Ask me your questions! What are you currently struggling with? What do you need greater clarity on? What seems to be holding you back or limiting you? Where do you feel overwhelmed or confused? Let me know in the comments below or email me at: RUclips@BeyondYou.Coach OR Get 1:1 spiritual coaching (phone or email) with me! For more information: www.beyondyou.coach/ I look forward to hearing from all of you!
This was very powerful thank you. Making a decision or giving myself permission to take on a different role/character in life requires the ability to be patient with myself and to allow myself to be uncomfortable, anxious, and allowing myself to make mistakes. I feel that I need to accept that just because I change my behavior in the world it doesn't mean the world will cease to be a place of uncertainty . This has been what has pushed me back into the old role as a way of dealing with boredom, sadness, regret and complicated issues in my life. It is what is familiar to me and in some ways reduces my anxiety but at the same time continues my anxiety. My inability to be comfortable with being uncertain about what the future brings for this new character is what I'm striving for.
Thank you for sharing - so many can relate. Whether you realize it or not, everything is uncertain; such is the nature of reality. Give yourself the permission to spread your wings and fly!!! 🦅 Let go!!! Enjoy the mystery! Embrace the uncertainty! Laugh at the unknown! Live life to the fullest! Peace and joy my friend! 🧘🏻♀️🦋🙏🏻🌠 "Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly."
I'm absolutely sure that's it's not about fear of the new character or me. There are different other things going on inside us. I can clearly see that it is a kind of laziness that we don't change things. We are to lazy to take the day into our own hands. That's why it's so difficult to be an self employed entrepreneur. You are constantly fighting you comfort zone self. That's not fear based, that's based on discipline and focus. Self control or not. And finally: are we conscious or unconscious. That's the point, the essence.
I periodically do retail dressmaking and I'm extremely creative and pretty good at what I do although I don't believe in perfection but for quite some time I have stopped a garment just before the finish and abandoned it. The garment would have had a huge amount of my creative time poured into it with painstaking fastidious workmanship but I'd leave it JUST prior to its finale' and have only just realised I'm frightened of people's negative feedback and a fear of failure EVEN THOUGH I've had 100% fabulous feedback over 10 years but then I went thru domestic mayhem and lost my self esteem and dignity. That same issue has stopped me moving 1000 kms North to the place I always wanted to live. A fear of not only failure but also change. Well, I'm 69 in 2 weeks and have mentally made the decision with this video to make change and follow my goals and dreams. I'm pretty sure I'll have to refer back here but I'm giving this all my heart and soul to make change.
oh wow thank you so much for answering my wish 🙏 I will follow your advice for breaking out of my unconscious self sabotaging. I blew a lot of opportunities in the past but I believe that there will be more to come 🍀
You're welcome. Use the questions in the video and really take your time meditating on them. They will reveal all that you need to know and give you direction on how to stop self-sabotaging. 🙏🏻🌻🧘🏻♀️
Amazing, it’s just what I was thinking of but perfectly explained, and in a so much deeper level I didn’t imagine! And the exercises are magnificent, I am asking my friends to give me a cute nickname so that helps me unidentify with the character I think “I have” to keep playing, like the new start you mentioned. It sort of feels as if I was “betraying” my old self, with all she had to go through... but I’ll reassure her I love her and that the past doesn’t define us. Only 8 minutes and you completely explained and gave the answer amazingly, I’m surely subscribing, you’re a blessing!
Thank you. So glad this resonated with you and has given you greater clarity. If you really want to empower yourself, give yourself the new nickname.... ;-) Love and Light, E
I saw your comment on an Eckhart Tolle video, and it was so intriguing that I became curious enough to check your channel out. This is amazing content. Your spirit is beautiful, it even reflects through your physical aspects, which gives a calming sensation to the viewer. Your work is refreshing, and your channel will continue to grow because the society is seeking for spiritual content that is well tailored, nicely edited and still provides sufficient guidelines to the many questions that people ask. Do not be concerned about the current amount of video views, oh they will increase eventually, more than you even expected, because unlike the average RUclipsr, your spiritual vibration has made you cultivate the tender skill of patience over decades. Thank you for playing the role that brought you on Earth, Elizabeth Hancock. It is an inspiration for the people whose lives you touch, even without your notice
Good morning: my million Dallas question is this, when last did you have a good sleep? When last did you awaken and not push your nose in other people’s business? When last did you awaken and listen to the quite voice within yourself first and not reach for the tv remote and listen to the latest news? when last did you go to bed without the radio or tv still playing? Are you more interested in watching he world and it’s affairs than yourself? when last did you have an individual thought and not the thought of others? Do you get my drift, answer those first, there’re others, then you can talk to me, believe me, everything else is completely irrelevant.
