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Thank you this was what I needed to hear. I pray to be set free of chains of toxicity, confusion and mental script patterns. Please Jesus help me to forgive.
God is faithful always. I have been praying that God reveals His purpose for my life. I grew up in a very toxic family, always the black sheep, now I rejoice in this revelation. I pray that God uses me to bring healing, forgiveness, and restoration to disfunction in my family and that of my children and grandchildren. Thank you so much.
God is so amazing. I asked Him yesterday, “Lord, why did I have to be born into such an awful family?” Then this is in my feed this morning. Thank You, Father.
So I guess I missed my chosen mission. I was the scapegoat and rejected by my mother. Unlike many chosen ones, I learned to hate myself and internalize resentment, betrayals, criticisms, emotional pain. Only now, 6 decades later, am I seeing that I am worthy, do not have to please and accommodate everyone else, or deny myself love. It has cost me extensively. I am ready for peace.
I completely understand, I am the oldest of 5 and I have never had a childhood and I have never learned to love myself or anyone else properly, I have always taken care of everyone around me but I have never had anyone take care of me,ever.
A gift is a gift. It does not always come wrapped up with a big beautiful bow. It comes as pain to transform us into stronger more dignified people. Thank you Jesus for all your gifts. And so it is!
Trauma and abuse are not a gift. Loving your abusers is Stockholm’s syndrome. Repeatedly forgiving those who hurt you and want to destroy you is being dumb and having no discernment
@@hautecouture2228forgiveness =/= acceptance. Forgiving is saying "im choosing to heal from the bitterness i rightfully feel and will take my time healing and giving it to God." That doesn’t mean letting that person stay in your life, or even liking them.
@@hautecouture2228 The comment says pain is a gift. It's our very suffering that God uses to refine us through. Forgiveness isn't tolerating abuse. It's releasing the abuser so our own emotional damage can be freed. GBY 🙏
@@hautecouture2228based on what you got from that comment you are going through or have been through some horrible times. The person who arose the comment is probably on the other side of it while you are still in it because they didn’t say anything about abuse being acceptable. I pray for your healing and will one day be on the other side of it.
Growing up wasn't the best. But I know that my mom done the best she could, with 3 girls. Even my adult life hasn't been the best either. My kids are grown, with their own kids. My relationship with my 3 kids isn't really good either, not even my grandchildren really don't have anything to do with me. But I keep pushing forward. I have faith that one day God is going to make my situation better. God bless everyone have a blessed day
Reading your comment, is like I’ve written it myself 😊. It’s that me too moment. May God Bless you abundantly, and Mother Mary watch over you and your family. Sending love ❤️ 🙏✝️ and prayers.
Yes! You're doing what God wants us to do. Stay faithful, prayerful, thankful and obedient to God's word! and continue to walk in LOVE. Family situations/dynamics will change for the good according to God'a timing. Trust God ! Be blessed!. Shalom......
Thank you so much for all Sermons. It was just timely. God sees our crying and loneliness and sends Angels to give us hope and peace. May God bless you!
Thank you for your channel. I was the oldest parentified child with two emotionally immature parents. One was a schizophrenic alcoholic, the other a narcissistic womanizer who left our mother when we were very young. He was married and divorced five times and only his needs mattered. My siblings now treat me the same way our parents did. This was modeled for them. Thankfully with lots of therapy and God’s word I am healing from being scapegoated by them all. As David said in Psalm 69, I am a foreigner in my own family and a stranger to my own mother’s children. I am not alone. I am in good company!
I'm so sorry for what you've had to endure. I'm so glad you have God's word and therapy to bring you healing and comfort. I am grateful for God for providing these similar things in my own life.
Yes, thank you 🙏 so very much. Reading some of the comments here I realise I’m not alone, I’m so grateful for your podcast, it’s enlightening and inspiring, gives me hope and encouragement, God Bless you and all who listen. ✝️🙏🥰❤️🤗
I asked God why he chose the parents I had. Mom was a narc and dad never stood up to her. I was the target, and my sisters were the golden ones. Im currently trying to heal from what my parents did . Now, my sisters are using my one daughter as the flying monkey. I told her not to play their game.
I grow up in a toxic family as well with abusive dad physically and emotionally. I was heartbroken rejected in a lot of pain and brokenness, that lead me to the broken relationship and marriage. God finally pulled me out of this Egypt and taking me to the promised land that He is always soo good to us and on our side and using all this brokenness to break healing to others.
