I just watched your video with Jennifer, the daily connoisseur and I had to find you. I loved your video and you have such a beautiful way about you. You are super likeable and have such a great energy. Thank you so much! 😍
Myka, I had a snarly remark from a FB person which was uncalled for. I told him, "There is a book called Etiquette Made Easy' , you might benefit from reading this book. Have a wonderful day.!!!!!!!
Hi Myka, I love your channel! Please consider doing a video on dealing with touchy-feely people in a polite way while delineating one’s personal boundaries. (At work, I’m trying to avoid certain clients….who keep putting their hands on my lower back and planting wet kisses on my cheek when I say hello to them!!!🤢) It’s not only creepy/disrespectful but I think it’s the reason I keep getting sick. Whatever happened to the good ol’ days of curtsying (for ladies) and bowing (for gentlemen)?! Much obliged, V.
You can rock a red lip Myka! Could you please do a video on meeting someone who is admired/accomplished in their field, and how to ask questions or express appreciation for their work without coming across trite or opportunistic?
I love your channel because, I can see your personality and elegance at the same time, which sometimes in elegance it's hard to be yourself and be elegant at the same time, you just showed us that we can be both.
THIS is gold! This is what I see in you and what I wanted to achieve too!! But I couldn't understand how.. You are radiant, positive, you are all things you said and I love your charisma! I will work on it! I'm so happy and exited now! ! Thanx Myka!😘
LOVE LOVE LOVE this kind of content Myka and SO needed. Im a mother of 3 & I am going to get my girls to listen to you. I’m with you on the gossip and insults. Why do we do this to people?
Thank you for watching!! Yes, 2020 felt like a great year to finally start it with WFH and quarantine 😂. I’m so glad you’re enjoying it, more to come in 2021! ❤️
That you again.. I am so happy, that I’ve discovered you… That was so nice. And I would like to add that is nice to make people feel good and bring joy to them… I like it, when there is a surrounding … Greetings from Germany!🌞🍀💙
So Helpful! Thank you so much for giving this for free, If you only know how many people you've helped, and I'm one of them. You're an answered prayer haha ❤ I'm just starting to watch all of your videos from the past and I know I will learn more along the way. Can't wait for this new transformation that's waiting, all possible because of people like you, thank you ❤
Helloooo sooo now i understood why some ladies in my circle are so likable. Because whatever they say always smile also when they say bad things to me with a smile all our friends they never notice what exactly they said!!! And they are likable because they do questions they never speak about them and they do a lot of compliments 😂😂😂😂 now i now 💪🏻
Thank you Myka! I was so happy to see you had a another video! I enjoy them and find your tips very useful! I am the one who talks a million miles a minute- I have been this way since forever! How can I slow down? I Almost feel I have to hurry what I am saying and say what I need to say before the person gets bored and has to go. Thanks so much!❤️🤍❤️
An instant energy boosting tip : massage your both ears quite strongly with your hands up and down and into each little cranny; do'nt tear them off but do it quite energetically until they're hot and red. This is recommended by many osteopath or energetician practitioners. It works ! Just beware not to tear your earrings out !
That’s so funny that you should say that about energy when entering a party. I always have people approach me and I guess that’s why because I have energy and am upbeat and laughing. I was a hairdresser for 30 years so I can talk to anybody. I love these tips. Sometimes people forget certain things and they get stale. New York is a very social place. I’ve never been there but if I ever go I’m staying at the plaza.
I have the challenge often of being friendly at a party and then having men think I’m interested in them or follow me around a lot and get the wrong idea. How do I be friendly and polite and not give mixed signals? I don’t have women in my close circle who are good at this and I could use some help with phrases or body language options.
I love your channel. I already feel more elegant and put together while im sitting in bed eating gold fish. I’m going to rock my next social experience though
INFJ here. I think since I'm nervous about talking so I will hog a whole conversation due to anxiety- I'm just going to listen to people, I mean they are interesting. Once as a teen at a party everyone was laughing because the dad was just gabbing his life story to me-PLUS people remember you and like you when you listen-that's my game plan
Thank you for the informative video. But I always try to show interest and ask questions and the more I do that the more they show no interest in me and act like I'm some sort of weirdo.. That's why I don't do that anymore with everyone. Only with open minded
To whoever is reading this know that you are loved. You are important and God has a purpose for your life. So many people lost their lives to COVID but God spared us. It’s time to change how we show up in the world. Walk in your calling! How many signs do you need? You are Chosen!
