I'm glad it works for you two but a lot of women just want to be "taken". All the women who say be gentle are usually screaming at the top of their lungs halfway into the act.
Yea some women suck I had some and they were not worth it 😂 rookies not fun. When you get one that knows what she doing boy oh boy she'll change yo life lol
Communication is a two-way street. As the saying goes, 'A closed mouth doesn't get fed!!' We're not mind readers..you have to tell someone your likes & dislikes.
@@NathanaelChivandire Why are U triggered. He said if one woman doesn't like it another woman does. and the way the host poses the issue doesn't take into account. That very position a woman didn't like from one man she enjoyed with another.
Appreciate the info & advice, Jessica. Your approach is what's missing in communication with some women. Some really are terrible when it comes to communication. They go along to get along instead of telling us how it should be, go when comes to intimacy. It trickles up & down with other facets of the relationship too.
Ahumm, I tend to disagree because ... 70% will not give you a straight away answer, just the common ' do as you like'. Lots of women won't say nothing in fear of being regarded as 304's. You may ask but I dare say ' observation is key' as in ' watch and learn'. Over time when confidence has grown both over yourselves that is the moment real talking/suggestions is happening.
The acts and positions will be gladly performed for the man who excites her, the man she WANTS. And she will love it. She will refuse them to the safe provider who is committed to her, who no longer is new and exciting. That said, missionary position has the women on her back spreadeagled. It is NOT about putting her knees into her shoulders. That is another position that could proceed FROM missionary, not "missionary position" itself. Every woman is different. One hated me bumping her cervix, another loved it. The biggest issue I see is that you need to be able to discuss what you like and what you don't. But there are nuances. The difference between how one partner does something and how another does can change the entire experience. Like verbalizing, where what you say AND HOW you say it matters, what you do AND how you do it can make a world of difference.
Through my experience, pleasure through positions varies with women. I take pride in making a woman feel good so ive found that you just have to learn her mind and body. Its always a plus if you give four play. Four play isnt just before sex its throughout the day like walking past her with a kiss saying hey gorgeous followed by walking off and not looking back, staring at her across the room and winking your eye, or even bringing her her favorite snack with a rose. It all plays its part
Great advice there sis, but at the same time, you should have also given us 5 of the safest styles of your recommendation. Each time you take away something/a toy from a child, be sure to replace it with something else. Otherwise, he'll get it back faster than a lightning strike. Blessings 🙌
I agree, this was a word salad of nothingness that ended up at no duh!.....jeez who really takes advise from lady...."when having sex on an ice burg be careful of cold" lmao!🙄
Man nothing feel more confident then having the guts to ask. If you haven't figured your girls body out yet, look her in the eyes and ask "now it's your turn to show me exactly what you want beautiful." Done ✌️
Yes, I meant to mention that those eyes are actually white contact lenses or some other variant of lighter color. Don’t understand why people would do this to themselves. It makes them look creepy.
Men’s Health came out with a position book. Literally 8 switches and 5 are brought up here lol definitely agree with other viewers on it’s not the position but the man…
It's good to see women give men useful advice on this topic. Some of these positions can be used you just have to adjust it a lil i.e missionary at the edge of bed instead of the default allows you reach the g-spot It's not typical doggy but if she's lying flat on her stomach it gives more room to control your movements Most importantly work on your balance and base. Gives you more stability in any scenario especially if you wana experiment with something
She did she explained to ask the woman if here legs are pushed back to far, be gentle. Men never ask they just do, then doggie style she said dont thrust so hard trying to hit the bottom. Basically be more considerate with what she wants not just what you did with the last woman. She gave a lot of advice. Just have to hear it
I know some women will say things like, If I tell him what I want in bed, he won't listen." But if you are in pain, you need make him listen. I know if you are in a relationship with a guy, the last thing he wants to do is hurt you "down there" This video should be more about a woman telling her man if he is hurting her, not, "Hey man you *might* be hurting her." And by doing positions that have been done since dirt was new. How is a guy supposed to know if she does not tell him? Relationship 101 "Men are not mind readers"
Thanks, Jess, for sharing these. Indeed, porn has ruined sex for many people cos the ideas in most young people's warped minds are picked from porn and those guys are commercial sex workers who go to any length to devise any means to do it, just to sell their products. ☹ I'd like to request you to research and also share with us on what works for most women (I think that would als0 balance it up). I've been a virgin and a great sex life is what I look forward to experience with my future lady, especially in satisfying her. Happy new year! - Silver from Nigeria
The best thing you can do is discuss this with the person you’re with. Encourage her to say what she finds pleasurable and be open discuss what works and doesn’t work for her. It’s a better way to be more intimate than trying to learn something general and assuming that it works for the specific person you’re with.
