It’s too bad Jane didn’t call off the wedding when she first meant to. It would have saved her a lot of grief. Kevin is the king of gaslighting and clearly had no respect for her at all. I wouldn’t be surprised if he was badmouthing her to his friends all this time and that’s why they’re so hostile and rude to her face. The one girl who had a vendetta against her because her boss fired her is just crazy.
@@raphthalia329or she is so desperate for a man she puts up with how her so called fiancé and his friends treat her. Obviously her fiancé hates her or thinks she is an object of ridicule and she is just there so they could have a laugh. They are despicable.
From the sounds of things, it seems that she was blinded by love for this man and that he chose to act in a way that made the main character feel like he was changing for the better. He used manipulative language throughout the video. It's easy to see how the main character was duped to continue the relationship.
2:12 it’s Lemon Law time … Kevin being too thick to realize he’s supposed to stick up for his woman when his friends are jerks shows who he values most
Literally doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that he knows what Avery looks like naked after that first conversation. Also is he kidding? They just wanted to go hang out in the same room she just happened to be changing in? They were either trying to get a peek,shred her dress, or potentially worse. And this tool doesnt even care. Shameful.
Kevin: We’re going to make up just like we always do. Me: Oh yeah, how’s that working out for you this time, prick?! Especially when you choose to not believe YOUR FIANCÉ ON ANYTHING SHE TOLD YOU UNTIL THE LAST MINUTE!
Barely a minute in it's crystal clear Kevin is never going to respect Jane, or stand up for her. It only gets worse. Jane needed to walk away from him. It would be an excellent way for her to lose a lot of useless weight.
Kevin’s one of those men who enables his friends’ bullying and fat shaming against women, disrespects his fiancé, cheats behind her back with other women and just acts like he’s entitled to “be forgiven because I’M special!” Crap. It doesn’t matter if Jane saw the red flags or not, she was willing to give Kevin NUMEROUS opportunities to change and be a better person, and that’s understandable. Heck, she’s a WAY better human being than this Kevin Scumbag person. Kevin, as in the absolutely vile and toxic person who practically ALLOWS his so called friends and side pieces to just treat his fiancé like crap, bully her and fat shame her, then take THEIR sides… Someone should push Kevin and his minions into a pool of ice cold water… or a pool filled with crocodiles…!
2:44 how desperate are you that this is the relationship you choose to stay in? We really need to start teaching little girls and young women that this behavior from men is unacceptable and that it's ok to end a relationship with a dirtbag. I don't care if its a 5 minute old relationship or you're 5 minutes from the wedding you can and should call it off and walk away. 16:23 he cheats on her and she buys every lame excuse he gives and treats her like crap. His friends hate her and he doesn't like her but she just stays. People can't be this naive. 20:59 are you kidding me? What woman would stay with a scumbag like this?
It sounds like she was Fatherless, we hear nothing about her parents at all. Fathers are the filter most of the time for decent relationships. Women tend to marry men who remind them of their Father in some way because it brings a natural sense of security due to familiarity to them. Obviously if Dad is abusive they don't go after abusive men - it's more of the positive traits that get looked at and reviewed. And one of those traits is supposed to be "Standing by your Wife" which - if she experienced at all, she would know that Kevin was a jerk. Granted, children and young adults make a lot of mistakes. One of them being that they think they can change bad behaviors out of others. That if they just give it a bit of time they will come around. When in reality we know that will never be the case. This sounds like a young couple wedding - so clearly this was one of those kinds of mistakes. Teaching the youth about this behavior is almost pointless - because it comes with experience. They WILL still make the same mistakes even if you teach them, they just see you as being annoying and controlling and acting against their desires because they are blinded by naivety and youth filled narcissism. 18-25 year olds do not learn verbally about who to date and not to date unless they have been constantly dating back in 12th grade if not younger. And I mean seriously dating. Love is blind - and red flags go ignored to the unwise.
If your father has been abusive in some way, the child is coming from a bad place. She has had a lifetime of expecting bad things directed towards her. The minor red flags are just “part of the scenery”, nothing new. It feels weird when someone treats the child in a kind way. I have a picture my mother took of my father and me when I was 3(?) years old. He is leaning over me with a mean look on his face, his right hand in the closed position with the pointer finger extended. When 69-year-old me looks at it now, I messed up in some way and I was being verbally chastised. That was the usual thing at our house until I went off to college at age 18.
@@nightdrivenen7909Firstly, women do get into abusive relationships if their father is abusive. Not always, but it does happen. Secondly, claiming that parents shouldn't bother giving their children good tools to work with when it comes to looking for red flags in a relationship because well, they'll just ignore the parent's advice, is reckless parenting advice. Regardless of whether a child listens or not, it's idiotic to never give them the tools they need. You have no idea if the child will take the advice or not. It's better to give them the tools than be to an irresponsible parent who can't be bothered because some stranger on the internet told them that their kids probably won't listen anyway.