Tell them you're looking for serious commitment and talk about your cats. That's a tough one. It's not possible. Same as it's not possible to compliment a woman on how she looks. You look blah blah this idiot must think he's got any chance with me. What a loser. I told a random woman as I passed the other way that I liked her coat colour. She said thank you. I didn't want anything else - it can happen. I wasn't interested. I just liked the coat. There's a lot of books out there that relate to your question - it's a big one trying to explain all of these social relationship behaviour dynamics. For me it's usually fairly obvious if a woman is interested or not. But then I love all of this human behaviour nonsense.
Good question! I often get to hear Iam flirting. But I feel I talk the same regardless of gender. Come to think of it gay women have also thought Iam flirting...
Too be honest I was always very likebable but being likebable also means that people might be very jealous about you. I remember in school that I was very likebable by guys and still I have good contact with men and unfortunately other girls were jealous and they were mean to me. Thankfully it's past and in school I met a girl who is now the love of my life so it wasn't all bad but likebable people unfortunately need to deal with jealous people sometimes.
I tried these and they seem to work well but when I went over to the bar some people asked me, "aren't you the guy that was doing jumping jacks in one of the men's room stalls?" -- so I just sat in the corner and pretended to text the rest of the evening.
Your Intro is way louder then the actually video… for someone who wears headphones it’s extremely painful. I usually stream videos in the background while working.. Jait a FYI
I like your tips. Honestly, it would be hard for me to approach you because you sound quite...well.. like my 1st grade teacher. I'd be worried that you'd yell at me. 😅
It can be overwhelming at first! If you start one at a time and continue down the list, soon you’ll feel even more confident! ❤️❤️ Thank you for watching!!
Doesn’t make sense that you allow comments on RUclips but not on TikTok. For this reason alone I have no intention of subscribing or following you on any platform.
I just watched your video with Jennifer, the daily connoisseur and I had to find you. I loved your video and you have such a beautiful way about you. You are super likeable and have such a great energy. Thank you so much! 😍
Interesting that you call the phone an adult comfort blanket. I call it the electronic pacifier!
As someone who gets super tense in social situations- this will help
Will this really? “Higher ur energy?” -> it will only help you drain ur energy and hate interactions after social situations.
Myka, I had a snarly remark from a FB person which was uncalled for. I told him, "There is a book called Etiquette Made Easy' , you might benefit from reading this book. Have a wonderful day.!!!!!!!
These tips are so valuable and I can’t wait to get back out so I can use them! I look so forward to your videos every week ❤️
Hi Myka, I love your channel! Please consider doing a video on dealing with touchy-feely people in a polite way while delineating one’s personal boundaries. (At work, I’m trying to avoid certain clients….who keep putting their hands on my lower back and planting wet kisses on my cheek when I say hello to them!!!🤢) It’s not only creepy/disrespectful but I think it’s the reason I keep getting sick. Whatever happened to the good ol’ days of curtsying (for ladies) and bowing (for gentlemen)?! Much obliged, V.
You can rock a red lip Myka! Could you please do a video on meeting someone who is admired/accomplished in their field, and how to ask questions or express appreciation for their work without coming across trite or opportunistic?
I love your channel because, I can see your personality and elegance at the same time, which sometimes in elegance it's hard to be yourself and be elegant at the same time, you just showed us that we can be both.
I want to be more elegant however don't want to be pretentious . You do seem approachable & vivacious . Thank you.
THIS is gold! This is what I see in you and what I wanted to achieve too!! But I couldn't understand how..
You are radiant, positive, you are all things you said and I love your charisma! I will work on it! I'm so happy and exited now! ! Thanx Myka!😘
LOVE LOVE LOVE this kind of content Myka and SO needed. Im a mother of 3 & I am going to get my girls to listen to you. I’m with you on the gossip and insults. Why do we do this to people?
