Hey Matt! I really like the way you talk in your videos: very paused, you take your time to say what you want to say and most important: you clearly stick to the point. Really love it! Apart from the video content of course! Keep it going!
Definitely don’t force any connections for sure, and always be yourself. I was married for four years to my (now) ex husband and we connected very well… but only after a little practice with each other, and an understanding of where the other one was going in life. Knowing physical roles was important too for the bedroom. I was always bottom, never top. He had to feel comfortable knowing that I wouldn’t be imposing myself in a way he wouldn’t like. But anyway, always appreciate each other and what you bring to the table 😊❤
I disagree that you shouldn't change yourself. Everyone changes themselves all the time, even healthy minded people. Compromise is key to a healthy relationship
@@samuelforce7883 I meant don’t change who you are on a fundamental level just to appease someone else or get someone to like you. It’s important to be your authentic self rather than putting on a facade. Of course we grow and change and need to adapt, but don’t change who you are as a person.
@matthewscorner2000 I think I miscommunicated. I believe people change themselves alot perhaps even fundamentally just to appease others. I think that's healthy
@@matthewscorner2000 to be fair, I think your right that would be for the best for our own health. Maybe I'm biased since I do change myself for others to please them. Maybe you're right
Nice job man! You are a very good speaker, and I appreciate you sharing your experience. If you would like to collaborate on RUclips content, then let me know! Just subscribed!
one other thing that might be helpful: realize that both of you are on your best behavior before getting all infatuated. everybody has flaws. some people are good at concealing them until it's too late. don't expect their flaws to get better just because of you. but yeah, bars. one of the real drags of gay dating now is that apps are extremely reductive. what you look like, how big your dick is, whether you're a top or a bottom. it's rather dehumanizing imo. if you're just looking for a casual hookup, fine but if you're looking for more the filter is way too restrictive, imo. bars are by no means perfect, but at least there's a little mystery and allow you to pick up on personality cues that apps can't provide. my husband of 30 years probably would never have met up with me in an app, but we met at a bar and I was able to work my charm :)
I’m not gay but I love the part where you say be yourself
Matthew, you come across as a really lovely and thoughtful young man. I wish you all the happiness you wish for yourself. Just subscribed 👌
thats great advice and we all need to hear that!
You should stream or something lol.. i'd hear you all day your voice is so soothing
I will on tiktok :)
@@matthewscorner2000 i was watching it the other day and it got terminated or something i was so confused lol. but ill be there ofc wont miss it
@@絶句-法律 Yes of course, I may go live on instagram as well :)
Great first video. I love the advice.
Great points Matthew.
Ive had 2 long term relationships. I’ve been single now though for 5 years and 42 I’ll be 43 this month.
I hope you find someone for you if thats what you want, things happen when you least expect
Thanks for your reminder!!! ❤❤❤
It is good that you are learning this early. It took me a lifetime to learn.
Hey Matt! I really like the way you talk in your videos: very paused, you take your time to say what you want to say and most important: you clearly stick to the point. Really love it! Apart from the video content of course! Keep it going!
Definitely don’t force any connections for sure, and always be yourself. I was married for four years to my (now) ex husband and we connected very well… but only after a little practice with each other, and an understanding of where the other one was going in life. Knowing physical roles was important too for the bedroom. I was always bottom, never top. He had to feel comfortable knowing that I wouldn’t be imposing myself in a way he wouldn’t like. But anyway, always appreciate each other and what you bring to the table 😊❤
Great advice, my fiance and i have been together 7 years
Where do we apply to be your boyfriend
I also want to apply! ❤
Hey Matthew 👋, that is some awesome advice 😀 for those looking for a friend 🧡 to have a relationship 😀 with!🎉❤😮
I disagree that you shouldn't change yourself. Everyone changes themselves all the time, even healthy minded people. Compromise is key to a healthy relationship
@@samuelforce7883 I meant don’t change who you are on a fundamental level just to appease someone else or get someone to like you. It’s important to be your authentic self rather than putting on a facade. Of course we grow and change and need to adapt, but don’t change who you are as a person.
@matthewscorner2000 maybe. Who I am is a facade. It's been like that a while
@matthewscorner2000 I think I miscommunicated. I believe people change themselves alot perhaps even fundamentally just to appease others. I think that's healthy
@ Ah, got it. I guess we disagree.
@@matthewscorner2000 to be fair, I think your right that would be for the best for our own health. Maybe I'm biased since I do change myself for others to please them. Maybe you're right
Gained a new subscriber ✌️
@@kled89 thanks! :)
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The only time I feel a natural connection is when I'm with curious guys unfortunately
Wait. Did I just hear you say to watch out for the gay-curious guy? Mathew is learning as he goes:)
Well I’ve tryed reaching out and no luck so good luck with everything take care
Here to hear if shit is the same on the other side
Ditch the headphones
Okay but we were all at some point curious
Weren't we
Its normal to help someone explore that with them
I wouldnt mind
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please fix your microphone, the volume on this was too low, thanks :)
Yeah, I'm going to start filming on my phone, my mic sucks on my pc :(
Nice job man! You are a very good speaker, and I appreciate you sharing your experience.
If you would like to collaborate on RUclips content, then let me know! Just subscribed!
Where are you from? I am trying to place your accent, it is either northern Midwest or West coast, I think.
one other thing that might be helpful: realize that both of you are on your best behavior before getting all infatuated. everybody has flaws. some people are good at concealing them until it's too late. don't expect their flaws to get better just because of you.
but yeah, bars. one of the real drags of gay dating now is that apps are extremely reductive. what you look like, how big your dick is, whether you're a top or a bottom. it's rather dehumanizing imo. if you're just looking for a casual hookup, fine but if you're looking for more the filter is way too restrictive, imo. bars are by no means perfect, but at least there's a little mystery and allow you to pick up on personality cues that apps can't provide. my husband of 30 years probably would never have met up with me in an app, but we met at a bar and I was able to work my charm :)
I have been looking for a Boyfriend still am from Ohio
Good luck you will find someone things happen when you least expect it
ur adorable
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it's definitely harder to find people when you're straight
That’s not true. Straight people have the numbers advantage. Also living in a heteronormative society helps.