Jane should have said'I don't make mistakes, I unfortuely date them.' and/or 'I don't have exes, I have a Y, as in Why In The Hell did I ever date, let alone get engeged to you!?'
I’m a woman and don’t see the issue with fat shaming. I could lose a few pounds but I’m crippled. Women without issues should be able to hit the gym at least 3x a week or walk 5x a week
@@zerotodona1495 No one, handicapped or not s hi could be harassed to lose weight Especially by a spouse, or friend or family. It is discrimination and I do not tolerate anyone around me fat shaming a person. It does not help a person lose weight. No human is without flaws.
How is it a misunderstanding when your friends push your soon to be wife well ex soon to be wife in a pool. I guess in Kevin's mind what his friends did to op is justified and normal for him.
Kevin didn't want to get married. He just wanted a party and only cared about his bros. I don't know how Jane could've ever went through this engagement led alone go all the way to a church for a wedding. I know the saying is live and learn, but you don't ALWAYS have to live through something to learn it's avoidable. Especially when it's obvious what a stupid situation it all is.
Pushing someone into the pool against their will is physical assault no matter how you cut it. Any judge would call it a clear cut case for Jane. And Kevin will be the one stuck with the bills for the canceled wedding, his infidelity and for the hospital and treatments after the assault.
Directly or indirectly, he’s allowing his friends and family to create a hostile environment for someone he supposedly loves and cares about. His gaslighting and minimization is a huge red flag for her to leave and not look back.
SO many red flags she'sjust glossing over🤦🏾♀️.. between his trashy friends and Avery. I'm really confused why she was still talking about a daggone wedding to this trash man?.. If you have to explain to your soon to be spouse why their friends should respect you, the relationship is dead.. that should just be common sense. They didn't respect her cause her own fiance didn't respect or give a damn about her. That's why he thinks their little pranks, immaturity and no self control is hilarious.. he's immature and takes no accountability for anything.. what was she thinking even dating this man child, let alone marrying him?..
With a hairline fracture, it's still quite easy to walk, it hurts less than a sprain... she must also have been angry... all the adrenaline numbs the pain at first.... the question is more like, how do you break your leg if you fall into the pool... was it winter and the water was frozen ?
@@andreamuller9009- If you hit your leg on the side of the pool as you fall in it's possible to fracture it. Being pushed has more force than a fall so you'd hit harder.
I like this actresses voice but she almost always plays these long - suffering doormats who let themselves be taken advantage of and abused until the last few minutes of the story. To each his own, I guess.
🎵I don't know / I don't know / I don't know where Kevin's gonna go / when his lady finally blows / up at him🎵 (to the tune of "Volcano" by Jimmy Buffett.....may he rest in peace) 🎵Because he didn't treat her right🎵 (Sawyer Brown reference)
Even IF i would have waited till the Wedding, the MINUTE he told me i needed to allow them into MY CHANGING room just because MY GIRLFRIENDS were in the room with me i would have ended things right then and there.
In the real world, vs the text Sillyverse, this would have been a much shorter conversation, not text, at the restaurant: "Sue me if you think you're getting the engagement ring back."
Kevin got hit with a very hard dose of reality. 1) Always defend your fiancé, even if you have to go up against your boys, 2) Never be alone in your apartment with another female, unless she is a relative, and 3) Man up and pay for the wedding costs without complaining, because it's all on Kevin and his boys that there was no wedding.
My man would never let his friends talk crap about me. Even with the issues we had, this is the one thing he would not let happen. Miss him everyday......issues and all. And actions can scream louder than words.
So which main character in these stories is the biggest doormat? Jane should have ended things the next time they went out to eat by throwing her drink in his face and dumping her plate of food on him.
The worst was him saying she should have let near-strangers into her dressing room WHILE SHE WAS CHANGING. She has every right to keep her body private, reserved only for the eyes of those SHE consents to be there and whom SHE agrees they can see. HE has ZERO rights in that regard--even if he were her husband, HE HAS ZERO RIGHT TO FORCE HER TO SHOW HER BODY TO OTHERS. Just as she would have no rights to force him to be seen by others, either.
I wouldn't mind him having female friends but in this case his "friend" talks down to his fiance and antagonizes her for his affection. P.S: It is maddening how Kevin is ready to defend everyone else but his own fiance!Everyone is innocent even if they are openly disrespectful towards his woman but Jane according to him is crazy and overreacting🤮🤮🤮 I bet that the day that she didnt return to his house,they had sex for the first time!
If I had an SO who didn't step up and defend me while his friends were insulting me and making fun of me while I was standing there, I would immediately end the relationship. It's not worth my mental health and well being to tolerate anyone trying to do this type of thing to me. Is it in an attempt to make people feel like they aren't good enough and that they can't do better than their SO?
If one of my friends insulted my woman in front of me, with or without her present, he's no longer a friend unless he sincerely apologizes. And even then we wouldn't be as close anymore.
