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    Hello beautiful friends! I wanted to break up all the moving vlogs with a little sit down video. I had you guys send in some assumptions on instagram! Here is me reacting to your assumptions about me. I hope this video helps you get to know me a bit better as well. Love you all!
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Комментарии • 221

  • @jessbrown24
    @jessbrown24 4 года назад +197

    "I honestly forget about sex". Girl that is a blessing FOR SURE. Haha.

  • @lionoffireministries
    @lionoffireministries 4 года назад +145

    I was 5 years of chronic illness. Semi Housebound, lost my health, job, finances and my fiance left me. I couldn't even look at electronic screen for 5 minutes, or hold a 10-minute conversation.
    But God did an amazing work. And if he can do this, he can do it in you also. 😇🙏
    I now have a Christian Channel where I encourage people and show them what God did in my life and that there is hope for you also.
    *Keep believing even when it's hard* 🙏❤️🙌
    *All things are possible with God*

    • @amberlawson668
      @amberlawson668 4 года назад +5

      Thank you for sharing this! It means a lot!

    • @anniedrosham7299
      @anniedrosham7299 4 года назад +4

      Beautiful! Thanks for sharing

    • @lionoffireministries
      @lionoffireministries 4 года назад +4

      Thank you I hope God can use this testimony to bless others 😊🙏💕

    • @nephiedocteur8633
      @nephiedocteur8633 4 года назад +4

      That was truly amazing thanks for sharing your story !

    • @faithmarie3808
      @faithmarie3808 4 года назад +1

      I love this just subscribed❤️❤️

  • @evikekarpaty
    @evikekarpaty 4 года назад +113

    would love if you did a video on the transition from singleness to dating and what advice you would give a gal that finds so much identity, joy, and fulfillment from singleness

    • @Kian_Wolfgang
      @Kian_Wolfgang  4 года назад +23

      Definitely want to make more videos on this! I have one called "preparing for marriage'

    • @evikekarpaty
      @evikekarpaty 4 года назад +1

      @@Kian_Wolfgang so stoked!

    • @kaylanfomby7506
      @kaylanfomby7506 4 года назад +2

      AMEN to this request; I just recently learned to stop anticipating a relationship and am basking in the joys of the single life, and I don't think I'll be able to just willingly jump off that lol

  • @robyn905
    @robyn905 4 года назад +107

    I love how any negative seeming qualities you brought up about yourself you ended with "But i am blessed..."

    • @Kian_Wolfgang
      @Kian_Wolfgang  4 года назад +32

      Boast in our weaknesses AM I RIGHT 😅

    • @robyn905
      @robyn905 4 года назад +6

      @@Kian_Wolfgang yes! There is so much beauty and blessings in our weaknesses :)

  • @catherineeubanks3084
    @catherineeubanks3084 4 года назад +119

    It honestly shocked me when you said you’re only 5’3 😳 I could have sworn you were at least 5’7! Hahah

    • @Kian_Wolfgang
      @Kian_Wolfgang  4 года назад +17

      What the heckity heck lol!! Maybe it’s because I have long legs and always take my photos at a slight upwards angle 😂

    • @Centerpiecegardens
      @Centerpiecegardens 4 года назад +5

      @@Kian_Wolfgang I'm pretty sure I thought you were way taller too! haha

    • @christinawatkinsyoutube
      @christinawatkinsyoutube 4 года назад +1

      Aaaah you’re as small as me Kian😍

  • @leahindisney2822
    @leahindisney2822 4 года назад +42

    Would love the Q+A about your testimony!! 💛

  • @audrey0707
    @audrey0707 4 года назад +60

    Hey Kian, very mature in your response to keep your relationship with Christ private and same with Kyle. Not everything needs to be made in public. Really enjoyed the video. God bless you and Kyle in your marriage in October that everything may run smoothly and I'll be praying for you both.

