🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 hey my brotha! Its me again.. Will just say thank you for your coaching back inn october..and the book! For me was no contact the number one.. And making her jealous. Living my life to the fullest! Me and my ex are back together.. We are taking one day at a time. We are both happy ,we are both working on ouer self!we are not living together.. And i think thats help a lot! Again brotha.. Thank you from Norway! Kim 🙏🏻💪🏻
Hey TheFallen, could you talk to me? Maybe instagram or whatsapp or something, I kinda need help, I also got a problem with my ex, if u got time, my insta is Joseph_Biri, Thanks man!
Yeah? Hey congrats, man! And you're welcome. Anyway as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: ruclips.net/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/видео.html All the best! :-)
@@TheFallen1986 Hey Fellen, I also need some advices from u. I started no contacts about 2 weeks ago. So is there a way for me to contact u personally? I am really greatful if u can help me out in this situation.
Whenever an ex tries to make me jealous through social media immediately after a breakup, I honestly take it as a compliment lol. So concerned about showing the world and me that they've moved on, when deep down inside they are only doing it because I'm still on their mind. Mature adults acknowledge the pain of the breakup and then learn from it before getting into another relationship.
There's more to this than just rebounding. It's all about pre-selection, which I've discussed in greater detail in the first part of the video here: ruclips.net/video/fO9EePCzRj4/видео.html The aim is to increase your confidence by socializing and to subconsciously know that there is life outside of the relationship/breakup and to get out of the tunnel-vision mentality most people have after a breakup that only their ex can fix it. So interact with people. It may be just on a friendship level, camaraderie, bonding over a new sport/hobby/activity, etc. and not restricted to just dating, perhaps I should've emphasized that, too, as I can see how it can easily be misconstrued. But if you do get around to dating someone that you truly like, then that’s good, as it would help to let you not seem desperate to get your ex back, which most exes can sense from a mile away, mind you. Anyway thanks for your input! :-)
When you can't even remember or understand why you ever wanted to be with her in the first place lol. Life is amazing once you begin to truly love yourself
Its just so crazy to me how some women truly are talking to other men and flirting and sleeping with them but still want you . But dont do a thing to fix the relationship until you move on to someone else
im just tired of caring about the wrong person and keep going back to her when all she does is hurt me and twist things around to where it works in her favor
That sounds toxic. To stop caring, you need to focus on yourself completely at this time and work on things you wanna do in your own life, yeah? I'd even go as much to say enjoy your single life (I know it still hurts, but try) and be independent.
If they’re trying to make you jealous. Just go into No contact. Pulling back is the key to re attraction. If they reach out, DO NOT ignore them, just match the same level of energy they’re giving you. If they say they miss you, tell them you miss them too. Just keep at that though. If they don’t say they miss you, be vague in your response. They have to be the ones to drive towards you at this point. I’m fighting this battle right now, good luck out there everyone. Remember your worth.
After five years of leaving my ex girlfriend I have to admit how much I want to thank you Brad. The best thing is indeed to just move on and never wait for your ex to come back. You were one of the first I found on RUclips with lots of tips, in December 2018. Now when I look back at that dark period of 2018 I am happy that I moved on quickly, no matter how hard it was. Its similar with quitting smoking and getting over it, which I have did last year too. I am looking fresh to the future now for years and got some nice girls I am friends with now. A relationship isn't important, it is more important to improve yourself and being the best version of yourself to other females.
It totally relates with the first point. Before we broke up, she hardly post anything on what's app or Facebook but now her behavior has changed and she's starting to act really strange.Most of her post is about her crush, I don't understand why she's acting weird suddenly. That's not her behavior when she's with me.
Hey hey hey! I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. As what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: ruclips.net/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/видео.html All the best! :-)
how would you feel if your girlfriend goes hanging out with your ex multiple times and even having sleepovers and your relationship with her didn’t end well
My ex boyfriend when he cheated on me he ask me out and I told him no. So now he’s been jelouse and trying to make my life a living nightmare and gossip about me. I don’t sweat it. Because I know facts and same with my real friends.people like him isn’t worth my time.
2 months ago my ex of 4 years dumped me. Not long after she started posting non stop pictures on snapchat of everything from going to the bar to just watching TV when she never did that before. About a week ago she had texted me out of nowhere and after talking for a little, says she was out hanging out with a bunch of guys and had a blast and what not. She had told me wanted to be friends and was over me, "happy we broke up" i said I wanted space to try and move on. She doesnt text me really but showed concern that I deleted her snapchat. Is she trying to make me jealous and has feelings or am I over analyzing?
previously was blocked on everything then she unblocked two of my accounts on tiktok so i could see who her 'new man?' is. Couldnt feel more proud of myself
I called for my daughter yesterday and her mom says she has a man. I left her 2 years ago. She even went as far as saying she was engaged. I pray she finds happiness. I'm not Jealous of anyone.😁
1. You’re giving me major Richard Blaise vibes (Top Chef). This is a compliment because that guys is incredible. 2. Not necessarily jealously but after a week of no contact he’s reached out by text the last 2 days. It feels like he’s trying to get an emotional rise out of me. Is this normal? I’ve been pretty straightforward and non emotional in my responses. But yesterday he wanted more of an explanation for me ending things but then said nevermind it doesn’t matter. Then he asked if I was sabotaging a job opportunity for him. Like.....no. Do I just go no contact or try to change the vibe of the conversation or what?
Hey thanks for the kind words! And yes, your ex most likely is testing you. It's important you don't bite into that. Posted a video about that here: ruclips.net/video/Pm_10BKVsfA/видео.html Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually
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Thats why i don't even care.. a few of my exs will go above and beyond just to try and make me jealous.. its funny especially when they have no idea what's going on in my life.. i would appreciate an ex that's real and that will reach out and admit hey i miss you or whatever but can't stand those subliminal messages and fake happiness..come on now who you fooling i know i was your best but it is what it is.. i will say to the new people please keep them happy so they won't have to keep trying to make me jealous to react 😅🤣😂
He broke up with me while we were getting ready to get married, later he asked me to be his friends, he came to me without calling, and when he arrived he showed me a picture he had taken with women One of them called him a video call with flying kiss and I was hurt. Someone left you and then he came to add to your pain in pain. I'm looking for a way to tell my parents that marriage is no more.Help me at least to ease the pain
This has happened to me before. My ex-girlfriend trying to make me jealous dancing with another guy at a New year's Eve party but I didn't book because it had no effect on me next thing you know she started calling me names she started talking to her boyfriend about me which made him mad and the next thing you know she calls me and tells me that she wants to go back out with me and since then things have been great between me and her
she wanted you to chase her, as brad as said she wanted the power in her court and then broke up with you thinking you would be begging for her to get back with you and then you didn't so all that excitement of her getting chased has left her and she wants you back because you are the only bf she has ever had that doesn't chase her
Brad I've been with my wife for 18. She asked me to leave the house 2 weeks before Christmas I put myself in the men's shelter and a third week she was talking to somebody for a month online and she had him to spend a week with her on Christmas weekend. My daughter wasn't there cuz she's 11, she wasn't happy financially and she said would never ever get back together. I know I have to work on me and hopefully she will see it but I think it may be too late because she wants him to move in from another state. I can't shake this one out of my head every time I go to improve myself I always think about family first and she's part of that everybody's telling me to forget about it but I can't 18 years what can I do how can I get her back if she's strongly feels that she doesn't want to be with me I feel she's the right one for me I don't want to go to the Finish Line with her how can I do that please help me,,,,,,, Family man.
Sorry to hear that. What happened, though? I mean, can you explain or share some stuff that's happened between being married for over a decade and everything being fine to you sleeping in the shed? When did all the trouble started and what has caused it? These are my top two marriage videos which may help: y2u.be/WU0yhd3ADXU and y2u.be/W_vzHFqnasM but it's really challenging for me to know where to give you a headstart, knowing only so little of the situation... Sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at www.marriageguy.com/coaching
Me and my ex ended things on good terms until we fell out, he no longer wants to know me and is angry and has said horrible things, we both blocked each other and I’m struggling to get over him as I know he’s already messaging other girls, he threw all my worries in my face but I still care😔
It's time to take a look at the bigger picture here. It doesn't really matter what your ex is doing. Chances are your ex is rebounding anyway but the point is you shouldn't be focused on that right now. That's all out of your control. Focus on yourself instead and show (NOT tell) your ex you accept his decision to break up. If you do, you'll accept that you're both single and therefore you'd stop overanalyzing every little stuff. All right? Here are the basics to getting an ex boyfriend back: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI I also suggest that you read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total and the "no contact" rule is only the first), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting, and the psychology of how a man thinks and understanding men in general. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/fbuy
My ex was barely sending pics of herself to me and she was always shy, but ever since we broke up, she added 12 new profile pictures (some of em are with another boy) and it’s seriously is pissing me off cuz I’m trying to forget her
These childish games don't even work, and on top of it his true intentions are coming out, yes he may still love me and want to get back together and realized he's made the blunder of his life but he's not even in a healthy place, nothing genuine and sincere for our well being. He needs to grow up and heal his own mistake within himself and then have goals for the two of us we can build our house on. I'm getting to that health place by being patient and understanding with myself, just talking and being cordial with the new man in my life. I can't give my ex a third chance because look at the route he's choosing to take, it's ghastly. I can't live his life and work on him, when I need to focus on improving myself and to keep myself moving forward, I literally can't do anything for him that he can do for himself. He will find his way one day.
My ex try made me jealous is a childish way to handle our breakup. It says he's isn't over me especially when he's knowns I'm there's so immature and disrespectful of he doing it to get reaction out of me. i don't think he's hot or sexy with this all making me jealous it's he's has underlying issues with his ego, and he wants me to stroke it besides his new girlfriend is stroking his ego. He's definitely need know he needs go someone else to stroke his ego cause I'm busy loving my life to do it. I'm not upsets over breakup we have.
hey boys, my ex came back after 25 days of NC. she called me saying she wanted me back, i told her ill think about it. later in the evening i told her i wanted to talk, she said we can talk tomorrow. the next day, she doesnt even msg or call me. i txted her that its over for good. fuck playing stupid games, if you really want me back you wouldnt keep playing bullshit games. i feel fucking annoyed, manipulated and i see her in an entirely different light. i no longer want her back, good riddance. nc works
Me and my boyfriend broke up on New Years. We haven't gone a day without talking wether we are fighting or just having a genuine conversation. We have gone one drives, he has stuck his hand on my leg, her my hand, hugged me, and kissed me. He asks me "you love me don't you?" and would send me snaps saying he can't fall asleep because he knows I'm upset and how he misses me and wants to cuddle. Another big thing is when we go on drives and my phone would buzz his eyes dive down to my phone and says "who is that your boyfriend". Every time would bring up getting back together he says it will never happen and then we start fighting again. Anytime I start to distance myself he always reaches out. Is he doing this to hold onto me in case he doesn't find someone better? I am going crazy here and trying not to get hurt even further than I already am. I love this guy and want to be with him, but don know when I should walk away.