Jane does not understand that self confidence and self esteem has" self" right in the name. She is responsible for how she feels and who she allows in her life. They were both very childish.
Everyone in this story is an Ahole. Jane should have left them all alone. I get she hurt because of the remarks and put downs, but good lord, she whines too much. No one would want to be with someone like that either.
Lol, you said it. My gf now WF had said many times when me and my friends would talk and she overheard. She would say Did you guys fight or something but it was awful the things you said to each other. I laughed and said no it was normal conversation.
She’s so lucky she didn’t marry him! She would have become the housekeeper and cook in third place behind Avery and the boys. The way he keeps calling her “Bro” and “Dude” like she’s a just a friend or something.
I kept going back and forth. She over reacts... but when he thought his friends should come into the dressing room. That's creepy. They should have been with him.
I actually had a boyfriend like this once back in high school, and he would laugh along with his friends when they made fun of me. Yes, it is hard to lose weight for girls, especially when they have thyroid like me. I dumped his sorry butt when he wouldn't stand up for me. Found out through the grapevine that the dude is still single and wonders why he can't keep a girlfriend.
Jane ignores he found it funny thinking he should tell them to talk behind her back because his laughing wasn't an issue, but the boys can't find it as such.... She seriously wants him to tell them to keep making fun of her... He's got plenty of red flags, but so does Jane. "Make more female friends, but I will critize them to tell you I don't like them so get rid of her and accuse you of cheating with them all." She's a bundle of control issues. Heck, she even kind of says having a girl over secretly is okay, but not when she's there or they are declaring war on her personally. She knew they weren't compatible, half her own behavior. She should pay half the wedding fees because she was equally problematic. She won't be happy without drama. She's a whole package of it herself.
This is one marriage that should never have been planned. Kevin doesn't understand what it is to get married, much less to have a fiancé. And Jane is overly sensitive about her body image, getting upset over the slightest mention of anything to do with her looks. Why does Jane even care what others think? Because she has low self esteem, and defines herself by what others say about her. If her self esteem was rock solid, she's give those talking about her a furry tongue lashing. Instead, she becomes hurt and angry. Kevin actually chose his friends over Jane. During the time mentioned at the start of this story, had he really cared about Jane he would have jumped right in the middle of his so called friends crap. Some friends, trying to enter the room where Jane was getting ready for their wedding. No man but the girl's father should every try to see the bride before she's completely ready. Why was Jane near the pool? Why didn't anyone else but Jane's brother, see what was happening and stop it from happening? Again, after Jane was thrown into the pool by two of Kevin's friends, why wasn't Kevin all over them? Simple. Because if he had, he risked loosing them as so called friends Avery was another piece of work. She messed up at work and blames Jane for getting her fired only because she saw Jane talking to her boss. That is not proof Jane was responsible for Avery being fired. In fact, Avery was blaming another instead of accepting responsibility. It was good this wedding never took place. Kevin was still mentally in high school, never accepting the severty of the problems that stared him in the face. Jane needed to build her self esteem before thinking to marry, or she'll continue to become paranoid if her future fiancée has women friends.
How come Kevin never tells Jane that he loves her & why does he keep taking EVERYONE else’s side over hers. Also yes it’s fine for your partner to have friends of the opposite sex BUT BOTH of you have to trust them. Of course I may not be the best person when it comes to understanding being jealous of other people being in my partner’s life, I’ve never gotten jealous before but even I can see the red flags Kevin is showing.
So many red flags but at least she grew wise enough to get out of the relationship. Just imagine the married life with Kevin...Jane going through pregnancy and had to deal with all the jeers even after post-pregnancy. What was Kevin saying to his friends about Jane? They clearly had it out for her.
Wow, didn't take him long to call her 'cow' did it? Then he wants to get back with her ... even after cheating and protecting his friends? Good that she reported it to the police as assault, etc. Might teach his 'friends' what happens when you do something stupid and dangerous. Something needs to be fixed in this story though ... after she was pushed in the pool, she was on her way 'home', so how did she end up with a broken leg? Shouldn't she have been on her way to the hospital first?
ok, at first I thought Jane was just paranoid and wanted to nit pick about every little thing and needed to just get over it on how other people talked about her, but then.....when she started talking about Avery, yeah she should have just called the whole thing off then and there. If she had doubts she should have had someone tail him to see what was goin on when she wasn't around.
