WHY YOU SHOULD BREAKUP WITH HIM NOW!!! - APOSTLE JOSHUA SELMAN
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- Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024
- In this video, you will learn 4 things he must have before you marry him by Apostle Joshua Selman
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What to look for in a man
1. God fearing
2. Power of submission
3. Passion
4. Responsibility
Thank you for the summary.
Is there another video that captures to the end?
It's true please
I made a terrible mistake 10 yrs ago when I was not born again BT every day I pray for my kids more than seven times that they won't marry wrong coz marriage can destroy your destiny forever n make you even miss heaven.
True
You are right ✅
Very correct. Lord have mercy on us.
Jesus take charge
Amen hallelujah apostle this so true powerful words of wisdom
Lord show me the way and remove any spirit of confusion in my life
Ameen
Amen
Amen
Amén!!
Amen
Lord whoever that is not from you God,keep him away from me.
Amen 🙏🏼...
Amen
Amen
Amennnnnnnnnnnn in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.
Amen
Father help me to stop developing feelings for men who do not love me back and men who do not have these qualities.
Me too
@THE Bible lovers music poem CHANNEL ioo
Amen May God help us
Amen May God help us
Amen and me too🙏
Jesus take away anyone who is sent by satan to destroy your ministry. My house will serve you father.
Find a man who is :
God fearing
Submit to Authority
Passion
Responsible
God fearing not faring
@@soniawisdom4170 at least you understood
Is the correction important. I understood what he said .and by the way he said fearing not faring
He is SO RIGHT. My husband has none of these things. I must end this marriage of 20 years of dysfunction. This is why things didn't change when we were leaders in the church.
@@hiimamryst100 don't end it
Pray in truth and in spirit I believe God will redeem, God's intervention is on the way there's nothing the lord can not do, you see your marriage as a failure because that's what the enemy wants it to be not God. That's your husband God is on the way
Aww! How I wish I heard this message years ago, am sure I wouldn't have made the terrible mistake I made in my life in choosing a life pattern, hmm! My worse fear is what I got...but am thankful to God for saving me by him walking away ...my children and I have been at God's mercy and His been faithful 🙏🏾🙏🏾❤
God bless you ❣️
God saved you. Narcissistic ones walk away and come back as though nothing happened
God will continue In seeing you through mommy
Amen
You can say that again
Ladies, women of God wait on the Lord and again I say wait. No good thing will he with hold from you. You won't be disappointed if you wait on him. Apostle Selman knows what he's talking about.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
All
Yes sir
U ARE TALKING TO ME WILL CLOCK 30 THIS YEAR SO SCARED NOT MARRIED YET
I pray for my children will not make the mistake I did in marriage...God help them to make the right decision
Apart from marrying a God fearing man I pray to be a God fearing woman too,God guide me let walk in your way. Thanks jehovah for this message, let it bring change in my relationship. 🙏🙏
I’ve been married for over 21 years. My marriage has never been a good one. If I had known what I know now I would’ve never gotten married. I really need prayer. I feel lost. He wasn’t into God before. Until a couple of years ago. It’s a very long story. He makes me feel like he knows more about the Bible or Of God then I. I have my own relationship with my Father. If I can just get prayer.
With God all things are possible sis. Du courage!
It is well. Keep praying, he ll be arrested some day. You ll be surprised.
You, just do the right thing, God is watching. He is there for you, you will smile again.
1 Peter 3:1-2 still works
True
Im 42 with 2 kids and singel because i went for all the wrong men ..lord im waiting for my husband ...thank you pastor this has open my eyes so much
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I’m 42 as well. No kids but lots of terrible relationships. I’m so weary . But this message is helping me too.
Ohhh yes
42 devorse mom of 3daugthers this message it's so helpful. Amen
God will make a way
God bless you Apostle.. Since I became a lady, I've always made this particular prayer whenever a man declares his interest maritally" Dear holy spirit if this man will not help me to love you Lord and fulfill your purpose please holy spirit take him away no matter how much we love each other if it's not your will for me let the relationship never prosper" This particular prayer has played out before my eyes I've cried in pain seeing a few guys whom I've grown In love with walk away without any reasonable issues. Pls holy spirit lead the right God fearing believer to me at your will Amen.
