Ladies, he's telling you straight. If a woman can't hold a face to face conversation and communicate properly, it's a deal breaker for me. You must be able to articulate your thoughts and feelings.
You would be surprised how many women do not know how to have a basic conversation. I have found a lot of Black Women lack basic communication skills. It is a real shame and a huge turn off actually an instant deal breaker
I didn’t know how bad it was until I joined a few women only groups. The women I’m around aren’t this delusional and entitled, but online they are wild and dead serious about these incredibly high standards.
Facts like after she presented herself that way I was immediately turned off an alpha female and obese and thinks men are intimidate by that and she didn't take accountability for her weight these just love to talk and overvalue themselves when they are losing badly
And they are dying from the overdosing of it... So may they not R.I.P. There's nothing more better than a good conversation over the phone, and setting a date 2 meeting face to face... In the days of old, they used 2 say that "2 much of anything is bad for you"...
It's terrible. I see entire families eating dinner in a restaurant, and no one is talking to one another. Every single one of them (including the adults!) are on their phones. Absolutely no interaction with each other. What's happening to Us? We're falling apart faster than we can lower our standards. 🧐🙏🏽
It amazes me how women assume men are intimidated by them because they have degrees, jobs and no debt. Those things are not as important as your physical attractiveness and your appeal.
@@Cookie20244 Naw. Broke women leave men, so there's that part. Plus, there are plenty of single women that want to be married with degrees, jobs and no debt (even tho women are the largest holders of student loan debt) who can't even get with a man to give him a message that she can leave. But, yet again, we have a woman telling men what men desire in women. What a time to be alive.
The reason why women cause so much confusion in a relationship is because they want to be in control over the man in the relationship. It's not in a man's nature to allow the woman to dominate him. Since the woman sees that she can't control him, she then cuts him off.
As a woman, it's crazy to me how delusional these women are! And that's in addition to their inability to clearly and concisely communicate. It's painful just to listen to them
The single women, too, who believe they're alpha females. The lawyer who called in was a sad case. She's clearly bitter about her weight. Kevin only told her what she _needed to hear,_ and she split. What did she expect? She knows what the problem is, but she's frozen in place and can't do anything about it beyond blaming men for not having what she wants.
Women have admitted a thousand times already they don't know what they want...even at age 30 so this is going to be extremely difficult... they are confused af we are logical they are emotional
Well, Arrange marriage provide logic to their emotional mind. They removed that system and did not replace it with a new system. So now, they are doomed to fail. Failure is a standard, success is a exception. Their new system is literally shoot for the stars and land on that even further star
@A Robespierre " Eastern women know their mother ....place"; are you sure? I do not bet on that, it is too risky. Perhaps some of them are there - as you stated. A lot of them, once in the Western world: citizenship, money, divorce, any Benefit they can grab (house, child(ren), valuable goods, etc...).
80% of the Black Community single parent household. Reason women are not being held for bad decisions is The State will always bail them out. All these baby mother calling in is crazy . “Pandemic “
@@STeroidsnicca I think welfare was a way to aid these women... But they took advantage of a Aid and mistake it for a lifestyle...Wont blame the government for this cause at the end of the day they're adults take responsibility.
Every single night, I see Kevin start a polite and pleasant conversation with the callers and EVERY SINGLE DAY the callers take his pleasant introduction to them for granted and start talking over them and start the sign language the moment he gets to the truth they’re trying to cover up through omission. Then these callers get on the comments and say he hates himself, his mother and women all together. It never ceases to amaze me how detached from reality the callers, divesters and just most women are in general. It’s “bashing” to tell the truth but it’s a betrayal of your kind if you just mind your business and save yourselves the heartache. Damned if you do. Damned if you don’t. Y’all should thank Kevin because 99% of men don’t have the patience for you that he does.
I know you didn't ask nor care but I am truly a single male. I agree though. About 99 percent of people are sleeping with someone and say they are single.
As someone that is actually single by choice, this is all rather disheartening. Ever since college, which would probably be like 6 years ago, I look at women like "why even bother" And now I'm currently in a relationship and I still look at it the same way; "why even bother" Kind of a sad existence really...
We need to actively get out there and date! Less phone/social media interaction and allow face to face interactions and communication! I've always loved being on the phone, there are so many nuances and messages that can be misconstrued via text message! I agree with Kevin on that!
Naa, i am good stacking that cash, stock investments, playing xBox, working out, sleeping like a horse, life is good without a chameleon (modern woman).
@@jellybeans9283 exactly 💯! She was already around high value people and she looked the part. Most trying to cling to that hope look nowhere near how she looks.
Who in the hell would think a famous celebrity can do this, so can I? People really think they can be on Ciara’s level without being her, and putting in the work early in life to be richer and more famous than 99% of all women? Maybe pursuing psychology could be lucrative lmao. That’s delusion.
That was a down grade for Russell Wilson. He has to deal with being compared to Future and his pill 💊 poping and 9 baby mama's when he could've just started fresh.
True: I had a female friend brought that convo up over da phone. I said look @ her, and now look @ you? After a few kids she had already, but you only had one... I asked what's the difference?. Crickets... Translation= after Ciara has given birth 2 her children. She was able to lose the baby weight... My female buddy only had one child. She hasn't lost any weight, but has gain more weight... Do u now 👁️ da difference?🧱🙈🙉🙊📢
Kevin is damn near Moses in this relationship game. His understanding of the game is world class level. We may not know it now but one day we'll look back and be like damn. Dude was the truth
When will single mothers understand that being a “good mother” to another man’s child is meaningless on the dating market? You’re supposed to be a good mom. That’s not special or noteworthy.
Lol Christianity told her to be single? I’m Muslim which is a more strict and orthodox religion. Yet I still found a man and been with him for 9 years and still going strong 💪🏾
These women are entertaining. They want KS to tell them how to fool an HVM into picking them. What the ladies do not understand is that HVM cannot be fooled or manipulated.