Been a long time since I saw a "shitty fiance can't take anything serious especially his friends hurting OP on their wedding until he has to face the after math" story. Jane should have left him long ago the only good thing about her staying this long was forcing Kevin & his friends to face the music. I hope when she's ready & chooses to date again she learns from her mistakes & ends up with someone that actually cares & will defend her. I get the feeling like Kevin's family the rest of his friends' families are horrified by their actions.(Especially Avery's) The friends' families cut ties with them too or are strict with them keeping an eye on them in hopes to force them to learn to not be shitty people any more. I dunno if anyone is getting jail time but everyone is likely getting a record for this & owe Jane some compensation. I imagine Avery's family before disowning her(or while doing so) force her to take on some of the debt for the wedding Kevin owes as punishment.(Enough to make it hurt Avery cause of all the work & what she already owes Jane but Kevin still owes most of the money) I also want to imagine Kevin & his friends get in a fight over whose fault it is that Jane ruined them all. Avery likely getting the brunt of it with Kevin fights with Avery & blames her in some way since Jane made it clear Avery hates her due to Avery being the side chick & losing her job that wasn't Jane's fault. Avery gets upset as while her plan to hurt Jane & make her leave work Avery possibly lost another job(I forgot if she found a new one), lost her family, owes money & lost her friends but now Kevin wants nothing to do with her so she's not even a side piece anymore. A part of me wants to imagine the friends(I doubt they're smart enough to try this but maybe it's a miracle) manage to hang out together for a bit like nothing happened but start treating Kevin & Avery how they treated Jane in the past. They finally see how Jane felt that Kevin ignored, Avery gets upset & tries to make Kevin stand up for her even though she knows he hates her now & knows he didn't stand up for her then so why now? Kevin just allows her to suffer & leaves/cuts contact with the others knowing they're doing this to be petty & to force him out.(For some reason Avery is to stupid to cut contact yet) It eventually ends with the friends pushing Avery into mud, the only injury she has is her pride as she feels humiliated the rest is just her needing to clean off & maybe needing to pay to get the mud out of her clothes. The now ex-friends tell her she's lucky she wasn't hurt & that she should get over it cause it's her fault this all happened. In the end they all finally cut ties & scatter into the wind to go elsewhere to suffer alone while working to pay off any money they all owe still.
It’s too bad Jane didn’t call off the wedding when she first meant to. It would have saved her a lot of grief. Kevin is the king of gaslighting and clearly had no respect for her at all. I wouldn’t be surprised if he was badmouthing her to his friends all this time and that’s why they’re so hostile and rude to her face. The one girl who had a vendetta against her because her boss fired her is just crazy.
How many Red Flags 🚩 does Jane need? She ignored a million of them prior to the wedding
She needs all flags that exists. Either that are she has been wearing an eye mask he whole relationship.
@@raphthalia329or she is so desperate for a man she puts up with how her so called fiancé and his friends treat her. Obviously her fiancé hates her or thinks she is an object of ridicule and she is just there so they could have a laugh. They are despicable.
How many Red Flags?
Jane: YES! (I'm a fvcking Red Flag Pole)! Hahahah
From the sounds of things, it seems that she was blinded by love for this man and that he chose to act in a way that made the main character feel like he was changing for the better. He used manipulative language throughout the video. It's easy to see how the main character was duped to continue the relationship.
Exactly!!
So many red flags here and yet Jane ignores them all. The first time he didn't stick up for me I would've kicked him to the curb.
After Jane went into the pool he says "I didn't do anything." Yeah, so very true.
Hope everyone's having a nice day, always remember your worth and leave them if they don't treat you right.
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@@bridgetdebourgh5698 you too!
Thank you for your wise words and the same to you, too 🤗 💖 🇨🇦
2:12 it’s Lemon Law time … Kevin being too thick to realize he’s supposed to stick up for his woman when his friends are jerks shows who he values most
How does a law regarding cars and over vehicles relates to relationships between people?
Oh, he understands he supposed to stick up for his woman. He constantly sticks up for Avery.
@@michaelgum97
Meaning he shoudl be returned and/or sent to the junk heap.
How much gaslighting needs to happen before she gets it? Lol.
Literally doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that he knows what Avery looks like naked after that first conversation.
Also is he kidding? They just wanted to go hang out in the same room she just happened to be changing in? They were either trying to get a peek,shred her dress, or potentially worse. And this tool doesnt even care. Shameful.
No man should see the bride before the wedding, forget it this male person and his 'bros' are for prison.
What kind of little boy calls their fiancé “Bro”?
Could just be dialogue but I’m from CA and “dude” is part of the vocab. Like saying “hey” or “look”.
Bro is weird though.
@@zerotodona1495bro is really weird lol
Kevin: We’re going to make up just like we always do.
Me: Oh yeah, how’s that working out for you this time, prick?! Especially when you choose to not believe YOUR FIANCÉ ON ANYTHING SHE TOLD YOU UNTIL THE LAST MINUTE!
……Why marry him, then….?
Love is one hell of a drug and blindfold sometimes.
Barely a minute in it's crystal clear Kevin is never going to respect Jane, or stand up for her. It only gets worse.
Jane needed to walk away from him. It would be an excellent way for her to lose a lot of useless weight.
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It took OP way too long to leave him behind. He was a jerk from his first words.