  • @ShalomAlem
    @ShalomAlem 4 года назад +7

    I love how honest you are. It's just open and it makes your advice valuable because when you're so honest I feel like it is more trustworthy.

  • @meganyates1070
    @meganyates1070 4 года назад +20

    Kian you were such an eye opening window to Christ for me (if that makes sense haha) and your videos really assisted in leading me back to Jesus🤍🤍🤍🤍 love what you do and your love for Christ!

  • @shannonashleigh
    @shannonashleigh 4 года назад +8

    Your self control with Kyle is for and from God. Legit a fruit of the Holy Spirit.

  • @NicoleMarieRanz
    @NicoleMarieRanz 4 года назад +29

    Awww Australian viewer here!! We would have loved to have you 😀 Maybe you can still come here for a vacation or honeymoon one day 💖

  • @jemimaawesomebieber
    @jemimaawesomebieber 4 года назад +31

    Hey kian just wanted to say I absolutely am so grateful for your life and Kyle. Thank you for your obedience to Jesus ❤️

  • @kaitlynmarie8473
    @kaitlynmarie8473 4 года назад +4

    could you make a video talking more about binge eating and spending?? because i am a very material person and sometimes i can feel that the happiness i get from things and buying new things is soooo temporary but i just don’t have self-control 🌸💕 i love your videos!!

  • @emilyspears8911
    @emilyspears8911 4 года назад +6

    It's so wise what you said about being in transition and growing with the Lord in private! Love you girl!

  • @AshleyMarie-qs6xq
    @AshleyMarie-qs6xq 4 года назад +7

    Would love the questions testimony video. You seem so happy and confident in yourself and your relationship! Love seeing you blossom! 💖

  • @ederia
    @ederia 4 года назад +2

    The whole being with Jesus in a box analogy makes so much sense to me. I think that sums up this season of life I'm in now too.

  • @jadesaichai
    @jadesaichai 4 года назад +14

    I watched all of the ads this time to hopefully bring you increase. I love you! 😂🧡

  • @jordansmith8975
    @jordansmith8975 4 года назад +7

    Lol I relate on so many levels. I am really loving this season of singleness and growing in it. Also I'm "controlling" in the same way. Not towards people, but about things being the way that I like, like with my home decor, style etc. because I just know what I want! Lol I try to see moments of compromise as opportunities to grow in virtue because it really isn't that big of a deal, it feels like it for me sometimes though haha :)

  • @gabriellekelly3462
    @gabriellekelly3462 4 года назад +3

    I think you are such a good example to young ladies. You're inspiring. I definitely see you becoming a Titus 2 woman. God bless you Sister.

  • @alemiskowski6268
    @alemiskowski6268 4 года назад +9

    Thank you so much, Kian! You and Kyle are such a blessing! If anyone reads this please pray for me and my boyfriend to be more like them! Love you all💕

  • @luciatarkova5402
    @luciatarkova5402 4 года назад +60

    I had this the other way around God has sent me to Australia instead of giving a husband :D

    • @adielegrace5135
      @adielegrace5135 4 года назад +1

      Awesome

    • @luciatarkova5402
      @luciatarkova5402 4 года назад

      @@adielegrace5135 have you been as well ?

    • @adielegrace5135
      @adielegrace5135 4 года назад +3

      @@luciatarkova5402 Dear Lucia,
      I am single, I live in India, I haven't been able to go to australia but God has taken to another part of the country where I work as a doctor in a small mission hospital, IAM the only doctor here now so it is beautiful as I get to make a difference, save lives but also filled with a lot of challenges but God helps me through it all..I certainly would love to come to australia someday, Hope and pray you meet the man of your dreams, May you have the favour of God and people wherever you go, You have a knack of making friends wherever you go, I belive you are woman beautiful within and out. You will meet him in the most unexpected place..God bless:-)

    • @luciatarkova5402
      @luciatarkova5402 4 года назад +1

      @@adielegrace5135 may God bless you with a beautiful husband as well will pray for you too ♡♡♡ amen

    • @adielegrace5135
      @adielegrace5135 4 года назад

      @@luciatarkova5402 Amen..Tq dear.