THE LORD ALMIGHTY WILL BRING THE RIGHT ONE.....
Ok lord I pray that my son will listen to this words lord have marcy on him he is going down the wrong road help lord please help me pray for him
Amen hallelujah good morning man of God to everyone blessings
1*He must be God fearing - submit to God in all matters
2*He must submit to elderly authorities
3* He must have passion for the wife /marriage
4* He must show a level of responsibility
Ohh Lord let your will be upon my would be husband, i know you are perfecting him for me🙇♂️🙏
I am facing spiritual battle today because of my husband and he still threaten me of break up, how wish I heard about this message before now I won't have been in this toxic relationship now,oh lord have mercy on me and my children.
You can change your life
May God intervene
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@@ednahchirchir1924 o
May I never ever make mistakes in choosing a life partner
Amen!!!!
Amen
Amen o
Amen 🙏🏾
Amen
1.God fearing
2.The power of submission
3.Passion for you
No passion leads to. unfaithfulness
Thank you Apostle Joshua Selman, i wish you came to my life earlier, though you're younger than me, you've really helped me. I pray for my children to have happy marriages.
AMEN!!!
100% Truth!
THEY WILL, IN JESUS NAME...
I pray my chn choose partners who have these qualities god-fearing higher authority to advise responsible and passion for you
Amen 🙏!!!!!!!!!!!!! More blessings for you too 😍
I don’t understand why people in the background are laughing. This is a very serious thing he is talking about.So many women are experiencing the pains he is talking about.
2. He must have an earthly authority he submits to; his pastor, his parents, his mentor, etc. He should be able to show u clearly the authority figure in his life that he submits to.
3. He should have passion for you. Not just the "I love you". Any man who doesn't have passion for you will be unfaithful to you. Avoid arranged marriage. Be friends with your spouse first. Through that lady, you have found fulfilment - passion.
4. Never marry a man who's irresponsible. To be responsible means he should be aware of the cost dimensions of life. Not money but what has to be done has onto be done. Most over pampered men are irresponsible. Irresponsibility results in laziness. He should be an initiator. He shouldn't sit for things to be done for him. It's not having a car and a house. Responsibility id willingness to grow.
Thank you
Thank you
thank you so much
Hmmn I got married to a man without mentor, doesn't fear anyone, master of himself and he finally messed up.
@@oluwabukolaelizbeth9016 same here
Wished I had known this years ago. I would never have made the mistakes I made. But I must move on. Too many men who are Christians and not have the fear of God. Damaging THIER families .........never again
You spoke like you were in my mind.....guess what;ive moved on too buttttttt im not settling ever again. This message is setting me up higher. Be blessed sis.
Please help me to be out of it
Have the same experience, prayers for hours in tongues but no Fear of God at all.. But now we know
Amen sis
#NeverAgain
Joel 2:25
I will restore all the years the locusts have eaten
I know ladies are laughing like this message is entertainment but this message is soo deseparetly serious!!!
God give us strength to really bare the weight of this marriage!
The person you become one with will effect your entire life and the life of your children!
Lord, may I never make any grave mistake in relationship in life...I walk in line with your word and I ask for grace to be consistent.... AMEN
Amen
Amen
Any man who lacks passion for his wife will be unfaithful to his wife - Apostle Selman
What about a wife who have no passion for her husband do..
Father God help me to marry the one who will love me, lead me like Jesus loves the church 🙏
Hmmmmn, "God help me to marry the one who will love me, lead me like Jesus loves the church". The problem in most cases is that people look for a person who is this and that, can do this and that, only to find they themselves are the problem. Not compatible for that kind of person. Ladies look for and find loving men, yet they don't know how to respond to that love. Unloveable. They take wrong advantage of the men's love.
May the individual reading this knowing that they made a BIG MISTAKE may God restore us with great peace !!
I need that restoration 🙏
Amen 🙏
A big Amen
Amen
Amen
I love his voice wen he sings
Yeah. Me too. So distinct and smooth
Love God sis not his voice. Be careful of your motives. Bless
Laughing in the open and dying in secret….. Lord I need you….