Fighting's just gonna make it worse. I don't think you need me to tell you that as you're clearly experiencing the effects yourself. Anyway play your cards right and notice the world of difference that this can make. Stick to the "no contact" rule this time. A situation with an ex is often fragile, so you'd really want to omit, if not minimize these mistakes. Start with the 30-day straight "no contact rule. It’s one step forward, two steps backward with an ex & there are no unlimited chances with them, so if you can do it right moving forward, then do so. Check out my guide so you won't end up making the same mistakes. Good luck!
When I realised this is the only reason for his odd behaviour. Like be happy I don't begrudge anyone that. But never at my expense. But when trying to get a reaction the last few months And me feeling nothing as my attachment to him had gone. Was the most freeing feeling I have ever felt.
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
I’ll really never meet a better girl because she’s always been the best in every way to me. I can’t figure out how talk to her now other then when she needs something from me. She just acts nice but ends the conversation as quick as possible.
So my ex started talking to my close friends(she’s never talked to them before we dated.) 2 of them blocked her because they said she was flirting with them...and now I have an ex friend because he tried it with her. I think she wanted revenge or something,but she’s the one that said she didn’t want to talk anymore(we broke up and at the time we were FWB) I feel like if I block and unfollow her she’ll keep trying to go for them...idk what to do
Alex Martino I didn’t block her. She moved schools and I just graduated high school a few months ago so things kind of died out with us not seeing each other anymore. She wished me a happy birthday this year which didn’t really surprise me tbh. I contemplated if I should to the same but decided not to. Honestly I’m grateful that she did what she did.. (I learned a lot from this situation). I don’t know if I’ll ever get over what she did to me but it opened my eyes and I’m very grateful for that.
if a person use jealous to make you send them a message or chase them ,what should you do?warning,maybe they want just ego cover and put you out.I dont want to risk it as i did before.I beleive that this person must make the next step.Agree with this Brad?
Exactly. Also, like I mentioned before, it's your ex's way of coping, so try not to get too affected by that. If they continue to message, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. If this does not describe your situation, however, and your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses his/her power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ruclips.net/video/bgOG9s1fac8/видео.html
@@BradBrowning she threating me with indirect way that she will leave me,but i said her with indirect way.If you leave go leave and never come back.Thanks a lot
I am currently in this predicament, my ex and I were on and off for a year and a month after we broke up he brings his new girlfriend to church with him. Showing lots of physical affection. Just recently we were suppose to have a conversation of what happened and he textes "sorry new girls name just left" when he was the one who initiated the time to talk. Is he trying to make me Jelous?
All the signs that you've mentioned are there. She just keeps on talking nonstop how she been messing around with others and constantly flirting, she even suggested hooking me up with someone. What is that supposed to mean?
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Hey Brad! It feels like my ex is using many of those things that you're talking about against me even tho she was the one who broke up with me. For example she is posting more pitchers on Instagram then before and she is writing that she is happen and everything feel sooooo good. She also try to show the world that she is meeting a lot of people and even at one point she posted a story on Instagram when she was with some dude and they were playing tennis. I have been contacting here like 1 time in 5 weeks and when i did i told here that we should talk and that I want this to be official. however as i said earlier is there any chance she is using this to get me back even tho she broke up with me? Or do you just think she is trying to show me that its not going to be us again and that she want to be left alone? thumbs up for your videos and I would be really glad if you can give me some clarity in this (Y)
You're putting too much emphasis on social media and it means you need to stop looking, especially reaching a point of obsession, at any of your ex's pages, and especially if you're still on the 30-day "no contact" phase. Doing so will not only make you overanalzye and/or worry over the most inconsequential stuff, but you'd also be consumed about thoughts of your ex when this time is supposed to be about YOU. Makes sense? Discussed that unhealthy tendency here: ruclips.net/video/sJg4udwCS90/видео.html
I am at my 8 weeks break up with my ex but i am, actually the dumper. I didn't check his FB timeline and use NC because i want to heal as Anxious Preoccupied. But he was deactivated me 10 months ago, and when I started to healing process he still doing that deactivation even after my healing and after i initiated he seldom to reply. After two weeks of a breakup, he try to initiate but I was felt want to get heal first before i connect to him. I used NC and We spoke about the stuff he needs to return. Today I challenge myself to check his FB timeline...and Wow..he is a lot of posts than usual when i was with him in a relationship. He never posted that when he was in a relationship with me on social media and now he announces that he doesn't have gf anymore, he even posted like not every man knows how to initiate a good conversation first, like he felt tired in a relationship, waiting or something. Some of his posts like i felt insulted and some like a victim person in a relationship. I still love him after all. it is not about him.. it's about my healing process though he is DA attachment style.
Maybe stop trying to look at your ex's profile/messages/snaps, posts,etc.? An essential part of the "no contact" rule is to turn your focus inwards for a good 30 days, and looking at what your ex is doing and whatnot largely deviates from that point, don't you think? Discussed that here, too: ruclips.net/video/MroLZ7XK9gY/видео.html
I have an ex that contacted me 5 times on the course of a month. I did ask her out and although she said yes she told me she lived in another city now. She kept reaching out including my birthday and such. Also kept asking lots of questions about me. Then all of a sudden she randomly mentions that she calls her now boyfriend the same nickname I call one of my bestfriends. Asking then if I still call him the same. Immature little brat I knew very well what she was playing. I never asked to know about her life yet she found a personal reason to mention that to me.
Well, there would be no conversation if you hadn't replied to her, man. Replying to her was your choice, hence, she continues to blab about how she's dating someone new. So sadly, you are part to blame as well. Anyway a key component is to avoid small talk as much as possible, especially during the most critical stage: 30-day "no contact" rule because there's a huge chance your ex may be slowly easing herself away from you.The thing with exes, especially the one whose idea is to break the relationship, is they also struggle with the breakup and finding all means to cope...including talking to someone they're used to talking to, a.k.a you. What that leaves you, however, is unknowingly becoming their emotional sponge. So if you want this ex back, you ought to let her feel what it's like not to have you in her life first, so employ the 30-day "no contact" rule, okay? An exception is if your ex is trying to contact you about something really important or is sincerely asking you to get back together. Understand that you risk too much by staying in touch and you best not respond unless it’s about something important. Watch this, too: ruclips.net/video/gUBNd6pDINM/видео.html
My wife and I separated a month ago it was her call I respected her decision and leaving her alone but Last night she asked me how I was doing? I said I’m okay. Out of the blue she brought out saying there is a guy at her gym that she’s trying to keep up with when running and she was going to back to the gym because he was there. But she never went back to the gym..I’m thinking that’s was weird since when is she trying to make me jealous? When she made the call to separate I didn’t beg her to come back she was taking off late at night and not coming back till the next day. It didn’t bother me at all.I didn’t question her where she was going or who she was spending time with. I pretty much just left her alone and started focusing on myself and my child.. my wife is starting to talk to me again. But still I just communicate with her about our child. Other then that I’m still respecting our separation.
Sorry to hear that, man. I have no idea where to start knowing almost nothing about the situation. A separation may be good for you, though, to give her time to think clearly. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/HHkwa5tbNC0/видео.html
Hey brad if me and my ex broke up a month ago today and i broke no contact twice should i start over from scratch? Im one week into no contact again and want to know if i should follow through with a full month now because i did only have two short and friendly conversations with my ex. She ended both conversations so im just trying to decide what to do because i know time is important. Thanks brad youre the man!
The thing is, there's really that desperation vibe that you're giving off every time you contact ex. Play your cards right and notice the world of difference that this can make. Stick to the "no contact" rule this time. A situation with an ex is often fragile, so you'd really want to omit, if not minimize these mistakes. Start with the 30-day straight "no contact rule. It’s one step forward, two steps backward with an ex & there are no unlimited chances with them, so if you can do it right moving forward, then do so. Check out my guide so you won't end up making the same mistakes. Good luck!
I have a relationship with her for a month but unfortunately my ex want to break up saying that she want to be single again and i dont have idea about this can you give me some feedback
Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/ZuHWCWeG1xs/видео.html However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
He's mad at me because his new gf forgot to wish him Happy Birthday and I did, I try to stay on top of wishing people Happy Birthday, make them feel valued and I want to get my new guy a card for his birthday which is coming up because he's been a real gentleman, intelligent, good hearted decent man to me.
If you can't genuinely be friends with an ex, it's best to go no contact for an indefinite amount of time. Sadly though, not even a friendship could work with an ex especially if you two just can't see eye to eye.
I was in a seriously bad toxic relationship and I still love the guy - I don't know how to get over him and he's always in my mind. The worse part is I see him everyday at school and I struggle to avoid him! Is there any way I could act like he's not there anymore? :(
My ex and I became friends again after not seeing each other for a few months. He's been dating a girl he met online for over a year or two. Its long distance, but they visit each other once in a while. They've been talking about marriage and its causing me pain to hear about him wanting a future with her. It sounded like a serious relationship. He told me he was glad I changed for the better, and that his girlfriend helped him with his problems. He doesnt know that I've been feeling sad since he's still dating that other woman. But then one day, he came over to my house and we started talking. It was a subtle friendly conversation, and he then started to kiss me on the lips and whispered in my ear "I love you". Im not sure if he really meant it as a way that he misses me, or just saying it in a friendship way? What should I do?
Friends for now, but don't let that derail you, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part and assuming you hadn't taken a long time before taking the step. Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to know that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
I broke up with my boyfriend and he stares at me still even when i walk by, and a new girl got to our school today and he asked for her number. In. My. Face. So is he trying to make me jealous...??
Met with ex girlfriend after 4 months. Why would she tell me he looks exactly like me, how great it is, etc. He' has nothing she has told me she wants and habits she has told me are deal breakers but shes acting like he's the best thing ever and could and short with me. I'm really scratching my head here. I'm insulted!
