I CAN'T MARRY! | Eye Opening Reminder | Raja Zia ul Haq
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When I got married to my husband he was not having job but he is really good at deen which clicks me money come and go ur partner should be muttaqi a true lover of ALLAH and hazrat Muhammad saww.
Allah apny hifz o imaan me rkhy apko..
Good to read this comment and see you tawakkul on Allah but sister would you like to tell story after the marriage ....
Not to taunt you
Not to make negative thought
But to know that i have listened after marriage person become wealthier than past ...
So is your husband is still jobless or have some job
@@muhammadsalmanjamil7182 alhamdulillah he is doing job. Alhamdulillah I am more happy after marriage what you need to make your relation strong is respect trust unconditional love twakal on ALLAH. Money is dunya come and go once you loose a good person never comes back. Its depends on priority my priority is a relation in the light of Islam.
Allah afko salamat rakhay
I want to marry but the prerequisites the society has made didn't go well with a jobless person like me materialistic insecurities didn't let you find any match now a days 🙄
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH):
Best in character
Deeply religious
Used to be a shepherd
Couldn't read or write
Led a modest life
I make videos about Quran. ♥️ You're welcome to support my channel 💚🕌💎
@areeb sajid SubhanAllah...hamare nabi best h...I wish to meet him in Jannah...ameen😊♥️
صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ واصحابہ وبارک وسلم!
"A righteous man is better than rich man with abusive character "
Chup bolte raho tum log lekin amaal mut karo example set mut karo deen ka mazak banaya hai tum logo ne
And who makes u think k righteous man will not have abusive character?
@@travelwidnature273 kya bolna chahte ho
@@travelwidnature273 righteous man means who fear Allah why would he be abusive....
Pray for A rich righteous man
Thanks for reminding us true values. Deen is very essential instead of other materialistic things 👍👍
R u married
I make videos about Quran. ♥️ You're welcome to support my channel 💚🕌💎
Maria aap kisi rikhshaw driver se shaadi karain
@@GulzarKhan-or8zr q karoge kya
@@abidalihuseini2889 dilwale.se karegi shadi
Recently we okayed our sister’s engagement and our priority was Deen. We looked for a boy who would be at least better than us in Deen, while we looked for two other things as well. We set Deen our priority and now see my ALLAAH’s plan that he completed all our wishes/points. Wallahi we are amazed with ALMIGHTY ALLAAH’s blessings, make him a priority and get all the things done.
May Allah SWT Bless ur Sister and Her husband and Increase Happiness Of Both,.
lol two other things bhi to batao bhai sahab?
You know person can follow Deen aswell as work . Even the example of the person given wasnt A full maulvi sahab , he worked different jobs other then religious jobs like goat herding. So I dont see the big problem , If you marry with a person of the same stature . I have seen many religious people who become very religious from a young age and even go after studies and work. When god has said to study about this world and the religion... then why. I personally know maulvi sahab who taught me , He is doing fine , he only does religious work and is Married , but he isnt married to the some rich women but of the status/wealth as them .
Man have got a responsible and they shouldn't just suffice of charitable means.... Our deens also says the man should provide.
Alhumdulillah I was right all the while. I have seen his character and knowledge of Deen , his dedication towards being a upright practising Muslim. I'm doing PhD he has not completed secondary edu. I never felt him below me in any way. In fact he was my guide my well wisher. I respected him for what he is and not to what he has. Got against all in defending my decision. And I am right.
I wish ﷲ give me a pious wife like you.....
Beautiful sister💞may Allah bless u
Allah pak apko khush rakhain ☺️
This is what we call "companionship" and Masha Allah, Allah has blessed you with the right vision while choosing your life partner.
Ma'sha'Allah TabrakAllah ❤️
Allah meri Amma Abba ko aisa hee nek damaad ata farmaye. Ameen
Hahaha nice one. Ameen!
Aameen
Ameen
Ameen
@@muhamma_di how do you got this tick mark in your name?? 🤔
Mufti menk said it perfectly. If they have deen u give them 1 point. If they have money status etc u keep adding a 0 at the right side of the 1 making it go 10,100,1000... But if they don't have deen u remove the 1 and it will be only left with 0's
Mufti men is great 😀
Well said
@@nisarbaig7779 yup I love him ❤️
@@nisarbaig7779 No, Allah is great.
Where mufti menk is preaching its USA Muslims are in good condition.
I'm so proud the fact that I didn't look into how much my husband earned I looked into him as a good human being but today's Duniya is all materialistic with looks money and higher job role
Majority of people is not like you
@@izishan if you start questioning about your Islam then you definitely leave the Islam
If you search why muslim leaving Islam
👍👍👍👍 Allah sab ko hidayat de ameen💖
Comments par k tou aisa lagta hai k sub he bare deendaar hain tou agr aisa hai tou problem kahan hai mujhy yehe tou samj nai aati batain tou sub achi karte hain but at the end of the day Amal koi nai krta sirf batain karne sy kuch nai hota everyone has to change there way of thinking and implement it in your life..
May ALLAH SWT make it easy for us Aameen.
Ye jo 332 dislikes hain in logon ko pakarty hain
Bhai dekho...deen bilkul hona chahiyeh...aur insaan character ka bhi acha hona chahiyeh...jahan tak paisay ki baat hai toh uss k pass itna paisa hona chahiyeh k woh ghar acha chalata ho...hum yeh nahi keh rahay k woh koi raees zada ho...sada ho aur acha kamata ho...lekin education uss k pass honi chahiyeh...humaray Nabi (SAW) nai farmaya
“ilm hasil kerna har mard aur aurat per farz hai”.
toh ager uss banday nai Islam ka bunyadi farz hi nahi pura kiya hua...toh aap kaisay keh saktay ho k woh deen daar shaks hai?...aik aur hadees mai hai
”ilm hasil kero chahay tumhay cheen (China) hi kiyun na jana paray”
Aab uss banday nai humaray Nabi (SAW) ki 2 ehem hadeeso per amal hi nahi kiya toh woh kaisay aik deen daar shaks ban gya???...