The Lord Almighty will change your story in the name of Jesus.....The peace of God will be restored into your home.
He will show himself mightily in ur case
Cast your cares on Jesus i pray.
We can be entering hell fire and claiming it is AC. Wow this touched me. I met a director , his service to God , his submission touched me. In his office he is respected by all. In church he puts away his cap of earthly power and serves God with all humility . I pray God makes available many men of this caliber. 🙏
❤❤❤
I pray never ever to find my self in a wrong marriage. Lord I leave my life for you to plan. Please connect me to that right man in Jesus name Amen
yes oh.Amen
This is very dangerous take your time
1.God fearing/not born again
*Respect God
*Submit to the word of God as the final autority in all matters.(let ur will be under the will of God)
(Things u can't change in this world is God, husband,kids)
2.Man who has autority figure (personality to listen,to guide,to fix things,man to decide, and find out)
3.Man who has passion(extend love) any man without passion he'll be unfaithful(friendship stick wedding)
Discipline& self-control & prayer consistently
4.Man has to be responsible :must do anything who is needed in home,not pampered& lazy man...be initiated man, willingness to fullfil every need
Thank you 🥰
Well summarized
Dangerous!!!
Thank you..
May wrong partner never locate me.. Confusion is not my portion.. In Jesus mighty name
Preach Preach Preach...many are just living with their children, not mentoring not teaching them not training them...JESUS help us🤲🙏💥🔥
To those who thought they’ve made a wrong choice already, It’s not late, It is only God that can change men. Apostle also said the same hand that held gun can still hold a Bible. Pray for him/her. I so much believe God won’t watch you suffer while you persist in prayer
Hmmm my brother. I just wish he can come back to his senses and return to me and my daughter. Am married but single because his with someone else
If it's not leading to danger mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually etc, pray and hope. If it's risky, keep off until things change
Am drowning in my tears right now I woke up I couldn't sleep because of stress. I made a grave mistake 😭 he actually say he is not scared of anyone he doesn't possess all the things that were said here am broken inside out 😭😭😭😭 ooh Lord come to my rescue I don't know what to do I feel like dying
May God guide and comfort your heart my sister🙏... Sending Hugs and love to you❤️
Sweetheart go find a trusted pastor to speak to. May God guide, comfort and protect you.
Pray, think about it and make a wise decision wether people are happy with it or not
Pray , pray, pray...sis moveeeeeee
I've been there....and now I realise I did the best choice🤗..its not easy at first but trust me..with God....its just a matter of time and you will surely make the best move...sending you hugs and love❤
We're the same dear!! I'm confused now !! It's been 8 good years😢😢
The 129 Thumbs down has got to be men whom are angry that their characters are being EXPOSED. AGENTS.
Very true..narcissists
Very toxic. They must be very toxic, insecure and manipulative
I've heard years ago a guy telling another; if you want a good wife, go to church. Both of these guys were unsaved and big time party goers. Wow! The wheat among the tares!
This is terrible!
Yup a lot of unbelieving men and even women are like this. They target Christians because they know that Christians we are called to forgive others. So they take advantage of that and they marry a believer so that they can get away with mistreating them. I even saw a guy on social media joking around saying that you should marry a Christian woman because if you cheat on her she will always blame the devil and you can get away with it.
This is when believers should start taking seriously that we must not be unequally yoked... the truth is that anyone not in Christ is under satanic control...
@@olunimi Not only terrible. It's diabolical! It's a weapon satan is using to destroy the Christian's destiny, to steal, kill and destroy.
I been single since I was 33 got 3 grown up children did not know God then he left me for a younger woman. I got born again in 1986 and that's when I felt the rift. I not innocent but I never cheated on him but he liked clubbing and out 4 nights a week. He was not a bad man but did not want God or what I had. Thank you still not been with another man I'm 56 next month I have 7 grand children between my eldest 2 children went 12 years had another child and he was 1 then he left 2 sons and 1 Daughter don't want no one else don't want to be hurt again like that ever God is Good all of the time and always x
This apostle thouh.. his voice when he talks has authority when he sings I hear angles. His teachings are diffrent and informative and helpful and revelation galore.
