We Got Ex-Best Friends To Go On A Friendly Dinner Together | Filipino | Rec•Create
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- Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
- When you consider someone a "bestfriend," that person becomes an important figure in your most important memories, and someone that you could say is family. But what happens when that special friendship is damaged to the point of an unfortunate end? A second chance to repair it all is usually unlikely. However, with the help of GrabFood, we got two ex-bestfriends to revisit what they once had, reminisce about their All Out Summer Moments, and come to what may be an opportunity to start over, or to have a final closure. Who knows what might happen?
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"Never ko kinuwento Yung Buhay mo sa iba".
That's a very good attitude. Other people would tell every breathing soul about their ex-bestfriend's secrets just to get even .
Truth. We should really apply confidentiality & consent sa kahit na anong aspeto ng life.
This hit me real hard and I've been doing my best to stop this attitude of mine. Tho I find them very toxic, I realized at the same time that I'm being toxic, too, the moment that I do it.
@@alyanna6230 atleast you're aware that the act is wrong and you Acknowledged it. You're also doing you're best to address it. Now that's also a good attitude.
Angela seems awkward whenever Leo mentioned rebuilding their friendship, parang ayaw nya, ayaw nya lang sabihin directly- which I think very valid if ayaw nya na talaga kasi sya yung binetrayed so no point talaga to rebuild it.
Tingin ko yung pagbabalik ng friendship nila will only benefit Leo who seems very guilty talaga sa nangyari, parang rebuilding it will only give Leo peace, and Angela breaking her peace naman.
that was very well said! i loved it, bravo 👏
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NawLa yung tiwaLa. Yung isa fulfilment Lang.
Having a falling out with your best friend is one of the most underrated painful experience, especially since most of the time we're just dismissive about it, and think "oh well, ganyan talaga" but deep down you still long for the person the same way you'd do with a partner or a family member.
I agree. I’m experiencing it right now with a long time bestie too and it’s so sad.
Thats why i come off as an akward to be with”, but i just have trust issues with literally every one i meet
People grew out of friendships. We grow, we move on, we meet other people. Nothing wrong with that.
You can definitely feel that Angela is at peace and has already moved on. The other girl, on the other hand, seems to be miserable about what happened. I wish healing for them but I dont see the point of them rebuilding their friendship. There's just no point in revisiting past traumas especially when the other girl's environment still hasnt changed much.
ahhh this. plus, medyo nakaka off yung part na she misses gela's presence lalo na kapag need ng kausap about bad shit. the said betrayal was a good riddance imo.
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This.
True. Parang ang ganda na ng buhay ni Angela and in my opinion parang magugulo lang ulit yung peace niya if magiging friends ulit sila knowing na surrounded parin si Leo ng same na mga tao.
@@Xyz.abcdef124 sinabi nya naman na kakausapin nya ung bf nya
Dalawang lines na Favorite ko :
"Never kong kinuwento yung buhay mo sa iba"
"Wag mong i blame yung sarili mo masyado kase kilala naman kita, ayon lang problem, madali kang ma-influence ng iba" Then yung smile at relief ni Leo sa mukha parang "I'm thankful na sinabi mo yan bestfriend" ❤🤗
"betrayal" is the worst reason in any kind of relationship to end.
Mas masakit mawalan ng kaibigan kesa jowa. Atleast may closure na sila. ❤❤❤
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"I didn't know you were very hurt" the fact that it took 3 years before Leo realized that Angela was a wreck.
I also have a friend na madalas ako kinakalimutan if nakakausap niya ang isa pa niyang kaibigan. The abrupt feeling of betrayal after that, parang mararamdaman mong option ka lang.
same kmskmksks
Same. Tapos lahat ng sasabihin nung isa nyan friend like "wag mo syang kausapin" Ginagawa nya, ito namang friend ko (Girl A) after nilang mag-kaayos ako yung hindi pinansin kasi para daw maging independent ako kasi lagi na lang daw akong kasama ni friend aba malamang kaibigan nya din naman ako e yun pala gusto nyang sya (girl Z) lang yung kasama. After nun akala ko okay na e ilang araw pa lang bigla akong hindi kinausap dahil lang sa napakaliit na bagay 😂 ilang beses akong sumubok kausapin sya (si friend ko) kaso ako lang yung napapahinya so tumigil din ako pero ang ending after more than 5months ako yung unang kumausap sa kanya nung tinatanong ko kung anong dahilan ng pag-layo sabi ba naman sa akin wala lang daw yun trip nya lang.