  • @lucysterloff
    @lucysterloff 4 года назад +8

    I loved this video sm!! Ps: your room looks super aesthetic 😍🤩

    • @Kian_Wolfgang
      @Kian_Wolfgang  4 года назад +2

      Aw thank you!! Been working hard on it 💛

  • @Christ2010Grad
    @Christ2010Grad 4 года назад +10

    12:30-12:34 Do a video about questions concerning your testimony please!!

  • @maggiwohlgemuth4289
    @maggiwohlgemuth4289 4 года назад +3

    Kian I have just started watching you and I appreciate you and your honesty. Keep living for God. Thanks for sharing your ups and downs and life ..

  • @annikaangus8442
    @annikaangus8442 4 года назад +13

    Swear we are the same person 😅 I feel you on being messy but also organized 🤪

  • @amberlawson668
    @amberlawson668 4 года назад +7

    God bless you and Kyle! You both are amazing! Your channel means a lot to me! 💓🙏💓🙏

  • @morgandemmith2667
    @morgandemmith2667 4 года назад +1

    I love how open you are about everything in your videos! So refreshing to watch someone so open and honest! Recently found you and although I am not religious I still find myself relating to you a TON!

  • @valerielinares2068
    @valerielinares2068 4 года назад +15

    I understand being particular. I can be that way too sometimes. Also, I just want to encourage you considering how you found your identity in singleness while you were single, and how you had plans in your singleness before you met Kyle. Based on a lot of what you said here, I get the impression that you're the type who likes to plan. But, I just want to encourage you that things happen the way they happen because that's how it was meant to happen. Remember that Isaiah 55:8-9 says that God's thoughts and ways are higher than ours. I think you know that, but, like I said, things were meant to happen exactly how the Father intended them to happen. So trust in Him. Trust He knows what's best even when you're unsure. I know that can be hard to do sometimes. I just know that if I could go back and talk to the version of Valerie that was so awash in disappointed hopes because things weren't going the way I wanted them to (not saying that's you, but it was me), I would go back and tell her, "please, just trust God. He's got this." That can be especially hard when we want things to go a certain way. Or when we think things should go a certain way - at some point we need to learn to humbly surrender to our Father and trust in His way. Just trust God. It is simple, but I know it isn't easy. But, if we could just learn to humbly surrender and trust God, that is where we get our peace that surpasses all understanding.

    • @letsedit3667
      @letsedit3667 4 года назад +2

      thank you for this😍😍😍

    • @2000Dolores
      @2000Dolores 4 года назад +1

      Giving up my control (which in itself is a weakness, totally false- have none and is basically wanting things my way.... ) Jesus talks to us and says:
      As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. If you keep my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commands and remain in his love. I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.”
      ‭‭John‬ ‭15:9-11‬ ‭NIV‬‬ Amen!

  • @SophieArmitt1
    @SophieArmitt1 4 года назад +2

    No wayyyyyyy! I’m from Perth, Australia!! Definitely still come and visit. Most amazing and beautiful place with gods creation on absolute display!

  • @summerdenson2769
    @summerdenson2769 4 года назад +2

    Loved this!! Please keep doing vlogs, it would be so so fun if you did weekly vlogs!!!