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Kevin is a walking talking red flag
Kevin’s one of those men who enables his friends’ bullying and fat shaming against women, disrespects his fiancé, cheats behind her back with other women and just acts like he’s entitled to “be forgiven because I’M special!” Crap.
It doesn’t matter if Jane saw the red flags or not, she was willing to give Kevin NUMEROUS opportunities to change and be a better person, and that’s understandable.
Heck, she’s a WAY better human being than this Kevin Scumbag person.
Kevin, as in the absolutely vile and toxic person who practically ALLOWS his so called friends and side pieces to just treat his fiancé like crap, bully her and fat shame her, then take THEIR sides…
Someone should push Kevin and his minions into a pool of ice cold water… or a pool filled with crocodiles…!
I ex-husband was like this
He Deserved To Be Dumped...Off The Edge Of A Cliff!
I vote crocodiles 😊
If I were Jane, I’d look at his friends and say while giving the ring 💍 pick which one of you would like to marry your friend?
And I’d dip
Same
2:44 how desperate are you that this is the relationship you choose to stay in? We really need to start teaching little girls and young women that this behavior from men is unacceptable and that it's ok to end a relationship with a dirtbag. I don't care if its a 5 minute old relationship or you're 5 minutes from the wedding you can and should call it off and walk away.
16:23 he cheats on her and she buys every lame excuse he gives and treats her like crap. His friends hate her and he doesn't like her but she just stays. People can't be this naive.
20:59 are you kidding me? What woman would stay with a scumbag like this?
I’d’ve walked out when the parents dissed me.
It sounds like she was Fatherless, we hear nothing about her parents at all.
Fathers are the filter most of the time for decent relationships. Women tend to marry men who remind them of their Father in some way because it brings a natural sense of security due to familiarity to them. Obviously if Dad is abusive they don't go after abusive men - it's more of the positive traits that get looked at and reviewed. And one of those traits is supposed to be "Standing by your Wife" which - if she experienced at all, she would know that Kevin was a jerk. Granted, children and young adults make a lot of mistakes. One of them being that they think they can change bad behaviors out of others. That if they just give it a bit of time they will come around. When in reality we know that will never be the case. This sounds like a young couple wedding - so clearly this was one of those kinds of mistakes. Teaching the youth about this behavior is almost pointless - because it comes with experience. They WILL still make the same mistakes even if you teach them, they just see you as being annoying and controlling and acting against their desires because they are blinded by naivety and youth filled narcissism. 18-25 year olds do not learn verbally about who to date and not to date unless they have been constantly dating back in 12th grade if not younger. And I mean seriously dating. Love is blind - and red flags go ignored to the unwise.
If your father has been abusive in some way, the child is coming from a bad place. She has had a lifetime of expecting bad things directed towards her. The minor red flags are just “part of the scenery”, nothing new. It feels weird when someone treats the child in a kind way.
I have a picture my mother took of my father and me when I was 3(?) years old. He is leaning over me with a mean look on his face, his right hand in the closed position with the pointer finger extended. When 69-year-old me looks at it now, I messed up in some way and I was being verbally chastised. That was the usual thing at our house until I went off to college at age 18.
It all starts with teaching little boys how to be caring, empathetic and giving them good, non-toxic male role models.
@@nightdrivenen7909Firstly, women do get into abusive relationships if their father is abusive. Not always, but it does happen. Secondly, claiming that parents shouldn't bother giving their children good tools to work with when it comes to looking for red flags in a relationship because well, they'll just ignore the parent's advice, is reckless parenting advice. Regardless of whether a child listens or not, it's idiotic to never give them the tools they need. You have no idea if the child will take the advice or not. It's better to give them the tools than be to an irresponsible parent who can't be bothered because some stranger on the internet told them that their kids probably won't listen anyway.
Do not stay with Kevin. He believes in fat shaming women. Kevin is not sticking up for his woman.
Jane should have said'I don't make mistakes, I unfortuely date them.' and/or 'I don't have exes, I have a Y, as in Why In The Hell did I ever date, let alone get engeged to you!?'
I’m a woman and don’t see the issue with fat shaming. I could lose a few pounds but I’m crippled. Women without issues should be able to hit the gym at least 3x a week or walk 5x a week
@@zerotodona1495 No one, handicapped or not s hi could be harassed to lose weight Especially by a spouse, or friend or family. It is discrimination and I do not tolerate anyone around me fat shaming a person. It does not help a person lose weight. No human is without flaws.
Why the hell is she with him? She needs to build up some self esteem before she dates anyone else.
How is it a misunderstanding when your friends push your soon to be wife well ex soon to be wife in a pool. I guess in Kevin's mind what his friends did to op is justified and normal for him.
Kevin didn't want to get married. He just wanted a party and only cared about his bros. I don't know how Jane could've ever went through this engagement led alone go all the way to a church for a wedding.
I know the saying is live and learn, but you don't ALWAYS have to live through something to learn it's avoidable. Especially when it's obvious what a stupid situation it all is.