Dun ko na patunayan na kahit na anong gawin ko para ituring nya akong kaibigan hinding hindi nya magagawa na ituring akong kaibigan. Ngayon nga lalapitan nya lang ako kapag may gusto syang ipagmalaki sa akin e hahahaha kaya ibinibigay ko yung gusto nya like kino-kompliment ko sya
@@blossom5696 we don't deserve them, and they don't deserve us also. a true friend will make us feel validated and valued hindi yung lalapit lang sayo pag may kailangan hahahahahaaha friend with someone na you both can benefit sa friendship nyo :)))
@@shrinking.violettt yes. sana all makahanap ng kaibigang kayang ibigay yung validation yung feelings nila and kaya silang pahalagahan. Chaka mas okay na din na hindi na kami masyadong nagkikita para naman hindi sya nabubwisit kapag nalalaman nyang mataas yung grade ko kaysa sa kanya, competitive kasi sya sa lahat ng bagay at medyo natatakot na din kasi ako sa ugali nyang may pagka-perfectionist sa image nya at backstabber din.
@@blossom5696 hahahahahha omg medj same situation hahhahahahahahahha but let's not ruin their image in our minds, kasi kahit papano they contributed something good naman before sa life natin 😍
The boyfriend and “new” friends will always be the wall between them.. So their friendship will never be the same again..
I remember my bestfriend when i was still in college. She's very kind, tahimik, mahinhin, and pretty! tahimik sya sa iba pero pag magkasama kmi , pareho kaming kalog. Our friendship ended when i got into a relationship and nagka shuffle ksi noon sa sections kya we got separated na rin tas hnd pa tugma ung vacants namin. The thing I regret until now is the fact na mas pinili/ bnigyan ko ng time ung ex ko kesa sknya, though she had new friends na rin nmn non that time na when i try na lapitan sya, i felt out of place :( . If mababalik ko lng ung dati, i'd choose our friendship kesa sa (i didnt know that time) bad influence na relationship ko with my ex. Now, she's happily married and they already have a daughter. sometimes i stalk her, and im happy na may own family na sya.
Emotional ako habang pinapanood ko to. I've lost my college best friend. Naging close kami dahil seatmate ko sya. I'm glad that we reconciled during our graduation retreat. That was our closure after ilang months na walang pansinanan. But I know hindi na talaga maibabalik yung friendship namin dati. Civil na lang talaga kami now. I'm always grateful dahil naging parte siya ng college journey ko. Sana matupad niya ang mga pangarap niya. Sana maging successful siya sa buhay.
The boyfriend sounds super controlling and dramatic. I hope their friendship heals.
He does!!!
Baka he’s also just looking out for her
@@appleprieto5350 By not listening to who his own girlfriend wants to be friends with again? Sinabi naman nila they wouldn't be magjowa if they didn't meet through the friend.
“Never kong kinwento buhay mo sa iba” WOW. I really appreaciate those kind of friends ❤
I just watched the video earlier and I can't help realizing that I kept on smiling 🥲 my face can't even hide the fact that I was super happy to finally talk to my bff again. This was the longest conversation we ever had since the issue.
I was just really happy that day.
And yeah we're alright now. We're just both busy with our lives but we talk online naman hehe
I don't have any intention talaga to submit and hope for the chance to get featured. Basta all i remember was that i thought of her since the moment i saw the casting call post and i just carelessly wrote our story and shared it 😅
When you’re broken talaga you have the ability to be poetic haha 😅🤣
Thanks rec create ❤
"Ikaw yung root pero ikaw yung na left out" :( felt that so hard because i got betrayed too
I kept crying as if bestfriend din nila ako huhu.
I’ve lost my childhood bestfriend and hs bestfriend altogether when we were in college na. I miss them. We never had any closure. We interact on social media but I guess, it’ll never be the same.
Friendship break up is much more painful than a boyfriend/girlfriend break up. I pray for everyone’s healing 🙏🏼
I felt Leo's genuineness. I hope they'll find it in their hearts to mend the broken relationship, and for Gela to completely forgive. Hugssss
watching this made me realize how certain, sometimes impulsive, decisions can impact even the strongest friendships, the type of friendships that you were once so certain would last forever. life happens, but we should always think of the consequences of our actions before being influenced into doing something.
i miss my old (i think saying "ex friends" is too soon) friends, but i'm not strong enough to talk to them like this. hopefully, someday, i can reminisce with them, too.
they were a huge part of making the person that i am today, but life happens, and we're all on our separate paths now, and that's okay.
full support kay Angela, she deserves her peace. I don't think leo will be able to ruin it ulit, as she had set boundaries na.
I can really feel that Leo is sincere with apologizing to her ex best friend, Angela. It feels like she's ready to own up for her own mistakes. Angela, on the other hand I can really feel that she's still hesitating reconnecting with her and I can't blame her. She was betrayed by her own best friend. Like, Leo was her best friend and she's the one who knew her the most yet she listened to her new friends and her boyfriend and that really hurts the most. Though, I didn't believe Leo when she said she didn't expect that Angela would be so hurt of what she did. If you're really her best friend you would know how she will react on everything. There's this gut feeling since you really know the person.
