How to Operate Successfully with an Open Ego Center
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- Опубликовано: 5 май 2024
- Richard Beaumont tackles the conditioning from the Open Will Center - the lack of self-esteem and in particular being unable to measure one's worth in financial terms. In a somewhat firery discourse Richard also provides some useful keys to succeeding in the world and gaining a healthy self-esteem despite the conditioning. Using his own experience as an example he invites the viewer to consider their own experience and in particular the childhood times when the conditioning sets the pattern of a life that is often one of scarcity and lack. This is a very valuable video for the 65% of the population that was born with an Open Will Center.
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Thank you sincerely Richard, I'm a 1/3 with an open ego and I resonate with all that you mentioned. I recently left my 9-5 back in March and am working on starting my own business based on my innate creativity, it's been satisfactory so far :)
Great job! So happy to hear you got out! :)
I have a completely open ego (no hanging gates either). I’m a reflector 4/6. I did many competitions (I’m a musician) and I almost won them all. I competed with the most powerful ego people and yet I was able to succeed. Having a completely open center gives you complete wisdom about the will power of the others so you can use it for your own profit. Although I won many competitions and prizes, that didn’t help me with my self esteem, at all. I still have to resist that nasty voice in my head.
Thank you so much for the enlightening content.❤
I love that you have come to such a clear understanding of yourself Michael. Thank you for your support with my outreach. :)
This video popped up 2 seconds after i asked the universe for complete autonomy over my life. You explained everything that’s been heavy on my heart lately. As a 4/6 Self projected projector i always end up in jobs that start off great but decline terribly after a while of me noticing what could be changed and then being ignored until it’s too late. I’m a creative artist at heart and i had to ask myself why i continue to end up in these exact positions. Thank you for this. 🙏🏾
Wonderful JaeDaFae, I love the synchronicity. Thanks for sharing this. :)
This all resonates. I’m a 2/4 manifesting generator with an open ego and I’ve recently forced myself (at 40) to start my own business. Thanks for this Richard, very insightful as usual.
I wish you the best in your endeavours. May you surround yourself with those who can provide you with any practical advice as you go. I hope you become as "unemployable" as myself. :)
5/2 MG here. I always feel less alone after watching your videos. You’re the best. Thank you !
Thank you Richard for these very timely and valuable insights! As someone with a completely open Ego center, I was always trying to prove my worth. Through understanding and appreciating my Design, it has made me feel more empowered to say "no" when my sacral says no and realize that it in no way affects my true value. I will be saving this video for when I forget my value- your kind, encouraging words make me believe I can do anything!
Brilliant! You got it! :)
T’habiller ypu Richard! I have a completely open ego! I left corporate 7 years ago absolutely diluted and bitter! As a projector, it drained my soul! I am now aware of my open will centre and remind myself that I am worth it! Every time I find myself comparing myself and feeling less than… I bring myself to alignment! Funny enough you not being replaceable because we are so unique it’s hit home! Thank you millions 😊
So good to hear this Farah, thank you for sharing this. Yes you ARE worth it! :)
This one hits especially close to home. I was deeply involved in religious life for a long time and spent years toiling away at a megachurch, volunteering all my time and energy away (with no return or recognition) because I thought what I was doing was making a difference and I wanted to prove to others (and to my idea of God at the time) how devoted I was to the cause. Eventually, that all crashed down on itself because, as we know, no human can really live like that sustainably. When my devotion to religious life imploded, that was the event that drove me onto the roof (4/6 profile) and that was almost 15 years ago. I don't find it a coincidence that I've found Human Design just as I'm getting ready to enter my chiron return in a few years.
Thank you for presenting this material in the way that you do. I find it extremely helpful for my own understanding as I take the small steps of learning more about Human Design.
It sounds like you've gone a long way in your devotion and now have found the truth is you being you through Human Design. A perfect time to enter Kiron! :)
Dear Richard, Your video touched me very deeply. You spoke very deeply, which was touching for me. Thank you!
Thank you for this wonderful reminder. As a 5/1 Generator, I have an open ego centre and learnt long ago I did not want to be a widget! lol So for the most part have been self employed for years. Message to self, look to connect with others who have the skills and gifts that I do not possess and together we can all prosper.