I needed a dame drink after listening to the first caller my God since watching your show Kevin I somewhat feel embarrassed and ashamed of how women just conduct and actually think and feel so entitled to men money with nothing at all to offer it saddens my heart but I’m here for it
What you're witnessing is not exclusive to women but women have more of a ability to hide this aspect of themselves. Most of us know the pleasantness of our co-workers, associates, extended family, and even our friends.... We rarely get to see or hear these people resentment, anger, rage, immaturity when their backs are against the wall and they are talking about what they want and don't want. Kevin draws out the immaturity of women who don't care about men but want a man. He shows that just like men sometimes objectify women, women also objectify men as nothing more than walking wallets, over glorified guard dogs/body guards, and the occasional sex toy like a dildo/vibrater.
Worse yet a lot of women see men as 2 dimensional non human entities with a lists of characteristics and resources. It is beyond a hot mess out there....
Show starts 26:00 Skip music 38:35 Skip money work 56:44 First caller 1:02:10 26 year old Dominican single mom, wants HVM Cannot communicate, Kevin recommends therapy Second caller: 1:23:17 33, married to HVM Has 17 month old baby from another man Seeking advice on therapy Third caller 1:28:13 38 5’4”, size 8, doesn’t know weight Danger zone, let last relationship end foolishly Blames Christianity Fourth caller 1:49:22 29, 5’7”, 213 lbs, 12/14 dress size, obese Are men intimidated by educated, alpha women? Ends in taps Info on next show 2:01:02
Dating was never the natural way for mating. Competent parents would choose their daughter's husband. We have abandoned that blueprint and look where it has got us. Nothing wrong with having standards or preferences but the great equalizer is REALITY. The wall is undefeated.
You are right. Relationships used to be based on accepted cultural expectations and standards. Now, with this freedom that we utilize today, the focus has shifted to our personal likes/dislikes, rather than objective standards that are outside of ourselves. So now we just nit pick anyone who's not exactly what we want, it's all about who can please us. We date people like they're toys, and discard them when we lose interest
That's why I only listen to Kevin. As soon as he start talking with the females, I leave. The female callers are hard to listen to because their voices are very irritating.
@DeMario Simms I don’t blame you for leaving...some of the ladies have trouble keeping their composure. But I still listen to them talk. When they talk over Kevin enough times, they’ll make him lose his marbles. 😅
That's funny! You know how to pick em😕. Now go within and identify why YOU continue to pick the same type. You'll figure it out. Good luck and stay Encouraged! Peace, Brother...👍
im so glad i find kevins youtube channel, as a man i learned so much, i come from different background, but kevins advices are universal, they apply to all people
@@leshughes1074 my point sir is that “social media” happens on RUclips.. people talking and being social, even if they are not flirting. It still takes time and can possibly take away from interacting IRL (in real life). While women may spend more time on platforms like IG receiving feedback on pictures they post for attention, more men are on RUclips having conversations with strangers (like we are right now on this thread). I agree with your statement that “we all” have a dependence on social media. I disagree with an implication that women are “more” caught up with SM. Men are too, it just takes a different form or happens on different platforms. No disrespect intended tho sir. I agree with your comment “we all”.
Don't overlook when Kevin mentioned the 30-60-90 day behavior... I've been calling average women "3 month girlfriends " since I was in my teens. They're fine to date, have sex but nothing to marry. There are plenty of them out there. They can only be interesting for a few months.
At 18 I had thyroid cancer and thus had my full thyroid gland removed. Biggest mistake of my life taking WHOLE gland out. I gain weight every time I end up missing a few doses of my thyroid medication on time. I gain weight twice or quadruple as fast as I can drop it. Kevin has helped me realise that I need to stop focusing on my engineering degree and focus on getting my medication and weight In control. My man has stuck with me through all this mess but he deserves for me to go back and be what I was when he first choose me as his wife.
The only hiccup in the beginning of this show is the statement that women are "talking" to several men, the truth is they're "having sex" with several men at same time, that's the core of the problem. If you don't give your sheets the time to even dry out, how the hell are you gonna know who's in it for the long run.
Why do women think men are "intimidated" by them cause of education or degrees. No ma'am more like we are not impressed and turned off by the masculine energy they put out smh...
There is literally no incentive to getting in LTR with them nowadays. I have waaaaay too many options as a free agent to surrender my peace, finances and freedom. They are only really bringing one thing to the table and you can get that everywhere (even pay for it) lol
@@SplashWaveBeats Don't sweat it man. Point I was trying to make is the women use social media presence or lack thereof to judge you and your worth and it's laughable.
The women who are calling in can not hold a conversation effectively it looks bad on us females. If you have listened to this guys vids then you should get somewhat prepared for the type of questions he will be asking you. Be proactive and prepared so that the conversation can flow smoothly and you don’t over talk him.
Godfather actually quoted an Applicable Nickelback lyric in Real Time.''Swirlers'' don't have that kind of talent. Dude is as well rounded as they come.
Just wanted to say thank you Kevin for all of your videos that you post being a young man that didn’t grow up with his father or uncles your videos help every day life a lot keep up the good work 💯
I have a Ph.D. really is a "Superiority Bias". What they are really saying is! "I'm different". I'm more rational than others, more ethical as well. Few would say this to people in conversation. It sounds arrogant. But in numerous opinion polls and studies, when asked to compare themselves with others, people generally express a variation of this. It's the equivalent of an optical illusion--we cannot seem to see our faults and irrationalities, only those of others. So, for instance, we'll easily believe that those in other political parties do not come to their opinions based on rational principles, but those on our side have done so.
You are not paying enough attention sir...do not call yourself "king"...you are putting yourself on a pedestal...young black man will do just fine don't you think?
Whew!!!!!!!!!! All this extra chatter! I really don't know how he does it! 🤦🏾♀️ JUST ANSWER THE QUESTION! These women are all over the place😬! Toastmasters worked well for me when I was in my 20s.