I really hope they both heal from what happened especially Angela and it's not necessary they should rebuild their friendship and go back the way they were before, but just a mature mutual understanding and closure. Healing takes time. Kahit civil lang sila to each other no bad blood anymore.
I love this, we can see na they are both self aware and have grown beautifully from their past. Good choice of people recreate we can definitelt learn from them.
Sometimes people may never understand and appreciate the kind of friendship you give them, and it's just so painful when you get betrayed by someone you confide to and show your vulnerability, just why and how. Why hurt the person who show you kindness and love.
reservations while or even after ng proseso ng healing ay sobrang okay lang. It may take time, regardless of how long ang importante genuine. How she talks and looks at her simply says na, wala syang issue to rebuild the realtionship pero in case may betrayal ulet wala rin syang pakialam. And that's one good thing about finding peace after getting hurt, you become way much stronger and smarter. I don't know, baka paladesisyon lang ako 😂
I don’t think this friendship deserves a second chance. May mga friends lang talaga na dumadaan sa buhay mo na gives you a lesson and you should leave them in the past. Thanks for the memories na lang ganern. The fact na jowa pa ni ate girl yung nagcause ng lamat sa friendship nyo, betrayed you, caused you trauma, sira na yung trust sa isa’t isa. Ano yung assurance na d na nila yun gagawin? Move on na lang. You can make new memories with new people.
Huwag na..hayaan mo silang dalawa na malunod sa isat isa..kahit magkantutan pa sila sa harap ko, wala akong paki..ang mga basura nmn ksi wala nang halaga kapag tinapon na..marerecyle ungniba pero ung kagaya ng BF at ex-bff? God, worthless yang mga yan so bakit pa ba? Dba? Huwag nang hayaang makapasok ulit ksi nobody deserves a 2nd chance. Pag sinaktan ka sa una, huwag hayaang masaktan ka ulit. I dont believe in 2nd chances. People change? Wheee..kahit anong change pa yan, he/she will still go down as a worthless animal. Un lng un.
I feel so sorry for them. I cannot imagine ending my friendship with my bestfriend. We're on a long distance friendship right now since she's currently in Canada, and I just sent this video to her while crying kasi she is the only friend I don't ever want to lose. I would even follow her to Canada if there's an opportunity for me to do so. Hahahaha
I'm never good in having friends. I envy those who still have them in their life. It was a good episode ReCreate
Betrayal, for me, is one reason na di ko na babalikan ang isang relationship, be it romantic or friendly kind of relationship
that is why choose your company wisely talaga.
dear ate angela, if i were in ur shoes it's okay na maging "friends" na lang not "BEST FRIENDS" coz syempre for sure anlala na ng trust issues mo kay miss leo. but, yeah it's up to u naman po. so, think wisely pls. ily. take care always with ur baby!
While watching this, I can't stop myself from tearing up. I can relate with Leo.
I got this college bestfriend named Red. I'm his sounding board. I knew him more than anyone else does (even his partners). We're bffs since freshmen. He was my favorite person.
I left because I was hurt. And I'm wanting to reconcile, but after hearing Angela's answers, it kinda made me think that maybe Red doesn't want to reconcile as he has already found new bestfriends. He even got a partner (for two years already).
I'm the only one wanting our connection to be rebuilt. But I think that would be too impossible now. And all that's left was for me to heal myself on my own. Alone.
I can definitely relate, I had a bestfriend for 7 years but we ended our friendship because of my values(I don't want to ellaborate it na but the context is, her boyfriend) I realized that everyone is different and no matter how you hold on to a friendship that didn't match your own values, who cant see right through your real self even without you saying it directly. Time heals, but it will never bring back the bond. We talk now tho after 5 years had gone by not as it was but the pain isn't there anymore. When our friendship ended, I found my soulmate in the form of friendship. She knows my triggers and all even I don't say it out loud. So if you're reading this, trust me when I say that everything happens for a reason and don't blame yourself why that friendship ended, it's just some things don't fit in together like puzzle pieces.
Ang cute at ang beautiful nyong tignan. ❤ Parang TOTGA nyo yung isat-isa bestfriend version. I wish maging bestfriend kayo hangang sa huli at wag na wag nyo na sisirain pa yung trust ng bawat isa. More power sa inyo. 😊 ❤❤❤
Kudos to Re-create 🙌🏻 This is the kind of friendship na gusto mong e re-visit peru okay na hindi e mend. But if they want to mend it sana the friendship would last forever! Rooting for their happiness ❤️🩹🌻
Broken friendship is the hardest of all. Please weigh things out and see if the best friendship is still worth keeping. And if it was, never let a man ruin the real friendship that you have. Boyfriends come and go but its hard to find a real friend.
Tried it before 3x tapos waLA talaga
Some goodbyes set you free. Been there and this is worst than losing a boyfriend.