I grew up in a big dysfunctional family environment. Today I finally felt the reassurance of God's purpose in my life after listening to this wonderful sermon. I am glad to be a part of God's Plan as stated in Jeremiah 29:11. I have endured long adverse emotional pain of rejection, oppression and loneliness from most of my family members because of my faith in God. However, I am glad to have received Jesus Christ into my life forty years ago. Jesus grant me strength and endurance to weather through my difficult journey during my lifetime and transformed them to purpose for my surviving family members, making me to be the light to break the generational darkness. AMEN!!!
I grew up in 1 such family, I walked away. 50 years later I come back and ask why I went through what I went through and HE taught me to see how the spirit of evil works instead. Through that I understood why I became who I am. You can ask GOD for things you may want but He doesn't always give the answer you expect but what you need instead. He gave me understanding that taught me why I became who I became in the end. We should be careful what we ask for at times, we can learn things we might wish we never had but the lessons can be more profoundly eye opening, if we are willing to listen and learn.
Yes be careful what you ask for. I asked God to reveal and remove toxic people from my life, and within a few months I lost my family, my best friend and a group of friends that said they were my family. God revealed the wolves in sheep clothing and they turned people against me.
@@Cara96 What would I have really known as a child, The understanding I speak off is how HE revealed the reasons behind it all after I came back to the LORD 40 years later. Helped me to understand the reasoning for what happened without placing blame. As well as pointing out all the lessons I learned because of it and the need to stand alone at that age.
@@MsSunshine-cw3oj I would say that by removing them He removed their influence over you, keeping you on the straight path. I came out of childhood with a level of discernment and since seen all the bad as they approach, instead of after when I have to deal with them. Sometimes there are reasons that we never see at the time.
@@Cara96 The spirit of the AC in this world and has always been in this world. Lies and deceits because of jealousy by an older sister was my childhood persecution. She had my parents believing her lies and so I was to blame for everything that went wrong. My younger brother was turned into a weapon resulting in "your sister is too old and responsible and your brother to young and innocent so it must have been you." my childhood in a nutshell because of sibling jealousy. Our own weakness leaves us open to that compulsion and why we need HIS strength to stand through it all. Edit:- I should have said walked away from GOD because of this. And come back 40 yrs later. I walked away with this question "How can there be a loving GOD that would allow this to happen to a child? and I fell because I lost faith as my life fell into a cycle of hate. The spirit of the AC corrupting the world through personal influence. My sister never had faith while my parents where left open by Catholic false doctrine.
Oh Lord Jesus why was I born into an unloving neglectful family? I want a loving caring family but I don’t know if I’ll ever have one. I knew I never wanted to be like my family and the sinful acts and words they speak. I give praise to you God for strength that kept all I endured from breaking me. My grandma teaching me how to live in Christ Jesus. It was your calling on me to learn to my grandmother growing in the will to break the cycle of pain, hurtful and toxic feelings and anger. Healing me to serve you today. I know in Christ Jesus there’s a greater purpose you have for me using my past for good. What a blessing this video is thank you 😊🙏
@@nanettebates6864 I had a grandmother that was there for me too. She protected me as much as she could, but I always had to go back to that house, a childhood of fear, and never knowing what was coming the next day..
I prayed and my Mama gave me this! She was one of those people I felt this way about in ways but learned .... He is so becoming of anything else I amangoned! She is the one who taught me first of his love and even there was a Beautiful all forgiving God!!
I embrace God's shaping, molding , and His preparing me to go through the fire of life's challenges, pain, hurt, and adversity,. I persevere knowing that my life's divine purpose is near! AMEN!! To God be the glory.......
Thank you for this message. Everything now makes sense. I have an going through the furnace from birth. Not sure when it will end or if I van persevere till the end. Please, pray for me.
