WATCH THIS BEFORE MOVING OUT ON YOUR OWN | Adulting in the Philippines
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- Опубликовано: 26 июн 2024
- Watch this before moving out on your own. Be an adult in the Philippines
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Are you thinking about moving out on your own and becoming independent? Maybe you want to get away from your toxic family or you want to experience personal growth.
Moving out of your parents home is a popular topic in the Philippines and in many Asian cultures. Because we have strong family ties, it is common to find people in their 30s and 40s still living with parents. Sometimes you’re already married and your brothers and sisters have children but you all continue to stay in your parents home.
As someone who has moved out of his parents home for the past few years, I can definitely say there are rewards to moving out. You learn essential skills such as cleaning, budgeting, managing personal finances, and dealing with relationships. Your 20s are the perfect time to move out as this is the prime time for self development.
BUT!!! Before you move out, you need to ask yourself some questions so that you can assess whether or not why you want to move out. First and foremost, Why do you want to move out? What are your motivations? Perhaps you want to get away from your toxic family. Whatever the reason, make sure your heart and mind are in the right place.
Second, prepare your finances. Even on a starting salary, it is possible for most people to move out. However, your income and budget will determine where you stay, what food to eat, and the lifestyle you can live. There are many costs to living by yourself such as rent, food, utilities, and groceries. Independent living can be tough, but with the right financial skills, it can be done.
Lastly, are you mature enough to move out? Adulting means taking care of yourself. You will also meet new people and handling those relationships can make or break you as an adult.
Timestamps:
0:00 Introduction
1:30 Question 1: Why do you want to move out?
2:20 Moving out due to toxic family
3:10 Sandwich Generation
3:34 Moving out for Personal Growth
5:06 Question 2: Are you financially prepared to move out?
5:25 Costs of independent living
6:20 Question 3: Are you mature enough to move out of parents home?
7:12 Dealing with relationships
7:55 Conclusion
Hope it helps!
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Who here are on their path to adulthood? 😍
Independently
But getting there
@@ninahmacph7119 I'm looking forward to your journey!
"When you're comfortable, you're not growing."
-wooow , Sobrang striking
Moving out sooon sana kayanin ko.
Great video! Independence is the catalyst for creativity and entrepreneurship. The Philippines needs more bright young people like you to shape the future
Aww that means a lot! Thanks for supporting me video and please do subscribe :)
I am 19 laging sinasabihan na mag plan or magkaroon ng goal sa buhay but when I’m trying to be productive and set my goals, they’re always against it. Telling me to work but won’t even let me go outside tapos ayaw na ako pag aralin. Mag work nalang daw ako for the family.
Unfortunately ganyan talaga pag nasa bahay ka...
I feel you im at your stage now i really want to move out na din and i really don't feel like family in my own family i always feel and being told as a failure of the family so I want to move out too really soon turning 19 soon
I love your key points po for this content and I'm planning to move out from my toxic and draining environment, now I know what I need to prepare. thanks for the informative lesson kuya
Thanks Ron! Sorry to hear about your family...hope the video has helped and do subscribe :)
I want to live on my own. I want to experience independency coz all my life, I've been in my parent's house. I feel like I am not growing at all. Makapagipon lang aq, aalis talaga aq away from Misamis Occidental.
kaya mu yan! Wishing for the best for you in 2022!!
Great content! I currently moving out from my parent's house (like a month ago) and one word I can accompany to this... "life-changing".
Welcome to the adulting Journey, Catherine!
This hit me. moving out also by nextweek. 💖😂
Finally! A Vlog that makes sense, hindi puro pa cute unlike others. I am more motivated to move out, thank you for these tips!
Such a greeeeat content! Every word that comes out of your mouth really makes sense. Thanks for this video!
Highlights
💡 Moving out in young adulthood is an important step in personal growth.
💰 Assess financial viability by considering rent, utilities, and other living expenses.
🧠 Ensure emotional and mental readiness to handle adult responsibilities.
🏡 Personal motivations, not external pressures, should guide the decision to move out.
🚫 Avoid comparing oneself to others; each person's timeline is unique.
💪 Seeking independence can lead to valuable life skills and opportunities.
🌆 Location choice can significantly impact the affordability of living alone.
Finally moving out from my toxic and abusive Family and soon I will have my own life and stable job that they won't let me have. It's just unfair that we all shouldnt have move out if we have supportive parents hayst
Woow thank uuu for this viid!