And therein lies your problem. As a woman, I thought she told you PLENTY. I agreed with everything she said. You guys never listen! That's why I gave up on sex at the age of forty. I figured my son was the best thing I was ever going to get out of it and so he is. AND....I have taught him to LISTEN!
Right all the men keep saying she gave nothing. Smh they dont listen its sad. But dont give up just because of a man incapable. God can send you a man that does it all. I know he just sent me one and he sent me this video so that when that time comes we are on the same page. I prayed for this and have been married beforeand faked it. Not this time @mandyharewood886
At this time we are tired, No I am tired. Aaaba!!!!!! Todays girls this tomorrow Girls that. Its Ok, This time no relationship, no sex, no dating because my head is full up
So, I know I'm late to the party. I've listened to this vid and was waiting for a good alternative option for each of these positions. I read between the lines, but, like most of us here, what are the solutions to your opinions?
So you think there is something wrong with most positions where the man would be in control. Contrary to your opinion, I find many women like these positions.
Let's start with the title Jess. The word "Everyday" indicates that it must be practiced by a large number of people, no? I can't imagine that people are doing something they don't want to do at that rate. The fun in it as least for me is communicating through the act itself. Take each other for a test drive. I never went to the "show" thinking what she does or doesn't like. That to me is a speed bump and is the express train to ED. Body language will take care of that. You'll find out there. Prince dropped a line in a track called Get Off. "23 positions in a one night stand." Through the process you might like something you didn't know or thought you'd like. Get creative, have technique and all will come out well in the end. I seek the epic leg trembling, body shaking climax from my mate. And for heavens sake don't perform an act just because your partner likes it, make sure you that you like it too.
Jessica from ur point of view it seems like man is always going be a problem when it comes to sex. 😢 I guess you should give us 5 positions ladies love and or comfortable.
Short answer to fix these problems (pay attention pick up signs and give a f... about her releasing) if you do these things and understand them ur sex length will change drastically
Although you maybe right about these positions. You have to be careful how you generalized because there are some women you absolutely love some of these positions.
I would just like to say, if a woman is having that much pain during sex from that many common sex positions, then she should talk with her doctor! Something might be wrong with her womanly parts. I myself enjoy all those positions and many more. Weight can also have an affect on what positions are more enjoyable, dome might need a slight change in the position and support atea!🎉🎉🎉💋
I guess what I got from this video was just mostly let her on top for some cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, or so weird variation positions found in the kuma sutra😂. That is it.
I always say woman are very complex when it comes bedroom matters and the story about big shaft is not the story here is knowing the details thanks JS true have also experience the same.
She sounds like one of those old cranky women that complain about everything. But the bottom line is, if she's uncomfortable or doesn't like it, she should say something. Communication is King!
No.2 is incorrect. Every girl I've ever been with, doggy style was their favorite position. ALL of them. They literally vocalized that is was their favorite position when discussing sex, say they want to change into that position during sex, or turn around into that position during sex. Don't know what her research was based off of to say women hate this position.
Solution.. Ask her does she have a favorite. Do it and watch the knob go to 10... take note and add it to the bag. The more in the bag, the better 👍. And sis is on point, don't "rilla" the pud if she ain't into it.