It helps to see others come out the fire unscathed. I literally asked God to keep me praising in the flames this morning ❤God help you dear friend please Lord you know the situation I pray you intercede on their behalf in ways only you can and please Lord save that one closest to hell in Jesus name amen
I sent this to my mother, hopefully now she will understand my forgiveness. And hopefully through Christ we can forgive where our shackles kept us from seeing his light. Lord I pray, let my mother feel your grace. Let her put down divination and trust in you alone. I’m eternally grateful My God. You seen it all, and you’ve seen the chains I broke free from... now for the rest. Please Lord, smoking isn’t in your will. Breaking family curses, and breaking free from extreme Feminism so Young was hard. And took incredible courage. Now if only I could break the smaller chains xxxxxx
AMEN, LORD YOUR WILL BE DONE IN MY LIFE. MY SOUL CPNNECTED TO MY TOXIC FAMILY. YOU KNEW I HAD STRENGTH TO DEAL WITH IT. I ALWAYS RAN TO YOU FOR HELP. I WILL CONTINUE TO DO IT. YOU STRENGTH OVERTOOK ALL MY WEAKNESSES. GLORY
Thank you for your encouraging message…it’s a reminder that God has always been with me especially in the lonely days of my childhood…I can look back and see how He carried me through the darkness into the light to freedom in Christ…beauty for ashes is available to all who seek His will for their lives no matter what they’ve endured…He continues to restore me with grace and love..amen❤
I was talking to my husband about this very thing this morning and this video affirmed my thoughts. Praise God! He is using the internet to guide us in ways that were not foreseen!! 🙏✝️
The Lord has revealed my toxic family to me as far back as I could remember. I remember at a very young age I think 🤔 around 5 I use to go out and sit on the porch and look at the stars and pray for God to take me. I run away from my toxic mom and went to a boarding school in a country where I didn’t know anyone “USA 🇺🇸” and it was a blessing. I always kept my faith and from the day I was born I was not supposed to survive. I was told that I would not be able to live long countless times. I even survived 9/11 and all through his protection my entire life. I do know that I am here for a reason and that my calling is to make a difference in people’s lives suffering from whatever in ways that I can help. That means the world to me. Thank you ❤🙏🏽
So beautiful thank you this helped me so much thank you JESUS through it all you had me in ur heart and kept me close please holy spirit continue to guide me to God almighty always be the glory ❤
Thank you so much I connected with this message wholeheartedly. I’m literally in tears of joy rethinking everything i always forgave and talk to God. It’s been hard in the mix of it, but I’m happy I’m not used to be.
Thank you Father,no more toxic family, Ur using me & painful ,yes BUT I look to the 🎚️ & Ur pain was greater & U did all for me,so I've taken up mine & follow U ..better is coming soon ☝️❤️🔥😶🌫️🥰🎉💝
i was put in a situation 3 months ago that i now see as a test of forgiveness. i do not want to but i know its what im called to do. Its so hard to let people get away with things and they remain ok with it all and i have to forgive and be in pain. These are not good ppl. but they get to do whatever they want and i have to deal with it all. Forgiveness is what i have to do then i will work on it how hard this one is
Thank you I need to that word is a confirmation of God’s plan. Do all the misery there’s joy there’s peace there’s laughter there’s a chance of giving to others what God is given to me. Thank you for this word it’s such an encouragement. Thank you.
They are survival mechanisms. Everyone has a different trauma response and it is unconscious. You have spiritual eyes to see and they are spiritually blinded. GBY 🙏
Excellent message! Very profound. I needed this message and the Lord, through you, has answered some questions I have prayed on about my toxic family. God bless you for all of your posts. They are genuinely helping people in their walk with Jesus. Thank you God for making clear, things I wasn't clear on 🙏
Praise God Almighty Creator, of all things exist, our heavenly Father❤ This is a profound truth! I was raised and grow up in a very toxic, hostile and very disfunctional family❤😅 💝 This is to build and mold our resilience, so that when facing hardships and difficulties and our challenges, we can bounce back. And to build our character to His is will and purpose that designed and equipped for us to walk in❤😅 Praise God for trials and challenges ❤
That part of this video isn't biblical. We don't ask to be chosen. God knows the end from the beginning. He orders our steps. He knows the plan he has for our lives before He knits us in our mother's womb. He's still working in you. Pray for wisdom, spiritual discernment, and Holy Spirit guidance and He'll give it to you liberally. GBY 🙏
It hurts every time this okd wounds shows up in my personal intimate relationship. I nowadays start to think i wasn't made for a typical ordinal family life. My heart is so broken and torn in many places from that crack love of Jesus must go to all the humanity. Homeless people i see every day. Abused animals. Unborn babies...entire earth crys out for the Love of God only Jesus can give.
My son passed away in February 2020 and his brother is extremely troubled and can’t seem to forgive himself for words He and his brother had before his death. My son took his life and his older brother and his younger and also his younger brother are trying to come to terms with his death.
I grew up in an okay family but got married to a man that is chaotic, full of anger, snaps like a dragon not only towards me but towards thr kids & I pray everyday that he changes for the sake of my children not to suffer from trauma & anxiety. I am use to living with this pain but I fear for my kids emotional challenges they face because of the toxic environment he has created in our home. It seems everyday he gets worse, with him working from home, it's like living in hell everyday, the controlling, screaming, cursing at the children and name calling them oh lord it seems God has abandoned my children and I
19:09 I am so sorry to read your post and I recognise the deeply painful situation you are in. I pray and urge you to confide in a wise christian that you can Trust (a leader with integrity). If you are in an abusive situation, this is not something that I personally believe God wants you to necessarily remain in. I realise things are very complicated and there will be other factors to consider. Please seek the council of a wise and godly person. I will pray that you receive the right advice and support. God has not abandoned you, but when you are in the centre of the darkness it can certainly feel this way. You are precious in the sight of God and you matter.