Thank you for this video!!
great points!
subscribed!
i am on the road to adulting and this definitely helps me to really think through of the reasons why i am moving out? thank you for having a content like this, it will truly helped me figure out the things that i needed to consider when I move out.
This was some great and very real content! Definitely keeping this in my notes for when the time comes. Amazing work Jam
Glad you enjoyed it Japser! Hope to see you around here again
Hey! Thanks for this content. Been binge-watching your other vids, too. Very helpful as I am eager in following the same path within a year or so. You’re legit among the top of my favorite content creators. Will follow until my last breath :-) hope you’re keeping safe and happy. Cheers!
Wow...this is really quite the message. And here I was thinking I was better off closing this channel
thank you for the advice bro! i'm planning to move out now and this video help me a lot! new subs here!
Great content!!
Thank you franz!!!
Love this, Jam! Congrats on your channel. :) -JC
Thank you JC!
Subbed!!!!! ❤️
apaka informative in a way na relaxing pakinggan, thank you for information
Great content. I learned a lot too when I moved out of my parent’s house, hard but valuable experience
Thank you Shep!!
I'm planning to move out and this vid motivates me of what to prepare after I graduate. thank u! good content
Thank you for this! Something to think about before I finally move out. Maybe you could also release a video of what and how much you spent on the stuff you needed when moving in! :)
Hey Eca!! You can watch my first ever video on the cost of living in BGC :) it may give you an idea of what's being spent on monthly. When I moved in kasi it was fully furnished so not so much na
Here's the vid: ruclips.net/video/7qw3YLS-e4E/видео.html
New subscriber, I am really need these tips, thank you :)
Thanks for the subbing!! My next video comes out this Wednesday :) additional video to the one
Nice!!
Thank you :)
3:10 hit me🥹 kaya gusto ko nalang mag move out for my own growth and makaipon for my own needs and want🥲😢 yung sweldo kasi wala na napupuntahan parang nagtatrabaho nalang para sa kanila
Excellent video! This helped me tick a lot of questions I've been meaning to ask myself. I want to move out with my sister but I've been hesitating for one reason or another, mostly dahil sa pamilya ko. This really helped steer me in the right direction, thanks! New subscriber :)
Thank you for watching and wish you the best in moving out :)
Finally!!! Another great content ☺️ Keep it up Jam! 🙌🙌🙌🙌 Welcome to Makati! ☺️
Hehe thanks! Maybe we can collab one day
@@JamZulueta Yeah! Agree. I actually thought of that already. Yes we can Collab soon! 🙌🙌🙌
Rooting for you!
Thank you! How is Thailand? :) it is a beautiful country i visited 2x in 2018
Getting better these days thanks! Keep on posting more stories Jam all the best! 😀
i love your content
Thank you! I don't get that a lot so it means a lot to me
I'm 16 pero I'm starting my plan to move out now kasi mahirap para sakin na controlling yung kapatid ko
Ahhh the dream... I'm 25 and still live with my parents. I can say I'm financially stable? Pero I can't find the courage to tell them that I wanted to be independent. If I ever moved out I'm well aware it's not going to be easy, my parents are great providers and they wanna keep it that way. I'm an adult but still haven't had the grasp of the real "adulting" life. I am hungry for change and I wanted to grow. Moving out is the first step I needed to take kaso di ako papayagan 🥲
@@rontaneo btw, I’ve been living alone for a year now. Had the courage of telling my parents what I really wanted for myself. Pero sana marating mo rin ang gusto mong marating.
hey jam !! i really appreciate the video !!!
im gonna be moving out of a very abusive house soon and im excited !! your video really helped with grounding myself from the high of it all, so thanks !!
good luck on your journeyy!!
@@allynicolehernandez968 thank youu 🥺🥺
Thank you jam
You're welcome!!
Naka 2nd year college nalang ako na walang pera 👁👄👁 since dahil online class naman kasi wala ako allowance ni piso
It's better to move out na kung nakakastress lang sakin na wala akong pang me time at savings bago makapagtapos
Work lang talaga magagawa ko and move out for less toxicity sa bahay and specially yung mag growth ako 🥰
You'll have to make your own money...not depend on allowance
Same reason here, I am moving out for my personal growth. Moving out at 32 this June.
That was food for thought
Thank you for the comment! Hope you liked it and looking forward to the next video 😎
I fucking want to move out but it kinda scares me. Can I support myself financially? I mean I have a job and I earn 20-22k a month and no savings. Can I really do it alone out there? Is my monthly salary enough to support me? Can I afford to buy all appliances I need. Can I pay my own bills with my little salary? How and where am I supposed to find a place that is close to my ideal place? Kakaisip sa mga gantong thoughts, umuurong bigla mga paa ko. But I cant keep living with my parents anymore, they don't offer positive energy at all.