Very correct...I had a guy tell me he wanted to be in my life in some capacity, but didn't want to be IN a relationship with me...lol. wanted to give me money, have sex, but not go out not speak on the phone, not do normal stuff...smh I'm still confused...lol. I'm single I'm not talking to anyone or sleeping with anyone. AT ALL.
@@delorismartin3537 where was the confusion? The confusion exists in the gap between reality and your expectations. That's also where disappointment lies. The man told you what he wanted. You don't want that. Game over.
@@WordsMatter1982 you are correct game was over, I didn't except his terms so there was nothing more to speak of🤷🏾♀️...placing an experience of my own in relation to the clip...🤷🏾♀️
@@delorismartin3537 I hope I didn't come off as attacking. But a lot of women say they are confused about what a guy wants, even when he tells them verbatim.
@@WordsMatter1982 I could of read it nasty, I am usually read to tussle bc most men come out the gate ready to draw blood....So it was more me than you, thank you for the clarity 😊...... The same man that told me exactly what he wanted also attempted to stake claim to me by not wanting me to date other men...etc so that is where I was confused by him. But its been over for awhile no sweat off my back definitely a lesson learned on EFFECTIVE communication...I am still learning 😉😅
Yep... at the start of our marriage (we were married in the 70's) my ex wife was puzzled why I was so nice to her all the time..... she broke me down enough to where i was no longer a nice person every day. I wanted her to feel as though she was the most important person to me granted I did have other responsibilities but being accused of not being honest was terrible. I reached a point where I decided I had enough and walked away from her and my daughter. It was a tough decision and I still feel the pain of putting my foot down. But I had too. Some women love chaos and confusion. Some women are so screwed up they confuse being nice with you being some type of sinister and evil human being..but its not my fault... its yours. Perhaps i really am better off without you.
My husband and I were both average working people, we didn't have a lot but we worked with what we had. We had ups and downs. I stuck with him through his addiction and other things. We were married for 19 yrs until he passed away in October. It's one and done for me. I accept being passed the danger zone and I'm not frustrated or have a problem being alone now. I can say I was married.
The delusion is deep. Why do all these below average women think they deserve the best men? Steve Harvey, Oprah, and Tyler Perry got rich off making these women think they are better than they are.
Just proves men that money alone don’t make you worth a nickel. Hell I knew in high school college not to take a women with kids serious and I had a child😂. It’s a bad deal!
The hard truth for some Men to accept is from a natural perspective, most women only see you as protection and resources. Love? It's business on both ends and it is difficult to play the game knowing you are seen as nothing more as utility.
@frank james All of us have masculine and feminine qualities--some of this is genetic, and some of it comes from the profound influences of the parent of the opposite sex. But in the need to present a consistent identity in society, we tend to repress these qualities, overidentifying with the masculine or feminine role expected of us. And we pay a price for this. We lose valuable dimensions to our character. Our thinking and ways of acting become rigid. Our relationships with members of the opposite sex suffer as we project onto them our own fantasies and hostilities.
@frank james So how do we have men who play the role of an alpha or beta and woman who play the role of masculine or feminine roles? Also if we're talking genetics my aunts and sisters have mourning shadow facial hair like a man! Pretty boy's facial structure is not considered genetically masculine in the psychology of facial reading.
@frank james So am i getting this straight? Your saying its up to the parents rearing and raising up a child that ultimately determines the feminine/masculine traits that child will lean on?
On the ethical front, few of us will ever admit that we have resorted to deception or manipulation in our work or have been clever and strategic in our career advancement. Everything we've got, or so we think, comes from natural talent and hard work. But with other people, we are quick to ascribe to them all kinds of Machiavellian tactics. This allows us to justify whatever we do, no matter the results. We feel a tremendous pull to imagine ourselves as rational, decent, and ethical.
Glad I got rid of my social media (not RUclips). After befriending a gal who never used any of it in all her life she taught me a lot. I’m going as far as getting rid of my smartphone first of the year.
First caller: Wanted to know what she needs to do to qualify for a high value man, and she already knew that being a baby mother is a hinderance. However, Kevin didn’t or couldn’t answer her question. Maybe she should ask a high value woman how to be a high value woman. If you wanna learn to be a ballerina you should go to dance school. If you wanna learn to be a high value woman then ask a high value women- period. Second Caller: Delusional and a liar. She was with a working man but said he wasn’t able to provide, I call B.S. Kevin hit the nail on the head - “you are unfit for relationships” Fourth Caller: Uncooperative, bad attitude, thinks she’s all that and she’s morbidly obese. She doesn’t even qualify for a one night stand.
Well I as a black woman I normally disagree with Kevin but this is the second video that I can completely agree with about the differences between men and woman. I enjoyed this video. Thank you for your honesty.
@@thedadyouneverhadchannel3544 I have only learn to except the truth by successfully maintaining a 20 marriage with a black man. Why are you so ready to attack me? We don't know each other to address one another with any type of aggression. Maybe you have an issue with some woman and you should address her with all this aggression and not me. I don't make any comments to disrespect and man or woman I just express my own opinions of the topics that were being discussed and that's it.
About the confusion: if you know what it is then you know what it ain't, if you don't know what it is, then it ain't what you want" Miscomunication leads to TRIAL ERROR INJURY always
we are social animals by nature. the feeling of isolation, of difference from the group, is depressing and terrifying witch is part of why I feel women least have these conversations about their lack of relationship understanding. We experience tremendous relief when we find others who think the same way we do for example fimenism!
More than anything else this show taught me that my natural instincts were correct this whole time. And the music I listen to the movies I watched were training me to ignore my natural instincts or at least go against them. My eyes are open now I can never go back.
Ladies, he's telling you straight. If a woman can't hold a face to face conversation and communicate properly, it's a deal breaker for me. You must be able to articulate your thoughts and feelings.
💯 Those conversations were so frustrating to listen to. And I’m a woman. Wow.
Oh they articulate their feelings alright. Problem is no thought goes into it.