Aik aadmi acha kamata ho parha likha ho...character ka acha ho aur deen daar ho...tab woh aik ideal shaks hai...ager koi aik bhi cheez missing hai iss mai...toh woh aik ideal shaks nahi hai...issi tarah aurat bah parda honi chahiyeh, deen daar honi chahiyeh aur parhi likhi honi chahiyeh...aur iss liye parhi likhi honi chahiyeh takay zindagi mai kabhi bhi uss k husband ko financially problems face kerni parh jaye...toh woh aurat uss ko financially support ker sakay...aab meray father iss duniya mai nahi hai...meri mother parhi likhi thi toh unho nai support kiya na mujhe financially...ager unn k pass education na hoti toh woh kaisay support kerti mujhe financially?...toh yeh toh bhot bari misconception hai k education important nahi hai...insaan k pass har cheez honi Deen bhi aur education bhi...
Yh rightt.prefer only beauty...not our deen
@@anoushamudassar7001 Kya Bat❤️ Big Respect
Ali Raza Production Thank you 🌟
Yei waja hai k talaq ki ratio barh rahi k nikkah se pehly deen ki bajye or cheezu pr focus kia jata hai or jb dikhai gai chez main (paisa husn rutba) main zara c kami i rishta khatm ...
i dont understand what your saying 🤦♀️
@@maryakashif8583 i said materialism is the cause of divorce now days
U r absolutely right
Mera rishta ek Alim se hai maine unka kuch nhi dekha bs akhlaak or maine kuch future nhi soucha maine unko khud pasnd Kiya bs Allah hummare rishta Jannat tk qubool kare..😳
Aameen
@@helper0277 thanks 😇
Ameen
Chutiyapa
Ameen
Deen & Akhlaaq are the priorities 💯. Inn'Shaa'Allah ❤️ May Allah bless everyone with Righteous spouse aameen! 🧡
Ameen
ثم آمین
Ameen, Summa Ameen
Indeed money, education and beauty doesn't matter the one and only thing matters is deen and character✨
Yes but very rare people think like thi
Koi nahi soch raha ye
@Lalith Kumar no i agree with you being a muslim hamare han deen bhi dheka jata hai but money is real problem if like you are parent no one would marry their daughter to man who could not fulfil their necessities no matter how good he is...financial problem leads to many problem as well so before asking for proposal a man should have a good job house etc for the better future of his wife and childrens
@@jawryakhan5028 Decent not luxuries
@@alisajid659 well their is difference between necessities and luxuries
This is a eye opener, it's hurting me deep down we all know the truth.
How plz explain
@@superkhan3401
😅, explanation about what?
hii muskan
Bhai dekho...deen bilkul hona chahiyeh...aur insaan character ka bhi acha hona chahiyeh...jahan tak paisay ki baat hai toh uss k pass itna paisa hona chahiyeh k woh ghar acha chalata ho...hum yeh nahi keh rahay k woh koi raees zada ho...sada ho aur acha kamata ho...lekin education uss k pass honi chahiyeh...humaray Nabi (SAW) nai farmaya
“ilm hasil kerna har mard aur aurat per farz hai”.
toh ager uss banday nai Islam ka bunyadi farz hi nahi pura kiya hua...toh aap kaisay keh saktay ho k woh deen daar shaks hai?...aik aur hadees mai hai
”ilm hasil kero chahay tumhay cheen (China) hi kiyun na jana paray”
Aab uss banday nai humaray Nabi (SAW) ki 2 ehem hadeeso per amal hi nahi kiya toh woh kaisay aik deen daar shaks ban gya???...
Aik aadmi acha kamata ho parha likha ho...character ka acha ho aur deen daar ho...tab woh aik ideal shaks hai...ager koi aik bhi cheez missing hai iss mai...toh woh aik ideal shaks nahi hai...issi tarah aurat bah parda honi chahiyeh, deen daar honi chahiyeh aur parhi likhi honi chahiyeh...aur iss liye parhi likhi honi chahiyeh takay zindagi mai kabhi bhi uss k husband ko financially problems face kerni parh jaye...toh woh aurat uss ko financially support ker sakay...aab meray father iss duniya mai nahi hai...meri mother parhi likhi thi toh unho nai support kiya na mujhe financially...ager unn k pass education na hoti toh woh kaisay support kerti mujhe financially?...toh yeh toh bhot bari misconception hai k education important nahi hai...insaan k pass har cheez honi Deen bhi aur education bhi...
@@anoushamudassar7001 ye jo ilam ki Ahadees apne Bayan ki inka Mafhoom b dekhain apko samje main galti likhi k ye kis ilm ki baat ho rhi ha...
Baqi jo reality ha wo 200% reality e ha 99% of the people prefer Money, status, cast, job, relatives....Only 1% prefer deen..
But Hadees Says Deen must be 1st preference..
For example, apke liye aik rishta aaey larka Doctor ya Engineer ho, ikhlaq ka b acha ho Ghar baar b acha ho uska... Family b achi ho..apki family or uski family main understanding b ho...200% No one will check for Deen...By seeing all above qualities..every one will Say OK...
Uske Against Aik rishta aaey apke liye Larka Imam Masjid ho...Masjid ki intzaamia usko thore boht paise deti...baqi suba shaam Bacho ko Quran parhata ho...Bacho k ghar wale usko paise dete hon thore boht...ap is rishte ko apne liye ya apni sister k liye prefer krain gay ya uper wale engineer ya doctor k rishte ho prefer krain gay...
Honestly Reply plz??
May Allah Rabbul Izzat bless everyone with a righteous, pious life partner.
*Ameen Summa Ameen...*
Ameen
Aamin !
Aameen
Khud bhi uske layaq banna zaruri h
Alhamdulillah hamare waleden ne paisa nahi dekha
Allah ka karam hai aaj hum dono behne halal rozi kamane wale shakhs ke saath hain
If a person follows Deen Islam perfectly and And he is also educated and his behavior is also good, then people see his face and reject him from the marriage relationship. 😔
beauty of girl and wealth of boy only look these things
@Mohsin Khan Brother, even when there is a lot of money, people still see the face and girls see the face of the one who is going to get married at the time of marriage and reject it.
Hurts
Bhai jaan ap kaha se ho India ya Pakistan
@@rukhsarkhatoon9009 pata nahi aapne kinse pucha hai pr Mai New Delhi India se hu...
Zai ul Haq u changed my life I am Muslim I was Muslim for the sake of name. After seeing your vedios really I changed a lot I pray at 2 times a day in sha allah I ll pray 5 time in future . God bless u .