Thank you, Very helpful info, especially for someone who has always been painfully shy and awkward at parties!
Thank you for this video-it made my day, and I can’t wait to try out what I’ve learned once I start leaving the house again.
I got to the first point: walking into a party... brilliant! Thank you!
I love your enthusiasm and passion I do have all your books and I am enjoying them enormously.l
Thank you so much! 💕 I’m so thrilled you are loving my books! 🥰
U actually have the tips, and not just have the tips, u have the best of em.
Great videos! Just realized how new your channel is when I went to browse through your content. Can't wait to see more!
Thank you for watching!! Yes, 2020 felt like a great year to finally start it with WFH and quarantine 😂. I’m so glad you’re enjoying it, more to come in 2021! ❤️
That you again.. I am so happy, that I’ve discovered you… That was so nice.
And I would like to add that is nice to make people feel good and bring joy to them… I like it, when there is a surrounding …
Greetings from Germany!🌞🍀💙
The golden tips. I’m so happy I follow your Chanel. You are a genius. Perfect
Oh my goodness thank you! 😘
This was great information. I always get so much out of your videos.
I am watching this video whenever I do the ironing, love it!
Amazing! Multitasking at its finest!! I’m so glad you’re enjoying it! 🥰❤️
So many great tips that get me ready for my next social event. Thank you so much!
So Helpful! Thank you so much for giving this for free, If you only know how many people you've helped, and I'm one of them. You're an answered prayer haha ❤ I'm just starting to watch all of your videos from the past and I know I will learn more along the way. Can't wait for this new transformation that's waiting, all possible because of people like you, thank you ❤
Love ! love this lady ♡︎♡︎♡︎, you r so genuine and your tips are so helpful, u radiate so much positivity and honestly u r so selfless
xoxo ♡︎
That video. Oh my. It's just perfect! So glad I found you! 🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷
Thanks so much! So happy I found your channel.
Helloooo sooo now i understood why some ladies in my circle are so likable. Because whatever they say always smile also when they say bad things to me with a smile all our friends they never notice what exactly they said!!! And they are likable because they do questions they never speak about them and they do a lot of compliments 😂😂😂😂 now i now 💪🏻
I just bought your book. I am so excited to read about more tips!
Thank you Myka! I was so happy to see you had a another video! I enjoy them and find your tips very useful! I am the one who talks a million miles a minute- I have been this way since forever! How can I slow down? I Almost feel I have to hurry what I am saying and say what I need to say before the person gets bored and has to go. Thanks so much!❤️🤍❤️
Lady Myka, if I had curls I would be showing them off!
I love your tips here, practical and excellent advice.
you are awesome and insightful!
Great tips. Thanks Myka!!
Facial awareness is very helpful as I believe that Im smiling from the reception that I receive I am starting to think this is not the case!
I just love your videos! They are always full of such great tips and you are just such a ray of sunshine to watch! Thank you for the great advice!
You truly look and sound very elegant, inspiring
Thank you so much for the tips ,pls can you use loud speaker so I can hear you very well.
So good! Your videos and book have helped me so much! I can't wait to attend the intensive with you in the Fall!
These tips are SO helpful! Thank you! Love your videos!
Love this, so many great tips! More videos on likability please!
Nice song at the start of your video:))
I'm looking forward to using these with my students with social language delays. Thanks!
An instant energy boosting tip : massage your both ears quite strongly with your hands up and down and into each little cranny; do'nt tear them off but do it quite energetically until they're hot and red. This is recommended by many osteopath or energetician practitioners. It works ! Just beware not to tear your earrings out !
That’s so funny that you should say that about energy when entering a party. I always have people approach me and I guess that’s why because I have energy and am upbeat and laughing. I was a hairdresser for 30 years so I can talk to anybody. I love these tips. Sometimes people forget certain things and they get stale. New York is a very social place. I’ve never been there but if I ever go I’m staying at the plaza.
Awesome tips
I have the challenge often of being friendly at a party and then having men think I’m interested in them or follow me around a lot and get the wrong idea. How do I be friendly and polite and not give mixed signals? I don’t have women in my close circle who are good at this and I could use some help with phrases or body language options.