  • @workofivory
    @workofivory 4 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for your openness and transparency in regards to your faith- all the struggles and joys! It really has helped me get back in track w my faith as well ♥️ stay safe in arizona

  • @cheriejoanpope
    @cheriejoanpope 3 года назад

    Your videos are so refreshing. God bless you and your husband xxx

  • @mariagu2602
    @mariagu2602 3 года назад

    I love you! like seriously
    I saw some of your videos today and holy spirit spoke to me, ( your modesty video) IS SO GOOD. bless you you told me different way to deal with sin and how to stop it and ur SO SO SO SO pretty

  • @MoTheCrown
    @MoTheCrown 4 года назад +8

    Yay a new video. Excited to watch 💕

    • @Kian_Wolfgang
      @Kian_Wolfgang  4 года назад +2

      Hope you enjoy 💛

    • @MoTheCrown
      @MoTheCrown 4 года назад +1

      Kian Tilton Yess always! Thank you for always being so open & honest. I feel the same way, that my past seems so foreign. In fact, I even laugh because the deliverance from God has been soo much.

  • @mirandaserrano6887
    @mirandaserrano6887 4 года назад +3

    I've never been this early! You're such a sweetheart and an inspiration to me 💗 Blessings to you and Kyle!

  • @justinandcarissa5616
    @justinandcarissa5616 4 года назад +2

    This is everything!! We love this video so much :)

  • @SammHall28
    @SammHall28 4 года назад +2

    I think wanting someone to "be good for youtube" is not something you should feel guilty about thinking or saying because you want someone who can fit into your life, which youtube is a big part of your life. I think it's totally understandable.

  • @UniceLiu
    @UniceLiu 4 года назад +2

    i love your videos about faith, they really help me with my faith

  • @CeliaCavalli
    @CeliaCavalli 4 года назад +4

    We are getting married in October too!!!
    Congrats babe

  • @corrinealderfer3731
    @corrinealderfer3731 4 года назад

    Even if you aren’t making faith related videos, your faith still shines through each of your other videos and it is still uplifting and encouraging! I love your videos :)

  • @alissa1ann211
    @alissa1ann211 4 года назад +2

    Girlllll im so excited for you and Kyle! I didn't realize you were getting married in October. Im getting married next month on the 26th. Blessing to your marriage 🙏💍🙌

    • @Kian_Wolfgang
      @Kian_Wolfgang  4 года назад +1

      Thank you so much!! Blessing for your marriage as well!!

  • @yolandeschuurs2307
    @yolandeschuurs2307 4 года назад

    Ahhhhh!!! You were going to be here in Australia! So glad to see God blessing you and Kyle with each other anyway 😊

  • @hannahbinkley7110
    @hannahbinkley7110 4 года назад +2

    Yes, a new video!!! Love you and Kyle and God bless you guys!!!

  • @gwenm637
    @gwenm637 4 года назад +5

    I love your videos you are so inspiring to me!

  • @Ddystar
    @Ddystar 4 года назад

    Girl we love the moving vlogs keep them coming. You’re an awesome decorator and diyer. You should do interior decorating

  • @natzzzzmolina
    @natzzzzmolina 4 года назад +3

    Random question but what is the color of your wall?? i’m re-decorating my room and I love that color!

  • @janaeg2698
    @janaeg2698 4 года назад +3

    After all this time I just realized you look EXACTLY like Elizabeth Olsen!!😱😂 especially at 8:00

  • @stephirene6454
    @stephirene6454 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for being so open & honest Kian!! Love this🖤☺️

  • @nissiguiao7980
    @nissiguiao7980 4 года назад +11

    You & Kyle should go to a park playground for a date :)

  • @poppyagarwal8888
    @poppyagarwal8888 4 года назад +2

    Heya I love your videos so much, you look so pretty here

  • @KizNic
    @KizNic 4 года назад

    Lol! In the ending you said "wow, that took a turn," but I actually appreciated, liked and respected that turn you took. I agree, take that time with God. When the time is right He will direct you how and what to share. :)

  • @amirahmuhammad5813
    @amirahmuhammad5813 4 года назад

    CONGRATS ON 60K Kian (and Kyle haha I suspect this will become a joint channel and get a name change once you guys marry lol)! 🎉 I just started following a few weeks ago and your channel was like 20k smaller, haha. All the fast growth is SO deserved and I'm 100% convinced that it is because the Spirit is behind you both- Thank you fof your commitment to being lights for His kingdom! 🙌🏾❤