Deep within me, I know I have an ideal man, God help me love him as much as he loves me🙏
Help me to be God fearing, passionate and responsible
Amen
Apostle Joshua Selman you are my spiritual father, mentor and every word you speak everytime is a blessing in my life. May the Lord continue to guide you and direct me to your sermon for fulfilment in Jesus name 🙏 Amen. I pray for God's direction in my relationship and open my eyes towards the right partner.
God bless you Apostle for opening my eyes.I pray for my chn.and members to choose rightly partners fear God, have an elder they respect and have passion.
I was married before and divorced. Now I am in a relationship and even engaged but after listening to this, I am labouring in prayer today, LORD step in and make this man to whom I am engaged to God fearing as you are making me God fearing. From today I walk in line with the scripture by Grace. My children will be God fearing and their future wives and husbands will be God fearing too
Thank you Jesus, Thank you Holy Spirit, Thank you Apostle Joshua Selman for this message
Maybe hold back on the marriage until you are very sure this is God's choice!
Sister, trade with caution…
This your line, “Lord step in and make this man whom I am engaged to God fearing as you’re making me”.
It means he’s NOT currently submissive to God (God fearing).
Pls for the sake of your children pls DO NOT do anything you will REGRET again. Pls don’t be in a haste to marry without 100% I mean 100% confirmation from GOD.
Yes Servant of God I truly made the worst mistake by going into such marriage that have left me raising 3 children,may God forgive me and I pray my daughter's grow as they listen to such powerful message to help them in Future
God i shall wait till the one who fears you come my way.
God help me
That my mistakes, i chose by myself, i didn't asked God if that man is your man. My sister, don't taking a man because he is handsome, good looking, no, no, most of the time you will choose an evil, he will destroy your life, treating you badly. When i was married, i have 24 years old, and my ex have 30, he was treating me so bad, i have 3 kids with him, then i feel sorry for my life, i born in a Christian family, that man lied to my parents, he doesn't know God, he never go to Christian Church. When i married with him, he have day to sleep with me, it's really a miserable life. Finally we divorced. Since 2000 till now i never need man in my life again. Thank God my kids become adults, we lives so close each others. Let God choose a man for you, not you see a man in your own.
Listen to Apostle Suleman, follow God and follow Apostle Suleman instructions.
You are right 💔🤦
God thanks for this message. am so sorry i messed up my life but please God, rescue me from this pains. if this union was not according to your will God give me the strength to get out of it. i know you have seen my tears and heard my cries. intervene!!!!
Take heart. Convert your tears to praise and prayers. Stay contrite and God will take the mess and give you a testimony. Stay blessed.
Amen
Surely God will give u a miracle in Jesus name i pray Amen
Same here
I wish I had this wisdom before I got married🤦♀️
You are not alone ma.
Me too sigh
Me too
It’s not late, It is only God that can change men. Apostle also said the same hand that held gun can still hold a Bible. Pray for him/her. I so much believe God won’t watch you suffer while you persist in prayer.
And also while you pray your character also matters, be meek and humble. The Bible says we should be wise as serpent and meek as dove. It might not yield immediate result, but It will surely minister the him/her and cause him/her to change.
1) Must be God fearing
2) Must be able to submit to an earthly authority( for mentorship, building and correction)
3) Must have passion for you ( qualifies the extent of love. More than physical stature, depth of resolve). Through that lady (the man gets satisfaction and fulfilment)
4) Demonstration of Responsibility
Thank you for breaking it down. Ladies if your man don't have these qualities get rid of him. IMMEDIATELY.
Thanks for putting it in short for us 👏👏👏
I have been married for almost 3yrs now no pace no love no understand I just realized that he married me because of money
And he doesn't listen to any one not even his mom or our pastor
Oh Lord help me
God fearing, mentorship, passion, responsible..........wow!