I love the content produced by this Channel. Kudos to your whole team
friendship heartbreaks are hard & painful , man. sometimes , even more than breaking up with your boyf/gilf 💔😪
YES, di maiiwisan that you miss them every single time you reminisce the past bec Its true when they say that the happiest moments you had with them before becomes the most painful memory in your present.
and remember JUST BECAUSE YOU MISS THEM DOES NOT MEAN YOU HAVE TO RECONNECT WITH THEM.
you can be civil or maybe if both parties have really matured or past resentment na, maybe give it a try ?
but diba when you look back all the photos , videos or moments, ITS MORE OF THE MEMORIES YOU MISS AND NOT THE PERSON.
YOU ARE BOTH DIFFERENT PEOPLE NOW. The person you knew before and likewise for her, iba na kayo ngayon.
Di niyo na kilala ang isa’t isa.
YOU CAN FORGIVE and FORGET naman but at the end of the day naman , it really depends on you and how much you can tolerate. 🤍
Theis left me teary-eyed. I really adore this girls. You guys are genuine. All love. ❤
Hi Iggy.
After ko mapanood to, na realize ko na kung tayo ang nasa segment na to, alam ko ako si Leo. Ako yung may kasalanan bat natapos yung friendship natin. Watching this made me scared of feeling a different feeling if ever we meet again. I know you know na mahal kita. I still do. Pero I understand na the mature thing to do is to let you be. Kasi alam ko I am a high-maintenance na kaibigan. Sorry if I failed to realize I may have exhausted and burnt you out.
Kung tuluyan man maghihiwalay ang kwento ng buhay natin, I am glad we shared a chapter.
I can relate. Lol but sometimes forgiveness doesn’t mean reconnection.
This comes close to my heart.
I had a best friend named Carl. He's openly gay and we got super close in pandemic. I'm from Laguna and he's from metro manila but he visits here if it's vacation time or Holliday. So we will chat and vc everytime. In pandemic I discovered bisexuality and that suits me. I told my ate and him his they are the only ones who know, so you know close we are. While I'm vc-ing him he says he wanted to buy a vape and I advices him that we're still young and it had nicotine.
I jokingly said I will told his mother that he plans to buy a vape, then he retaliated and said he will out me (I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW WHAT HIS PARENTS NAME BECAUSE I NEVER MET THEM!!!) I unfriended him so I can cool off then forgive him next day.
Instead of apologizing like a normal person, he doxxed my old account and posted it on his story, I chatted him and I said to him to take it down (which he complied) and starting apologizing and at that time I just completely blocked him. Then when Christmas break starts pumunta sya ng Laguna and just I ignored him. Little did I know he outed me to our circle of friends to make him the angel.
I just know that he outed me when my friend joy and Kate said it to me. And I will never forgive you Carl M.
Let the Karma do on its own.
I am one of those situation that you had.
Few people had outed me and that makes me to distant myself from them.
But guess what, whenever I distant myself from those people..
The same situation are keep crawling back to me but from different individuals.
That is why, I do felt that this is my shadow work, that we need to face to help us grow as a person.
Coz everytime that you are scared or anxious..
It attracts the negative vibes from the universe.. and pouring to your soul and mental health.
People will always have the tendency to rain on your parade.. but then, let just dance in the rain, if that matters. 🤗
I would have started swinging at him, good for you for being the bigger person though.
Hard to trust gay males. Their mouth's just.can't shut
wala bang Former Bandmates face each other
I second this. Iba ang nagagawang relationship sa banda eh.
Rico and bamboo?
kung pwede lang ganyan sa one direction
Yeah Bamboo and Rico Blanco
Or Noel Palomo and Wowie Flores
@@uhlekz or kahit nsync. Justin Timberlake vs 4 others.
2019 I came to visit Manila, my bff of 23 years that time(since we were 12 years old) and I had a fight that ended of me walking out of her house. I flew back to the country where I live a month after thinking it was over and I would never see her again. We've been through so much though but I thought I had to let go. March 2023 I came to Manila again for a vacation, out of nowhere I came across the playlist of an artist we both like(she sent it before). It's as if a sign that I should extend an olive branch. I spent the whole month of March thinking what to write or msg her. When I finally had the guts, it was a simple, "Hi, how are you?" The funny thing is she was also contemplating what to reply. She sent me a simple, "I'm okay...ikaw?" After that it was a back and forth of how much we missed US. And now I am staying at her house, spent my bday in the Philippines after 27 years with her and extending my vacation so we can make up for the lost time. I'm so grateful we're given this chance.🙏🏻💜
Friendships most often are very low maintenance. You would have been attracted with each other's preference and attitude - that's what you call wave length.
Friendships grow apart when you let external factors take over.
This story is very common. 2 teenage girls being impulsive in their actions, 1 being more prominent than the other.
New environment and new people have taken control. Trust was betrayed.
There is a longing to mend the friendship but the environment and the people who have taken control are still there.