  • @Lia2803
    @Lia2803 4 года назад +6

    where... did you get that bottle? that looks pretty

    • @Kian_Wolfgang
      @Kian_Wolfgang  4 года назад +2

      Linked under my amazon page (wellness section) link in the video description ☺️

  • @simonevictor9070
    @simonevictor9070 4 года назад +1

    Every time I watch your videos I am so convicted at the fact of how much I need Jesus and your life is such a testimony of faith and peace (from my side) thank you for being that person for me on the other side of the world.
    Praying for you hon❤️

  • @hannahreyes2767
    @hannahreyes2767 4 года назад +2

    love you kian!! thanks for the amazing content! God bless 💓

  • @portiakanana5835
    @portiakanana5835 4 года назад +2

    # Notification Gang ✨
    Thanks for openly sharing parts of your Life with us🤗
    Sending love & peace to the both of you🇳🇦❤️

  • @sarahdark6327
    @sarahdark6327 4 года назад +5

    Hey Kian, if you guys ever come to Australia. Let us know. I can introduce you to some of my friends here and my boyfriend! :)

  • @nannyheather5640
    @nannyheather5640 3 года назад

    You are awesome! God bless you💓😇😇

  • @BasedZillenial
    @BasedZillenial 4 года назад

    I related so much to the box analogy haha. Love your videos. ❤️

  • @annasteyn8040
    @annasteyn8040 4 года назад

    New viewer here. I just wanted to say I love how honest you are. It is like a breath of fresh air. Keep doing you girl! Praying your channel grow, because you really deserve to be a big RUclipsr!

  • @myelin-sheath
    @myelin-sheath 4 года назад +3

    ur explanations give me big enneagram 9 energy!

    • @leannayearwood8826
      @leannayearwood8826 4 года назад +1

      I think she's more of a type 1 or 3.
      Type 9's can tend to be really selfless and complacent. They would be more easy going.
      Kyle gives me type 9 energy.

    • @myelin-sheath
      @myelin-sheath 4 года назад +2

      @@leannayearwood8826 i feel like kyle mentioned that he's a 2 in one of the vlogs. i'm a 9 and just assumed she's one too because i identify a lot with what she's talking about, especially with the procrastination/messy tendencies. 9s can be secretly selfish too but come off as selfless for the sake of keeping the peace, just like how one of the viewers assumed she was rly selfless

    • @leannayearwood8826
      @leannayearwood8826 4 года назад

      Fair enough. I get that
      I'm a 9 too lol 🤦‍♀️

  • @christinawatkinsyoutube
    @christinawatkinsyoutube 4 года назад +1

    Yeah, life is always better when we’re acting like kids! And, childlike faith is also a thing 😍🙌🏻 just reminded me of how much fun I had at summer camp this weekend with scavenger hunts and tipping each other off floaties in the water 😍 (and this is all ppl who are 18+ hhaha)

  • @Margaret.Probst
    @Margaret.Probst 4 года назад +5

    I can't agree on the submissive wife aspect but I'd love to hear your views on that since you didn't elaborate. Love this though!

  • @mystrength5640
    @mystrength5640 4 года назад

    You are a Breathe of Fresh Air! God Bless your Marriage!

  • @catherineheart4548
    @catherineheart4548 4 года назад

    Love you Kian! You're so honest!

  • @lydiagibert7532
    @lydiagibert7532 4 года назад +1

    where’s the cup that’s on your bed side table from? it’s so cute! i need it 😂🙈

    • @popstar678
      @popstar678 4 года назад +2

      I was scrolling and saw this! It’s from amazon :)

  • @janaecarlee
    @janaecarlee 4 года назад

    GREAT!!!! ANOTHER NIKON USERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR. Do you have to manual focus?