Amazing ❤️mai Allah accept it from us. InshaAllah one day will even pray late night prayers (involuntary prayer)
We are actually in a tough spot..When girls say they want guy with deen they think they want an uneducated guy. How to explain deen to parents.We rarely find young people having correct concept of deen nd duniye.
Nice topic ...am requesting to everyone plz pray for me as i face problms in proposals ..need prayers 🤲
kia problem a rahi hain proposal men?
for this beautiful message ALLAH apko jaza-e-khair dy.
Zabardast Sir, ap jesy logo ny Deen ko zinda rakha hay salamat rahy ameeen .
Sab log Deen dikh rahe hai Afghanistan,iraq, seria,libiya, Yemen, aur bohotse muslim mulko me
Very good......kya baat hai
Zia brother.,it brought tears in eye.i will never forgive this talk.(please my All brothers and sisters, Allah ke liye background se pahale nek spouse dekhe please, agar Ap Muhammad S.W.S .se really muhabbat krte hai.chahe banda poor bhi ho
Forget*
Sahi kaha aapne
Koi chakar nai Bhai.. bhool jaao. Yahan to Makaa or madeena naam rakh kr dukano ka to 2 nambri krtay Hain. Aap kia Baat kr rahay ho.apne gahr or A.c mein rehnay wali larki kiu jaye gi kisi ayse k ghar Jo rent ka ho or a.c na ho
@@undertheinfo6111 jiske dil me Allah ki mohabbat hogi wo jarur parehjgari ko prefer kregi in sha Allah
@@asadiqbal858khalis Deen ka pata ho ga to dil mein ALLAH ki muhabbat ho gi na Bhai. ALLAH ki panaah maangta hun mein iss pur fitan door mein.
Ur tone is so heart touching mashallah natural tone u have....
ruclips.net/video/nQrtjE8eFXk/видео.html
I think in today's society .. we should and must try our best to perform perfectly in every area of our life .. Our Deen our Dunya Our responsibilities ....
My dear brothers and sisters Always pray to Allah (SWT) that Allah (SWT) grant us good in this world as well as hereafter... try to improve every single day and stop wasting the time on irrelevant talks,gossip,movies etc you will notice a big difference in your lives .. JazakAllah 🏵🌹
Absolutely right sistr...👍👍
Yeah it's true,
True
True story.. Piousness & Character is more important than other things. ALLAH sab ko taufiq de
Beshak deen dar hamsafar apki duniya aur akhrat sawar deta ha❤
Beshaq ❤
Insan taalim yaafta ho ya na ho lekin tarbiyat yafta zaroor hona chahiye taake gharo mai sukoon rahe
Meri family mein mujhy koi rishta nahi deta q k sb ameer hein or hm ghareeb
Phir b Allah ka karam hai Alham dulillah
Family k ilawa bhi rishta kia ja skta hy
Apny status k hisab sy ksi deen daar larki ko select kren
Wo b khush rhy gi or ap b
Bhai same meri bhi yehi halat hai😭😭
@@thatgirlsahar agreed
Where are you from?
@@sanisan5787 lahore
Reminded me of those Golden Lines from Dr. Israr Ahmad (r.a) "Allah ke kuch bande aise hain ke kisi mahefil me jana chahen to unhe ijazat na mile, kahin rishta karana chahen to unse koi rishta karna ke liye tayar na ho, kahi sifarish karne jayen to koi unki bat bhi na sune, lekin Allah ke yahan unka wo makam hai agar bhule se bhi kisi bat par qasam ka baethte hain to Allah unki qasam ki laaj rakhta hai"
So touching!
Can you share link to this bayan?
@@Parrotbaby777 Link is getting delete on it's own when i am posting, search "Asal kamiyabi kya hai" on RUclips you will find it, it has over 2 million views
Bro this is a hadees that Israr Ahmed sb quoted in his lectures. JazakAllah khair
@@what.happend.to.my.handle Yes bro, i forget to mention that, it starts with "Huzoor (s.a.w) ne farmaya", thanks a lot for reminding
In our society Nikah is very difficult 😔but Zina is so easy.
Qurb-e-qayamat ki nishaniyo mein se ek hai yeh.. aane wali naslo ka kya hoga..
I am rejected 3 times due to don't have owned house no good job. But i know that people were not for me Allah has the best plan for me. Inshallah
Mashallah ur taqwa is great! Those people weren't able to afford u thats why they rejected ! Think this way ...allah will help u get through all of this!inshallah and ur taqwa will lead u to jannah one day! Aameen
JazakALLAH khair ZIA sir...❤ Allah swt hame hidayat de.. 😓
There are very less ppl left in this world who looks deen all are behind money 💸 🙂dua hey allah hum sab ku deen ki sahi seekh aur mohabbat ataa farmaye❤️aameen
this message is most important for parents,those parents who thinks that studies and education is every thing🤧
I 100% agree with u but same goes for Women , people judge them bcz of their weight, height, complexion and beauty no matter how much of a beautiful character she has she will be rejected bcz of these things. Allah hum logon ko hidayat de Ameen.
Totally agree with you same situation with me.🧕🤲🇮🇳
@@sadafali245 aap India se ho??...
I'm frm paksitan
@@Simal-Ali-Khan yes I am from India 🇮🇳
@@sadafali245 👍😊
Yeah valid point
Aslamunalikum reader,
Am 19 and i saw this relative girl of my mother's side . She is an aalimaa , i was really impressed by her character and manners . Am not an alim but i talked to my mom tht i wna marry her. First day she was in a shock ( coz my academics are good mashalllah , so she didnt expected me to say anything like tht ) but whn i really had an healthy debate with my mom and dad they AGREEED.
The point is everything is on allah but u have to be clear with ur intentions and if they are good Inshallah help is near.
Congratulations.
I love you for reading my mind. Exactly what I am going through!
I am also 😥
Bhai dekho...deen bilkul hona chahiyeh...aur insaan character ka bhi acha hona chahiyeh...jahan tak paisay ki baat hai toh uss k pass itna paisa hona chahiyeh k woh ghar acha chalata ho...hum yeh nahi keh rahay k woh koi raees zada ho...sada ho aur acha kamata ho...lekin education uss k pass honi chahiyeh...humaray Nabi (SAW) nai farmaya
“ilm hasil kerna har mard aur aurat per farz hai”.
toh ager uss banday nai Islam ka bunyadi farz hi nahi pura kiya hua...toh aap kaisay keh saktay ho k woh deen daar shaks hai?...aik aur hadees mai hai
”ilm hasil kero chahay tumhay cheen (China) hi kiyun na jana paray”
Aab uss banday nai humaray Nabi (SAW) ki 2 ehem hadeeso per amal hi nahi kiya toh woh kaisay aik deen daar shaks ban gya???...