Brad, She has a private profile and recently about after a week ago after breaking up and not talking She posted a status " feeling in love" and in arabic ' how can I get you out of my mind" . A Arabic bodybuilder commented "why would you have to" and she loved his comment ". He is in ukriane currently. He also talks to anyone in inbox from what I can tell. Might not even he his profile. ( I'm aware cause Sadly I made a fake profile as a female and conversated with him ) I am personally a body builder my self . Her choosing a man in another country to talk to and posting it publically even though her profile is private... ? Also NO one has liked the status . Usually her mother likes all her statuses. To the extent of it being annoying . I think she might of limited the audience to just public so they can't see. If so what is the dynamic behind this... she is in my phone plan and still receives money from me Weekley ( currently in college and unemployed with 3 kids of her own. )
Maybe stop trying to look at your ex's profile/messages/snaps, posts,etc.? An essential part of the "no contact" rule is to turn your focus inwards, and looking at what your ex is doing and whatnot largely deviates from that point, don't you think?
That really doesn't matter. Sorry, but that's hardly a sign at all. For solid signs, though, here's what to be on the lookout for: ruclips.net/video/CsVR7yV4X8k/видео.html
I dumped my ex for tow week and today he give her number to my best freind that i told her in past dont talk with him , whats that mean ? Revange or what ??
Hi Brad! What if his new gf looks like me? I thought maybe she just might be his type but I’ve seen his other exes and we all look nothing alike. I’m curious to know what this may mean? Thanks in advance!
That really doesn't matter. Sorry, but that's hardly a sign at all. And you deserve more than that. For solid signs, though, here's what to be on the lookout for: ruclips.net/video/CsVR7yV4X8k/видео.html
Ex asked me if I would still respect her if she was sleeping around. Literally out of no where. I responded: "I do not care" because I genuinely do not care cause I have alot of assignments to do. Was I wrong?
What if she has joined tinder but she messages you she misses you. Her sister even said she is really battling with the break up and I dont believe one can move on in 3 months after 8 years. Oh... I was dumped!
I'm sure your ex is having a hard time as well. Getting an ex back is a gradual process, so there's no one-action solution for this. Okay? The "no contact" phase is a good start, so do that first if you haven’t yet, for 30 days. If you have, then I'm glad you've completed it. There are two more phases to go with a few other steps in between (in the right order). What I'm trying to say here is it's a 3-phase process, and it's a bit complicated to explain it all on here, but I made an overview in the hopes of making people understand, so watch it here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html or read my guide for the entire process. Good luck!
My ex is trying to make me jealous by posting loads of selfies on Facebook and seeking attention from other men. She normally never posts such things on Facebook and now she is giving these comments from single guys a heart response. Any ideas on how to react?
It's time to take a look at the bigger picture here. It doesn't really matter what your ex is doing. Chances are your ex is rebounding anyway but the point is you shouldn't be focused on that right now. That's all out of your control. Focus on yourself instead and show (NOT tell) your ex you accept her decision to break up. If you do, you'll accept that you're both single and therefore you'd stop overanalyzing every little stuff. All right? Here are the basics to getting an ex back: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and you can see that the 30-day "no contact" rule is an absolute must. I also suggest that you read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total and the "no contact" rule is only the first), including what to say, do or not do, etc. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy
She posted her new bf picture im not even pressed or pressed about it cuz she still continue viewing my status. I just know she tryna make me jealous but i could careless cuz she knows to me she is replaceable and she don't really love the guy as she is using him to show that I'm missing out/ thinking I'd be jealous. Its a shame the guy is even bluepilled
My ex is informing me that he felt a friendly relation with me and now he has feelings for someone else with a photograph of that girl and they have started dating
I deleted his no and all contacts from my phone and stopped texting him..after two three days he replied that he was just playing a prank that I still get jealous or not.....and he is sorry about it.....I just saw the message and ignored him.
5 Years too late to comment probably, But this is about right now- My 2 days old Ex kinda stole my friends and made me into a bad guy, Making my friends take pictures of her with them having fun, etc, Really just trying to get a reaction or jealousy out of me.. I've known about not taking the bait for a while, I just say that its unnecessary and kind a childish of them. Then they come with things only she knows and is trying to make her look so good and happy now.. But i LITERALLY know that shes trying to distract herself from me, One of our mutual friends told me
If your friends trust you over your ex, then they may not be solid friends... unless they're playing/tagging along in an effort to try to stay neutral, especially if they've all gotten really close somehow through you.I suggest you apply the tips from this vid: ruclips.net/video/STLjybyiaBQ/видео.html
Hi Brad. Me and my ex finished 3 days ago after a great 8 months. She just posted a meme type picture on her Facebook advising she was single and ready to pringle. Is she trying to make me jealous here or already moved on? At the breakup she said it was only me and she didn't want anyone else. It was painful to read. Thanks
He totally broke my heart. Posting other women. The last post was enough for me to unfollow etc. Slowly building myself up. I realize I'm wasting my time waiting on him. He even told me how he spent the night with her and how he enjoyed it. I realize this is disrespectful now that Iv have time to reflect
It's also a perfect example of why you should cut off contact with an ex during this time. You really don't need to hear about all his sexcapades. Try to fully focus on yourself first and mind your own business. Let it go for a bit until you get to think clearly and decide what's best for you. Take care!
My ex and I broke up a little over a month ago. We do talk still but it doesn't feel the same. I thought I was moving on because I felt genuinely okay with myself and thought that I'd be okay if we dont get back together. One night last week she started crying and said "part of me wants to let go but part of me still loves you." But the next day she shot it down when I tried to talk to her about it saying "we aren't getting back together". As of a few days ago I mentioned a promise that we made relating to the relationship and she hasn't talked to me since. Shes been showing her status as happy and heart eyes but idk if she got with someone or if she's just trying to make me jealous of how quick she moved on. I need some help, what should I do in this situation?
Don't guilt her into getting back together with you based on a promise, which are rarely kept anyway. Rebuilding attraction should be done naturally and organically!
I don't know if he's trying to make me jealous. But, he just went to mu job with his new girlfriend, he even carried this girl's little daughter, and he known i want to have a daughter 😢😢😢
I'm getting divorce and he is actively trying to hurt me and make me jelouse as a revenge telling me he found someone while not leaving me alone ..im like ok move on if u found someone and plz sign the divorce which he's refusing to sign ..
Hi! Why is he refusing to sign and how long has it been? Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.marriageguy.com/coaching
Hey Brad. I broke no contact after almost 3 weeks. He said he was already wanting to contact, but then didnt seem to be so enthusiastic. Sometimes answering with one word replies etc. I kept the contact care-free & casual. Then decided to implement no contact again. Is that my best option for now ? Thanks.
Try to go at least 30 days without contact. Before contacting her, make sure you tick off the checklist here, too: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html
Hey Brad! i really like ur advices!,,my ex Says that she loves someone else just after the breakup And whenever she talks with me She Says about that person intentionally! i think she is tryiing to make me jealous! i will go into no contact from this monday is that right? And what can i do more pls tell?
It's time to find a more positive outlet for your emotions. It's totally okay to cry your eyes out (just NOT in front of your ex), this is healthy, but try to balance it with other stuff. So keep your mind occupied, get busy with a lot of stuff like hobbies, work, etc. focus on what makes you feel good and take time to heal as well. Also read my Ex Factor Guide, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenario and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back...and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
Can I ask a question? What should I do if my ex is in an Online relationship with another guy? (His boyfriend lives in another continent). I don't think it is a rebound because She seems to be really happy and it's already 5 months (we broke up 6 months ago). I'm asking you here because I couldn't find anything about this topic, so it would be nice if you knew how to deal with this. Thank you in advance!
One thing that most people don't realize is that they hold the key. Have you been actively trying to get your ex back? Don’t wait for this person to have an epiphany. If you want your ex back, then keep track of what you've been doing to see if it's productive or not. Here's a quick overview: ruclips.net/video/xgR03RcU8mw/видео.html and it's best to go by the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html Have you checked out my guide yet? It may be time to revamp your techniques. Before anything else though, take the free quiz on my website to gauge your chances of getting your ex back. Answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
He asked me for advice saying that "he has a crush on a girl knowing that she feels the same for him .. and he doesn't know what to do about that !!" Am I seeming like a love expert to him !!😑😑 I'm 90% sure that he's pretending to be in love again to make me feel jalouse .. but even so .. He drived me crazy 😠😠
This (your situation) is a good example why I said over and over why being friends with an ex is a bad idea. Discussed that here, too: ruclips.net/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/видео.html
Loved your video brad , I've subscribed, what does it mean when my ex posts selfies of herself every week on her FB cover???? She didn't do it to this extreme before the separation??? Please could someone explain this behaviour. Thank you,i have been married for 28yrs and we share 5 children, we're been separated for 1 year, she dumped me
Hey thanks! Anyway sorry, I can't really tell what's going through her mind right now and why she's changing selfies constantly. If you want to work on it, it's time to take some action! :-) So here are my top two marriage videos which may help: y2u.be/WU0yhd3ADXU and y2u.be/W_vzHFqnasM but it's really challenging for me to know where to give you a headstart, knowing only so little of the situation... Sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at www.marriageguy.com/coaching
Hey brad. My ex broke up with me about four months ago(completely blindsided)she found a guy online that sparked her interest. I asked her about him before i moved out she stated they was just friends. I had 30 days to get out. About two weeks in she went in a rage and told me she couldn't do it with me in the house anymore. I guess because we weren't speaking and she was having long conversations with this other guy. So i got out took everything out the home. After i left she went to spend time with him, had sex with him and then realized she was still in love with me. Tried to come back but i felt something was off. Her demeanor wasn't the same. I asked her about him she admitted going to see him but not the sexually part. I didn't believe her so i went to the guy on fb and he was in love with her and told me they had sex numerous times. I was devastated and furious. She told me she couldn't move on and that she loved me very much but actions was different. Its been almost 30 days and no contact. I really miss her but i can't get pass the infidelity. I thought we was close and no one could come between us. Now she on social site broadcasting how happy she is. What should i do?
If she meant what she say, then wait for her to really make a move to win you back instead of lying to your face and hoping to string you along. Really sorry to hear that, man. There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and/or making a solid effort to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: ruclips.net/video/m27TLeyUmwg/видео.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place. Someone asked me the same question as you and here's what I told them, refer to the second question: ruclips.net/video/9Fgc5F9Ck5Q/видео.html Take care!
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Could be a coincidence. Or maybe not. One thing that most people don't realize is that they hold the key. Have you been actively trying to get your ex back? Don’t wait for this person to have an epiphany. If you want your ex back, then keep track of what you've been doing to see if it's productive or not. Here's a quick overview: ruclips.net/video/xgR03RcU8mw/видео.html and it's best to go by the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html Have you checked out my guide yet? It may be time to revamp your techniques. Before anything else though, take the free quiz on my website to gauge your chances of getting your ex back. Answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Hey Brad! So my ex keeps snapchatting me even though we broke up. sometimes it's just simple snaps like pics of his dog or sunset, but sometimes he keeps sending me his new (maybe idk) girl. Is he trying to make me jealous? I think his relationship (if they are even dating idk) is a rebound one, cause we broke up only a month ago, and talked (friendly) for a few weeks (he told me he still loved me). no contact (except snapchat random pics) started 2 weeks ago and then pics of them hanging out. Side note- he broke up with me, said he regretted it but didn't do anything about it he said he needed time, so I let him go.