Excellent question. I finally had to break a bad habit of being too smiley or friendly to strangers. Guys can get the wrong idea.
I love your channel. I already feel more elegant and put together while im sitting in bed eating gold fish. I’m going to rock my next social experience though
Iam eating lemon Meringue ice cream 😄
@@user-wj3yr7xr2f And I bet you ate it in an elegant way haha!
I'll keep watching this one
So great, I can’t even tell you :)
🥰 Thank you so much for watching!
Question: I'm an introvert. Do you have any advice on how to do this authentically?
INFJ here. I think since I'm nervous about talking so I will hog a whole conversation due to anxiety- I'm just going to listen to people, I mean they are interesting. Once as a teen at a party everyone was laughing because the dad was just gabbing his life story to me-PLUS people remember you and like you when you listen-that's my game plan
Alcohol. Liquor courage
the sister i dont have😭😍😍❤
Thank you for the informative video. But I always try to show interest and ask questions and the more I do that the more they show no interest in me and act like I'm some sort of weirdo.. That's why I don't do that anymore with everyone. Only with open minded
Thankyou.
You are Amazing! 🥰
Which are your backpocket 3?
What are your in your back pocket 3 questions to ask??
To whoever is reading this know that you are loved. You are important and God has a purpose for your life. So many people lost their lives to COVID but God spared us. It’s time to change how we show up in the world. Walk in your calling! How many signs do you need? You are Chosen!
How do you do this with men so they don't think you're romantically interested & start pursuing you?
Tell them you're looking for serious commitment and talk about your cats.
That's a tough one. It's not possible. Same as it's not possible to compliment a woman on how she looks. You look blah blah this idiot must think he's got any chance with me. What a loser.
I told a random woman as I passed the other way that I liked her coat colour. She said thank you. I didn't want anything else - it can happen. I wasn't interested. I just liked the coat.
There's a lot of books out there that relate to your question - it's a big one trying to explain all of these social relationship behaviour dynamics. For me it's usually fairly obvious if a woman is interested or not. But then I love all of this human behaviour nonsense.
Good question! I often get to hear Iam flirting. But I feel I talk the same regardless of gender. Come to think of it gay women have also thought Iam flirting...
Too be honest I was always very likebable but being likebable also means that people might be very jealous about you. I remember in school that I was very likebable by guys and still I have good contact with men and unfortunately other girls were jealous and they were mean to me. Thankfully it's past and in school I met a girl who is now the love of my life so it wasn't all bad but likebable people unfortunately need to deal with jealous people sometimes.
I tried these and they seem to work well but when I went over to the bar some people asked me, "aren't you the guy that was doing jumping jacks in one of the men's room stalls?" -- so I just sat in the corner and pretended to text the rest of the evening.
Hey there! Are you german? Or have german roots?
Your Intro is way louder then the actually video… for someone who wears headphones it’s extremely painful. I usually stream videos in the background while working.. Jait a FYI
I also find the music too loud.
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Did you know wearing your hair like that is not good for it 💇.......
With the virus going on..people hardly approach others due to fears of getting sick!🤔
We are actually back to normal in Sweden. I have church this weekend and a friends 40ths birthday. Which country are you from?
Great tips👍 However I think that shaking hands will change after 🦠 pandemic.
🦋 Gracias 🇨🇺 🍮 ☕️ 🐞 🧿
I lke to be sweet.
I like your tips.
Honestly, it would be hard for me to approach you because you sound quite...well.. like my 1st grade teacher. I'd be worried that you'd yell at me. 😅
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Just watching this is giving me anxiety attacks.
It can be overwhelming at first! If you start one at a time and continue down the list, soon you’ll feel even more confident! ❤️❤️ Thank you for watching!!
Same here. Iam already thinking about how Iam going to give myself selfcare after the next outing.
Nice surrounding… sorry
Coud you Speak a littel faster please?
Doesn’t make sense that you allow comments on RUclips but not on TikTok. For this reason alone I have no intention of subscribing or following you on any platform.
Thank you so much! These are great tips!
I’m so glad you enjoy them 💕💕💕