Aik aadmi acha kamata ho parha likha ho...character ka acha ho aur deen daar ho...tab woh aik ideal shaks hai...ager koi aik bhi cheez missing hai iss mai...toh woh aik ideal shaks nahi hai...issi tarah aurat bah parda honi chahiyeh, deen daar honi chahiyeh aur parhi likhi honi chahiyeh...aur iss liye parhi likhi honi chahiyeh takay zindagi mai kabhi bhi uss k husband ko financially problems face kerni parh jaye...toh woh aurat uss ko financially support ker sakay...aab meray father iss duniya mai nahi hai...meri mother parhi likhi thi toh unho nai support kiya na mujhe financially...ager unn k pass education na hoti toh woh kaisay support kerti mujhe financially?...toh yeh toh bhot bari misconception hai k education important nahi hai...insaan k pass har cheez honi Deen bhi aur education bhi...
Anousha Mudassar sab kuch hai behen alhumdulillah
The Gadget Wheel Hona bhi yehi chahiyeh
@@anoushamudassar7001 bhai ap panch waqt ki namaz padhte ho ? Koi namaz kaza hoti h apse?
I hate this thought of people, if a person is happy with someone... Even though he is not educated, marriage should commence, if a couple wants to marry. Allah bhi aise jode ki bahut madat karta hai...
So true
Brother
Yes you are right bro
Ajke is DoR me koi kisi ka (nahi) RaHa,
Remember it.
Beshak MASHAALLAH
As long as they are doing it according to islam
Is they are religious give them a 1. If they have money give them a zero. Good Looks another zero. Job give them another zero. Good family another zero. So now total is 10000. But if you remove the 1 you’re left with nothing. So deen is priority IA. ✨
People don't think like that. Money triumphs everything for these people.
@hussam Mufti Menk ka bayan dekh ke aaye ho😂
Mufi menk? 😅
😂😂😂😂
@@fasiosy 😂
I was in love with someone, Us ke Shadi hogye infact Dhoka dia unho ne, Mai ne ALLAH ke Raza smjh kr Faisly ko accept kia, ALLAH ne mujy Ak Muallima, Hafiza or Naik Larki de Phr mery Dil mai us k lye Bepanah muhabbat Dhali.
Beshak ALLAH Behtareen Faisly Karny Wala hai ❣️
Mashallah!!
This is the true education of DEEN ISLAM یہی دین اسلام کی اصل تعلیم ہے۔
رسول اللہ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے فرمایا: ”جب تمہیں کوئی ایسا شخص شادی کا پیغام دے، جس کی دین داری اور اخلاق سے تمہیں اطمینان ہو تو اس سے شادی کر دو۔ اگر ایسا نہیں کرو گے تو زمین میں فتنہ اور فساد عظیم برپا ہو گا“۔
they want cars n big houses tho. Character has no value
Deen & Dunya Both Needed..for Girl and Boy!!!
Yes
Hmare nabhi paak pbuh k haan duniya le kar jao ge ...
Deen of girl toh sahi hai..but duniya ??? Men are the protectors and maintainers of women in Islam
Deen is the most important thing. Duniya sirf essentials tk matter krti aa. I mean Agar basic zarooriyaat poori ho rahi Hain to it's fine. Lekin AJ kl duniya Ka concept yeh aa k Acha Ghar ho, Bari car ho, pay almost 2 Lac ho which is very wrong.
@AGHA ROSHAAAN KHAN yes that's why written deen & dunya both important...for girl & boy
so true raja sahab 👍
im lucky to be among those few whose in-laws didn't ask a thing about what or how much I earned, my employment etc. they trusted Allah (SWT), both sides did istikhara, and Alhamdullilah this halal relationship has been blessed to this day.
Finally someone said the bitter truth.
Parents these days didnt understand this. Financial stability becomes first priority nowdays. May ALLAH gives hidayat to all of us Ameen
Education is must and I think it's not a problem!! Our choice!
I remember one sister was rejected, bcoz she was praying 5 times a day and reciting Quran daily, but the boys parent's told them what they have to do with her (girls) righteousness, they want a girl who is doing job..
!!!!
Oh dude. Such unlucky family. They have no idea what they lost.. I would spend lakhs of rupee to find the a girl with deen..
I pray and I do job.. Even am looking for a guy who shud not come and say my mom Is on bed that's why am looking for a girl to marry.. I understand it's love for our mothers.. But this shud not be the reason to. Marry. .. Just another point of view
@@kaifianaaz9986 yes btw this should not be the main reason to marry. If you r doing job then I am sorry for you. No deendar man will allow his wife to do job without any strong reason sis. 🥲
@@lifeify7113 u sound backward. Not only backward but like a dominating person
All sisters and brothers, one who believes in one Allah and one who believes that dua makes difference in life, please make a dua about my marriage I'm already 27 years old but my parents not thinking about it still... And also pray for all my brothers and sisters who reached to certain age waiting for the right spouses pls make a dua, Ameen
So u should make them feel that u have that necessity!!maybe they are thinking that ur not too young till now maybe? Or any other reason can be there but u don't loose hope in Allah because the one right for u will come to u at the right time.maybe till now that right time wont came!
Ap ki phli shadi kio khtm hoi me ap ko hurt ni krna chahti just ap ki feelings shear chahti ho plz don't maind you can explain. Shyd mery pas koi is ka hal ho think positive be positive 😍😍😍😍😍
Judging by your comment. it seems you are south east Asian. Please learn to stand up for yourself and approach your parents. Allah said to respect your parents but, that does not mean you have to be a silent lamb and wait for them to baby you all your life. Speak up in a respectful manner. This is what really bothers me in these times. The adults and parents are jahil and don't really understand Islam. They live culture over deen. Especially in south asian Muslims. They live hindu culture over deen. Go talk to you parents and be stern in your conversation. Don't be a silent lamb that starts trembling. I promise your this, if you become too old and you don't get any proposals, your same parents will be the ones to comment saying "you can't find anyone? what is wrong with you? why did you wait so long?" This is a very common issue in our communities. Please learn to "GROW UP". If you think you are having issues right now, wait till you are in your 30s and 40s and sitting at mom's/dad's house listening to negative comments about how you are a burden and cannot be married of.