I know when a sentenced starts with "I feel like" the communication is going to be unstructured
@@imandalton4227 😂😂😂 FACTS
You would be surprised how many women do not know how to have a basic conversation. I have found a lot of Black Women lack basic communication skills. It is a real shame and a huge turn off actually an instant deal breaker
I know a few ladies with social media accounts who post sexy pictures then say, "don't judge me on my body".
Women are beyond crazy.
@@paulsoutbackgardenaustrali7674 “No shit Einstein”..? Chill out beta ...
I am sick of that
Omg dude I've seen that so many many times!🤦😂
Or say don't come at them focused on sex but all of their pics are of there butts.
🤣😂
I would not ever have believed in my wildest dreams that women were this delusional until this show from our godfather.
I didn’t know how bad it was until I joined a few women only groups. The women I’m around aren’t this delusional and entitled, but online they are wild and dead serious about these incredibly high standards.
Real shit!! 💯
Shit Facebook opened my eyes wide open to a bunch of bs these chicks be on. Man if I wasn't married to my wife im very sure I'd be single right now.
For real legit thought they're trolling but thats not the case..how is this even possible??
Im saying.
Men will sacrifice Looks for Cooperation.
Damn ain't that the truth 🙏
This is what I'm banking on. Lol.
💯
Too a limit,if you to off on your looks game ovahh!!
@@EarlyBeeee if you can cook and clean + cooperation. You can easily 2-4+ on your looks.
*"You're the only common denominator in your lack of relationships."* ~ Kevin R. Samuels 🔥🎯 *pin that*
🔥🔥🔥
Fourth caller - NO, men are not intimidated by any woman. They can be repulsed by uncooperative masculine women
Facts like after she presented herself that way I was immediately turned off an alpha female and obese and thinks men are intimidate by that and she didn't take accountability for her weight these just love to talk and overvalue themselves when they are losing badly
Attention is a drug and social media is the dealer. 🤦🏾♂️
Social media is the female "porn"!
@@zibbo8315 Validation at the click of a button.
And they are dying from the overdosing of it... So may they not R.I.P.
There's nothing more better than a good conversation over the phone, and setting a date 2 meeting face to face...
In the days of old, they used 2 say that "2 much of anything is bad for you"...
The best and most accurate comment on this page……period.
It's terrible. I see entire families eating dinner in a restaurant, and no one is talking to one another. Every single one of them (including the adults!) are on their phones. Absolutely no interaction with each other. What's happening to Us? We're falling apart faster than we can lower our standards. 🧐🙏🏽
It amazes me how women assume men are intimidated by them because they have degrees, jobs and no debt. Those things are not as important as your physical attractiveness and your appeal.
DENIAL.. They're just lying to themselves in attempt to justify their relationship status.
@@Cookie20244 Women don't just leave though. Drama comes with it
@@Cookie20244
Naw. Broke women leave men, so there's that part. Plus, there are plenty of single women that want to be married with degrees, jobs and no debt (even tho women are the largest holders of student loan debt) who can't even get with a man to give him a message that she can leave.
But, yet again, we have a woman telling men what men desire in women.
What a time to be alive.
No, they have plenty of college debt.
Now you're speaking fighting words 2 da bw...🧱🙊🙉🙈📢
The reason why women cause so much confusion in a relationship is because they want to be in control over the man in the relationship. It's not in a man's nature to allow the woman to dominate him. Since the woman sees that she can't control him, she then cuts him off.
Dat ideology iz 1million% TRU.💯×💯👌
So the dilemma is why do woman want to dictate manhood?
@@malikr2271 Lets look at it like this... welfare or you!!!!!!
Well they messed that up when they followed the devil. Also God made women for men,so they need to play their position.
also women just love confusion
As a woman, it's crazy to me how delusional these women are! And that's in addition to their inability to clearly and concisely communicate. It's painful just to listen to them
I do believe some people are just living and don't have a single logic thought in their 🧠
@Sarai Yes, it's excruciating. They don't even know how to talk.
Sheer illiteracy
Don't suppose your single lol 😂
I love how Kevin walks women through the logic of a HVM when they call asking how to get a HVM, especially the single mothers.
The single women, too, who believe they're alpha females. The lawyer who called in was a sad case. She's clearly bitter about her weight. Kevin only told her what she _needed to hear,_ and she split. What did she expect? She knows what the problem is, but she's frozen in place and can't do anything about it beyond blaming men for not having what she wants.
Kevin: “Did he ask you to marry him?”
Caller: “Yes”
Kevin: “Did he propose?”
Caller: “No..”
LOL. Mr. Samuels, are you are greatly missed.
Lol yes indeed
Lady callers please research the word ACCOUNTABILITY before you call in.
Facts
Also “get to the point”
Women have admitted a thousand times already they don't know what they want...even at age 30 so this is going to be extremely difficult... they are confused af we are logical they are emotional
Well, Arrange marriage provide logic to their emotional mind. They removed that system and did not replace it with a new system. So now, they are doomed to fail. Failure is a standard, success is a exception. Their new system is literally shoot for the stars and land on that even further star
@@StupidBadyXD FACTS
@A Robespierre i see.. looks like I’ll be heading east 👨🌾
@A Robespierre " Eastern women know their mother ....place"; are you sure? I do not bet on that, it is too risky. Perhaps some of them are there - as you stated. A lot of them, once in the Western world: citizenship, money, divorce, any Benefit they can grab (house, child(ren), valuable goods, etc...).
@A Robespierre Good tactics! By the way: "in the East".
80% of the Black Community single parent household. Reason women are not being held for bad decisions is The State will always bail them out. All these baby mother calling in is crazy . “Pandemic “
The welfare state is one of the biggest scams in the black community.
Facts!!!!!!
@Cairo Big Facts thats why most women vote democrat. They know Republicans don’t want a welfare state.