Wonderful Athina. Yes, Yes, Yes. :)
Thanks so much Richard. I listened to this at the best possible monent. Open and completely undefined ego center and 3/5 generator.. I found your voice and words not just of great guidance but also healing in a very powerful way 🙏
Fascinating insights, Richard, myself having the defined Ego and boy, I know how powerful that can be. When I worked for a while going door-to-door, booking appointments for free govt sponsored cavity wall & loft insulation, I'd often do very well. Lots of bookings but by the next day, the surveyor I worked for, told me he couldn't understand why all these people were phoning to cancel. I tried to explain that it was an HD thing and that it was only when they were in their own aura that they realised they'd made the wrong decision. It should have been a system of phoning them back the next day so they had a chance to mull it over but my boss wanted to fill his diary on the spot so to speak.
My son and I have defined egos and there is an air of “we know what we want and we know we can get it”…if we love it that is! My husband and daughter have open wills and my husband in particular used to give in way too easily IMO. However I have been gradually teaching my daughter how to use her Projector strategy and authority and I have see her grow stronger boundaries and clarity in decision making. I am slowly nudging my generator husband to use his sacral power and not take on so much at work. He’s exhausted and there is only so much energy I can restore him with.
4/6 Emotional Projector RAX Contagion. I have two Channels to the Will Centre. This video helped me to appreciate the ‘cards dealt to me’.
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Thank you, Richard! As a 6/2 triple split Emotional Projector your videos have made a tremendous difference in my journey. A great deal of my anxiety around academics and enetring the workforce has been elevated through awareness. Thankfully, as a young person, a lot of my habits and way of operating ring as correct! (realising I had taken steps into deconditioning even before finding HD). I would love to hear about hanging gates from the open ego (as I have 26 and 51). Take care!
Wonderful to hear young people getting into their Human Design. So good! Thanks for the suggestion of the Hanging Gates. Enjoy the journey :)
Thank you so much for this video, Richard. It touched me deeply as I do recognize myself as a corporate widget that I've been for the past 7 years. I'm a 1/3 generator with a completely open Ego. Due to various circumstances I can't quit my job right here and now (I wish I could). HD and your channel helps me a lot to learn my potential and have a hope that one day I will find that freedom. 🙏
Glad it was helpful! Ain't we fortunate to have found HD. No need to just walk out, create an exit route, not one day, but on your timing. Us 1/3's can bounce back better than most, you know it. :)
Thank you Richard! This is one of the best videos I have watched on open ego. It helped me to realize that there is wisdom in its openness and great tools on how to live that. I resonated with so much of it- especially since I have the 18-58 and am seeing it as a gift when used correctly. Your messages have helped me see myself and others as beautiful unique expressions. Thanks for the great content!
Love this type of video with the ‘how to’, the actionable steps are so helpful
I am super interested to find a practical how-to guide for deconditioning a completely open ego center, with step by step instructions that make the process super easy for all of us open egos!
If it doesn't exist yet, I guess I'll just have to 3/5 it myself.
Wait.. am I trying to prove myself right now?
Thank you dear Richard for the timeless wisdom.
I appreciate the request raguizinio, but step by step instructions don't really work in this case. If you know the NotSelf here is trying to prove itself, then it's up to each one of us to catch ourselves in NotSelf behaviour "bigging" ourself up through boasting or promising or spending too much money trying to impress others that really cements the lesson in. After repeated conscious realisations as described above, plus the experience of simply not over-reaching in such ways and acknowledging how much better life is, that things change. If one is often promising to do something for one person or another and then doesn't, despite the pressure, and manages to walk away having not committed oneself to something that was not correct, WOW that feels so good! :)
Thank you Richard. I listened to this 4 times. I took away many truth that I have painstakingly learned over the course of my life . "Self value comes from being yourself". "It has to be recognized in you". And paraphrasing - recognize and point out to others the fine qualities (gifts) you see in them. Help others to see their gifts. Precious words of wisdom that I hope many get to hear and take in deeply.
❤ Yes the Open Ego/Will. Thank you Richard. In the defined ego's presence I certainly recognize it now. How refreshing it is to wake up each day in my own Aura. Ready to take on each day as i was designed, seeing what I respond to. Often now I Catch my not self conditioning before heading down another's path. What a GRAND EXPERIMENT.
As always Richard Thank you
Thank U 4 All Richard... All the Persons we have the Privilege and the Honour tó hear u and see u and learn with U...You help Us to be Better Persons and make this World a Better place with Peace Respect and Joy❤
I enjoyed this thoroughly Richard Beaumont! Thank you for being a unique-differentiated being contributing to the whole of us. We would not be what we are without your contribution.
I have a defined will and it definitely doesn't mean an easy time.
I think the things that are valued, are probably the issue, as you mention.
Wishing us ALL the best.
Thank you , Richard.
It is so helpful to hear the % of how common undefined/defined centers are! Somehow it makes me calmer knowing that 65% of people “feel” the way I do too (much like with an open head).