  • @shelley2he844
    @shelley2he844 4 года назад +10

    Don't feel too bad about the Australia thing. I wanted to move there for years, packed up my life, went there and absolutely hated it. 😂 No offence to Australia or Australians but it wasn't all it was cracked up to be. And not that great for back packers. The locals weren't actually as welcoming as you'd might expect, just my experience, the food is awful and it's super expensive. I just really didn't like it at all. 😂

    • @jaykay5086
      @jaykay5086 4 года назад +4

      “The food is awful” now that I think of it, I never hear about Australian cuisine

    • @Kian_Wolfgang
      @Kian_Wolfgang  4 года назад +3

      This makes me feel slightly better 😅 but those beaches 😍😍

  • @MarineInsincere
    @MarineInsincere 4 года назад

    On which video were you referring when you said that Kyle loved the questions you were asking while on a ship? And that you have a video covering that subject? I would love to watch it!

  • @angelavanoosten1
    @angelavanoosten1 4 года назад

    Love the answers! so honest and transparant🤍

  • @merylkasie2244
    @merylkasie2244 4 года назад

    Yes you need to be discerning as to what is going to be private and what is to be public. Also EDIFY and Build . Guard your marriage .

  • @caml1059
    @caml1059 4 года назад

    Loved your intro sis. Be authentic

  • @angieavo
    @angieavo 4 года назад +1

    Happy for you.

  • @kayleighgrassmid4176
    @kayleighgrassmid4176 4 года назад

    Such a cute lamp, where is it from?! Would love to see a home decor video in the future :)

    • @Kian_Wolfgang
      @Kian_Wolfgang  4 года назад +2

      I thrifted it, painted the bottom, and lamp shade is ikea :) i vlogged the process! Stay tuned

    • @elizabethpritchard8908
      @elizabethpritchard8908 4 года назад

      Kian Tilton so excited for that!!

  • @trinitybell945
    @trinitybell945 4 года назад

    Girl same i am in the tunnel of over spending, would you do savings tips or healthy spending video❤

    • @2000Dolores
      @2000Dolores 4 года назад +1

      Trinity Bell only pay with cash or your debt card .....can’t spend what you don’t have. 😊 Also as you grew in Jesus, he will fill you up! Kian’s mommy ;)

  • @Janicesaheed
    @Janicesaheed 4 года назад +14

    Im eating dark chocolate. Like this if you like dark chocolate.

  • @jessamyn-rosie755
    @jessamyn-rosie755 4 года назад

    Film a vid on how to ask good questions!!

  • @bellawang6506
    @bellawang6506 4 года назад

    I met my husband a month or two after I got out of a very serious and yet very emotionally abusive relationship. I wish I was single for a bit longer but God's timing is so beautiful! I am learning to not regret and live in the moment with my soulmate. I think it's important for young wives to see the beauty in themselves as well as being someone's other half.

    • @bellawang6506
      @bellawang6506 4 года назад

      I also wanted to tell you Kian, embrace your engagement season!!

  • @faithwithoutbounds4895
    @faithwithoutbounds4895 4 года назад

    Can you make a video on binge spending and how you overcame that?

  • @henniferpanini2715
    @henniferpanini2715 4 года назад

    I constantly feel as though my social skills need work & I always think back to how you ask good questions. I listen & share my own stories too, but I want to be interested and care! What kind of questions should I ask or what should I google? Please help😁💕 love your channel and testimony by the way!!

  • @laurengonzalez102
    @laurengonzalez102 4 года назад +2

    Girl, i get you, but I have 10 messages and get overwhelmed and don’t respond

  • @theonegrateful-leper
    @theonegrateful-leper 4 года назад

    We have hit 60k wohooooo..I mean you have lol
    I am so happy for you Kian. Now let me watch the video lol

    • @Kian_Wolfgang
      @Kian_Wolfgang  4 года назад

      Aw thank you so much!! We are definitely a "we" 😉 and all glory to God!