Ya I can move out with that amount but not a place on your own. You will probably be room sharing until I have better income.
Kaya mo yan!!
@@JamZulueta watching ya'll youtubers inspires me. I'm just gonna save up a little more but I'm definitely gonna do it this year. Come to think of it, the world has a lot to offer. Nakaka excite din yung thought. Thank you ❤
@@JamZulueta i have some reasons why i want to moving out my grandmother house 1st about money my mother everytime na nauubos na ang pera na padala sakanya ng father namin she always angry sometimes without reason gumagawa ng ikakagalit like tamad daw kami dami sinasabi 2nd yung sweldo namin kulang na lang sabihin sa amin mag kakapatid na akin na lahat ng sweldo mo 3rd yung mga kamag anak namin lalo yung hipag ni mama na wala alam sa problema namin nakiki elam ginagawan pa kami ng away , tapos even sa relasyon ko sa diyos yung pananampalataya ko may issue skanila, 🤦♀️
Matagal ko na gusto mag sarili buhay na walansa poder ng nanay at lola ko but its so hard to have the first step hindi kasi ako basta magkadisisyon wala ako lakas ng loob just because of my illness this is so hard to have sick na ilang years na ako nakikipag laban hindi rin ako agad nakapag aral at hindi maka pag work everytime my mother getting angry kami daw mag kakapatid lumayas na bukod sa nabanggit ko reason lagi din kami mali mag kakapatid wala kami ginawa tama tapos nanay pa namin nag pipigil na umasenso kami lagi naka kontra pakiramdam niya ginagawa namin siya na kalaban at pag dating sa pera kapag nag kakapera kami mag kakapatid she felt na nag daramot kami
Sa ngayon kasi until now wala ako ipon kung may maayos ako work at may malaki ipon kahit upahang bahay bubukod ako na malayo sa pamilya ko
Very nice content po! Im now very dedicated now po para mag move out..
Thank you Tetel and wishing you the best :)
For me personal reason, it's getting toxic!
That's a very good reason!
Been thinking about this lately
hope the video helps
I just found your video while searching for tips. I'm almost 30 and still living with my mom and sister. I'm planning on moving out and renting in a condo or something. I have a stable job and making a decent amount of money every month. I'm just trying to find some tips on what to bring with you as you go on your journey living alone. Do you have budget tips from your experience? Like what do you buy in a month, how much do you save in a month, etc
Im 21 and i want to move out from a toxic family to improve myself
Good thing I don't have any social skills to party.
Definitely accurate 😭
How can you relate?
@@JamZulueta somehow similar reason as yours why I want to moved out so badddd
Adulting is real
Yes hehe, we all go thru it😀
GHOSH I’m 16 turning 17 and I want to have this kind of life but I don't actually know where to start.
Ako na 18 plng nagbabalak na
👁️👄👁️
can you do a video about fresh graduates? like career/life/financial tips.
Hi Zed, thanks for stopping by. I recently did a video on top paying careers for fresh grads. Here;s the link to one of them
Top Paying Careers for Fresh Grads ruclips.net/video/i7yJ3vSCgiI/видео.html
Pabulong naman po ng online surveys and other side hustles you can recommend? 😊 I'll be moving out after I graduate but I still need addtl. income. Also, really great content po! I'll never have anyone tell me these things. Thank you!
I'm only 16 planning to move out bagsak ako e
Ahaha sobrang true ung 20s ka na may curfew ka pa
Haha relatable ba
Adulting!
You know it!!!
I badly want to move out coz I can’t grow in my hometown 😢.
Where are u from if I may ask? Sometimes we need to explore the world
i live with my parents but i tye problem is that my job or work is not stable i see it like win win lottery everytime yes i do make money while being with my parents i can save also but i feel like if went out il end up in streets the first two months. please explain this im nervous
subscribed. hahahaha ito yung hinahanap ko e
Move out na?
Planning palang sir. Madami pang indicators that I need to consider 😄
can you add some background music on your video, please? Parang it lacks something lang hehe
Okay I'll try sa next vid. Yung iba kasi ayaw music
I wanna move out because i want to be my own person. Parents are probably the biggest factor for most of us who want to move out no?
Sometimes personal growth :)
Oh shoot nacheck lahat ng rason for me to move out hahahaha!
Maybe it's a sign! Thanks for watching and please do sub