I also love the message of looking what we do have that is reliable in us! There is so much focus in society on what we lack, what we should be better at and what we should change about ourselves - it’s truly refreshing to view oneself based on what we already have access to within ourselves 🙏
Wow, another eye opening and much appreciated video, Richard! I room with someone who's a Manifestor with an undefined ego. As a Generator with a defined ego, I've never felt more worthless than when around this person as they work in a high paying corporate job and waste no opportunity in reminding me of it by calling me "a jobless loser" whenever I piss them off by not allowing them to treat me like their slave. My argurment is always money isn't everything! Ofcourse I'm not a jobless loser, I'm just an astrologer doing what they love, but without much pay, unfortunately lol
Thank you for this
Thank you for this!
Such a good one!
Wonderful video, Richard. Very inspirational, motivational, and soothening. Thanks to the HD I am also learning how to be aware of my value and experiencing a growth of my self-esteem. Thanks for your encouragement and support! I simply love your videos! Your 6/2 Reflector Fan. ❤
Thank you so much for your insights in navigating these open ego waters 🙂
Beautiful 🔥
Thanks 😌🙏🏼
Thank you for the way you try to make the world a better place for all of us!🙏 I am a 2/4 splenic projector with an open ego center. There has been a lot of exhaustion and sickness, because I have tried to squeeze myself into the square space you speak of. I recognize myself, in not feeling worth getting a value back for what I do. So maybe to see and appreciate one of my to channels 18 - 58 in my self (my 18.2 is in North Node). I have all the black magic you talked about a few weeks ago, and my 48.3 is in my unconscious North Node. Maybe something for my future? Hope so. 😊
This video is so empowering
Thanks Richard ❣️
Glad you enjoyed it Karin! Thank you. :)
Thank you Richard for your sharing. Your words resonate so much with my experience as an opened will centrt MG. Truely appreciate your work.
Excellent comments and explanation about this open center! It is one of two, which I must recognize where my not-self can come through. Over the years, before learning of HD, I had to determine my value, especially in my profession, to receive proper compensation for my work. I learned that 'my work is not for everyone', as I said many times to people. I'm very good at my work/craft, and there's a price to pay to have it!
As a Projector, I struggled to work for others during my professional career. I hated authority, and those who were above me or managed me. I respected them, but I wanted to be left alone, to do it my way. So, during the last two plus decades, I remain self-employed. It has its pros and cons, but it fits my profile much better!
Interesting that you mention the 58-18 channel... I happen to have it; and yeah, passing "judgement" is my thing! I'll have read up on that channel and understand the value which it carries, for me in my life.
Richard, I listen to all your videos. This one delivered an understanding both of reliability in our design and also the system of the will center in a way that I had not grasped before. Thank you.
Great to hear! I do my best to bring clarity and appreciate you acknowledging that. Thank you. :)
Love your videos and I am laws 2 as well. It's like we are potentially energetic twins.
Good one Rich-Art
Thank you 😊
You're welcome 😊
Beautiful video 💛
Thank you bunchesofbeautiful - love your moniker :)
Pure magic
Ooo I love that comment, thank you Tyler :)
"There is no such thing as lesser being"..🎉
Yes to that! :)
Hi Richard. I loved hearing the redemptive comments about the "bitch" gate 18!! Made me smile then laugh!! Thanks for your wisdom and delightful sense of humor!!
Thanks richard for you video again! Iam a 1/3 defined ego that felt mostly unworthy my whole life, although i could tell i never deserve the job and salary i got for the job i did, i never felt i fit in and also rebel against authority or micromanagement, which led me in many different job after another until i started to be self employed and earn much better money. (After my saturn return.)
Now my dilemma is dealing with open egos that dont keep their promises, which make me feel annoyed sometimes. Any advice for defined ego in your next video would be awesome 😊
65% hmmm thats very specific, good talk though.
I have a open heart/ego ❤and resonate with this content so much. The story about the English teacher happened to me as well. The self respect topped up and I was able to move forward in a much healthier way too.
I have so many questions for you! I will post here and see what happens!
I have that open ego/heart and I live with a closed/defined ego/heart manifestor and my father has a closed/defined ego/heart. How much of an influence are there energies on me regarding this definition specifically? Can you give some more specifics to this exactly bc feeling worthy like unworthy was unconsciously running for me in the background for so long until recently when I had that shift like you did with your English teacher.
Then I have 18.1 THREE times in my chart and am curious if I creating negative self talk towards myself? I ask this since it is a 18.1 line. I have worked so much to see the good in others that I wonder if the 1 part is directed to me.