Hi Brad, I am applying the no contact rule and it ends on January 29th. my ex birthday on 31 you think I should go out with her or just congratulate her.
It's too soon to meet up. Watch this first: ruclips.net/video/Jzb18j7ZMPE/видео.html But you can send your ex a birthday greeting on her birthday, just make it quick and direct to the point, end the conversation first too because you're busy -- it helps if you really are, so hang out with friends, learn a new skill, etc. Also avoid drama like the plague and don’t get into an argument with your ex at any cost. I know I’m stating the obvious, but people often miss its importance. Anyway watch this, too: ruclips.net/video/YJGHEtlV1ac/видео.html Good luck!
Me and my ex broke up after 4 years and we just recently went out 2 weeks ago and on a 2 week no contact I text her "hey" she tells she is seeing someone out of the blue is she trying to make me jealous to see my reaction??
She went to the beach with my friend and her friends and wanted to hide it from me (but my friend told me) idk if that's a good thing or a bad thing Edit: bro she's doing 4 everyday and me and my friends think that it's a fake smile and happiness too
It's only good if she's seeing someone she's interested in. It's either that or she's a really private person and sure won't tell you, especially if you're still in the no contact phase.
Brad, I need your help again! I have been speaking back with my ex bur she booked to go to another country for a night with her friend. I know I shouldn’t have but I did message and call her to say I wasn’t happy with it so soon as it’s bank holiday. She is now doing no contact on me when I should be doing it on her. Any ideas please
Focus on yourself. I understand how you feel, but unfortunately you lose all rights to jealousy when you've already broken up...which is why it's a bad idea to tell or show your ex you're jealous. Acceptance is key and is in fact, attractive than showing dismay over your ex's independence. Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
@@BradBrowning thanks Brad. I am going around this evening because she wants too see where my head is as I’ve been doing no contact and things. She is talking to other guy, how do I approach this without sounding needy or giving her an ego boost ?
It's been 1 and half months we broke up.. we were together for 4 years. She got in a relationship with someone else after we broke up.. I begged and pleaded alot in the beginning but I didn't contact her after and she started to message me and also started to call me to meet up. she was like always talking about her new boyfriend and kept on telling me how he makes her feel like a princess and was better than me and tells me she is very happy now and don't want me but when I talk to her about some girl she kinda gets jealous and she is also very caring she still cares like she used to do when we were together..idk what she is upto
It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
Hello bro .plz help me I am so canfused in my life , I was relationship with girl from 7 years but I faced many ups and down ,I was very possessive and insecure bf in starting three years that's why we fight a lot then she leave me and after that after two months she went in other rebound relationship but I never contacted her ,then she again come in my life but when she come I am also go in other relationship at dat time , when she came I start talking with both suddenly she know that I have other girl also she fight with me a lot but still she not leave me then I leave my rebound relationship and again we both start with very happily she love me like crazy we are decided for marry also ..but after some time again I become so possessive for her try to control her life always , she have fear to me every second day I fight with her she is cry also some time but I love her like crazy I make my world I always have fear that what I do when I lost her coz we are in distance relationship , I always talk her like that I always never trust on her mostly time I blame her , I always say to I will leave u ,, I don't know what happened taht point I am so crazy about her ..but before 3 month I notice that she become change her behaviour change she is not like dat and then in Jan I find she is cheating with me from 5 month with another guy I was shocked I lost my world I don't know what I do Brad plz help me , what should I do ,that boy cut there wrist for her and he is very mind washer I leave in distance and that boy study with her ..now she say she cheat with me I very desapointed I can't go any relationship I can't face u still I say to her plz come we can talk but she totally ignored me and leave me alone what I do Brad pls hope you can understand my situation it's my whole short story
Why'd you two break up this time? It may be time to put things into perspective because in over a 12 years spent as a relationship coach, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: ruclips.net/video/zqAEi9PbEAA/видео.html Good luck!
How long has it been since the breakup? You're supposed to hide your ex's stuff form social media for a while, particularly while you're still focusing on yourself.
Hi Brad, Wonder from Brazil here. I'm in NC for 3 days. This morning my ex posted a print and the image said: "verybody is dating BUT me" and than said: JOKING!... Is he trying to say something?
Could be trying to confuse you. This is why, it really doesn't help to look at your ex's posts. So maybe stop trying to look at your ex's profile/messages/snaps, posts, etc.? An essential part of the "no contact" rule is to turn your focus inwards for a good 30 days, and looking at what your ex is doing and whatnot largely deviates from that point, don't you think?
Hi my boyfriend broke up with me last month. when he did it he said he still feels the same way, he still loves me and hes going to miss me so much (we were together almost 4 years and best friends), but he said I just became extremely reliant and needed constant reassurance towards the end of the relationship. I couldn't see that until now. we met a few days after the break up to chat and it was a really nice meeting. we've done a bit of messaging. but each day I haven't messaged him, he messages me at about 3 in the morning, and respond about 7 hours later, and I get nothing back. What is he implying?
It doesn't imply anything, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to know that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
After she jump into a rebound relationship she told me she is just had few dates with him but she thinks she like it.. and then after few weeks she does not like it.. but last weekend she intentionally brought him and friends at the club she new i always go and spend about 15 minutes then they left.. what does this mean?
My gf and I just recently broke up because she started getting to violent with me and I told her I wouldn't put up with that and left. She then deleted me on snapchat (where we regularly spoke) texted me nasty messages and said she wanted to break up and I agreed and haven't spoken to her since. Now a week later she adds be back on snapchat, but says nothing. Is posting stories of her with another guy, and also posting old pics of herself as I know their old because she sent them to me a long time ago. I haven't reacted to any of her snapchat stories cause I think she is trying to get a rise out of me as she can be narcissistic. My question is what should I do? Should I ask why she added me back and hasn't said anything? I love her but can't go to a person like that. I'm so torn. Some advice would be nice. Ty.
I hate to be the one to break it to you, but it may be to your best interest to move on. The relationship has become toxic due to these repeated abuse and cheating from your ex. Just learn what you can from this relationship and avoid similar traits on a future partner. So in time, you will be a better, wiser and overall more improved version of yourself. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/m27TLeyUmwg/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/k1myDIp0gSc/видео.html
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 hey my brotha! Its me again.. Will just say thank you for your coaching back inn october..and the book! For me was no contact the number one.. And making her jealous. Living my life to the fullest! Me and my ex are back together.. We are taking one day at a time. We are both happy ,we are both working on ouer self!we are not living together.. And i think thats help a lot! Again brotha.. Thank you from Norway! Kim 🙏🏻💪🏻
Hey TheFallen, could you talk to me? Maybe instagram or whatsapp or something, I kinda need help, I also got a problem with my ex, if u got time, my insta is Joseph_Biri, Thanks man!
@@josephbiri2098 sent you a request now.. Mine is thefallen1986.. Gonna tell you step by step what i did! 100%..
Hey can I get in on this action and see if you could help me? 😂
Yeah? Hey congrats, man! And you're welcome. Anyway as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: ruclips.net/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/видео.html All the best! :-)
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Hey Fellen, I also need some advices from u. I started no contacts about 2 weeks ago. So is there a way for me to contact u personally? I am really greatful if u can help me out in this situation.
Whenever an ex tries to make me jealous through social media immediately after a breakup, I honestly take it as a compliment lol. So concerned about showing the world and me that they've moved on, when deep down inside they are only doing it because I'm still on their mind. Mature adults acknowledge the pain of the breakup and then learn from it before getting into another relationship.
@@jadenbeauchamp8836 staying quiet, healing,abs learning is the best revenge
There's more to this than just rebounding. It's all about pre-selection, which I've discussed in greater detail in the first part of the video here: ruclips.net/video/fO9EePCzRj4/видео.html The aim is to increase your confidence by socializing and to subconsciously know that there is life outside of the relationship/breakup and to get out of the tunnel-vision mentality most people have after a breakup that only their ex can fix it. So interact with people. It may be just on a friendship level, camaraderie, bonding over a new sport/hobby/activity, etc. and not restricted to just dating, perhaps I should've emphasized that, too, as I can see how it can easily be misconstrued. But if you do get around to dating someone that you truly like, then that’s good, as it would help to let you not seem desperate to get your ex back, which most exes can sense from a mile away, mind you. Anyway thanks for your input! :-)
@@BradBrowning😊
Exactly. It just looks thirsty and desperate tbh. And is a turn off
I don’t feel emotional about my ex anymore. Best feeling ever
I wish I had that feeling
Same I think I just miss the relationship
When you can't even remember or understand why you ever wanted to be with her in the first place lol.
Life is amazing once you begin to truly love yourself
Mee too
I really hope I feel that one day bro. How long did it take to get to that stage
Its just so crazy to me how some women truly are talking to other men and flirting and sleeping with them but still want you . But dont do a thing to fix the relationship until you move on to someone else
Its amazingly sad
You aren't with the right person. You deserve someone who's loyal to you and will remain loyal to you. Choose wisely next time!
That’s not all women 😭 I’ve had the same experience in men so dude
If she's been with someone else, she's not the same woman anymore. Move on.
im just tired of caring about the wrong person and keep going back to her when all she does is hurt me and twist things around to where it works in her favor
That sounds toxic. To stop caring, you need to focus on yourself completely at this time and work on things you wanna do in your own life, yeah? I'd even go as much to say enjoy your single life (I know it still hurts, but try) and be independent.
If they’re trying to make you jealous. Just go into No contact. Pulling back is the key to re attraction. If they reach out, DO NOT ignore them, just match the same level of energy they’re giving you. If they say they miss you, tell them you miss them too. Just keep at that though. If they don’t say they miss you, be vague in your response. They have to be the ones to drive towards you at this point. I’m fighting this battle right now, good luck out there everyone. Remember your worth.
That's right. If you feel the girl is still into you or if you simply want to test her out, you can even play the jealousy card.
Moving on and being genuinely happy is the best way to handle this situation
This is something I discussed here: ruclips.net/video/XodgaAi8EbM/видео.html
After five years of leaving my ex girlfriend I have to admit how much I want to thank you Brad. The best thing is indeed to just move on and never wait for your ex to come back. You were one of the first I found on RUclips with lots of tips, in December 2018. Now when I look back at that dark period of 2018 I am happy that I moved on quickly, no matter how hard it was. Its similar with quitting smoking and getting over it, which I have did last year too. I am looking fresh to the future now for years and got some nice girls I am friends with now. A relationship isn't important, it is more important to improve yourself and being the best version of yourself to other females.
