in a school with around 400 girls in it xD. So I’d say just go to places where you know there will be a sufficient population of women as ive heard they nearly like to compete against each other sometimes. And also, never underestimate personality because yes you might land a woman, if you don’t have a unique and confident personality she will probably get bored (trust me on this sadly😂)
Honestly personality can overwhelm face or body by a lot just because that is much more unique than face
thats not how it works, if u are not attractive noone will care about ur persinality
I love your videos bro!!!
Keep grinding and doing your thing❤️
In the UK " Uve got a nice teth " is a really good compliment!
13 seconds ago, nice. This is the first time I’m getting notis on time.
0:21 shut the fuck up bro you re handsome as fuck.
You should upload atleast 3 times a week. Your videos are awesome.
Uploading amazing videos takes time
That's asking a bit too much.
3 times a week is not that much honestly.
In a way, it is because people might not be able to catch up with the videos.
Love from South Africa bro!! I know you bulking but I’m cutting but I still enjoy every single upload fam keep it up Joe 🙏
2 things here... the second set of questions you asked - you guys framed it as if it was almost a setup question - where as the first set of questions was black and white.. they probably feel like they would sound like total bitches if they picked looks after the way you delivered the question... Secondly - girls react to emotion - not logic - so again - the way you guys framed the second set of questions made their emotions/thoughts gravitate towards wanting a good personality.. my personal interpretation
I agree, ideally they should take a minute to explain the context in which they have to choose
The whole "women aren't logical they are emotional" shit is something people don't want to believe. The fact is that if you show a woman 3 body types with fat, skinny and fit they choose skinny or fat over fit because they feel like, "his personality is going to the gym" "he doesn't give enough time to me" but won't answer which one is more attractive, which, we know is the fit one.
I think the same
Love these types of videos, they are simple, you ask questions politely and hilarious more RUclipsrs should be like this
For a night out, it's the looks.. as long as you're not weird or a complete aashole. But in a relationship, a guy with a bad personality (boring, can't understand the girl, moody etc) will either get cheated on or dumped.
you can't ask a group of woman because the first girl to answer primes the others
I’ll tell you what’s important to most of them. Looks, and how much money you have
you sound like an incel and you have the profile picture to match
cringe
@j the definition is someone who doesn’t have sex involuntarily however it usually refers to a group of guys on the internet who blame their looks for them not getting any
For a long term partner, money is number one on women's list.
what if your balding ugly face like me.
End of discussion- body gives confidence which leads to personality and face a cherry on cake.
These girls capping
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They are smh
The real answer is money
@@alokrip9226 No u don’t need money to get girls not how this works 💯💯
@@coolgainz9307 then how does it work??
@@alokrip9226 What works is that girls likes u for u not for ur money and I promise u girls DO NOT care if u have a lot of money they only care about u and girls will only like u if ur respectful and being normal
Maybe you guys should test out this theory and go bars trying to get as may girls numbers as possible displaying a character who’s easy to chat too and one that’s muscular and got a dry personality.🤷🏾♂️😂
For me as a man looks are more important cus if your not attractive i aint gonna find out what your personality is like. Any1 who says otherwise is a hypocrite. Cus you dont go up to some1 you dont think is attractive and fall in love with them cus theyre a nice person. You gotta have both. Looks to attract and personality to keep you attracted
The thing is they want all of it. They want tall guy with handsome face (those are the things you need to have when you're leaving a good 1st impression in the girl). The things like how good is your personality is for girls who want long-term relationship (LTR) and body doesn't mean that much unless you are really unhealthy for LTR. So it depends if girl is looking for LTR or short-term relation ship (STR). Girl looking for LTR wants good looking guy with good income, ok body, nice personality. Girl looking for STR wants just good looking guy and nice body.
whoever says " they want a TALL guy " is definitely short themselves lol. No one above 6 ft will say " they want TALL " LMAO
Joe! the haircut aswell, sort that out i mean you could go from a strong 7 to a 8-9 for sure
It's fine if he grows it out a bit and fluffs the front
Yeah he looks sweet af but that haircut makes him look like a 13 yo scooter kid
Joe and Nate listening to the responses and thinking to themselves, "all this hard fucking work, and FOR WHAT?!"
For himself
@@ionut4939 lol u wish
@@tomsektul31i wish what?
would love this with my group of people, the non attractive, non chatty ugly ones! good video and maybe implement this in the next one
Face is the STARTING
Personality is what that MAINTAINS Relationships
Thats what I feel 🤔.
Yeah I agree. The face is the appetizer. The main course is the part that you can actually maintain.
bruh my face is the only thing i cant change damn
I also was thinking that all of them would definitely choose the personality, but I was totally wrong
When they say about personality they mean personality of a attractive guy 😂
This video made me laugh, in my opinion one of your best vids.. dropped a like (btw that like/dislike ratio is ridiculous right now)
Great vid man!🔥🔥
5:04 “fair enough ehh” 😂😂
Joe we would love to see you approaching random girls! Loved this video though - smashing it 💯
I've had a very attractive ex, well she has also has attractive body but our relationship didn't last because she is a crazy narcissist and very egoistic. I haven't been in a relationship since but from what I have experienced in a long term personality is the best. If your partner is mature, know how to talk and listen to you, know how to make you laugh and solve problems, then it's better than that attractive partner who run away or get mad whenever there is a problem.
still u wont go date fat ugly girls out there with the best ever personality cause u are superficial. Dont be an hypocrite
Why are you talking about my ex?