Ok, in terms of depth of penetration there must be quite a bit of variation in preferences. My partner likes it super deep to where her cervix is taking a beating, even when she’s on top. I’ve asked her several times to make sure it’s not hurting her, but she swears she loves it.🤷♂️
I appreciate whatever you're trying to do here, whether it be to spread awareness or...whatever. HOWEVER, as a woman, I'm gonna declare the cappiest of CAPS. At least when you make it sound like all women in general feel this way. What I'm hearing is some feminist logic being applied to sex. Basucally, no control for men at all. Just women calling all the shots and needing to be asked permission for every little movement. For me, that takes the fun out of the whole event. Once I've consented to the sex, it's game on. I will communicate my likes and dislikes during. If this is a feminist channel, I'd like to say, PLEASE stop making statements for all women. Meeting and dating men is already harder and harder to do because of y'all making them scared to be wrongly accused of stuff. Now you're trying to sterilize sex? Please. STOP IT.
I think the labling of the video is wrong. Pretty much every position that gives a man full or complete control may or can have the potential to become undesirables for the woman if the man does not know his partner or doesn’t have that level of communication. When i was doing the road i hardly if ever hit a negative because i research the female before any encounter. We have to talk sex and get her to talk more than you do works every time 😊
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To all the men that don't understand, this 63 yr old man that has been married for over 38 years can sum it up for you in two words. "Be gentle" 😊
I'm glad it works for you two but a lot of women just want to be "taken". All the women who say be gentle are usually screaming at the top of their lungs halfway into the act.
So what's the remedy
Yea some women suck I had some and they were not worth it 😂 rookies not fun. When you get one that knows what she doing boy oh boy she'll change yo life lol
Communication is a two-way street. As the saying goes, 'A closed mouth doesn't get fed!!' We're not mind readers..you have to tell someone your likes & dislikes.
Today I told my men what I like and he also tell me what hi likes so now we are clear about each other ❤
My friend, because you don't like missionary position doesn't mean other women dont like it. It all comes down to the mind and their preferences.
Every woman likes it how they like it and no woman can say "what women like" with accuracy lol it's just their personal opinion
So true...
Why are you embarassing your selfs, she said MANY WOMAN not other or all women.... If you dont agree just keep it to you
@@NathanaelChivandire : Ah! Free speech at its best…?!
@@NathanaelChivandire Why are U triggered. He said if one woman doesn't like it another woman does. and the way the host poses the issue doesn't take into account. That very position a woman didn't like from one man she enjoyed with another.
Appreciate the info & advice, Jessica. Your approach is what's missing in communication with some women. Some really are terrible when it comes to communication. They go along to get along instead of telling us how it should be, go when comes to intimacy. It trickles up & down with other facets of the relationship too.
It’s always best to ask the woman what positions she likes. Once you know that you are comfortable and home free.
Ahumm, I tend to disagree because ... 70% will not give you a straight away answer, just the common ' do as you like'. Lots of women won't say nothing in fear of being regarded as 304's. You may ask but I dare say ' observation is key' as in ' watch and learn'. Over time when confidence has grown both over yourselves that is the moment real talking/suggestions is happening.
What are the best positions???
I think sex positions are relative...
Communication is key
Very insightful and informative information 😊hugs from Jamaica 🇯🇲 to all of you ❤missionary is my favorite position 😀
Okay Jess I hear you. A solution however would make a world of difference. Thanks
Solution - a new woman who is excited about you, not one tired of you and looking for things to dislike about you.
Well i think different women love different things... my GF loves missionary so much...
The acts and positions will be gladly performed for the man who excites her, the man she WANTS. And she will love it.
She will refuse them to the safe provider who is committed to her, who no longer is new and exciting.
That said, missionary position has the women on her back spreadeagled. It is NOT about putting her knees into her shoulders. That is another position that could proceed FROM missionary, not "missionary position" itself.
Every woman is different. One hated me bumping her cervix, another loved it.
The biggest issue I see is that you need to be able to discuss what you like and what you don't. But there are nuances. The difference between how one partner does something and how another does can change the entire experience.
Like verbalizing, where what you say AND HOW you say it matters, what you do AND how you do it can make a world of difference.
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Facts 💯
Through my experience, pleasure through positions varies with women. I take pride in making a woman feel good so ive found that you just have to learn her mind and body. Its always a plus if you give four play. Four play isnt just before sex its throughout the day like walking past her with a kiss saying hey gorgeous followed by walking off and not looking back, staring at her across the room and winking your eye, or even bringing her her favorite snack with a rose. It all plays its part
Thank you
Great advice there sis, but at the same time, you should have also given us 5 of the safest styles of your recommendation. Each time you take away something/a toy from a child, be sure to replace it with something else. Otherwise, he'll get it back faster than a lightning strike. Blessings 🙌
I really do enjoy that missionary. I get to admire while I'm doing my thing.