Lord have mercy on all of sisters
Amen
Surely mercy on us
Amen
I married an irresponsible husband and he doesn't have fear of God either. Catholic church nullified the marriage on the basis that there was no love after 2 children . I have just understood better after listening to this message. I pray God will help me to get it right maritally again by his Grace
Lord may i never make a mistake in marrying th wrong person for my destiny in Jesus mighty name
🙏🏾 Amen
Amen
God bless you.
Amen
All I can do now is to thank God for your life when I listen to your messages it's like you are sermon ING me to wake up and do the right thing your messages move me
I have already made d mistake in choosing a partner, so right now am planning on divorce. God will bring d right man into my life in his mercy.
Oh no. Sorry about that. All the same, I encourage you to talk to a real man or woman of God for counselling first please... The likes of Gloria Bamiloye
Unfortunately no divorce allowed in the Bible.
Instead of looking for a divorce, spend the time to pray that your husband becomes a man of GOD instead you go "out" looking for a man of GOD.
God hates divorce
@@mercymuunda3755 He hates divorce but he hates the actions that lead to divorce. Furthermore the Bible does have some exceptions. Although God hates it it doesn’t mean you’re going to go to hell for getting one. You need to look at the context of why he said that. Because that statement has made a lot of people stay in terrible marriages for years and even die in them
Every time I listen to this, I get new revelations.
Lord please let the right person you have destined for me find me. Let your will prevail in my life 🙌
In the mighty name of Jesus, for me too Lord! Answer by fire 🔥 for us.
I received it too for myself and my daughter and so shall it be in Jesus mighty name. Amen
Oh Lord may we never choose wrongly choosing a life partner.
Amen 🙏🙏🙏
Amen
God bless me with a man who will love me with passion
Amen sis sylvia
I don't care if he is tall and handsome and wear a tie. He must be sanctify. If he's not do like me🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️thank you man of God 🙏
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I love the spirit
May God Help Us To See, Know And Be With The Right One. Amen ❣️
Crying 😭,am in this shoes
Lord this displays your love for mankind by providing us with this important message , let those who hear it do the right thing
Going through comments and I just realized am lucky cos I just ended my relationship,I can’t be coping in relationship and then bare in marriage
Congratulations Sis..
Thank you Daddy,
I'm fortunate to learn this while young,
Now I know what to do when the right time comes😊🙏
God bless you, guide you and lead you into a wonderful helper , God fearing as He wills..grace to you😍🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼
You must be God fearing and must be right with God. God must be first in a man or a woman’s life if not, run for your life.
Indeed when you know the truth it sets you free...I am free from a fake relationship
yes oh.Amen
This is an eye opening and true message for everyone to avoid painful and destiny destroying marriages. Thank you Lord for a message like this and be Thou glorified
LORD PLEASE TURN MY HUSBAND HEART INTO A GOD FEARING HEART🙏🏾 ❤
This is also my prayer. Amen...
Anissa, In JESUS NAME!!!
Amen
Amen
Amen....in Jesus name.
I don't know why I came across this message but i believe that God is telling me that the decision i am taking is the right one for myself as i plan to leave my pastor husband who has been cheating on me and even have children with different women. Emotionally I have already left him, i just need to pack out and leave. I've had enough. Praying i have prayed, counseling we have been to, but he just doesn't have willingness to change his ways and therefore i am done trying. Thank you sir, you're different from all the pastors I have met, you don't sugar-coat.
Love and light to you Sis. Will be praying for you😥❤. May you continue finding counsel from God.
Be strong dear, God has the final say.
Am going through the same thing, though mine is not a pastor. But am really contemplating leavings since I saw his nudes with the other women how they mate. And he's not even sorry. He says at least he didn't bring her home to introduce her to me.
It's so painful, even just looking at him hurts.
I need prayers please.
Ohh lord,pls help me not to make mistakes in marriage...help me lord,so I can fulfill my destiny in Christ Jesus....