The moment they started their mouth running and he didn't step up, I'm done. Goodbye 👋
Op should have asked, when the male person was trying to gaslight her "Do you have an off button?'
Pushing someone into the pool against their will is physical assault no matter how you cut it. Any judge would call it a clear cut case for Jane. And Kevin will be the one stuck with the bills for the canceled wedding, his infidelity and for the hospital and treatments after the assault.
Directly or indirectly, he’s allowing his friends and family to create a hostile environment for someone he supposedly loves and cares about. His gaslighting and minimization is a huge red flag for her to leave and not look back.
Good morning, everyone. Kevin is a bit clueless. So many cameras are around now days and he is still clueless
SO many red flags she'sjust glossing over🤦🏾♀️.. between his trashy friends and Avery. I'm really confused why she was still talking about a daggone wedding to this trash man?.. If you have to explain to your soon to be spouse why their friends should respect you, the relationship is dead.. that should just be common sense. They didn't respect her cause her own fiance didn't respect or give a damn about her. That's why he thinks their little pranks, immaturity and no self control is hilarious.. he's immature and takes no accountability for anything.. what was she thinking even dating this man child, let alone marrying him?..
Both of them are unpleasant.
Wondering how the bride could "storm off" with a broken leg . . .
With a hairline fracture, it's still quite easy to walk, it hurts less than a sprain... she must also have been angry... all the adrenaline numbs the pain at first.... the question is more like, how do you break your leg if you fall into the pool... was it winter and the water was frozen ?
@@andreamuller9009- If you hit your leg on the side of the pool as you fall in it's possible to fracture it. Being pushed has more force than a fall so you'd hit harder.
@@andreamuller9009women have more fragile bones than men so it’s pretty easy with a hard shove and hitting concrete before the pool.
@@andreamuller9009 Also she apparently went over a railing, so she would have fallen from a height rather than from ground level.
I like this actresses voice but she almost always plays these long - suffering doormats who let themselves be taken advantage of and abused until the last few minutes of the story. To each his own, I guess.
🎵I don't know / I don't know / I don't know where Kevin's gonna go / when his lady finally blows / up at him🎵 (to the tune of "Volcano" by Jimmy Buffett.....may he rest in peace)
🎵Because he didn't treat her right🎵 (Sawyer Brown reference)
Nice tribute🦎🎶
I would have to throw this one back!
🥱🥱☕☕☕☕GOOD MORNING EVERYONE.
GOOD MORNING 👋 Enjoy your day 🤗
Even IF i would have waited till the Wedding, the MINUTE he told me i needed to allow them into MY CHANGING room just because MY GIRLFRIENDS were in the room with me i would have ended things right then and there.
So, just invite him to an evening with your girlfrinds, and have them make fun of him and see how he liked it!😂
Babe? Doesn't he know her name?
And how many girlfriends does he have?
Did they ever get the cake out of the bundt pan?
Dunno, but I want a bite of it….I lone Bundt Cake 🤤😋
Morning all! Have a lovely day!
Good Morning and have a great day 👋
You too! Good morning!!
In the real world, vs the text Sillyverse, this would have been a much shorter conversation, not text, at the restaurant: "Sue me if you think you're getting the engagement ring back."
Kevin got hit with a very hard dose of reality. 1) Always defend your fiancé, even if you have to go up against your boys, 2) Never be alone in your apartment with another female, unless she is a relative, and 3) Man up and pay for the wedding costs without complaining, because it's all on Kevin and his boys that there was no wedding.
Kevin should just marry his friends.
If he won’t stick up for Jane, he won’t stick up for any future kids
My man would never let his friends talk crap about me. Even with the issues we had, this is the one thing he would not let happen. Miss him everyday......issues and all. And actions can scream louder than words.
nICE STORY AGAIN LOVED IT.
Kevin spent so much time playing ignorant he gaslighted everyone, including himself.
The cake looks amazing
I would enjoy it if Kevin and his friends got to hear Jane and her friends critique them. I'm sure they're no Adonises.
So which main character in these stories is the biggest doormat? Jane should have ended things the next time they went out to eat by throwing her drink in his face and dumping her plate of food on him.
The worst was him saying she should have let near-strangers into her dressing room WHILE SHE WAS CHANGING. She has every right to keep her body private, reserved only for the eyes of those SHE consents to be there and whom SHE agrees they can see. HE has ZERO rights in that regard--even if he were her husband, HE HAS ZERO RIGHT TO FORCE HER TO SHOW HER BODY TO OTHERS. Just as she would have no rights to force him to be seen by others, either.
"You are thinking to much",
"Yea, and you dont think at all!"
Kevin's gonna make the whole world run out of natural gas with all of those lights he's putting up.
I wouldn't mind him having female friends but in this case his "friend" talks down to his fiance and antagonizes her for his affection.