Very well said 👏 really needed this reminder. Jazakmullahu Khairan Kaseera ❤️
Sir ladki dene hai koi janwar thodi dena hai..Yes deen is the most important but it is not the only criteria to give a girl..If he is not earning too much how he wil have astable life with girl then it will be difficult for both to live together..Yeh kehne ke batein hoti hai deen pe ladki do hazoor ne khud bola hai back ground of family.. his Earning is also a very important
😢*🌹یَا مُقَلِّبَ الْقُلُوْبِ ثَبِّت قلبیْ عَلٰی دِیْنِک*َ
May our parents live more than 100 years with good health and prosperity!! Ameen! ❤️❤️❤️
And what after that? Itna jee kr unho ne Kar kia Lena hai? Aakhir to mout hi hai
آمین یارب العالمین
Aameen
This is eye opener may Allah guide us all right path Ameen 🤲
Foreign Passport , Civc, House in DHA Bahria. Istikhana will always come positive despite cast difference 😆
@Insta : syed____ahmed_ very soon it'll be upgraded to Mercedes
@@cryptogenie01 in dahej?🥺
phr tu Abba Na bhi many tu Bhaag kr krain gy 😂
Aaj kal larkon ko bhi tailor made larkiyan chahiyain.
@@anniemughal1335 sath me unke bistar, gadi, chulha chauka, kapre etc etc etc bhi , qk ye kch afford bhi nhi kr sakte..🙄
کی محمدؐسے وفا تونے تو ہم تیرے ہیں
یہ جہاں چیز ہےکیا لہو قلم تیرےہیں
Mashaallah aap ne bohot sare logo ko aaina dikha diya.
Deendari must be our first priority but dunyavi education is also important in these days qk parha likha insan deen ko achy se smjh sakta hai or parh sakta hai (in my point of view)
The problem is when u say parha likha aadmi and from parha likha you mean dunyavi education. There are many who k ow nothing of dunyavi education and they are ahlullas.
Apka Kia matlab k wo dunyavi parhai karega to Deen seekhayga?logic samajh nahe aai apki.
@@muhammadusama7901 Religion and Science. Religion ko Rationality k through hi samjha jaa sakta hai nahin to ye mullay hi bantay hain.
Truly an Eye Opener 😇🌼
All its blind faith
If you start questioning to the Islam then you definitely leave the Islam
You search why muslim leaving Islam
@@apj5949....I invite you to follow Islam 🌼😇
@@shesana8808 waha sana wah kya bola hai.❤️❤️❤️❤️ your are so smart and sweet sister..... 😅
@@muskansiddikee2171 ok sis
Sir I accepted a person like this. But they prove themselves greedy, they always have an eye on my father wealth and want to utilize my degree to become a source of earning.
So what about it, if people pretent them so pious, but in real they are so greedy
My sis all are not alike
Poor ppl they r
I think for your long term happy life u should divorce.If they earn enough no need for job.But if u want to do a job to support them,then do a job but with proper clothing If they have enough money then also pretend greedy and are greedy in real,divorce will be best because when u will have children, it will be late to divorce.It is my personal opinion. Don't take seriously.What u have planned to do now after understanding my words, please comment down so that atleast I could help u.I am not a bad boy.I am a student
Get divorce. Its never too late. If its happening to you now will happen to your children later
Har chamakne vale chez sona nahi hote. Aulad hai to uske lie kamain. Agar apne apne aulad ke parvarish aise logo mai ke. To ap usko lakh zuban se ache baten sikha len. Nonverbal learning se wo un jaise bura insan banega/banegi. So ap apne bacho ko ache mahol m taerbiyat den. Yeh b bahat bare naike hai.
Behanji ..... Allah se Khair maangiye ...Dil badalne ki qudrath Allah ki he. Apne Husband ke liye Dil se dua maangiye.... Qabool hoga insha'Allah....
Some people are manipulative we all know. As long as the only problem I guess is his obsession with money, Keep Asking ALLAH he is the only who could change anything or anyone in a flash of a second.
Two things may help ALLAH knows best:
1. Keep your trust in ALLAH ask him to change your husband's mind. He can do anything and everything.
2. Sincere Love can transform any man. Keep Loving.
insha'Allah he will change his mind.
والله على كل شيء قدير
Barosa ALLAH par rakhiye . Sab Kuch teek ho Jayega INSHA ALLAH
Ap me bht himmat Hai such Bol rahe h AAP ,warna Aaj Kal insan zina krne ko tayyar Hai par nikah ke liye tayyar nhi h
اللہ پاک سب بہنوں اور بھائیوں کے نصیب اچھے کریں اور نیک اور دینداری ساتھی عطا فرمائیں 🤲🤲🤲🤲
آمیـــــن ثم آمیــــــن❤️❤️❤️
Eye Opening Reminder from Tafseer sessions..🥺❤ We miss Tafseer sessions Zia Sir..😓
R u kashmiri
ASSALAM o ALI'KUM ummah
Before sleeping recite
🌟 surah al mulk
🌟 last two verses from surah al baqarah
🌟 while taking off ur shoes start with left foot and while taking on start wd right foot
🌟 say 3 times استفرالله العظيم اللذي لااله الا هو الحي القيوم
🌟 dua of sleeping
اللهم باسمك اموت واحيا
🌟 recite each 3 time surah ikhlas surah al falaq and surah naas
🌟 recite surah ikhlas 3 times
Astaghfar 10 time
Surah fatiha 4 times
3rd kalima 4 times
Durood 10 times
🌟 dont forget to recite ayatul kursi
JAZAKALLAH
Character religion and ikhlaq matters the most! Education, money, caste don't define a person.