Glad to hear you're doing great, man. Thanks for the comment! :-)
It totally relates with the first point. Before we broke up, she hardly post anything on what's app or Facebook but now her behavior has changed and she's starting to act really strange.Most of her post is about her crush, I don't understand why she's acting weird suddenly. That's not her behavior when she's with me.
Sameeee
Same happening with me
Trying to make me jealous? Nah, she totally succeed in turning me off.
Exactly
Yes. I’m so with you on this. It just looks thirsty and appears too desperate for attention to me. Big turn off
Hey brad been watching your videos for about 3 months now! Just got my ex girlfriend back last night . I really want to thank you for everything !
Hey hey hey! I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. As what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: ruclips.net/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/видео.html All the best! :-)
It's been 2 weeks since break up. How I wish she come back
This work on me
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Sign #3 is what my ex is doing right now...but I will focus on myself.
True that!
how would you feel if your girlfriend goes hanging out with your ex multiple times and even having sleepovers and your relationship with her didn’t end well
My ex boyfriend when he cheated on me he ask me out and I told him no. So now he’s been jelouse and trying to make my life a living nightmare and gossip about me. I don’t sweat it. Because I know facts and same with my real friends.people like him isn’t worth my time.
2 months ago my ex of 4 years dumped me. Not long after she started posting non stop pictures on snapchat of everything from going to the bar to just watching TV when she never did that before. About a week ago she had texted me out of nowhere and after talking for a little, says she was out hanging out with a bunch of guys and had a blast and what not. She had told me wanted to be friends and was over me, "happy we broke up" i said I wanted space to try and move on. She doesnt text me really but showed concern that I deleted her snapchat. Is she trying to make me jealous and has feelings or am I over analyzing?
My ex had his new person call me from his phone to tell me how happy they are! My God I smelled the desperation and felt sorry for him.
Yes gurl! You got it 💪🏻
ikr!
That’s was tough 😂😂😂😂😂 sorry
previously was blocked on everything then she unblocked two of my accounts on tiktok so i could see who her 'new man?' is. Couldnt feel more proud of myself
I called for my daughter yesterday and her mom says she has a man. I left her 2 years ago. She even went as far as saying she was engaged. I pray she finds happiness. I'm not Jealous of anyone.😁
Getting to a healthy, peaceful state of mind where you don't need anyone is gold! :-) I'm happy for you.
Jesus is the only way I made it through. This situation has helped me grow stronger. I believe Christ will use this to teach people valuable lessons
1. You’re giving me major Richard Blaise vibes (Top Chef). This is a compliment because that guys is incredible.
2. Not necessarily jealously but after a week of no contact he’s reached out by text the last 2 days. It feels like he’s trying to get an emotional rise out of me. Is this normal? I’ve been pretty straightforward and non emotional in my responses. But yesterday he wanted more of an explanation for me ending things but then said nevermind it doesn’t matter. Then he asked if I was sabotaging a job opportunity for him. Like.....no.
Do I just go no contact or try to change the vibe of the conversation or what?
Hey thanks for the kind words! And yes, your ex most likely is testing you. It's important you don't bite into that. Posted a video about that here: ruclips.net/video/Pm_10BKVsfA/видео.html Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually
hey brad, every month i wait for your new video to come...and i was looking up for this video but i couldn't get,finally i got it.Thanks 🙏
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it! :-)
Thats why i don't even care.. a few of my exs will go above and beyond just to try and make me jealous.. its funny especially when they have no idea what's going on in my life.. i would appreciate an ex that's real and that will reach out and admit hey i miss you or whatever but can't stand those subliminal messages and fake happiness..come on now who you fooling i know i was your best but it is what it is.. i will say to the new people please keep them happy so they won't have to keep trying to make me jealous to react 😅🤣😂
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! :-)
@@BradBrowning thank you as well.. excuse my many grammar issues lol.. i was in a rush.. but i appreciate this video of coarse.
He broke up with me while we were getting ready to get married, later he asked me to be his friends, he came to me without calling, and when he arrived he showed me a picture he had taken with women One of them called him a video call with flying kiss and I was hurt. Someone left you and then he came to add to your pain in pain. I'm looking for a way to tell my parents that marriage is no more.Help me at least to ease the pain
This has happened to me before. My ex-girlfriend trying to make me jealous dancing with another guy at a New year's Eve party but I didn't book because it had no effect on me next thing you know she started calling me names she started talking to her boyfriend about me which made him mad and the next thing you know she calls me and tells me that she wants to go back out with me and since then things have been great between me and her
Glad you didn't fall for that as she's obviously testing you. :-) Discussed it here: ruclips.net/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/видео.html
she wanted you to chase her, as brad as said she wanted the power in her court and then broke up with you thinking you would be begging for her to get back with you and then you didn't so all that excitement of her getting chased has left her and she wants you back because you are the only bf she has ever had that doesn't chase her
She sounds like a narcissist. 😑
Brad I've been with my wife for 18. She asked me to leave the house 2 weeks before Christmas I put myself in the men's shelter and a third week she was talking to somebody for a month online and she had him to spend a week with her on Christmas weekend. My daughter wasn't there cuz she's 11, she wasn't happy financially and she said would never ever get back together. I know I have to work on me and hopefully she will see it but I think it may be too late because she wants him to move in from another state. I can't shake this one out of my head every time I go to improve myself I always think about family first and she's part of that everybody's telling me to forget about it but I can't 18 years what can I do how can I get her back if she's strongly feels that she doesn't want to be with me I feel she's the right one for me I don't want to go to the Finish Line with her how can I do that please help me,,,,,,, Family man.
Sorry to hear that. What happened, though? I mean, can you explain or share some stuff that's happened between being married for over a decade and everything being fine to you sleeping in the shed? When did all the trouble started and what has caused it? These are my top two marriage videos which may help: y2u.be/WU0yhd3ADXU and y2u.be/W_vzHFqnasM but it's really challenging for me to know where to give you a headstart, knowing only so little of the situation... Sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at www.marriageguy.com/coaching
My ex just left me so suddenly as if it was easy for her
I’m blocked too
I feel almost as if I was love bombed
Sorry to hear that.
Me and my ex ended things on good terms until we fell out, he no longer wants to know me and is angry and has said horrible things, we both blocked each other and I’m struggling to get over him as I know he’s already messaging other girls, he threw all my worries in my face but I still care😔
It's time to take a look at the bigger picture here. It doesn't really matter what your ex is doing. Chances are your ex is rebounding anyway but the point is you shouldn't be focused on that right now. That's all out of your control. Focus on yourself instead and show (NOT tell) your ex you accept his decision to break up. If you do, you'll accept that you're both single and therefore you'd stop overanalyzing every little stuff. All right? Here are the basics to getting an ex boyfriend back: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI I also suggest that you read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total and the "no contact" rule is only the first), including what to say, do or not do, along with bonus materials for texting, and the psychology of how a man thinks and understanding men in general. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/fbuy
My ex was barely sending pics of herself to me and she was always shy, but ever since we broke up, she added 12 new profile pictures (some of em are with another boy) and it’s seriously is pissing me off cuz I’m trying to forget her
Then you're being your own worst enemy. Stop looking at her social media!
Bro there thots
These childish games don't even work, and on top of it his true intentions are coming out, yes he may still love me and want to get back together and realized he's made the blunder of his life but he's not even in a healthy place, nothing genuine and sincere for our well being. He needs to grow up and heal his own mistake within himself and then have goals for the two of us we can build our house on. I'm getting to that health place by being patient and understanding with myself, just talking and being cordial with the new man in my life. I can't give my ex a third chance because look at the route he's choosing to take, it's ghastly.
I can't live his life and work on him, when I need to focus on improving myself and to keep myself moving forward, I literally can't do anything for him that he can do for himself.
He will find his way one day.
My ex try made me jealous is a childish way to handle our breakup. It says he's isn't over me especially when he's knowns I'm there's so immature and disrespectful of he doing it to get reaction out of me. i don't think he's hot or sexy with this all making me jealous it's he's has underlying issues with his ego, and he wants me to stroke it besides his new girlfriend is stroking his ego.
He's definitely need know he needs go someone else to stroke his ego cause I'm busy loving my life to do it.
I'm not upsets over breakup we have.
hey boys, my ex came back after 25 days of NC. she called me saying she wanted me back, i told her ill think about it. later in the evening i told her i wanted to talk, she said we can talk tomorrow. the next day, she doesnt even msg or call me. i txted her that its over for good. fuck playing stupid games, if you really want me back you wouldnt keep playing bullshit games. i feel fucking annoyed, manipulated and i see her in an entirely different light. i no longer want her back, good riddance. nc works
Like I said, it's ultimately up to you, man! :-)
Me and my boyfriend broke up on New Years. We haven't gone a day without talking wether we are fighting or just having a genuine conversation. We have gone one drives, he has stuck his hand on my leg, her my hand, hugged me, and kissed me. He asks me "you love me don't you?" and would send me snaps saying he can't fall asleep because he knows I'm upset and how he misses me and wants to cuddle. Another big thing is when we go on drives and my phone would buzz his eyes dive down to my phone and says "who is that your boyfriend". Every time would bring up getting back together he says it will never happen and then we start fighting again. Anytime I start to distance myself he always reaches out. Is he doing this to hold onto me in case he doesn't find someone better? I am going crazy here and trying not to get hurt even further than I already am. I love this guy and want to be with him, but don know when I should walk away.
Fighting's just gonna make it worse. I don't think you need me to tell you that as you're clearly experiencing the effects yourself. Anyway play your cards right and notice the world of difference that this can make. Stick to the "no contact" rule this time. A situation with an ex is often fragile, so you'd really want to omit, if not minimize these mistakes. Start with the 30-day straight "no contact rule. It’s one step forward, two steps backward with an ex & there are no unlimited chances with them, so if you can do it right moving forward, then do so. Check out my guide so you won't end up making the same mistakes. Good luck!
When I realised this is the only reason for his odd behaviour. Like be happy I don't begrudge anyone that. But never at my expense. But when trying to get a reaction the last few months And me feeling nothing as my attachment to him had gone. Was the most freeing feeling I have ever felt.
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.
I’ll really never meet a better girl because she’s always been the best in every way to me. I can’t figure out how talk to her now other then when she needs something from me. She just acts nice but ends the conversation as quick as possible.
So my ex started talking to my close friends(she’s never talked to them before we dated.)