Some learnings:
1. Trust is like a paper. You can never have it in the same state as before even if you recycle.
2. Your partner should influence you to see good in people. Yes, people can do stupid things at times that comes with your maturity level and that is normal. But doing good and seeing good things should be constant. If your partner cannot support you in goodness, how can your partner support you in the bad times?
3. Forgiveness is a choice. It has it's own time. Do not force it. And if you are ready to give it, remember to give and let go. It is not required to let them in again. Peace of mind is far more important than making peace if you are not ready.
Good luck to the both of you.
I like your insights about this specially the number 2. Sila dapat ang supportive lalo pa't nauna mo nameet friends and bestfriends mo.
Thank you Recreate sa mga diverse videos. Ito yung 2nd video about ex friendships na nakita ko here.
And ang ganda lang isipin na like romantic relationships, ibang level din yung idea ng friendship and na same level (or more for some) sya ng sakit pagnawala & nahiwalay.
I also broke up with my best friends this year because of 2 different reasons (2 best friends) kaya I cried watching this, I miss them. But there are reasons why things happen. I just have to move on. 🥺
To anyone that has not experienced, FO sa best friend feels like a break up sa jowa. Sakit at sobrang sayang.😥
I hope we can also get this chance. She suddenly stopped talking to me and even after reaching out many times, she still wouldn't respond, it happened when we went to our own college lives until now. I don't feel any anger against her and always wishes her well 😢
07:10 NAKAKATAWA tong si LEO dinedefend niya sarili niya na hindi siya yung nag bad mouth kundi ibang tao pero hinayaan mo pa din girl, dimo man lang dinefend kumabaga COOL ka na ganunin yung ex bestfriend mo lmao. "OMG I didnt know you were hurt" naka smile pa ang loka. Buti na lang nakahanap na ng true friends si Angela.
Parang mas bad influence pa yung bf ni ateng long hair haha
I miss my ex-bestfriend! If only we can turn back times!! Parang gusto ko rin iask sa kanya yung mga Q&A dito 😅🥲
from the moment Angela cried I burst out of tears also because I can feel her I’ve got betrayed also by my ex friends 😢
Anjan parin pagmamahal nila sa isat-isa. ❤️❤️❤️
people should know how deep and how long a painful memory would affect someone 😢
Grabe to naiyak ako. Kasi kahit sabihin na nilang OA ako, pero ang sakit kasi. Di to about sa love but about sa work.
@@whygee4921 actually romanticized lang talaga ang topic ng love for partners. Most people would expect you to handle "less dramatically" the pain caused by a friend, a parent, a child, in your case - work, or whoever we suddenly invest our emotion on to. For some, kahit acquaintance nga lang eh. That's why I really like the fact that many studies warn us not to invalidate one's feelings. Because regardless how other people sees your reaction, it is only you who really knows your truth.
Hindi ka OA. People just don't understand and share the same importance na ininvest mo sa work mo. They will make you feel na you are not handling your reaction well. It's just stereotyping. But, you know what? Release it. And if necessary, be intentional - to stay away from things that are causing you pain.
@@angelprincess7691 salamat. While reading this, na-realize ko, deserve ko ng inner peace. Salamat sayo. Naiiyak tuloy ako.
@@whygee4921 💗😊
nothing hurts more than losing a friend. hays. sana maibalik sa dati relationship nyo.
I feel like Angela already has a wall. She just wants peace and you know, move on. She doesnt necessarily want re friendship. Leo, on the other hand is genuine naman to be friends with her again.
Hope you both just move on and never be friends again. Dami issues.
true
Damn this one’s on another level. The emotion I felt after seeing just the title is different.
Somewhere in the haze, got a sense I've been betrayed...
Your finger on my hair pin triggers
Soldier down on that icy ground
Looked up at me with honor and truth
Broken and blue
Broken and blue
sisihin ang jowa ni gurl HAHAHSHAH
I have 2 ex best friends and it hurts kase ako lang yung nag rereach out and they never responded na... pero atleast ngayon, alam ko na.. na they are good with their lives without me. Ang tanging kasalanan ko lang ay ang maging mahirap.. di ko kase masabayan mga gala nila, mga naabot nila sa buhay, at ako lagi yung humihingi ng tulong... kaya it's like they got tired of me...
I have my own achievements naman, I became a mother, I landed on my dream job but not that high paying pero I am happy. But its like hindi yun enough para sa kanila.. Dapat katulad nila na nakakapunta sa Bora, may sariling bahay at sasakyan.. So they were never happy for my success kase hindi katulad ng naabot nila.
It just goes to show that we have different perspectives in life na and does not meet halfway anymore, so its just better na hindi na kami maging friends...
Basing from comments, I think we sometimes forget the power of forgiveness. We’re capable of that more than we think. Siguro it’s the Filipino value system in me din speaking but anyway..