“But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies,(even if fsmily members) do good to them which hate you, bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. And unto him that smiteth thee on the one cheek offer also the other; and him that taketh away thy cloke forbid not to take thy coat also.” Luke 6:27-29 God hears your pain and prayers,keep praying more for them and their salvation than for your desires. Blessings 🙏❤️
We live in a fallen sinful world. Born sinful. That’s why the perfect Son of God , Jesus came, died and rose . Only thur Christ is their healing. Belief(faith) there is healing and new life.
I remember on our fireplace outside vans of hot dands flre out and hot my brother he started screaming but it nyesch him I was scared I stayed in bed and pulled the covers over my head amen 😅
Many are Called but few are chosen, and why are they not chosen? Because their hearts are set so much upon the things of this world, and aspire to the honors of men that they do not learn this one lesson.
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Thank you this was what I needed to hear. I pray to be set free of chains of toxicity, confusion and mental script patterns. Please Jesus help me to forgive.
Help me to forgive...
Thank you God! And SON JESUS,CHRIST..AMEN
God is faithful always. I have been praying that God reveals His purpose for my life. I grew up in a very toxic family, always the black sheep, now I rejoice in this revelation. I pray that God uses me to bring healing, forgiveness, and restoration to disfunction in my family and that of my children and grandchildren. Thank you so much.
Truth spoken
God is so amazing. I asked Him yesterday, “Lord, why did I have to be born into such an awful family?” Then this is in my feed this morning. Thank You, Father.
Amen 🙏
The real point is to define correctly the "such" issue.
Me too!!!
The same here!
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I believe God chose me as to break generational curses. Thank you God, so that my children may be free from these things.
Exactly that ❤
Amen ...me too but what about boundaries?
Me too
Amen exactly your there to save them
So I guess I missed my chosen mission. I was the scapegoat and rejected by my mother. Unlike many chosen ones, I learned to hate myself and internalize resentment, betrayals, criticisms, emotional pain. Only now, 6 decades later, am I seeing that I am worthy, do not have to please and accommodate everyone else, or deny myself love. It has cost me extensively. I am ready for peace.
Same here: But God is always on time .” To thine own self be true”
I completely understand, I am the oldest of 5 and I have never had a childhood and I have never learned to love myself or anyone else properly, I have always taken care of everyone around me but I have never had anyone take care of me,ever.
I had the same struggle. I internalized everything. Had a years long struggle with unforgiveness . I honestly wished I was never born.
The Lord is still there for you and I pray you find peace 🙏
Maybe you are just discovering your mission now.
This is absolutely beautiful. Thank you I'm in tears of confort. Rejection hurts but salvation and a relationship with Jesus God heals all hurts🙏💜
I love how you connect trauma to a divine purpose; it’s a fresh and meaningful outlook.
A gift is a gift. It does not always come wrapped up with a big beautiful bow. It comes as pain to transform us into stronger more dignified people. Thank you Jesus for all your gifts. And so it is!
Trauma and abuse are not a gift. Loving your abusers is Stockholm’s syndrome. Repeatedly forgiving those who hurt you and want to destroy you is being dumb and having no discernment
@@hautecouture2228
I totally agree with you
@@hautecouture2228forgiveness =/= acceptance. Forgiving is saying "im choosing to heal from the bitterness i rightfully feel and will take my time healing and giving it to God." That doesn’t mean letting that person stay in your life, or even liking them.
@@hautecouture2228 The comment says pain is a gift. It's our very suffering that God uses to refine us through. Forgiveness isn't tolerating abuse. It's releasing the abuser so our own emotional damage can be freed.
GBY 🙏
@@hautecouture2228based on what you got from that comment you are going through or have been through some horrible times. The person who arose the comment is probably on the other side of it while you are still in it because they didn’t say anything about abuse being acceptable. I pray for your healing and will one day be on the other side of it.
I am 74 now and still going through the fire and pain ..I feel battle worn ..it has never stopped..when will it end 😢
I'm 48 and feel same way 😢when does it stop but I do trust God in this pit ❤
You will have your recompense.. if not here, certainly in Heaven❤
God bless you
God bless you
I’m 54 and in tears. My faith is in my Father. My pain has never ceased. I continue to pray
God helped me through life with such a family.