2 of them blocked her because they said she was flirting with them...and now I have an ex friend because he tried it with her. I think she wanted revenge or something,but she’s the one that said she didn’t want to talk anymore(we broke up and at the time we were FWB)
I feel like if I block and unfollow her she’ll keep trying to go for them...idk what to do
She sounds terrible
Alex Martino I didn’t block her. She moved schools and I just graduated high school a few months ago so things kind of died out with us not seeing each other anymore. She wished me a happy birthday this year which didn’t really surprise me tbh. I contemplated if I should to the same but decided not to. Honestly I’m grateful that she did what she did.. (I learned a lot from this situation). I don’t know if I’ll ever get over what she did to me but it opened my eyes and I’m very grateful for that.
Great video! Finally someone that lists everything
Hi! Thanks for the support.
if a person use jealous to make you send them a message or chase them ,what should you do?warning,maybe they want just ego cover and put you out.I dont want to risk it as i did before.I beleive that this person must make the next step.Agree with this Brad?
Exactly. Also, like I mentioned before, it's your ex's way of coping, so try not to get too affected by that. If they continue to message, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. If this does not describe your situation, however, and your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses his/her power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: ruclips.net/video/bgOG9s1fac8/видео.html
@@BradBrowning she threating me with indirect way that she will leave me,but i said her with indirect way.If you leave go leave and never come back.Thanks a lot
Does it matter if it's an ex or someone that I'm currently dating? Would the tell-tale signs be different if he's an ex as opposed to a current bf?
There's no motive for your boyfriend to try to make you jealous though, is there?
why they need to make us jealouse
I am currently in this predicament, my ex and I were on and off for a year and a month after we broke up he brings his new girlfriend to church with him. Showing lots of physical affection.
Just recently we were suppose to have a conversation of what happened and he textes "sorry new girls name just left" when he was the one who initiated the time to talk. Is he trying to make me Jelous?
Sure looks like it! The important thing is to play it cool, so never fly off the handle! ;-)
What does it mean when your ex calls another girl cute in front of you
All the signs that you've mentioned are there.
She just keeps on talking nonstop how she been messing around with others and constantly flirting, she even suggested hooking me up with someone.
What is that supposed to mean?
Love your work man =D keep it up !
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Hey Brad! It feels like my ex is using many of those things that you're talking about against me even tho she was the one who broke up with me. For example she is posting more pitchers on Instagram then before and she is writing that she is happen and everything feel sooooo good. She also try to show the world that she is meeting a lot of people and even at one point she posted a story on Instagram when she was with some dude and they were playing tennis. I have been contacting here like 1 time in 5 weeks and when i did i told here that we should talk and that I want this to be official. however as i said earlier is there any chance she is using this to get me back even tho she broke up with me? Or do you just think she is trying to show me that its not going to be us again and that she want to be left alone? thumbs up for your videos and I would be really glad if you can give me some clarity in this (Y)
You're putting too much emphasis on social media and it means you need to stop looking, especially reaching a point of obsession, at any of your ex's pages, and especially if you're still on the 30-day "no contact" phase. Doing so will not only make you overanalzye and/or worry over the most inconsequential stuff, but you'd also be consumed about thoughts of your ex when this time is supposed to be about YOU. Makes sense? Discussed that unhealthy tendency here: ruclips.net/video/sJg4udwCS90/видео.html
I am at my 8 weeks break up with my ex but i am, actually the dumper. I didn't check his FB timeline and use NC because i want to heal as Anxious Preoccupied. But he was deactivated me 10 months ago, and when I started to healing process he still doing that deactivation even after my healing and after i initiated he seldom to reply. After two weeks of a breakup, he try to initiate but I was felt want to get heal first before i connect to him. I used NC and We spoke about the stuff he needs to return.
Today I challenge myself to check his FB timeline...and Wow..he is a lot of posts than usual when i was with him in a relationship. He never posted that when he was in a relationship with me on social media and now he announces that he doesn't have gf anymore, he even posted like not every man knows how to initiate a good conversation first, like he felt tired in a relationship, waiting or something. Some of his posts like i felt insulted and some like a victim person in a relationship.
I still love him after all. it is not about him.. it's about my healing process though he is DA attachment style.
Maybe stop trying to look at your ex's profile/messages/snaps, posts,etc.? An essential part of the "no contact" rule is to turn your focus inwards for a good 30 days, and looking at what your ex is doing and whatnot largely deviates from that point, don't you think? Discussed that here, too: ruclips.net/video/MroLZ7XK9gY/видео.html
Literally my ex took the time out his day to add me to his private story on Snapchat and posted the girl and, we broke up a week ago .. lmfao
There you go. lol
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Brad, I have seen last two signs. Is she making me jealous?
More likely, yes.
She literally brought the guy around me and said " ur way better than (my name)" in front of me. Just L O L
lol wow
I have an ex that contacted me 5 times on the course of a month. I did ask her out and although she said yes she told me she lived in another city now. She kept reaching out including my birthday and such.
Also kept asking lots of questions about me.
Then all of a sudden she randomly mentions that she calls her now boyfriend the same nickname I call one of my bestfriends. Asking then if I still call him the same.
Immature little brat I knew very well what she was playing. I never asked to know about her life yet she found a personal reason to mention that to me.
Well, there would be no conversation if you hadn't replied to her, man. Replying to her was your choice, hence, she continues to blab about how she's dating someone new. So sadly, you are part to blame as well. Anyway a key component is to avoid small talk as much as possible, especially during the most critical stage: 30-day "no contact" rule because there's a huge chance your ex may be slowly easing herself away from you.The thing with exes, especially the one whose idea is to break the relationship, is they also struggle with the breakup and finding all means to cope...including talking to someone they're used to talking to, a.k.a you. What that leaves you, however, is unknowingly becoming their emotional sponge. So if you want this ex back, you ought to let her feel what it's like not to have you in her life first, so employ the 30-day "no contact" rule, okay? An exception is if your ex is trying to contact you about something really important or is sincerely asking you to get back together. Understand that you risk too much by staying in touch and you best not respond unless it’s about something important. Watch this, too: ruclips.net/video/gUBNd6pDINM/видео.html
My wife and I separated a month ago it was her call I respected her decision and leaving her alone but Last night she asked me how I was doing? I said I’m okay. Out of the blue she brought out saying there is a guy at her gym that she’s trying to keep up with when running and she was going to back to the gym because he was there. But she never went back to the gym..I’m thinking that’s was weird since when is she trying to make me jealous? When she made the call to separate I didn’t beg her to come back she was taking off late at night and not coming back till the next day. It didn’t bother me at all.I didn’t question her where she was going or who she was spending time with. I pretty much just left her alone and started focusing on myself and my child.. my wife is starting to talk to me again. But still I just communicate with her about our child. Other then that I’m still respecting our separation.
Sorry to hear that, man. I have no idea where to start knowing almost nothing about the situation. A separation may be good for you, though, to give her time to think clearly. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/HHkwa5tbNC0/видео.html
Hey brad if me and my ex broke up a month ago today and i broke no contact twice should i start over from scratch? Im one week into no contact again and want to know if i should follow through with a full month now because i did only have two short and friendly conversations with my ex. She ended both conversations so im just trying to decide what to do because i know time is important. Thanks brad youre the man!
The thing is, there's really that desperation vibe that you're giving off every time you contact ex. Play your cards right and notice the world of difference that this can make. Stick to the "no contact" rule this time. A situation with an ex is often fragile, so you'd really want to omit, if not minimize these mistakes. Start with the 30-day straight "no contact rule. It’s one step forward, two steps backward with an ex & there are no unlimited chances with them, so if you can do it right moving forward, then do so. Check out my guide so you won't end up making the same mistakes. Good luck!
I have a relationship with her for a month but unfortunately my ex want to break up saying that she want to be single again and i dont have idea about this can you give me some feedback
Your ex is most likely lying about the reason of the breakup so try not to fall for that. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/ZuHWCWeG1xs/видео.html However, the bottom line is your ex has significantly lost attraction. Watch what I’ve explained here and watch the entire length of the video to gain full understanding, as well as know what to do: y2u.be/E9wG_ErBQoI It’s important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
He's mad at me because his new gf forgot to wish him Happy Birthday and I did, I try to stay on top of wishing people Happy Birthday, make them feel valued and I want to get my new guy a card for his birthday which is coming up because he's been a real gentleman, intelligent, good hearted decent man to me.
If you can't genuinely be friends with an ex, it's best to go no contact for an indefinite amount of time. Sadly though, not even a friendship could work with an ex especially if you two just can't see eye to eye.
I was in a seriously bad toxic relationship and I still love the guy - I don't know how to get over him and he's always in my mind. The worse part is I see him everyday at school and I struggle to avoid him! Is there any way I could act like he's not there anymore? :(
These should help: ruclips.net/video/01wvLSaS9_I/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/2CakOOSwIiY/видео.html
My ex and I became friends again after not seeing each other for a few months. He's been dating a girl he met online for over a year or two. Its long distance, but they visit each other once in a while. They've been talking about marriage and its causing me pain to hear about him wanting a future with her. It sounded like a serious relationship. He told me he was glad I changed for the better, and that his girlfriend helped him with his problems. He doesnt know that I've been feeling sad since he's still dating that other woman. But then one day, he came over to my house and we started talking. It was a subtle friendly conversation, and he then started to kiss me on the lips and whispered in my ear "I love you". Im not sure if he really meant it as a way that he misses me, or just saying it in a friendship way? What should I do?
Friends for now, but don't let that derail you, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part and assuming you hadn't taken a long time before taking the step. Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to know that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
I broke up with my boyfriend and he stares at me still even when i walk by, and a new girl got to our school today and he asked for her number. In. My. Face. So is he trying to make me jealous...??
Sure does look like it.
Met with ex girlfriend after 4 months. Why would she tell me he looks exactly like me, how great it is, etc. He' has nothing she has told me she wants and habits she has told me are deal breakers but shes acting like he's the best thing ever and could and short with me. I'm really scratching my head here. I'm insulted!
Cut the conversation short or the divert the topic. This is why I suggest texting. Follow my texting tips!
Brad, She has a private profile and recently about after a week ago after breaking up and not talking She posted a status " feeling in love" and in arabic ' how can I get you out of my mind" . A Arabic bodybuilder commented "why would you have to" and she loved his comment ". He is in ukriane currently. He also talks to anyone in inbox from what I can tell. Might not even he his profile. ( I'm aware cause Sadly I made a fake profile as a female and conversated with him ) I am personally a body builder my self . Her choosing a man in another country to talk to and posting it publically even though her profile is private... ? Also NO one has liked the status . Usually her mother likes all her statuses. To the extent of it being annoying . I think she might of limited the audience to just public so they can't see. If so what is the dynamic behind this... she is in my phone plan and still receives money from me Weekley ( currently in college and unemployed with 3 kids of her own. )
Maybe stop trying to look at your ex's profile/messages/snaps, posts,etc.? An essential part of the "no contact" rule is to turn your focus inwards, and looking at what your ex is doing and whatnot largely deviates from that point, don't you think?