I never liked siguro the concept of falling out and just making it another case of this or that. End of the day, unique parin ang friendship niyo and walang rulebook naman. (but yes may exceptions and absolutes pa rin)
Ofc di lang halata sa vid na to, and agree na guarded talaga vibes nila (esp Angela). Pero I wouldn’t dismiss the chance that they could be friends again. Siguro not the same as before, but friends nonetheless. Parang love transformed lng.
Anyway, dumaldal lng. Shoutout to my ka-fall outs lmao
It’s been a month since I last saw my closest ex-friend. I was hurt so many times but tried to understand that maybe it’s just because she’s taklase at di iniisip muna mga sinasabi niya. I forgave her many times kahit wala akong nareceive na sorry sa part niya because I treasured our friendship so much I tried to save it. Until one day, I realized I had enough. I realized that while I am trying to save our friendship, ako yung walang peace of mind, ako yung nagsuffer. Masakit pero sometimes in order for us to heal, we need to give up some relationships. The hardest part? Moving on. It always breaks my heart whenever I hear her name.
It's good that they talked about it but I don't think they need to rebuild their friendship. Mahihirapan lang sila and the cycle would still go on.
If they did rebuild their friendship, I hope they remove jealousy. Yung tipong if mananalo yung isa, mag seselos yung isa. Ang unhealthy din.
naiinis din ako sa mga toxic friend , kase nawawala yung bonding or trust ng isat isa kase sila ang real friend from before then from that ni lefr behind mo yung tai
“Trust is like glass, once broken it will never be the same again”
In conclusion, it was really because of Leo's boyfriend that crumbles the last thread of their friendship.
This hurt so bad hehe Ms. Angela is so me. Hugs!!! So proud of her.😭🖤
Wow… nakaka relate ako… masarap panoorin kasi parang nakakacomforting kapag alam mo na may ibang tao na narasan din yung na narasan mo… wishing healing for bothh kasi in truth may respeto panaman sila sa isa’t isa pero magka iba na sila ng mundo lol…
i think this kind of ganap with ex best friends is a nice way of two old friends getting to talk about there past like both of them having a closure or like going throwback to there memories from the past is something i kinda imagine having with my old friend now i just miss my old friend cause right now or since the day he left and went to a new school i never get a chance to talk or have a chance to chat him through fb or any social media accounts he might have
I had a close friend before (as in super close na tinuring ko ng kapatid) but we drifted apart due to some reasons. From best friends to strangers. It was painful on my part because she's like a sister to me and I really value her. Also, I love being with her (there's this euphoric feeling when we are together). I miss you so much my alter-ego. Hope you're well wherever you are. Maybe in a parallel universe we're still best friends.
Can you also do the girlfriend & boyfriend's friends? Or vice versa lol Hahah I bet that is fun!
The way leo describes her relationship with her bf is so tx for me 😭
I can definitely relate but somehow, even if I did a bad thing, my old besties did something worst by letting me go for just a guy they didn’t even know.
Pag pumasok na ung betrayal sa friendship,no more chances na talaga bilis na maka move on.. Darating talaga sa panahon na masasabi mo nalang na bestfriend mo nuon kilala mo nalang ngaun....
"ikaw yung root, but ikaw yung na left out" sigh. relate 100%
I wish I had real friends. I was never the favorite, and because of that I've unconsciously created a boundaries to everyone. It's so easy for me to trust, but easier to be left out. I've found friendship to older co-workers but I'm longing for someone my age whom I can talk to everytime.
Maayos man nila yung friendship nila but, I don't think it will be the same as before.
masakit kapag friendship ang nasira because i felt this betrayal🥲
While watching this, I remembered one of my closest friend who unfollowed me on IG and unfriended me on Facebook. Nakakalungkot isipin kasi I didn’t know why and what happened, bigla nlng kaming hindi nag usap then naging stranger kami sa isat isa. ☹️🥺
Same
Very same. Relate much.
This is heartbreaking, couldn't relate more. Different circumstances.
Dati iniisip ko kung ano yung posibleng maging cause kung bakit masisira ang friendship namin dati nung dati kong best friend. Gaya ba siya nung mga nasa stories na dahil sa love, yung mahuhulog sa iisang tao? No, it wasn't the reason. The reason, shockingly, is our different values. We've been bestfriends for more than 10 years, we stick together like glue, understood each other and love each other. Sometimes, I wondered what went wrong, what changed? Until I realized that it must have been her who changed and in the process, it also changed me. A lot of times, I tried to talk to her, tried to compromise in order to save our friendship but we always fight and end the conversation in a more painful way. I felt rejected, unwanted and somewhat betrayed. It affected me greatly, losing her gave me great pains. I didn't want to put her in the bad light because I didn't know her thoughts then, but now I know that there were really no 'her side', it was as is as I see it. In the end, what she really wanted was to grow. Sadly, for her, growing means being away from me and peace is being without me. It was really painful. Sobra. Until one day, narealize ko na ayoko na rin pala. I'm done, I guess. Nasagad na siguro ako. Ayoko na makipag-ayos. Kung ano meron kami ngayon, I suddenly found it comforting. Tanggap ko na ang sitwasyon. Dati lang talaga sobra akong nahirapan kasi palagi siya kasama sa mga plano ko, palaging kasama sa considerations and hesitations ko. Nahirapan lang ako mag-adjust noon kaya nasaktan ako ng sobra but now, I felt free. I became happy without her as well. If tatanungin ako kung gusto ko pa maging friends ulit kami? Oo, papayag ako pero wala na yung wanting na maging best friends ulit. It's not that I don't forgive her, I'm not mad at her in the first place. Ayoko lang na bumalik ako sa dati, ayoko na maging mundo ko siya ulit. Di na ako uulit, masyado ako nasaktan noon para hayaang mangyari ulit yun. I'm glad that I'm fine now, but I'm not ready to be her friend again. Sorry.