Hallelujah, I have been shaped into something greater ☺️♥️
Growing up wasn't the best. But I know that my mom done the best she could, with 3 girls. Even my adult life hasn't been the best either. My kids are grown, with their own kids. My relationship with my 3 kids isn't really good either, not even my grandchildren really don't have anything to do with me. But I keep pushing forward. I have faith that one day God is going to make my situation better. God bless everyone have a blessed day
Reading your comment, is like I’ve written it myself 😊. It’s that me too moment.
May God Bless you abundantly, and Mother Mary watch over you and your family. Sending love ❤️ 🙏✝️ and prayers.
Yes! You're doing what God wants us to do. Stay faithful, prayerful, thankful and obedient to God's word! and continue to walk in LOVE. Family situations/dynamics will change for the good according to God'a timing. Trust God !
Be blessed!. Shalom......
@LorraineDavis-gr6mb thank you God bless you
But why is everyone against you??
Dysfunction!! Noboby is perfect@drtobekapamla3273
Thank you so much for all Sermons. It was just timely. God sees our crying and loneliness and sends Angels to give us hope and peace. May God bless you!
Thank you for your channel. I was the oldest parentified child with two emotionally immature parents. One was a schizophrenic alcoholic, the other a narcissistic womanizer who left our mother when we were very young. He was married and divorced five times and only his needs mattered. My siblings now treat me the same way our parents did. This was modeled for them. Thankfully with lots of
therapy and God’s word I am healing from being scapegoated by them all. As David said in Psalm 69, I am a foreigner in my own family and a stranger to my own mother’s children. I am not alone. I am in good company!
I'm so sorry for what you've had to endure. I'm so glad you have God's word and therapy to bring you healing and comfort. I am grateful for God for providing these similar things in my own life.
I feel this and thank you for citing a Scriptural passage for encouragement
@@belent8336 thank you! I wish you all the best on your own healing journey!
@@JKAninipot-j7h you are very welcome! I hope you have a lot of good support healing all of this!
So relevant here also .
Yes, thank you 🙏 so very much. Reading some of the comments here I realise I’m not alone, I’m so grateful for your podcast, it’s enlightening and inspiring, gives me hope and encouragement, God Bless you and all who listen. ✝️🙏🥰❤️🤗
I asked God why he chose the parents I had. Mom was a narc and dad never stood up to her. I was the target, and my sisters were the golden ones. Im currently trying to heal from what my parents did . Now, my sisters are using my one daughter as the flying monkey. I told her not to play their game.
Just pray to God that you are given the strength to heal. I will pray for you 🙏🙏🙏
I hope she listens, mine won't listen, and when I say anything she takes up for them and now has blocked me on her phone
Why do u let ur sisters close to your daughter? It s ur responsibility not to play their game and protect her from them, u r the adult
Kirsten: So similar are circumstances here. Let us PRAY for DELIVERANCE .😮
They had better back-off , reaping what's sewn.
I grow up in a toxic family as well with abusive dad physically and emotionally. I was heartbroken rejected in a lot of pain and brokenness, that lead me to the broken relationship and marriage. God finally pulled me out of this Egypt and taking me to the promised land that He is always soo good to us and on our side and using all this brokenness to break healing to others.
I grew up in a big dysfunctional family environment. Today I finally felt the reassurance of God's purpose in my life after listening to this wonderful sermon. I am glad to be a part of God's Plan as stated in Jeremiah 29:11. I have endured long adverse emotional pain of rejection, oppression and loneliness from most of my family members because of my faith in God. However, I am glad to have received Jesus Christ into my life forty years ago. Jesus grant me strength and endurance to weather through my difficult journey during my lifetime and transformed them to purpose for my surviving family members, making me to be the light to break the generational darkness. AMEN!!!
Amen
I grew up in 1 such family, I walked away.
50 years later I come back and ask why I went through what I went through and HE taught me to see how the spirit of evil works instead. Through that I understood why I became who I am.
You can ask GOD for things you may want but He doesn't always give the answer you expect but what you need instead. He gave me understanding that taught me why I became who I became in the end.
We should be careful what we ask for at times, we can learn things we might wish we never had but the lessons can be more profoundly eye opening, if we are willing to listen and learn.
Yes be careful what you ask for. I asked God to reveal and remove toxic people from my life, and within a few months I lost my family, my best friend and a group of friends that said they were my family. God revealed the wolves in sheep clothing and they turned people against me.