Does she realise she just mentioned the sex positions 90% of both male and female love???🙄.....Girl just say those are positions "u" don't like🙂
I agree, this was a word salad of nothingness that ended up at no duh!.....jeez who really takes advise from lady...."when having sex on an ice burg be careful of cold" lmao!🙄
Man nothing feel more confident then having the guts to ask. If you haven't figured your girls body out yet, look her in the eyes and ask "now it's your turn to show me exactly what you want beautiful." Done ✌️
Always insightful Jessica
Don't know what guys in the comments are saying.... She spoke the truth here and not all women like wild sex.
Very nice video Jessica👍🏽💞 your very smooth and soothing with your lecture 😁. Love from Orlando,FL❤️💛💚
Yes, I meant to mention that those eyes are actually white contact lenses or some other variant of lighter color. Don’t understand why people would do this to themselves. It makes them look creepy.
Sounds like Jess talking from her own experience
Thank you for making facts or life and normal behaviours and happenings more secure and understanding!❤
Its True, not all positions are enjoyable
What position do you enjoy??
@@victoriajohnson4541 cowgirl and reverse cowgirl, doggy, modern missionary,
Girls like the doggystyle it just depends on if they comfortable enough to enjoy it
Men’s Health came out with a position book. Literally 8 switches and 5 are brought up here lol definitely agree with other viewers on it’s not the position but the man…
I am now confident that my styles has zero injuries
Hv watched almost all your flogs jess but hv never experienced a woman who hates missionary, majority preferes it
It's good to see women give men useful advice on this topic.
Some of these positions can be used you just have to adjust it a lil
i.e missionary at the edge of bed instead of the default allows you reach the g-spot
It's not typical doggy but if she's lying flat on her stomach it gives more room to control your movements
Most importantly work on your balance and base. Gives you more stability in any scenario especially if you wana experiment with something
Please make a part 2 because you brought no solutions! This was sooooooo general! If your going to actually talk about, talk about it!
She did she explained to ask the woman if here legs are pushed back to far, be gentle. Men never ask they just do, then doggie style she said dont thrust so hard trying to hit the bottom. Basically be more considerate with what she wants not just what you did with the last woman. She gave a lot of advice. Just have to hear it
Before i watch.... better not say from the back! Because im the "DOGGY KING" 💪🏾
😂😂😂😂
I know some women will say things like, If I tell him what I want in bed, he won't listen." But if you are in pain, you need make him listen. I know if you are in a relationship with a guy, the last thing he wants to do is hurt you "down there" This video should be more about a woman telling her man if he is hurting her, not, "Hey man you *might* be hurting her." And by doing positions that have been done since dirt was new. How is a guy supposed to know if she does not tell him? Relationship 101 "Men are not mind readers"
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So jessica which position you like??
The doggy 🐕 style, she was blushing a lot when she was on it 😀😃🥰
Mrs how do you do? Thanks you for your video and happy New year. I'm in Yaoundé Cameroon.
Happy new year!!
You're in Yaounde? I'm in Buea.
They like it big. Stop the cap
Not everyone likes it big most dicks are big and doesn't work well 😂😂some are medium and works effectively than ever
@@DG-EditsYT what size is a good size?
😂😂😂
Does the ones that have been run through
😂😂😂😂😂😂 and long
Thank you, this is insightful. I’d appreciate it if you can share informations on sex positions that women actually likes. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Allow the woman to control portions of sessions, she'll go where se wants to go. I've had women choose everything that this video says is 'hated'.
Well i will take your intel under advisemen, for sure rand i love your accent its very lovely, thanks again
Thanks, Jess, for sharing these. Indeed, porn has ruined sex for many people cos the ideas in most young people's warped minds are picked from porn and those guys are commercial sex workers who go to any length to devise any means to do it, just to sell their products. ☹
I'd like to request you to research and also share with us on what works for most women (I think that would als0 balance it up). I've been a virgin and a great sex life is what I look forward to experience with my future lady, especially in satisfying her.