Heck yeah! After all, the child was made via budding. They did it to themselves 🙄
@@STeroidsnicca I think welfare was a way to aid these women... But they took advantage of a Aid and mistake it for a lifestyle...Wont blame the government for this cause at the end of the day they're adults take responsibility.
Kevin has the patience of a thousand Mother Teresa's. Some of these callers really don't want to listen to him but just want their time to speak.
The "Alpha Woman" couldn't handle the conversation so she bailed. Afterwards, she either cried or cuddled herself about the truth. Yeah so alpha.
lol, she went to go drink some more!
Nahh.... she went for the tub of ice cream
Facts the truth they can't handle
You are 38 and can’t find a man? Who’s fault is that? For some reason the men you want just aren’t choosing you.
I love the phrase “he’s not playing hard to get, you’re just hard to want”
@@welshhibby that's 🥶🤣🤣
"I don't weigh myself" 💀💀💀
Because the scale will say something she doesn't want to hear
🚩🚩🚩🚩
Ageed because the scale will always tell the truth
The scale can't lie to her like them beta simps who applaud her. Too much truth coming from the numbers
Lol
Every single night, I see Kevin start a polite and pleasant conversation with the callers and EVERY SINGLE DAY the callers take his pleasant introduction to them for granted and start talking over them and start the sign language the moment he gets to the truth they’re trying to cover up through omission. Then these callers get on the comments and say he hates himself, his mother and women all together. It never ceases to amaze me how detached from reality the callers, divesters and just most women are in general. It’s “bashing” to tell the truth but it’s a betrayal of your kind if you just mind your business and save yourselves the heartache. Damned if you do. Damned if you don’t. Y’all should thank Kevin because 99% of men don’t have the patience for you that he does.
Facts! 💯Same stuff every day.
The women personalize what is being said because it applies and it hurts. Their attitude is a deflection.
Word!!
"Nobody is really single these days" Yes sir!!!!!! You hit the nail on the head! I wish I had these teachings years ago.
I know you didn't ask nor care but I am truly a single male. I agree though. About 99 percent of people are sleeping with someone and say they are single.
Everyone’s entangled
As someone that is actually single by choice, this is all rather disheartening. Ever since college, which would probably be like 6 years ago, I look at women like "why even bother"
And now I'm currently in a relationship and I still look at it the same way; "why even bother"
Kind of a sad existence really...
If you not married ur single.
We need to actively get out there and date! Less phone/social media interaction and allow face to face interactions and communication! I've always loved being on the phone, there are so many nuances and messages that can be misconstrued via text message! I agree with Kevin on that!
Right that’s why i hate anything other than face to face
I concur
Social media is the female "porn"!
Naa, i am good stacking that cash, stock investments, playing xBox, working out, sleeping like a horse, life is good without a chameleon (modern woman).
Here Here
I've NEVER heard a woman rate herself less than an 8 on this show..
Lol broooo....
Many are looking at Ciara as a beacon of hope to fulfill their fantasies and delusions of grandeur.
But they conveniently forget that Ciara had a toned body and a successful/lucrative career
@@jellybeans9283 exactly 💯! She was already around high value people and she looked the part. Most trying to cling to that hope look nowhere near how she looks.
Who in the hell would think a famous celebrity can do this, so can I? People really think they can be on Ciara’s level without being her, and putting in the work early in life to be richer and more famous than 99% of all women? Maybe pursuing psychology could be lucrative lmao. That’s delusion.
That was a down grade for Russell Wilson. He has to deal with being compared to Future and his pill 💊 poping and 9 baby mama's when he could've just started fresh.
True: I had a female friend brought that convo up over da phone. I said look @ her, and now look @ you? After a few kids she had already, but you only had one... I asked what's the difference?. Crickets...
Translation= after Ciara has given birth 2 her children. She was able to lose the baby weight... My female buddy only had one child. She hasn't lost any weight, but has gain more weight... Do u now 👁️ da difference?🧱🙈🙉🙊📢
Kevin is damn near Moses in this relationship game. His understanding of the game is world class level. We may not know it now but one day we'll look back and be like damn. Dude was the truth
🎯 seconded
Ive watched every episode since april... this is no exageration
@@anteup971 you said that like it was a landmark statement
I wonder when all this knowledge came into being, must have been after the 2 divorces he speaks about. Something missing here
@@bathombre9739 so advice can only be given by those currently [even if miserably] married? 🤔
When will single mothers understand that being a “good mother” to another man’s child is meaningless on the dating market? You’re supposed to be a good mom. That’s not special or noteworthy.
I'm here going thru any of his videos I might have missed. Can't believe you're gone Godfather...
Same here
Lol Christianity told her to be single? I’m Muslim which is a more strict and orthodox religion. Yet I still found a man and been with him for 9 years and still going strong 💪🏾
MashaAllah
So she drank 70 pounds on and then blame it on life? 🤔😂
These women are entertaining. They want KS to tell them how to fool an HVM into picking them. What the ladies do not understand is that HVM cannot be fooled or manipulated.
Because they control the market.
@@gw6496 no, they just evaluate EVERYTHING
I needed a dame drink after listening to the first caller my God since watching your show Kevin I somewhat feel embarrassed and ashamed of how women just conduct and actually think and feel so entitled to men money with nothing at all to offer it saddens my heart but I’m here for it
Same girl 💀💀 I’m verrry embarrassed
What you're witnessing is not exclusive to women but women have more of a ability to hide this aspect of themselves. Most of us know the pleasantness of our co-workers, associates, extended family, and even our friends.... We rarely get to see or hear these people resentment, anger, rage, immaturity when their backs are against the wall and they are talking about what they want and don't want.
Kevin draws out the immaturity of women who don't care about men but want a man. He shows that just like men sometimes objectify women, women also objectify men as nothing more than walking wallets, over glorified guard dogs/body guards, and the occasional sex toy like a dildo/vibrater.
@@MrZBlackneffect well said!