Hey Brad! If my ex is doing #1, that is... engaging to social media way more than she used to, Is it a Good or a Bad sign?
That really doesn't matter. Sorry, but that's hardly a sign at all. For solid signs, though, here's what to be on the lookout for: ruclips.net/video/CsVR7yV4X8k/видео.html
Brah my ex is crazy 😜
This shit is funny, she posting pictures of her kid and husband, 🤣
It's only natural she post pictures of them, man. She's married! lol Consider moving on from this. Married women are too much trouble than its worth.
I dumped my ex for tow week and today he give her number to my best freind that i told her in past dont talk with him , whats that mean ? Revange or what ??
Could be. But why were you trying to control who she talks to? This vid is for you: ruclips.net/video/IhGnPtpJTbM/видео.html
Hi Brad! What if his new gf looks like me? I thought maybe she just might be his type but I’ve seen his other exes and we all look nothing alike. I’m curious to know what this may mean?
Thanks in advance!
He's definitely rebounding. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/TBtb34gy6zw/видео.html
What if my ex is copying my personality and my whole style that I’m into? She swears she hates me and blocked me but is copying me.
Why does she hate you? Watch this first: ruclips.net/video/PN-07kAtIjw/видео.html
We still follow each other in social media...My ex changed his profile picture after I changed it...what this can mean ?
That really doesn't matter. Sorry, but that's hardly a sign at all. And you deserve more than that. For solid signs, though, here's what to be on the lookout for: ruclips.net/video/CsVR7yV4X8k/видео.html
Ex asked me if I would still respect her if she was sleeping around. Literally out of no where.
I responded: "I do not care" because I genuinely do not care cause I have alot of assignments to do. Was I wrong?
That's the right thing to do. It's important to accept that you're both single now and both free to do what you wanna do.
What if she has joined tinder but she messages you she misses you. Her sister even said she is really battling with the break up and I dont believe one can move on in 3 months after 8 years. Oh... I was dumped!
I'm sure your ex is having a hard time as well. Getting an ex back is a gradual process, so there's no one-action solution for this. Okay? The "no contact" phase is a good start, so do that first if you haven’t yet, for 30 days. If you have, then I'm glad you've completed it. There are two more phases to go with a few other steps in between (in the right order). What I'm trying to say here is it's a 3-phase process, and it's a bit complicated to explain it all on here, but I made an overview in the hopes of making people understand, so watch it here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html or read my guide for the entire process. Good luck!
My ex is trying to make me jealous by posting loads of selfies on Facebook and seeking attention from other men. She normally never posts such things on Facebook and now she is giving these comments from single guys a heart response. Any ideas on how to react?
It's time to take a look at the bigger picture here. It doesn't really matter what your ex is doing. Chances are your ex is rebounding anyway but the point is you shouldn't be focused on that right now. That's all out of your control. Focus on yourself instead and show (NOT tell) your ex you accept her decision to break up. If you do, you'll accept that you're both single and therefore you'd stop overanalyzing every little stuff. All right? Here are the basics to getting an ex back: y2u.be/aeGNPBdpnsI and you can see that the 30-day "no contact" rule is an absolute must. I also suggest that you read my Ex Factor Guide since that’s much more detailed and so you'll know how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total and the "no contact" rule is only the first), including what to say, do or not do, etc. Good timing is essential! Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com/mbuy
She posted her new bf picture im not even pressed or pressed about it cuz she still continue viewing my status. I just know she tryna make me jealous but i could careless cuz she knows to me she is replaceable and she don't really love the guy as she is using him to show that I'm missing out/ thinking I'd be jealous. Its a shame the guy is even bluepilled
Right. Never take the bait. Some people just lash out at their ex, I'm glad you've remained calm. Stay safe!
Lovely,real and helpful video!
My ex is informing me that he felt a friendly relation with me and now he has feelings for someone else with a photograph of that girl and they have started dating
Bad idea to be an ex's backup plan. Cut off contact and apply the tips here: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html
I deleted his no and all contacts from my phone and stopped texting him..after two three days he replied that he was just playing a prank that I still get jealous or not.....and he is sorry about it.....I just saw the message and ignored him.
How do you know she is using jealousy to win you back
Watch the vid again.
5 Years too late to comment probably, But this is about right now- My 2 days old Ex kinda stole my friends and made me into a bad guy, Making my friends take pictures of her with them having fun, etc, Really just trying to get a reaction or jealousy out of me.. I've known about not taking the bait for a while, I just say that its unnecessary and kind a childish of them. Then they come with things only she knows and is trying to make her look so good and happy now.. But i LITERALLY know that shes trying to distract herself from me, One of our mutual friends told me
If your friends trust you over your ex, then they may not be solid friends... unless they're playing/tagging along in an effort to try to stay neutral, especially if they've all gotten really close somehow through you.I suggest you apply the tips from this vid: ruclips.net/video/STLjybyiaBQ/видео.html
Hi Brad. Me and my ex finished 3 days ago after a great 8 months.
She just posted a meme type picture on her Facebook advising she was single and ready to pringle. Is she trying to make me jealous here or already moved on? At the breakup she said it was only me and she didn't want anyone else. It was painful to read. Thanks
Give it time because breakups are naturally confusing, even for dumpers. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/dqnqGWOk9NA/видео.html
He totally broke my heart. Posting other women. The last post was enough for me to unfollow etc. Slowly building myself up. I realize I'm wasting my time waiting on him. He even told me how he spent the night with her and how he enjoyed it. I realize this is disrespectful now that Iv have time to reflect
It's also a perfect example of why you should cut off contact with an ex during this time. You really don't need to hear about all his sexcapades. Try to fully focus on yourself first and mind your own business. Let it go for a bit until you get to think clearly and decide what's best for you. Take care!
My ex and I broke up a little over a month ago. We do talk still but it doesn't feel the same. I thought I was moving on because I felt genuinely okay with myself and thought that I'd be okay if we dont get back together. One night last week she started crying and said "part of me wants to let go but part of me still loves you." But the next day she shot it down when I tried to talk to her about it saying "we aren't getting back together". As of a few days ago I mentioned a promise that we made relating to the relationship and she hasn't talked to me since. Shes been showing her status as happy and heart eyes but idk if she got with someone or if she's just trying to make me jealous of how quick she moved on. I need some help, what should I do in this situation?
Don't guilt her into getting back together with you based on a promise, which are rarely kept anyway. Rebuilding attraction should be done naturally and organically!
@@BradBrowning words of wisdom thank you
Thanks, for coaching,if im in a situation like this, how will I react back to my ex?
Use it in a subtle manner if you're not sure what you're doing.
I don't know if he's trying to make me jealous. But, he just went to mu job with his new girlfriend, he even carried this girl's little daughter, and he known i want to have a daughter 😢😢😢
He could be but if their relationship lasts for more than 6 months, it's probably best to let it go.
Great video, thank you 🙏
Thanks for the support… please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: ruclips.net/user/bradbrowning”
I'm getting divorce and he is actively trying to hurt me and make me jelouse as a revenge telling me he found someone while not leaving me alone ..im like ok move on if u found someone and plz sign the divorce which he's refusing to sign ..
Hi! Why is he refusing to sign and how long has it been? Although I'd like to offer a tip or two, there's simply too many elements to your situation that makes this too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.marriageguy.com/coaching
Hey Brad. I broke no contact after almost 3 weeks. He said he was already wanting to contact, but then didnt seem to be so enthusiastic. Sometimes answering with one word replies etc. I kept the contact care-free & casual. Then decided to implement no contact again. Is that my best option for now ? Thanks.
Try to go at least 30 days without contact. Before contacting her, make sure you tick off the checklist here, too: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html
Hey Brad! i really like ur advices!,,my ex Says that she loves someone else just after the breakup And whenever she talks with me She Says about that person intentionally! i think she is tryiing to make me jealous! i will go into no contact from this monday is that right? And what can i do more pls tell?
It's time to find a more positive outlet for your emotions. It's totally okay to cry your eyes out (just NOT in front of your ex), this is healthy, but try to balance it with other stuff. So keep your mind occupied, get busy with a lot of stuff like hobbies, work, etc. focus on what makes you feel good and take time to heal as well. Also read my Ex Factor Guide, which covers commonly possible ‘what if’ scenario and will give you pretty much everything you need to know, so read it many times over until you master it. The aim of the guide is basically to put you in the best position to get your ex back...and to avoid the pitfalls to increase your chances altogether. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
Can I ask a question? What should I do if my ex is in an Online relationship with another guy? (His boyfriend lives in another continent). I don't think it is a rebound because She seems to be really happy and it's already 5 months (we broke up 6 months ago). I'm asking you here because I couldn't find anything about this topic, so it would be nice if you knew how to deal with this.
Thank you in advance!
One thing that most people don't realize is that they hold the key. Have you been actively trying to get your ex back? Don’t wait for this person to have an epiphany. If you want your ex back, then keep track of what you've been doing to see if it's productive or not. Here's a quick overview: ruclips.net/video/xgR03RcU8mw/видео.html and it's best to go by the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html Have you checked out my guide yet? It may be time to revamp your techniques. Before anything else though, take the free quiz on my website to gauge your chances of getting your ex back. Answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
She told me I have a boyfriend when I called her about kids exchange. Just divorced. I didn't even ask her.
Yup, that was totally unnecessary.