I have 11-56 curiosity, 3-60 mutation, 27-50 preservation & 30-41 Recognition; RAC Laws 2.
I'm a bikini bodybuilder (perhaps pro soon) and hypnotist (white magic storytelling through hope).
It would be a dream to ask you many more questions one to one bc your YT content has helped me see my strengths like the white and black magic lines and I wonder what more I could learn from you!
I'd love to learn about definitions especially wide split definitions. For me I wonder if it takes me more time or particular way to move through unconscious emotions better bc I am a wide split. Like would eft be a helpful resource for me as a wide split? What are your thoughts? Then relationship interactions between single and split etc…
Absolutely love all your content and Human Design. I study human design before I sleep most nights as a 1/3 bc simply bc I love discovering why people do and behave a certain way and human design gives me much more understanding with deeper compassion for others no matter what. Ha 🎉😂
The only channel I have is the channel of struggle. 7 centers undefined with an open ego. RAX of unexpected 4. I’m experiencing more
Clearly how my design earth 27.4 of caring shows up in community with elders. It comes fairly easy to me but I’m still struggling to make decisions on how to live in this material world with only the channel of struggle.
I cannot agree more with you but I have an open Ego Center and my Chiron is in gate 51 (both) so as it has returned I find myself less and less suitable for any engagement into any corporative work but it pays my bills. Out of my experience someone like me, 6/2 Generator, Left Angle Cross of Prevention (10/15 I 18/17) is not a favourite emplyee in any corporation, here where I live, regardless the Generator's force, strenght and endurance 🙂 I had my own business but had to close it because my programm was so good that it has been taken by the local government organisations with much bigger infrastructure. Well, that is a proof of my worth but that kind of proof is not what one needs 🙃
Thank you for that message. I am an emotional manifestor with a completely open ego center, the channel of the alpha, the channel of openness en channel 41-30. I have always been triggered by hierachical and competitive corporate world and had huge issues with self esteem. At the same time a tremendous Hunger for power and making a lot of money. I feel a bit lost and tired of that game with that contradicting business life. What would you recommend me?
Hi Andrea, after your experience in corporate, how about you get your own company together and make it unique to you and what you love. :)
Thank you for this comment! Sounds very tempting. I am still in the process of finding an idea for my own business, something that keeps me interested and motivated long enough. I have many interests but nothing deep enough to build a company. But I am motivated and feel inspired by your words.
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Hi @Richard Beaumont . I'm a little confused. My girl has an undefined, completely white ego, but she does not have low self-esteem at all. In addition, do not these undefined centers represent wisdom? doesn't it apply to the ego? maybe a lesson already learned? Ego doesn't mirror someone else, that is, it feels clear and sure if it meets someone, if he/she will keep his word or if he /she will do what he says, like a radar?
Hi Enemonica5327, The Open Ego can over-inflate as "The Big I am" hence spending too much money on showing off etc over-blown high self-esteem and so on. Underneath that there is the Not Self push to prove oneself. A correct Open Ego doesn't make promises and doesn't make such a big deal of appearances; and indeed it is the conditioned Open Ego that forces us to keep our word when making promises that we didn't correct agree to. That's part of the conditioning. The Fixed Ego usually does not back down and demands respect even if they are in the wrong. I didn't have time to go into all the conditioning aspect because that wasn't the focus of this video. Yes, the wisdom is simply to be honest about whether one really wants to get involved or not, no matter what the social pressure may be. I hope this helps. :)
Those with this center defined will never understand what an undefined feels. Their reality is different from ours. They trump us yes. We get turned into slaves over and over. My ex used to fixate on me working hard, how I focused on the pound - he is a defined will centre and a VERY powerful Manifesting Generator yes - but I had been conditioned to do that as when I don’t I have NOTHING.
My skills are not valued. My knowledge is not needed - I get no invitations as a Projector or Astrologer even. I study as I have NOTHING left in my life. I have no job. I’m running out of my savings and living is so very painful. I hate being a Projector with all this useless knowledge no one needs. People call me lazy and criticise me or take my ideas and advice for free and I’m left with NOTHING!
All my life I’ve been trying to prove my worth to to other to no avail. I give up. I have no sacral power either. Barely have energy to get through the days. I only have two defined centres.
Maybe in a few years people will get it but I won’t be around to see that.
How does my open ego effect my active channel 26
Hi fairyluvv0 - the 26 will not be in an acitve Channel (26/44) if it is in a white Ego Center. How does it often work? A propensity to exaggerate one's achievements among other things. :)
@humandesigninfo so, basically, not keeping it real???