Happy new year!
- Silver from Nigeria
The best thing you can do is discuss this with the person you’re with. Encourage her to say what she finds pleasurable and be open discuss what works and doesn’t work for her. It’s a better way to be more intimate than trying to learn something general and assuming that it works for the specific person you’re with.
I read the caption and knew this video wasn't for me.And so i didn't bother to open 👐.
Really great and informative...I'll hang on to this one.
Wow that's awesome Auntie ❤
As a disabled man, all standing positions are uncomfortable. ♿️
So basically she told us nothing 😢... Thx you very much 🎉🎉🎉
Facts 😂😂
And therein lies your problem. As a woman, I thought she told you PLENTY. I agreed with everything she said. You guys never listen! That's why I gave up on sex at the age of forty. I figured my son was the best thing I was ever going to get out of it and so he is.
AND....I have taught him to LISTEN!
@@largegod77Another non-listener! You should wonder if your partner is faking it.
Right all the men keep saying she gave nothing. Smh they dont listen its sad. But dont give up just because of a man incapable. God can send you a man that does it all. I know he just sent me one and he sent me this video so that when that time comes we are on the same page. I prayed for this and have been married beforeand faked it. Not this time @mandyharewood886
Jessi you are very right, sure mate
Sometimes you put it to your girl, sometimes you let her put it to you. Here you'll know what you need to know.
Thank you Jess
At this time we are tired, No I am tired. Aaaba!!!!!! Todays girls this tomorrow Girls that. Its Ok, This time no relationship, no sex, no dating because my head is full up
she is saying dont have sex at all, hahahahahahahaha
Hey guys this is something else to add to the long list of complaints about anything a female feels like complaining about
So, I know I'm late to the party. I've listened to this vid and was waiting for a good alternative option for each of these positions. I read between the lines, but, like most of us here, what are the solutions to your opinions?
Let's face it: the title was clickbait and she didn't have any meaningful content.
Do it and Do it right. Push it to the limit, past the point of no return.
So you think there is something wrong with most positions where the man would be in control. Contrary to your opinion, I find many women like these positions.
So, I guess the “Wheelbarrow” is out of the question then:-(.
🤣🤣🤣
Nice teachings but the music sometimes it's a bit too loud especially if you're on headphones like i am rite now.🇿🇦
Your music should be low
Let's start with the title Jess. The word "Everyday" indicates that it must be practiced by a large number of people, no? I can't imagine that people are doing something they don't want to do at that rate. The fun in it as least for me is communicating through the act itself. Take each other for a test drive. I never went to the "show" thinking what she does or doesn't like. That to me is a speed bump and is the express train to ED. Body language will take care of that. You'll find out there. Prince dropped a line in a track called Get Off. "23 positions in a one night stand." Through the process you might like something you didn't know or thought you'd like. Get creative, have technique and all will come out well in the end. I seek the epic leg trembling, body shaking climax from my mate. And for heavens sake don't perform an act just because your partner likes it, make sure you that you like it too.
Just a simple conversation sbout likes and dislikes.
So what are saying is all these positions are great 👍
Pleasure and Pain sounds exactly the same..
New over here great contents 🇯🇲🇺🇸
Am surprised at u Jessica for doing programs like this , you had set such a high standard
Jessica from ur point of view it seems like man is always going be a problem when it comes to sex. 😢 I guess you should give us 5 positions ladies love and or comfortable.
I bet those dark natural eyes are more beautiful 👌🏾 carry on…..
❤❤❤❤🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪thank you so much.maybe you can try and research the best and enjoyable position(kind request)
Mwana witu wi gukuu😂😂😂
Kabiri ni guakana mwaki
@@kushyknight meaning?
@@Muchirikelvin meaning what
Short answer to fix these problems (pay attention pick up signs and give a f... about her releasing) if you do these things and understand them ur sex length will change drastically
"5 sex positions that..."
"There are more than 5?"
Typo. 5. 😉
Nice topic❤😂
With major sex positions uncomfortable its good to give a separate video on desirable positions for balance.
Which positions are best?
From a guy opinion, when she is on top.