Bhai dekho...deen bilkul hona chahiyeh...aur insaan character ka bhi acha hona chahiyeh...jahan tak paisay ki baat hai toh uss k pass itna paisa hona chahiyeh k woh ghar acha chalata ho...hum yeh nahi keh rahay k woh koi raees zada ho...sada ho aur acha kamata ho...lekin education uss k pass honi chahiyeh...humaray Nabi (SAW) nai farmaya
“ilm hasil kerna har mard aur aurat per farz hai”.
toh ager uss banday nai Islam ka bunyadi farz hi nahi pura kiya hua...toh aap kaisay keh saktay ho k woh deen daar shaks hai?...aik aur hadees mai hai
”ilm hasil kero chahay tumhay cheen (China) hi kiyun na jana paray”
Aab uss banday nai humaray Nabi (SAW) ki 2 ehem hadeeso per amal hi nahi kiya toh woh kaisay aik deen daar shaks ban gya???...
Aik aadmi acha kamata ho parha likha ho...character ka acha ho aur deen daar ho...tab woh aik ideal shaks hai...ager koi aik bhi cheez missing hai iss mai...toh woh aik ideal shaks nahi hai...issi tarah aurat bah parda honi chahiyeh, deen daar honi chahiyeh aur parhi likhi honi chahiyeh...aur iss liye parhi likhi honi chahiyeh takay zindagi mai kabhi bhi uss k husband ko financially problems face kerni parh jaye...toh woh aurat uss ko financially support ker sakay...aab meray father iss duniya mai nahi hai...meri mother parhi likhi thi toh unho nai support kiya na mujhe financially...ager unn k pass education na hoti toh woh kaisay support kerti mujhe financially?...toh yeh toh bhot bari misconception hai k education important nahi hai...insaan k pass har cheez honi Deen bhi aur education bhi...
@@anoushamudassar7001 beshak education important hai boht important hai khas tor pr aaj k dor me, lekin ek shaks, jo boht parha likha hai, phd kr rakhi hai, lekin usy baat krne tak ki tameez na ho, izzat na kry aap ki, kirdar ka acha na ho. Us ke muqabil ek aesa shaks jo ek darzi hi q na ho, usy english na ati ho koi degree na ho kuch na ho, lekin ikhlaq kirdar sab kuch ho tou mai is hi insan ka intekhab krungi. Baki sab ki apni apni soch.
maaaaaha Mai dono mai sai kisi ka intakhaab nahi keru gi...come on yar Molana Tariq Jameel...he’s PHD...he has also studied the Qur'an, hadiths, Sufism, logic, and fiqh...behtereen ikhlaaq,deen daar and behtereen insaan aur educated bhi utnay hi hain woh...har khoobi hai unn mai...and Mufti Menk...he has a degree in Shariah Law from the Islamic University of Madinah. He also holds a Doctorate of Social Guidance from Aldersgate University. Education bhi utni hi alaa, deen daar bhi hain aur character bhi utna hi acha hai Mufti Menk ka...I would like to marry someone like these men...jiski education bhi bhot alaa ho, woh deen daar bhi ho aur character ka bhi utna hi acha ho...
Whereas ager aap nai tailor sai shadi kerni hai toh aap keray...sab ki apni apni choice hai...
@@anoushamudassar7001 i dont think k ek insan k andr sub kuch ho skta hai you gotta compromise on atleast something. Akhir aap k andr bhi hr cheez best tou nhi hogi na? Tou phr aap best ko dhond rhi hn. Im just saying k yeh mumkin nhi. Baki Allah sab ki zindagi achi kray aameen
maaaaaha Kiyun jo mai nai examples aap ko di hain kya unn mai sai kisi bhi mard mai koi cheez missing hai?...perfect exists...if you know you know...
May Allah subhan tala bless us with righteous man in our life 🤲🧕🇮🇳
Sahi kha muhtram ajj kal yehi kuch ho rha hai Allah pak humsbko hidayat ata farmain ameen.
Education and wealth are the two priorities of people these days, rest left behind and are secondary, unfortunately.
But they don't know what is "EDUCATION".
Bhai dekho...deen bilkul hona chahiyeh...aur insaan character ka bhi acha hona chahiyeh...jahan tak paisay ki baat hai toh uss k pass itna paisa hona chahiyeh k woh ghar acha chalata ho...hum yeh nahi keh rahay k woh koi raees zada ho...sada ho aur acha kamata ho...lekin education uss k pass honi chahiyeh...humaray Nabi (SAW) nai farmaya
“ilm hasil kerna har mard aur aurat per farz hai”.
toh ager uss banday nai Islam ka bunyadi farz hi nahi pura kiya hua...toh aap kaisay keh saktay ho k woh deen daar shaks hai?...aik aur hadees mai hai
”ilm hasil kero chahay tumhay cheen (China) hi kiyun na jana paray”
Aab uss banday nai humaray Nabi (SAW) ki 2 ehem hadeeso per amal hi nahi kiya toh woh kaisay aik deen daar shaks ban gya???...
Aik aadmi acha kamata ho parha likha ho...character ka acha ho aur deen daar ho...tab woh aik ideal shaks hai...ager koi aik bhi cheez missing hai iss mai...toh woh aik ideal shaks nahi hai...issi tarah aurat bah parda honi chahiyeh, deen daar honi chahiyeh aur parhi likhi honi chahiyeh...aur iss liye parhi likhi honi chahiyeh takay zindagi mai kabhi bhi uss k husband ko financially problems face kerni parh jaye...toh woh aurat uss ko financially support ker sakay...aab meray father iss duniya mai nahi hai...meri mother parhi likhi thi toh unho nai support kiya na mujhe financially...ager unn k pass education na hoti toh woh kaisay support kerti mujhe financially?...toh yeh toh bhot bari misconception hai k education important nahi hai...insaan k pass har cheez honi Deen bhi aur education bhi...
@@anoushamudassar7001 aap jo bolrahe wo baat haq hai par Humare nabi ne ILM hasil karne kaha hai Knowledge not spoon fed education which is useless and totally corrupt made for financial gains for those in power and not to spread knowledge
Habib Sayed Exactly...chahay aap jitnay bhi teachers sai parh lai at the end of the day jab aap Khud apni knowledge mai izafa nahi keray gai toh phir koi faida nahi hai...that’s my point...
True in today's time..however I see a lot of guys who try to get into haram relationship with richer girls and if it doesn't work out or they get rejected then they start quoting Quran or Hadith that how money isn't everything bla bla.. This happened to me as well.. A guy who was very nice in behaviour tried to woo me(he wasn't so practicing and since he didn't smoke or drink he thought he was some saint) and when I clearly said it can't work and I can't go against my parents for something that doesn't seem like a good match then he started to emotionally blackmail.. Long story short.. I asked him to send rishta if he is soo sure.. Guess what he said..." I can't marry now as I don't have enough money to hold a huge wedding and humare yaha badi shaadi hi karte hai".. Lol. .