I enjoyed all three of your Videos on Self Sabotage, Silence and Life in Ashrams. Yes we all speak far too much and engage far more than that in others people’s affairs. Especially in South Asia where I write from. Your comment on energy -I know by personal experiment, energy does not lie, words dodge. Indian Ashram life beyond economics has dangers like predatory guru’s, one or two gurus who managed to keep image sqeaky clean cannot cover for the very many who are incarcerated for misdeed. This is a chapter we cannot ignore as the innocent meet the devil in garb of a white robe “saint”. Especially naive Indians who get poor quality education and are major dropouts. When you about Body mind alignment, fasting is a multi pronged tool, for remote communication, resetting past energy and clarity of mind. Would you share your experiences?
Do you not also think that self sabotage could actually be the universe showing you that the direction you "think" you want to go is not actually where you NEED to go at this time? Perhaps you're sabotaging a particular direction because there is a lesson (spiritual, philosophical or psychological) at the current stage that you are at that you need to learn to progress. And it often is not related to the thing you are sabotaging
sabotaging is like the universes final stand against your imposed "doing" onto it. Like the ocean bursting dams that have been created to build a "city" or "life" that you THINK you want, but is not truly for you
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Ask me your questions!
What are you currently struggling with?
What do you need greater clarity on?
What seems to be holding you back or limiting you?
Where do you feel overwhelmed or confused?
Let me know in the comments below or email me at: RUclips@BeyondYou.Coach
OR
Get 1:1 spiritual coaching (phone or email) with me! For more information: www.beyondyou.coach/
I look forward to hearing from all of you!
Omg this short talk is so amazing. A light bulb just went on in my 67 year old head. This woman is powerful, smart and a gift. Thank you.
Same.
I'm 61 and this hit all the buttons.
The character you're playing has a finite set of options!!!
Mine is from hyper vigilance from ptsd. 💯
a brilliant analogy - a theatre play in which we perform the main character and identify with it.
Wow. That last minute and a half (6:33-8:05) is GOLD. And timeless. Thanks.
allow myself to introduce........myself
This really changed my perspective 👁
That was brilliant and your hair is magnificent.
Lovely,many thanks😍
Thank you
Brilliant episode. Thanks for a very insightful episode.
Beautiful. So true.
Thanks, again ;)
Awesome
Thank you sooo much for taking the time to share this wonderful information for free…you truly are someone special…✌️✌️✌️✌️❤️
One of the best explanations of self sabotaging Ive encountered. Especially from a spiritual aspect 🙏
This was very powerful thank you. Making a decision or giving myself permission to take on a different role/character in life requires the ability to be patient with myself and to allow myself to be uncomfortable, anxious, and allowing myself to make mistakes. I feel that I need to accept that just because I change my behavior in the world it doesn't mean the world will cease to be a place of uncertainty . This has been what has pushed me back into the old role as a way of dealing with boredom, sadness, regret and complicated issues in my life. It is what is familiar to me and in some ways reduces my anxiety but at the same time continues my anxiety. My inability to be comfortable with being uncertain about what the future brings for this new character is what I'm striving for.
Thank you for sharing - so many can relate. Whether you realize it or not, everything is uncertain; such is the nature of reality. Give yourself the permission to spread your wings and fly!!! 🦅 Let go!!! Enjoy the mystery! Embrace the uncertainty! Laugh at the unknown! Live life to the fullest! Peace and joy my friend! 🧘🏻♀️🦋🙏🏻🌠 "Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly."
@@ElizabethHancock a very nice analogy with the caterpillar. Thanks for everything.
I'm absolutely sure that's it's not about fear of the new character or me. There are different other things going on inside us. I can clearly see that it is a kind of laziness that we don't change things. We are to lazy to take the day into our own hands. That's why it's so difficult to be an self employed entrepreneur. You are constantly fighting you comfort zone self. That's not fear based, that's based on discipline and focus. Self control or not. And finally: are we conscious or unconscious. That's the point, the essence.
Wow I was not expecting that at all, what a great revelation ! thank you
I love this! Beautifully said and so absolutely correct. I have made my decision.❤
You are amazing in doing what you do here 👍👌
I understand your each and every concept so good your aura is so pure and so powerful that i can still feel it in india
❤Very powerful 👏
Hi Elizabeth . You are amazing!!!
Thank you!❤
Priceless!! May Allah protect you the way your words will protect us - the self-sabatures.
I like your work thank you different too
This is very helpful, thank you.