  • @lionofchristministries483
    @lionofchristministries483 4 года назад +2

    Greetings, Thanks for the Helpful Video!!

  • @jc7497
    @jc7497 4 года назад +3

    Do you think that by avoiding All kinds of intimacy (even kissing) with your boyfriend before marriage, could possibly make you see him more as a friend, eventually?
    I try to do the same as you if I'm in a relationship, but I imagine that after marriage I would find it kind of awkward or difficult being intimate with my partner in any way, as prolonging Non-Intimacy almost makes me process the other person as a friend, rather than partner, as I'm suppressing my intimate thoughts towards them the entire time. Does anyone else go through this as well? I read articles on Christian women getting married & then having real trouble getting intimate with their hubbies as they always grew up looking at sex as 'wrong' or 'dirty' whilst growing up Christian. Clearly God says it's a blessing in marriage but our minds can process things in the wrong way sometimes. God bless you Kian for all the lovely vlogs and keeping strong until marriage xx

    • @lauraporthan8662
      @lauraporthan8662 4 года назад +1

      I deifinitely feel you and have been concerned about this. Recently I’ve gotten more loose about being more intimate (still waiting for marriage ofc) and atleast for now I haven’t felt my heart heavy about becoming more strict. I feel like me and my boyfriend started off very friendly and learned to surpress our emotions to an extent, but also we were quite young when we first started hanging out.. Now I feel like we’ve cuddled more, kissed more (still trying to find the right balance for this so it wouldnt get too tempting/physical), and had super open conversations about being affectionate and trying to figure out a balance. I feel like saying sweet things and expressing your attraction verbally also will help a lot in not making you two feel like just regular friends.

    • @jc7497
      @jc7497 4 года назад +1

      @@lauraporthan8662 I feel like the subject isn't black & white & what works in one relationship wouldn't for another. Ultimately, we need to try & strive to keep God at the centre of our relationships. I feel the need for some intimacy, like kissing holding etc although I'm also aware things can quickly escalate. I think that when you're in love with someone & attracted to them physically, spiritually & emotionally, it would be difficult for anyone not to think of sex with that partner. We r only human. Some people make it sound very simple & easy with statements like "I don't even think about sex with my boyfriend" which is not realistic, as we r all battling against flesh & spirit & it brings guilt on others who feel shame for even thinking about it. Kian is truly blessed in this area. Boundaries r very necessary & I personally felt very convicted when I used to fall into any kind of sexual sin even though it wasn't sex itself. I wana make sure it's a God given conviction & not one of shame & guilt X

    • @lauraporthan8662
      @lauraporthan8662 4 года назад +1

      Chrisie R yes I 100% agree. Sometimes it’s really hard to decipher whether something solely stems from the church/culture or also from God

    • @jc7497
      @jc7497 4 года назад +1

      @@lauraporthan8662 the Holy Spirit is the One who righteously convicts. Our own flesh & the enemy is the one who brings shame & guilt. Stay Blessed brothers & sisters

  • @snehageorge4551
    @snehageorge4551 4 года назад

    Love you Kian!

  • @juliahart____
    @juliahart____ 4 года назад +5

    "life would be better if people were running around playing tag as adults" HAHAHHA

  • @lifewithkelsey5427
    @lifewithkelsey5427 4 года назад +1

    How did you know Kyle was the one??

  • @amandadevecchi7239
    @amandadevecchi7239 4 года назад +1

    what birth control method did you use in high school since you said you felt depressed? Are you on any type of method now?