P.S: It is maddening how Kevin is ready to defend everyone else but his own fiance!Everyone is innocent even if they are openly disrespectful towards his woman but Jane according to him is crazy and overreacting🤮🤮🤮
I bet that the day that she didnt return to his house,they had sex for the first time!
I feel so bad for jane, if i was her friend I'd give her an hug and tell her that she deserved better and to leave that piece of crap
If I had an SO who didn't step up and defend me while his friends were insulting me and making fun of me while I was standing there, I would immediately end the relationship. It's not worth my mental health and well being to tolerate anyone trying to do this type of thing to me. Is it in an attempt to make people feel like they aren't good enough and that they can't do better than their SO?
If one of my friends insulted my woman in front of me, with or without her present, he's no longer a friend unless he sincerely apologizes. And even then we wouldn't be as close anymore.
It's sad that Kevin really didn't care about Jane
Jane does not understand that self confidence and self esteem has" self" right in the name. She is responsible for how she feels and who she allows in her life. They were both very childish.
Everything Kevin was saying before the wedding was a HUGE red flag.
Everyone in this story is an Ahole. Jane should have left them all alone. I get she hurt because of the remarks and put downs, but good lord, she whines too much. No one would want to be with someone like that either.
Lol, you said it. My gf now WF had said many times when me and my friends would talk and she overheard. She would say Did you guys fight or something but it was awful the things you said to each other. I laughed and said no it was normal conversation.
@NickJaime Right! I get that. It's how my friends and I talk to each other too.
32:00 Jane hasn’t delivered her closing comments, but I want to hear her say that Kev’s Cash Cow has left the pasture.
Good morning from Hitchins, Kentucky, USA.
Seriously what did Jane saw in this manchild who even speaks like a kid.
He deserves to be left alone rotting in debt for all Jane cares
She’s so lucky she didn’t marry him! She would have become the housekeeper and cook in third place behind Avery and the boys. The way he keeps calling her “Bro” and “Dude” like she’s a just a friend or something.
I kept going back and forth. She over reacts... but when he thought his friends should come into the dressing room. That's creepy. They should have been with him.
I actually had a boyfriend like this once back in high school, and he would laugh along with his friends when they made fun of me. Yes, it is hard to lose weight for girls, especially when they have thyroid like me. I dumped his sorry butt when he wouldn't stand up for me. Found out through the grapevine that the dude is still single and wonders why he can't keep a girlfriend.
He doesnt really care, his family is the same.. she should show herself self respect and ditch him
Jane loves swimming in the red flags...at this point she doesn't like herself
Jane ignores he found it funny thinking he should tell them to talk behind her back because his laughing wasn't an issue, but the boys can't find it as such.... She seriously wants him to tell them to keep making fun of her... He's got plenty of red flags, but so does Jane. "Make more female friends, but I will critize them to tell you I don't like them so get rid of her and accuse you of cheating with them all." She's a bundle of control issues. Heck, she even kind of says having a girl over secretly is okay, but not when she's there or they are declaring war on her personally.
She knew they weren't compatible, half her own behavior. She should pay half the wedding fees because she was equally problematic. She won't be happy without drama. She's a whole package of it herself.
The fiancé set her up as the community punching bag.
This is one marriage that should never have been planned. Kevin doesn't understand what it is to get married, much less to have a fiancé. And Jane is overly sensitive about her body image, getting upset over the slightest mention of anything to do with her looks.
Why does Jane even care what others think? Because she has low self esteem, and defines herself by what others say about her. If her self esteem was rock solid, she's give those talking about her a furry tongue lashing. Instead, she becomes hurt and angry.
Kevin actually chose his friends over Jane. During the time mentioned at the start of this story, had he really cared about Jane he would have jumped right in the middle of his so called friends crap.
Some friends, trying to enter the room where Jane was getting ready for their wedding. No man but the girl's father should every try to see the bride before she's completely ready.
Why was Jane near the pool? Why didn't anyone else but Jane's brother, see what was happening and stop it from happening?
Again, after Jane was thrown into the pool by two of Kevin's friends, why wasn't Kevin all over them? Simple. Because if he had, he risked loosing them as so called friends
Avery was another piece of work. She messed up at work and blames Jane for getting her fired only because she saw Jane talking to her boss. That is not proof Jane was responsible for Avery being fired. In fact, Avery was blaming another instead of accepting responsibility.
It was good this wedding never took place. Kevin was still mentally in high school, never accepting the severty of the problems that stared him in the face.
Jane needed to build her self esteem before thinking to marry, or she'll continue to become paranoid if her future fiancée has women friends.
True, he is a worm & needs to stop the disrespect from his family & friends....but dang if she isn't annoying!! She's giving off red flags as well
Jane, please...you deserve better that that thing!
Most wedding expenses are paid in full before the wedding to begin with.
A person is known by the friends they hang around as birds of a feather flock together!
If you resort to threaten not to marry someone, then you shouldn’t marry them.