@@Cara96 What would I have really known as a child, The understanding I speak off is how HE revealed the reasons behind it all after I came back to the LORD 40 years later. Helped me to understand the reasoning for what happened without placing blame.
As well as pointing out all the lessons I learned because of it and the need to stand alone at that age.
@@MsSunshine-cw3oj I would say that by removing them He removed their influence over you, keeping you on the straight path.
I came out of childhood with a level of discernment and since seen all the bad as they approach, instead of after when I have to deal with them.
Sometimes there are reasons that we never see at the time.
@@Cara96 The spirit of the AC in this world and has always been in this world.
Lies and deceits because of jealousy by an older sister was my childhood persecution. She had my parents believing her lies and so I was to blame for everything that went wrong.
My younger brother was turned into a weapon resulting in "your sister is too old and responsible and your brother to young and innocent so it must have been you."
my childhood in a nutshell because of sibling jealousy.
Our own weakness leaves us open to that compulsion and why we need HIS strength to stand through it all.
Edit:- I should have said walked away from GOD because of this. And come back 40 yrs later.
I walked away with this question "How can there be a loving GOD that would allow this to happen to a child? and I fell because I lost faith as my life fell into a cycle of hate.
The spirit of the AC corrupting the world through personal influence. My sister never had faith while my parents where left open by Catholic false doctrine.
Does this mean that every single person who was traumatised in their families went through this to do Gods work???
This is the Truth of Gods Word and way. I think of Isaiah 55:8-9 Gods ways are so much higher than ours. ❤
I'm glad you posted this, I grew up in a very toxic family. This explains a lot, thank you! God Bless ❤❤❤
I'm leaning on YOUR understanding LORD, help me forgive & love like YOU 🙏
Oh Lord Jesus why was I born into an unloving neglectful family? I want a loving caring family but I don’t know if I’ll ever have one. I knew I never wanted to be like my family and the sinful acts and words they speak. I give praise to you God for strength that kept all I endured from breaking me. My grandma teaching me how to live in Christ Jesus. It was your calling on me to learn to my grandmother growing in the will to break the cycle of pain, hurtful and toxic feelings and anger. Healing me to serve you today. I know in Christ Jesus there’s a greater purpose you have for me using my past for good. What a blessing this video is thank you 😊🙏
Your life story is exactly like mine and my Grandma planted that mustard seed. Praise Jesus Christ Amen ❤
@@nanettebates6864
I had a grandmother that was there for me too. She protected me as much as she could, but I always had to go back to that house, a childhood of fear, and never knowing what was coming the next day..
God and Grandma Lois was there for me when my dad mom siblings were not. Praise Jesus.
I prayed and my Mama gave me this! She was one of those people I felt this way about in ways but learned .... He is so becoming of anything else I amangoned! She is the one who taught me first of his love and even there was a Beautiful all forgiving God!!
Yes! 💯My family is so dysfunctional.
Same here
The wickedness is exasperating.
This video is a gift beyond measure. Being chosen to dismantle dysfunction is our choice done with Gods power working through us.
Thanks!
Thanks so much for your support!
@@c.slewissermonsGod bless you 🙏🙌🫂✝️💪
I embrace God's shaping, molding , and His preparing me to go through the fire of life's challenges, pain, hurt, and adversity,. I persevere knowing that my life's divine purpose is near! AMEN!! To God be the glory.......
I pray for strength..this whole video speaks all truth from Yahweh..🙏🏻
Thank you for this message. Everything now makes sense. I have an going through the furnace from birth. Not sure when it will end or if I van persevere till the end. Please, pray for me.
It helps to see others come out the fire unscathed. I literally asked God to keep me praising in the flames this morning ❤God help you dear friend please Lord you know the situation I pray you intercede on their behalf in ways only you can and please Lord save that one closest to hell in Jesus name amen
Thank you! I was adopted into a toxic family, my Mom's brother and his wife whom used my brother and I for their personal gain. We persevered 🙏
I sent this to my mother, hopefully now she will understand my forgiveness. And hopefully through Christ we can forgive where our shackles kept us from seeing his light. Lord I pray, let my mother feel your grace. Let her put down divination and trust in you alone. I’m eternally grateful My God. You seen it all, and you’ve seen the chains I broke free from... now for the rest. Please Lord, smoking isn’t in your will. Breaking family curses, and breaking free from extreme Feminism so Young was hard. And took incredible courage. Now if only I could break the smaller chains xxxxxx
God told me I had to make you tough. I have a great deal of compassion for my fellow man, because I understand.