@@SamirJzVFX still u wont go date fat ugly girls out there with the best ever personality cause u are superficial. Dont be an hypocrite
Girl : I like women
Joe : Oh! Me too
“I like Woman” 🤣. You 2 were unprepared for that answer 🤣
xd
All the girls had nice points and are good, i appreciate that
Not worry asking because most girls will say personality just to look like a nice person. I'm almost 32 now and married but when I was single I had very little luck when I started to put weight on plus I'm 5ft5 so I was fucked 😂
Didn't see that coming, but it is encouraging.
I thought body would be most important.
Boy: "Face, body, or personality?"
Girl: "Money..."
Nah man I seen the comment about the girl who was saying she fancied women and scrolled across the vdueo to try to find who it was, seen a bird with red hair and a Metallica t shirt and was like “yeah it’s this one mush”
5:20 guy in background waving
thats the thing joe they will find someone who looks good with personality thats the thing, ive never seen a hot girl go out with a funny gremlin
When I grow up I'll want to be like Joe 🤣
There is a "Tadjwid of Coran" in the background what a feeling to hear it ❤️
Girls don't know what they want, they say personality but in reality it doesn't matter there only going to be interested if you look hot, also a girl isn't going to want to come across as vain while she has a camera pointed at her, finally even if they truly believe they don't care for how you look physically they actually do, you can see this from the physique pictures and how they all avoid the skinny guy all girls like a little muscle on a guy, trust me i used to be skinny :D
Looks is the most important thing to women. Proven fact. In fact it is more important to women than men. The sole fact that women have "height" filter says it all.
Youre right. Men in todays dating market have to live up to extraordinary standards
All of it matters but in this order: PERSONALITY #1, BODY#2, FACE#3 both personality and body need to be good for the point of attraction and interest. Face is unchangeable so don't worry about it. Your personality will carry you farther than anything, a good personality is key.
This is the biggest lie ever. Stop living in the fucking blue pill world.
Lol ‘face is unchangeable so don’t worry about it’? I think that’s the point mate things that you can’t change are more important than things that you can for example tall height good looking face will always beat body and hair cut because it displays good genetics. You can’t pass on a good personality to your future offspring smh😂
"Things you can't change", doesn't mean it's not important is it? Genetics control 90% of attraction
A good haircut, skincare, trimming etc can make your face look a lot better
@@AEHStudio yeah and getting braces for nicer teeth and a better jaw line
You need to ask women of various ages because when you're young and kind of shallow it is more about looks. But I feel like when you get older it's not so much about sex and it's not so much about looking good. It really is more about the person. Usually by that point your life you can hurt so many times that you just want a good person, not necessarily a gorgeous one.
Yeah. The face is not the most important part in the long term. One day, that pretty face will go away. That’s what happens when you start to become old. It’s only the truth.😢
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Let’s see how many subs I can gain from this comment
@@galileogaming.5606 i hope you gain none
i bet this comment will be at the top because he's verified
Beluga alpha
Nice seeing you here
This video confirms it.
The blackpill is real boyos.
Joe ur content is fire keep going 🔥🔥🔥
Face > Body > Personality
5:04 got me dead great video btw
nothing to worry about.. just be yourself
Real question is MONEY, looks, body or personality. Cuz money overrides all 3 from my experience.
This is a great example of survey bias. Entertaining stuff
Looks ❌
Body ❌
Personality ❌
Eats pesto pasta ✅
Pesto pasta is banging
What does what the girls eat have to do with anything?
5:20 the dude who waved is a legend
Keep up the good work Joe! Love your videos💪
All 3 has to be perfect... If not, they will just keep looking for a better option..
remember lads, trust her actions, not her words..
@4:12 - The Quran Recitation in the Background sounds really nice!
As a guy who apparently has a great face and nothing else, I'm saving this video
Short answer: money > face, body and personality
I'm a guy, the order for me goes face, personality and then body. Face and personality mean the most.
Your face will whittle away with age, looks don't last forever. With personality, it can only get better and age like a fine wine. Relationships built on looks will probably die fast. We're in it for the long haul ladies and gentlemen, never forget that.
Underrated comment.
Biggest cope i have ever read.
@@katakuri774 it's true tho?
Cope, looks might fade, but good genes dont
@@dylanfrazer4429
women dont care about genes, thats not how selection works, its about the presentation
but its a cope nonetheless, because looks dont fade away that away
most chads keep their looks
even if it fades away, a chad who is older will do ebtter than a young average guy
I can confirm that even if u got a good face when rumors spread that ur a bad person it goes around fast. If you have a bad personality nothing matters
Hell no I see plenty of guys beeing labeld as asholes or whatever but they still get chased af by girls bc they in the top 5% attractive
Take the Jeremy meeks pill budy boyo
If that's the case. Fckboys would have no existence in this world and would be completely invisible to the entire female population. Fckboys have FOUL personalitys and use woman. Woman already knowing this still choose to open up their legs for em AND they come back for more.