Linda Ann Oliver my ass will ghost on her real quick
Worse yet a lot of women see men as 2 dimensional non human entities with a lists of characteristics and resources. It is beyond a hot mess out there....
Show starts 26:00
Skip music 38:35
Skip money work 56:44
First caller 1:02:10
26 year old Dominican single mom, wants HVM
Cannot communicate, Kevin recommends therapy
Second caller: 1:23:17
33, married to HVM
Has 17 month old baby from another man
Seeking advice on therapy
Third caller 1:28:13
38 5’4”, size 8, doesn’t know weight
Danger zone, let last relationship end foolishly
Blames Christianity
Fourth caller 1:49:22
29, 5’7”, 213 lbs, 12/14 dress size, obese
Are men intimidated by educated, alpha women?
Ends in taps
Info on next show 2:01:02
Money WORLD
Thank you so much for this my husband is always sending me these videos and I always tell him to let me know when the video actually starts
🤜🏾🤛🏾
Thanks
Thank you....
Dating was never the natural way for mating. Competent parents would choose their daughter's husband. We have abandoned that blueprint and look where it has got us. Nothing wrong with having standards or preferences but the great equalizer is REALITY. The wall is undefeated.
You are right. Relationships used to be based on accepted cultural expectations and standards. Now, with this freedom that we utilize today, the focus has shifted to our personal likes/dislikes, rather than objective standards that are outside of ourselves.
So now we just nit pick anyone who's not exactly what we want, it's all about who can please us. We date people like they're toys, and discard them when we lose interest
Because a lot of parents be trash these days. I know I'd be luck cause I trust the fam, but can't say the same for others
True that! And they knew the family they were trying to hook u up with in and out
These women talk over Kevin every dang night...
That's why I only listen to Kevin. As soon as he start talking with the females, I leave. The female callers are hard to listen to because their voices are very irritating.
Kevin exposes their flaws which they can't seem to tolerate that well 😂
@@onur-a-k he does something worse. He lets them talk themselves into a corner exposing their own flaws. This way they can’t call it his “opinion”.
@@TheDCGuitar13 exactly!
@DeMario Simms
I don’t blame you for leaving...some of the ladies have trouble keeping their composure. But I still listen to them talk. When they talk over Kevin enough times, they’ll make him lose his marbles. 😅
"you need to get your priorities together and figure out what it is that you bring to a relationship other than what you want" 🎯
Listening to this show is like fast forwarding through all my exes. They had different names but they were all the same women. Confused and illogical
good one
That's funny! You know how to pick em😕. Now go within and identify why YOU continue to pick the same type. You'll figure it out. Good luck and stay Encouraged! Peace, Brother...👍
@@libbymills4432 all women argue in the same manner. Exes, cousins, co-workers. It's a female thing period. But thanks for the advice 👍
im so glad i find kevins youtube channel, as a man i learned so much, i come from different background, but kevins advices are universal, they apply to all people
5'7 215 alpha woman that prefers to lead 😂😂😂
Lead like a pulling guard.
Lead her way to No Man's Land
@@nykia31 haha damn 😂
Lead you to the best buffet in town
@@nykia31 nah. Too small for a guard. She’s definitely a fullback though😂😂😂
We all need to let social media go...it's done more harm than good...
You aren't gonna get many likes for this however you're exactly right.
I agree 100%
RUclips is social media as well
@@glendamaynard I learn from RUclips...a lot of DIY...and ain't nobody on here flirting or shooting their so what's your point?
@@leshughes1074 my point sir is that “social media” happens on RUclips.. people talking and being social, even if they are not flirting. It still takes time and can possibly take away from interacting IRL (in real life). While women may spend more time on platforms like IG receiving feedback on pictures they post for attention, more men are on RUclips having conversations with strangers (like we are right now on this thread). I agree with your statement that “we all” have a dependence on social media. I disagree with an implication that women are “more” caught up with SM. Men are too, it just takes a different form or happens on different platforms. No disrespect intended tho sir. I agree with your comment “we all”.
Don't overlook when Kevin mentioned the 30-60-90 day behavior... I've been calling average women "3 month girlfriends " since I was in my teens. They're fine to date, have sex but nothing to marry.
There are plenty of them out there.
They can only be interesting for a few months.
What time stamp?? Intro?
I know men are basically visual beings However, the one thing that KS brings to light is that we need to vett women at all cost!
At 18 I had thyroid cancer and thus had my full thyroid gland removed. Biggest mistake of my life taking WHOLE gland out. I gain weight every time I end up missing a few doses of my thyroid medication on time. I gain weight twice or quadruple as fast as I can drop it. Kevin has helped me realise that I need to stop focusing on my engineering degree and focus on getting my medication and weight In control. My man has stuck with me through all this mess but he deserves for me to go back and be what I was when he first choose me as his wife.
How are you now my dear??
Alot of women talk to guys like they just read a book on how to talk to guys.
Even if they did, who gives a shit. 🤷🏽♀️
@@AIClaw22 ????
@@mylesbrew5410 clarification: this was meant towards the women. Sorry! 😅
And that book is invariably written by a single or divorced woman.
The only hiccup in the beginning of this show is the statement that women are "talking" to several men, the truth is they're "having sex" with several men at same time, that's the core of the problem. If you don't give your sheets the time to even dry out, how the hell are you gonna know who's in it for the long run.
EXACTLY
That is the root problem in today's dating realm
He definitely took it easy around that part but I read between the lines, and he’s not lying women sleep with multiple men
@@sphinxkitty4951 💯 Percent Correct
Exactly
"your the only common nominator in your lack of relationships." lool that cracked me up x'D
Why do women think men are "intimidated" by them cause of education or degrees. No ma'am more like we are not impressed and turned off by the masculine energy they put out smh...
Easier to cast stones then to admit you messed up.
It amazes me that women really think they have NO competition on this planet. They believe it.
That deep breath and Kevin's Face before he lets out the whole truth is priceless!