Peace and Blessings
You are appreciated 🙏🏽
It's funny how Jessica is the only one complaining about this. Maybe, Jessica is only talking about her own experiences.
My girl says you’re absolutely wrong hahaha . She wants to know since when did you speak for all women
Its not abt teaching bt also looking for money
Your expression in the videos says it all female like this styles 😅
That beautyfull voice and preety eyes colour, and lovely Rasta you have, I'm love with it,oh yeah top😊😊😊
Guys it's nearly impossible to satisfy a judge that compares you to thousands of actors before you
I love you Jess❤
Although you maybe right about these positions. You have to be careful how you generalized because there are some women you absolutely love some of these positions.
How about simply having a conversation sharing what you like in a way that turns each other on.
Most women will not tell you what they want had this one woman told me you're 37 you should know what a woman wants
So what are some better positions?
Only takes seconds to ask if she has any requests. 😊
I would just like to say, if a woman is having that much pain during sex from that many common sex positions, then she should talk with her doctor! Something might be wrong with her womanly parts.
I myself enjoy all those positions and many more. Weight can also have an affect on what positions are more enjoyable, dome might need a slight change in the position and support atea!🎉🎉🎉💋
I disagree with you on missionary and doggie style
Good info
lol this is horrible. the only thing this woman said that was right is ASK
I guess what I got from this video was just mostly let her on top for some cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, or so weird variation positions found in the kuma sutra😂. That is it.
Doubt this one gets it very often
I always say woman are very complex when it comes bedroom matters and the story about big shaft is not the story here is knowing the details thanks JS true have also experience the same.
She just didn't want to do it with you not that she don't want it that way.
She sounds like one of those old cranky women that complain about everything. But the bottom line is, if she's uncomfortable or doesn't like it, she should say something. Communication is King!
After I hit the 3min mark I gave up. Get to the point already. And between us you sound rather bitter.
All styles are not great basically😅😅- so what do they like?
Great video!
The music doesn't fit the content though - no need for music at all to be honest.
The problem with these discussions is that they generalize too much. Everybody is different.
No.2 is incorrect. Every girl I've ever been with, doggy style was their favorite position. ALL of them. They literally vocalized that is was their favorite position when discussing sex, say they want to change into that position during sex, or turn around into that position during sex. Don't know what her research was based off of to say women hate this position.
Solution.. Ask her does she have a favorite. Do it and watch the knob go to 10... take note and add it to the bag. The more in the bag, the better 👍. And sis is on point, don't "rilla" the pud if she ain't into it.
My wife always insisted on missionary..there's a level of feminism in this video..about control??????
Not sure maybe
My tongue and my fingers are what do the job.
Your eyes remind me of the TV show kung fu where the young student interacts with his master your eyes look like the masters eyes
Ok, in terms of depth of penetration there must be quite a bit of variation in preferences. My partner likes it super deep to where her cervix is taking a beating, even when she’s on top. I’ve asked her several times to make sure it’s not hurting her, but she swears she loves it.🤷♂️
I appreciate whatever you're trying to do here, whether it be to spread awareness or...whatever. HOWEVER, as a woman, I'm gonna declare the cappiest of CAPS. At least when you make it sound like all women in general feel this way. What I'm hearing is some feminist logic being applied to sex. Basucally, no control for men at all. Just women calling all the shots and needing to be asked permission for every little movement. For me, that takes the fun out of the whole event. Once I've consented to the sex, it's game on. I will communicate my likes and dislikes during. If this is a feminist channel, I'd like to say, PLEASE stop making statements for all women. Meeting and dating men is already harder and harder to do because of y'all making them scared to be wrongly accused of stuff. Now you're trying to sterilize sex? Please. STOP IT.
I like to go deep but not hard, a slow deep with zero pounding
Do tell... 👂🏾✍️
@@JessicaOS lol i would love too tell you in your dms if you want the details 😜
I think the labling of the video is wrong. Pretty much every position that gives a man full or complete control may or can have the potential to become undesirables for the woman if the man does not know his partner or doesn’t have that level of communication. When i was doing the road i hardly if ever hit a negative because i research the female before any encounter. We have to talk sex and get her to talk more than you do works every time 😊