I hope they could do a ex-BROS/BUDS/PAR version. I wanna see how bros would handle this.
up for this
Totoo yung pakiramdam when you lost that special friend, I got hurt like physically, emotionally & mentally, and the worst part is I myself is the main reason..
True, just happened to me
You shouldn't be apologizing for your friends, let them do that themselves.
That right there is not a friend material. The minute she (Leo) said… they or she talked bad about her to her new friends and boyfriend was never a true friend from the get go. You should never replaced your old friend(s) with your new ones. They’ve known you the longest. And trusted. And you’ve been thru ups and downs of life In high school. And no matter what you should never talk behind your best friend. Staying loyal and trustworthy to a friend regardless if you have new friends is how you measure how true and loyal you are. You can pull away from the toxicity but you should never used that weakness against someone whom you consider your bestfriend
This episode made me cry. I pray maging ok na din kami. I tried to reconcile many times. I missed her 😭 b
Hoping me & my ex bestfriend will be invited in this. Its been 5 yrs na pala. She betrayed me kasi jinowa nya ex ko while I was still in pain & sa kanya ako nag shashare lahat lolz mas nasaktan ako sa breakup namin kesa breakup namin ng ex ko but now we have different lives na & i think we’re mature na rin. Leave the past behind. Great content! Sana meron sa Cebu.
There's something inside me that wants to burst because of deep pain. I miss my highschool best friend BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT HAPPENED TO US. If ever, youll gonna read this. I miss you Dars! You still have a special place inside my heart. The fact that I meet my husband because of you and he is your cousin. I love you Dars from afar and I am happy to all your achievements and your life now even if I am not already part of it. ❤
Hiwalayan yung boyfriend!! Hahhaa
Bat ganon ang mature ng vibes at looks nila at 23. Nung 23 ako parang batang yagit lang ako hahaha. And now at 30, yumaman lang ako pero di naman ako nag-mature. HAHAHA
Yagit din ako nung 23 ba't ganun 😅
At least may pera wahahaha
the boyfriend sounds so pakielamero
The real toxic I guess was Leo's new friends and bf. Hope they heal the wound of each other's heart
Mag ccomeback lang kayo kapag wala na kayo ng bf mong super controlling, but i hope you two can be friends again not now but it takes healing for the both of you.
If u really want ur bestfriend back, you should breakup with ur bf since he's the reason why ur friendship ended and still bad mouthed ur exbff kahit di na kayo friends.
So true. If her bf really loves her he should understand why they want to friends again. And people change, and normal pag highschool immature. Dapat Ang bf umintindi. Or maybe needs to find a more.mature bf. 23 is young and men are less mature.
true. parang si Angela lang nag grow sa kanila.
Agreed! Dagdag mo pa na lasang ipis yung corndog niya lol
why am i crying here?
but honestly i feel happy for both of them cos they got a chance to talk things out int he past.
choose to be happy.
im like angela here 🫣
😭 super relate , i also have an ex bestfriends, actually 2 ex bestfriends, one who betrayed me way back around 2016, and the other one was just recently, that was really heartbreaking because they broke my heart not just once,
Can relate to this. But im leo 😅 if i could i would undo what i did. Wala lang akong bf. I wish i could've been honest and told her instead of her finding out on social media. And i understand that she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. She felt betrayed coz we called each other bff tapos ayun. Ayokong mamilit, but i hope di na sya hurt sa ginawa ko. I'm happy she's thriving now. Yes i want to mend the friendship but I also don't wanna force her.
Grabe kayo recreate sobra akong natamaan dito sa episode na ito. Ako kaya kailan ang closure ko sa X ko. 11 years na feeling ko parang last year parin. 😢
I answered all the questions that was ask on this video. I was hoping that she would eventually see it. Here's our short story
We met in college. It was a Maritime School so majority of the students there are boys. We had a training where we will stay inside the campus for the entire month. That's when I knew her.