I agree with him wholeheartedly in everything he's saying💯💯💯💯
What happen to the big homie with the timestamps breakdown of the show
Hell yeah. I'm looking for those
Me too
Me too. Cash app that foo
🤦🏾♂️
KS is 100 percent correct about therapy I spoke to mine today!
that first caller is exactly why i left NY... i heard the cardi b in her throat after 2 words
😂😂
There is literally no incentive to getting in LTR with them nowadays. I have waaaaay too many options as a free agent to surrender my peace, finances and freedom. They are only really bringing one thing to the table and you can get that everywhere (even pay for it) lol
It comes standard on every model. Lol.
Date men 🤷🏽♀️
I've had women not want to date me because I don't have Facebook 🙄. They thought I was lying and was trying to hide other women from them.
While more and more ppl actually leave social media ....
🤣 imagine that. Some will even turn u down because you don't have enough "friends" on your Facebook
@Kiriyama Katsuo Facts!
@@SplashWaveBeats Don't sweat it man. Point I was trying to make is the women use social media presence or lack thereof to judge you and your worth and it's laughable.
@@blackestknight1.0 I agree. And I will delete my previous comments.
The women who are calling in can not hold a conversation effectively it looks bad on us females. If you have listened to this guys vids then you should get somewhat prepared for the type of questions he will be asking you. Be proactive and prepared so that the conversation can flow smoothly and you don’t over talk him.
Thats the best part! Women call in without doing their research and it backfires everytime
thank you
Godfather actually quoted an Applicable Nickelback lyric in Real Time.''Swirlers'' don't have that kind of talent. Dude is as well rounded as they come.
I knew I liked this channel, but he sealed it with nickelback quote. I've used it myself.
@@GUNMETALGUYUSAlol, i know right? Now ,if he plays Slayer during the ''likes up'' interlude ,i'll do a back flip , lol.
@@robertmugabe2905 Rock On Brotha
These women are lost! Geesh! Kevin you hit it right on nail brother.
Just wanted to say thank you Kevin for all of your videos that you post being a young man that didn’t grow up with his father or uncles your videos help every day life a lot keep up the good work 💯
I have a Ph.D. really is a "Superiority Bias". What they are really saying is! "I'm different". I'm more rational than others, more ethical as well. Few would say this to people in conversation. It sounds arrogant. But in numerous opinion polls and studies, when asked to compare themselves with others, people generally express a variation of this. It's the equivalent of an optical illusion--we cannot seem to see our faults and irrationalities, only those of others. So, for instance, we'll easily believe that those in other political parties do not come to their opinions based on rational principles, but those on our side have done so.
These conversations help me develop as a young black king thank you Mr.Samuels
You are not paying enough attention sir...do not call yourself "king"...you are putting yourself on a pedestal...young black man will do just fine don't you think?
@@jamesgarrett6848 He's gonna call himself a God, soon enough.
Loving your content.
Appreciate your clear communication and direct honesty.
First caller communicate like Cardi B
She’s a NY Dominican.
That’s how they be.
She gave me a headache
Love it! ..girlfriends don't get provisions that are reserved for the wife. Stay in your lane.
I'm not a fan of communication being mostly by text. I need to hear a voice and see your face to maintain a connection.
Facts 💯👏
Me either and people will try to have whole conversations by text smh
Text carry no real emotions
Agree
@@jaymal82 I use to be one of those people
Whew!!!!!!!!!! All this extra chatter! I really don't know how he does it! 🤦🏾♀️ JUST ANSWER THE QUESTION! These women are all over the place😬! Toastmasters worked well for me when I was in my 20s.
That "l'm a PHD is one of the best and funiest clips🤣😂😂 the GOAT.
Several relationship\marriage has ended because the woman is frustrated or confused.
Very correct...I had a guy tell me he wanted to be in my life in some capacity, but didn't want to be IN a relationship with me...lol. wanted to give me money, have sex, but not go out not speak on the phone, not do normal stuff...smh I'm still confused...lol. I'm single I'm not talking to anyone or sleeping with anyone. AT ALL.
@@delorismartin3537 where was the confusion? The confusion exists in the gap between reality and your expectations. That's also where disappointment lies. The man told you what he wanted. You don't want that. Game over.
@@WordsMatter1982 you are correct game was over, I didn't except his terms so there was nothing more to speak of🤷🏾♀️...placing an experience of my own in relation to the clip...🤷🏾♀️
@@delorismartin3537 I hope I didn't come off as attacking. But a lot of women say they are confused about what a guy wants, even when he tells them verbatim.
@@WordsMatter1982 I could of read it nasty, I am usually read to tussle bc most men come out the gate ready to draw blood....So it was more me than you, thank you for the clarity 😊...... The same man that told me exactly what he wanted also attempted to stake claim to me by not wanting me to date other men...etc so that is where I was confused by him. But its been over for awhile no sweat off my back definitely a lesson learned on EFFECTIVE communication...I am still learning 😉😅
Yep... at the start of our marriage (we were married in the 70's) my ex wife was puzzled why I was so nice to her all the time..... she broke me down enough to where i was no longer a nice person every day. I wanted her to feel as though she was the most important person to me granted I did have other responsibilities but being accused of not being honest was terrible. I reached a point where I decided I had enough and walked away from her and my daughter. It was a tough decision and I still feel the pain of putting my foot down. But I had too.
Some women love chaos and confusion. Some women are so screwed up they confuse being nice with you being some type of sinister and evil human being..but its not my fault... its yours. Perhaps i really am better off without you.
You are.
Oh man I'm laughing my like a mutha 😂tears coming out my eyes hvm i don't want to work up in this piece
I'm a PhD 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 gets me everytime
Right lol!!
My husband and I were both average working people, we didn't have a lot but we worked with what we had. We had ups and downs. I stuck with him through his addiction and other things. We were married for 19 yrs until he passed away in October. It's one and done for me. I accept being passed the danger zone and I'm not frustrated or have a problem being alone now. I can say I was married.
So?