Excellent 🙃
I feel like I was meant to encounter your wisdom
I periodically do retail dressmaking and I'm extremely creative and pretty good at what I do although I don't believe in perfection but for quite some time I have stopped a garment just before the finish and abandoned it. The garment would have had a huge amount of my creative time poured into it with painstaking fastidious workmanship but I'd leave it JUST prior to its finale' and have only just realised I'm frightened of people's negative feedback and a fear of failure EVEN THOUGH I've had 100% fabulous feedback over 10 years but then I went thru domestic mayhem and lost my self esteem and dignity. That same issue has stopped me moving 1000 kms North to the place I always wanted to live. A fear of not only failure but also change. Well, I'm 69 in 2 weeks and have mentally made the decision with this video to make change and follow my goals and dreams. I'm pretty sure I'll have to refer back here but I'm giving this all my heart and soul to make change.
This is excellence personified! Thank you so much! Namaste!
oh wow thank you so much for answering my wish 🙏 I will follow your advice for breaking out of my unconscious self sabotaging. I blew a lot of opportunities in the past but I believe that there will be more to come 🍀
You're welcome. Use the questions in the video and really take your time meditating on them. They will reveal all that you need to know and give you direction on how to stop self-sabotaging. 🙏🏻🌻🧘🏻♀️
Such a brilliant perspective.
Amazing, it’s just what I was thinking of but perfectly explained, and in a so much deeper level I didn’t imagine! And the exercises are magnificent, I am asking my friends to give me a cute nickname so that helps me unidentify with the character I think “I have” to keep playing, like the new start you mentioned. It sort of feels as if I was “betraying” my old self, with all she had to go through... but I’ll reassure her I love her and that the past doesn’t define us. Only 8 minutes and you completely explained and gave the answer amazingly, I’m surely subscribing, you’re a blessing!
Thank you. So glad this resonated with you and has given you greater clarity. If you really want to empower yourself, give yourself the new nickname.... ;-) Love and Light, E
You're powerful. I've been struggling with a few issues since my awakening. I understand.
Wow...
I saw your comment on an Eckhart Tolle video, and it was so intriguing that I became curious enough to check your channel out. This is amazing content. Your spirit is beautiful, it even reflects through your physical aspects, which gives a calming sensation to the viewer. Your work is refreshing, and your channel will continue to grow because the society is seeking for spiritual content that is well tailored, nicely edited and still provides sufficient guidelines to the many questions that people ask. Do not be concerned about the current amount of video views, oh they will increase eventually, more than you even expected, because unlike the average RUclipsr, your spiritual vibration has made you cultivate the tender skill of patience over decades.
Thank you for playing the role that brought you on Earth, Elizabeth Hancock. It is an inspiration for the people whose lives you touch, even without your notice
What a lovely and thoughtful reply. Thank you for sharing with me. Sending you peace and joy wherever you are. 🙏
You're amazing. I really needed to hear this right now. Thank you.
Dang gurl you are woke!
jus what i needed to hear.But what about if you continue getting sick?
Good morning: my million Dallas question is this, when last did you have a good sleep? When last did you awaken and not push your nose in other people’s business? When last did you awaken and listen to the quite voice within yourself first and not reach for the tv remote and listen to the latest news? when last did you go to bed without the radio or tv still playing? Are you more interested in watching he world and it’s affairs than yourself? when last did you have an individual thought and not the thought of others? Do you get my drift, answer those first, there’re others, then you can talk to me, believe me, everything else is completely irrelevant.
I like/ Love me , I dont want to be anyone else...
Well, to start with, you can't SELF sabotage someone else.
I enjoyed all three of your Videos on
Self Sabotage, Silence and Life in Ashrams. Yes
we all speak far too much and engage far more than
that in others people’s affairs. Especially in South Asia
where I write from. Your comment on energy -I know
by personal experiment, energy does not lie, words dodge.
Indian Ashram life beyond economics has dangers
like predatory guru’s, one or two gurus who managed
to keep image sqeaky clean cannot cover for the very many
who are incarcerated for misdeed. This is a chapter we cannot
ignore as the innocent meet the devil in garb of
a white robe “saint”. Especially naive Indians who get
poor quality education and are major dropouts.
When you about Body mind alignment, fasting is
a multi pronged tool, for remote communication,
resetting past energy and clarity of mind. Would
you share your experiences?
Do you not also think that self sabotage could actually be the universe showing you that the direction you "think" you want to go is not actually where you NEED to go at this time? Perhaps you're sabotaging a particular direction because there is a lesson (spiritual, philosophical or psychological) at the current stage that you are at that you need to learn to progress. And it often is not related to the thing you are sabotaging
sabotaging is like the universes final stand against your imposed "doing" onto it. Like the ocean bursting dams that have been created to build a "city" or "life" that you THINK you want, but is not truly for you
Thank You!