AMEN, LORD YOUR WILL BE DONE IN MY LIFE. MY SOUL CPNNECTED TO MY TOXIC FAMILY. YOU KNEW I HAD STRENGTH TO DEAL WITH IT. I ALWAYS RAN TO YOU FOR HELP. I WILL CONTINUE TO DO IT. YOU STRENGTH OVERTOOK ALL MY WEAKNESSES. GLORY
I am Chosen. I am God's favorite. ❤🙏🏾
Oh boy...
Thank you for your encouraging message…it’s a reminder that God has always been with me especially in the lonely days of my childhood…I can look back and see how He carried me through the darkness into the light to freedom in Christ…beauty for ashes is available to all who seek His will for their lives no matter what they’ve endured…He continues to restore me with grace and love..amen❤
Thank you! This was very timely and full of reminders I really needed this particular morning. Bless you. 🙏
You won't see the thicket till you in the thick of it. Praise Jesus 💖
Not sure about that, I remember wanting to run away as a 5 yrs old
Hahaha "thicket of it!"
@@knoel7833 Same here.😮
I was talking to my husband about this very thing this morning and this video affirmed my thoughts. Praise God! He is using the internet to guide us in ways that were not foreseen!! 🙏✝️
The Lord has revealed my toxic family to me as far back as I could remember. I remember at a very young age I think 🤔 around 5 I use to go out and sit on the porch and look at the stars and pray for God to take me. I run away from my toxic mom and went to a boarding school in a country where I didn’t know anyone “USA 🇺🇸” and it was a blessing. I always kept my faith and from the day I was born I was not supposed to survive. I was told that I would not be able to live long countless times. I even survived 9/11 and all through his protection my entire life. I do know that I am here for a reason and that my calling is to make a difference in people’s lives suffering from whatever in ways that I can help. That means the world to me. Thank you ❤🙏🏽
This felt like a message straight from God. I needed to hear this so badly. Thank you for being His vessel.
My family is fractured beyond belief....help Lord 🙏🇦🇺🇮🇱
" And Your Enemies Shall Be of Your Own Household "!
Yes - a quote from King David
Betrayal.
So beautiful thank you this helped me so much thank you JESUS through it all you had me in ur heart and kept me close please holy spirit continue to guide me to God almighty always be the glory ❤
Thank you so much I connected with this message wholeheartedly. I’m literally in tears of joy rethinking everything i always forgave and talk to God. It’s been hard in the mix of it, but I’m happy I’m not used to be.
All the sermons are so good thank you Jesus
She mother didn’t know the color of my eyes,that family needed me
Thank you Father,no more toxic family, Ur using me & painful ,yes BUT I look to the 🎚️ & Ur pain was greater & U did all for me,so I've taken up mine & follow U ..better is coming soon ☝️❤️🔥😶🌫️🥰🎉💝
i was put in a situation 3 months ago that i now see as a test of forgiveness. i do not want to but i know its what im called to do. Its so hard to let people get away with things and they remain ok with it all and i have to forgive and be in pain. These are not good ppl. but they get to do whatever they want and i have to deal with it all. Forgiveness is what i have to do then i will work on it how hard this one is
Thank you I need to that word is a confirmation of God’s plan. Do all the misery there’s joy there’s peace there’s laughter there’s a chance of giving to others what God is given to me. Thank you for this word it’s such an encouragement. Thank you.
It's very hard when you're the only one that wants to deal with it when everyone is shallow acting superficial-elephant in the room.
Many are beguiled.
They are survival mechanisms. Everyone has a different trauma response and it is unconscious.
You have spiritual eyes to see and they are spiritually blinded.
GBY 🙏
Excellent message! Very profound. I needed this message and the Lord, through you, has answered some questions I have prayed on about my toxic family. God bless you for all of your posts. They are genuinely helping people in their walk with Jesus. Thank you God for making clear, things I wasn't clear on 🙏
Praise God Almighty Creator, of all things exist, our heavenly Father❤
This is a profound truth! I was raised and grow up in a very toxic, hostile and very disfunctional family❤😅 💝 This is to build and mold our resilience, so that when facing hardships and difficulties and our challenges, we can bounce back. And to build our character to His is will and purpose that designed and equipped for us to walk in❤😅 Praise God for trials and challenges ❤
I release my anger and pain I feel over the horrible things I fear/suspect you said to your sister causing her death, in the name of Jesus Christ
I definitely despised my birth family upbringing and dwelling. Never wanted to be a cycle breaker or asked to be chosen.