Tell him this is all worldly distraction go perform your salah and fear about akhirah 😂lol
bruh. f
Madam, what do richer girls want in a husband.what qualities do they want.I.e.how much salary they want What do rich girls family want in a boy.
@@ABDULJALIL-jo5te why you want a rich girl ....i mean i have this doubt
I believe it depends on girl what she want its not a clear cut categories decide their demands a rich girl can be not at all demanding but a poor can be like i want rich guy now for my future life.....so its variable depending the type of person
@@ABDULJALIL-jo5te You can't generalise rich or poor girls.. But its always better to marry within same economic status.. A girl from lower economic status from upper can work because she will appreciate the husband more but in the opposite case there are frictions.. Problem in my country (India) is that if a guy comes from a humble family starts doing well in career so he wants a richer or working girl as he feels it will help him in life and status but at the same time they expect the girl to totally adjust in his family life and then this causes fights and ultimately divorce.. I have seen too many cases where girls married in poor for love but were later miss treated by in laws and the guy.. And these guys usually start with quoting Islam(how can one compare oneself to Prophet Mohammed SAW or Musa AS..these were among the best of men among humankind)... There is even a cousin of mine who is not so good well off in money but now wants a rich girl as he us earning a lot...
Masha'Allah I am regularly watching your videos, very informatic, authentic knowledge, you are conveying. I appreciate your effort may Allah Alimighty accept your work for His Deen. (Ameen). And may Allah Almighty Help us to act accordingly.
JazakAllahu khair ❤
a bitter truth ... 💧❤️ JazakALLAH ❤️ #RajaZiaUlHaq #YouthClub #YC
Thanks for making this video, it can change the mindset of parents & brides mostly affluent & upper class family. Yes,its happening to me, I am Educated & worked as managerial position & spent all my moneys to get married my sisters, family but now jobless due to covid.Now it was my turn to marry but unfortunately got rejected from many marriage proposal from girls & their parents side just bcoz of jobless. But my trust on Allah will be same even I die single. Allah Akbar
Mashallah bro! This is the true tawaqul allah loves. But never be sad bcoz the people who rejected u were not able to afford u.Think this way!And insha allah ur tawaqqul in Allah will make u enter jannah with ur loved ones.u know i m very younger than u but still i think in the same way u do. Most of the people cry for their whole life bcoz of rejection but mashallah Allah made u this much strong !
In today's world how can we analyse someone's level of deen? If any rishta is coming totally from an unknown family?
Because in typical rihsta procedures people usually acts nicely
💯 shi kha.
Demands are high on both sides.
They all want six figure salaried guy who has better house and better car.
Who want a normal earning guy , still dont get it lol 😂 parents feel this is not the status of our daughter
Not every one like that,we only want our children to hv pious, educated &well behaved match who follows Islam
@@uzmaameen1500 true... 👍🏼
The thing is both good sides get bad encounters
What's wrong in that
I think bohot zada demands karna kay yeh agar for instance ap 100 rupee kay clothes pehnay ki adat ho Aur ap kaho asaye ghar mein jana chahte houn jahan 200 rupee kay clothes pehnay jatay houn( obv Itnay sastaye To koe kapraye nahe hotay example daye rahe houn) Yani lifestyle kafi behtar ho to Meray khyal say galat nahe ha Lakin is ko zada ya high deman keh saktay hein... Lakin agar koe larki ko adate He 200 rupee kay karvaye pehnay ki ha ac mein sonay s ki hA nokar chakar hein ghar mein To agar ap usay 50 ya 100 rupee walay ghar mei behj do gaye to it is very likely adjust karna bohto muskil hoga Aur phir bachoun kay baad lariyaan aur jagharaye Be houn gaye Meray khyal say rihsta dekhataye waqat character and personality no. 1 priority honi chayay Aur us Kay baad jo Be apkiwdemands hein Lakin financial diff 19-20 ho to behtar ha Warna zahir hA masail hou gaye shadi mein...
Baat tou sach hai maghar baat hai rosazai ki........
Allah hum sub ko hadayat de aur is per chalney ki tofi bi de (Ameen)
Im 33yrs person, just getting married at that time my 3 marriages broke, in 2020 due to corona my well running garments factory i shut down due to no business..since then with limited investment im afraid to reinvest and startup any business or I have got any job since 3yrs..just living on my savings till now..but I still have hope maybe Allah will have mercy on me again and rise to heights where I would never looking back..Insha Allah.
Actuall I disagree becz if the person who is used to living a well to do life gets married to a person who cant even provide basic nesacities to her then she would not be able to live a happy life and so do the man.Even hazrat zainab(R.A) initially rejected hazrat zaid bin haris proposal brought by holy prophet (PBUH) himself and later they got separated.
If one has complete trust on Allah,as Allah turns nothing to everything.
Education is very important. Even The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) himself highlighted its importance in many of his ahadis.
Like “Seek knowledge from the Cradle to the Grave”
The seeking of knowledge is obligatory for every muslim
Acquire knowledge and impart it to the people
etc
That knowledge is related to DEEN . but ofcourse Dunayawi knowledge also is important but Deeni knowledge is more important.
@@aishaanaab2807 If u want to succeed in both worlds, u will have to gain both. The knowledge of deen should be compulsory rather than a choice. But to compete with the modern world, you need modern education too.
I don't know what to do, Although my parents are fairly religious but they don't understand this.
They just look for 'khandaan' and good job.
I can't spend my life with a man who is away from islam at any cost. 😭
And isliye even I'm not marrying sister... Because there's no deendaar person in our community...they all use foul language
Or ju hai b deen dar unko kasy mila jie ,realy I’m tired also I need one rare person or ju mera iman mukml krdy
@@waqarrumis7316 agar nhi h mahol deendari ka to bnao ap apne as pas k logo ka logo ko deendari sikhao in very humble n better way.. ap kisliye ho deendari sirf khud tk rakhna nhi h ise family as pas k log rishtedar me b phailana hoga tbi to deen badhega deen ki sahi samjh aygi..