Kevin…… RUN!
Jane stick to your guns and don't back down no matter what
How come Kevin never tells Jane that he loves her & why does he keep taking EVERYONE else’s side over hers. Also yes it’s fine for your partner to have friends of the opposite sex BUT BOTH of you have to trust them. Of course I may not be the best person when it comes to understanding being jealous of other people being in my partner’s life, I’ve never gotten jealous before but even I can see the red flags Kevin is showing.
She dodged a 12g slug to the chest. She should consider this her second birthday each year.
She needs to dump him. I'm only 6 minutes in, and I know she needs to dump him.
If she broke her leg, why didn't she go to the hospital instead of home? Also, the wedding would have already been paid for.
The gaslighting is pretty severe with this guy.
there is only one thing i would have said to kevin with this first conversation. "Bye!"
my ex-husband was a twit but he did protect me from others (if only to make up for his being a jerk)
So many red flags but at least she grew wise enough to get out of the relationship. Just imagine the married life with Kevin...Jane going through pregnancy and had to deal with all the jeers even after post-pregnancy.
What was Kevin saying to his friends about Jane? They clearly had it out for her.
Why was Kevin so desperate to marry Jane? He didn't like her or respect her.
Jane should have dropped his sorry hide on day one.
Wow, didn't take him long to call her 'cow' did it? Then he wants to get back with her ... even after cheating and protecting his friends? Good that she reported it to the police as assault, etc. Might teach his 'friends' what happens when you do something stupid and dangerous. Something needs to be fixed in this story though ... after she was pushed in the pool, she was on her way 'home', so how did she end up with a broken leg? Shouldn't she have been on her way to the hospital first?
29:01 - the fact he didn't immediately drop dead is proof that there's no sincerity, since he should've been struck dead
I can't believe she was dumb enough to even try to go thru with the wedding in the first place.
This is gotta be my first video where i'm not on the main protagonist side
Wow he called off the wedding not her. She's so pathetic.
The party with avery and the boys SHOULD be Jane'S unengagement party
Can Jane not find another better man? Wow
How many times this plot been repeated?
I would have left him after the first conversation she had with him.
Gullible much?
Red flags from both sides.
ok, at first I thought Jane was just paranoid and wanted to nit pick about every little thing and needed to just get over it on how other people talked about her, but then.....when she started talking about Avery, yeah she should have just called the whole thing off then and there. If she had doubts she should have had someone tail him to see what was goin on when she wasn't around.
Wait A Darn minute did he just call her Bro.. oh heck no.. it would be so on .. If that was me. Only my friends would be able to say that
Been a long time since I saw a "shitty fiance can't take anything serious especially his friends hurting OP on their wedding until he has to face the after math" story. Jane should have left him long ago the only good thing about her staying this long was forcing Kevin & his friends to face the music. I hope when she's ready & chooses to date again she learns from her mistakes & ends up with someone that actually cares & will defend her.
I get the feeling like Kevin's family the rest of his friends' families are horrified by their actions.(Especially Avery's) The friends' families cut ties with them too or are strict with them keeping an eye on them in hopes to force them to learn to not be shitty people any more. I dunno if anyone is getting jail time but everyone is likely getting a record for this & owe Jane some compensation. I imagine Avery's family before disowning her(or while doing so) force her to take on some of the debt for the wedding Kevin owes as punishment.(Enough to make it hurt Avery cause of all the work & what she already owes Jane but Kevin still owes most of the money)
I also want to imagine Kevin & his friends get in a fight over whose fault it is that Jane ruined them all. Avery likely getting the brunt of it with Kevin fights with Avery & blames her in some way since Jane made it clear Avery hates her due to Avery being the side chick & losing her job that wasn't Jane's fault. Avery gets upset as while her plan to hurt Jane & make her leave work Avery possibly lost another job(I forgot if she found a new one), lost her family, owes money & lost her friends but now Kevin wants nothing to do with her so she's not even a side piece anymore.
A part of me wants to imagine the friends(I doubt they're smart enough to try this but maybe it's a miracle) manage to hang out together for a bit like nothing happened but start treating Kevin & Avery how they treated Jane in the past. They finally see how Jane felt that Kevin ignored, Avery gets upset & tries to make Kevin stand up for her even though she knows he hates her now & knows he didn't stand up for her then so why now? Kevin just allows her to suffer & leaves/cuts contact with the others knowing they're doing this to be petty & to force him out.(For some reason Avery is to stupid to cut contact yet) It eventually ends with the friends pushing Avery into mud, the only injury she has is her pride as she feels humiliated the rest is just her needing to clean off & maybe needing to pay to get the mud out of her clothes. The now ex-friends tell her she's lucky she wasn't hurt & that she should get over it cause it's her fault this all happened. In the end they all finally cut ties & scatter into the wind to go elsewhere to suffer alone while working to pay off any money they all owe still.