That part of this video isn't biblical. We don't ask to be chosen. God knows the end from the beginning. He orders our steps. He knows the plan he has for our lives before He knits us in our mother's womb. He's still working in you. Pray for wisdom, spiritual discernment, and Holy Spirit guidance and He'll give it to you liberally.
GBY 🙏
It hurts every time this okd wounds shows up in my personal intimate relationship. I nowadays start to think i wasn't made for a typical ordinal family life. My heart is so broken and torn in many places from that crack love of Jesus must go to all the humanity. Homeless people i see every day. Abused animals. Unborn babies...entire earth crys out for the Love of God only Jesus can give.
39:36 39:44 please pray for my son Chris who passed away on May 9th 2022 and for my son Michael who is very troubled
My son passed away in February 2020 and his brother is extremely troubled and can’t seem to forgive himself for words He and his brother had before his death. My son took his life and his older brother and his younger and also his younger brother are trying to come to terms with his death.
Thank you Jesus.
So very True 👍
I didn't think anyone besides myself thought this! It does feel like a curse!
Thank you for this timely message. I found it to be extremely helpful. 🙏🏻🕊️
I grew up in an okay family but got married to a man that is chaotic, full of anger, snaps like a dragon not only towards me but towards thr kids & I pray everyday that he changes for the sake of my children not to suffer from trauma & anxiety. I am use to living with this pain but I fear for my kids emotional challenges they face because of the toxic environment he has created in our home. It seems everyday he gets worse, with him working from home, it's like living in hell everyday, the controlling, screaming, cursing at the children and name calling them oh lord it seems God has abandoned my children and I
19:09 I am so sorry to read your post and I recognise the deeply painful situation you are in.
I pray and urge you to confide in a wise christian that you can Trust (a leader with integrity). If you are in an abusive situation, this is not something that I personally believe God wants you to necessarily remain in. I realise things are very complicated and there will be other factors to consider. Please seek the council of a wise and godly person. I will pray that you receive the right advice and support. God has not abandoned you, but when you are in the centre of the darkness it can certainly feel this way.
You are precious in the sight of God and you matter.
Jah will comfort and heal you and your husband and your children in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen
You have to get away or the kids will blame you and resent you and abandon you!
I have the same situation adult kids that hold grudges against me. I'm 66 yrs old
This message was a gift to us. Thank-You. You are a Forever Brother.
This definitely resonates with my life!
Great Message. Thank you much. God bless you.
Really needed this. Thank you. God bless you.
Thank you. God bless you for what you share.
Thank you much for your words of comfort. AMEN 🙏
Soo much pain in my heart, this to much God 🙏 i don't want to be chosen one 😢😢I want happy family god 🙏🙏 please bless me
“But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies,(even if fsmily members) do good to them which hate you, bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. And unto him that smiteth thee on the one cheek offer also the other; and him that taketh away thy cloke forbid not to take thy coat also.”
Luke 6:27-29
God hears your pain and prayers,keep praying more for them and their salvation than for your desires. Blessings 🙏❤️
God bless you and those who support this chanel.
This is the first time I've heard of Stephen 😮
Thankyou 🕊 ❤️ 🙏 🌹
Amen, this is real.
This particular message has been the most important of my 72 years. Thank you. For I AM NOW FREE!@❤❤❤😂😂😂😂
22:50❤ thank you for this message 32:57
Amen 🙏
Thank you for the encouragement ❤
Thank you for your obedience in sharing. Which brought more and deeper understanding to this journey. All Glory to God Almighty YAHWEH.
Amen ❤
Amen 🙏🏻💜
Thanks
Thank you!
Amen 🙏🏻 Amen 🙏🏻
Thank you for addressing this!!!
Yaia thundering outside yes amen
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Amen 🙌🏿
Grace ❤
Beauty from ashes
Wow this was amazing ❤ Thank you.
Thank you so much
Thank you for your message
Amen🙏🏼🥰🙌🏻
Thank you
How dare 😭 their wrecklessness attempt to suppress GOD'S PURPOSE for "the chosen."
We live in a fallen sinful world. Born sinful. That’s why the perfect Son of God , Jesus came, died and rose . Only thur Christ is their healing.
Belief(faith) there is healing and new life.
thanks for explaining i was wondering too why this family and not some normal loving family.
I remember on our fireplace outside vans of hot dands flre out and hot my brother he started screaming but it nyesch him I was scared I stayed in bed and pulled the covers over my head amen
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Selah AMEM❤
But where do we set healthy boundaries??
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Many are Called but few are chosen, and why are they not chosen? Because their hearts are set so much upon the things of this world, and aspire to the honors of men that they do not learn this one lesson.