I marry a right man in Jesus name
God fearing
Submit to authority
Passionate
Responsible
Tap from your blessings 🙏
Lord show me your compassionate love and mercy, for when your mercy speaks, everything will work for my Good according to the scripture 🙏
Thank you pastor for opening my eyes before I make any mistake,am from Malawi but I have been following your teaching and advises
Absolutely Powerful message Apostle!! As a single woman, this message certainly encouraged me. Thanks so much ! God Bless You Apostle Joshua Selman. Much Love!🙏🙏🙌🙌🤗🤗
A touching sermon, as the bible says in Colossians 3:16 " let the word of the Lord dwell in you reachly as you teach and admonish one another..." Am blessed by thy word.May the Lord guide me in choosing my life partner 🙏🏿🙏🏿
Lord God I need your hands in my life. I want someone that has passion for God first, then passion for me
God help me to do things according to your will .
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Amen
Lord thank you for message. .sometimes it's just difficult to listen to God speak and obey. God please help me to able to listen to you, help me lord to be able to make the right choice of a partner. Expose all that are meant to be exposed in my life and in my choice of making a choice.
Lord may i never make a mistake in my life partner in jesus name ... help me open my eyez lord and expose the weong ones Amen!
Love that he speaks so clearly, and truth
Lord,forgive me for being stucked in a wrong union 🙏🏼
GOD is faithful, you are to continue to pray for him to be changed. The LORD will honour your prayers.
You re not alone. Mine lacks almost all
Have to pray day and night sigh
You are not alone dear praying God change mine too 🥺🥺
He will show u mercy in Jesus name Amen
Thanks so much Apostle . As a parent we have missed it at a point May God teach our children and correct all the mistakes that has been made raising them .
Thank God am in the waiting season 🙏🏼 thank you Jesus for directing me to this video
There must be order in The Body of Christ... Let all things be done decently and in order🤲🙏💥🔥💙❤May God restore the fear of God in our lives in The Body of Christ 🤲🙏💥🔥💙❤👌🙌🧡♥
Oh Lord,help me to never miss it in my choice of a husband
Thank u so much Man of God....Though l made mistake back then,now l believe in God to lead my path....am so blessed with this wonderful message....More grace sir
Raw word from a great teacher. Undiluted word.
Abba Father, in the name of Yeshua Ha Maschiach need your guidance NOT to fall against your purpose in my LIFE! In my 40's longed for my prayer partner soon a God fearing man, submit to authority, Passion & Responsible! Amein.
I remember listening to the message before but I could not break up then. I broke up few days ago because even after being together again nothing changed. I came back to listen to the message again after that and the first two reasons were still missing. He had 3 and 4 and I still kept waiting for 1 and 2 to happen. I knew I made the right decision but I'm still so hurt. I want to move on but I'm so hurt
What a powerful teaching. A timely message. He teaches and flow in the Anointing of his office, an apostle. Thank you Fearful man of GOD. I'm truly moved and blessed by your sermon.
Lord Grant me the Grace to incline this world into my life 🙏 and direct me your path not to make wrong choice in a relationship that we lead to marriage , and finally father help me to keep this rules update
Am quite proud to be one among the Priviledged, to hear and listen to this such an incredible and wisdomized message.
Lead me lord to the above qualities in Jesus Mighty name Amen
Pure truth is setting us free in Jesus Mighty name..
These deep revelation teachings you won't hear in your local church, I thank God for using Apostle Joshua to save our generation..this msg is saved in my phone for reference and for interviewing potential men coming in my life 🤣🤣🤣.. My Apostle, my daddy has spoken, I can't drag anyone, it's not going to be easy brothers🔥🔥🤣🤣
Dear ,Father God due to past experiences I feel that there r no good men I feel as if they extinct .
I pray if it is your will Lord perhaps
I will find a man who fears YOU FATHER . some one who will love and honor me as he should .
Leah
There are still good men, my dear Sis...God will direct him to your part in the name of Jesus. You just keep trusting God, and be watchful....God bless you
I wish all men will sit down and listen to the voice of God through you... that every man submits to the will of God in every area and not selected areas. Men should conform to the will of God and not the ways of this world.
Amen , i Hope so.
I have received so much knowledge from listening to this.
Lord I don't know who to choose but I ask you to choose for me my divine partner in Jesus name
This man speaks with such wisdom/God bless you
I didn't want the message to end the pastor is so on point...
Thank you Apostle Selman for sharing so much wisdom, I have learnt a lot from this teaching. May God increase you more and more🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