@@waqarrumis7316 sirf ap khud tk deen ko limit nhi kr skte as pas b mahol bnana padta h logo ko proper deen k guidance deni padti h ..
@@np3247 it's not that easy dear, my own family don't understand me.... They say haan tu badi aayi.... Jo pehle se chalta aara hain matlab woh galat hain! Pehle k logo ne yeh dahej ,log kya kahenge walon ko khush kiya toh woh galat the!!!etc. When I tell my parents that I will not marry like you guys marry in this community..... I will marry someone who's man enough to deny the so called gifts that my parents are planning to give to guy.... Yaar how can someone be man enough to sleep on the bed that you are getting , driving the car that a girl is getting and relishing his entire khandaan with girls gifts?? I told my parents agar aap meri shadi karna chahte ho toh ek paisa bhi kharch kiya toh main kabhi shadi nahi karungi... And guess what they took me on this aur kya kuch nhi sunaya mujhe or abhi tak sunate rehte...
Allah Pak hum sub ko is py Amal karny ki toufeeq ata farmaiye Ammeemsummameen..
Zabardast batin ki g dill khush hogya
M.A Bhai ek Video larkon k lye bhe banayn jo khud ko HERO and Educated samjh k deendar kam parhi larkio backward samjhty hain
Ek dum sahi buli ayse hi video ldko ke liye v bnaye bht sare ldke log bht ldki ko reject kr dete hai vs ye dekh kar ke ldki utni khubsurat nahi hai mere sth v aysa hi ho raha hai 😔😔
@@sabazafarzafar514 same here sister 😔 Kya batao me.
@@Fatima_S8851 Assalamu alaikum
@@sabazafarzafar514 waalaikum assalam ummeed Karti hu aap theekho
@@Fatima_S8851 Alhamdulillah ap kysi ho
28:27 He said: “I wish you to marry one of my two daughters, on condition that you work for me through eight pilgrimage periods; if you complete them to ten, it will be voluntary on your part. I do not wish to make this matter too difficult for you. You will find me, God willing, of the righteous.”
Musa (as) was poor at the time of marriage but he was strong and honest. That's why his father-in-law offered him job because he saw potential in him.
This example is great narrated by Allah Himself.
12:111 In their stories is a lesson for those who possess intelligence.
In America, The main thing muslims see in the guy is if he is 'US born and raised' or not 😂
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🤣🤣 Fir ate h kuch mahaan log
Yes some of Illegal people marry to get American green card then devorce I think that's why
Wow masha Allah
Require faith, alhumdulilah. My in-laws showed faith and With blessing of Allah, I have delivered
I am holding masters degree
Was married to 7 pass and devorcee
It was a horrible experience.it appears he is deendar but not actually.
Kisi ki debdaru hunjanna bahut mushkil hai
I do want deen along with enough wealth for a good life….not just wealth wealth.
Define "enough wealth"
@@mustafa8988 inhe paisa bahut chahiye aur deeen wale husband
Exactly I also have the same thinking and as for enough wealth it mean maintaining the living standard that you already have in your father’s house. Atleast that’s my definition. I think 19 20 hona chayay financial difference haddd....
@@shezzyomer5562 dont you think its unfair to expect a man, in his late 20s, early 30s to give you the lifestyle your father could only afford after turning 50 or 60? I mean you are pretty much looking for a guy who can give you upward social mobility, i.e. your standard of living should be better than your mothers and Its completely justified for you to want that and its natural but this guy in the video is saying we shouldn't want that and should jusy focus on the deen. He is saying that what we actually value is money and that is the deal breaker for us.
@@mustafa8988 guy got the facts 💯
I wish I could talk to my parents about someone I'm serious with... I don't want to marry anyone else and there is no person who would understand me better, plus he has good character, strong emaan and good niyyat. But all they will see is his family's caste, his class and all worldly things. Please pray that they choose on the person I want to marry as we've decided this for 6 years now.
Allah pak apne haq m bhtr kre.. Apke dil ki khwaish pori ho.. Well wishes for you
@@Hafizasaim bohot bohot shukriya 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
a lot of prayers for uh sister... INSHA ALLAH , u ll be in Halal relation with him
6 years without any legal relation? You need to think about it.
May allah do what is the most better for you with afiah. And may allah make yr heart be agreed and at peace with allah's will. Ameen
ماشاءاللہ
اللہ آپ کو جزائے خیر دے
Absolutely right....
There is a new thing going on these days and that is making sure a woman earns. Nothing else matters, if she does not earn.
She must bring her money with her. She must take money from her family to help the guy. This is the demand of people nowadays.
@Do You Know Ksi k maathhay pr nhn likha hota hai k wo galat hain.😊
@Shahid Maqbool Thank you. 💕
I am suffering, this situation, u r right, i do all my work, at home, clean the house, even i hv no made, cooking etc, everything, but in the end, job nai krti na. I am married with my czn, but never my husbnd said this, other family membrs, every time they taunt, and now my husbnd feels, and said kr lo job mere help b ho jaye ge, he nerver thought, k me ghar ka sara kaam kr k uski help krti hu, made nai rakhi, kuch b nai aisa, bt u are absolutely right
@@aimanyousaf5021 I am so sorry that you are suffering. No one has the right to taunt you or to force you to do something that you do not want to do.
May Allah make things easy for you and your husband.
Exactly.. same here nowadays.. what is th solution of this problem ?.. so many girls are facing same situations ..
Parents be like " apni beti ko itni mehnat se, piyar se pala hy q kisi gareeb k hath mein de kr zaleel karwayain ".
In my side, apne jor k rishte krte hen larka larki dono 1 class se belong krte hon.. koi gareeb ameer ka rishta nhi krte qk is tra differences ate hen.. behtr he ap dal roti khate hen to wese hi ghr me shadi kren.. garion me ghumte hen to rikhshe walo me shadi na kren aur na hi ghr laen..
یہی تو مسئلہ ہے کہ نکاح کو مشکل اور زنا کو آسان بنایا ہوا ہے۔
کوشش یہ ہونی چاہیے کہ نکاح اتنا آسان ہو کہ بس رشتہ ہوا، نکاح پڑھایا، ولیمہ کھلایا اللہ اللہ خیر صلہ۔
Alhumdulillah .. I also see his character and dedication towards deen.. Alhumdulillah, Allah pak bless me with the righteous person..
Masha Allah bless you sir ❤️❤️❤️