We were 8-10 cadettes sa batch na yun. Nung umpisa hindi naman talaga kami magkasundo. Mas naging close lang kami after the training. 😂
1. What was the first thing on your mind when you saw your ex-bestfriend?
~ ini-ignore ko yung feeling na kinakabahan ako. pero deep inside, sobrang daming tumatakbo sa isip ko kung ano ang best reaction na pwede kong ipakita. ( This was after 2 or 3 years mula nung naging FO kami. )
2. Say 3 things that are new in your life right now.
~ I am officially residing here in Pangasinan na, nakabili kasi kami ng property.
~ My partner and I are enjoying the buhay probinsya.
~ When you left me, I am grateful for Marge coz she's always there for me. ❣️
3. What were your favorite food trip moments in the past?
~ Sa MacDulo. 😅 Madami tayong memories dun. Di ko na kailangang isa-isahin. Most unforgettable ko is yung pinatikim mo ako ng balot. First time ko yun. Lol!
4. Have you missed each other?
~ Nung fresh pa, sobra kitang miss. 🥺 Hanggang sa natanggap ko na na wala kana talaga. 😥 ( Di pa siya patay. ) Nag make up nalang ako ng reason for my own sake. Para matanggap ko na talaga na FO na tayo. Ikaw? Hmmm. Di ko sure kung miss mo din ako.
5. In one sentence, tell each other why your friendship ended.
~ Hanggang ngayon clueless parin ako. 😅 Di ko nga alam kung paano tayo magbabati kasi wala naman tayong pinag awayan. Pero sobrang sariwa parin saakin nung araw na bigla mo nalang akong hindi kinausap. Parang I will never heal from our broken friendship. 💔
6. In what ways were you a bad friend.
~ I was always there for you, alam mo yan. Until I met Jim. You know naman our story. Alam mo kung gaano ka importante itong tao na 'to saakin. I need to give my full undivided attention sa relationship namin para mag work yun. I became a bad friend kasi I left you out. 😔 I know there are times na you wanted to see me but I can't. But for the record, I was so jealous and happy at the same time, nung nakikita kitang nagkakaroon nang new friends.
7. In what ways were you a good friend.
~ I don't have one on my list anymore. I started to question everything simula nung iniwan mo ako sa ERE. Umabot na nga sa point na takot na akong makipag kaibigan sa iba kasi pakiramdam ko, iiwan lang din ako. 😅
8. Did you ever expect that you wouldn't be friends anymore?
~ Yes. I finally accepted the reality na tapos na talaga. We tried di ba? Pero sorry kasi hindi ko talaga alam kung paano tayo maayos. Kasi nga wala naman tayong pinag awayan. Hinihiling ko nga, na sana meron tayong reason. Para kapag may nagtanong may isasagot naman ako. 🙃 And I don't have to make an alibi for myself para maka move on.
9. How would you have described the friendship you had?
~ I would have described it as my favorite. You were my favorite person. Madami akong kaibigan na tinabla noon but you were never one of those. Ibang klase yung future na nakikita ko sa friendship natin. I imagine pa dati na you would be my maid of honor sa wedding ko, ikaw magiging ninang ng mga anak ko at we will travel together with our own future family. Ganun! Tapos lahat yun nawala lang ng parang bula. 🥺
10. Did I cry when our friendship ended?
~ Oh myyyy. You have no idea. I even questioned my worth. 😓
11. What kinds of things would you have done together if you stayed friends?
~ More midnight road trips. Tapos maghahanap ng makakainan. 😅
12. Have your ex-friend impacted your life in anyway?
~ Yes! Nagkaroon ako ng phobia na makipag kaibigan. Kasi kung yun ngang taong pinagkatiwalaan ko ng sobra, tinabla ako. Dun pa kaya sa bago? Hahaha lol.
13. Would you ever be friends again?
~ I don't think so. Kasi yung reason na binigay ko sa sarili ko para matanggap yung break up natin is " Hindi mo tunay na kaibigan yan. Kasi kung tunay yan di niya yan magagawa sayo! "
Hindi mo alam kung gaano ko katagal pinaniwala yung sarili ko sa linyang yan. Ilang puyat, ilang iyak at ilang tanong kung napano tayo. Bakit mo nagawa saakin yun? 😭
14. Finally name a fond memory you have from one of your summer together?
~ I don't have anything in mind. Kasi Wala naman tayong summer outingi . But one of the best memory na hindi ko makakalimutan is yung nag sorry ka saakin. Akala mo Kasi nung una, mataray ako, malandi , maharot. Pero nung nakilala mo ako ng lubusan, you said sorry because I was completely different from the person na inakala mo. ♥️
I am grateful for you and for the memories that we had. But I don't want to risk anything anymore. I miss you Yohj. And I'm sorry kasi hindi ko na alam kung paano tayo magiging magkaibigan ulit. 😢☹️
what a friendship
sna mging ok na and 4ever ang friendship yon
na miss ko tuloy mga friends ko😢😂😂😂