    • @Kian_Wolfgang
      @Kian_Wolfgang  4 года назад +1

      I was using pills in high school and i am completely off birth control now 🙏🏼 not good for my body

  • @b3lla.h0rn
    @b3lla.h0rn 4 года назад +7

    I love Kian’s content, she helps me strengthen my faith so much, but I just don’t know how I feel about the “being a submissive wife” part. I’m not trying to be judgmental at all, I just don’t think this is a realistic idea to have in 21st century. Kian is you read this, I’d love to hear your thoughts about women’s independence, feminism, etc. I loved hearing your ideas about modesty, I think making a “women’s issues” video could be really good!! ☺️💗✝️

    • @Centerpiecegardens
      @Centerpiecegardens 4 года назад +2

      Hey! If you're curious about submission as a wife you can message me or watch my videos on it! I'd be happy to send you Bible verses and explain more of what it ACTUALLY looks like. :)

    • @thorisomokhethi8094
      @thorisomokhethi8094 4 года назад +5

      Hi, I don't think she meant in the way your thinking. A husband and wife is a picture of the relationship between Jesus and his bride, the church. When we submit to Jesus we let him lead. Plus the husband that's leading is also in fact letting Jesus lead too so yeah. There's nothing wrong with it especially if it's a godly couple doing it in the way of God

    • @nastiyatkach8396
      @nastiyatkach8396 4 года назад +3

      Hi Bella!! I could understand how it wouldn’t sit well with you and others to be submissive to a man. However, regardless what century we are living in, God is still the same God. People change, God does not. Society changes and what it deems appropriate is not always aligned with the scriptures, For example, today you have a lot of voices in the world telling us to live however you please, and don’t under any circumstance submit to a man. But if we look into scripture it says something different, “Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her,”
      ‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭5:22-25‬ this is just one of the few places in scripture about submissiveness. Our aim as Christians is to please God not man, and to please God we need to obey His commandments. Another thing to consider is that when wives are being submissive to their husbands and husbands are loving their wives like Christ loves the church, they are giving the world an example of how the church submits to Christ and Christ loves the church and gave His life for the church. Why do you think there are so many voices in the world preaching against submissiveness? Because they don’t want people to see the example of the church and Christ and follow in that example. The devil comes to steal, kill and destroy. He doesn’t want marriages to last and people to experience the joy of Christ. He tries to deceive people into thinking that following the scriptures even if they don’t align with the reality of the 21st century, is a bad thing, when in reality it’s the best thing you can do. Following the lord isn’t easy, the flesh is weak and the way is narrow, but the narrow way leads to everlasting life. I hope this clears a few things up. I say all of this out of love. Be blessed! 💕

  • @diannab8829
    @diannab8829 4 года назад

    Can you do a video on your christian mingle experience?

  • @naomicozma2171
    @naomicozma2171 4 года назад

    Did you make a video about how to have deep conversations?

  • @heatherjohnson5612
    @heatherjohnson5612 3 года назад

    Also do you Bible journal or do you like to write scripture?

  • @raegan6844
    @raegan6844 4 года назад +1

    Is secular music bad? I heard someone say it is but I have no clue.

  • @thechildofgodpodcast116
    @thechildofgodpodcast116 4 года назад

    Please move to Australia still, we'd love you here, whether it be now or later years

  • @ruth_anne
    @ruth_anne 4 года назад

    Love Ghost in the Graveyard! 😁

  • @rubylight4019
    @rubylight4019 4 года назад

    Oh wow I assumed you were tall also I'm the same way about home decor being a certain way

  • @gabl3400
    @gabl3400 4 года назад

    Can’t what for this!!

  • @thorisomokhethi8094
    @thorisomokhethi8094 4 года назад

    You're so beautiful girl😭😭😭❤❤❤

  • @lexieharrison299
    @lexieharrison299 4 года назад +1

    Ok I need to know. PLS ANSWER. Where do you get all your clothes? I LOVE THEM ALL

    • @lexieharrison299
      @lexieharrison299 4 года назад +1

      Especially your big shirts and loose fitting tops!

    • @Kian_Wolfgang
      @Kian_Wolfgang  4 года назад

      These ones are from American eagle!! So comfy 😍 most of my other tees are thrifted

  • @catherineheart4548
    @catherineheart4548 4 года назад +2

    Enjoying my singleness:)