You are a patient man! 🤣🤣🤣
Proverbs 31-3: "Give not your power unto a woman, for that is the path which destroyeth kings". Truer words were never spoken.
The delusion is deep. Why do all these below average women think they deserve the best men?
Steve Harvey, Oprah, and Tyler Perry got rich off making these women think they are better than they are.
Godfather you have given so much game. I’m actively dating and practicing what you teach. Dating an amazing man now 🙂 thank you!
Rip KS, Godfather We Will Never Forget
Man Kevin's work ethics are outta this world.
The truth is painful!!
It’s true I hate texting.
Too much room for miscommunication
Exactly. I text my wife to let her know where I am or going or asking if I need to pick up something from store on way home. That’s. It.
17:28 "Did you miss me?", yes we did
She an 8 , Kevin tell her to cam up
What ever happened to helping a man build a luxury lifestyle.
Who left the relationship? Its mutual, its mutual, its mutual, I ended it lmao 1:29:00
I wonder what's the story behind ole boy making 170K a yr getting with a chick w a newborn baby & an absent father.
Just proves men that money alone don’t make you worth a nickel. Hell I knew in high school college not to take a women with kids serious and I had a child😂. It’s a bad deal!
She lying. They all lying
The hard truth for some Men to accept is from a natural perspective, most women only see you as protection and resources. Love? It's business on both ends and it is difficult to play the game knowing you are seen as nothing more as utility.
HVM have no issue with that
Another great show my brother! Keep having these honest conversations with the masses.
Cyn Santana you ain’t foolin nobody 😂 1:02:00
I think women suffer from having a major group bias mindset! My ideas are my own. I do not listen to the group. I am not a conformist.
@frank james All of us have masculine and feminine qualities--some of this is genetic, and some of it comes from the profound influences of the parent of the opposite sex. But in the need to present a consistent identity in society, we tend to repress these qualities, overidentifying with the masculine or feminine role expected of us. And we pay a price for this. We lose valuable dimensions to our character. Our thinking and ways of acting become rigid. Our relationships with members of the opposite sex suffer as we project onto them our own fantasies and hostilities.
@frank james So how do we have men who play the role of an alpha or beta and woman who play the role of masculine or feminine roles? Also if we're talking genetics my aunts and sisters have mourning shadow facial hair like a man! Pretty boy's facial structure is not considered genetically masculine in the psychology of facial reading.
@frank james Also thanks for sharing your views these discussions help us understand our world around us better!
@frank james So am i getting this straight? Your saying its up to the parents rearing and raising up a child that ultimately determines the feminine/masculine traits that child will lean on?
@C McNamara Lol thats a oxymoron if i ever herd of one! I don't want to assume i understand what your saying so please would you explaine!?
I can’t stand texting either. It’s a passive form of communication. Then, there’s some much of the person that you miss out on experiencing.
Facts. Like I have a rule that I will not text ppl I've met in person first
On the ethical front, few of us will ever admit that we have resorted to deception or manipulation in our work or have been clever and strategic in our career advancement. Everything we've got, or so we think, comes from natural talent and hard work. But with other people, we are quick to ascribe to them all kinds of Machiavellian tactics. This allows us to justify whatever we do, no matter the results. We feel a tremendous pull to imagine ourselves as rational, decent, and ethical.
Glad I got rid of my social media (not RUclips). After befriending a gal who never used any of it in all her life she taught me a lot. I’m going as far as getting rid of my smartphone first of the year.
Social media rewires your brain.
I've never had a social media page of any kind...never needed it and don't want it...nothing but problems in many forms.
First caller: Wanted to know what she needs to do to qualify for a high value man, and she already knew that being a baby mother is a hinderance. However, Kevin didn’t or couldn’t answer her question. Maybe she should ask a high value woman how to be a high value woman. If you wanna learn to be a ballerina you should go to dance school. If you wanna learn to be a high value woman then ask a high value women- period.
Second Caller: Delusional and a liar. She was with a working man but said he wasn’t able to provide, I call B.S. Kevin hit the nail on the head - “you are unfit for relationships”
Fourth Caller: Uncooperative, bad attitude, thinks she’s all that and she’s morbidly obese. She doesn’t even qualify for a one night stand.
Well I as a black woman I normally disagree with Kevin but this is the second video that I can completely agree with about the differences between men and woman. I enjoyed this video. Thank you for your honesty.
What’s there to disagree with? Nothing you just hate truth like most people.
@@thedadyouneverhadchannel3544 I have only learn to except the truth by successfully maintaining a 20 marriage with a black man. Why are you so ready to attack me? We don't know each other to address one another with any type of aggression. Maybe you have an issue with some woman and you should address her with all this aggression and not me. I don't make any comments to disrespect and man or woman I just express my own opinions of the topics that were being discussed and that's it.
@@tanyabeale4232 These men on here are very bitter.
The entire music sequence in the beginning was FIRE. I enjoyed it so much ❤️
Many times I wished I knew the song names and artist
Definetly. Dude has a solid music selection.
*Yes. very good music*
About the confusion: if you know what it is then you know what it ain't, if you don't know what it is, then it ain't what you want"
Miscomunication leads to TRIAL ERROR INJURY always
we are social animals by nature. the feeling of isolation, of difference from the group, is depressing and terrifying witch is part of why I feel women least have these conversations about their lack of relationship understanding. We experience tremendous relief when we find others who think the same way we do for example fimenism!
What is fimenism?
@@henoovyourslavangi8518 Fimenism in what im speaking of is the various social movement groups!
@@henoovyourslavangi8518 Answer me! What are causes and accults?
Clear communication is definitely key
And comprehension...some folk talk just to talk.
More than anything else this show taught me that my natural instincts were correct this whole time. And the music I listen to the movies I watched were training me to ignore my natural instincts or at least go against them. My eyes are open now I can never go back.
Whenever he asks why they need a HVM they always start with I feel
Hahahahaha you are right
That suit is fresh 🔥🔥