He asked me for advice saying that "he has a crush on a girl knowing that she feels the same for him .. and he doesn't know what to do about that !!" Am I seeming like a love expert to him !!😑😑
I'm 90% sure that he's pretending to be in love again to make me feel jalouse .. but even so .. He drived me crazy 😠😠
This (your situation) is a good example why I said over and over why being friends with an ex is a bad idea. Discussed that here, too: ruclips.net/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/видео.html
Loved your video brad , I've subscribed, what does it mean when my ex posts selfies of herself every week on her FB cover???? She didn't do it to this extreme before the separation??? Please could someone explain this behaviour. Thank you,i have been married for 28yrs and we share 5 children, we're been separated for 1 year, she dumped me
Hey thanks! Anyway sorry, I can't really tell what's going through her mind right now and why she's changing selfies constantly. If you want to work on it, it's time to take some action! :-) So here are my top two marriage videos which may help: y2u.be/WU0yhd3ADXU and y2u.be/W_vzHFqnasM but it's really challenging for me to know where to give you a headstart, knowing only so little of the situation... Sign up for my Mend the Marriage coaching program so I can help take a look at all the other factors at play and find out what’s really going on, monitor your situation, and guide you on a regular, ongoing basis at www.marriageguy.com/coaching
@@BradBrowningthank you so much brad, I'll look at what you've sent me and get back to you, I really appreciate your feedback
Hey brad. My ex broke up with me about four months ago(completely blindsided)she found a guy online that sparked her interest. I asked her about him before i moved out she stated they was just friends. I had 30 days to get out. About two weeks in she went in a rage and told me she couldn't do it with me in the house anymore. I guess because we weren't speaking and she was having long conversations with this other guy. So i got out took everything out the home. After i left she went to spend time with him, had sex with him and then realized she was still in love with me. Tried to come back but i felt something was off. Her demeanor wasn't the same. I asked her about him she admitted going to see him but not the sexually part. I didn't believe her so i went to the guy on fb and he was in love with her and told me they had sex numerous times. I was devastated and furious. She told me she couldn't move on and that she loved me very much but actions was different. Its been almost 30 days and no contact. I really miss her but i can't get pass the infidelity. I thought we was close and no one could come between us. Now she on social site broadcasting how happy she is. What should i do?
If she meant what she say, then wait for her to really make a move to win you back instead of lying to your face and hoping to string you along. Really sorry to hear that, man. There's no easy way to say this but the answer is is to move on, especially if your ex doesn't seem to be regretting their actions and/or making a solid effort to get back together. Most of the time, a lot of people would move on, but a few would still fight for the relationship, so this all depends which side you're on and what your views are. But take into consideration about what I’ve mentioned here, too: ruclips.net/video/m27TLeyUmwg/видео.html There is no right or wrong answer here because it is your relationship and it's personal to you. Make sense? Anyway men and women cheat for different reasons, but if you think your ex is worth it and if there's been a genuine connection between you two before the cheating happened, then try to see the roles that you BOTH played that led to all this mess and see once and for all if it can be resolved or not, okay? Really take your time before deciding though and be sure not to make any hasty decisions from an emotional place. Someone asked me the same question as you and here's what I told them, refer to the second question: ruclips.net/video/9Fgc5F9Ck5Q/видео.html Take care!
you're a god send, man!
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4 months of a break up 2 months of no contact and I drove past her jogging in my neighbourhood this morning. Wtf
Could be a coincidence. Or maybe not. One thing that most people don't realize is that they hold the key. Have you been actively trying to get your ex back? Don’t wait for this person to have an epiphany. If you want your ex back, then keep track of what you've been doing to see if it's productive or not. Here's a quick overview: ruclips.net/video/xgR03RcU8mw/видео.html and it's best to go by the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html Have you checked out my guide yet? It may be time to revamp your techniques. Before anything else though, take the free quiz on my website to gauge your chances of getting your ex back. Answer as honestly as possible, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Good luck!
Hey Brad!
So my ex keeps snapchatting me even though we broke up. sometimes it's just simple snaps like pics of his dog or sunset, but sometimes he keeps sending me his new (maybe idk) girl. Is he trying to make me jealous? I think his relationship (if they are even dating idk) is a rebound one, cause we broke up only a month ago, and talked (friendly) for a few weeks (he told me he still loved me). no contact (except snapchat random pics) started 2 weeks ago and then pics of them hanging out. Side note- he broke up with me, said he regretted it but didn't do anything about it he said he needed time, so I let him go.
side side side note- our relationship of 5 years was healthy
Let him go for now. This means you need to stop contact, which is actually very crucial. Apply the tips here: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html
Hi Brad, I am applying the no contact rule and it ends on January 29th. my ex birthday on 31 you think I should go out with her or just congratulate her.
It's too soon to meet up. Watch this first: ruclips.net/video/Jzb18j7ZMPE/видео.html But you can send your ex a birthday greeting on her birthday, just make it quick and direct to the point, end the conversation first too because you're busy -- it helps if you really are, so hang out with friends, learn a new skill, etc. Also avoid drama like the plague and don’t get into an argument with your ex at any cost. I know I’m stating the obvious, but people often miss its importance. Anyway watch this, too: ruclips.net/video/YJGHEtlV1ac/видео.html Good luck!
@@BradBrowning thanks u so much
@@BradBrowning hey brand thank u so much , today she text me like 10 times and call me like 4 lol, im just ignoring and follow ur step , ur best
Maximo Perez TI HOMS coach is 100 right
Me and my ex broke up after 4 years and we just recently went out 2 weeks ago and on a 2 week no contact I text her "hey" she tells she is seeing someone out of the blue is she trying to make me jealous to see my reaction??
"Hey" is a weak message and it will never work. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/RggluigF74E/видео.html
She went to the beach with my friend and her friends and wanted to hide it from me (but my friend told me) idk if that's a good thing or a bad thing
Edit: bro she's doing 4 everyday and me and my friends think that it's a fake smile and happiness too
It's only good if she's seeing someone she's interested in. It's either that or she's a really private person and sure won't tell you, especially if you're still in the no contact phase.
Brad, I need your help again! I have been speaking back with my ex bur she booked to go to another country for a night with her friend. I know I shouldn’t have but I did message and call her to say I wasn’t happy with it so soon as it’s bank holiday. She is now doing no contact on me when I should be doing it on her. Any ideas please
Focus on yourself. I understand how you feel, but unfortunately you lose all rights to jealousy when you've already broken up...which is why it's a bad idea to tell or show your ex you're jealous. Acceptance is key and is in fact, attractive than showing dismay over your ex's independence. Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
@@BradBrowning thanks Brad. I am going around this evening because she wants too see where my head is as I’ve been doing no contact and things. She is talking to other guy, how do I approach this without sounding needy or giving her an ego boost ?
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It's been 1 and half months we broke up.. we were together for 4 years. She got in a relationship with someone else after we broke up.. I begged and pleaded alot in the beginning but I didn't contact her after and she started to message me and also started to call me to meet up. she was like always talking about her new boyfriend and kept on telling me how he makes her feel like a princess and was better than me and tells me she is very happy now and don't want me but when I talk to her about some girl she kinda gets jealous and she is also very caring she still cares like she used to do when we were together..idk what she is upto
It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
Hello bro .plz help me I am so canfused in my life , I was relationship with girl from 7 years but I faced many ups and down ,I was very possessive and insecure bf in starting three years that's why we fight a lot then she leave me and after that after two months she went in other rebound relationship but I never contacted her ,then she again come in my life but when she come I am also go in other relationship at dat time , when she came I start talking with both suddenly she know that I have other girl also she fight with me a lot but still she not leave me then I leave my rebound relationship and again we both start with very happily she love me like crazy we are decided for marry also ..but after some time again I become so possessive for her try to control her life always , she have fear to me every second day I fight with her she is cry also some time but I love her like crazy I make my world I always have fear that what I do when I lost her coz we are in distance relationship , I always talk her like that I always never trust on her mostly time I blame her , I always say to I will leave u ,, I don't know what happened taht point I am so crazy about her ..but before 3 month I notice that she become change her behaviour change she is not like dat and then in Jan I find she is cheating with me from 5 month with another guy I was shocked I lost my world I don't know what I do Brad plz help me , what should I do ,that boy cut there wrist for her and he is very mind washer I leave in distance and that boy study with her ..now she say she cheat with me I very desapointed I can't go any relationship I can't face u still I say to her plz come we can talk but she totally ignored me and leave me alone what I do Brad pls hope you can understand my situation it's my whole short story
Why'd you two break up this time? It may be time to put things into perspective because in over a 12 years spent as a relationship coach, I find that a breakup is often NOT just one person's fault, so look at the roles that you've BOTH played that led to the breakup and if the issues have a chance to get resolved, and how to go about it. In most cases, the problems that led to the breakup can be resolved, but in some cases, it can't. So take time to evaluate, okay? However, I have to warn you not to ask the reasons from your ex. This is what I've discussed here along with other stuff that might help you, so this is a must-watch: ruclips.net/video/zqAEi9PbEAA/видео.html Good luck!
Hey hope you’re doing good?
What to actually do when your ex keep posting her new boyfriend for you to see ??
How long has it been since the breakup? You're supposed to hide your ex's stuff form social media for a while, particularly while you're still focusing on yourself.
Hi Brad, Wonder from Brazil here. I'm in NC for 3 days. This morning my ex posted a print and the image said: "verybody is dating BUT me" and than said: JOKING!... Is he trying to say something?
Could be trying to confuse you. This is why, it really doesn't help to look at your ex's posts. So maybe stop trying to look at your ex's profile/messages/snaps, posts, etc.? An essential part of the "no contact" rule is to turn your focus inwards for a good 30 days, and looking at what your ex is doing and whatnot largely deviates from that point, don't you think?
Hi my boyfriend broke up with me last month. when he did it he said he still feels the same way, he still loves me and hes going to miss me so much (we were together almost 4 years and best friends), but he said I just became extremely reliant and needed constant reassurance towards the end of the relationship. I couldn't see that until now. we met a few days after the break up to chat and it was a really nice meeting. we've done a bit of messaging. but each day I haven't messaged him, he messages me at about 3 in the morning, and respond about 7 hours later, and I get nothing back. What is he implying?
It doesn't imply anything, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to know that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
After she jump into a rebound relationship she told me she is just had few dates with him but she thinks she like it.. and then after few weeks she does not like it.. but last weekend she intentionally brought him and friends at the club she new i always go and spend about 15 minutes then they left.. what does this mean?
My gf and I just recently broke up because she started getting to violent with me and I told her I wouldn't put up with that and left. She then deleted me on snapchat (where we regularly spoke) texted me nasty messages and said she wanted to break up and I agreed and haven't spoken to her since. Now a week later she adds be back on snapchat, but says nothing. Is posting stories of her with another guy, and also posting old pics of herself as I know their old because she sent them to me a long time ago. I haven't reacted to any of her snapchat stories cause I think she is trying to get a rise out of me as she can be narcissistic. My question is what should I do? Should I ask why she added me back and hasn't said anything? I love her but can't go to a person like that. I'm so torn. Some advice would be nice. Ty.
I hate to be the one to break it to you, but it may be to your best interest to move on. The relationship has become toxic due to these repeated abuse and cheating from your ex. Just learn what you can from this relationship and avoid similar traits on a future partner. So in time, you will be a better, wiser and overall more improved version of yourself. Discussed that here: ruclips.net/video/m27TLeyUmwg/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/k1myDIp0gSc/видео.html